i love mandii and thinks she's hilarious and well-meaning, but she simply cannot speak outside of her own perspective. she lets her own trauma with her dad, men, etc. color every single conversation. i understand providing your perspective, but be able to speak outside of it too. this is just bad podcasting at this point and it's so glaringly obvious. just because you had a bad relationship with your dad, doesn't mean a good parent can't exist! good parents and perfect parents aren't the same - which is exactly why perfect and good are 2 different words.
Trying to compare autism with pedophilia is insanely WILD. Autism is NOT a sickness; Pedophilia IS a sickness and a crime. It's gross to put them in the same sentence.
I feel like I understood her intent. The words could be misconstrued, but I don't believe she meant it negatively, more so that both things are not nuerotypical and are/need to be treated with their own criteria..
That's not what she was trying to say. Think about it less as a "sickness" and more as, this is how their brain is wired. & you can't rewire someone's brain if they are born to function in that way. Nature v. Nurture can be debated with pedophilia however, there are many victims who don't turn around to victimize others. I don't think they are "created". Both of these categories of humans are born the way they are on a neurological basis. All that to say.......don't think of the comparison in a negative way, think more critically than that. ❤
I listen to Whoreible every week for the unapologetic insight outside the cisgender heteronormative hellscape we all live in. Mandii has always been loud, proud, and a voice for this space… but this week? I’m disappointed. 😔 Why dismiss someone’s entire work just because their sexuality doesn’t align with yours? Hasn’t she always celebrated and enjoyed the queer community? She’s literally praised queer folks for the way they handle relationships with high integrity. So, why switch up now? And can we talk about how defensive she got when Weezy (btw, LOVE you downnnn!! Let’s be besties lol) asked perfectly valid questions? This episode was tough to watch, especially for a solo ep. I get that she likes to fully form her opinions before diving into a topic, but Mandii-pick a side! Queer people aren’t just here for your pleasure, boo… we’ve got full lives too.
She’s not dismissing it, she’s saying it doesn’t work for her. His accreditation still stands, just not with her. & let’s not act like the queer community isn’t critical or in some cases don’t mess with certain groups/“types”
Episode was cool and all but Id really love to hear your take on Andrew Schultz and Alexx Media (who you all work with intimately, at least Weezy) joking and laughing about Black women and their negative presence/impact in relationships.
I want to hear what they have to say but not realllyyyyyy..........I feel like it's going to come down to "we know him in real life so we don't care". I love these ladies but like what can they truly say about what happened like..........now I know how Alexx feels about black women and these women being biracial is never lost on me......I think sometimes we need to take in the entire picture and just take it as it is........ Again.....I love them downnnnnnn, but they brought Vinny from Jersey Shore on the pod and he mentioned Italian NYers racism as "cute racism" and they also laughed.......so yeah........ Just have to see it as what it is and what the "capacity" is.....I know what I can & CANNOT get from them. *shrugs*
It never seems to me that Mandi actually listen to the question or details of things outside of sex. You don't need to know the definition of an "active dad" to know what an active parent is. And comparing the amount of time you put into your children and a side chick is wild! She gives off the vibe as long as I'm taken care of Idc what you are outside of our relationship.
The aesthetics of the room is niiiice! The different shades of tan and gold with the two of them wearing black is a vibe. Everything looks really good. Ok, now back to listening.
I stop liking Mandy more and more each episode. Her energy is ugly, and why didn’t she say any of that while the guest was there?! Therapy hasn’t helped her one bit. Just take Mandy out the equation, Weezy is a MUCH more pleasant personality and host!!
I just came from mandiis live but i think its a little hypocritical to say a gay man cant give straight couples advice but you also said on your live that you can give advice on parenting even though you dont have kids. Its very picky and choosey and a little ignorant even with the excuse of saying it from a childs point of view because i could just say that my advice for a straight couple is just coming from my view as someone in a relationship in general.
If you’re spending that much bread on a dating coach, it’s with marriage (or life partner) in mind…not something casual that you’ve been doing for free anyways. Ngl, Mandi I love you but sometimes it seems like u just wanna debate for sport lol
Mandi saying she can’t take advice from a homosexual on dating is crazy . They date men and so does she . They may be more qualified . You can learn something from any one .
as a PANSEXUAL/bisexual Woman. i agree completely with her, if im in a “heterosexual relationship” im not getting advice on someone who wouldn’t know the lifestyle of a heterosexual man
@@DatKat28 everyone is acting so appalled. he has no idea the romantic lifestyle of a heterosexual man. yes they can give advice on everything else.. man to man. but the ROMANTIC relationship dynamics are vastly different.
