Her 7 year old tried to UNALIVE himself because he’s THAT unhappy - there is ZERO chance that he’s not being abused. I’m FUMING that she just dismissed it and sent him back! WTF! Her so. Will never forgive her for that
Typically a 7 yr old is not going to talk about unaliveing themselves without reason. IMO there is likely significant abuse going on. Her sending that child back to a place where he feels unsafe is awful.
Totally agree. My first “medically recorded” suicidal thoughts was just after I turned 8 years old. I was experiencing bad physical abuse by classmates and older students at school. Those thoughts doesn’t just appear, the comprehension of what death means is low at that age and yet you feel like “this is my only way out of this”
@@TasserKaus Exactly. If a child is having thoughts like that there something very very wrong going on. Either at school or at the hands of a family member. Also I am so truly sorry you had to experience that. No child should ever know what suffering is. I do appreciate you sharing your insight though. ❤
In general I don't disagree, but it may be a medical issue as well, not necessarily just a home life situation. While in this case I don't doubt that is the case or at least largely a factor, sometimes mental illness can present really young. My half brother, who had a very normal home life, started expressing really scary self harm ideology at around 5 due to mental health issues. When he started therapy and getting the care he needed, that subsided a lot. Not 100%, but a lot. I'm definitely not saying that there's not something... Bad going on in the case here, bc it seems fishy at best, but I just wanted to express there are a lot of potential factors.
@@DisobedientAvocado82 I’m lucky it happened at school and not at home. Her son must be struggling horribly, his father is likely being abusive, his mother whisks him away and back to his father. They also don’t seem to spend much time with the kids either. I’m on the verge of tears thinking about her son right now. I have been fortunate enough to distance/disassociate myself a lot from my childhood, so it’s like remembering something from a book. I don’t get affected by the memories that much anymore :)
I went through severe sa abuse as a child and had my first sh and attempts early. However my 10 year old has severe sensory processing disorder and struggles to even wear clothes these days and he often exresses those thoughts in frustration to what he misses out on. He definitely isn't abused and we're working with multiple people to help but yeah,sometimes it is an illness not caused through parents.
Idk why people are pretending like this is just about dOnuTs. Its clear, obvious neglect and theyre raising a child in a 'throuple' where none but maybe 1 of them is employed. It's gross and she SHOULD be 'shamed' for it.
Right? That was my one and only straw that broke my camel back and she's only proving our point about how bad of a parent she is with everything she said after that
Sooooo true!! I’m not for throuple thing really until your kids are grown or you do it on the dl! I’m from a hippie town in ny originally full of artists with money and I’ve seen them do throuple? With their free range parenting ha and the kids are ok but confused And now TikTok brings me this?? this Midwest mess throuple…where no one works or really cares for the kids! What a mess 😢like the person up there said three grown adults and her throwing donuts on a plate is all there is?? This woman is the main reason I hate TikTok but boy do they show the worst of America ha 😅
And now the girlfriend left and the Boyfriend followed behind her right after to be with her so they got what they wanted and used Alex for anything they could get and now she has to deal with the fact she spent 90% of her tax money on herself and mostly them and maybe 10% of it on the kids ! I bet she feels ridiculous about now! Should have been the other way around and the kids getting money spent on them for their needs and wants! Some nice namebrand clothes for once she obviously can afford , Fresh and nutritious food, and then whatever else they need. She literally was choosing them because I think she’s terrified of being single and alone over her kids :(
It’s not just about one doughnut! It’s about multiple, unhealthy meals and a very lazy attitude towards parenting! It’s gross and so is her silky mom take! It’s offensive and this is why kids behave the way they do today! If you don’t want to invest the time to be a good parent then don’t have kids! They don’t ask to be born and if you’re going to have them maybe invest the time to give them the best life possible!
I didn't want to judge when she pulled out chicken nuggets and fries from a plastic container cause hey, we have those days- but now with the stuff, I feel like she just cooks all at once, pushes it into a plastic container and warms it up later which is the worst thing to do for a child
@@goingferalluvs it depends on what it is, like stew/soup or frozen pancake mix stuff that a kid can heat up them self's is a good idea but that shouldn't be everything as people should teach there kids how to cook and how to make cheap but good meals for when they go to collage/school/moveout
I consider myself a silky mom. Which means I utilize modern medicine, technology, vaccinate my kids, allow them to learn from trusted sources other than my own narrow brain, I may or may not work outside of the home, preschool is okay but I did limit it to half days because I was fortunate enough to be able to, I used shampoo from the drugstore, bottle fed (I would have breastfed but it didn’t work out, and I didn’t feel guilty for feeding my babies how I could). But we eat healthy food, if I need a break with prepared food I get a rotisserie chicken or something and a salad mix, maybe some precooked veggies for a side! Nothing wrong with frozen vegetables in a pinch, some rice and pasta is fine, pre boiled eggs and fruit for breakfast is just as easy as donuts and my kids loved them. They’re grown now and they are health conscious with their food choices but not overly so.
If I was her I wouldn't for one say that on tik talk for 1) second ) I would save some and spend it on the kids like clothes buy whatever they need. !!! I just don't say it on tik talk! There is this saying not all that you do should go on social media like tik talk or RUclips, or Instagram!!!!
Wait, isn't the man she's a relationship with the father of one or more of the children? And even if he's stepdad, shouldn't he be helping Alexandra with the children? On one hand I am happy that she came forward to address the serious allegations of child abuse and neglect, but I feel she has to address everything here. Alexandra should be having a conversation with her son. If her son is saying that a parent is abusing them, you've got to believe them. You don't send them back to their abuser. Get the courts involved and get custody. Fight for your child.
Alleging abuse AFTER they break up is highly suspicious to me. so you witnessed this abuse and didn’t say anything? Report it to the appropriate authorities instead of using ABUSE for internet clout. I can understand staying quiet for your safety but she went immediately to the internet when they broke up? I think this lady and her bf should be investigated but that other lady doesn’t seem innocent either imo.
Yeah if she has reason to believe that her child might have been hurt or abused by their other parent and has continued to send them to their house then CPS need to be called in immediately!
You can’t just not let a child decide in some cases. Especially if there’s a court order. You can be found in contempt of court. She needs to petition for a change to the order. The court will probably order a guardian ad litem. It sucks and you want to do what the kid asks but you have to follow the order
I don’t think people realize it takes time to do these things. Unless there is OUTRIGHT abuse, an emergency hearing isn’t going to be granted. A 7 yo can’t make that decision by himself to not go back.
Not defending this person - but custody orders are firm - if a parent violates it they lose custody - my son had spent 20000 to just have a fair custody agreement
No they get contempt of court. That is the most that can happen. She needs to go in for an emergency hearing period, no damn excuses!!! She can get that child of hers a representative with the court, have him evaluated etc. This is just absurd. She and all are failing him!!!
It is a rough call, honestly. She can't keep him at home without a court order because she can lose custody/go to jail. There is even a popular set of videos on RUclips about this situation. Teenage son refused to return and dad didn't make him and he lost custody, went to jail and had to fight for years to get custody. However, if he wants to leave, then she should be returning to the courts for a new judgment.
Send the kid but make a report and call adamn lawyer in the mea while. Document and call cps. Call the teachers and have them make a report or talk to the child.
This is over more than just the foods she’s playing. It’s about prioritising the children and how Alex doesn’t time and time again. From them sleeping on the floor while bragging on her 900 dollar barns and Nobel haul, Walmart and game stop haul. James saying “my hands are bi sexual when it comes to defending my partner”. He was threatening to assault people. In writing. I’m not saying do crimes, but don’t write down your damn crimes! She also says she wants full time custody because bio dad is abusive. She sent him back despite him threatening to KHS. Because of his private school? I’m sorry no private school prestige is going to matter if the child is in a god damn coffin.
@@ammyrobinson9171 I mean, I remember absolutely HATING school. Even my primary school head teacher in a meeting commented that he worried what they were doing wrong that I came in head held high and bouncy and left little shoulders scrunched and so defeated. I get kids don’t always want to go where they have to go. But this isn’t that. This is a parent stating the other is abusive, on social media no less, and proceeding to return her child to that environment knowing what is likely to happen there. This is no different to a parent failing to supervise a child swimming in a pool, or not knowing where their child is roaming the street. It doesn’t matter that you check in daily, you are putting them in a dangerous situation, in which the supervision is not appropriate and the outcome is almost inevitably one of negative impact on the child. Man I’m so furious over this. Sorry.
@@thesensationaladventuresof1150 there’s a huge difference between a KID AT SCHOOL and a LEGALLY BINDING ENFORCEABLE CUSTODY AGREEMENT. You cannot just decide to withhold a child. That results in you being in violation of the custody agreement. Children have been taken away and parental rights terminated over this. The right thing to do in this situation is to document and file for any changes. She’s pretty clear on saying there’s never been proof- so likely a CPS investigation that states no evidence found. That means she cannot withhold him for that purpose without reopening an investigation. It’s dumb to get so angry over this when she could literally have the police at her door over withholding her child if the father chooses to. It’s considered a form of parental kidnapping.
@@pithygrapefruitnormally if there is a custody agreement and something like this happens the parents is supposed to take the child to police/hospital and request an emergency court hearing. We did this a lot in my family for one of my siblings. Once this has happened enough the child is usually allowed to pick who to stay with or the courts will move primary care to the other parent until at the very least they have investigated. She isn’t even trying.
