@@jn8922 she still made a point of identifying herself as a South African. No one flees South Africa, they emigrate, and recent stats show most of them come back.
@@thabokabai4188 oh Thabo even if you're this nice, they still don't like your melanated self and south Africa has no Whyte people, but it does have Whyte people who colonized it though.
Yess! Politicians, the GBS, large corps. All the fore mentioned thrive because they push for division, when we all unite we will bring in the golden age
Yep, she sees through the identity politics and stereotyping / grouping game. It's all just being normal people and enjoying normal things. We put down the victim cards and coloniser talks and it turns out we can all be human and nice to each other.
Y’all fall for anything read my comment she is from KZN, she left SA we recognize her racist self. Interview me I will call her out on social media. As we say in SA Haibo masepa. She left SA, she called us K…..s if you’re South African it is equivalent to calling American’s the N WORD. She is nasty.
I am from Durban also known as KZN. I would say to her Patricia you are very racist you left South Africa as you said at the time fleeing from these K……S If you’re South African you know what this means. It’s equivalent to calling AMERICANS the N word, even worse. She has her moment of fame, not realizing we Bantu people are also in social media. Haibo Patricia as we know her masepa???
She's not wise at all. She doesn't understand human behaviour. Blacks mainly want to be with fellow blacks and whites want to be with white. No utopian dream is going to ever change that.
@@yousigiltube Then you look at rhodesia,SA,and you think twice. There's a reason this lady doesn't live in south africa anymore. It's easy to speak about coming together when you don't live in that hell,because her family decided to bolt at the end of apartheid.
@@missqt48in her defence, she is speaking under time pressure in a middle of a busy street. She did a great job in representing her self and us. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
"Doesn't matter" I love how when the guy interrupted, she wasn't phased. She didn't have to make a comment about how rude he was, she managed to stay put and found her train of thought again.
Yes that's exactly what she talked about too. Try to understand where the people coming from. That is also including not letting yourself interrupt that much and react solely emotional because then you can't really get people and accept them
This is the best street interview I’ve ever seen. You asked a passerby an important question that she just happened to have an extremely informed and respectful answer to
This lady is a treasure. What she says resonates. Factionalism is not a natural thing it is taught. I have lived and worked on many countries and have worked with Indian, South African, Kenyan, Brit, Malaysian, Singaporean, Pakistani, Botswana, Philipino, Chinese, Japanese and so many more nationalities and what I learn is most people do not care of anyones background as long as there is respect between us. Its the few who can profit from conflict who stoke the fires. 99% of the world are awesome kind people who will share with no reservation. I have danced with Traditional Kikuyu (Kenyan) travelling band and have danced with Indian co workers at an office party and it was all a vibe. Embrace the world folks. Its a beautiful place and experience. One love from Zimbabwe.
Yes. We should embrace our difference not in the way of hate, but in love and sharing our cultures so we can all understand each other, have fun together and work for a better future.
This ! you can see that it's something she's been holding on to and practicing for a while but didn't have a platform to spread the word so she seized the moment. WHat a wonderful soul
This knowledge is thousands of years old most indigenous communities around the world stress the importance of relationships not with just people but all things. It's balance, the world is completely out of balance.
The interviewer looks so shocked like, "I can't believe what I just heard," he doesn't know what to say. His response as the interview wrapped up says it all. I'm so proudly South African right now😊🇿🇦
Yep. Proud of this lady discourse. She's an excellent ambassador for South Africa, Africa and general folks that actually choose to advance their intelect and mindfulness via education
Guys, I know there is good number of "us" who found this message inspiring, and will probably forget about it in 30 mins because you'll be on another video or your attention is shifted elsewhere in the loophole of our lifestyle. Lets actually make the step to apply what she said and "find our humanity with the relationships we have with other people"🌍🌍
That can't be done as long as religion exist. Religion is to do what you are told regardless of what is right. Morality is to do what is right regardless of what you are told.
@@EileenHall-j9f I travelled a similar road to her and I'm still finding it a joy to get to know my fellow South Africans that I was effectively cut off from growing up during apartheid. We have our issues as a country but wow we have wonderful people.
South African here. She is talking the truth. When the tables turned and Nelson Mandela came into power, I worked for various black managers, female and male and we formed bonds and friendships and mutual respect for each other that has lasted a lifetime. I heard my black managers stories, how they grew up, the challenges they had as some of them studied to become welfare workers, city planners, etc. all university degrees. We should climb out of the racism and color box and start seeing each other as humans. We have no excuse.
I agree. I am from Durban and this is exactly how most of us see the situation and also other South Africans. It does not matter what the colour of you skin is as long as you are respectful to others we can work out anything.
@@XxgoodbudsxX You can be proud of your country of origin (or race) and still include others. Her point was to engage with those who are different so we can see the similarities rather than the differences. You don't have deny your heritage to do that.
