Polygamist Musa Mseleku on Balancing Family and Finances

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2022
  • Join Mr. Musa Mseleku and Old Mutual’s Head of Financial Education, John Manyike, as they talk about finances and family. From how Mr. Musa Mseleku learnt to handle money, taking care of his growing family, his streams of income, and protecting his loved ones' future. Watch this video as he shares tips and interesting financial ups and downs.
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    0:05 Introduction to Musa Mseleku
    3:27 Where did your preference for polygamy come from?
    5:46 How do you instill discipline in your children, especially when it comes to money?
    8:46 How Musa plans to provide for his family if he is gone
    11:58 The role that life and funeral cover play in a polygamous family
    15:19 The importance of having a will in a polygamous family
    19:01 Musa explains how he made his first million
    26:31 How Musa manages jealousy within his polygamous relationships
    30:52 Musa talks about how he manages money - like the budget for buying groceries - in a polygamous family
    33:21 Apart from the budget Musa provides, are his wives financially independent?
    35:12 Musa explains how to assess if someone can handle a polygamous relationship, from finances to character
    37:57 Is there a need for polygamy in the times we live in now? What kind of man should enter a polygamous marriage?
    40:56 How does one balance making sure that each wife feels loved?
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Комментарии • 181

  • @MpolokengTsingoane
    @MpolokengTsingoane 2 месяца назад +7

    Mr Mseleku knows what is needed in polygamous marriage and he is making sure that he's family is secured. I give him a round of applause 👏

  • @busisiwemabena9924
    @busisiwemabena9924 Год назад +45

    I wish all men would listen and learn from Mseleku not only about poligumy but life in general.

    • @virginiathenga8126
      @virginiathenga8126 4 месяца назад +1

      Mr mseleku that is a good point business man are very secret i wish I can share with you my problem ithink other man can listen

    • @moitoi-ij8fx
      @moitoi-ij8fx 2 месяца назад

      ❤❤8​@@virginiathenga8126

  • @buyisiwefani7420
    @buyisiwefani7420 Год назад +15

    I really enjoyed the business part and how he made his first million, my mind has changed on how I must use money.

  • @palimbali3650
    @palimbali3650 Год назад +34

    Mthombeni👏🏽👏🏽 lo baba knows what he's doing, so impressed ❤

  • @andagqirana3543
    @andagqirana3543 Год назад +8

    Did know how powerful your teaching as to save money

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 Год назад +23

    Love the way he thinks bab'uMthombeni. Beautiful interview. So wish those little boys can watch this interview before they ask him to go and ask for 2nd wives.

    • @mrmanq9517
      @mrmanq9517 Год назад +1

      This is what people need to relearn, the ability to speak with wisdom and poise.
      Uyabeka uMseleku...game recognise game. You must be on the wiser end👌🙌

    • @fhalalanimotaung4493
      @fhalalanimotaung4493 Год назад +1

      Especially Dulas

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Год назад

      We are glad you found the video valuable, Patience. Thanks for the support.

  • @dikeledileli4678
    @dikeledileli4678 Год назад +11

    🔥this man need a cup👏

  • @user-rx1ob4ho4u
    @user-rx1ob4ho4u 4 месяца назад +4

    I wish my man can listen this ❤

  • @nkosisibiya9245
    @nkosisibiya9245 Год назад +3

    I didn't know MR Mseleku is so intelligent

  • @kennethmakhanya1029
    @kennethmakhanya1029 Год назад +11

    Thank you Mr Mseleku for the wisdom

  • @VUYISWAHADI
    @VUYISWAHADI 3 месяца назад +3

    I wish all the men can listen to him cz uneqiniso & he's a loving human being

  • @simphiwecordae6500
    @simphiwecordae6500 Год назад +15

    Isthembu umsebenzi kodwa ngiyamncoma ubabu Mthombeni uyidalelwe lento, unayo yonke indlela yokubhekana nezimo zaso 🙏

    • @user-gf4nn3hf5d
      @user-gf4nn3hf5d 4 месяца назад +2

      Yena ubaba Mseleku wenza kahle kakhulu futhi uyawathanda amakhosikazi wakhe wonke!

