Alexis I transitioned 38 years ago in the UK and I can assure there was no evidence of "Transphobia" back then, in fact the word was never even used. People were genuinely curious if they discovered you were trans but mostly tolerant and accepting.
Indeed. Few people care what toilets you use if you're an obviously female presenting transexual woman. It becomes a problem when men in bad wigs are transferred to women's prisons. Objecting to this isn't transphobia.
I totally agree with you, I never even knew about trans back then or even see any trans people, it's only been in the last five years that I've seen trans people and there is certainly no transphobia with them.
I think the nutters, trying to force themselves down everyone's throats, being offended by everything but demanding that we accept all their waffle and BS (like "I get periods now" or "I take hormones and now my body has turned into the opposite sex" or I will be able to have a baby!!) No, they are creating dislike, distrust.....
@@lynettefinnigan9540 Yes! What you have to understand is those people are almost always autogynephilic transsexuals they fetishise and and are obsessed with female bodily functions. It's not real gender dysphoria.
True.I had two trans women friends around 15 years ago,and nobody bothered them in any way.This "transphobia"today is totally due to fanatical,insufferable trans activists,who have turned people against trans people,and the nice,normal trans people are suffering the backlash too.
In my limited personal experience, individuals who live with true gender dysphoria, have an immense amount of respect and care for the gender they want to transition to. It shows more in the trans-women I have met. They are hyper aware of the biological women in their space and their comfort with their presence. The ladies I have met, carry themselves with grace and dignity, despite any rude comments. The XX women usually support and embrace trans-women. What we don't respect are misogynists demanding to be let into our spaces, while looking like a trucker who hasn't ever met razor before. Love your channel. I hope you are able to have interviews with Buck or Blaire.
I usually respect trans-women too. Not the ones who still act misogynistic towards other women (but I also don't respect biological women who put their own gender down as well). This is still a man's world, it does us no good to be so divisive but expect positive change.
@@hinachan70 I jokingly put down my biology but not women. My body didn't like the hormonal changes of pregnancy which started an autoimmune disease in me, which nearly claimed my first born, and has affected me the rest of my life. I was live and let live era of kids growing into adulthood during the 90s. From entering middle school, to entering bars, what an impact a decade can make on an impressionable mind.
I respect trans-women as well, but I also recognise toxic masculine traits and male entitlement when I see it. And I can't see those who display them as fellow women, it's so obvious they are different from me they might as well have it tattooed on their forehead
To me, those who actually have the disorder are far more down to earth, the ones getting loud, nasty or violent are the frauds trying to convince people they are something they are not. It's so much easier to be empathetic with someone who is pleasant rather than someone who just wants to argue and fight in an attempt to force me to play along with whatever they have going on in their heads...
I’m a woman. I’m also a qualified car mechanic. I am feminine, but I’m also interested in “male type” interests. I love being a woman, but I have a masculine side. Im a wife, and I’m a mother, and I love how complex my interests are. This is my personality. It certainly doesn’t make me trans. I think lots of people these days confuse character/personality with gender. 🌹
Absolutely love watching trans RUclipsrs like you, Blaire, Buck, Marcus, and Sara. We need more of the level-headedness and actual open-mindedness like you all have!
Go show support to people struggling, either with getting their message out or with having support Alexander L, or KC🦎 are two whom I can think of off the top of my head
Hello - I am a ‘mature’ lady who is of an age that remembers that transsexual people were always regarded as members of the community who just wants to get on with life. It is the new age aggressive activists on social media, within health, education, media and government who have upset the apple cart for EVERYONE. I follow all the lovely people named here BUT love Alexis as a fellow northern lass.🇬🇧
I don't mind trans people. To each their own and they deserve the best lives they can make for themselves. However, I truly find these aggressively arrogant activists trying to tell others what to think, believe, follow or do to be abhorrent. Especially when it comes to permanently changing children's natural biology. That is why I would like to thank you, Alexis, for being one of the few active voices of reason in this whole discussion.
That's the shit of it, right? I've no issue with trans folk. I have a problem with the TRAs (trans radical activists) they've made a joke out of the entire LGB community.
As a woman, my innate femininity is something that has always been sacred to me. You personify that truly undefinable trait without disrespecting anyone. You’re clearly such an incredible woman, and I pray that your kindness and compassion aren’t touchable by the negativity the internet can bring.
As a trans woman who is just starting her transition, I thank you for being a voice of reason and demonstrating to the world that trans people can be reasonable. All of the trans people that I have met so far have also been reasonable, just wanting to live their lives in peace, which leads me to believe that those that are disrespectful and demanding are just a very small, however loud, minority. Keep up the good work.
No doubt a minority, but loud and aggresive and somehow thry have taken upon themselves to represent you. Honestly, the majority I have seen(tik tok) do not really seem trans.
Best of luck. It's the people that have to deal with gender dysphoria & possible insecurity when transitioning that make these "trans" people that act like narcissistic psychopaths frustrate me so much. (Other than when they try to make it possible for children to potentially permanently disfigure themselves, sterilize themselves & ruin their lives in general...) The people dealing with gender dysphoria generally deserve empathy & for people to leave them alone while they try to live their lives & these activists try to make it appear that anyone who is "trans" is completely deranged & self absorbed.... I can't imagine how much more difficult they make your life.
Alexis a genuinely wonderful and warm person. She's actually tolerant and accepting of others, but confident enough in herself to call out BS, and humble enough to recognize what's her personal view and perspective and how it differs from what's an actual fact. It's not that we simply need more trans women like Alexis, the world in general would be a better place if more people were like her. Period! She lives her life as her authentic self but also sincerely cares about others. Her beauty on the inside manifests on the outside! She's glowing :DDD You're doing amazing, Alexis!! Can't wait for what else you have in store for 2024
You know you don't have a leg to stand on on trans issues when trans people call your bs out. Thanks Alexis, Marcus, Blair, Buck... for being out here educating us
Yes, Alexis is one of the “level-headed” trans youtubers out there. But I feel inclined to add that she stands out even amongst the company of Blaire, Marcus, Buck, etc., because she consistently comes from a place of compassion and empathy and kindness, and she is mindful of her language and tone. *This* is what makes her special, because those qualities are generally missing from *both* sides. Alexis, you are not “overly polite” you are KIND! You don’t want to hurt people! So you do you, because that is a rare and beautiful quality x
I absolutely LOVE that someone recognized her and called her by the wrong name and her reaction was not to embarrass them (most get flustered when they realize they are calling someone the wrong name after going on and on about loving them).. by correcting them because they were gushing and being sweet. The They/Them "community" cult can totally take a lesson from her graceful actions. You are impressive and high quality Alexis.
that was my first thought, she didn't need to correct them and embarrass them unlike these people screaming from the rooftops Iv e been misgendered, how dare you..
Yeah. I had a lecturer who would call me Ashley (my legal name is Ash) and I'd just be like, "Well, not my name, but whatever floats your boat." The part that amused me was "I didn't have the heart to tell her..." ...so just tell the world instead. 😂
I appreciate you just like Buck & Blaire for being honest & not trying to convince the world of falsehoods. This is what it is, & respect can be earned that way.
The ad segue was truly smooth AF. Also love how you're calling out bullshit but in such a kind & respectful manner which goes to show trans/non-binary discourse can happen without screaming & intimidation (Jubilee, please take notes)
Thank you, Alexis, for positivity representing us as a sane, rational and beautiful trans woman! It gets SO frustrating constantly seeing the loudest and most obnoxious “trans” attention seekers getting the spotlight when more than half the time they don’t even know the difference between a period and an overindulgent Taco Bell related intestinal cramp. If I was 20 years younger I’d be putting myself out there, but when you’re approaching 40 and have watched your community devolve over the last 20 years from a group of people born the wrong sex looking out for each other into an “accept everything” space for attention seekers, perverts, and whatever non-binary is (not trans), one gets jaded pretty quickly. Being trans is a medical condition, not a social construct, act, or fashion statement. People NEED to know this. I’m looking forward to your upcoming video with you and Liam, my husband is too, because after a neigh decade long relationship with a trans woman, he also suffers from lack of decent representation.