I think comparing a psychotherapist with phd degree to a dating coach should be different conversations. A dating coach should be judged on their success for their customers and therapist on how well is their interventions & message.
Anwar gave some great advice from a "dating coach" perspective. He's a person. He has dated. And I doubt you guys would have had him on the show if he had a failing rate of people he has helped. So saying he's a gay man so I wouldn't take advice from his is wild. Also there isn't a such thing as a perfect parent. Most parents are doing the best they can anyway with the resources they have. But you can be a good parent and have some failures just like you can be a "bad parent" and have some good moments.
I disagree with Mandii that there aren’t any good parents. I’m friends with some amazing mothers…. I also did agree on the dating advice from Anwar. He gave some great advice on boundaries that I think would’ve saved me a lot of wasted time had I known better. I don’t think you necessarily have to have direct lived experience to witness something and advise on a better way. I think we should be open to learning instead of shutting things down at hello.
I really don’t think she does. I think it’s just her preference . Just like a black person wanting a black therapist because they can relate more than a different race therapist. Maybe her wording was off, but I don’t think she ment it in a harmful way.
I think the problem is that she’s misunderstanding what a dating coach does. She seems to think it's like getting advice from a friend, but dating coaches focus on helping YOU grow. She mentioned something like 'What do gay men know about heterosexual dating if they’re on Jack’d or Grindr,' which sounded off to me. He’s not there to give tricks to make someone fall for you; it’s about improving yourself and your mindset so you’re better prepared for dating.
@@Lind419 but I do hear you, Mandi is a sexual being and I think she is viewing it from a sexual place But also still hurt from her previous relationship. I know I hated men after my break up and was negative about everything. She has a lot of healing to do still
Im I the only person who sees that Mandi has difficulties articulating her point in a way the audience can receive and understand where she’s coming from, if I’m not mistaken she has expressed this concern on a patreon episode. I see she gets dealt with pretty harsh in the comment section a lot and I honestly believe we should be more cautious in how we give our critic cause some are down right attacks! Also she has the right to have her opinion, she has the right to choose and that’s that. That doesn’t mean anti anybody necessarily yall just love to speculate and pile on her. Love you Mandi 🩵 all the way from France, you got it girl!
I agree that Mandii often struggles to articulate her thoughts AND the comments usually pile on her for it. I have a friend like Mandii who struggles to articulate her thoughts and feelings so I try to be patient and ask for clarification. I also remind her words mean things.
@@ccc_330 I also honestly feel Weezy eggs on and it almost seems vicious. Mandi disagrees and she’ll keep going on and on and on when Mandi has clearly stated her opinion period! It’s annoying and I’ve noticed people rarely address her and how she comes across with the way she be going on and on on what she thinks without failing to realise to respect other peoples perspective.
Great conversations today! Especially the parent convo. My son’s dad and I live in different states and I always considered him an active dad. He saw him minimum once a month and on school breaks. We recently switched roles so my son lives with him full time and the mom guilt is toughhh. I never once thought his dad didn’t do enough but now that the roles are reversed I’m constantly trying to make sure I’m doing enough and a lot of times that comes out financially bc it’s the easiest way for me to “show up” with us being 7 hours apart. Idk how any of this will affect him as an adult but we’re both just doing our best! No good or bad, just parents
I had this long ass comment about homophobia but I deleted it bc fuck it, it’s not important. This podcast is not queer-inclusive enough for me. Maybe I’m too young or too gay for this but I’m good on it 😭
I think if you paying a dating coach to get you into a relationship the goal is marriage. Also I’d take advice from anwar but idk about the doctor cause she doesn’t give relationship advice. She’s more of an individual counselor
I have a brother who has autism and I understood that Mandii was using it as an analogy or sharing the similarity of the two being something neurodivergent. And that’s it. I don’t think she had any ill intent just couldn’t find the words for saying that pedophilia is something that isn’t curable because it’s a mental illness.
Mandi … momma you literally finger pop, STRAP down & eat men’s booties just as the gay relationship expert does … many heterosexual black men would consider that gay so why again can’t he give relationship advice when yall like the same kinda men 🤔 also your experience growing up w ur dad doesn’t mean men can’t provide AND be physically AND emotionally present. ANY MAN who can’t do these things are not active fathers 😵💫 we needa raise our expectations about this shiii because the kids are suffering!!! Also I love yall - both of your opinions always suprise me and keeps the podcast fresh.