  • @bloomingthoughts_
    @bloomingthoughts_ Год назад +25

    I love the financial wisdom imparted by uBaba.👌🏾

    • @oldmutual
      @oldmutual Год назад +3

      Thank you for watching. We are glad you enjoyed the nuggets shared in this video.

    • @nhlanhlanhlanhla9519
      @nhlanhlanhlanhla9519 Год назад

      @@oldmutual yyyuu
      .

    • @mshuganadunjana1532
      @mshuganadunjana1532 Год назад +1

      yho this guy I learned alot on him how to save money and how to manage money

  • @everyoneknowsque
    @everyoneknowsque Год назад +31

    More people need to watch this

  • @user-ws5xp7jk5n
    @user-ws5xp7jk5n 3 месяца назад +3

    Good father and husband ❤❤

  • @thabangmotaung4759
    @thabangmotaung4759 Год назад +34

    Mad respect for this guy

  • @naomiarendse
    @naomiarendse Год назад +6

    By far one of the most interesting topics here. A must see for all who wish to return to their roots and also be financially savvi. Clapping hands!

  • @luyandahlela4177
    @luyandahlela4177 Год назад +2

    Man amongst Men. Indoda yamadoda 🙏🏽🙏🏽if I can be half the man he is, wisdom wise. I would have made it in life. Mmpilo ende Mfoka Mseleku

  • @priscillamashile8732
    @priscillamashile8732 5 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you so much, I have learned so much from this interview more especially business analogy. Makwande babu Mthombeni.

    • @Daphneygugungwane
      @Daphneygugungwane 3 месяца назад

      Siyabonga kakhulu sifundile kakhulu njoba ukhuluma sesizozama ukubeka okuncane❤❤❤

  • @thomasmkhabela
    @thomasmkhabela 3 месяца назад +1

    I truly like his way of business thinking and savings.

  • @nomvulacynthia6538
    @nomvulacynthia6538 Год назад +1

    Very informative and powerful massage Baba uMseleku your family is very lucky for having ubaba ofana nawe🙌

  • @lindiwesylvia830
    @lindiwesylvia830 Год назад +2

    Wow lovely uyindoda yamadoda Mseleku iuyisibonelo esihle ingathi abanye obaba bangafundela kuwe , siyabonga nathi omama sivuleka amehlo ukubonisana nabayeni bethu

  • @raquelfabiaomanjate2670
    @raquelfabiaomanjate2670 Год назад +2

    👏👏👏I salute thank you for teaching me how to use money and how to give value to a money

  • @florahmoloi5731
    @florahmoloi5731 3 месяца назад

    Well said Baba Mseleku, I've gained a lots of advise from this... Thank you may the lord bless

  • @S-TouchRelationshipCoaching
    @S-TouchRelationshipCoaching Год назад +1

    Very educational
    Mseleku hence amaspaza shop's a
    are not a progressing due to l of knowledge how the system works. Very well said baba.

  • @user-zi7pi6oh3c
    @user-zi7pi6oh3c Год назад +1

    Much more respect to Mr Mseleku ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @NandipaQango
    @NandipaQango 3 месяца назад +1

    You are a real man mr Mseleku love you baba and may God bless you

  • @bulelanimathe9088
    @bulelanimathe9088 Год назад +7

    Thank you so much for that insightful, mind opening and informative interview. Great work

  • @DawnMngomezulu-eq6ki
    @DawnMngomezulu-eq6ki 3 месяца назад

    Mr Mthembu you spoke the honest truth regarding polygamy i hope most men can learn from you.