100% This ideology will bring my BFF TW’s rights back to zero. You gals need to be represented properly without this creepy non sense. Please, take care of yourself 💜
Hello Alexis and Liam! I hope you're living your best life today! I'm a 53yr old gay guy. I consider myself pretty liberal, or at least I used to. The far left and the far right can't even be called extreme anymore. They're just bat f'n crazy!! Thank you most of all for telling people if you're screaming, no one is listening and you're making all of us look bad. How can you request respect when you don't seem to know the first thing about it? You both are so open. So well spoken, respectful and honest. ( And you're both gorgeous! )You present a sane and reasonable opinion with facts and experience to back it up and are advocating for a simple and respectful conversation about something that has been seriously overblown by a bunch of pretty much kids that are trying to find their way in a difficult and judgemental world. This whole movement of non-binary concepts being put on children who are already nuts from puberty and have no idea who they are yet is just adding more confusion to an already confused mind. Let a child develop into something before you start trying to change it into something else. Masculine girls and feminine boys have always existed. They didn't feel the need to become something other than what they were until that option was forced into their fragile little heads. My sister was big, strong, sporty and "one of the guys" from the time she was about 5. My mom used to drive her nuts trying to make her wear dresses. She was even the stereotypical softball coach. Clutch the pearls! Lesbian or boy for sure!! Today in some circles she would've been on hormones and who knows what else. She's now 63 and has been happily married to a man for over 35 years and she's totally an old fashioned girly girl. Keep up the good work. Whether I agree with everything you say or not to me is irrelevant. The important part is being able to have basic conversation from a reasonable and open, mutually respectful place where everyone gets a chance to be heard and to listen. What a miracle that would be! Hmm. A couple of those and we might actually get somewhere.
You could give lessons around the world in how to be a respectful human. We could all use some of that British politeness. Especially in the US. I don't think they teach it in school anymore. They're too busy being psychiatrists and doctors to teach basic reading, writing, math, science and social skills. That's what school used to be for.
I love Alexis, Blaire, Buck and Marcus. ❤ Thank you! I was almost sucked into the cult as a gay man. My views have completly changed in the past 5 years. Its crazy the things that people are coming up with.
Doesn’t help that not only are they erasing women and our rights, they are doing the same thing to lesbians and gays. I think the whole thing is sick. We all deserve our OWN spaces. Women’s groups are being invaded by men and vice versa for men. I seriously think it’s disgusting. As a woman I would sooner eat broken glass than sign up for a gay men’s app. Wtf is wrong with these people.
I'm a boring woman, always have been, but over the years I've been 'misgendered' several times. No biggie for me, just politely pointed out the error if necessary, then moved on. People make mistakes sometimes and getting your knickers in a twist and spreading hate about it is not helpful to anyone. If somebody makes a mistake, be kind!
These people are so tired! I’m a biological male, my birth name is Alexis, and people often get confused as to why I go by he/him, even though I’m very effeminate lol I don’t care about getting misgendered whatsoever. I’m male and will always be male no matter how much estrogen I were to put in my body 😅
My birth name is Alexis, I am a biological female but in my culture (Mexican) it’s actually a unisex name. I changed my name to a more feminine name despite transitioning to present more masculine (don’t ask me why I just liked the name lol) and sometimes I wish I didn’t change it because I passed better as a man pre hormones with my previous name lol.
Heehee, it's adorable to see you challenge your British sensibilities in order to express what you really think. As a Canadian, and a woman, I can relate. Now that I'm in my 50s I mostly speak my mind and wish I had started sooner. The world needs more sensible voices like yours.
Alexis, you do a wonderful job! Marcus, Blaire, Buck, and you help to keep the LGBT community represented in a sane and respectful way. The transgender, q,I,… community are disrespectful, thrown childish temper tantrums, screaming, insulting, etc, and they are turning back the progress of those of us that have been working so hard to achieve for decades. I’ve been an LGBT activist since the early 1980’s! They called me transphobia, homophobic, outdated, and a terf! I would have never have called my LGBT elders those things! They turn to name calling when they know they have lost the debate. Their poor behavior can lose us laws that’s we have gained and medical benefits.
Alexis- you have such a beautiful light to you. I appreciate these videos; our community really needs more voices like yours. People are too afraid to call out the poor, silly behavior, and it's effecting our rights. If more level-headed community members such as yourself spoke truth, this world could truly become a better place. Our community is not a monolith, and not all of us live in Clown World. You are giving a voice to the silent majority. Thank you ❤
I recently have started watching your videos! I love your personality, your commentary when you react to different creators, etc. You and Tranpa have great reactions lol, I love it!
Both Buck and Blaire say it as it is. In a crazy world, I appreciate that so much. Alexis, never be afraid to be honest, but I also love that you want to be nice to people even if you are shaking your head inside.
I loved this video with all the different directions of thought, lol. It’s like really sitting down with you and chatting. I am not usually a fan girl but, if I was ever to go across the pond, I would so love to meet you. You brighten my days. I hate that anyone has anything mean to say about you and I love how much class and grace you show.
You are beautiful. I don't just mean physical appearance, because you are beautiful but I mean you are a beautiful soul. I adore your calmness and fairness when addressing all different issues and topics. You and your partner are so wholesome and I wish you both nothing but peace and happiness :) in a confusing, chaotic world, your channel is an oasis of kindness, happy 2024 to you both ❤
I appreciate your content so much. As a parent who has always tried to raise my child as accepting, understanding and respectful of alternative lifestyles, the last decade or so has a been a wild ride. Creators like you who are just so genuine and open (and dont act like total crazies) have been really helpful. I think majority of people are fairly accepting of trans people however social media has turned a sharp corner and put everyone in the awkward position of having to differentiate between the "crazy and outlandish" and those who are just respectfully trying to live their lives in a body that is incongruent with their heart & mind. I hope building a family is in the cards for you one day, from what i have seen you would be a very loving mama. Take care Alexis
"They are screaming and shouting and demanding respect" - this is exactly the point! Massive thanks to you and Buck Angel for standing against this absolute narcissistic brat and the others. Threats and demands don't impress me, either. In fact it's your own clear respect for me that is part of why I respect you so much in turn. (It's like the opposite of a vicious cycle!) I wish we saw more of people like you in the media - level-headed, sensible, kind-hearted and just plain good people who know what it is to be Trans, and are prepared to share that with those of us who aren't Trans so that we can learn the truth, not someone's crazy agenda. Thank you for being you Alexis x
I really love Buck Angel. I'd like to thank whoever asked you to react to his videos, and you for go along with the suggestion. Your reactions are quite insightful. ❤
It's so great to see you talking such sense! These trans stormtroopers are doing you so much damage and you highlighting the contempt and misogyny they display (we don't see the same with trans men do we?) is so refreshing. Good work. Keep it up. Good luck to you.
As an American patriotic woman, I support Alexis Blake in her journey! She doesn't force me to play into her games. She has common sense and she doesn't treat others like s*** for having a different opinion because she realizes that she's a different kind of woman altogether! PS just because somebody's conservative doesn't mean they hate you for who you are or what you want to be. It's when you leave that realm of your own and then start to filter out and weed into others! It's just that simple. Have an opinion be who you are, but always know the you won't reach everybody. You won't change everybody's mind. And you have to be okay with knowing that that's OKAY! ❤
Alexis, love the reason we watch your videos is you. You are beautiful, respectful, gentle, kind and very loving. I had the joy of speaking with Buck Angel some years back and he is also very kind, gentle and genuinely nice. He is also quick to point out that he can also be confrontational when someone stands up and says ridiculousness. The both of you paint a very human face on a complicated topic and I thank you for it. My child has experienced mild dysphoria in her gender/sexuality and seeing someone so put together deal with the mud slinging that goes on in social media as well as in real life has helped her to become comfortable in her skin and confident in her choices (both past and future). You are making a difference in real people's lives in a positive manner. For that I will always thank you sincerely for being so open and honest to a bunch of strangers, some of whom will not be polite or even kind.
If they had tattooed THEY/THEM on their chest instead of the LIVE, LAUGH, GASLIGHT or whatever nonsense they chose, they wouldn't be so sad all the time.
you're my new favorite youtuber. love watching you. as a lesbian I've seen a lot of craziness going on in the lgbtq community and it's refreshing to see someone whos shares the same opinions without being hateful.
I am a gay man who has stood in staunch opposition to the current trans movement & their "woke" ideology. You, Alexis, I enjoy watching & am VERY HAPPY to support you & others who align with the ideologies you purport.