I have so much to comment on. First, Weezy, and her braces....girl, I've been there. Wax is definitely helpful to protect your lips and cheeks while you slob a knob. Second, I agree that sending money does NOT make you an active parent. That's all my father cared about. He couldn't WAIT to stop paying child support, but didn't care about how his kids were actually doing. I don't necessarily wish that I'd spent more time with him growing up; I wish he'd wanted to spend time with us. On the flip side, my mother was very active, but I still don't consider her a good mother. She wasn't active in the ways I really needed, but I do think she did the best she could with what she had. Third, I sort of agree with Mandi about Anwar.....sort of. While it is a bit strange for a gay man to be giving straight women dating advice, it's coming from the perspective OF A MAN. Men know how men think, and so he's telling women what they should do to get the results they want. Hell, Steve Harvey did it with his book "Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man".
I think I get what Mandii was trying to say but there are definitely plenty of good parents out there. Parents that are super involved and kind and patient, help there kid explore, let them figure out for themselves who they are, guide them without cruelty, nurture their interests, etc. And no you cant be a good dad making babies with a bunch of kids with multiple women
An active parent is very subjective. I’m a single mom, child lives with me, dad is in another state. I used to say we co-parent but someone made me realize, I parent and just relay information to him on how the parenting is going. He does step in with certain things because how our child is she need tough love from a man to listen lol. Also I will say when we did live together he was a majority “inactively present”; think the dad just sitting on the watching the game but the kids on the floor playing and there’s little to no interaction.
Children are not the same, even if they have the same parents. That said, a good and active parent is someone who recognizes what their individual kid(s) need emotionally, physically, educationally, etc. and adjust accordingly to meet the child where they are. As for Weezy saying the goal post is moving for men, it’s an excuse. Men encounter new things, expectations, etc. on their jobs and figure it out so why can’t they figure it out when it comes to romantic relationships and parenting? They can but choose not too! (I’m generalizing and recognize this does not apply to all men)
I believe certain advice regarding a relationship can be given from any sexuality. I’m gay, but would still take relationship advice from someone straight. Good advice is good advice.
I don’t think sexuality matters when giving advice on dating. We can learn something you don’t have to take the advice either. Anwar been in field for 15 years and had success stories plus he is a man at end of day so I disagree with Mandi on this one.
I feel Mandi . It’s the same reason we choose black therapists vs white because they are not going to be able to relate in the same scale. Or why we choose a woman obgyn then a man ( again this is your preference) but I’m not having a man tell me about my body . The delivery may not be the best but I get what she’s saying .
The way she said Florida shit is the same way I feel about “Bay Ishhh” if sum hyphy ish come on it’s a wrap for me serving goddess with sum work cuz I’m goin Stooopid💥💥💥
Dr. B seems like the type of doctor that tries to break up your relationship because she wants your man🤣🤣🤣 watch the Queenmaker’s commentary on that chick, she’s a lil crazy.
He's exploiting that baby. That doesn't mean he's a good dad at all. He had a baby with HALLE &found a way to get more views with the baby....I wish I didn't see that, but that's all I see.
@WHOREibleDecisions it sounds weird to someone who may not have watched his channel before he had the baby. Everything he could think of to show that baby he tried. Halle was the one who didn't want the baby seen at first. His sister turned the baby in front of the camera one time like it was a mistake & everything. Ddg lives his life in front of the camera of course that's how he makes his money & he wants his baby the same way. Only thing is, it's not his baby ALONE. Again it may sound weird but it's also weird to say that if you haven't been paying attention to ddg before the baby & while Halle was pregnant. Sooooo.......
@WHOREibleDecisions I also want to add because I left this out. I still know he loves his baby but this man will do anything for views. That's how he became a millionaire on youtube.
Wheezy, I thought it was just me. I thought the Dr started off the interview with Cam poorly. She was defensive from the beginning when he joked that her answer to ‘where are you from’ was long and involved. He just meant what part of the world did you live in. Cam was never able to fix the tone of interview after that.
I feel Mandi...at any moment of the day as women we get objectified just being in the world so how would a gay guy man help me fully navigate in dating when he cnt relate
Sounds like Weezy is jealous of Dr. Bryant. This lady clearly said she's not coaching "married" people. She said these people are coming to her as individuals that are coming to her to work on themselves to be able to work towards their marriage. She points out what they work on I dividually to be able to work on themselves to be better in their relationships. Weezy finally found a man that "loves" her & probably felt intimidated like Cam Newton over this woman talking about high functioning individuals because Weezy calls herself a whore & didnt know how to set boundaries. I think Anwar gives great advice & Dr. Bryant does too. Both are great!
@WHOREibleDecisions I still think there was jealousy & you taking up for Cam Newton more but it's fine. Cam Newton was the INTERVIEWER & intimidated from the jump. Did you see the whole interview? As soon as she answered the first question he asked. He was annoyed & responded with, he didn't ask all that. That showed his insecurities right away.
