5 shifts to END your fear of being CRINGE online.

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @priyadakini
    @priyadakini 9 месяцев назад +9

    17 min in and this is life changing. Thank you so so so much for your voice.

  • @annakamvla
    @annakamvla 9 месяцев назад +21

    I feel so moved - your words always inspire me into action. Thank you for sharing this with us

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  9 месяцев назад +1

      yayyy this makes me sooo happy to hear!!! thank you for being here!! i love these words and i am holding them close today. "if it helps one person" 🥹

  • @Alexander-ci8rt
    @Alexander-ci8rt 4 месяца назад +4

    thank you so much for taking the time to record this - you are so inspirational! to the person reading this - have a great day!

  • @juliaemilymusic
    @juliaemilymusic 5 месяцев назад +6

    i love this! i got dumped on valentine's day and wrote music about it and when it came to putting it out i was like "omg this is os embarrassing announcing to the world that i got dumped on valentines day" not to mention how hard it is to sing in front of people and stuff and there was a part of me that wanted to get every single song perfect and ever cover perfect but at the end of the day i was like i just gotta put out a video and i thought of it more as performance art than putting out music because i was able to stop trying so hard to make it perfect and just try to convey the feelings i experienced and that helped a lot

  • @akamissjay
    @akamissjay 13 дней назад +2

    "By you sharing yourself, you're helping someone else feel seen." 🎉❤

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  11 дней назад

      thank you so much for your kindness & support, means the world to me, sunshine!! sending love & gratitude your way 🥹🥰💜 thank you for being on this journey with me 🤗🌻🦋

  • @Dzeccu
    @Dzeccu 2 месяца назад +1

    The way you say “my love” 🥺🥰

    • @KissTheSky
      @KissTheSky 2 месяца назад

      Right? Heart melting 🫶🏼

  • @loading...2535
    @loading...2535 8 месяцев назад +6

    YOUR READING MY MINDDDDDD WHO DO U THINK U RRRRRR ALL THIS DIVINE TIMING AND SYNCHRONICITY ITS LIKE EVERYTHING U R SAYING IS MEANT SPECIFICALLY FOR ME THE PUZZLE FITS PERFECTLY TO THE POINT WHERE IIM TYPING IN ALL CAP - well im already dramatic asf hehe so ig I WAS GON DO THAT ANYWAYS BUT ITS CONNECTING SO DEEPLY . this is one of those moments where i know im meant to be exactly where i am so i could see this

  • @marinegalvez6093
    @marinegalvez6093 9 месяцев назад +15

    You are incredible. The love you are sending us with every episode is so so palpable. I really needed to hear all of this and I feel less alone. Thank you so much

  • @juliedavis168
    @juliedavis168 2 месяца назад +2

    Ego death is a false concept. If we don't have an ego we die. We cease to exist. We need our ego to step in when actual danger is present. So it is not ego death that is required it is a healthy ego that is needed. It is a great benefit to us if we develop it healthily. There is too much ignorance around the ego being pure evil because it isn't.

  • @AlyssaParrilla
    @AlyssaParrilla 8 месяцев назад +3

    this has been on my mind for SO long...seeing someone else talking about it the way I've been struggling with it was geoundbreaking. thank you for expressing yourself and doing what you do so that others of us can feel comfortable to as well, and continue on inspiring others 🖤💜

  • @ill.inanaa
    @ill.inanaa 5 месяцев назад +2

    your amazing im so glad i found this channel been watch all day! messages are on time and timeless! Keep doing your mission as it inspires the reat us us to keep pushing through ❤

  • @nicolesain
    @nicolesain 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you sister.
    For a while now I have been intuitively preparing to surrender to the call of sharing my voice of wisdom through a RUclips channel.
    You really covered important contemplations that support me on my journey.
    Big hug to you Love. ♥️🫂🙏

  • @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk
    @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk 8 месяцев назад +1

    My videos and short movies I make myself I like, they're honest and truthful to my experience. I like, I love myself now,

  • @tebogomogase2877
    @tebogomogase2877 5 месяцев назад

    Have you considered writing a paper for the social sciences so that your ideas can be referred to in philosophy? Idk how it works but your ideas are astute and deserve to be timeless and contributed to over time

  • @Joymfisher
    @Joymfisher 2 месяца назад

    I was so vulnerable in my podcast sat in love - no editing my honest truth about my marriage - i felt amazing did it shared it and got really excited that I was me. However ten minutes later I was sat on the toilet and next in bed running away. 😢 it was crazy how my body just went into panic and I just talked myself with love ❤️ and held myself