Your voice is so nice to listen to while I'm working, and it's nice to look up and see your pretty face on my screen. Thank you for the fantastic content, Alexis. ❤
There’s a lot happening in the world to worry about being misgendered love your videos! Even if you’re trans you definitely think like most people and I respect that! Life continues to change. For example I know Somali and Arabic and English because I learned them growing up! But I never thought I’d learn yet another language which is Chinese. I grew to really appreciate and enjoy the language after college and 4 years on I’m still learning. Everything is a process and I’m still a Somali Arab American with yet a new language I’m proud change is good! I’m happy that you are happy with change but you don’t push others to accept your way of thinking. Congrats on this channel 你很漂亮也很好看❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ You are beautiful and look awesome!!!!!
It occurred to me that this look was kind of bridal, and looks really beautiful! When you and Liam get married you should totally go for an off the shoulder dress with long hair ❤ loved this video Alexis, keep them up and being a reasonable voice in all the madness xxx
Well, here we go, i’m a conservative woman from New York City. I liked you from the start . I find you attractive with a great sense of humor, sweet and levelheaded. Good luck to you and Liam in the future.💖
Alexis, it's not crazy your channel is growing. You're such a sweetheart, so down to earth, and so eloquent. We love you ❤ I love listening to your videos when I'm doing chores at home or some creative work. It keeps me in a good mood, like talking to a friend. I wish you many more subscribers!
I am a female watching from Austria. And I love your Videos and your Art of beeing - inteligent, respectfull...and I love your KIND way very much ❤ (also so sweet that your style/make up is more subtle 😍) Much love from Vienna ❤🌺🙏
I am new to your channel and have immediately subscribed. I am always up for supporting sane, logical, critically thinking people who look at things in a balanced way. Will look forward to more of your work.
I've followed you since you released your tiktok about how you were outed at work. I told my mum about your video and showed her, she was amazed. She said about how naturally beautiful you are even back then in your earlier days of transition and that at first glance she wouldn't have even questioned if you were trans she would have just seen a woman. I've shown her videos since then and her opinion is still you're a natural beauty with an amazing attitude
I think of all the trans people I listen to on YT I appreciate you the most, because you just seem so normal, nuanced and down to earth. A lot of others, even though I support what they do, can have these extreme personalities or come across as angry or over it. You just always seem like you have great spirit and like the sort of person who is nice to everyone.
Hi, Alexis!! You are so sweet and gentle when you make your comments! I mean, you go right into the point, but with gentleness. I think this is what our world is mostly in need.
Alexis! Thank you so much for your content! My son (f/m) had to deal with family early on because of where we are from (southern United States) and I feel like both sides racted badly. I believe conservative people without a lot of world experience see these over-the-top examples of very dramatic trans people claiming very loudly they are being misgendered and it makes them react almost defensively and sometimes nervously. Should there be respect, absolutely. But not if there is no respect reciprocated. Oh my goodness, you are a wonderful example and I have brought you up to the rest of the family to positive results. My son has become much more relaxed now and actually much happier and comfortable in his own skin. He's like you in that he doesn't like those that seek drama for the sake of it and he doesn't react immediately when misgendered. Instead, he uses the moment for teaching, not harming.
I love your randomness. It cracks me up because I am the same way. I will be talking bout one thing, then see something shiny and talk about something else. Love your opinions!
Hey Alexis ( that's my wife's name too 😊) so glad I found ur content your a breath of fresh air and ur a beautiful soul inside and out.... Blair, buck and yourself please keep up the good fight u show not everyone in the community is delulu and are level headed
Your outlook is so sane, healthy and i would happily call you sister. Your kind heart and sensible nature, you are destined to have the happiest life. Love your style!!
I love it that you are jumping around with topics/ideas in your videos. That's how my brain works so and I'm sure others too. It's like talking with a friend.
Can you do a video of what it is like having the pov you do and how other woke trans people treat you? Love all your content Edit: example being those who believe biology doesn't matter, those who think straight men should date trans women,those who simply call everything and everyone who disagrees transphobic. I hope my comment is not disrespectful to you, I truly mean no disrespect.
I love how you see the world. Everyone sees things their own way. Blair and Buck have no filter lol. The extensions looked great. I look forward to more content!❤🥰
Hi Alexis, you were asking for ideas on your backdrop for Jan-Feb in an earlier video and I thought I'd respond here 😅. How about like red / pink roseas and hearts, for Valentine's Day? Or even some pink lights or something 😊
You are just so nice. :D I love you to bits! Regarding "They/then" pronouns. I've seen in my 69 years of live one person who legitimately earns that pronoun. I bought a $600 DSLR with the help of a salesperson who I absolutely could not identify whether they were male or female. They were absolutely a 'they/them'. The person in the video Bucl Angel reacted to was definitely NOT a 'they/them'. Presentation matters people! We are almost hard wired to respond to what we perceive as the gender they present as.
You’re such a pure soul ❤ You always show so much love and patience and I’m here for it. People butcher my name all the time and I just go with it too 🤣
6:23 No. you need a uterus to feel the hormonal aspect of having a period. Maybe it upsets their tummy, but it’s not anything like a period. These people are grasping at ludicrous straws.
You make the best point when you say if you're happy with yourself then the comments of others won't matter. It really comes down to whether or not you can sit and be happy with who you are.
I saw this vid right here and it reminded me of what happened to me the end of 2023 coming into 2024 so I wanted to share. I am pretty sure there are people out there that went through something like this or equivalent to this. I just want to make it clear that I love everyone because yes there are those that are trans who I am still friends with that I treat like family and when I am upset they are right there for me. I even had my friend IN my wedding (yes, I had him as my bridesmaid) and "HE" who wasn't ready then but with mine and my husband support finally went through everything and recently called me and "SHE" was respectful and told me thank you and tell my husband thank you for being there when no one else was, unlike these two. SO HERE IS MY STORY (I LEFT OUT SOMETHINGS THAT I FELT IS IRRELEVANT): The one taking T is Gen Z and the other one "CALLING" themselves non-binary is a late-Millennial/early GEN Z. Myself, I am a millennial raised as a Gen X. All I can say is that I have never felt so attacked🔪. I thought about leaving it out because of my recurrent depression and anxiety but I couldn't so keep in mind during the whole conversation I had with these two ex-friends they used the race card with me. Saying that I a single black temporarily disabled bio female that is going through physical therapy was going to break into their place (when they personally gave me a copy of their house key because they trusted me and no one else) when they were not there or attack them when they was sleeping, two white females. The one taking T (even though they have not gone through any physical visual changes) and the other one just "CALLING" themselves non-binary. So keeping that in mind here's the story. ~~~~~> I was friends with two people, one that is taking T and another one that is not but "CALLING" herself non-binary. I really didn't care I still treated the both of them like friends. One day they asked for my help with finding a new place to stay because the brother (of the one that is CALLING herself non-binary) is not clean. You know room dirty, he doesn't shower daily (like once every two/three weeks that shit), barely washes clothing, the common sense things. Well they never told the brother that they were moving out of the apartment till the day they started moving their stuff out of the apartment, which is the same day that he had to work. Forcing him to immediately move back in with family. Now here they are in a new apartment. I, a biological female who helped them both find and get into a new place which is in the same apartment complex as myself and my husband (a bio male) gets treated as if I did something wrong. I get told that I am toxic and manipulative, despite them never saying thank you for helping us find a new place on a very short notice. I don't get a thank you for helping them move their stuff into said new apartment while I was going through physical therapy because I have pain on one whole side of my body and I'm not supposed to be lifting anything over 5 pounds. I get told I am toxic and manipulative because I text both of them asking if I can hangout with the two of them on one their days off since I know when they have their two days off from work cause I used to work with them despite being let go while I was out on medical leave (Leave of Absence) and I am currently taking classes online at a University and rarely have time to hangout with anyone. Then the one taking T wants to say that I keep misgendering the other friend of mine that is non-binary (no I didn't), she still looks like a girl, she sounds like a girl, she acts like a girl, she still complain about having period cramps and getting her period, so I still call her by her birth name (before I start any friendship with anyone I let them know that I am an honest person