Would you want to get open heart surgery by someone who’s been standing on the sidelines just watching the surgeon for 15 years or would you want surgery with the actual surgeon that’s been actually doing it and living it all his life for 15 years. To me that’s no-brainer. I’m with Mandi on this one.
Oop ! I must of missed the trigger warning around the half way mark. What a foul thought. And these creepy uncles are everywhere. I play at a poker game that attracts em like dust. I rebuke em all.
Im so glad i met my match 11 years ago. Cause all this talk about dating seem complicated AF... All i had to do was be a damn hoe and live my life the whole entire time i was single until i found my match. Now 11 years in with kids, Happy and we have our fun with others somtimes. I feel like u shouldnt pay to find love or someone... Live your life, know your red flags and boundaries.. and that person will come to you.
Please make the destination between “dating couch” and Couples counselor/therapist. Your therapist is meant to give you tools, and lead you to come to your own conclusions and decisions, We are not meant to give “advice.”
51:30 i think it depends on the needs of the child. As a parent you wont always be able to meet the needs however it's important to communicate instead of thinking this child doesn’t realize or even aware of.
Sometimes Weezy can be annoyingly obtuse. The key point she kept missing was sexuality. Dr. Bryant is qualified because she’s a woman who’s been in a relationship with men speaking to other women wanting to be in a relationship with men and vice versa. Anwar has never been in a relationship with a woman so that right there disqualifies him to give advice.
I feel like Mandii is conflating “good” parent with “perfect” parent. Because you absolutely can be a good parent but you’ll never be perfect.
@@kianahughes7373That’s my girl but she was conflating a lot this episode!
Trauma. Probably why the reason she doesn’t want to have kids.
She projects a lot of her shit onto the pod.
To be doing this for so long I often wonder why she hasn't changed this part of her podding style
Totally agree.
Agreed 💯
i love mandii and thinks she's hilarious and well-meaning, but she simply cannot speak outside of her own perspective. she lets her own trauma with her dad, men, etc. color every single conversation. i understand providing your perspective, but be able to speak outside of it too. this is just bad podcasting at this point and it's so glaringly obvious. just because you had a bad relationship with your dad, doesn't mean a good parent can't exist! good parents and perfect parents aren't the same - which is exactly why perfect and good are 2 different words.
Agreed. There's a lot of projection going on there.
Trying to compare autism with pedophilia is insanely WILD. Autism is NOT a sickness; Pedophilia IS a sickness and a crime. It's gross to put them in the same sentence.
I feel like I understood her intent. The words could be misconstrued, but I don't believe she meant it negatively, more so that both things are not nuerotypical and are/need to be treated with their own criteria..
That's not what she was trying to say.
Think about it less as a "sickness" and more as, this is how their brain is wired. & you can't rewire someone's brain if they are born to function in that way.
Nature v. Nurture can be debated with pedophilia however, there are many victims who don't turn around to victimize others. I don't think they are "created".
Both of these categories of humans are born the way they are on a neurological basis.
All that to say.......don't think of the comparison in a negative way, think more critically than that. ❤
@@smome777 Thank you for this. I appreciate your feedback. I can and do think critically, but I still disagree ... and that's okay.
@Cami_CC Thank you! Definitely gave that moment major side eye
@@Cami_CC I agree that it's okay 👍🏾
I listen to Whoreible every week for the unapologetic insight outside the cisgender heteronormative hellscape we all live in. Mandii has always been loud, proud, and a voice for this space… but this week? I’m disappointed. 😔 Why dismiss someone’s entire work just because their sexuality doesn’t align with yours?
Hasn’t she always celebrated and enjoyed the queer community? She’s literally praised queer folks for the way they handle relationships with high integrity. So, why switch up now? And can we talk about how defensive she got when Weezy (btw, LOVE you downnnn!! Let’s be besties lol) asked perfectly valid questions?
This episode was tough to watch, especially for a solo ep. I get that she likes to fully form her opinions before diving into a topic, but Mandii-pick a side! Queer people aren’t just here for your pleasure, boo… we’ve got full lives too.
Perfectly worded. Last sentence, 10/10!!
She’s not dismissing it, she’s saying it doesn’t work for her. His accreditation still stands, just not with her. & let’s not act like the queer community isn’t critical or in some cases don’t mess with certain groups/“types”
Episode was cool and all but Id really love to hear your take on Andrew Schultz and Alexx Media (who you all work with intimately, at least Weezy) joking and laughing about Black women and their negative presence/impact in relationships.
I want to hear what they have to say but not realllyyyyyy..........I feel like it's going to come down to "we know him in real life so we don't care".
I love these ladies but like what can they truly say about what happened like..........now I know how Alexx feels about black women and these women being biracial is never lost on me......I think sometimes we need to take in the entire picture and just take it as it is........