LOOK at her She is not trolling with that breakfast. That's what they eat. I grew up with overweight "silky" parents and I promise you she is not trolling with the powdered donuts.
The thing is, sadly, even if your child says they don’t want to see their other parent or accuses them of abuse, in some places you are legally bound to take them there unless you have evidence. Even with evidence sometimes you will be forced to send them - in the UK you are legally bound to allow visitation (albeit, it may be supervised) even if the other parent is convicted of SA-ing them. Channel 4 did a piece on this recently. I don’t know what the law is where she lives though and she should at least have tried to get it investigated.
Yes this is true 😞 I feel like if this has been going on for a little while (no idea on timeframe as she doesn’t say) then maybe something could have been investigated. It’s impossible to know 🤷♀️ but I was shocked by hearing it x
@@ammyrobinson9171do you understand how many kids die in the custody of their abusive parent while the other parent is begging and constantly reporting? While schools and doctors are constantly reporting? You are 100% out of line, if there's a court ordered custody agreement her hands are tied... It's weird to me that you would speak on something you don't know about while being judgemental instead of doing a two minute google search. The child protective system in America as a whole is a disgusting, for profit joke.
@@rebeccasteinke4357 yup, one time my brother had a bruise and my mom took us to go talk to an officer to get it documented where they took pictures and everything, I remember that night when we had to go back and my mom was so worried which was warranted because we did get in trouble badly that night and that next day (I cried all night and even at school that next day it was bad) all while come to find out apparently they didn’t even document it correctly or something? I don’t know I just remember nothing came of it except everybody being mad at us forever because of that and what made it worse was they had people come to our school and talk to us and apparently even my stepmom’s work and everything like it was literally nothing but more trouble for my brother and I. my mom was so pissed tho she said she called them after that tho and went off on the guy who was in charge for putting us in more danger (like they were supposed to help us, not do the exact opposite)
Feel for those poor kids and any kids used for money on social media . People would have probably said 8 passengers weren’t that bad at the beginning. Something is definitely off with her .
it's ironic she has 'spread kindness' in her bio but her content is so aggressive lol LOL wasn't she saying they couldn't afford to feed their kid better but now she got money (prolly from people giving her engagement and monetization on tiktok) AND THE FIRST THING SHE SHOWS BUYING WITH MORE MONEY IS NOT BETTER FOOD FOR HER KID. also, she definitely already had this money, right? we all agree she definitely already had money to feed her get right cos u don't go from 'i'm poor i can't afford food' to 'let's spend 2k at gamestop (which why would u go to gamestop they're overpriced anyway) and designer candies etc' polycules are fine, i got no problem with them being polyamorous bc i am myself but my issue with it was there was like some weird breaky uppy, get back togethery whatever it was that seemed like it had potential to blow up and be harmful to someone. 'exposing how they treat the child' yea this is what i was worried about cos there's another throuple running around on there people have spoke about that are VERY weird and not for them all being in a relationship together but just the way they act and excuse their weird behavior for being autistic? or w/e and then also like treating the one's child with severe autism it seems as if she were a pet dog or something. so that's where i was at with them having what seemed like a rocky polyamorous relationship cos it was giving same vibes as those people. the whole like... 'clearing things up' video is not clearing much up for me. people were saying in other comments about her getting govt assistance but now she's like i do make good money on tiktok but in her videos defending her feeding her kid so much sugar she was like we don't have a lot of money? which is it, dear, do u have money or not? cos if u do can we go back to addressing how u feed ur kid absolute trash and can afford to buy her better foods. i mean really a 4 year old should be eating MINIMAL snacks they should be getting lots of fruits and veggies to grow up healthier and here this kid is looking like she eats sweets for every meal (cos she she shown any other content of her eating actual dinners and breakfasts?) this is the weirdest fucking video fr. she doesn't sound like a good parent regardless of whatever else is going on. she's admitted at least her kid is uncomfortable with going somewhere and forces him to live somewhere he doesn't wanna live. AND ALSO PRIVATE SCHOOL? i'm gonna have to go back and find the other video cos i SWEAR she said somewhere about how she couldn't afford BETTER FOOD for her daughter bc they didn't have money but ur kid is going to PRIVATE SCHOOL. she's not looking like she's not lying with all this stuff flying around. WAIT? I missed the whole thing about her SEVEN YEAR OLD? THREATENING HIS OWN LIFE? AND SAYING HE'S UNHAPPY AT HIS DADS AND U LEAVE HIM THERE? ma'am this is not normal. something's happening to that kid if he is seven and saying those things while being forced to live somewhere he doesn't want to.... how do i feel about? it's a bunch of bullshit. none of it made sense. it didn't clear up any 'lies' being told about her it just seemed like it uncovered more concerning things. her platform is gonna collapse real quick after this one cos people aren't playing around anymore with the safety of children after the whole ruby franke shit... stop abusing ur kids. don't have them if u can't take care of them properly or are a psycho that thinks ur doing something good by torturing children.
Shes a compulsive liar. She kept looking away, she couldn't look right into the camera. I got very uncomfortable vibes watching this video.. She looks totally drugged up and not happy... It's just creepy
First off, holy crap there is sooo much information being shared that doesnt need to be public knowledge. Second off, if my child were begging to not go somewhere, i would absolutely not make them go. My childs well-being is my number one priority. If its court ordered, you call the police and the courts. You do absolutely everything in your power to keep your child safe. Shes making up excuses galore, and is talking in circles, its all just talk. You cant say youre your childs number one advocate, then turn around and have your actions show otherwise. I think people need to stop sharing online and need to talk in person. If nothing needs to be said in person, just say nothing. Id consider a lot of this to just be petty drama, but since children are involved, it automatically makes it substantially more serious.
You can do all that but until the order is changed in court, it will remain!! Sorry, if you try and withhold that order, you go to jail.. Sometimes they can get an emergency court order but not often..CPS can come and do a check but also not likely to stop the court order. That just how that works, until legally changed..
@@askajk5895 and that's a serious issue. I don't think issues like this, regarding children, should be aired out online. If it's an emergency situation I would have the police involved, because there is no way I'd willingly put my child in a dangerous situation. If my child had been crying about going somewhere, I'd have started taking the steps immediately to get a therapist involved and to make sure my child didn't have to be exposed to a situation that they feel unsafe in. Id have proactively taken steps from the get go so I could see the warning signs. If it came on suddenly then I'd be handling it as an emergency. I want to make it clear I'm not judging her personally, I am just not okay with people saying they are their child's biggest advocate, then turning around and having their behavior show otherwise. My childs safety comes before all else, as it should be :) I am sleep deprived so I hope this makes sense haha.
@@askajk5895 shoot I responded but it got deleted. I pretty much said the system is very flawed, but I'd do anything possible to keep my child safe. If it's an emergency I'd get police involved, if it's not, I'd have a therapist involved and the court system from the beginning before it even became an issue, because typically there are signs (unless an emergency). But your right, the system is a mess honestly. I'd do anything and everything to keep my child safe though. Hopefully this one doesn't get flagged by RUclips for some reason. I simplified it a lottt in comparison to what I had typed :/
@@askajk5895 holy moly I've commented twice and they keep disappearing, RUclips can be obnoxious haha. Even more simmered down, the system is a mess. Id protect my child however possible. In an emergency cops would get involved. If I started feeling like something was off I'd get a therapist and the courts involved before it became an even bigger deal. I think this kind of stuff should be handled off the Internet though. Mind you this is condensed down multiple times haha. The system is a mess and it's sad because children are who suffer most. Id do anything and everything to protect my child though :)
I think she needs to be more concerned with her son. Something is wrong with this if a 7 year old is threatening to unalive himself. Figure out what is happening. She doesn't seem to care.
Being completely honest here, if anyone had told me that the polyamorous mother who actively profits off of feeding her kids highly processed meals on social media ignored abuse, violence, and her kids I'd probably believe them without any proof. This woman, that whole family, really gives off the vibes of doing as little as possible to get by because they just don't want to be inconvenienced, over anything, ever.
You are not forced to enroll your kids in the school district you live in. If for some reason you find it inadequate or you just want to enroll your kid in a different school you can get an inter district transfer. I got heavily bullied at the nearby school so my parents enrolled me in a school I chose in the neighboring town. If her kids are already enrolled in the school near their dad’s house all she should have to do is change the address on file and ask for inter district transfer paperwork if needed. There is no need for a kid to live in a house they aren’t comfortable in where there is another option.
The way she feeds them is mistreating them to be honest. You can’t feed a child that much and all sugar and carbs without it doing some damage . If you are knowingly giving them that stuff then you are knowingly mistreating them. Secondly , you’re confusing the crap out of them at this point don’t you think ? You tell them this is their family and then they watch that blow up and a family member is put out . Then what ? Another family member comes along and they never see the old one ? Lastly, everything else. Just everything. Way to handle everything 🙄
Okay, another thing. If the child is unhappy with the other parent and the other parent has partial custody, there is NOTHING mom can do about it. Things don't work the same in the US as they do in the UK. Maybe the kid doesn't want to go to the dad's house because his father is stricter than the mom, maybe he doesn't let him play video games as often? You just don't know what the details are. Unless the child is blatantly saying that he is being abused, there isn't a damn thing that can be done about it. Wow, I am shocked at this video!
It's really hard to speak about what is happening here because this is Alexandra's child, but let me just say that when I was seven years old, I knew that my bio dad was abusive. I even told teachers and family members about what was happening. If the child did say at the age of seven that he was being abused by dad, then he knows the difference between a strict parent who is being annoying and an abuser.