and I call it like it is). HER MOTHER, OLDER BROTHER, YOUNGER BROTHER, YOUNGER SISTER, STILL CALL HER BY HER BIRTH NAME BUT EVERYONE ELSE IS MISGENDERING HER IF SHES CALLED BY HER BIRTH NAME OR CONSIDERED A SHE, SAME WITH THE ONE TAKING T EVEN THOUGH THEY STILL LOOK AND ACT LIKE GIRLS THEY EXPECT EVERYONE TO AUTOMATICALLY KNOW THAT THEY ARE NOT GIRLS. WHEN THEY DON'T TELL ANYONE ANYTHING AND JUST KEEP TO THEMSELVES. Since I have corrected them on the first of January this year, I have not talked to either one of them since, they want to go around and say I am being mean to them to make people feel sorry for them and that anyone they interact with that doesn't agree with them is transphobic or this doctor or nurse is misgendering me. The last thing I told them before they blocked me on everything that I interacted with them on, is that they both need to seek professional help (mental therapy) because what they are doing to people is not right. And that in my opinion they both are narcissistic and misogynistic (I know I probably used this term wrong) but they both think that they are better (ENTITLED) then me (a bio female) and everyone in the area that we currently live. The one taking T is currently having a mental breakdown and dysphoria, they both consume edibles thinking that it is going to help them with their problems, and its not. The one taking T wants everyone to feel sorry for them because the bio-dad and step-father passed away last year, and the sister is looking like she's going to pass away also. THEY blame everyone in the medical field because their bio-dad and step-dad could not be saved from death and now their sister is pretty much knocking on deaths door despite the doctors and nurses doing everything they can to save her. This person taking T says that they were an EMT but could not even understand that I someone who was a friend of theirs is allergic to shellfish (btw was hurt because this pass Christmas was the last time my mother was making gumbo and I couldn't eat it and cried and still do because I know how to make it, and ill make it if my husband wants some but I know he'll say no because I can't have any), and their partner had to explain that to them (sad). YOU CALL YOURSELF AN EMT BUT YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT AN ALLERGY IS. 🤷 I know the last thing I said to them might sound petty but I might as well say it but I told them to have a good New Year because most of the people that talk to them that are around my age or are a tad bit older aren't going to talk to them anymore because they weren't really their friends, they only called those two friends because I was friends with them so they wanted to support my decision to be friends with them. But that is because these people want to protect me because I am such a kind person (a friend of mine that I treat like my brother said that).❤ I am not afraid to admit it, I am getting the support I need for not only the physical pain (pain management) that I am going through but also the mental pain too. I just hope that one day when everyone has walked out of their lives and they feel completely alone in this world, they realize that people don't want to be around them because of how they act like they are better then everyone else (not who they are or feel that they are). Oh, I might want to add that they dropped and became mean to all their friends that were female and started to just hangout and be nice with people that are male. That's the part of the story that I felt was relevant to pretty much most of the videos out here on RUclips. I don't really do comments but your name made me think about my cousin and wonder when she was going to get married. Plus I would love to see a collab with Blair and I can't wait to see what you do with your fiancé. Keep up the good work. ❤
Your so beautiful , lovely femine energy , your helping to educate of the world on trans women and trans people , through your experiences, thoughts and resonableness … I’ve been around Trans people since the 1970s as a child , and it was a very safe and positive experience , but I was aware even as a child the hardships they faced , so it’s refreshing to see you and your rational status !! Lots of love ❤
I value your empathy and how you care to say things kindly and respectfully. I feel like that's really important. I honestly used to be a bit more that way too but I've hardened over certain subject areas. You end up tiptoeing around and trying not to hurt feelings when you're not getting that energy back. And these types of agendas go much deeper and darker than we see on the surface. If you dig deeper and follow the money on ANYTHING that's pushed in the mainstream media, and pushed aggressively, and has any dissent silenced and even legislated against very aggressively... it's all pulling on the same thread, one with very sinister end goals. But I appreciate your voice and you being a balance between the pendulum on this. It's nice to have your voice speaking more softly. You're right Blaire and Buck can be very blunt but I love that too and it's good to have different voices pushing back over certain issues.
You are on the nicest end, then Buck, then Sara Higdon, then Blair White. All of you are passionate and smart, and call it as you see it. Fun reaction to reaction video!
I'm so glad there are youtubers that can actually communicate. There are about 5/6 I follow and it brings me a lot of comfort 😅 because you're actually compelling. I think something you all do and a lot of activism destroys is the faith/confidence for people who are trans people in their real lives and their loved ones to comminicate without everything just being potentially incendiary. Most people aren't aiming to be 'transphobic' and most people aren't but it doesn't stop communication being hard because everything is just so loaded all the time.
You aren't needy for validation, that in itself makes you a queen luv! I just subscribed! I am so glad I found ya. As a gal who is on the spectrum, I don't necessarily act very feminine but I've NEVER thought I should be a man. I've had multiple people try and tell me that or I'm "non-binary"and well I think that's about as realistic as my not dressing in cosplay but claiming to everyone "I'm Rick Grimes. Can't you tell? Even though I have no cowboy boots? Sheriff outfit, or other things, I'm should just be assumed to be Rick Grimes." A lot of these newer genders and people complaining about how people assume, its how it goes. Idk I will of course be respectful but when it comes to absurdity of Neopronouns.. I hope that person isn't interacting with me much. Idk, I don't like navel-gazing about what my gender "Feels like.'
I love, just LOVE how Alexis is such a beautiful, centre/moderate/lib dem kind of a girl!! She makes sooo much sense, and her effervescence and sould beauty just shines through!!! Along with her wonderfully grounded and common sense demeanor!! I too am centre/lib dem and I just love that I can connect and finally found someone who just speaks so much effortless common sense!! Amazing!! Kerp it up Alexis 🥰🥰🥰
Aa, sanity, I honestly believe people like you and Buck bring a level awareness and credibility to the trans experience. As both are down to earth and realistic, I enjoy watching them both.
Blaire, Buck, Marcus and yourself are level headed ones the world needs
Agreed 🙌🏻
@@JanaRollerFitnessI'm in agreeance too! And I really like shapeshifter as well😊
And Ty. I’m not trans but I watch all of the above to get a reality check.
Don’t forget Alexis 😊
Don't forget Marcus!
Alexis I transitioned 38 years ago in the UK and I can assure there was no evidence of "Transphobia" back then, in fact the word was never even used. People were genuinely curious if they discovered you were trans but mostly tolerant and accepting.
Indeed. Few people care what toilets you use if you're an obviously female presenting transexual woman. It becomes a problem when men in bad wigs are transferred to women's prisons. Objecting to this isn't transphobia.
I totally agree with you, I never even knew about trans back then or even see any trans people, it's only been in the last five years that I've seen trans people and there is certainly no transphobia with them.
I think the nutters, trying to force themselves down everyone's throats, being offended by everything but demanding that we accept all their waffle and BS (like "I get periods now" or "I take hormones and now my body has turned into the opposite sex" or I will be able to have a baby!!) No, they are creating dislike, distrust.....
@@lynettefinnigan9540 Yes! What you have to understand is those people are almost always autogynephilic transsexuals they fetishise and and are obsessed with female bodily functions. It's not real gender dysphoria.
True.I had two trans women friends around 15 years ago,and nobody bothered them in any way.This "transphobia"today is totally due to fanatical,insufferable trans activists,who have turned people against trans people,and the nice,normal trans people are suffering the backlash too.
In my limited personal experience, individuals who live with true gender dysphoria, have an immense amount of respect and care for the gender they want to transition to. It shows more in the trans-women I have met. They are hyper aware of the biological women in their space and their comfort with their presence. The ladies I have met, carry themselves with grace and dignity, despite any rude comments. The XX women usually support and embrace trans-women. What we don't respect are misogynists demanding to be let into our spaces, while looking like a trucker who hasn't ever met razor before. Love your channel. I hope you are able to have interviews with Buck or Blaire.
I usually respect trans-women too. Not the ones who still act misogynistic towards other women (but I also don't respect biological women who put their own gender down as well). This is still a man's world, it does us no good to be so divisive but expect positive change.
@@hinachan70 I jokingly put down my biology but not women. My body didn't like the hormonal changes of pregnancy which started an autoimmune disease in me, which nearly claimed my first born, and has affected me the rest of my life.
I was live and let live era of kids growing into adulthood during the 90s. From entering middle school, to entering bars, what an impact a decade can make on an impressionable mind.
