I gotta say, this husband is way too naive, gullible, and soft. He is so desperate for the love from his so-called mommy when he knows that he will never get it.🤦🏽♀️ Good on Op for having an iron spine, unlike her husband when it comes to his mother. 😏
Oldest son is "supposed" to live a better life? That's ridiculous. I'm the older son but my brother is doing better than me and is a far better man than me. That doesn't bother me at all; as far as I'm concerned that just means I get to be big old uncle to his children. 😊
This was so refreshing! It can take time for people to realize that the way they have been treated all their life isn't healthy and to be able to walk away from their toxic family members. Often it takes someone on the outside looking in to be able to help them open their eyes and see that it isn't normal. I'm not sure if this counts as abu$e, but he was definitely manipulated his whole life and treated unfairly.
This poor man should not have taken so long to realize he was desperate for his mother's, and she was taking advantage of it. At least he married a good woman to help him open his eyes. I bet they never had any kids because they didn't want to put them through what Andy went through.
That SIL is a piece of work too- and so glad hubby FINALLY grew a spine- mommy's boys who don't protect their own freaking WIVES disgust me- it's hard to respect someone who doesn't even respect themselves
15 minutes in. mom is borrowing money from 2nd son and buying 1st son a new car. 2nd son has promised over and over he will cut her off, he doesnt. wife needs to make good on her promise to divorce, honestly
It's their culture!! You look down on those you feel are below you. Status is everything. Money is everything. Pride is everything. Sorta like the Status quo in the US . THE 1% ers.
Same here! MIL was off her rocker to expect her DIL to give her home, that was given to her by her parents, to her husband's brother and wife. BIL and wife aren't even related to her parents!
Faye, although I’m on your side; I don’t think you should have brought up the subject of Nina wanting to live in the area. I think it would be better to say; yes, the apartment is nice. Then: “How about those Mets?”
She shouldn’t have put up with husband giving their money to his mother. She should have separated their finances if he kept giving his money to the mom and couldn’t cover his half of the bills then it is divorce time. Simple as that. He can’t cut those apron strings then you need to find a real man or go it on your own.
The wife was stupid giving the weak husband too many chances with the money. After the second time, it should be you do it again we are getting a divorce.
@@JonathanAndrew-j3l that's simply not true. Not in the United States anyway. People can divorce if one partner refuses to change irresponsibility when it comes to finances, the other spouse can file for divorce. They can file under irreconcilable differences. It doesn't have to be due to violence or infidelity.
I'm glad this was one of those stories where the husband grows a spine.
I would settle for them knowing the difference between an apartment and a house.
You go Andy! Finally! a husband who stands up for his wife!!
I gotta say, this husband is way too naive, gullible, and soft. He is so desperate for the love from his so-called mommy when he knows that he will never get it.🤦🏽♀️ Good on Op for having an iron spine, unlike her husband when it comes to his mother. 😏
I feel sorry for him. Imagine being denied a parents love. To the level that this man will bend over backwards to try and please her.
@@Tracie.....I’m with you
When you are used to being treated one way. It's hard to snap out of it
Bravo for the husband for finally find his backbone! And for protecting his wife from his toxic family.
It was good to see they had the husband stand up for the wife in the end
Oldest son is "supposed" to live a better life? That's ridiculous. I'm the older son but my brother is doing better than me and is a far better man than me. That doesn't bother me at all; as far as I'm concerned that just means I get to be big old uncle to his children. 😊
If dear MIL wanted to go by tradition, then the oldest son is the one who is supposed to take care of everyone.
Faye is savage af🤣🤣Go Andy Go!!!
I would go even more extreme
Yay!!!🎉 Andy finally grew a shiny spin!!!!
Wheeeee! _spins around all shiny_
This was so refreshing! It can take time for people to realize that the way they have been treated all their life isn't healthy and to be able to walk away from their toxic family members. Often it takes someone on the outside looking in to be able to help them open their eyes and see that it isn't normal. I'm not sure if this counts as abu$e, but he was definitely manipulated his whole life and treated unfairly.
She needs to lock down all their money and just give him an allowance.
LITTLE. TOMMY. CANNOT MISS WHAT HE NEVER HAD !
This poor man should not have taken so long to realize he was desperate for his mother's, and she was taking advantage of it. At least he married a good woman to help him open his eyes.
I bet they never had any kids because they didn't want to put them through what Andy went through.
Finally, a husband with the equipment to stand up to his mom!
This is why you get separate accounts.
Once again looking at the results of picking favorites. It rarely ends well lol.