@@TiffWaffles I didn’t hear anything about the kid telling teachers that he was abused. I heard that he didn’t want to go to his dad’s house. My point is that even if the kid is saying that he doesn’t want to be there, it’s unfortunately not up to him because his father has partial custody. If mom violates the custody agreement she can get into a lot of trouble and even be charged with kidnapping. It’s not like she can just decide that he’s not going there anymore, it all has to go through the court.
@@powderandpaint14 I absolutely agree. But that was never said. All that was said is that the child doesn’t like going there and there could be a multitude of reasons for that other than abuse.
I feel for this child. I've struggled with suicidal ideation since I was seven because of abusive family. And I remember when I wouldn't go to school my mother would threaten to send me to live with my dad's if I didn't behave (of whom I was terrified).
I grew up in Eastern Kentucky, very rural area. My mother was a coal miners daughter and I'm a coal miners daughter. I see so much waste of food, my mother got food by passing truck drivers throwing out fruit and snacks to little, dirty children. We have lost our way, it's sad.
Accusations only coming out after a breakup when it's not about the relationship itself but relating to the kids and how they're treated, um, seems a bit off. If they'd stayed together, I don't see this person having an issue, when if you know kids are in danger, you can report it, or bring it up with the rise of her tiktok or both. accuser's friend was in the relationship with her own kid too. right? so, if this is true, that friend and the accuser also don't care about the safety of the kids involved. I've dealt with a lot of things in this vein regarding children and the big A word as well as the parents and relationship dynamics. Even my old friend found out a very close friend of hers for a LONG time, her kid was being SAd by the dad. first she talked to the mom. the mom decided to "forgive" him and did nothing. So my friend went to the family. the kid's grandpa went with my friend to report to the police/cps. The mom tried to cover it up and cut ties with my friend, her dad, etc. Maybe the accuser in the video is also a piece of garbage but is telling the truth. idk. this feels like a reddit post; ESH. Edit: none of this is in defense of anyone, more like added thoughts on the whole situation. My only care is the truth and wellbeing of kids involved. It seems like no one has their best interests that's close to the family without a huge bias either way.
taking from a food bank while spending 2k on games is so vile. your kids want to feel energized and happy not play more video games. their gut microbiomes must be on life support not a green vegetable in sight
As a mother who has a daughter who suffers from pmdd and has severe spirals, the kid was taken to the hospital for SH, she then made him go to his dads afterwards in order to go to school the next day?!?! Um wtf? That child would have come home with me and there would have been some very real conversations. But what really pisses me off, she had to have LIED to the nurses and doctors about his injury or SH bc he is a minor and that absolutely would have been a call to child services and a social worker would have been brought in immediately. Both parents would have been interviewed as well as the child. My own daughter is 17 and my son is 19. Their stepmother is verbally abusive and father is an alcoholic. Two years ago my daughter asked to go to her friends bc she didn’t want to be around ppl drinking, it’s a massive trigger for her. So her step,pm drove her 40 minutes. Yelled and degraded her till my daughter had an anxiety attack and blacked out. My daughter’s friend calls me asking me to come with the inhaler. She has asthma, thankfully I was 10 min away. Her inhaler was left in her stepmother’s car. Neither child has been back to their home or spoken to him. He doesn’t care at all bc he will defend his wife over our children every single time. I have never spanked or talked down to my kids. I live with childhood trauma and I don’t want that for them. I e made sure they got the therapy they need to heal and know that it’s not their fault he is nonexistent. They are children and he’s the adult.
Couple or throuple: ITS NOT THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP THATS THE PROBLEM RATHER THE TYPE OF PEOPLE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. in the 5 years i’ve worked in early childhood education i’ve taught a few kids who parents were in a throuple honestly it really depends on the parents how it effects the child i’ve met children who were beyond loved and cared for all three adults worked good jobs they all seemed to care for the children appropriately the kids frequently came into class sharing fun stories of what their family did over the weekend they were always clean had amazing lunches and you could definitely tell those kids were loved and the family functioned well together. However i’ve also seen kids who’s parents were in a throuple and it gave off the energy of adults who had kids young and refuse to grow up making decisions that benefit them rather than the child spending too much time trying to catch up on the life they missed out on because they had a baby before they were ready & now that they’re in school they are experiencing more freedom than they have in a while and getting carried away by it and seem to almost forget about the child and their social emotional needs. THAT BEING SAID I SEE THE SAME THING FROM PARENTS IN “TRADITIONAL” RELATIONSHIPS.
My daughter is 9 and when she would go to her dad’s she would ask me: how many more days till I’m with you again? So with her she just liked me better, but I think it was because he was stricter than me. Obviously this is a very different situation with that hospital visit. That says a lot.
This entire video felt like picking holes in her story, so it’s fine to post it but don’t say you’re not trying to pick holes- otherwise I don’t think the entire video would be showing “proof” of contradictions.
The kids will either grow up defying the odds, OR ending up just like them. Statistics- maybe 1 child will be alright, and the others will be like them. FAILED
I don’t trust people who only come out with these claims after they break up. You’re telling me all this abuse happened but you did nothing to stop it? Report it? Nope. Credibility is gone for me if they also make public outcry’s on social media like this but never file a police report and let it actually get investigated. If anyone was abusing kids in my presence there would be immediate consequences. Saving this as payback or something is just tacky and doesn’t help me believe the allegations. I’m also not claiming the chick is a good mom. I’ve never gone to her channel, ive only seem maybe 2 or 3 clips on reaction/commentary videos like this. There’s no excuse to ever hurt a child and I don’t know if she did or not. But I do get vibes that she might be lazy/grumpy but she isn’t evil or purposely trying to hurt people. The allegation of her not waking up with her kids could be true, but that still doesn’t make her a bad mom. If there are 2 capable adults also in the house why is it only her responsibility? If they’re all a couple then they should all be raising the kids equally. Another thing to consider is depression. I mean, we can all agree she doesn’t come across as the happiest person….not wanting to get out of bed, losing interest in her partners/kids, to me those sound like symptoms of a bigger problem, like postpartum, and any caring partner would want you to get healthy, not blast your personal stuff online for attention. I can see why she would be depressed with her home life and then also add internet comments and trolls, smh. I just don’t have the desire to record my life so seeing others who are “normal” do it never makes sense to me. I hope she can just log off and focus on herself and her kids. If they are abusive though I hope those kids are protected and the parents can get the proper punishment and education on child care.
I’m sure (the other ) gal is quite hurt and I believe her …but this was quite a grift they all started on TikTok it’s what scares the F out of me about TikTok!! Also another ex of what happens when a Midwest poor throuple comes into money!! James looks like the typical 18 yr old BOY so I’m actually surprised by looking at him…that he would touch a woman!? 😖 This woman existed on govt assistance until she KNEW she had a monthly TikTok check! This is what’s scary? RUclips she wouldn’t make money on! But on Tik tok? They live for this trash! But now she’s getting WISHLISTS which makes me sick!! I had anemia but the only time my lips turned blue is when I had pneumonia 😅 ugh this woman is such a mess!! The fact she has to act like the grumpy mom then brings out her happy nice smiling shopping addicted side when people send her money….ammy thank god you do TikTok so I don’t have to!! Ha this is the icky parts of America
If there is a custody agreement she would be charged with kidnapping, they would take the kid anyway & she might lose custody permanently as well as go to jail. Literally grow up, people. Life is complicated it’s not everyone’s delusion
You can’t just not let the kids go to dads. We didn’t want to go to my dad’s he was extremely abusive. Every time she tried to keep us home the cops came and forced us to go with him or arrest her.
Ive never been in a throuple, but the bit about having multiple parents is kinda wrong im ngl. Guy i was a nanny for has a long term GF, and i was there all the time, and was best friends with the parents. The kids loved always having someone to talk to, play with, if they were scared to tell their dad something they could always come to me and id help them come clean. I grew up with multiple mother figures along side my mom, and i loved it as well, my moms not gay, but always has had close bonds with other women. Her, my other moms, they taught me a lot, how to be a nice person, amanda taught me to draw, Meg taught me to trust, my mom gave me my love of animals and cooking and going outside, i never had a dad, so having so many wonderful women step into my life, and be there for me, was super important and a life saver. And id still choose them over havinf a dad any day, i love my moms
I don't really know this situation, but I will say, the only reason this person is getting so much criticism of her parenting is because she has it on display on tiktok. She's far from the worst parent out there and our foster care system is SO bad, so... Is it the goal of the tiktok community to have her kids taken from their parents? I mean, tiktok isn't the place where anyone should be giving or receiving parenting advice, and I know that legitimately abusive behavior can be discovered there, but I just don't think this is it. There are kids out there, unfortunately, who have it much worse than her kids I'm sure.
Whether the reasons stated are true or not, why did this person not come forward to protect and help the kids until now? If you gave a crap about the way they were treated why didn’t you come forward before? If they hadn’t been broken up with, their treatment would be ok??
That's not what happened. The friend did report it before anything was publicly disclosed. She came out publicly after James threatened to choke her and after Alex refused to do her part in keeping her son safe. This whole situation has turned very messy really fast with so many assumptions.
She deserves to be mom shamed. She doesn't care about those children and it's clear by how she just doesn't care about what they are eating. She's not even being a mother. So mom shaming what, exactly?