I respect trans-women as well, but I also recognise toxic masculine traits and male entitlement when I see it. And I can't see those who display them as fellow women, it's so obvious they are different from me they might as well have it tattooed on their forehead
I agree Kelly
To me, those who actually have the disorder are far more down to earth, the ones getting loud, nasty or violent are the frauds trying to convince people they are something they are not. It's so much easier to be empathetic with someone who is pleasant rather than someone who just wants to argue and fight in an attempt to force me to play along with whatever they have going on in their heads...
i’m a biological woman but alexis is more feminine than me. 😂 and that’s completely okay! i love you, alexis. you’re such a sweetheart. 💚
More feminine than me too.
I’m a woman. I’m also a qualified car mechanic. I am feminine, but I’m also interested in “male type” interests. I love being a woman, but I have a masculine side. Im a wife, and I’m a mother, and I love how complex my interests are. This is my personality. It certainly doesn’t make me trans. I think lots of people these days confuse character/personality with gender. 🌹
He Is a man just like chopping the testicals of a dog doesn't make it a female the same with a man
True❤❤she's absolutely gorgeous
This individual is still a man
Absolutely love watching trans RUclipsrs like you, Blaire, Buck, Marcus, and Sara. We need more of the level-headedness and actual open-mindedness like you all have!
Go show support to people struggling, either with getting their message out or with having support Alexander L, or KC🦎 are two whom I can think of off the top of my head
Hello - I am a ‘mature’ lady who is of an age that remembers that transsexual people were always regarded as members of the community who just wants to get on with life. It is the new age aggressive activists on social media, within health, education, media and government who have upset the apple cart for EVERYONE. I follow all the lovely people named here BUT love Alexis as a fellow northern lass.🇬🇧
@@MsMaryPatricia Sara Higdon (I believe that's how you spell it). She's another level-headed trans woman.
Catch more bees and flies with honey.
@@kellywaller8829who are the people you are referring to pls so I can look at their content ?
I seriously died at the synchronized "girl, please" looks at 2:31. I need the Alexis-Buck collab video NOW!
I watched this a while ago. I love Buck... he calls people out on the regular. He is my favorite Tranpa!
I don't mind trans people. To each their own and they deserve the best lives they can make for themselves.
However, I truly find these aggressively arrogant activists trying to tell others what to think, believe, follow or do to be abhorrent. Especially when it comes to permanently changing children's natural biology.
That is why I would like to thank you, Alexis, for being one of the few active voices of reason in this whole discussion.
That's the shit of it, right? I've no issue with trans folk. I have a problem with the TRAs (trans radical activists) they've made a joke out of the entire LGB community.
I adore Buck. He's such a role model, a true gem.
As a woman, my innate femininity is something that has always been sacred to me. You personify that truly undefinable trait without disrespecting anyone. You’re clearly such an incredible woman, and I pray that your kindness and compassion aren’t touchable by the negativity the internet can bring.
you are too kind :)
As a trans woman who is just starting her transition, I thank you for being a voice of reason and demonstrating to the world that trans people can be reasonable.
All of the trans people that I have met so far have also been reasonable, just wanting to live their lives in peace, which leads me to believe that those that are disrespectful and demanding are just a very small, however loud, minority.
Keep up the good work.
Good luck on your journey ❤
All the best to you ❤
No doubt a minority, but loud and aggresive and somehow thry have taken upon themselves to represent you. Honestly, the majority I have seen(tik tok) do not really seem trans.
Your a man
Best of luck. It's the people that have to deal with gender dysphoria & possible insecurity when transitioning that make these "trans" people that act like narcissistic psychopaths frustrate me so much. (Other than when they try to make it possible for children to potentially permanently disfigure themselves, sterilize themselves & ruin their lives in general...) The people dealing with gender dysphoria generally deserve empathy & for people to leave them alone while they try to live their lives & these activists try to make it appear that anyone who is "trans" is completely deranged & self absorbed.... I can't imagine how much more difficult they make your life.
Alexis a genuinely wonderful and warm person. She's actually tolerant and accepting of others, but confident enough in herself to call out BS, and humble enough to recognize what's her personal view and perspective and how it differs from what's an actual fact. It's not that we simply need more trans women like Alexis, the world in general would be a better place if more people were like her. Period!
She lives her life as her authentic self but also sincerely cares about others. Her beauty on the inside manifests on the outside! She's glowing :DDD
You're doing amazing, Alexis!! Can't wait for what else you have in store for 2024
Amen!
You know you don't have a leg to stand on on trans issues when trans people call your bs out.
Thanks Alexis, Marcus, Blair, Buck... for being out here educating us
Thats why I came to this channel. I don't know how this works. I've not met anyone who is trans but I've heard a LOT of garbage about it.
I love Buck. He's so honest and on target just like you, Blair, and Marcus. Love you all.
Yes, Alexis is one of the “level-headed” trans youtubers out there. But I feel inclined to add that she stands out even amongst the company of Blaire, Marcus, Buck, etc., because she consistently comes from a place of compassion and empathy and kindness, and she is mindful of her language and tone. *This* is what makes her special, because those qualities are generally missing from *both* sides.
Alexis, you are not “overly polite” you are KIND! You don’t want to hurt people! So you do you, because that is a rare and beautiful quality x
I couldn't agree more. It's so heartwarming when you see a person with such kindness and compassion :)
I think the death threats Blair etc. Get probably doesn't encourage them to mince their words.
Not that everyone has to be so harsh.
This! That’s why I like her so much. She speaks the truth but always stays kind. And that’s admirable. She seems like a genuinely good person.
Well said. She's a real lady.
I absolutely LOVE that someone recognized her and called her by the wrong name and her reaction was not to embarrass them (most get flustered when they realize they are calling someone the wrong name after going on and on about loving them).. by correcting them because they were gushing and being sweet. The They/Them "community" cult can totally take a lesson from her graceful actions. You are impressive and high quality Alexis.
that was my first thought, she didn't need to correct them and embarrass them unlike these people screaming from the rooftops Iv e been misgendered, how dare you..
Yes! The person was probably just so excited & got Alexis' name a bit wrong, hurrying to get her attention. It's the thought that counts! 💖
Yeah. I had a lecturer who would call me Ashley (my legal name is Ash) and I'd just be like, "Well, not my name, but whatever floats your boat."
The part that amused me was "I didn't have the heart to tell her..." ...so just tell the world instead. 😂
I appreciate you just like Buck & Blaire for being honest & not trying to convince the world of falsehoods. This is what it is, & respect can be earned that way.
The ad segue was truly smooth AF. Also love how you're calling out bullshit but in such a kind & respectful manner which goes to show trans/non-binary discourse can happen without screaming & intimidation (Jubilee, please take notes)
Thank you, Alexis, for positivity representing us as a sane, rational and beautiful trans woman! It gets SO frustrating constantly seeing the loudest and most obnoxious “trans” attention seekers getting the spotlight when more than half the time they don’t even know the difference between a period and an overindulgent Taco Bell related intestinal cramp.
If I was 20 years younger I’d be putting myself out there, but when you’re approaching 40 and have watched your community devolve over the last 20 years from a group of people born the wrong sex looking out for each other into an “accept everything” space for attention seekers, perverts, and whatever non-binary is (not trans), one gets jaded pretty quickly. Being trans is a medical condition, not a social construct, act, or fashion statement. People NEED to know this.
I’m looking forward to your upcoming video with you and Liam, my husband is too, because after a neigh decade long relationship with a trans woman, he also suffers from lack of decent representation.
100%
This ideology will bring my BFF TW’s rights back to zero.
You gals need to be represented properly without this creepy non sense.
Please, take care of yourself 💜
Hello Alexis and Liam! I hope you're living your best life today! I'm a 53yr old gay guy. I consider myself pretty liberal, or at least I used to. The far left and the far right can't even be called extreme anymore. They're just bat f'n crazy!!
Thank you most of all for telling people if you're screaming, no one is listening and you're making all of us look bad. How can you request respect when you don't seem to know the first thing about it? You both are so open. So well spoken, respectful and honest. ( And you're both gorgeous! )You present a sane and reasonable opinion with facts and experience to back it up and are advocating for a simple and respectful conversation about something that has been seriously overblown by a bunch of pretty much kids that are trying to find their way in a difficult and judgemental world.
This whole movement of non-binary concepts being put on children who are already nuts from puberty and have no idea who they are yet is just adding more confusion to an already confused mind. Let a child develop into something before you start trying to change it into something else. Masculine girls and feminine boys have always existed. They didn't feel the need to become something other than what they were until that option was forced into their fragile little heads.