Again.....I love them downnnnnnn, but they brought Vinny from Jersey Shore on the pod and he mentioned Italian NYers racism as "cute racism" and they also laughed.......so yeah........
Just have to see it as what it is and what the "capacity" is.....I know what I can & CANNOT get from them. *shrugs*
They will probably bring it up on Patreon
It never seems to me that Mandi actually listen to the question or details of things outside of sex. You don't need to know the definition of an "active dad" to know what an active parent is. And comparing the amount of time you put into your children and a side chick is wild! She gives off the vibe as long as I'm taken care of Idc what you are outside of our relationship.
Mandii just be talking 😂😂😂😂
“As long as we don’t argue.” The end of the podcast “wrap it up then” 😭
The aesthetics of the room is niiiice! The different shades of tan and gold with the two of them wearing black is a vibe. Everything looks really good. Ok, now back to listening.
I stop liking Mandy more and more each episode. Her energy is ugly, and why didn’t she say any of that while the guest was there?! Therapy hasn’t helped her one bit. Just take Mandy out the equation, Weezy is a MUCH more pleasant personality and host!!
100%
She KNEWWWWW anwar would have readddd her downnnnnn!!! She was scared
I just came from mandiis live but i think its a little hypocritical to say a gay man cant give straight couples advice but you also said on your live that you can give advice on parenting even though you dont have kids. Its very picky and choosey and a little ignorant even with the excuse of saying it from a childs point of view because i could just say that my advice for a straight couple is just coming from my view as someone in a relationship in general.
I NEVER said I could GIVE advice on parenting. Ya'll do not listen and comprehension skills lack. -M
@@MandiiBTV I mean I can say the same to you with half of your arguments. YOU don’t LISTEN you just speak OVER people without COMPREHENDING.
Exactly the fundamentals of relationships and making them last are the same in both gay and straight relationships
If you’re spending that much bread on a dating coach, it’s with marriage (or life partner) in mind…not something casual that you’ve been doing for free anyways. Ngl, Mandi I love you but sometimes it seems like u just wanna debate for sport lol
Mandi saying she can’t take advice from a homosexual on dating is crazy . They date men and so does she . They may be more qualified . You can learn something from any one .
as a PANSEXUAL/bisexual Woman. i agree completely with her, if im in a “heterosexual relationship” im not getting advice on someone who wouldn’t know the lifestyle of a heterosexual man
I do tooo.. homosexual male has a total different mind than a heterosexual male. @@maishesbeautiful
@@DatKat28 everyone is acting so appalled. he has no idea the romantic lifestyle of a heterosexual man. yes they can give advice on everything else.. man to man. but the ROMANTIC relationship dynamics are vastly different.
Very true, Mandi’s Autism comment was wild too🤦🏽♀️
@@maishesbeautiful You think gay men don’t know the lifestyle of heterosexual men? 😂
mandi is weird for debating that man’s marriage based on legality that’s soooo sus
also the way she’s saying homosexual
I didn't DEBATE it. I asked a question. Idc idc -M
I agree
But she loves effing men
Weezy’s fits are always tea
I think comparing a psychotherapist with phd degree to a dating coach should be different conversations. A dating coach should be judged on their success for their customers and therapist on how well is their interventions & message.
Agreed!!
Anwar gave some great advice from a "dating coach" perspective. He's a person. He has dated. And I doubt you guys would have had him on the show if he had a failing rate of people he has helped. So saying he's a gay man so I wouldn't take advice from his is wild.
Also there isn't a such thing as a perfect parent. Most parents are doing the best they can anyway with the resources they have. But you can be a good parent and have some failures just like you can be a "bad parent" and have some good moments.
I agree with Weezy, we definitely need more content on healthy fatherhood
You CAN be a good parent , Mandi confused .
I disagree with Mandii that there aren’t any good parents. I’m friends with some amazing mothers…. I also did agree on the dating advice from Anwar. He gave some great advice on boundaries that I think would’ve saved me a lot of wasted time had I known better. I don’t think you necessarily have to have direct lived experience to witness something and advise on a better way. I think we should be open to learning instead of shutting things down at hello.
Wow mandiii but u didn't say none of this to him when he was on the show tho!! smh.... LOL YOU KNEWW BETTERRRRR!!!
Facts...
That part!
Spending quality meaningful time to connect with your kids is a big part of active parenting.
Weezy look fine af with the braces.
They are both BEAUTIFUL women! 💕
I would love a solo show from Weezy
😂 nah we need Mandi to be toxic and balance out the energy
I’ve been wanting Solo Weezy too. She has great insight.