I think it is so ridiculous that people were upset over the fact that she feeds her kids donuts for breakfast. Maybe she doesn't give her kids the healthiest foods but can we not appreciate the fact that this woman takes the time to cook for her children and lovingly plate it, obviously spends time with her children and is a loving mother???? It's hard enough being a mom these days with society constantly telling us that we aren't enough if we don't make sure our kids are eating 25 vegetables and fruits a day and everything made from scratch, and you better not let them have any screen time, and how many activities are you taking them to? They have to be enriched and learning constantly and make sure your house is spotless but not too spotless because you don't want people to think that you don't let your kids have any fun! The list goes on and on and on! It's exhausting!
"at least she feeds her kids" is the lowest possible bar for parenthood. Surely you see a chasm between starvation and "feed your kid 25 servings of vegetables a day" that doesn't involve enough sugar to send a kid into diabetes.
@@bulbasaurusthe7th841Yes, lovingly, because she isn't throwing the plates at her kids, that's for the camera. She is taking the time to cook the food, plate the food, cut it into bite size pieces and then spending time with her children while they eat. Also, just because she isn't smiling the whole time doesn't mean that she'd rather be somewhere else. Man, y'all are acting like if you aren't freaking Betty Crocker, you're a shitty mom and it's ridiculous. The internet is such a disgusting, judgmental place. The way people are throwing accusations like this around about someone they don't even know is just crazy.
Like another commenter, not defending her, but custody orders are firm, and if they aren’t followed the parent breaking the custody order will lose custody of the kid, and emergency courts don’t always help… shit they have my daughter to my multiple convicted child abusing father… who is a sociopath… and I don’t have the money to fight it… I haven’t seen her since she was around 1 yr old… she will now be 16 and all the way in Montana, im in washington state…. Did I abuse pain killers…. Yes… but I had a warrant for missing court because I was in emergency surgery and I got pulled over driving and got arrested and I went through 3 different jails, I asked 2 of my sisters to go pick up my baby and he wouldn’t answer the door… he went to emergency court saying I was a hooker addicted to heroin (which I’ve done neither) and he got custody that way… and I fought it for years….
Hey I would maybe look into polyamory a bit more before making judgements. Polyamorous relationships are like any other relationship, sometimes they work sometimes they don’t. I’d be like saying that just because you see divorces that means that marriage can never work out. That’s not true, at the end of the day what matters is the people in the relationship and their communication, I’ve heard about many successful polyamours relationships.
I'm sorry, but why are you making response videos when your SEVEN YEAR OLD is self harming? Some of yall need to get off the internet and focus on your kids. Something is clearly wrong if that's the case, and if it's the fault of his father, this needs to be handled! That being said....Keep your parenting and kids off TikTok, maybe? Like kids grow up and will be able to see all the shit that was said about this situation. Her son will grow up and realize that his mother told the world about that hospital visit and so many people have comments on it. It's okay to keep shit to ourselves sometimes
Nah of course, people were mainly mad over the frequency of highly processed foods and deliberate bare minimum attitude she has while making the meals. It felt like she was doing it purposely for the outrage views, which would be one thing, but the kids actually end up eating those meals...so.
The issue is that it’s not the exception it’s seemingly the norm. Highly processed, sugary, simple carbohydrate foods, little fresh fruit or veg, or whole grains.
Look I’ll be blunt, you are out of line when it comes to the kids stuff. The courts aim for 50-50, regardless of what they want. You can’t go against those orders. This could look like even less time with her. Emergency orders are for emergencies, a kid saying ‘I don’t want to go there’ isn’t enough, she’s in a tough enough spot without you putting your two cents in. That’s not on.
Saying that you will protect your children with violence no matter the gender of the person hurting them is NOT the same thing as being a "woman abuser". I'm sorry but that's a reach. I am not a violent person, AT ALL, but if someone hurts my kids, I turn into a person that no one would want to mess with. So I think it's silly to bring that up as a "gotcha".
He literally said “these hands are rated E for everyone” and people are losing their mind. I don’t get it. Violence isn’t the answer- but I also think it’s hyperbole.
He wasn’t talking about his children?? 🤨 and I didn’t call him a woman abuser. I was commenting on the fact that Alex said that he isn’t violent or would make threats of violence etc, which isn’t true because there’s actually multiple instances of him doing so online and on lives
@@esseaem1451 exactly my point. Thank you. Ammy even said that in her video, so I'm so confused at how she is arguing this point. I feel like she is trying way too hard to "prove" that Alex is lying by throwing comments that were made in their faces as some sort of a "gotcha" and it just isn't okay.
@@nicolegroves6880 this video was weird to me too. The way she said this video wasn’t about proving her wrong, but it was nothing but showing her contradictions. I love Ammy, but sometimes I feel like she comes from a place of privilege and shames moms that aren’t the same as she is without realizing it.
@@luvbeinghiswife1148 that's your opinion and preference though. It doesn't make the other person's relationship wrong just bc you don't want that for yourself. There are quite literally no facts here, these are all matters of opinion. That might be the only fact about this.
@@herefortheshrimp1469 it’s immoral. Relationships are between two consenting adults. This moral relativity is where pedos and bestiality creep in. Just because something “doesn’t hurt anyone else” doesn’t make it okay or right.
@@LauraElizabeth13that’s your opinion. I don’t see anything immoral about it. Don’t compare polyamory to bestiality and pedophila, they are nothing alike.
Isn't alexandra the one that cooked and took care of the kids and the only one with a job??? The other two seem pretty useless. Im.not saying shes mom of the year but those 2 seem like freeloaders.
@@ammyrobinson9171 maybe so but everything that was said is hearsay from a disgruntled ex. I don't see any red flags here, all I see is a heck of a lot of reaching.
@@ammyrobinson9171 also, people are forming opinions of this mother based on the fact that she gave her kids donuts for breakfast. People have already formed an opinion about her based on that and that's incredibly unfair.
@@nicolegroves6880I don’t feel like that’s a fair assumption 🤨 she openly admitted to her kid saying he isn’t happy and doesn’t want to go back to their dads. She also said that the same kid, at aged 7, was taken to the hospital because threats of speech of unaliving - combine all of that and it’s immediately a cause for concern. I think many people have moved past the powdered donuts…
I like her she is real. This is the food I grew up with. Also if you watch her videos her kids are picky and have safe foods. I like what she said at the end. People need to shut up and stop making allegations and picking everything when they can’t control it. They aren’t the parents. And it’s not their life. Why care so much about something you can’t control and hate on someone without getting to know them.
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If she can spend 2 grand on video games and 1 grand on books, she can certainly afford healthy food for her family.
Or a lawyer to get her kid out of danger 👀
As a childcare worker I can confirm she is one of those moms we dread dealing with. Those poor babies.
She's not a regular mom she's an abusive mom
Her 7 year old tried to UNALIVE himself because he’s THAT unhappy - there is ZERO chance that he’s not being abused. I’m FUMING that she just dismissed it and sent him back! WTF! Her so. Will never forgive her for that
Typically a 7 yr old is not going to talk about unaliveing themselves without reason. IMO there is likely significant abuse going on. Her sending that child back to a place where he feels unsafe is awful.
Totally agree. My first “medically recorded” suicidal thoughts was just after I turned 8 years old. I was experiencing bad physical abuse by classmates and older students at school. Those thoughts doesn’t just appear, the comprehension of what death means is low at that age and yet you feel like “this is my only way out of this”
@@TasserKaus Exactly. If a child is having thoughts like that there something very very wrong going on. Either at school or at the hands of a family member. Also I am so truly sorry you had to experience that. No child should ever know what suffering is. I do appreciate you sharing your insight though. ❤
In general I don't disagree, but it may be a medical issue as well, not necessarily just a home life situation. While in this case I don't doubt that is the case or at least largely a factor, sometimes mental illness can present really young. My half brother, who had a very normal home life, started expressing really scary self harm ideology at around 5 due to mental health issues. When he started therapy and getting the care he needed, that subsided a lot. Not 100%, but a lot. I'm definitely not saying that there's not something... Bad going on in the case here, bc it seems fishy at best, but I just wanted to express there are a lot of potential factors.
@@DisobedientAvocado82 I’m lucky it happened at school and not at home. Her son must be struggling horribly, his father is likely being abusive, his mother whisks him away and back to his father. They also don’t seem to spend much time with the kids either.
I’m on the verge of tears thinking about her son right now.
I have been fortunate enough to distance/disassociate myself a lot from my childhood, so it’s like remembering something from a book. I don’t get affected by the memories that much anymore :)
I went through severe sa abuse as a child and had my first sh and attempts early. However my 10 year old has severe sensory processing disorder and struggles to even wear clothes these days and he often exresses those thoughts in frustration to what he misses out on. He definitely isn't abused and we're working with multiple people to help but yeah,sometimes it is an illness not caused through parents.
TLDR essentially a mom who made her whole brand being a shitty mom is actually a shitty mom.
She definitely has that "i neglect my kids" vibe about her
Totally agreeeee!!!
Idk why people are pretending like this is just about dOnuTs.
Its clear, obvious neglect and theyre raising a child in a 'throuple' where none but maybe 1 of them is employed. It's gross and she SHOULD be 'shamed' for it.
THANK YOU. Three grown adults AND THATS THE BEST ALL OF YOU HAVE TO GIVE?!?!? 🤡
Right? That was my one and only straw that broke my camel back and she's only proving our point about how bad of a parent she is with everything she said after that
Sooooo true!! I’m not for throuple thing really until your kids are grown or you do it on the dl!