My sister was big, strong, sporty and "one of the guys" from the time she was about 5. My mom used to drive her nuts trying to make her wear dresses. She was even the stereotypical softball coach. Clutch the pearls! Lesbian or boy for sure!! Today in some circles she would've been on hormones and who knows what else. She's now 63 and has been happily married to a man for over 35 years and she's totally an old fashioned girly girl.
Keep up the good work. Whether I agree with everything you say or not to me is irrelevant. The important part is being able to have basic conversation from a reasonable and open, mutually respectful place where everyone gets a chance to be heard and to listen. What a miracle that would be! Hmm. A couple of those and we might actually get somewhere.
You could give lessons around the world in how to be a respectful human. We could all use some of that British politeness. Especially in the US. I don't think they teach it in school anymore. They're too busy being psychiatrists and doctors to teach basic reading, writing, math, science and social skills. That's what school used to be for.
Buck is the man, and calls it like it is.
Period cramps suck no woman is Getty and happy going through that! That’s the worst aspect of being a woman not the best.
I love Alexis, Blaire, Buck and Marcus. ❤
Thank you! I was almost sucked into the cult as a gay man.
My views have completly changed in the past 5 years.
Its crazy the things that people are coming up with.
Doesn’t help that not only are they erasing women and our rights, they are doing the same thing to lesbians and gays. I think the whole thing is sick. We all deserve our OWN spaces. Women’s groups are being invaded by men and vice versa for men. I seriously think it’s disgusting. As a woman I would sooner eat broken glass than sign up for a gay men’s app. Wtf is wrong with these people.
I'm a boring woman, always have been, but over the years I've been 'misgendered' several times. No biggie for me, just politely pointed out the error if necessary, then moved on. People make mistakes sometimes and getting your knickers in a twist and spreading hate about it is not helpful to anyone. If somebody makes a mistake, be kind!
I’m a straight woman with a lil Adam’s apple and masculine voice.💁🏼♀️. ☺️
These people are so tired!
I’m a biological male, my birth name is Alexis, and people often get confused as to why I go by he/him, even though I’m very effeminate lol
I don’t care about getting misgendered whatsoever. I’m male and will always be male no matter how much estrogen I were to put in my body 😅
Here in France, Alexis (« Alexee ») is a men’s first name.
My birth name is Alexis, I am a biological female but in my culture (Mexican) it’s actually a unisex name. I changed my name to a more feminine name despite transitioning to present more masculine (don’t ask me why I just liked the name lol) and sometimes I wish I didn’t change it because I passed better as a man pre hormones with my previous name lol.
@@Daisy-kg4ho got it. Take care 😉
Alexis, you got a sponsor! Yay!
Also, thanks for your kind and honest content. You are brilliant PR for the trans-gender community.
Heehee, it's adorable to see you challenge your British sensibilities in order to express what you really think. As a Canadian, and a woman, I can relate. Now that I'm in my 50s I mostly speak my mind and wish I had started sooner. The world needs more sensible voices like yours.
Alexis, you do a wonderful job! Marcus, Blaire, Buck, and you help to keep the LGBT community represented in a sane and respectful way. The transgender, q,I,… community are disrespectful, thrown childish temper tantrums, screaming, insulting, etc, and they are turning back the progress of those of us that have been working so hard to achieve for decades. I’ve been an LGBT activist since the early 1980’s! They called me transphobia, homophobic, outdated, and a terf! I would have never have called my LGBT elders those things! They turn to name calling when they know they have lost the debate. Their poor behavior can lose us laws that’s we have gained and medical benefits.
Not all of us are. But the ones who are make the rest of us look bad.
You've quickly become one of my very favorite youtubers, Alexis! (The hair is gorgeous!)
It's so refreshing to see so much Blaire/Buck/Marcus appreciation here. Alexis' channel is turning into a great community ❤
Alexis- you have such a beautiful light to you. I appreciate these videos; our community really needs more voices like yours. People are too afraid to call out the poor, silly behavior, and it's effecting our rights. If more level-headed community members such as yourself spoke truth, this world could truly become a better place. Our community is not a monolith, and not all of us live in Clown World. You are giving a voice to the silent majority. Thank you ❤
Another video with you being real and graceful. I honestly can't find anything negative to say. You and Liam are such great role models. ❤
I recently have started watching your videos! I love your personality, your commentary when you react to different creators, etc. You and Tranpa have great reactions lol, I love it!
Both Buck and Blaire say it as it is. In a crazy world, I appreciate that so much. Alexis, never be afraid to be honest, but I also love that you want to be nice to people even if you are shaking your head inside.
Girl I love the expression on your face with the first tic tok!
I loved this video with all the different directions of thought, lol. It’s like really sitting down with you and chatting. I am not usually a fan girl but, if I was ever to go across the pond, I would so love to meet you. You brighten my days. I hate that anyone has anything mean to say about you and I love how much class and grace you show.
You are beautiful. I don't just mean physical appearance, because you are beautiful but I mean you are a beautiful soul. I adore your calmness and fairness when addressing all different issues and topics. You and your partner are so wholesome and I wish you both nothing but peace and happiness :) in a confusing, chaotic world, your channel is an oasis of kindness, happy 2024 to you both ❤
I appreciate your content so much. As a parent who has always tried to raise my child as accepting, understanding and respectful of alternative lifestyles, the last decade or so has a been a wild ride. Creators like you who are just so genuine and open (and dont act like total crazies) have been really helpful. I think majority of people are fairly accepting of trans people however social media has turned a sharp corner and put everyone in the awkward position of having to differentiate between the "crazy and outlandish" and those who are just respectfully trying to live their lives in a body that is incongruent with their heart & mind. I hope building a family is in the cards for you one day, from what i have seen you would be a very loving mama. Take care Alexis
You are such an absolutely wonderful person, and the world needs more people like you!
You're such a breath of fresh air and a huge ray of sunshine. I love your positivity and honesty. Keep doing you, because you're amazing!
First up! Hi from Sacramento CA! Love your channel! Love you and Liam too!
May I just say that blouse looks really pretty on you?
And I love your level headed take on this controversial subject.
I want it, but even though I'm a biological female I can't fill it out as well as her! 😂
"They are screaming and shouting and demanding respect" - this is exactly the point! Massive thanks to you and Buck Angel for standing against this absolute narcissistic brat and the others. Threats and demands don't impress me, either. In fact it's your own clear respect for me that is part of why I respect you so much in turn. (It's like the opposite of a vicious cycle!)
I wish we saw more of people like you in the media - level-headed, sensible, kind-hearted and just plain good people who know what it is to be Trans, and are prepared to share that with those of us who aren't Trans so that we can learn the truth, not someone's crazy agenda.
Thank you for being you Alexis x
This is why I have loved you from the start. You are so level headed and right on about just being respectful. ❤️❤️❤️
I really love Buck Angel. I'd like to thank whoever asked you to react to his videos, and you for go along with the suggestion. Your reactions are quite insightful. ❤
It's so great to see you talking such sense! These trans stormtroopers are doing you so much damage and you highlighting the contempt and misogyny they display (we don't see the same with trans men do we?) is so refreshing. Good work. Keep it up. Good luck to you.
As an American patriotic woman, I support Alexis Blake in her journey!
She doesn't force me to play into her games. She has common sense and she doesn't treat others like s*** for having a different opinion because she realizes that she's a different kind of woman altogether!
PS just because somebody's conservative doesn't mean they hate you for who you are or what you want to be. It's when you leave that realm of your own and then start to filter out and weed into others!
It's just that simple. Have an opinion be who you are, but always know the you won't reach everybody. You won't change everybody's mind. And you have to be okay with knowing that that's OKAY! ❤
Alexis, love the reason we watch your videos is you. You are beautiful, respectful, gentle, kind and very loving. I had the joy of speaking with Buck Angel some years back and he is also very kind, gentle and genuinely nice. He is also quick to point out that he can also be confrontational when someone stands up and says ridiculousness. The both of you paint a very human face on a complicated topic and I thank you for it. My child has experienced mild dysphoria in her gender/sexuality and seeing someone so put together deal with the mud slinging that goes on in social media as well as in real life has helped her to become comfortable in her skin and confident in her choices (both past and future). You are making a difference in real people's lives in a positive manner. For that I will always thank you sincerely for being so open and honest to a bunch of strangers, some of whom will not be polite or even kind.