It’s sad that she thinks Whoreible is nothing without Mandii when in reality that’s all we want 😭
@@ajayyy928 that’s not what she said but k. lol
Their chemistry is unmatched!!
Some ppl really view gay ppl as “others” and only see them in a sexual sense and that’s sad.
One of these 2 people are those people as well.
I really don’t think she does. I think it’s just her preference . Just like a black person wanting a black therapist because they can relate more than a different race therapist. Maybe her wording was off, but I don’t think she ment it in a harmful way.
I think the problem is that she’s misunderstanding what a dating coach does. She seems to think it's like getting advice from a friend, but dating coaches focus on helping YOU grow. She mentioned something like 'What do gay men know about heterosexual dating if they’re on Jack’d or Grindr,' which sounded off to me. He’s not there to give tricks to make someone fall for you; it’s about improving yourself and your mindset so you’re better prepared for dating.
@@Lind419 but some of his advice is tricks and tips
@@Lind419 but I do hear you, Mandi is a sexual being and I think she is viewing it from a sexual place
But also still hurt from her previous relationship. I know I hated men after my break up and was negative about everything. She has a lot of healing to do still
30 seconds in and I'm already crying at the Eddin shade 😂
Im I the only person who sees that Mandi has difficulties articulating her point in a way the audience can receive and understand where she’s coming from, if I’m not mistaken she has expressed this concern on a patreon episode. I see she gets dealt with pretty harsh in the comment section a lot and I honestly believe we should be more cautious in how we give our critic cause some are down right attacks! Also she has the right to have her opinion, she has the right to choose and that’s that. That doesn’t mean anti anybody necessarily yall just love to speculate and pile on her. Love you Mandi 🩵 all the way from France, you got it girl!
I agree that Mandii often struggles to articulate her thoughts AND the comments usually pile on her for it. I have a friend like Mandii who struggles to articulate her thoughts and feelings so I try to be patient and ask for clarification. I also remind her words mean things.
@@ccc_330 I also honestly feel Weezy eggs on and it almost seems vicious. Mandi disagrees and she’ll keep going on and on and on when Mandi has clearly stated her opinion period! It’s annoying and I’ve noticed people rarely address her and how she comes across with the way she be going on and on on what she thinks without failing to realise to respect other peoples perspective.
@@YahyaYT_10 Weezy for sure does. She does it to Mandii and some guest.
I agree 100%
Mandi talking crazy again lol
Mandi be roasting the guests once they aint there , LMAO I cannot !
We both have done this. -M
Great conversations today! Especially the parent convo. My son’s dad and I live in different states and I always considered him an active dad. He saw him minimum once a month and on school breaks. We recently switched roles so my son lives with him full time and the mom guilt is toughhh. I never once thought his dad didn’t do enough but now that the roles are reversed I’m constantly trying to make sure I’m doing enough and a lot of times that comes out financially bc it’s the easiest way for me to “show up” with us being 7 hours apart. Idk how any of this will affect him as an adult but we’re both just doing our best! No good or bad, just parents
Mandii saying she doesn't have a Florida accent 😭😂
Mandi screaming “bukkake” and then motioning to weezy
Lmaooo!!!
I had this long ass comment about homophobia but I deleted it bc fuck it, it’s not important. This podcast is not queer-inclusive enough for me. Maybe I’m too young or too gay for this but I’m good on it 😭
Haven't finished the episode yet but i LOVE the solo episodes
Same
I think if you paying a dating coach to get you into a relationship the goal is marriage. Also I’d take advice from anwar but idk about the doctor cause she doesn’t give relationship advice. She’s more of an individual counselor
Yay Edin is back!!
As a parent to an autistic 3 yo. Mandi has lost me as a supporter. I am furious that you just compared those two things to one another.
I have a brother who has autism and I understood that Mandii was using it as an analogy or sharing the similarity of the two being something neurodivergent. And that’s it. I don’t think she had any ill intent just couldn’t find the words for saying that pedophilia is something that isn’t curable because it’s a mental illness.
She doesn't think before she speaks at all.
The Energy in the first 10 seconds 🔥🔥😩
Mandi … momma you literally finger pop, STRAP down & eat men’s booties just as the gay relationship expert does … many heterosexual black men would consider that gay so why again can’t he give relationship advice when yall like the same kinda men 🤔 also your experience growing up w ur dad doesn’t mean men can’t provide AND be physically AND emotionally present. ANY MAN who can’t do these things are not active fathers 😵💫 we needa raise our expectations about this shiii because the kids are suffering!!! Also I love yall - both of your opinions always suprise me and keeps the podcast fresh.
Your first point!!!! 🗣️
For yearssssss Mandi has always said her dad wasn’t shit and he wasn’t around…which one?!