I’m from a hippie town in ny originally full of artists with money and I’ve seen them do throuple? With their free range parenting ha and the kids are ok but confused
And now TikTok brings me this?? this Midwest mess throuple…where no one works or really cares for the kids! What a mess
😢like the person up there said three grown adults and her throwing donuts on a plate is all there is?? This woman is the main reason I hate TikTok but boy do they show the worst of America ha 😅
And now the girlfriend left and the Boyfriend followed behind her right after to be with her so they got what they wanted and used Alex for anything they could get and now she has to deal with the fact she spent 90% of her tax money on herself and mostly them and maybe 10% of it on the kids ! I bet she feels ridiculous about now! Should have been the other way around and the kids getting money spent on them for their needs and wants! Some nice namebrand clothes for once she obviously can afford , Fresh and nutritious food, and then whatever else they need. She literally was choosing them because I think she’s terrified of being single and alone over her kids :(
@@blondeleviathan4649 what a shame it doesn’t look like kids are getting much of this! It blows my mind people donate to her blows my mind!! 😡
It’s not just about one doughnut! It’s about multiple, unhealthy meals and a very lazy attitude towards parenting! It’s gross and so is her silky mom take! It’s offensive and this is why kids behave the way they do today! If you don’t want to invest the time to be a good parent then don’t have kids! They don’t ask to be born and if you’re going to have them maybe invest the time to give them the best life possible!
What’s offensive??
I didn't want to judge when she pulled out chicken nuggets and fries from a plastic container cause hey, we have those days- but now with the stuff, I feel like she just cooks all at once, pushes it into a plastic container and warms it up later which is the worst thing to do for a child
@@goingferalluvs it depends on what it is, like stew/soup or frozen pancake mix stuff that a kid can heat up them self's is a good idea but that shouldn't be everything as people should teach there kids how to cook and how to make cheap but good meals for when they go to collage/school/moveout
I consider myself a silky mom. Which means I utilize modern medicine, technology, vaccinate my kids, allow them to learn from trusted sources other than my own narrow brain, I may or may not work outside of the home, preschool is okay but I did limit it to half days because I was fortunate enough to be able to, I used shampoo from the drugstore, bottle fed (I would have breastfed but it didn’t work out, and I didn’t feel guilty for feeding my babies how I could). But we eat healthy food, if I need a break with prepared food I get a rotisserie chicken or something and a salad mix, maybe some precooked veggies for a side! Nothing wrong with frozen vegetables in a pinch, some rice and pasta is fine, pre boiled eggs and fruit for breakfast is just as easy as donuts and my kids loved them. They’re grown now and they are health conscious with their food choices but not overly so.
She got paid and spent $2200 on games??!! Unlikely!! She probably got her tax return and is spending it frivolously
If I was her I wouldn't for one say that on tik talk for 1) second ) I would save some and spend it on the kids like clothes buy whatever they need. !!! I just don't say it on tik talk! There is this saying not all that you do should go on social media like tik talk or RUclips, or Instagram!!!!
Wait, isn't the man she's a relationship with the father of one or more of the children? And even if he's stepdad, shouldn't he be helping Alexandra with the children? On one hand I am happy that she came forward to address the serious allegations of child abuse and neglect, but I feel she has to address everything here.
Alexandra should be having a conversation with her son. If her son is saying that a parent is abusing them, you've got to believe them. You don't send them back to their abuser. Get the courts involved and get custody. Fight for your child.
Yeah he’s the father to the youngest (I think) happy for someone to correct x
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She’s def not a cool mom. She is a miserable mom
If she has one child it is too many.
Alleging abuse AFTER they break up is highly suspicious to me. so you witnessed this abuse and didn’t say anything? Report it to the appropriate authorities instead of using ABUSE for internet clout. I can understand staying quiet for your safety but she went immediately to the internet when they broke up?
I think this lady and her bf should be investigated but that other lady doesn’t seem innocent either imo.
Thank you for saying what I was thinking.
Yeah if she has reason to believe that her child might have been hurt or abused by their other parent and has continued to send them to their house then CPS need to be called in immediately!
You can’t just not let a child decide in some cases. Especially if there’s a court order. You can be found in contempt of court. She needs to petition for a change to the order. The court will probably order a guardian ad litem. It sucks and you want to do what the kid asks but you have to follow the order
Yeah this is true, surely you can apply for emergency hearing in the case of the child claiming neglect etc. I know you can over here x
@@ammyrobinson9171 you can. I watch a lot of court hearings on RUclips. I’ve seen some “emergency” filings take at least 30 days to be heard.
I don’t think people realize it takes time to do these things. Unless there is OUTRIGHT abuse, an emergency hearing isn’t going to be granted. A 7 yo can’t make that decision by himself to not go back.
Not defending this person - but custody orders are firm - if a parent violates it they lose custody - my son had spent 20000 to just have a fair custody agreement
Finally someone else said it too, THANK YOU !!!
No they get contempt of court. That is the most that can happen. She needs to go in for an emergency hearing period, no damn excuses!!! She can get that child of hers a representative with the court, have him evaluated etc. This is just absurd. She and all are failing him!!!
It is a rough call, honestly. She can't keep him at home without a court order because she can lose custody/go to jail. There is even a popular set of videos on RUclips about this situation. Teenage son refused to return and dad didn't make him and he lost custody, went to jail and had to fight for years to get custody. However, if he wants to leave, then she should be returning to the courts for a new judgment.
Send the kid but make a report and call adamn lawyer in the mea while. Document and call cps. Call the teachers and have them make a report or talk to the child.
So go get one and a court appointed representative for her child!!!
This is over more than just the foods she’s playing.
It’s about prioritising the children and how Alex doesn’t time and time again. From them sleeping on the floor while bragging on her 900 dollar barns and Nobel haul, Walmart and game stop haul.
James saying “my hands are bi sexual when it comes to defending my partner”. He was threatening to assault people. In writing.
I’m not saying do crimes, but don’t write down your damn crimes!
She also says she wants full time custody because bio dad is abusive. She sent him back despite him threatening to KHS. Because of his private school? I’m sorry no private school prestige is going to matter if the child is in a god damn coffin.
Yeah it’s the sending kids back to dad when the kid is saying he doesn’t want to, that I find very concerning 😞
@@ammyrobinson9171 I mean, I remember absolutely HATING school. Even my primary school head teacher in a meeting commented that he worried what they were doing wrong that I came in head held high and bouncy and left little shoulders scrunched and so defeated.
I get kids don’t always want to go where they have to go.
But this isn’t that. This is a parent stating the other is abusive, on social media no less, and proceeding to return her child to that environment knowing what is likely to happen there.
This is no different to a parent failing to supervise a child swimming in a pool, or not knowing where their child is roaming the street. It doesn’t matter that you check in daily, you are putting them in a dangerous situation, in which the supervision is not appropriate and the outcome is almost inevitably one of negative impact on the child.
Man I’m so furious over this. Sorry.
@@ammyrobinson9171 is there a custody agreement? You usually cannot just withhold visitation in a custody agreement without legal action.
@@thesensationaladventuresof1150 there’s a huge difference between a KID AT SCHOOL and a LEGALLY BINDING ENFORCEABLE CUSTODY AGREEMENT. You cannot just decide to withhold a child. That results in you being in violation of the custody agreement. Children have been taken away and parental rights terminated over this. The right thing to do in this situation is to document and file for any changes. She’s pretty clear on saying there’s never been proof- so likely a CPS investigation that states no evidence found. That means she cannot withhold him for that purpose without reopening an investigation.
It’s dumb to get so angry over this when she could literally have the police at her door over withholding her child if the father chooses to. It’s considered a form of parental kidnapping.
@@pithygrapefruitnormally if there is a custody agreement and something like this happens the parents is supposed to take the child to police/hospital and request an emergency court hearing. We did this a lot in my family for one of my siblings. Once this has happened enough the child is usually allowed to pick who to stay with or the courts will move primary care to the other parent until at the very least they have investigated. She isn’t even trying.
She could absolutely contact the courts about this and maybe she just doesn't want the spotlight put on her as well if they investigate.
LOOK at her
She is not trolling with that breakfast. That's what they eat.
I grew up with overweight "silky" parents and I promise you she is not trolling with the powdered donuts.
The thing is, sadly, even if your child says they don’t want to see their other parent or accuses them of abuse, in some places you are legally bound to take them there unless you have evidence. Even with evidence sometimes you will be forced to send them - in the UK you are legally bound to allow visitation (albeit, it may be supervised) even if the other parent is convicted of SA-ing them. Channel 4 did a piece on this recently. I don’t know what the law is where she lives though and she should at least have tried to get it investigated.
Yes this is true 😞 I feel like if this has been going on for a little while (no idea on timeframe as she doesn’t say) then maybe something could have been investigated. It’s impossible to know 🤷♀️ but I was shocked by hearing it x
@@ammyrobinson9171do you understand how many kids die in the custody of their abusive parent while the other parent is begging and constantly reporting? While schools and doctors are constantly reporting? You are 100% out of line, if there's a court ordered custody agreement her hands are tied... It's weird to me that you would speak on something you don't know about while being judgemental instead of doing a two minute google search. The child protective system in America as a whole is a disgusting, for profit joke.