Great to see you commenting on Buck. He popped up on my feed because I follow you and I then followed him too. I find him refreshing. Blaire too
If they had tattooed THEY/THEM on their chest instead of the LIVE, LAUGH, GASLIGHT or whatever nonsense they chose, they wouldn't be so sad all the time.
you're my new favorite youtuber. love watching you. as a lesbian I've seen a lot of craziness going on in the lgbtq community and it's refreshing to see someone whos shares the same opinions without being hateful.
I am a gay man who has stood in staunch opposition to the current trans movement & their "woke" ideology. You, Alexis, I enjoy watching & am VERY HAPPY to support you & others who align with the ideologies you purport.
Me too
And me.
Oh no not the ambiguous 'woke' ideology...
@@SanguinaryBlade ambiguous, indeed😂
Good for you and please keep speaking up.
I love your level headedness, Alexis. Thank you for being you 😊
I also love wild! I did a video of it. I have a subscription to them.
Your voice is so nice to listen to while I'm working, and it's nice to look up and see your pretty face on my screen. Thank you for the fantastic content, Alexis. ❤
There’s a lot happening in the world to worry about being misgendered love your videos! Even if you’re trans you definitely think like most people and I respect that! Life continues to change. For example I know Somali and Arabic and English because I learned them growing up! But I never thought I’d learn yet another language which is Chinese. I grew to really appreciate and enjoy the language after college and 4 years on I’m still learning. Everything is a process and I’m still a Somali Arab American with yet a new language I’m proud change is good! I’m happy that you are happy with change but you don’t push others to accept your way of thinking. Congrats on this channel
你很漂亮也很好看❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are beautiful and look awesome!!!!!
It occurred to me that this look was kind of bridal, and looks really beautiful! When you and Liam get married you should totally go for an off the shoulder dress with long hair ❤ loved this video Alexis, keep them up and being a reasonable voice in all the madness xxx
I love you Buck and Blair. Your honesty and your understanding helps so much.
Well, here we go, i’m a conservative woman from New York City. I liked you from the start . I find you attractive with a great sense of humor, sweet and levelheaded. Good luck to you and Liam in the future.💖
You come from such a kind place, and are honest. That's why we all love you!
Alexis, it's not crazy your channel is growing. You're such a sweetheart, so down to earth, and so eloquent. We love you ❤ I love listening to your videos when I'm doing chores at home or some creative work. It keeps me in a good mood, like talking to a friend. I wish you many more subscribers!
I am a female watching from Austria. And I love your Videos and your Art of beeing - inteligent, respectfull...and I love your KIND way very much ❤ (also so sweet that your style/make up is more subtle 😍)
Much love from Vienna ❤🌺🙏
Alexis, my whole family enjoys your videos. You are so funny, warm and welcoming. Much love to you and Liam ❤
I am new to your channel and have immediately subscribed. I am always up for supporting sane, logical, critically thinking people who look at things in a balanced way. Will look forward to more of your work.
Buck pulls no punches and is a total badass. I follow him on SM and live streams. He makes sense. You're such a sweet lady so I've just subscribed.
I've followed you since you released your tiktok about how you were outed at work. I told my mum about your video and showed her, she was amazed. She said about how naturally beautiful you are even back then in your earlier days of transition and that at first glance she wouldn't have even questioned if you were trans she would have just seen a woman. I've shown her videos since then and her opinion is still you're a natural beauty with an amazing attitude
Alexis! You got a sponsor??? NOW, you're a REAAAAAAALLL RUclipsr!!!
🤣🤣You're awesome!
You have a lovely, feminine energy. Ignore the haters.
I think of all the trans people I listen to on YT I appreciate you the most, because you just seem so normal, nuanced and down to earth. A lot of others, even though I support what they do, can have these extreme personalities or come across as angry or over it. You just always seem like you have great spirit and like the sort of person who is nice to everyone.
I came for Buck, stayed for your objective yet kind-hearted words, and am subbing for your opinions
Hi, Alexis!! You are so sweet and gentle when you make your comments! I mean, you go right into the point, but with gentleness. I think this is what our world is mostly in need.
You are a breath of fresh air, babe! So level headed, so reasonable. Thank you for speaking for us!
I love you Alexis for being a sane and reasonable representative. Not to mention you are sweet and kind.
Alexis! Thank you so much for your content! My son (f/m) had to deal with family early on because of where we are from (southern United States) and I feel like both sides racted badly. I believe conservative people without a lot of world experience see these over-the-top examples of very dramatic trans people claiming very loudly they are being misgendered and it makes them react almost defensively and sometimes nervously. Should there be respect, absolutely. But not if there is no respect reciprocated. Oh my goodness, you are a wonderful example and I have brought you up to the rest of the family to positive results. My son has become much more relaxed now and actually much happier and comfortable in his own skin. He's like you in that he doesn't like those that seek drama for the sake of it and he doesn't react immediately when misgendered. Instead, he uses the moment for teaching, not harming.
Giddyup Cowboy! I enjoy and appreciate how realistic Buckaroo is! 🙌🗝
I love your randomness. It cracks me up because I am the same way. I will be talking bout one thing, then see something shiny and talk about something else. Love your opinions!
Hey Alexis ( that's my wife's name too 😊) so glad I found ur content your a breath of fresh air and ur a beautiful soul inside and out.... Blair, buck and yourself please keep up the good fight u show not everyone in the community is delulu and are level headed
Your outlook is so sane, healthy and i would happily call you sister. Your kind heart and sensible nature, you are destined to have the happiest life. Love your style!!
So thankful to discover your channel. You’re so beautiful!!❤️
Thank you for being honest and is simply another rational human being.
I'm a gay man and watching your videos is such a relief! I love how level headed and humble you are ❤
That is how you get people to respect you.
I was watching this and thinking that “a day in the life” video would be so fun and I’m super excited to hear you announce that ☺️
Great segway into the sponsor post. Love the way you did that, love the way it wasn't too long also. hope to see you get many sponsors
I love it that you are jumping around with topics/ideas in your videos. That's how my brain works so and I'm sure others too. It's like talking with a friend.
You are now officially my favourite BRITISH transgender person. 🥳
Would love to see a video with you and Blair.
Ngl I was loving watching you and Buck having identical organic reaction to the “my DNA has changed” one. Bravo to sanity.
Can you do a video of what it is like having the pov you do and how other woke trans people treat you?
Love all your content
Edit: example being those who believe biology doesn't matter, those who think straight men should date trans women,those who simply call everything and everyone who disagrees transphobic.
I hope my comment is not disrespectful to you, I truly mean no disrespect.
I love how you see the world. Everyone sees things their own way. Blair and Buck have no filter lol.
The extensions looked great. I look forward to more content!❤🥰
Hi Alexis, you were asking for ideas on your backdrop for Jan-Feb in an earlier video and I thought I'd respond here 😅. How about like red / pink roseas and hearts, for Valentine's Day? Or even some pink lights or something 😊
You are just so nice. :D I love you to bits! Regarding "They/then" pronouns. I've seen in my 69 years of live one person who legitimately earns that pronoun. I bought a $600 DSLR with the help of a salesperson who I absolutely could not identify whether they were male or female. They were absolutely a 'they/them'. The person in the video Bucl Angel reacted to was definitely NOT a 'they/them'. Presentation matters people! We are almost hard wired to respond to what we perceive as the gender they present as.
You’re such a pure soul ❤
You always show so much love and patience and I’m here for it.
People butcher my name all the time and I just go with it too 🤣
Alexis is so respectful, kind and smart, I’m glad she makes her content 💗
6:23 No. you need a uterus to feel the hormonal aspect of having a period. Maybe it upsets their tummy, but it’s not anything like a period. These people are grasping at ludicrous straws.
You make the best point when you say if you're happy with yourself then the comments of others won't matter. It really comes down to whether or not you can sit and be happy with who you are.
So nice to listen to someone who is calm and reasonable talking about this subject! Also I just want to add that your hair is amazing ❤
I saw this vid right here and it reminded me of what happened to me the end of 2023 coming into 2024 so I wanted to share. I am pretty sure there are people out there that went through something like this or equivalent to this. I just want to make it clear that I love everyone because yes there are those that are trans who I am still friends with that I treat like family and when I am upset they are right there for me. I even had my friend IN my wedding (yes, I had him as my bridesmaid) and "HE" who wasn't ready then but with mine and my husband support finally went through everything and recently called me and "SHE" was respectful and told me thank you and tell my husband thank you for being there when no one else was, unlike these two.