@elleanna5869 a beautiful flag. Sorry, I am a little simple and all I could see was all the beautiful colors on their flag. Their flag is how we should be, proud of your color but strong in standing by others who share your values if not the same color.❤
@@XxgoodbudsxXSouth Africa 🇿🇦 is NOT a race. It’s a country. OP was expressing pride in this wise woman and the fact that she is a fellow South African.
Beautiful woman. ❤ She come from the 80s. We were doing all that work and I think she's right about social media. It's dividing us and undoing all that work over decades since the 50s to make relationships. Love her ❤❤
It’s so easy to type out a mean comment or send hate from behind a keyboard. Like this lady said if you’re face to face with someone it’s harder to do (although there are folks who do spit hate in your face) because you can see that they’re a human being not too different from yourself. I started to type a mean reply to someone recently then thought, “Would I say this to their face?” No, I wouldn’t, so I didn’t send the comment.
I've worked with people from all over the world. Most people want to live in peace with each other. It's the big capital that tries to divide us for their own gains. Stay strong and united brothers and sisters!!
I am a PROUD SOUTH AFRICAN living in Canada, and Trish makes me proud to be South African ❤🇿🇦❤🇿🇦❤🇿🇦All that work we did back in the day is not in vain. I love you, Trish, a true Mzansi girl. Ek is in jou kant❤
I am not familiar with the song but that is literally how I see it and say it. But there will always be people that find a way to discriminate others for whatever reason they do. Skin color, believes, sexuality and probably many more things I wouldn’t even think about.😅 It’s sad but luckily there are also people that understand that in the end we are all human, just from different walks of life and don’t see it as a bad thing. We don’t have to agree with every opinion because that just isn’t possible, but that doesn’t mean u can’t respect one another..🤷🏼♀️
@@bevturner2258 I actually meant to respond to the original post not you. But whether it’s her grand parents or great grand parents, she descends from some whereelse, obviously.
My husband is Afrikaans from South Africa and he embodies these beliefs as well, as do I. I’m of Romanian blood (Romanians can be racist) but my parents weren’t so I’m not. Parents have SO much influence when it comes to racism. Beautiful interview
@@Jo-lp1px to be honest, i dont think the majority of people know its slang. i think that causes lots of bias in the american society - from all ends and results in troubles, separation and much more. language has a big influence and if you differ people the same you do with dogs, people will be misleaded. there is a reason people like hitler raised the "race card".
I like the way she talks, I hear a lot of people of older generations talking about what’s wrong with younger generations. What’s different about how she talks about it from many others is that I don’t feel she’s blaming us. She’s saying “here are reasons your generation is going through these problems”, and basically saying you’re strong enough to overcome it. From a 21 year old, much respect🙌🏻, I appreciate advice from older generations. I appreciate it even more when it’s not advice in a berating tone, I listen, I soak it in, and I respect it
It was perfect. She did said that we should start relationships on streets. And it showed what she was speaking about - the tall dude immediately became confrontational while she remain calm and understanding... And at least 50 people in social media reacted as she warned about
It was very indelicate, but common, is that the “worse of society”? Really? People do dumb stuff. I didn’t like to watch him interrupting her, she has a strong line of thought and carried on, that one can say!
If i may speak for that commenter, I think you may misinterpreting their point. They're saying the what the guy did is representative of the worst of society, not that it IS the worst of society. Entitlement, callousness, bravado, acting without thinking, need for negative attention - I could go on. Those qualities are, in my opinion, the root cause of many of the actual worst things we see in society. This is just a demonstration of those qualities on a singular level.
OK, Can we repeat her sentiment multiple times over EVERY DAMN WHERE? And dude was a perfect example of the nonsensical mess we are in that she spoke of.
Sometimes the internet serves up something so wholesome I regain some of the hope I lose daily in humanity. Please give this aunty a Bell's(South Africans will know😂)
@@royboy4571 there's a quote from Socrates that every generation people think somebody recently said it. If not for the archaic language, people would think it was GenX about GenZ. It never changes. Every generation thinks their grandkids' generation is going to hell in a handbasket.
I was born in Britain and raised in South Africa they produce manners respect and a warrior sprite Britain could never give me what Mzani gave me thank you
This woman has such an amazing morale and it is a blessing to get her message across to the internet, and I can only hope that the RUclips algorithm continues spreading this around for the younger generations to hear. She must be such an amazing therapist, she has such a kind soul
@@suzygirl1843 It takes one step at a time and with a woman like this who has the correct mindset IS the first step in my opinion! She would never forget to give consequences to the apartheid!