  • @misskelli2500
    @misskelli2500 Месяц назад

    Keep singing girlfriend!! I'm with you

  • @thankfulblessed8496
    @thankfulblessed8496 2 месяца назад +1

    It’s amazing, because God has lead me to your page. WOW…hmmm

  • @AuthenticXpressions
    @AuthenticXpressions 3 месяца назад +1

    You’re incredible, grateful to have come across you recently….❤

  • @danielleclarke9639
    @danielleclarke9639 9 месяцев назад +5

    Your thoughts have resonated with me so deeply. I needed to hear this SO BAD. Thank you and I will use these notes. I have never watched any of your videos/listened to this podcast but I see you all over til tok and something told me to tune into you and specifically this episode. My mind is blown. I feel liberated just in realizing I do not need to hold on to my limiting beliefs about my content and art but rather look at it as a body of work. Geesh. I lacked the ability to zoom out. Wow. Thank you ❤

  • @theangelmission5216
    @theangelmission5216 Месяц назад

    JULY CANCERRRER YOU SAY OMG!!! Thank you so much for sharing what’s beneath the shell 🫠😮‍💨✨

  • @GoddIssHP
    @GoddIssHP 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much🙏🏾💚🌻

  • @renatarattlesnake
    @renatarattlesnake 2 месяца назад

    You’re inspiring! I held myself back from starting a channel for 5 years and FINALLY made this one 🖤 thank you, moving through this discomfort!

  • @kandiceballos
    @kandiceballos 3 месяца назад

    This is incredibly helpful especially when we live in a society that looks for and glorifies perfectionism or being the best or the most creative. I def see my own conditioning of perfectionism which leads to imposter syndrome...

  • @TMHsBabyGirl
    @TMHsBabyGirl 2 месяца назад

    You have a brilliant mind sister. The universe sent me to you to help me get out of my fear of being seen and moving forward into this world.

  • @JanePriscillia
    @JanePriscillia 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much !!! Thank you sooooo much !!!!! I don't know how to express myself to let you know how much I am grateful to you.
    I do have a youtube channel, I want to talk about so many things, but every time I stop for X amount of excuses 😢 and I hate this because I want to share my voice!!! But now, thanks to your tips, I can do it peacefully!!! Thank you

  • @akamissjay
    @akamissjay 13 дней назад +2

    Observing myself without judgment... "This just is."... that is an empowering stance to take. "We reject within ourselves what may be very attractive to someone else." ✨️🩷

  • @amygrewar5881
    @amygrewar5881 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ayanda, THANK YOU ❤️‍🔥 I resonate with your work soooooo deeply. You are such a gift and you’re changing my world in the best way 💜🌍🦋☀️🌈🌿🌱

  • @5GemmaAnn
    @5GemmaAnn 3 месяца назад

    Yes!!! This is very helpful. Some of these things I’ve already been thinking and it’s just so helpful to hear you echo my thoughts, and remind me of how to stay centred and keep creating what is calling me and what I feel inside

  • @jzrdyn
    @jzrdyn 8 месяцев назад +2

    you are GENIUS.

  • @jkcity444
    @jkcity444 3 месяца назад

    Your words are so empowering and resonate so hard. Thank you for practicing what you preach. 🙌💫

  • @dmvmeu7140
    @dmvmeu7140 2 месяца назад

    "it's just a fucking episode" 😹❤️❤️❤️

  • @dio.mikota
    @dio.mikota 3 месяца назад +1

    i m grateful for your service, so glad i found your channel 🙏🏽 it feels motivating listening to you 💛much much love 🌞🌱

  • @tulsalien
    @tulsalien 28 дней назад

    Listening to your videos always lights me up in new ways 🖤 thank you so much

  • @loading...2535
    @loading...2535 8 месяцев назад +2

    CLOCK THAT TEAAAAA WAKE IT UPPPPP FRENNN

  • @antoniettericatti6648
    @antoniettericatti6648 4 месяца назад

    There is soooo much value in this video, it's absolutely incredible, thank you so much! You're so generous!

  • @patitostragando
    @patitostragando 4 месяца назад

    thank you so much for pushing through and sharing your voice with us 💗

  • @possessorofthewingsofisis2741
    @possessorofthewingsofisis2741 21 день назад

    You are my new favorite follow!!!

  • @mariaalejandraarangorendon9416
    @mariaalejandraarangorendon9416 3 месяца назад

    Gracias this is so loving !! I feel so happy to hear all this

  • @aviannab5026
    @aviannab5026 4 месяца назад

    This of course came at just the right timeee!!!! Thank you so so much I was literally needing this so so much in this very moment, you’ve helped calm my mind down on such a deep level and I just barley found you on yt

  • @TheOfficiaEboniMonae
    @TheOfficiaEboniMonae 6 месяцев назад

    This is only my second video i've watched and you only speak facts! This framework is so good!

  • @maria-sinverguenza
    @maria-sinverguenza 4 месяца назад

    You’re brilliant and SO inspiring. Thank you for this gift ♥️

  • @BorneoCicada
    @BorneoCicada 3 месяца назад

    Your channel is amazing.