SO HERE IS MY STORY (I LEFT OUT SOMETHINGS THAT I FELT IS IRRELEVANT): The one taking T is Gen Z and the other one "CALLING" themselves non-binary is a late-Millennial/early GEN Z. Myself, I am a millennial raised as a Gen X. All I can say is that I have never felt so attacked🔪. I thought about leaving it out because of my recurrent depression and anxiety but I couldn't so keep in mind during the whole conversation I had with these two ex-friends they used the race card with me. Saying that I a single black temporarily disabled bio female that is going through physical therapy was going to break into their place (when they personally gave me a copy of their house key because they trusted me and no one else) when they were not there or attack them when they was sleeping, two white females. The one taking T (even though they have not gone through any physical visual changes) and the other one just "CALLING" themselves non-binary. So keeping that in mind here's the story. ~~~~~>
I was friends with two people, one that is taking T and another one that is not but "CALLING" herself non-binary. I really didn't care I still treated the both of them like friends. One day they asked for my help with finding a new place to stay because the brother (of the one that is CALLING herself non-binary) is not clean. You know room dirty, he doesn't shower daily (like once every two/three weeks that shit), barely washes clothing, the common sense things. Well they never told the brother that they were moving out of the apartment till the day they started moving their stuff out of the apartment, which is the same day that he had to work. Forcing him to immediately move back in with family.
Now here they are in a new apartment. I, a biological female who helped them both find and get into a new place which is in the same apartment complex as myself and my husband (a bio male) gets treated as if I did something wrong. I get told that I am toxic and manipulative, despite them never saying thank you for helping us find a new place on a very short notice. I don't get a thank you for helping them move their stuff into said new apartment while I was going through physical therapy because I have pain on one whole side of my body and I'm not supposed to be lifting anything over 5 pounds. I get told I am toxic and manipulative because I text both of them asking if I can hangout with the two of them on one their days off since I know when they have their two days off from work cause I used to work with them despite being let go while I was out on medical leave (Leave of Absence) and I am currently taking classes online at a University and rarely have time to hangout with anyone. Then the one taking T wants to say that I keep misgendering the other friend of mine that is non-binary (no I didn't), she still looks like a girl, she sounds like a girl, she acts like a girl, she still complain about having period cramps and getting her period, so I still call her by her birth name (before I start any friendship with anyone I let them know that I am an honest person and I call it like it is). HER MOTHER, OLDER BROTHER, YOUNGER BROTHER, YOUNGER SISTER, STILL CALL HER BY HER BIRTH NAME BUT EVERYONE ELSE IS MISGENDERING HER IF SHES CALLED BY HER BIRTH NAME OR CONSIDERED A SHE, SAME WITH THE ONE TAKING T EVEN THOUGH THEY STILL LOOK AND ACT LIKE GIRLS THEY EXPECT EVERYONE TO AUTOMATICALLY KNOW THAT THEY ARE NOT GIRLS. WHEN THEY DON'T TELL ANYONE ANYTHING AND JUST KEEP TO THEMSELVES.
Since I have corrected them on the first of January this year, I have not talked to either one of them since, they want to go around and say I am being mean to them to make people feel sorry for them and that anyone they interact with that doesn't agree with them is transphobic or this doctor or nurse is misgendering me. The last thing I told them before they blocked me on everything that I interacted with them on, is that they both need to seek professional help (mental therapy) because what they are doing to people is not right. And that in my opinion they both are narcissistic and misogynistic (I know I probably used this term wrong) but they both think that they are better (ENTITLED) then me (a bio female) and everyone in the area that we currently live. The one taking T is currently having a mental breakdown and dysphoria, they both consume edibles thinking that it is going to help them with their problems, and its not. The one taking T wants everyone to feel sorry for them because the bio-dad and step-father passed away last year, and the sister is looking like she's going to pass away also. THEY blame everyone in the medical field because their bio-dad and step-dad could not be saved from death and now their sister is pretty much knocking on deaths door despite the doctors and nurses doing everything they can to save her. This person taking T says that they were an EMT but could not even understand that I someone who was a friend of theirs is allergic to shellfish (btw was hurt because this pass Christmas was the last time my mother was making gumbo and I couldn't eat it and cried and still do because I know how to make it, and ill make it if my husband wants some but I know he'll say no because I can't have any), and their partner had to explain that to them (sad). YOU CALL YOURSELF AN EMT BUT YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT AN ALLERGY IS. 🤷
I know the last thing I said to them might sound petty but I might as well say it but I told them to have a good New Year because most of the people that talk to them that are around my age or are a tad bit older aren't going to talk to them anymore because they weren't really their friends, they only called those two friends because I was friends with them so they wanted to support my decision to be friends with them. But that is because these people want to protect me because I am such a kind person (a friend of mine that I treat like my brother said that).❤
I am not afraid to admit it, I am getting the support I need for not only the physical pain (pain management) that I am going through but also the mental pain too. I just hope that one day when everyone has walked out of their lives and they feel completely alone in this world, they realize that people don't want to be around them because of how they act like they are better then everyone else (not who they are or feel that they are). Oh, I might want to add that they dropped and became mean to all their friends that were female and started to just hangout and be nice with people that are male.
That's the part of the story that I felt was relevant to pretty much most of the videos out here on RUclips. I don't really do comments but your name made me think about my cousin and wonder when she was going to get married. Plus I would love to see a collab with Blair and I can't wait to see what you do with your fiancé. Keep up the good work. ❤
Your so beautiful , lovely femine energy , your helping to educate of the world on trans women and trans people , through your experiences, thoughts and resonableness … I’ve been around Trans people since the 1970s as a child , and it was a very safe and positive experience , but I was aware even as a child the hardships they faced , so it’s refreshing to see you and your rational status !! Lots of love ❤
I value your empathy and how you care to say things kindly and respectfully. I feel like that's really important. I honestly used to be a bit more that way too but I've hardened over certain subject areas. You end up tiptoeing around and trying not to hurt feelings when you're not getting that energy back. And these types of agendas go much deeper and darker than we see on the surface. If you dig deeper and follow the money on ANYTHING that's pushed in the mainstream media, and pushed aggressively, and has any dissent silenced and even legislated against very aggressively... it's all pulling on the same thread, one with very sinister end goals. But I appreciate your voice and you being a balance between the pendulum on this. It's nice to have your voice speaking more softly. You're right Blaire and Buck can be very blunt but I love that too and it's good to have different voices pushing back over certain issues.
You are on the nicest end, then Buck, then Sara Higdon, then Blair White. All of you are passionate and smart, and call it as you see it. Fun reaction to reaction video!
I'm so glad there are youtubers that can actually communicate. There are about 5/6 I follow and it brings me a lot of comfort 😅 because you're actually compelling.
I think something you all do and a lot of activism destroys is the faith/confidence for people who are trans people in their real lives and their loved ones to comminicate without everything just being potentially incendiary. Most people aren't aiming to be 'transphobic' and most people aren't but it doesn't stop communication being hard because everything is just so loaded all the time.
im obsessed with this accent of yourssss love it keep it going girl
I've watched some of your videos now . And I've always thought how great you look and come across so honest
You aren't needy for validation, that in itself makes you a queen luv! I just subscribed! I am so glad I found ya. As a gal who is on the spectrum, I don't necessarily act very feminine but I've NEVER thought I should be a man. I've had multiple people try and tell me that or I'm "non-binary"and well I think that's about as realistic as my not dressing in cosplay but claiming to everyone "I'm Rick Grimes. Can't you tell? Even though I have no cowboy boots? Sheriff outfit, or other things, I'm should just be assumed to be Rick Grimes." A lot of these newer genders and people complaining about how people assume, its how it goes. Idk I will of course be respectful but when it comes to absurdity of Neopronouns.. I hope that person isn't interacting with me much. Idk, I don't like navel-gazing about what my gender "Feels like.'
I love, just LOVE how Alexis is such a beautiful, centre/moderate/lib dem kind of a girl!!
She makes sooo much sense, and her effervescence and sould beauty just shines through!!! Along with her wonderfully grounded and common sense demeanor!!
I too am centre/lib dem and I just love that I can connect and finally found someone who just speaks so much effortless common sense!!
Amazing!! Kerp it up Alexis 🥰🥰🥰
Aa, sanity, I honestly believe people like you and Buck bring a level awareness and credibility to the trans experience. As both are down to earth and realistic, I enjoy watching them both.