Righttttt! And now he was there every other weekend, got her the best gifts worked hard… I’m so confused!
I’m ready for this tour next year🥰
I have so much to comment on.
First, Weezy, and her braces....girl, I've been there. Wax is definitely helpful to protect your lips and cheeks while you slob a knob.
Second, I agree that sending money does NOT make you an active parent. That's all my father cared about. He couldn't WAIT to stop paying child support, but didn't care about how his kids were actually doing. I don't necessarily wish that I'd spent more time with him growing up; I wish he'd wanted to spend time with us. On the flip side, my mother was very active, but I still don't consider her a good mother. She wasn't active in the ways I really needed, but I do think she did the best she could with what she had.
Third, I sort of agree with Mandi about Anwar.....sort of. While it is a bit strange for a gay man to be giving straight women dating advice, it's coming from the perspective OF A MAN. Men know how men think, and so he's telling women what they should do to get the results they want. Hell, Steve Harvey did it with his book "Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man".
I like the conversation around fatherhood brings out a different perspective
I think I get what Mandii was trying to say but there are definitely plenty of good parents out there. Parents that are super involved and kind and patient, help there kid explore, let them figure out for themselves who they are, guide them without cruelty, nurture their interests, etc.
And no you cant be a good dad making babies with a bunch of kids with multiple women
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And female predators still aren't taken seriously.
Mandii was talking so crazy this episode I had to leave a comment. And I am now seeing similar opinions here too lol. Love her tho 😂
I just love y’all! Can’t wait to see yall live again 🥹❤️
An active parent is very subjective. I’m a single mom, child lives with me, dad is in another state. I used to say we co-parent but someone made me realize, I parent and just relay information to him on how the parenting is going. He does step in with certain things because how our child is she need tough love from a man to listen lol. Also I will say when we did live together he was a majority “inactively present”; think the dad just sitting on the watching the game but the kids on the floor playing and there’s little to no interaction.
Children are not the same, even if they have the same parents. That said, a good and active parent is someone who recognizes what their individual kid(s) need emotionally, physically, educationally, etc. and adjust accordingly to meet the child where they are.
As for Weezy saying the goal post is moving for men, it’s an excuse. Men encounter new things, expectations, etc. on their jobs and figure it out so why can’t they figure it out when it comes to romantic relationships and parenting? They can but choose not too! (I’m generalizing and recognize this does not apply to all men)
“Girl no you didn’t”
The way Mandi pointed at Weezy & said boococky😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg friend @weezy love the bracesssssss!!!
Happy when I heard Eden a couple of weeks ago.
I love the new metal Wheezy
lol.. “ I don’t sound like them”. Sounded like them. Sorry lol😂😂
Okaaaaay bracezzzz
"I also hav these new braces i shouldmt have been reading a nrw article" lolllll
I lowkey understood what Mandi was trying to say. If society treated pedophilia more like mental illness and less criminal it’d be easier to address
But autism is not a mental illness…so her comparing the two was not right.
Mandii is so damn cynical about every damn thing lol. 😂
Dr Bryant never said she was a relationship coach
Awww you look so cute w the braces Weezy!
Shout out to LA with love from a bay girl
I believe certain advice regarding a relationship can be given from any sexuality. I’m gay, but would still take relationship advice from someone straight. Good advice is good advice.
Mandi sure wears a lot of crosses for an atheist
I don’t think sexuality matters when giving advice on dating. We can learn something you don’t have to take the advice either. Anwar been in field for 15 years and had success stories plus he is a man at end of day so I disagree with Mandi on this one.
Oh how I missed this show !
Having a shitty morning, and I needed my girls
So the woman that did the work, graduated and got the degrees cant be a coach/guide ?? Wow
Weezy stay with that hair style. Soooo dam flattering!
I agree, it just fits her
Ladies this was another great episode I love you guys so much
I feel Mandi .
It’s the same reason we choose black therapists vs white because they are not going to be able to relate in the same scale. Or why we choose a woman obgyn then a man ( again this is your preference) but I’m not having a man tell me about my body . The delivery may not be the best but I get what she’s saying .
I’m 100% agreeing w Mandii takes lately 😤
The way she said Florida shit is the same way I feel about “Bay Ishhh” if sum hyphy ish come on it’s a wrap for me serving goddess with sum work cuz I’m goin Stooopid💥💥💥
Dr. B seems like the type of doctor that tries to break up your relationship because she wants your man🤣🤣🤣 watch the Queenmaker’s commentary on that chick, she’s a lil crazy.
Eddin is my gay crush. He's such a cutie bear. Help a gay podcast lol
He's exploiting that baby. That doesn't mean he's a good dad at all. He had a baby with HALLE &found a way to get more views with the baby....I wish I didn't see that, but that's all I see.