@@jackydooley6053 I needed some time to thoroughly think of an answer so that I can actually get my point across properly without someone calling me bitter or reverse racist. Here's why we need Reparations: White Supremacy is a weapon that's taken Indigenous lands and cultural hegemony for centuries. Just because some white men commit heinous crimes upon white women doesn't put us on the same boat, crime happens in one's community. White women are a BIG part of the problem in maintaining this structure too. Unfortunately, you only see yourselves as "victims" but never take accountability for your part in how you've destroyed entire communities (Emmett Till). Hence why I am not falling for the "we need to treat each other like humans and kumbaya". You also Broke it, you fix it. How? Let people reconstruct their own economy and let them build it however they want. Nothing needs to revolve around YOUR comfort as a WHITE WOMAN. It's not about you. Africans don't want to integrate with white people, that's counterproductive. The ACT of integration broke up many black American families, we don't want to bring that into our Continent. White women have inherent privilege that the Natives don't and will never obtain, so placing Women of color in direct competition is not the solution, stay in your countries, please. Keep mum, we don't need your pity or your Feminism. What we need is MEN to step up to the plate. They cannot do that because you currently hold all of our resources. China, Japan, and other Eastern countries cope fine without white people interference, we can too if we give ourselves the chance. Western interference has crippled Africa. I am not being hostile, I'm pointing out an abject TRUTH. You don't actually want to help, you want to center yourself in all of this, it's in your nature to do so.
@@suzygirl1843Well, to be fair, South Africa has paid back more and gave the country back, more than what Australia and New Zealand did to their countries. We have paid the price since 1994 up until now and have reprimanded.
I have been saying this my whole life. We are ALL Homo sapiens. One Tribe. We ALL share this wonderful place called Earth as home. One Planet. We need to shed these divisive labels and become ONE. ❤
UBUNTU is an ancient African word meaning 'humanity to others'. It is often described as reminding us that 'I am what I am because of who we all are'. Glory to JAH
We all have a light to shine. Imagine if we all worked together, listened to one another, had compassion and kindness, what kind of world we’d have. 🇨🇦
I am 25 and she is absolutely right saying social media is one problem in our generation. In my job you can not talk anymore to a minor without instantly hurting their feelings because social media does not teach you how to communicate. But it teaches you anxiety on a high end level!
i love it when that guy tries to bomb the video and the lady still concentrating says...""it doesn't matter"" she is the real deal and the hug...we need more people like this talking to our youth.
Wisdom comes through walking through hardships, choosing forgiveness, and learning to love. South Africans have been through the fire and this is the result. Proud SAFFA in Aus.
Proudly South African , that's why I will never ever leave and my heart is to make things work. Everyone I work with respects me as Malome ( aka Uncle ) because we are all in this together and I help where I can with South African pride and respect.
Standing ovation for this lady. Come together as human beings. I love learning about different cultures, what they eat, marital traditions, what their childhood was like. I want to learn what made them who they are.
I love my Saffers. I am an adopted Saffer. Have a lot of maties, strong community in the UK, very hospitable, good jol, good braai and having a lekker time. Good people
This video needs to be played at schools and taught as a concept. Amazing work brotha, you made a banger w this one, especially thanks to this amazing woman.
Unity in diversity Comes from accepting we are different and multifaceted individuals At the same time, we are all human No one is special No one is other
In the new South Africa we were 'South Africans'. This was unifying. Similarly people can be 'British', 'American', 'French' etc. These are unifying terms. They set aside silly differences that drive wedges between us. Our enemies seed and exploit divisions hoping we'll rip ourselves apart. Indeed it is our humanity that pulls as together. Together we are stronger.
The mad thing is it’s a pretty common position across all racial lines in South-Africa. It’s only the race hustling politicians and poverty that make it appear otherwise.
I think I love her! What an amazing, eloquent and thoughtful answer. And she is right about social media. It makes everything about a matter of this or that, with no room for shades of grey. How can we move forward as a civilization, if your opinions on everything are so cut and dry? Open your minds and listen to those you think you oppose, or that have differing opinions. People would be less angry all around.
This lady is da bomb! No truer words could be spoken. That type of thinking is our hope, our way out of the ruts, the lanes (the boxes) that some groups are forcing us to inhabit. I, for one, have never wanted to be confined nor have I wanted to see people, especially minorities (wherever you are a minority) forced into boxes. Let the discourse begin and continue for as long as needed! ❤ to all!
That guy won the "choose a passerby to talk to" lottery.
That’s exactly what I thought lol
Yet it's the hawk tuah girl that went viral
@@crumblebee6728let's make this lady viral instead 😊
I loved that. So sweet. And she’s amazing
This clip should be on the news rather than any other 2 minutes of nonsense. This actually has value.
This lady is what a politician should actually be like!
100%
Yes it just proves politicians aren't the smartest or right people for the job mostly. They are only in it for the money and its a job they like
94%
@@mrprosser843 ewwwww
@@mrprosser843Huh? You are clearly confused or joking.
What an ambassador for our country and the world. She makes me proud to be a South African 🇿🇦.
Lol OK. She fled South Africa though
@@jn8922 she still made a point of identifying herself as a South African. No one flees South Africa, they emigrate, and recent stats show most of them come back.
