I Will Not Take It Anymore! Being A Bad Mom? Honest Chats, Face Lasers, NSVs| Half of Carla

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Комментарии • 57

  • @vv-pn9rl
    @vv-pn9rl 3 месяца назад +27

    Ughh those people are so blind. To me it seems you're a lovely and warm person and you have a very good balance of work, family and hobbies - and I love watching everything you choose to share with us. I appreciate that you take care of yourself and your privacy and that you have boundaries. Keep being you, you rock! ❤❤

  • @wendygaonach3908
    @wendygaonach3908 3 месяца назад +15

    I agree with your decisions wholeheartedly. My son is grown up now, but I always signed the forms for him not to appear in public photos at his school. You're doing the right thing. And you do need to do things for yourself. If dancing brings you joy, and as someone with a similar background, (early dancer, became overweight, stopped, and then lost weight as an adult), I applaud you finding that - it keeps us sane and makes you a better mum, I think! I used to go to the gym when mine was young, and it did keep me sane. You keep doing what you're doing! I find your videos refreshing - loved the comment about the litter trays and vomit - I have three cats... need I say more? Best wishes from a Canadian in Brittany!

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад

      Awe thank you so much Wendy. Which part of Brittany are you in? x

    • @wendygaonach3908
      @wendygaonach3908 3 месяца назад

      @@HalfofCarla I'm near Le Faouet, which is in Morbihan 56 on the border of Finistere 29. Nearest bigger towns are Quimperle 29, where my son went to Lycee, and Lorient. I love watching your videos, because my husband is Breton, but lived in Canada for 20+ years, so there's a lot of commonalities, even if I'm a lot older at 61 (much less in my head!) Take care and enjoy the early years! ox

  • @MelissasVintageRecipes
    @MelissasVintageRecipes 3 месяца назад +16

    Why in the world would people infer anything about your parenting based on your dancing? Everybody who is a parent needs outlets that don’t involve or include their kids. Enjoy your dancing ❤

  • @buniversum1110
    @buniversum1110 3 месяца назад +11

    Unfortunately for many people it’s about quantity time not quality time with your kids. Many women are still downtrodden by marriage and kids and lately working full time. Many people get triggered by someone who clearly loves their child but also has time for self- care. This should be the norm not the exception. You are not wrong society is.

  • @bramberm662
    @bramberm662 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for helping me to show up for myself after years of neglecting myself to put my kids first, I’m walking everyday and making conscious food choices so that I’m happier with how I look when I have a big birthday in a couple of months’ time!
    All previous attempts failed but you hit the right note between being informative and encouraging ⭐️
    Keep up the good work, you are making a difference to people 💜🖤💜🖤

  • @LaureninGermany
    @LaureninGermany 3 месяца назад +9

    Carla, you help so many people with your content, myself included. I can never express how grateful I am to you for sharing so much online. You honestly have changed my life.
    I hope you get brand deals coming out of your ears.
    And dance in or out of your knickers, those who don‘t like should scroll on by. Brannock is here because you did what was right for you and your body. I‘m sure he loves his mummy‘s happy smiling face when she‘s been dancing.

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much Lauren, he loves to watch me dance! He loves music and dances around the place himself xx

  • @bettymaugeri7316
    @bettymaugeri7316 3 месяца назад +3

    Why do people watch videos for the purpose of ridicule!!! I find your videos helpful, fun, motivating and I thank you for your willingness to share with us. 👏

  • @EnjoyingLifeMelanie
    @EnjoyingLifeMelanie 3 месяца назад +1

    Dancing is a FABULOUS way to maintain physical activity which is imperative to maintaining weight loss. The time you spend dancing is like, as you said, someone playing golf or working out at the gym or jogging. If they enjoy that, good for them. I'd rather pluck my hair out one strand at a time. Ah, but dancing is wonderful. I, personally, love ballroom dancing, but alas, one must have a second person for that. I'm thrilled you found a dance you can do that you enjoy, and from which you reap the healthy benefits. On my mother's gravestone, it says "Step Shuffle Ballchange." Obviously, she loved dancing also. If you love it, it is healthy physically and emotionally. You go girl.

  • @brittanies.3831
    @brittanies.3831 3 месяца назад +8

    Please don't feel the need to explain yourself and if you can, try not to internalize comments from cowards.
    I know it sounds cliche, but the type of people making those types of comments are some of the saddest and most miserable people in the world.
    Any one who has been a loving mother understands that we cannot pour from
    an empty cup. You are an EXTREME motivation and I'm so glad you've decided to share part of your journey with us. The MAJORITY of us are so grateful. ❤ Keep up the amazing work!