@@rebeccasteinke4357 yup, one time my brother had a bruise and my mom took us to go talk to an officer to get it documented where they took pictures and everything, I remember that night when we had to go back and my mom was so worried which was warranted because we did get in trouble badly that night and that next day (I cried all night and even at school that next day it was bad) all while come to find out apparently they didn’t even document it correctly or something? I don’t know I just remember nothing came of it except everybody being mad at us forever because of that and what made it worse was they had people come to our school and talk to us and apparently even my stepmom’s work and everything like it was literally nothing but more trouble for my brother and I. my mom was so pissed tho she said she called them after that tho and went off on the guy who was in charge for putting us in more danger (like they were supposed to help us, not do the exact opposite)
I really want to poke out my mind's eye with the whole "throuple" thing🤢...it's more like "throw-up-le"🤮
Feel for those poor kids and any kids used for money on social media . People would have probably said 8 passengers weren’t that bad at the beginning. Something is definitely off with her .
if these children arent abused emotionally, or physically spanked, they clearly are being abused when it comes to their needs and diet
it's ironic she has 'spread kindness' in her bio but her content is so aggressive lol
LOL wasn't she saying they couldn't afford to feed their kid better but now she got money (prolly from people giving her engagement and monetization on tiktok) AND THE FIRST THING SHE SHOWS BUYING WITH MORE MONEY IS NOT BETTER FOOD FOR HER KID.
also, she definitely already had this money, right? we all agree she definitely already had money to feed her get right cos u don't go from 'i'm poor i can't afford food' to 'let's spend 2k at gamestop (which why would u go to gamestop they're overpriced anyway) and designer candies etc'
polycules are fine, i got no problem with them being polyamorous bc i am myself but my issue with it was there was like some weird breaky uppy, get back togethery whatever it was that seemed like it had potential to blow up and be harmful to someone. 'exposing how they treat the child' yea this is what i was worried about cos there's another throuple running around on there people have spoke about that are VERY weird and not for them all being in a relationship together but just the way they act and excuse their weird behavior for being autistic? or w/e and then also like treating the one's child with severe autism it seems as if she were a pet dog or something. so that's where i was at with them having what seemed like a rocky polyamorous relationship cos it was giving same vibes as those people.
the whole like... 'clearing things up' video is not clearing much up for me. people were saying in other comments about her getting govt assistance but now she's like i do make good money on tiktok but in her videos defending her feeding her kid so much sugar she was like we don't have a lot of money? which is it, dear, do u have money or not? cos if u do can we go back to addressing how u feed ur kid absolute trash and can afford to buy her better foods. i mean really a 4 year old should be eating MINIMAL snacks they should be getting lots of fruits and veggies to grow up healthier and here this kid is looking like she eats sweets for every meal (cos she she shown any other content of her eating actual dinners and breakfasts?)
this is the weirdest fucking video fr. she doesn't sound like a good parent regardless of whatever else is going on. she's admitted at least her kid is uncomfortable with going somewhere and forces him to live somewhere he doesn't wanna live. AND ALSO PRIVATE SCHOOL? i'm gonna have to go back and find the other video cos i SWEAR she said somewhere about how she couldn't afford BETTER FOOD for her daughter bc they didn't have money but ur kid is going to PRIVATE SCHOOL. she's not looking like she's not lying with all this stuff flying around.
WAIT? I missed the whole thing about her SEVEN YEAR OLD? THREATENING HIS OWN LIFE? AND SAYING HE'S UNHAPPY AT HIS DADS AND U LEAVE HIM THERE? ma'am this is not normal. something's happening to that kid if he is seven and saying those things while being forced to live somewhere he doesn't want to....
how do i feel about? it's a bunch of bullshit. none of it made sense. it didn't clear up any 'lies' being told about her it just seemed like it uncovered more concerning things. her platform is gonna collapse real quick after this one cos people aren't playing around anymore with the safety of children after the whole ruby franke shit... stop abusing ur kids. don't have them if u can't take care of them properly or are a psycho that thinks ur doing something good by torturing children.
Shes a compulsive liar. She kept looking away, she couldn't look right into the camera. I got very uncomfortable vibes watching this video.. She looks totally drugged up and not happy... It's just creepy
Honestly, the only time I have seen ANY sign of life behind her eyes is when she does the shopping haul vids.
Giving me Hoarders TV show vibes.😬
Amberlynn reid vibes
@@HackerActivist oh wow, I hadn't thought of that but you're right.
First off, holy crap there is sooo much information being shared that doesnt need to be public knowledge.
Second off, if my child were begging to not go somewhere, i would absolutely not make them go. My childs well-being is my number one priority. If its court ordered, you call the police and the courts. You do absolutely everything in your power to keep your child safe. Shes making up excuses galore, and is talking in circles, its all just talk. You cant say youre your childs number one advocate, then turn around and have your actions show otherwise. I think people need to stop sharing online and need to talk in person. If nothing needs to be said in person, just say nothing. Id consider a lot of this to just be petty drama, but since children are involved, it automatically makes it substantially more serious.
Exactly! I feel like every person aside from the children have acted poorly in this
You can do all that but until the order is changed in court, it will remain!! Sorry, if you try and withhold that order, you go to jail.. Sometimes they can get an emergency court order but not often..CPS can come and do a check but also not likely to stop the court order. That just how that works, until legally changed..
@@askajk5895 and that's a serious issue. I don't think issues like this, regarding children, should be aired out online. If it's an emergency situation I would have the police involved, because there is no way I'd willingly put my child in a dangerous situation. If my child had been crying about going somewhere, I'd have started taking the steps immediately to get a therapist involved and to make sure my child didn't have to be exposed to a situation that they feel unsafe in. Id have proactively taken steps from the get go so I could see the warning signs. If it came on suddenly then I'd be handling it as an emergency. I want to make it clear I'm not judging her personally, I am just not okay with people saying they are their child's biggest advocate, then turning around and having their behavior show otherwise. My childs safety comes before all else, as it should be :) I am sleep deprived so I hope this makes sense haha.
@@askajk5895 shoot I responded but it got deleted. I pretty much said the system is very flawed, but I'd do anything possible to keep my child safe. If it's an emergency I'd get police involved, if it's not, I'd have a therapist involved and the court system from the beginning before it even became an issue, because typically there are signs (unless an emergency). But your right, the system is a mess honestly. I'd do anything and everything to keep my child safe though. Hopefully this one doesn't get flagged by RUclips for some reason. I simplified it a lottt in comparison to what I had typed :/
@@askajk5895 holy moly I've commented twice and they keep disappearing, RUclips can be obnoxious haha. Even more simmered down, the system is a mess. Id protect my child however possible. In an emergency cops would get involved. If I started feeling like something was off I'd get a therapist and the courts involved before it became an even bigger deal. I think this kind of stuff should be handled off the Internet though. Mind you this is condensed down multiple times haha. The system is a mess and it's sad because children are who suffer most. Id do anything and everything to protect my child though :)
I think she needs to be more concerned with her son. Something is wrong with this if a 7 year old is threatening to unalive himself. Figure out what is happening. She doesn't seem to care.
She can 'easily' get a new or emergency custody order, she's just not willing to use her Gamestop money to get an attorney.
@@forgetmeblues Their purpose there is adding emphasis to a word.
If her son is showing those active signs of resistance, something is wrong.
@@forgetmeblues that weeks timeline could've been started and completed by now if she did her duty as a parent instead of microwaving frozen pancakes
@@forgetmeblues If, she, had, taken, the, time, to, do, her, job, as, a, parent, she, could, have, started, the, process, months, ago.
Being completely honest here, if anyone had told me that the polyamorous mother who actively profits off of feeding her kids highly processed meals on social media ignored abuse, violence, and her kids I'd probably believe them without any proof. This woman, that whole family, really gives off the vibes of doing as little as possible to get by because they just don't want to be inconvenienced, over anything, ever.
If she was REALLY financially struggling, She should NOT be buying those powered mini "Dounettes"... They're like $6 a bag. 🙄
I know, heaven forbid poor people have sweets
You are not forced to enroll your kids in the school district you live in. If for some reason you find it inadequate or you just want to enroll your kid in a different school you can get an inter district transfer. I got heavily bullied at the nearby school so my parents enrolled me in a school I chose in the neighboring town. If her kids are already enrolled in the school near their dad’s house all she should have to do is change the address on file and ask for inter district transfer paperwork if needed. There is no need for a kid to live in a house they aren’t comfortable in where there is another option.
Yes you are correct. But then they would be responsible for transportation. If they are approved to transfer.
This is most definitely not the case everywhere fyi- there was a really sad case last year of a mother being arrested for trying this
The way she feeds them is mistreating them to be honest. You can’t feed a child that much and all sugar and carbs without it doing some damage . If you are knowingly giving them that stuff then you are knowingly mistreating them. Secondly , you’re confusing the crap out of them at this point don’t you think ? You tell them this is their family and then they watch that blow up and a family member is put out . Then what ? Another family member comes along and they never see the old one ? Lastly, everything else. Just everything. Way to handle everything 🙄
Okay, another thing. If the child is unhappy with the other parent and the other parent has partial custody, there is NOTHING mom can do about it. Things don't work the same in the US as they do in the UK. Maybe the kid doesn't want to go to the dad's house because his father is stricter than the mom, maybe he doesn't let him play video games as often? You just don't know what the details are. Unless the child is blatantly saying that he is being abused, there isn't a damn thing that can be done about it. Wow, I am shocked at this video!
It's really hard to speak about what is happening here because this is Alexandra's child, but let me just say that when I was seven years old, I knew that my bio dad was abusive. I even told teachers and family members about what was happening. If the child did say at the age of seven that he was being abused by dad, then he knows the difference between a strict parent who is being annoying and an abuser.