@@jn8922Fled? 😂😂
@@thabokabai4188 she didn’t flee 🤣🤣🤣she was recruited because of shortages of skills especially common sense 😂😂😂the way she things say it all
@@thabokabai4188 oh Thabo even if you're this nice, they still don't like your melanated self and south Africa has no Whyte people, but it does have Whyte people who colonized it though.
She is the person every politician is scared of.
Yess! Politicians, the GBS, large corps. All the fore mentioned thrive because they push for division, when we all unite we will bring in the golden age
Except Bernie Sanders
No.
Nope. YOU are the kind of guy she is talking about.
Very true. Politicians are very divisive and stir fear on each side. This lady is afraid of no one!
"Find the humanity in the relationships we have with people" What a beautiful sentence.
🙄
What a wise and articulate woman ❤❤
Yep, she sees through the identity politics and stereotyping / grouping game. It's all just being normal people and enjoying normal things. We put down the victim cards and coloniser talks and it turns out we can all be human and nice to each other.
Y’all fall for anything read my comment she is from KZN, she left SA we recognize her racist self. Interview me I will call her out on social media. As we say in SA Haibo masepa. She left SA, she called us K…..s if you’re South African it is equivalent to calling American’s the N WORD. She is nasty.
I am from Durban also known as KZN. I would say to her Patricia you are very racist you left South Africa as you said at the time fleeing from these K……S If you’re South African you know what this means. It’s equivalent to calling AMERICANS the N word, even worse. She has her moment of fame, not realizing we Bantu people are also in social media. Haibo Patricia as we know her masepa???
She's not wise at all. She doesn't understand human behaviour. Blacks mainly want to be with fellow blacks and whites want to be with white. No utopian dream is going to ever change that.
@@yousigiltube Then you look at rhodesia,SA,and you think twice. There's a reason this lady doesn't live in south africa anymore. It's easy to speak about coming together when you don't live in that hell,because her family decided to bolt at the end of apartheid.
The spirit of Ubuntu... Togetherness
U-buntu (the people)
A- Bantu (my people)
U-Muntu (the person)
E-Bantu (doesn’t exist)
@@missqt48in her defence, she is speaking under time pressure in a middle of a busy street. She did a great job in representing her self and us. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@LazFumeU-Buntu
@@missqt48 Ubuntu (humanity)
Abantu (People/Black People)
Umuntu (Person/black person)
Abantu bami (my people)
Abantu bethu (our people)
more of a kubuntu kinda guy
"Doesn't matter"
I love how when the guy interrupted, she wasn't phased. She didn't have to make a comment about how rude he was, she managed to stay put and found her train of thought again.
Yes that's exactly what she talked about too. Try to understand where the people coming from. That is also including not letting yourself interrupt that much and react solely emotional because then you can't really get people and accept them
What did that guy even say?
@@Makaya9sthats what I was thinking about... I want to known too
@@Makaya9sI think he said ‘will you hook up please’ but correct me if I am wrong
@@Sophie-vw5ol you got that just right! Less reactivity. More thoughtful responses. Not being phased by the little things.
This is the best street interview I’ve ever seen. You asked a passerby an important question that she just happened to have an extremely informed and respectful answer to
This lady is a treasure. What she says resonates. Factionalism is not a natural thing it is taught. I have lived and worked on many countries and have worked with Indian, South African, Kenyan, Brit, Malaysian, Singaporean, Pakistani, Botswana, Philipino, Chinese, Japanese and so many more nationalities and what I learn is most people do not care of anyones background as long as there is respect between us. Its the few who can profit from conflict who stoke the fires. 99% of the world are awesome kind people who will share with no reservation. I have danced with Traditional Kikuyu (Kenyan) travelling band and have danced with Indian co workers at an office party and it was all a vibe. Embrace the world folks. Its a beautiful place and experience. One love from Zimbabwe.
❤❤❤
Yes. We should embrace our difference not in the way of hate, but in love and sharing our cultures so we can all understand each other, have fun together and work for a better future.
Holy shit this man saw the world. u should write a book about your experiences
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👍🤗🤗 Very good point. Well said. Love and peace from Cape Town 😊
Her answer was years in the making
Wise people like her learn from their experience with open eyes, ears, and hearts.
Good. Someone who thinks and learns and doesn’t just spew random 💩 she regurgitates from watching the news or being on social media.
This ! you can see that it's something she's been holding on to and practicing for a while but didn't have a platform to spread the word so she seized the moment. WHat a wonderful soul
This knowledge is thousands of years old most indigenous communities around the world stress the importance of relationships not with just people but all things. It's balance, the world is completely out of balance.
Us white Africans are taught this speech in high school
How embarrassing for the guy who interrupted her
Yeah man this effin dunce
What did he say? I could not make it out.
Probably has never received a hug from his dad
@phiakate I believe he said back to hogwarts....
