My Husband Has Informed Me That He Intends To Go On A "Gaycation" With His BIL....- Reddit Family

My Husband Has Informed Me That He Intends To Go On A "Gaycation" With His BIL....- Reddit Family
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My Husband Has Informed Me That He Intends To Go On A "Gaycation" With His BIL In Ibiza. How Should I Handle This?
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The story centers around a woman who is shocked and confused when her husband, of 16 years, tells her that he wants to go on a "gaycation" with his brother-in-law (BIL) in Ibiza. He explains that a "gaycation" is an event where straight men explore gay experiences while on vacation, but without it "counting" because it's a temporary situation and only stays on the trip. He insists that he is not gay but just curious about exploring this experience. Despite his reassurances, the wife is deeply uncomfortable, especially as the trip involves sexual exploration with men. She questions whether he's gay or bi, but he denies both and gets defensive, explaining the concept as a "cultural experience" where straight men "surrender mind, body, and soul" but it doesn’t make them gay.
The wife is distraught and sees this as a form of cheating, especially since he’s planning the trip with his BIL. She later contacts her sister-in-law (his wife), who is initially in disbelief but later apologizes. After an intense argument, the wife decides to confront her husband about his desire, and he becomes upset, insisting that it’s not cheating because of the "what happens on the gaycation, stays on the gaycation" mentality. He accuses her of being homophobic for not accepting it.
The wife, struggling with his denial and childish behavior, ultimately realizes that the marriage may be over. She feels his behavior is a desperate attempt to explore his sexuality while avoiding the consequences, and his depression about not going on the trip further suggests he's trying to avoid confronting his true feelings. The situation is further complicated by the wife’s fear that her husband might be using the gaycation as an excuse to cover up infidelity with women, not just men.
After much reflection and receiving advice, she decides that divorce might be the only option, and she’s beginning to accept the reality that her husband may be bi or even gay. In the end, she feels betrayed by his actions and the lack of honesty, and she prepares to move forward with a divorce.
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[@bobothetroll2873]

The phrase "You must surrender to the gaycation or be destroyed" was not on my bingo card today

[@IchigoItchy]

Im in a dang aldi hearing this description of a gaycation and bursted out laughing lmao-

[@softmoonangel]

Nah, cause I was in Lidl listening to this shit and almost losing it

[@pinkyspartycannon]

okay first as a bdsm person: they violated the first rule of bdsm which is open communication. It's like open marriages, swingers or anything in the alt relationship communities: communicate, communicate, communicate. None of this shows proper communication at all. The whole idea of the "what happens on gaycation stays on gaycation" with your BROTHER IN LAW is insanity. WHY WOULD YOU BE THAT MESSY?!

[@ayanamiry0]

Did anyone else see that Gigantic Gaslight when the husband and BIL were talking about the Gay-cation???

[@SkyhawkJD]

Ive been so lonely, girl
Ive been so sad and down
Couldnt understand
Why haters joked around
I wanted to be free
with other creatures like me
And now I got my wish
Cuz I know that Im a gay fish

[@kiatequila424]

Strawberry’s on a brown cake? Strawberry’s without the green cut off on a brown cake is insane. lol mud cake?

[@RhexJ.Albright]

I’m glad I’m not the only one that noticed

[@kiatequila424]

@@RhexJ.Albright lol great minds think alike.

[@sailordave1000]

Allow him to go and file for divorce when he leaves

[@avukovic84]

SIL @11:30 killed me 🤣

[@DEMONZ_RETURN]

Oh wow I should go to my boyfriend of 5 years (I’m only 19 and I have kids) and tell him I need a lesbian vacation because it’s just “something all women do”

[@Didi-gb9wm]

Ppl are just horrible. HORRIBLE. GO DO WHATEVER U WANT AND DON T COME BACK. Love how they think only about themselves. They never think

[@Jswatchingrnn]

How dare yt hide this from me for an hour!!

[@stimmysteel2858]

Fellas, Gaycations?

[@briancoolbreeze]

Surrender to the gaycation

[@stevenhaymon2441]

WTF is that?

[@vibezwitnas1721]

Wait a damn min this was very recent !!!