  • @user-vd9ow9jq4l
    @user-vd9ow9jq4l 2 месяца назад

    Hay baba Mseleku I respect you. You are inteligent. Uyayimela into yakho You deserve

  • @jabulanindhove997
    @jabulanindhove997 Месяц назад

    Thanks babu mseleku for the financial literacy that you are sharing indeed Financial management is very important

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      @OM_OnTheMoney  Месяц назад

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  • @promisemsomi
    @promisemsomi Год назад

    Thanks alot Mr Mseleku sifunda lukhulu kuwe

  • @user-cf3jo7co8o
    @user-cf3jo7co8o 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks babu mseleku ngiyabathanda onke amakhosikazi akho mahle shem

  • @alicemothusi7455
    @alicemothusi7455 Месяц назад

    Mthombeni hes the best, and equal 🤞kodwa lezi azakhela abantu la ngaphandle hai. Ungavumi Musa ngoba uyababona o wrong baningi kubo labo abakuthumayo hai🇱🇸

  • @pinkymartha1463
    @pinkymartha1463 Год назад +3

    Babu Mthombeni uyi good adviser I respect you keep on doing great things 🙌❤️

  • @lindomlindo7588
    @lindomlindo7588 6 месяцев назад

    Gud advice baba mseleku njengami nje engsasfisa isthembu and nase businesin ngyayithatha i advise 🙏

  • @mamdlovu3136
    @mamdlovu3136 Год назад +5

    Well said ❤🤗

  • @agnesmkhuzangwe7308
    @agnesmkhuzangwe7308 Год назад +1

    I like that he clarified that it's n idea not based on individuals but he also must be forthcoming to no5 that she might not be the last one cos what he did to Mbali is not fair. Why lie coz already she loved him

  • @xolisilenkosi9831
    @xolisilenkosi9831 Год назад

    I just c intobeko kubaba Mseleku!!! Ima njalo baba ! Ba few abantu abakulezinga lakho abathobekile nje !

  • @Samukel1900
    @Samukel1900 Год назад +5

    Baba Mseleku🙌

  • @nondumisomnguni8671
    @nondumisomnguni8671 Год назад +4

    Lwandle kaluwelwa ❤🙌

  • @noluntunopanjwa9164
    @noluntunopanjwa9164 5 месяцев назад

    Much respect for you Mr Mseleku, you are a wise man

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  5 месяцев назад

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  • @sylvesterngwenya1281
    @sylvesterngwenya1281 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @surprisehlungwana5232
    @surprisehlungwana5232 8 месяцев назад

    this man is a lecturer

  • @poppycocknthoroane9032
    @poppycocknthoroane9032 3 месяца назад

    Yooooh hlem Ntate Mselelu how I wish you can help me on my kitchen business, I really don't see what am doing because I see no profit at all. Bt however I took some tips.
    May Good bless you and your family❤❤❤

  • @lindomlindo7588
    @lindomlindo7588 18 дней назад

    Yoh washaya baba umseleku wakhuluma iqiniso elimsulwa mthombeni🙏

  • @user-we4mc4nz2y
    @user-we4mc4nz2y 3 месяца назад

    Ngyabonga ukuthi ngaphuma emanyaleni!!!!Ngibongi dlozi lami🙏🙏

  • @michaelphahlamohlaka96mokg77
    @michaelphahlamohlaka96mokg77 Год назад

    Good teaching from the man❤️

  • @selulekontobela5613
    @selulekontobela5613 11 месяцев назад +1

    Ay uyayqondisa inkulumo lomuntu ,straight to the point and no lack of confidence uyama entwen yakhe,wise words

  • @sifisongwazi3789
    @sifisongwazi3789 2 месяца назад

    Baba Mseleku ngibonga ulwazi usipha lona big up bhutomdala

  • @sizakelendebele3573
    @sizakelendebele3573 Год назад +1

    I salute you!

  • @winiswasingoba7865
    @winiswasingoba7865 Год назад +2

    Very powerful message here

  • @patrickzikalala9076
    @patrickzikalala9076 Год назад +1

    Mr mselegu impela uyayimela indaba yakhe 👌🤞

  • @sinazosimthandilemadulo8155
    @sinazosimthandilemadulo8155 Год назад +3

    Honestly l fully respect you baba🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️

  • @tamiamona1619
    @tamiamona1619 5 месяцев назад

    Spot on Babu Mseleku.