I also wondered who the clown was trying to get his face on camera. Also have no clue clue what he said, think he just tried getting Jerry beads
She's a great ambassador for our nation. 🇿🇦❤
She would be a great world ambassador!!! This is the type of person we need in government.
She'd make Mandela smile.
This lady's level of understanding and humanity is an example of the type of people needed to build a good future for the country together 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦❤️✨.
She said Muslims should stop killing Jews and vise versa. Imagine that. Hamas does not support such message :P
The interviewer looks so shocked like, "I can't believe what I just heard," he doesn't know what to say. His response as the interview wrapped up says it all. I'm so proudly South African right now😊🇿🇦
Pay reparations, first. Whites need to take accountability for their wrongdoings
So am I!!!! 🎉🎉🎉
@@siyandaluthuli9793 You know they're discriminating against Africans and Muslims in Europe/ France
Viva Mzansi Viva...🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🌈🌈🌈
1:15 After hearing this, I immediately uninstalled Windows and installed Ubuntu.
Have 100 👍👍👍🏾
@@catherinehamer5653 That's only 3
Not funny nor clever in this context
hahahah, gotta love Ubuntu!
Debian.❤
Her comments was way above what was expected
All she said was that young black men carry machetes.
@@basylpeterjonesIf that's your biggest take-out, what a shame...
Yep. Proud of this lady discourse. She's an excellent ambassador for South Africa, Africa and general folks that actually choose to advance their intelect and mindfulness via education
@@basylpeterjoneslisten more...
@@basylpeterjones you are what is wrong with this world.
Taking Ubuntu onto the global stage 🇿🇦 we love you Trish
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spent 3 years trying to make my Irish roommates understand the concept, flies above their heads these Europeans
Guys, I know there is good number of "us" who found this message inspiring, and will probably forget about it in 30 mins because you'll be on another video or your attention is shifted elsewhere in the loophole of our lifestyle.
Lets actually make the step to apply what she said and "find our humanity with the relationships we have with other people"🌍🌍
Basically what she says is “stop BELIEVING and start KNOWING”. 👏👏👏
That can't be done as long as religion exist.
Religion is to do what you are told regardless of what is right.
Morality is to do what is right regardless of what you are told.
Proudly South Africa after hearing this awesome lady.
Dude, what if you never heard her? Be proud regardless...
But I hear what you're trying to say...just trolling on the first part, couldn't help it...😅
@@bafana_mhlamvu lol. When something like this happens it just reminds me/us to be proud. I love SA.
Good for her. Imagine the road she has travelled, what an inspiration. Heaven knows if she has done it, anyone can.
@@EileenHall-j9f I travelled a similar road to her and I'm still finding it a joy to get to know my fellow South Africans that I was effectively cut off from growing up during apartheid. We have our issues as a country but wow we have wonderful people.
And there you go … doing the exact opposite of what she was saying ! Lmao
"Ubuntu! I am, because we are". That's my daily mantra. I realise my humanity is linked to others. Lady made very fine points.
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that’s beautiful ❤️
This lady is an ambassador for all humanity intelligent great insight and a very good heart, forward forward forever forward!
South African here.
She is talking the truth.
When the tables turned and Nelson Mandela came into power, I worked for various black managers, female and male and we formed bonds and friendships and mutual respect for each other that has lasted a lifetime.
I heard my black managers stories, how they grew up, the challenges they had as some of them studied to become welfare workers, city planners, etc. all university degrees.
We should climb out of the racism and color box and start seeing each other as humans.
We have no excuse.
As a South African, this is a very South African philosophy, you don’t definite borders, you just need to see people as people
More power to you. Keep it up.
I agree. I am from Durban and this is exactly how most of us see the situation and also other South Africans. It does not matter what the colour of you skin is as long as you are respectful to others we can work out anything.
As a 🇿🇦, I am so proud of her !!
Another WISE WOMAN. 💕
You are literally doing the opposite of her point. You literally made it all about your race. It's the first thing you mentioned.
@@XxgoodbudsxX You can be proud of your country of origin (or race) and still include others. Her point was to engage with those who are different so we can see the similarities rather than the differences. You don't have deny your heritage to do that.
@@XxgoodbudsxX he did not make it about "race", didn't say "as a black or white ", that's the flag of a country...
@elleanna5869 a beautiful flag. Sorry, I am a little simple and all I could see was all the beautiful colors on their flag. Their flag is how we should be, proud of your color but strong in standing by others who share your values if not the same color.❤
@@XxgoodbudsxXSouth Africa 🇿🇦 is NOT a race. It’s a country. OP was expressing pride in this wise woman and the fact that she is a fellow South African.
Beautiful woman. ❤
She come from the 80s.
We were doing all that work and I think she's right about social media. It's dividing us and undoing all that work over decades since the 50s to make relationships. Love her ❤❤
You are right. I was a student at Wits University in the 1980s and we did a lot of work
It’s so easy to type out a mean comment or send hate from behind a keyboard. Like this lady said if you’re face to face with someone it’s harder to do (although there are folks who do spit hate in your face) because you can see that they’re a human being not too different from yourself. I started to type a mean reply to someone recently then thought, “Would I say this to their face?” No, I wouldn’t, so I didn’t send the comment.