@@TiffWafflesyes, if there's any suspicion that there may be abuse going on it needs to be investigated and the child needs to be believed.
@@TiffWaffles I didn’t hear anything about the kid telling teachers that he was abused. I heard that he didn’t want to go to his dad’s house. My point is that even if the kid is saying that he doesn’t want to be there, it’s unfortunately not up to him because his father has partial custody. If mom violates the custody agreement she can get into a lot of trouble and even be charged with kidnapping. It’s not like she can just decide that he’s not going there anymore, it all has to go through the court.
@@powderandpaint14 I absolutely agree. But that was never said. All that was said is that the child doesn’t like going there and there could be a multitude of reasons for that other than abuse.
I feel for this child. I've struggled with suicidal ideation since I was seven because of abusive family. And I remember when I wouldn't go to school my mother would threaten to send me to live with my dad's if I didn't behave (of whom I was terrified).
Holy COW, When that Blue-Blob man jumped in the frame he was mean-muggin that candy, like he was absolutely brain damaged! 🤪🍭🍬
I grew up in Eastern Kentucky, very rural area. My mother was a coal miners daughter and I'm a coal miners daughter. I see so much waste of food, my mother got food by passing truck drivers throwing out fruit and snacks to little, dirty children. We have lost our way, it's sad.
it was never about donuts and people who tried to make it about fat shaming or shaming low income people should be ashamed of themselves.
Accusations only coming out after a breakup when it's not about the relationship itself but relating to the kids and how they're treated, um, seems a bit off. If they'd stayed together, I don't see this person having an issue, when if you know kids are in danger, you can report it, or bring it up with the rise of her tiktok or both. accuser's friend was in the relationship with her own kid too. right? so, if this is true, that friend and the accuser also don't care about the safety of the kids involved. I've dealt with a lot of things in this vein regarding children and the big A word as well as the parents and relationship dynamics.
Even my old friend found out a very close friend of hers for a LONG time, her kid was being SAd by the dad. first she talked to the mom. the mom decided to "forgive" him and did nothing. So my friend went to the family. the kid's grandpa went with my friend to report to the police/cps. The mom tried to cover it up and cut ties with my friend, her dad, etc.
Maybe the accuser in the video is also a piece of garbage but is telling the truth. idk. this feels like a reddit post; ESH.
Edit: none of this is in defense of anyone, more like added thoughts on the whole situation. My only care is the truth and wellbeing of kids involved. It seems like no one has their best interests that's close to the family without a huge bias either way.
taking from a food bank while spending 2k on games is so vile. your kids want to feel energized and happy not play more video games. their gut microbiomes must be on life support not a green vegetable in sight
I’m sorry but healthy choices aren’t as expensive as people complain. Just lazy.
He could totally unenroll in private school and go to a different private school...if the kid is that is unhappy there is a problem
As a mother who has a daughter who suffers from pmdd and has severe spirals, the kid was taken to the hospital for SH, she then made him go to his dads afterwards in order to go to school the next day?!?! Um wtf? That child would have come home with me and there would have been some very real conversations. But what really pisses me off, she had to have LIED to the nurses and doctors about his injury or SH bc he is a minor and that absolutely would have been a call to child services and a social worker would have been brought in immediately. Both parents would have been interviewed as well as the child. My own daughter is 17 and my son is 19. Their stepmother is verbally abusive and father is an alcoholic. Two years ago my daughter asked to go to her friends bc she didn’t want to be around ppl drinking, it’s a massive trigger for her. So her step,pm drove her 40 minutes. Yelled and degraded her till my daughter had an anxiety attack and blacked out. My daughter’s friend calls me asking me to come with the inhaler. She has asthma, thankfully I was 10 min away. Her inhaler was left in her stepmother’s car. Neither child has been back to their home or spoken to him. He doesn’t care at all bc he will defend his wife over our children every single time. I have never spanked or talked down to my kids. I live with childhood trauma and I don’t want that for them. I e made sure they got the therapy they need to heal and know that it’s not their fault he is nonexistent. They are children and he’s the adult.
WOW I think you need some help
She says she makes money on tiktok there's no one to report too. Ummm the IRS dear....you still have to pay taxes and I'm sure she's not. Js.
This is pure neglect and as society we need to do better with raising future generations. Smh
Couple or throuple: ITS NOT THE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP THATS THE PROBLEM RATHER THE TYPE OF PEOPLE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. in the 5 years i’ve worked in early childhood education i’ve taught a few kids who parents were in a throuple honestly it really depends on the parents how it effects the child i’ve met children who were beyond loved and cared for all three adults worked good jobs they all seemed to care for the children appropriately the kids frequently came into class sharing fun stories of what their family did over the weekend they were always clean had amazing lunches and you could definitely tell those kids were loved and the family functioned well together. However i’ve also seen kids who’s parents were in a throuple and it gave off the energy of adults who had kids young and refuse to grow up making decisions that benefit them rather than the child spending too much time trying to catch up on the life they missed out on because they had a baby before they were ready & now that they’re in school they are experiencing more freedom than they have in a while and getting carried away by it and seem to almost forget about the child and their social emotional needs. THAT BEING SAID I SEE THE SAME THING FROM PARENTS IN “TRADITIONAL” RELATIONSHIPS.
11:45 that breaks my heart!!!!!
My daughter is 9 and when she would go to her dad’s she would ask me: how many more days till I’m with you again?
So with her she just liked me better, but I think it was because he was stricter than me.
Obviously this is a very different situation with that hospital visit. That says a lot.
This entire video felt like picking holes in her story, so it’s fine to post it but don’t say you’re not trying to pick holes- otherwise I don’t think the entire video would be showing “proof” of contradictions.
The kids will either grow up defying the odds, OR ending up just like them. Statistics- maybe 1 child will be alright, and the others will be like them. FAILED
I don’t trust people who only come out with these claims after they break up. You’re telling me all this abuse happened but you did nothing to stop it? Report it? Nope. Credibility is gone for me if they also make public outcry’s on social media like this but never file a police report and let it actually get investigated. If anyone was abusing kids in my presence there would be immediate consequences. Saving this as payback or something is just tacky and doesn’t help me believe the allegations.
I’m also not claiming the chick is a good mom. I’ve never gone to her channel, ive only seem maybe 2 or 3 clips on reaction/commentary videos like this. There’s no excuse to ever hurt a child and I don’t know if she did or not. But I do get vibes that she might be lazy/grumpy but she isn’t evil or purposely trying to hurt people. The allegation of her not waking up with her kids could be true, but that still doesn’t make her a bad mom. If there are 2 capable adults also in the house why is it only her responsibility? If they’re all a couple then they should all be raising the kids equally. Another thing to consider is depression. I mean, we can all agree she doesn’t come across as the happiest person….not wanting to get out of bed, losing interest in her partners/kids, to me those sound like symptoms of a bigger problem, like postpartum, and any caring partner would want you to get healthy, not blast your personal stuff online for attention. I can see why she would be depressed with her home life and then also add internet comments and trolls, smh. I just don’t have the desire to record my life so seeing others who are “normal” do it never makes sense to me. I hope she can just log off and focus on herself and her kids. If they are abusive though I hope those kids are protected and the parents can get the proper punishment and education on child care.
I fed my kid crap like she did and now he's overweight and I'm trying to change things and it is hard!
Happy Easter 🐣
I’m sure (the other ) gal is quite hurt and I believe her …but this was quite a grift they all started on TikTok it’s what scares the F out of me about TikTok!! Also another ex of what happens when a Midwest poor throuple comes into money!!
James looks like the typical 18 yr old BOY so I’m actually surprised by looking at him…that he would touch a woman!? 😖 This woman existed on govt assistance until she KNEW she had a monthly TikTok check! This is what’s scary? RUclips she wouldn’t make money on! But on Tik tok? They live for this trash! But now she’s getting WISHLISTS which makes me sick!!
I had anemia but the only time my lips turned blue is when I had pneumonia 😅 ugh this woman is such a mess!! The fact she has to act like the grumpy mom then brings out her happy nice smiling shopping addicted side when people send her money….ammy thank god you do TikTok so I don’t have to!! Ha this is the icky parts of America
If there is a custody agreement she would be charged with kidnapping, they would take the kid anyway & she might lose custody permanently as well as go to jail. Literally grow up, people. Life is complicated it’s not everyone’s delusion
Am I the only who noticed it seems like she is reading from a list… and looking up at her man for confirmation on what she’s saying…..
You can’t just not let the kids go to dads. We didn’t want to go to my dad’s he was extremely abusive. Every time she tried to keep us home the cops came and forced us to go with him or arrest her.
She cant keep him from dad.
Ive never been in a throuple, but the bit about having multiple parents is kinda wrong im ngl. Guy i was a nanny for has a long term GF, and i was there all the time, and was best friends with the parents. The kids loved always having someone to talk to, play with, if they were scared to tell their dad something they could always come to me and id help them come clean. I grew up with multiple mother figures along side my mom, and i loved it as well, my moms not gay, but always has had close bonds with other women. Her, my other moms, they taught me a lot, how to be a nice person, amanda taught me to draw, Meg taught me to trust, my mom gave me my love of animals and cooking and going outside, i never had a dad, so having so many wonderful women step into my life, and be there for me, was super important and a life saver. And id still choose them over havinf a dad any day, i love my moms
Why would you bring this kind of attention to yourself ? What's wrong with people ?? This generation loves drama ..