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so so much xx

  • @lollypop3718
    @lollypop3718 3 месяца назад +5

    You've changed my life in so many ways... I am forever grateful...💖💖💖💄💄💄

  • @lyndafitzgibbon6393
    @lyndafitzgibbon6393 3 месяца назад +3

    HAPPY Easter Carla ,ur an inspiration ,don't ever forget that 🖤❤️🖤

  • @jessicacarpentier4124
    @jessicacarpentier4124 3 месяца назад +2

    I love your vlogs! Keep being true to yourself and real! Thank you for sharing your life with us :)

  • @juliannam9521
    @juliannam9521 3 месяца назад +1

    You are amazing, beautiful (gorgeous!), successful, kind, and a great mother! You inspire so many and you are living a great life with passion and purpose. I know it is hard, but keep doing and being you! ❤❤❤

  • @sharonswink3234
    @sharonswink3234 3 месяца назад +1

    Carla, I love to watch your dancing and can tell it brings you joy and confidence. As a mother of grown children and one with special needs, you can not pour from an empty cup. You need time to yourself and to do things just for you so you can give your best to your son. Do not feel the need to apologize for that. You have helped me so much with my own negative self talk and trying to Kickstart my weight loss journey.

  • @DawnG-fz9jh
    @DawnG-fz9jh 3 месяца назад +2

    Only recently found your Chanel & I’m enjoying catching up on the vlogs. Keep doing what you do & ignore the moaners and arm chair critics. You are doing a grand job and are a true inspiration. Keep enjoying the dancing, it’s great for mind & body.

  • @MadieAndNatesPlayTime
    @MadieAndNatesPlayTime 3 месяца назад

    You are a gift to everyone who gets to see a glimpse of what you share in your life, spirit, encouragement, determination, inspiration, and kindness. I wish I was as brave as you are to share so much of myself ❤

  • @kathleenangel8196
    @kathleenangel8196 3 месяца назад

    Love the blossoming ❤

  • @ahaze_
    @ahaze_ 3 месяца назад

    you're awesome! ❤ life is better when you ignore misogynists

  • @switt3203
    @switt3203 3 месяца назад +1

    People are ridiculous🤨! You owe “zero” explanation, however I understand, once and done! You keep doing you and those of us that enjoy your content will continue to watch and support you!🖤🖤🖤

  • @LindaC616
    @LindaC616 3 месяца назад +2

    Keep doing your thing and celebrating you!

  • @Jenny-nz5fh
    @Jenny-nz5fh 3 месяца назад +4

    Even well-known scientists have brand sponsorship of videos. They need to make money to keep posting! What's with the idea that RUclipsrs shouldn't make money? I totally agree with no showing children in posts. Keep that private. I really like your clothing styling tips, even though I am short. I am a graduate BodySlimmer and styling clothes is new to me, so I need help. Thanks for being the vehicle through which I joined BodySlims. It totally changed my life. I really am a different person.

  • @catherinelemaster3883
    @catherinelemaster3883 3 месяца назад

    You do you, Carla! ❤

  • @virginiasellers5914
    @virginiasellers5914 3 месяца назад +3

    I love the dance class, I too love to dance. Keep up the self care, some women forget about themselves after having children. You taking time for self care only makes you a happier mom.

  • @PsychicCheriwynne
    @PsychicCheriwynne 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your journey and especially your love for dancing you look like you could enjoy doing. Cabaret !!!! I live in California and we used to have a thing called Follies and it was for women only could perform and they would dance on stage and they had to be 65 years old and older. It was the greatest show they quit showing it during Covid :/ and it hasn’t come back. It is missed yearly. It is so much fun to watch and so inspiring so keep doing you and it’s a beautiful thing your a good mom to not over share your child
    keep him safe , it’s kind of creepy when people over do that! I never understood that maybe they don’t realize how dangerous that can be !
    At least wait till there a teenager and can make a decision. Keep doing you. You’re amazing.!!

  • @rachelberry6
    @rachelberry6 3 месяца назад

    People are ridiculous. You are amazing.

  • @tiannasicilia4214
    @tiannasicilia4214 3 месяца назад

    People love to project their self judgments and insecurities onto other people. Don’t let them get you down. You’re helping so many people by sharing your experiences.

  • @TransformationinProgrss
    @TransformationinProgrss 3 месяца назад +3

    Happy joyful Easter. I think you’re wish not to share your child online. Your dancing is great, very expressive. Taking time for your own pursuits makes you a better, well rounded Mom. You’re such a great example of taking charge of your life and being fulfilled.

  • @tinjoes1
    @tinjoes1 3 месяца назад

    Oh Carla I’m so sorry that you have had to listen to that rubbish, please please block those people, I honestly believe some people absolutely hate to see others happy, it’s a very sad reflection on them , I absolutely love your vlogs and from what I know about you, I can see how wonderful and loving a mama you are, as for your dancing and dancing outfits, I would love your confidence, as I’ve said before, it’s so obvious how happy dancing makes you , not many people have found their truly happy activity in life and it’s inspiring to see you finding yours,
    You’re my favourite content creator and I’m constantly in awe of your work ethic and you deserve many work opportunities and payment from your consistency and integrity and extraordinary work , I’m here for it all (joanne) 💗💗💗