@@jaybee2337good for you realizing and doing it differently! ❤
I've worked with people from all over the world. Most people want to live in peace with each other. It's the big capital that tries to divide us for their own gains. Stay strong and united brothers and sisters!!
True
Well said.
I've seen plenty of poor racists. They learn it from their parents.
Absolutely. 100%
Exactly
I am a PROUD SOUTH AFRICAN living in Canada, and Trish makes me proud to be South African ❤🇿🇦❤🇿🇦❤🇿🇦All that work we did back in the day is not in vain. I love you, Trish, a true Mzansi girl. Ek is in jou kant❤
This video isn't about South Africa
@@jbri1Blud ofcourse it's not but those values she's said were instilled into her in south Africa
@@jbri1the lady is South African 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🌈🌈
“People are people so why should it be, you and I should get along so awfully?” Great song. Great message.
I am not familiar with the song but that is literally how I see it and say it.
But there will always be people that find a way to discriminate others for whatever reason they do.
Skin color, believes, sexuality and probably many more things I wouldn’t even think about.😅
It’s sad but luckily there are also people that understand that in the end we are all human, just from different walks of life and don’t see it as a bad thing.
We don’t have to agree with every opinion because that just isn’t possible, but that doesn’t mean u can’t respect one another..🤷🏼♀️
@@crazycatlady6226 people are people by depeche mode
I love how South Africans are forever South African.
But she doesn’t live here anymore…
@@bevturner2258 That's the point. yoh no way we're stuck with people as daft as you brah. no way. I refuse to believe you're this dumb.
@@bevturner2258Forever South African? How when her Grand Parents come from somewhere else?
@@bevturner2258 I actually meant to respond to the original post not you. But whether it’s her grand parents or great grand parents, she descends from some whereelse, obviously.
@@bevturner2258 so ?? if im south african and moved to the usa im nomore south african
Thumbs up for my African fellow, cheers from Nigeria. ❤️ South Africa rocks against all odds!❤️
What a wonderful SA lady you made us proud.
My husband is Afrikaans from South Africa and he embodies these beliefs as well, as do I. I’m of Romanian blood (Romanians can be racist) but my parents weren’t so I’m not. Parents have SO much influence when it comes to racism. Beautiful interview
Especially we should stop calling it by a fictional name “racism” when it’s xenophobia we are talking about. There is only one human race.
@@maddinekagreed, but it’s commonly understood slang. Some may not know it and may not look it up
@@Jo-lp1px to be honest, i dont think the majority of people know its slang. i think that causes lots of bias in the american society - from all ends and results in troubles, separation and much more. language has a big influence and if you differ people the same you do with dogs, people will be misleaded. there is a reason people like hitler raised the "race card".
I like the way she talks, I hear a lot of people of older generations talking about what’s wrong with younger generations. What’s different about how she talks about it from many others is that I don’t feel she’s blaming us. She’s saying “here are reasons your generation is going through these problems”, and basically saying you’re strong enough to overcome it. From a 21 year old, much respect🙌🏻, I appreciate advice from older generations. I appreciate it even more when it’s not advice in a berating tone, I listen, I soak it in, and I respect it
When the random guy just felt entitled to interject himself into the conversation, you saw the best and worse of society in a spoilt second
It was perfect. She did said that we should start relationships on streets. And it showed what she was speaking about - the tall dude immediately became confrontational while she remain calm and understanding... And at least 50 people in social media reacted as she warned about
It was very indelicate, but common, is that the “worse of society”? Really? People do dumb stuff. I didn’t like to watch him interrupting her, she has a strong line of thought and carried on, that one can say!
She waved the guy who interrupted off to the interviewer, said it doesn't matter & continued with her message.
Classy.
To say that's the worst of society is hilarious. It was stupid and rude, but pretty insignificant
If i may speak for that commenter, I think you may misinterpreting their point. They're saying the what the guy did is representative of the worst of society, not that it IS the worst of society. Entitlement, callousness, bravado, acting without thinking, need for negative attention - I could go on. Those qualities are, in my opinion, the root cause of many of the actual worst things we see in society. This is just a demonstration of those qualities on a singular level.
We love you from South Africa ❤🇿🇦keep flying that flag high❤Limpopo approves your stay in the UK😅😂🤣
This doesn't sound right @#%^&)(^$
OK, Can we repeat her sentiment multiple times over EVERY DAMN WHERE? And dude was a perfect example of the nonsensical mess we are in that she spoke of.
What she said about polarisation is so true - putting knowledge in my head today 😎👏🏽 #ubuntubaby 🇿🇦
"Constrained by anxiety." What a beautiful way to phrase that!