This is kinda weiiiiiirdddd - W
@WHOREibleDecisions it sounds weird to someone who may not have watched his channel before he had the baby. Everything he could think of to show that baby he tried. Halle was the one who didn't want the baby seen at first. His sister turned the baby in front of the camera one time like it was a mistake & everything. Ddg lives his life in front of the camera of course that's how he makes his money & he wants his baby the same way. Only thing is, it's not his baby ALONE. Again it may sound weird but it's also weird to say that if you haven't been paying attention to ddg before the baby & while Halle was pregnant. Sooooo.......
@WHOREibleDecisions I also want to add because I left this out. I still know he loves his baby but this man will do anything for views. That's how he became a millionaire on youtube.
Wheezy, I thought it was just me. I thought the Dr started off the interview with Cam poorly. She was defensive from the beginning when he joked that her answer to ‘where are you from’ was long and involved. He just meant what part of the world did you live in. Cam was never able to fix the tone of interview after that.
I know they film ahead of time.But i do want to hear their opinion on pdiddy freak offs
So ignorant of Mandi to compare & contrast Pedophilia with Autism
Not the same st all,SMDH
Added to Our Culture Now Playlist🏆
Aww weezy with braces is hella cute!
I feel Mandi...at any moment of the day as women we get objectified just being in the world so how would a gay guy man help me fully navigate in dating when he cnt relate
People accept the bare minimum or even below that from men as partners and parents if they have money it's actually sad.
Mandii was on point this episode. Good arguements
Thank you. -M
No i didn’t know what the R word was. thank you
Wezzy is super cute with braces ❤❤❤
Sounds like Weezy is jealous of Dr. Bryant. This lady clearly said she's not coaching "married" people. She said these people are coming to her as individuals that are coming to her to work on themselves to be able to work towards their marriage. She points out what they work on I dividually to be able to work on themselves to be better in their relationships. Weezy finally found a man that "loves" her & probably felt intimidated like Cam Newton over this woman talking about high functioning individuals because Weezy calls herself a whore & didnt know how to set boundaries. I think Anwar gives great advice & Dr. Bryant does too. Both are great!
Lmao I think Dr Bryant is fire, agreed with all that shit said on the pod, and I’m also unmarried tffff lol
@WHOREibleDecisions I still think there was jealousy & you taking up for Cam Newton more but it's fine. Cam Newton was the INTERVIEWER & intimidated from the jump. Did you see the whole interview? As soon as she answered the first question he asked. He was annoyed & responded with, he didn't ask all that. That showed his insecurities right away.
Would you want to get open heart surgery by someone who’s been standing on the sidelines just watching the surgeon for 15 years or would you want surgery with the actual surgeon that’s been actually doing it and living it all his life for 15 years. To me that’s no-brainer. I’m with Mandi on this one.
Oop ! I must of missed the trigger warning around the half way mark. What a foul thought. And these creepy uncles are everywhere. I play at a poker game that attracts em like dust. I rebuke em all.
Im so glad i met my match 11 years ago. Cause all this talk about dating seem complicated AF... All i had to do was be a damn hoe and live my life the whole entire time i was single until i found my match. Now 11 years in with kids, Happy and we have our fun with others somtimes. I feel like u shouldnt pay to find love or someone... Live your life, know your red flags and boundaries.. and that person will come to you.
Please make the destination between “dating couch” and Couples counselor/therapist.
Your therapist is meant to give you tools, and lead you to come to your own conclusions and decisions, We are not meant to give “advice.”
EDEN SHUTTT UPPPP!!
They were asking him his opinion lol
51:30 i think it depends on the needs of the child. As a parent you wont always be able to meet the needs however it's important to communicate instead of thinking this child doesn’t realize or even aware of.
Sexuality matters. A gay man can’t tell me how poosie feel lol
Sometimes Weezy can be annoyingly obtuse. The key point she kept missing was sexuality. Dr. Bryant is qualified because she’s a woman who’s been in a relationship with men speaking to other women wanting to be in a relationship with men and vice versa. Anwar has never been in a relationship with a woman so that right there disqualifies him to give advice.
What’s the tea w Mandi beefing w her old co host? Are they referring to Bridget? I loved their dynamic 🥺 noticed they don’t follow each other on ig /:
Mandi! Same girl! I’m 5’ and I tell my friends I need a man over 6’ because I don’t feel as short as I actually am!! Lmao!!
Second 😢
42:32 MANDI FALSEEE!! IM A FANTASTIC PARENT! YOU HAVE NO ROOM TO SPEAK ON THIS TOPIC HUNN!!
26:29 Trigger Warning for the R word