  • @ursulafobbs9734
    @ursulafobbs9734 3 месяца назад +3

    Darling Carla, it’s been a while since I’ve posted. I’m so glad you’ve made a decision to take care of yourself, enjoy your life and new body, and share that and many aspects of it with the world. Yes people annoy us, but don’t feel the need to explain yourself to the world. You don’t owe anyone anything. If they’ve got issues with what little they see on your vlogs, that’s their issue and they are not the oracle of truth. Keep doing you love. I appreciate you, your vulnerability, and sharing so much with us. I hope to visit Ireland one day ❤

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад

      Thank you so much Ursula xx

  • @trishtappenden4256
    @trishtappenden4256 3 месяца назад +2

    Carla, thank you for all you do! I am sorry you have had to deal with unkindness and idiotic judgement. 🤦‍♀️

  • @mafish7962
    @mafish7962 3 месяца назад +3

    Just be you ❤❤❤

  • @marianhill5801
    @marianhill5801 3 месяца назад +2

    Great vlog Carla keep dancing 💃

  • @janewilson248
    @janewilson248 3 месяца назад +2

    ❤people are just very ridiculous xyou do you !!your amazing and helps many people !!!😊

  • @fmccuu
    @fmccuu 3 месяца назад +1

    I admire that you are working on yourself and building a beautiful life. I’m at a different stage than you and our lives are different. This is perfectly fine. Please don’t allow critics to get you down. I was once criticized as a parent for putting my son on ADHD medication. It helped him and it still helps him to be a productive and successful adult. Everything worked out. Constructive criticism can be helpful if it is delivered kindly. Otherwise criticism is just meanness and you will have to flush it out of your life. Hang in there. ❤

  • @paulahawkins3786
    @paulahawkins3786 3 месяца назад

    I thought your dancing was lovely - you really move like a dancer. And of course you should keep dancing - it makes you happy and one of the greatest gifts a mom can give to their children is a happy mother.

  • @Kat-mh5kj
    @Kat-mh5kj 3 месяца назад +4

    Whoever mentioned that to you, your son,your motherhood,just block them. It's mean and most of times it doesn't comes from a good place.

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +2

      They were blocked immediately xx

  • @toniburch296
    @toniburch296 3 месяца назад

    ❤️❤️

  • @mariemcleod46
    @mariemcleod46 3 месяца назад +3

    I hope you get more brand deals, it is your job. Thank you for always being honest and being you ❤❤❤❤

  • @simoneclarke5104
    @simoneclarke5104 3 месяца назад

    💖💖💖

  • @alexbuchholz7072
    @alexbuchholz7072 3 месяца назад

    hi Carla, after reaching your goal weight and being out of the body slims programm, did you start weight lifting?

  • @margaretteremoana5401
    @margaretteremoana5401 3 месяца назад +1

    ...that's like accusing you of hating bananas because I've never seen you eat one.
    Namely ... mental.
    I *bet* you have a headache because of the additional, unnecessary mental load that had been weighing on you after having to relive the asinine, hateful comments left by people who are honestly, probably very sad in their own space.
    They need a hug.
    It - like so much else we are exposed to - is not a reflection of you, nor of anything you do.
    Sometimes people just don't like mirrors. Metaphorically or actually; looking inwards can be hard.
    Keep being amazing & continue to give nothing like that permission to diminish your shine.
    With much love, respectful admiration & genuine appreciation xxx

  • @susannageorge4739
    @susannageorge4739 3 месяца назад +2

    😮 How dare someone say you are a bad parent because of what you wear to dance in or the type of dance you do? What is the difference in what you wear and a sports bra and skin tight leggings that lots of women wear to gyms? Dance is great exercise so if you prefer that to going to a gym and it gives you confidence, then more power to you. 🥰

  • @lorilee1931
    @lorilee1931 3 месяца назад

    Carla, are you a soft natural in the Kibbe body type system?

  • @carolinepeeters8520
    @carolinepeeters8520 3 месяца назад +1

    🌼💖🌼💖🌼💖🌼💖🌼💖

  • @shawnatwin8150
    @shawnatwin8150 3 месяца назад +1

    🥦 🥕 🥗🥣 💃 🩱🖤🖤🖤

  • @LindaC616
    @LindaC616 3 месяца назад +1

    We foreign folk know what the Angelus is bc of Irish folk 😊

  • @skiddymark
    @skiddymark 3 месяца назад

    nice legs

  • @aunchante33
    @aunchante33 3 месяца назад

    I have a friend, she was very overweight but fun and down to earth. She had the gastric sleeve and lost so much weight. She looks amazing. Her personality totally changed. If there was a camera around she was jumping in front of it. She would post 8 or more photos of herself a day. Stand up on chairs or tables at restaurants etc. Friends started running away when she came around. She became so obnoxious with the " look how great I look attitude" one man said "there is no one more obnoxious then a fat person that has become thin" Why does this happen? Why can't they remain humble? They become that thin lady that flaunts her body around everyone dislikes. I come for the weightloss tips and recepis.Not to watch you dance or dress or do your makeup. But I just fast forward to the things and parts I like. It's not my place to say what you should or should not put on your blog.