Proudly Durban South Africa 🇿🇦
Sometimes the internet serves up something so wholesome I regain some of the hope I lose daily in humanity. Please give this aunty a Bell's(South Africans will know😂)
Lol 😂
❤️
Kikiki
This lady gave me the chills. Sharing and being kind matters, thanks for remind me this, awesome lady
If only we could get people like this in to the positions of powers they need to be.
Durban South Africa ❤❤❤❤❤❤ That's where I am from. So proud of this lady❤❤❤❤
What a breath of fresh air.
I thought this was common sense, I'm not that old but it's such a surprise to me that this is a foreign concept to this generation.
It's foreign to my generation, too, and I'm 66.
Generational wars are so pathetic.
You obviously think generations can be summed who has more common sense.
@@royboy4571 there's a quote from Socrates that every generation people think somebody recently said it. If not for the archaic language, people would think it was GenX about GenZ. It never changes. Every generation thinks their grandkids' generation is going to hell in a handbasket.
I remember when I was going to hell for being young....
@@MelissaThompson432 I know, and every generation thinks they invented sex.
Still doesn't make these two, particularly the lady, stupid.
Another reason to love South Africa ❤️✊🏼🍉🇿🇦
If only more people thought like this. This lady makes me proud to be a South African 🇿🇦❤
Right? Wish people with her mind and heart could be multiplied or cloned!
You can tell she had so much to say, not scripted from her mind, but naturally from her heart.
I was born in Britain and raised in South Africa they produce manners respect and a warrior sprite Britain could never give me what Mzani gave me thank you
*Mzansi
Britain is good though
Another ex Durbanite here now living in Portugal. I also grew up under apartheid. 100% agree with Trish
apartheid still there just in revers
Why do you live in Portugal rather than Durban? That seems rather suspect.
We all know why this white lady no longer lives in SA xD@@gregorymalchuk272
I was in Durban and I know why you live in Portugal😂😂😂
The spirit of Ubuntu ❤️
This woman has such an amazing morale and it is a blessing to get her message across to the internet, and I can only hope that the RUclips algorithm continues spreading this around for the younger generations to hear. She must be such an amazing therapist, she has such a kind soul
Whoever that is.. for president. Bring her to the US and fix us, please. ♥️
Common sense would be nice. She would be what Senator Sanders would've been for us ❤
Wow, she LITERALLY just laid out a realistic plan for WORLD PEACE! Who is she the world needs her wisdom and compassion ❤️
What about reparations? They need to pay for the Apartheid
@@suzygirl1843 It takes one step at a time and with a woman like this who has the correct mindset IS the first step in my opinion! She would never forget to give consequences to the apartheid!
@@jackydooley6053 OK
@@jackydooley6053 I needed some time to thoroughly think of an answer so that I can actually get my point across properly without someone calling me bitter or reverse racist.
Here's why we need Reparations:
White Supremacy is a weapon that's taken Indigenous lands and cultural hegemony for centuries. Just because some white men commit heinous crimes upon white women doesn't put us on the same boat, crime happens in one's community. White women are a BIG part of the problem in maintaining this structure too. Unfortunately, you only see yourselves as "victims" but never take accountability for your part in how you've destroyed entire communities (Emmett Till). Hence why I am not falling for the "we need to treat each other like humans and kumbaya". You also Broke it, you fix it. How? Let people reconstruct their own economy and let them build it however they want. Nothing needs to revolve around YOUR comfort as a WHITE WOMAN. It's not about you.
Africans don't want to integrate with white people, that's counterproductive. The ACT of integration broke up many black American families, we don't want to bring that into our Continent. White women have inherent privilege that the Natives don't and will never obtain, so placing Women of color in direct competition is not the solution, stay in your countries, please. Keep mum, we don't need your pity or your Feminism. What we need is MEN to step up to the plate. They cannot do that because you currently hold all of our resources.
China, Japan, and other Eastern countries cope fine without white people interference, we can too if we give ourselves the chance. Western interference has crippled Africa. I am not being hostile, I'm pointing out an abject TRUTH. You don't actually want to help, you want to center yourself in all of this, it's in your nature to do so.
@@suzygirl1843Well, to be fair, South Africa has paid back more and gave the country back, more than what Australia and New Zealand did to their countries. We have paid the price since 1994 up until now and have reprimanded.
Beautiful mind. Such good words from what she learned in her lifetime and that are so needed in today's world
Good on you, ma'am. Keep the values of our rainbow nation with you wherever you go.
I hope this goes viral. This woman sounds like she's been living to share this message. ❤
the way she's completely unphased and still maintains her kindness at @2:07 shows how homogenous her values and actions are. What a lovely woman.
Trish representing...🇿🇦
Ubuntu can influence the world to be more accepting of one another !
Wait, the computer operating system?