  • @manelisjersiaaquarius2730
    @manelisjersiaaquarius2730 7 месяцев назад

    I salute u Mhlekazi🙏

  • @lettierefilwemphuthi7487
    @lettierefilwemphuthi7487 Год назад +13

    What an insightful conversation with so much wisdom from Baba Mseleku. I thoroughly enjoyed this 💯

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Год назад

      Thank you for watching, Lettie. We are so glad you enjoyed the interview.

  • @thatosetlhare-pz6gy
    @thatosetlhare-pz6gy 2 месяца назад

    Yoh how you answered the first question of BaBoDlamini was 👌, over and above I learnt so much especially in the business aspect I want to do better and accumulate wealth like you however the polygamy thing I'm good, yet I love your big family you are a wise man Mr Museleku, thank you for the good advice

  • @esthermaphangwe9449
    @esthermaphangwe9449 Год назад +5

    Good advice

  • @user-fb2xj9cf7b
    @user-fb2xj9cf7b Год назад

    Wow, what a Wiseman we need such a man in this world keep it up, baba, all the best banenhlahla your wife,s and yr kid,s❤

  • @Daphneygugungwane
    @Daphneygugungwane 3 месяца назад

    Iqiniso akulaleki makunemali Baba umseleku👏👏👏

  • @user-rg3jp7kk4b
    @user-rg3jp7kk4b 3 месяца назад

    Polygamy 's a big headache,as far as I 'm concerned.I really can't tolerate it.Indeed it 's a big no to me.Hellish!!!

  • @wandysoso1431
    @wandysoso1431 Год назад +3

    I respect you babu Mseleku

  • @givenmbadamana915
    @givenmbadamana915 Год назад +3

    I'm learning from this guy🤞🏽.. Much respect for uMseleku🙌🏾

  • @user-fd3sx9wr2c
    @user-fd3sx9wr2c 6 месяцев назад

    well said❤

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi Месяц назад

    You are best Mr mseleku❤❤❤❤

  • @victorphenyosako9840
    @victorphenyosako9840 6 месяцев назад

    Very insightful

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      @OM_OnTheMoney  6 месяцев назад

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  • @Daphneygugungwane
    @Daphneygugungwane 3 месяца назад

    Siyabonga amazwi akho ayasakha iqiniso Baba❤❤

  • @nomfunekotukuta9133
    @nomfunekotukuta9133 Год назад +1

    Yhoo this man is very wise.

  • @SIPHELELEMAGAGULA-lk6lr
    @SIPHELELEMAGAGULA-lk6lr 6 месяцев назад

    😂❤Mthomben you are so amazing yoh !@amadoda anje awasekho siya weswela

  • @lungileradebe3540
    @lungileradebe3540 Год назад +1

    I respect you Baba Mseluku I love le ndaba ye Will ukuhlakanipha ne nqondo u nkulunkulu ukuphile na the fact that ufundise abantwana bakho ukuhlonipha the next person and nokuthi bangathatheli abanye abantu phansi I salute you sir 👏👏🤜

  • @TshaRarakx
    @TshaRarakx Год назад

    Mr Mseleku as from today I respect baba

  • @garfield_xx_
    @garfield_xx_ 3 месяца назад

    Kusekude phambili we Mbali Mseleku, Le profession yo Kuba u nurse umbhedo... Ungaziphakamisi ngayo, izinto engekho nje unless you open your own private practises, I practises ke yona idinga u be I specialist kwi Phc or any field.

  • @nosiphosisilana6711
    @nosiphosisilana6711 2 месяца назад

    It's true to be wealth is not money it's a wisdom yingako Solomon wazicelela ubulunko and ndiyangqinelana nento ethi uba imali awuyi save soze uyibone noba sowurhola millions kungoba mali inomoya nje wayo akufanele uyivumele ikulawule

  • @nomvulakumalo4900
    @nomvulakumalo4900 Год назад

    Mthombeni I respect you I feel sad for omama abangavumi u number 5. They don't see the vision because the number 5 will benefit like them and she'll respect more and love you more like Makhumalo and support you.