  • @AndreaMichelle1212
    @AndreaMichelle1212 4 месяца назад

    This made me feel so seen tysm

  • @cassclare
    @cassclare 4 месяца назад

    Im so in awe of of your podcast!!! ❤

  • @scarlettpain
    @scarlettpain 23 дня назад +1

    This is really helpful for me

    • @ayandastood
      @ayandastood  8 дней назад

      i’m so glad this resonated with you!! 😍🤗 thank you so much for your kindness & support, sunshine!!! 🥹🫂 means the world to me!! sending love & gratitude your way 💛😍 thank you for being on this journey with me 🌻🦋 if you haven’t already, there’s a free creative activation waiting for you over on my website, love you!! ayandastood.com 🥰🤗

  • @citlalygonzale
    @citlalygonzale 5 месяцев назад

    I found your channel a few weeks ago and OMMGGGG WOOOW! everything you say resonates soooo muchhh! thx for sharing and inspire me to share 💖 lyy so muchh xx

  • @Glittergurl1415
    @Glittergurl1415 5 месяцев назад

    Just started watching your videos yesterday! Ive been going thru this phase hard and your vids are very helpful and def what ive been needing to find I appreciate you!🤗💜✨

  • @robynwertheim120
    @robynwertheim120 4 месяца назад

    You are brilliant! All of these were so good. Thank you so much❤

  • @whimsylore
    @whimsylore 2 месяца назад

    Thank youuuu!

  • @bukuruanastazie3187
    @bukuruanastazie3187 7 месяцев назад

    I would like to believe that my ancestors and yours collaborated on your creation so that when I could not hear their voices (my ancestors) I could hear yours and know the wisdom they have to share with me.

  • @gigicrumptannett6048
    @gigicrumptannett6048 7 месяцев назад

    YOU ARE EXCELLENT THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SERVICE I ADORE YOU

  • @kandidKreatorkhronicles
    @kandidKreatorkhronicles 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for you gift🩷

  • @dmvmeu7140
    @dmvmeu7140 2 месяца назад

    25:15 i always feel such relief and wonder at your statements thank you for saying it out loud

  • @Joymfisher
    @Joymfisher 2 месяца назад

    This is just a video I love that ❤

  • @rolandocastillo69
    @rolandocastillo69 3 месяца назад

    Okay you slay with this videos ❤ thank you

  • @valeriyalipovskaya
    @valeriyalipovskaya 2 месяца назад

    Wonderful ❤

  • @SA_SHAmusic
    @SA_SHAmusic 7 месяцев назад

    You’re amazing! Thank you so much for your energy

  • @LillianMasie
    @LillianMasie 8 месяцев назад

    Thank YOU for your generosity in sharing this. ❤

  • @IamYoussefAkabli
    @IamYoussefAkabli 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you!!!!!!!! And Wow!!!!!!!!! I have some much gratefulness for you putting words in feelings and thoughts many of us go through👏🧡🙏🏼 you are definitely magical to me ✨

  • @breycimafranca
    @breycimafranca 4 месяца назад

    So inspiring

  • @nelly.alqaisi
    @nelly.alqaisi 7 месяцев назад

    So needed this today

  • @JamesWilliams-ec3ct
    @JamesWilliams-ec3ct 8 месяцев назад

    Love the message, thank you!

  • @alayoncarlos
    @alayoncarlos 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks a lot!!!

  • @slogurtyogurt
    @slogurtyogurt 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you. You speak from a place that my heart understands and I am grateful for your message. I don’t use tiktok and miraculously found you via RUclips :-)

  • @meligarcia11
    @meligarcia11 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you❤❤🥺

  • @loading...2535
    @loading...2535 8 месяцев назад +1

    36:59 SCREAMING laughing

  • @MimieZodwah
    @MimieZodwah 8 месяцев назад

    💚

  • @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk
    @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk 8 месяцев назад

    I don't reject myself or hate myself

  • @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk
    @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk 8 месяцев назад

    Loneliness is my normal ma'am

  • @Kawtharthea
    @Kawtharthea 8 месяцев назад

  • @x4thepieaces346
    @x4thepieaces346 6 месяцев назад

    That's why alot of the useless traditional sights sounds and info are gone.

  • @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk
    @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk 8 месяцев назад

    Holidays and my birthday I'm alone

  • @pinkbot
    @pinkbot 8 месяцев назад

    you look like love

  • @gathonimwangi5124
    @gathonimwangi5124 2 месяца назад

    Honestly Ayanda, you're so dope Thank uuu for all that you do

  • @cepriela
    @cepriela 8 месяцев назад

    thank you so much for sharing these pieces of advice. I believe we all have worth we can validate, even if others are in disagreement with our light (for their own reasons). We all have something to share of value; especially when we create anything from a place of love. I will use these wonderful words as fuel to create. thank you so much🫶🏼🩷

  • @KissTheSky
    @KissTheSky 2 месяца назад

    Please never stop creating and taking to us 😭Each and every of your videos make me cry. But these are happy tears of being heard and seen and connected, im so thankful for your presence here 🤍

  • @sarahalharbi1083
    @sarahalharbi1083 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much, I’m deeply grateful for your videos. As a content creator i face this a lot even though i know it’s my passion and my dream. 🤍