Make sure to keep it under your own name so his family can’t pull any shenanigans!
What kind of gullible husband is he. I would not tolerate it
Well, he did finally learn in the end and laid down the hammer on his mom and sister.
That SIL is a piece of work too- and so glad hubby FINALLY grew a spine- mommy's boys who don't protect their own freaking WIVES disgust me- it's hard to respect someone who doesn't even respect themselves
Just because Andy has accepted being treated as a second class citizen by his mother, that treatment trickles down to his family.
15 minutes in.
mom is borrowing money from 2nd son and buying 1st son a new car. 2nd son has promised over and over he will cut her off, he doesnt.
wife needs to make good on her promise to divorce, honestly
Yeeeeaah! Andy! Better late than never!
MAMA. SAID ! NEVER LET YOUR LEFT HAND 🫲 !! KNOW WHAT YOUR RIGHT HAND IS DOING !
The apology..... sorry you can't afford to live here lol
Bought time the younger son grew a shiny spine!!!
How much did it cost?
Good job Andy ❤
WHY ARE THESE PEOPLE SOOO ENTITLED 😮😮😮
It's their culture!! You look down on those you feel are below you. Status is everything. Money is everything. Pride is everything. Sorta like the Status quo in the US . THE 1% ers.
Children are everything too
AppleTrees for the win
Auto correct at work again. It can be a huge pain, am I right? Hope you are having a wonderful weekend.
@@Tracie.....it can be, but I think they did it on purpose due to copyright laws.
@crazycatlady6396 ahh I never thought of that.
I would’ve like to see the mom begging for the younger son’s forgiveness personally
The designer sounds like the con men in the Emperor's new clothes 😊
So is it a house or an apartment? It can't be both.
That confuses me too.
I knew the mother was going to suggest that the OP give up the apartment to the older son.
Same here! MIL was off her rocker to expect her DIL to give her home, that was given to her by her parents, to her husband's brother and wife. BIL and wife aren't even related to her parents!
Well, at least the spine came in clutch.
31:44 - Faye: “And that night I was so hot for him that we conceived…”
*FINALLY!*
GIRL NO
DON'T TELL THOSE SELFISH GOLD-DIGGERS ABOUT YOUR APARTMENT
THEY'LL OBVIOUSLY TRY TO TAKE IT
Ask your Mother why ... what for ... and when she'll repay. There's your solution.OK, is it a 'house ' or is it an 'apartment'? Big difference.
I'd love to live in a 14-floor house, though it would be a pain to clean.
Apartment or house, which is it?
Is it an apartment or is it a house? That's the one inconsistency of a lot of these. Otherwise it was a good story.
In other countries, you buy the apartment,cond. they refer to it as their home.
140 square meters is 1506.94746 sq. feet.
1506 sq feet is not that big
Mil didn't care, she just wanted baby boy to have it.
Not that big? Are you kidding? Some 50 years ago, we (9) lived happily on 80 sqm 😁
Is it a house or apartment?
I'm guessing apartment since I've never seen a 10 floor house.
@Tracie..... I know. But they kept saying both. I would understand if they said home instead of house.
Obviously an apartment because they need to use an elevator 😁
Faye, although I’m on your side; I don’t think you should have brought up the subject of Nina wanting to live in the area. I think it would be better to say; yes, the apartment is nice. Then: “How about those Mets?”
Seperate your finances and cut out the loans
She shouldn’t have put up with husband giving their money to his mother. She should have separated their finances if he kept giving his money to the mom and couldn’t cover his half of the bills then it is divorce time. Simple as that. He can’t cut those apron strings then you need to find a real man or go it on your own.
A deer in the headlights not a rabbit.
Raising children is not easy. But tutoring for 6 year Olds come on.
The wife was stupid giving the weak husband too many chances with the money. After the second time, it should be you do it again we are getting a divorce.
Atleast he stood up in the end. Anyone would
@JonathanAndrew-j3l true but it shouldn't have taken a slap to his wife's face for him to find his testicles to stand up to his mother.
@@einyv Yes. But still at least that gave him some courage.
@@einyv One last thing. Divorce is only used for family violence and marital infidelity.
@@JonathanAndrew-j3l that's simply not true. Not in the United States anyway. People can divorce if one partner refuses to change irresponsibility when it comes to finances, the other spouse can file for divorce. They can file under irreconcilable differences. It doesn't have to be due to violence or infidelity.
Nina it's your child therefore you and your sad excuse for a husband to actually pay for the child