  • @ZethuImmaculate
    @ZethuImmaculate 3 месяца назад

    Baba Mselengu🙌❤

  • @cooster4354
    @cooster4354 Год назад +1

    Mr. Mseleku please try IVF with maKhuma it’s not taboo. I feel sorry for her and you because I see how you love her. You can even try a surrogate so you too can have your own children. Please Mseleku phucuka and try other things to make maKhumalo happy and expand your family ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @sbuda3413
      @sbuda3413 26 дней назад

      They have tried that

  • @thinamakovere9007
    @thinamakovere9007 Год назад +2

    Thank you for this now i understand the concepts of polygamy and financial growth.

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Год назад

      We are so to hear this, Thina. Thanks for watching.

  • @NomondeMabote
    @NomondeMabote 3 месяца назад

    Can you please open à a program for men to learn about family responsibilities

  • @thokozilelanga691
    @thokozilelanga691 7 месяцев назад

    Brilliant

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  7 месяцев назад

      Hello, we are glad that you enjoyed the video.

  • @AllyMvuzoMay
    @AllyMvuzoMay 3 месяца назад

    eish this guy his story make sense when it comes to saving money

  • @langelihlemlangose9294
    @langelihlemlangose9294 Год назад +1

    Effective question onthe host and Babu Mseleku is our Guru the wisdom in that man

  • @lindanimaduna8382
    @lindanimaduna8382 11 месяцев назад

    A wise man

  • @lindiweluciantshangase6089
    @lindiweluciantshangase6089 2 месяца назад +1

    Sengyamhlonipha after sengizwe ilaka lakhe....

  • @Rassie88888
    @Rassie88888 Год назад

    True in business mind set but in isithembu its a big No
    Business wise we on the same page

  • @lindinhlapo667
    @lindinhlapo667 Год назад

    Siyabonga baba

  • @nokulungadlamini4908
    @nokulungadlamini4908 Год назад +2

    I was lost in his voice bakwethu😍😍😍😍😍

  • @ZinhleMbhele-ub3cx
    @ZinhleMbhele-ub3cx 12 дней назад

    Yoo lobaba ngimthwesi scoco uyasazi story sakho we Mrhombeni

  • @Rassie88888
    @Rassie88888 Год назад

    What and how kids feel at the end of the day are the included in your plans

  • @user-px6jz1bp6m
    @user-px6jz1bp6m 4 месяца назад

    Hhmmmmm now I understand polygamy and I admire him

  • @skhumbuzoyimba647
    @skhumbuzoyimba647 Год назад +5

    Ay lombhemu uyehlula

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi Месяц назад

    Wow

  • @staphinahmmaphuti9571
    @staphinahmmaphuti9571 4 месяца назад

    🔥

  • @user-wq4bf9fk5w
    @user-wq4bf9fk5w 5 месяцев назад

    UMusa guy'z akajabulile nje akekho happy ngale sthembu sakhe ukuthi umile nje ngoba uyindoda kodwa ugcwele usizi uma umbuka ujula tru

  • @user-gq2fq2bv3v
    @user-gq2fq2bv3v 4 месяца назад

    Ngiyafisa nabantwana bethu bazofunda . Ukuthi imali is emqondweni nasezandleni zakho. Siyabonga Musa ukukhlise kahle Flo

  • @NandiphaModimogale
    @NandiphaModimogale 2 месяца назад

    🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @thembinkosisimelane4556
    @thembinkosisimelane4556 Год назад

    Ngyabonga mina kuleye Will uyilendoda eyacela ukuhlakanipha zikhona izinto eyayngazicela ngyakuvuma Leadership Yami.

  • @siphoericgumede3035
    @siphoericgumede3035 Месяц назад

    uMseleku umqondo anawo ujulile ungaphezu kwakhe, kuningi engikufunde kulengxoxo yabo

    • @OM_OnTheMoney
      @OM_OnTheMoney  Месяц назад

      Hello, kuyasithokozisa ukuzwa ukuthi ufunde lukhulu 💚

  • @RuthMthethwa
    @RuthMthethwa 3 месяца назад

    Musa Mseleku uyindoda emadodeni

  • @AngelaAmenNtusi
    @AngelaAmenNtusi Месяц назад

    Sbakhulu kwamadlala syabonga mthombeni indawo yethu uyibekile phezuli