Food bank has way better food than that
I don't really know this situation, but I will say, the only reason this person is getting so much criticism of her parenting is because she has it on display on tiktok. She's far from the worst parent out there and our foster care system is SO bad, so... Is it the goal of the tiktok community to have her kids taken from their parents? I mean, tiktok isn't the place where anyone should be giving or receiving parenting advice, and I know that legitimately abusive behavior can be discovered there, but I just don't think this is it. There are kids out there, unfortunately, who have it much worse than her kids I'm sure.
Whether the reasons stated are true or not, why did this person not come forward to protect and help the kids until now? If you gave a crap about the way they were treated why didn’t you come forward before? If they hadn’t been broken up with, their treatment would be ok??
That's not what happened. The friend did report it before anything was publicly disclosed. She came out publicly after James threatened to choke her and after Alex refused to do her part in keeping her son safe. This whole situation has turned very messy really fast with so many assumptions.
Lose the damn place in private school, you’re about to lose your child . Fucking think about it .
Usually you need to be on food stamps to get food bank boxes
Where? Food banks never discriminate
Those foods are unhealthy, but the internet overreacted/mom shamed.
She deserves to be mom shamed. She doesn't care about those children and it's clear by how she just doesn't care about what they are eating. She's not even being a mother. So mom shaming what, exactly?
Oh you doorknob, your so dumb. She isnt being mom shamed, shes being criticized for forcing her kids to eat unhealthy
@@TiffWafflesAgreed. It’s not “mom-shaming” to point out this dietary neglect. Less unhealthy options exist at similar (if not lower) prices.
I think it is so ridiculous that people were upset over the fact that she feeds her kids donuts for breakfast. Maybe she doesn't give her kids the healthiest foods but can we not appreciate the fact that this woman takes the time to cook for her children and lovingly plate it, obviously spends time with her children and is a loving mother???? It's hard enough being a mom these days with society constantly telling us that we aren't enough if we don't make sure our kids are eating 25 vegetables and fruits a day and everything made from scratch, and you better not let them have any screen time, and how many activities are you taking them to? They have to be enriched and learning constantly and make sure your house is spotless but not too spotless because you don't want people to think that you don't let your kids have any fun! The list goes on and on and on! It's exhausting!
Totally agree... so many kids go without food atleast she feeds her kids.
Lovingly plated it??? She throws a plastic contained lid on the counter looking like she would be ANYWHERE but there. Did we watch the same videos?
"at least she feeds her kids" is the lowest possible bar for parenthood. Surely you see a chasm between starvation and "feed your kid 25 servings of vegetables a day" that doesn't involve enough sugar to send a kid into diabetes.
LOL, you’re joking, right?
@@bulbasaurusthe7th841Yes, lovingly, because she isn't throwing the plates at her kids, that's for the camera. She is taking the time to cook the food, plate the food, cut it into bite size pieces and then spending time with her children while they eat. Also, just because she isn't smiling the whole time doesn't mean that she'd rather be somewhere else. Man, y'all are acting like if you aren't freaking Betty Crocker, you're a shitty mom and it's ridiculous. The internet is such a disgusting, judgmental place. The way people are throwing accusations like this around about someone they don't even know is just crazy.
Also there's literally nothing wrong with raising kids in a throuple, as long as your properly raising them and not abusing or neglecting them
Like another commenter, not defending her, but custody orders are firm, and if they aren’t followed the parent breaking the custody order will lose custody of the kid, and emergency courts don’t always help… shit they have my daughter to my multiple convicted child abusing father… who is a sociopath… and I don’t have the money to fight it… I haven’t seen her since she was around 1 yr old… she will now be 16 and all the way in Montana, im in washington state…. Did I abuse pain killers…. Yes… but I had a warrant for missing court because I was in emergency surgery and I got pulled over driving and got arrested and I went through 3 different jails, I asked 2 of my sisters to go pick up my baby and he wouldn’t answer the door… he went to emergency court saying I was a hooker addicted to heroin (which I’ve done neither) and he got custody that way… and I fought it for years….
Hey I would maybe look into polyamory a bit more before making judgements. Polyamorous relationships are like any other relationship, sometimes they work sometimes they don’t. I’d be like saying that just because you see divorces that means that marriage can never work out. That’s not true, at the end of the day what matters is the people in the relationship and their communication, I’ve heard about many successful polyamours relationships.
"heard about?"
HAPPY AND HEALTHY CHILDREN DO NOT THRÉATEN THEIR LÏVES! ESPECIALLY AT THE AGE OF 7! W T F
I'm sorry, but why are you making response videos when your SEVEN YEAR OLD is self harming? Some of yall need to get off the internet and focus on your kids. Something is clearly wrong if that's the case, and if it's the fault of his father, this needs to be handled!
That being said....Keep your parenting and kids off TikTok, maybe? Like kids grow up and will be able to see all the shit that was said about this situation. Her son will grow up and realize that his mother told the world about that hospital visit and so many people have comments on it. It's okay to keep shit to ourselves sometimes
regardless of everything else, there’s nothing wrong with a “special” breakfast like donuts every once in a while
Nah of course, people were mainly mad over the frequency of highly processed foods and deliberate bare minimum attitude she has while making the meals. It felt like she was doing it purposely for the outrage views, which would be one thing, but the kids actually end up eating those meals...so.
The issue is that it’s not the exception it’s seemingly the norm. Highly processed, sugary, simple carbohydrate foods, little fresh fruit or veg, or whole grains.
Look I’ll be blunt, you are out of line when it comes to the kids stuff. The courts aim for 50-50, regardless of what they want. You can’t go against those orders. This could look like even less time with her. Emergency orders are for emergencies, a kid saying ‘I don’t want to go there’ isn’t enough, she’s in a tough enough spot without you putting your two cents in. That’s not on.
Saying that you will protect your children with violence no matter the gender of the person hurting them is NOT the same thing as being a "woman abuser". I'm sorry but that's a reach. I am not a violent person, AT ALL, but if someone hurts my kids, I turn into a person that no one would want to mess with. So I think it's silly to bring that up as a "gotcha".
He literally said “these hands are rated E for everyone” and people are losing their mind. I don’t get it. Violence isn’t the answer- but I also think it’s hyperbole.
He wasn’t talking about his children?? 🤨 and I didn’t call him a woman abuser. I was commenting on the fact that Alex said that he isn’t violent or would make threats of violence etc, which isn’t true because there’s actually multiple instances of him doing so online and on lives
@@ammyrobinson9171 he was commenting on protecting his children at the time I do believe. Though I do not condone the comment. That was the context.
@@esseaem1451 exactly my point. Thank you. Ammy even said that in her video, so I'm so confused at how she is arguing this point. I feel like she is trying way too hard to "prove" that Alex is lying by throwing comments that were made in their faces as some sort of a "gotcha" and it just isn't okay.
@@nicolegroves6880 this video was weird to me too. The way she said this video wasn’t about proving her wrong, but it was nothing but showing her contradictions. I love Ammy, but sometimes I feel like she comes from a place of privilege and shames moms that aren’t the same as she is without realizing it.
How is saying a throuple is wrong divisive? Anyone who defends that is seriously confused.
Facts.
I do not share.😂
What exactly is “wrong” about it? A throuple is literally just 3 consenting adults wanting to love each other. Yall act like they’re hurting someone
@@luvbeinghiswife1148 that's your opinion and preference though. It doesn't make the other person's relationship wrong just bc you don't want that for yourself. There are quite literally no facts here, these are all matters of opinion. That might be the only fact about this.
@@herefortheshrimp1469 it’s immoral. Relationships are between two consenting adults. This moral relativity is where pedos and bestiality creep in. Just because something “doesn’t hurt anyone else” doesn’t make it okay or right.
@@LauraElizabeth13that’s your opinion. I don’t see anything immoral about it. Don’t compare polyamory to bestiality and pedophila, they are nothing alike.
Isn't alexandra the one that cooked and took care of the kids and the only one with a job??? The other two seem pretty useless.
Im.not saying shes mom of the year but those 2 seem like freeloaders.
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all this over giving her some donuts for breakfast huh. the internet is a cancer. pathetic.
Powdered donut gate and this situation are entirely different
@@ammyrobinson9171 maybe so but everything that was said is hearsay from a disgruntled ex. I don't see any red flags here, all I see is a heck of a lot of reaching.
@@ammyrobinson9171 also, people are forming opinions of this mother based on the fact that she gave her kids donuts for breakfast. People have already formed an opinion about her based on that and that's incredibly unfair.
@@nicolegroves6880I feel like it’s about donuts period and now anything anyone says is believable because powdered donuts and that’s not fair.
@@nicolegroves6880I don’t feel like that’s a fair assumption 🤨 she openly admitted to her kid saying he isn’t happy and doesn’t want to go back to their dads. She also said that the same kid, at aged 7, was taken to the hospital because threats of speech of unaliving - combine all of that and it’s immediately a cause for concern. I think many people have moved past the powdered donuts…
Need a big bed to fit the 3 of them 😳🫢
You said do do! Haha
This is so dumb. She’s obviously not feeding them all this stuff.
TikTok drama sucks these days but maybe that’s a good thing.
I like her she is real. This is the food I grew up with. Also if you watch her videos her kids are picky and have safe foods. I like what she said at the end. People need to shut up and stop making allegations and picking everything when they can’t control it. They aren’t the parents. And it’s not their life. Why care so much about something you can’t control and hate on someone without getting to know them.