@@guylloyd200 the system openess comes from the African concept 😁
I have been saying this my whole life. We are ALL Homo sapiens. One Tribe. We ALL share this wonderful place called Earth as home. One Planet. We need to shed these divisive labels and become ONE. ❤
100% agreed
him calling her "bro" lol, what a lovely lady, and props to the interviewer for not interrupting her!
This should be in the news, yet news stations would rather show something negative and dividing!
UBUNTU is an ancient African word meaning 'humanity to others'. It is often described as reminding us that 'I am what I am because of who we all are'.
Glory to JAH
She is point, khuluma Gogo
mFwethu!
She is NOT a gogo💁🏽
We all have a light to shine. Imagine if we all worked together, listened to one another, had compassion and kindness, what kind of world we’d have. 🇨🇦
We all work better together ❤️ 😢 This lady is spreading world peace and its so much needed to have her say this. 🕊☮️🌎
I am 25 and she is absolutely right saying social media is one problem in our generation.
In my job you can not talk anymore to a minor without instantly hurting their feelings because social media does not teach you how to communicate. But it teaches you anxiety on a high end level!
i love it when that guy tries to bomb the video and the lady still concentrating says...""it doesn't matter"" she is the real deal and the hug...we need more people like this talking to our youth.
Wisdom comes through walking through hardships, choosing forgiveness, and learning to love. South Africans have been through the fire and this is the result. Proud SAFFA in Aus.
I couldn't agree more
I love this woman!! Can she have a seat in the United Nations? She is powerful and HONEST, with COMMON SENSE SOLUTIONS for racial problems.
Even the sign behind them says "GIVE WAY" to the new world and break out from the old❤
What a class act both of these sweet humans are. Her for her words, and him for his listening ears. Lovely..
What a beautiful person. The world needs to know what she has learned about peace, acceptance, love and respect for all humanity. ❤️🌟💙
Lots of Love to you Trish. You make us proud🇿🇦❤
Proudly South African , that's why I will never ever leave and my heart is to make things work. Everyone I work with respects me as Malome ( aka Uncle ) because we are all in this together and I help where I can with South African pride and respect.
Isn't south african people extremely racist towards their "white" population?
Standing ovation for this lady.
Come together as human beings. I love learning about different cultures, what they eat, marital traditions, what their childhood was like. I want to learn what made them who they are.
She wasn't at all done talking when he ended the conversation 😂
I want a podcast with her!
To be fair, she seems like she had the wisdom and confidence to go on for hours, he had to end it at some point 😂 she should have her own channel.
@@faithpearlgenied-a5517on point !!!!
I love my Saffers.
I am an adopted Saffer. Have a lot of maties, strong community in the UK, very hospitable, good jol, good braai and having a lekker time.
Good people
We love you too, brother❤. Together as one
Love you, Trish! ❤
This guy saying 'wow' like he's never read a book.
This video needs to be played at schools and taught as a concept. Amazing work brotha, you made a banger w this one, especially thanks to this amazing woman.
Unity in diversity
Comes from accepting we are different and multifaceted individuals
At the same time, we are all human
No one is special
No one is other
In the new South Africa we were 'South Africans'. This was unifying. Similarly people can be 'British', 'American', 'French' etc. These are unifying terms. They set aside silly differences that drive wedges between us. Our enemies seed and exploit divisions hoping we'll rip ourselves apart. Indeed it is our humanity that pulls as together. Together we are stronger.
The mad thing is it’s a pretty common position across all racial lines in South-Africa. It’s only the race hustling politicians and poverty that make it appear otherwise.
Spot on! Politicians f*ck everything up just to get votes. Its DISGUSTING!
There are race hustling Politicians in South Africa?
I think I love her! What an amazing, eloquent and thoughtful answer. And she is right about social media. It makes everything about a matter of this or that, with no room for shades of grey. How can we move forward as a civilization, if your opinions on everything are so cut and dry? Open your minds and listen to those you think you oppose, or that have differing opinions. People would be less angry all around.
In terms of trauma therapy, she nailed it.
After hearing this, this makes me proudly South African! 🇿🇦
What a lovely beautiful lady 🙏🏽🇺🇸👏🏽
As a south african, this brought me close to tears
This lady is da bomb! No truer words could be spoken. That type of thinking is our hope, our way out of the ruts, the lanes (the boxes) that some groups are forcing us to inhabit. I, for one, have never wanted to be confined nor have I wanted to see people, especially minorities (wherever you are a minority) forced into boxes. Let the discourse begin and continue for as long as needed! ❤ to all!
Love from South Africa!!!❤🇿🇦 what a gem she is, you guys are lucky to have her
Maybe we should be looking at our behaviours more then looking at issues.
Wow South Africa 🇿🇦
Trish, you are my heroine ❤❤ from home South Africa 🇿🇦
That’s a lifetime of commitment and learning behind those precious words
She’s absolutely correct Preach momz!!!👊🏼🙏🏼
The look on his face at the end. He was genuinely ready to adopt that lovely woman as his new grandma 😊
What a wonderful loving human!!! I love this video!!!