My boyfriend and I have been living together for more than two years, and we are pretty much around each other 24/7 except when I go to school/he works. He gets sad if we ever get separated for over a day. Even when we are under the same roof, if we get separated in the house for over half-an hour (e.g I in bedroom, he in living room), he comes find me, cuddles me, and stays in the bedroom with me or ask if I can stay in living room with him. With my EX though, it was a complete different story. I tried so hard to change myself to be less clingy, be more cold, text him less, etc. I didn’t like it. I feel like I was just someone who I was not. The message I want to send out is, if you’re a clingy girl, there is going to be a clingy boyfriend out there for you!
I feel like it's always like that. Men fall in love easily and grow out pretty quick as well whereas women take their time but are in it forever. Just like at the start he was so into her and she was hesitant.
I really hate it when guys put so much effort in a relationship and then they just slowly fade away from you after. Like seriously? What is the whole point of a relationship if you're gonna be like that?
I'm this type of guy you are describing.Let me explain lol. Possibilities for fading away: not enough space, no appreciation, one specific charecteristic than you hate about and cant changed, the girl break your trust and dont respect you or your family or the girl is not what you imagine. A relationship should be put effort from both side.
Andrea Tran from personal experience it starts to fade away when you start to not care much about your self.. I was dating the woman of my dreams.. after 5 months she stopped going to the gym.. stopped dancing she lost her muscles and in general she took this lazy attidute.. also when you make fights for noooo reason.. then we start to think you cant see the bigger picture and you dont appreciate anything therefore you are stupid..
When after they become a couple few month later is a happiness for the boy. Because he get the girl he wants. And for the girl she isn't giving all her heart to him. Then after a year the girl already love him and give him her heart but the boy getting bored with the relationship. It's often happening tho :')
So the problem was he wanted some time to himself, which is understandable, but he never really let her now. Which left her feeling lonely and sad, and him feeling suffocated by her. He just needed to communicate his feelings honestly to her, so that she could do the same back.
shine199723 Well said, communication is a very powerful factor in a relationship. In general men are not good with communication (i.e. sharing emotions and talking about it ) while women are more open to communicate. Relationships are like a muscle if you don't "work it" it will never be strong and healthy.
I felt that way too. People need to be more forward and open about their needs and wants. But I do think it's how one approaches the topic too. It can't come off as demanding either.
Well, he was wrong and lied, but she was also losing him. Being content, with "just existing" will get boring after a while...the relationship was hanging low, both of them need to work hard...
start with cute relationship and the girl start to fall but at the middle of the relationship i think the guy left the girl hanging, you can see the love start to fade away its just sad for the girl part
This is why couples shouldn't be together all the times. They need their space...we always need space at some point to appreciate what we have...for eg I'm a painter...I paint up close but I need to take space to admire hole picture.same with food if you eat your favourite cake everyday, you will get sick of it...relationships, as anything else in life, are no different. The only thing that saved my relationship was giving him enough space, cuz I was like her, hanging and "suffocating" him with my love..he returned after he took his time. We women when we fall in love and especially when we have insecurities from past relationships, we tend to give 200% ..she didn't followed her own advice of not giving all her heart at once and made the same mistake without knowing, but when women love they can only know how to give even more..and when guys see they don't have to work for it anymore, they stop appreciating. Such a fine balance seems hard to find..
marishkaspirit even if you give space to them and they never react to how you feel at certain stage you contemplating whether to give up or not. It's hard to give up and it's harder to hold on yet your heart still want to hold even when everything in your mind says otherwise. You can decide how to improve your relationship when you don't know what to talk without upsetting other and giving in later the cycle continue
marishkaspirit totally agree ,especially when you said women they can only know how to give so they must learn how to make them feel hungry sometimes so they don't feel sick from his partner this is about some just in relationship but what about someone already married ?
so then why do people get married? they have to stay with each other all the time and see each other all the time, and even though there are divorces, many marriages are still together? it really depends on whether or not the person is mature enough to handle the other at all times.
This is why still now I haven't been in relationship.. I know all these things will happen when we'll in relationship because my bestfriend had suffered from it too..
He just needed space but didn't comunicate it and explain her. It isn't healthy to stay 24/7 with your couple. We all need time for us, go out with friends and family, have our own hobbies and enjoy our time alone.
This really hits home. My ex 3 years ago is just like this. He liked me so much, put so much effort and everything and so I am. I really don't know what happened tho. He started to get distant and left me because he realized he have need to focus on his own self and all. After that.. I really didn't get to be in a relationship again. It's not I don't like anymore.. but I'm really scared. To be left hanging again after so much love and effort. It's just so sad.
I can relate this 😓 At first I'm the distant one, but slowly I feel like I'm falling in....and then guys ending it. I don't know what's wrong with me but everytime this happens to me 😖
Man, this is so relatable. We were friends for a long time, but like a month after we started dating, he was getting distant. We supposedly broke up because I had to leave for 3 months (at least that's what he said the reason was), yet only a month later, he confessed to my best friend who also moved away (for longer than I was supposed to)! Relationships are hard to maintain, and it's hard to tell when a truly good one comes your way. I wish you all good luck in your relationships!! Fighting! 💜
I don't blame either sides but when she noticed him being distant, she should have realized that he needed time and she should've just give him that. Honestly, they shouldn't have felt that their love was fading because it wasn't, each just needed more understanding and time away from each other.
I can relate to this stories soo much because nowadays my boyfriend just think that his friends are more important than me :'( I hate it when his like that if he does not have feelings for me anymore then just tell me face to face...no need to keep it shut from me
Jnigo寒意 now I understand a lot...you're right :') His been really busy since he has training in the city so that's why he text me that he apologize for not replying to my text or he does not give attention to me lately ☺ anyway thanks a lot for giving me little bit of advice to give me hope ❤
This hurts. When he’s all clingy and sweet to you in the beginning, but as time passes by.. he slowly loses interest in you. Especially when you guys aren’t even dating in the first place so you can’t complain about it. There was never an “us” to begin with. An almost-relationship wow... hurts like hell.
This is how my ex-boyfriend and me broke up, he became very distant, I don’t even know, he wouldn’t even tell. When he said he was going to study, I still saw him online on the app we were chatting and I really felt so bad, he was lying to me. I told him but he kept repeating, he wasn’t lying. One day, he unfollowed me on Instagram, I was so flustered, I asked him why, he replied hours later, saying he only follows a few celebrities & friends, I felt so hurt. I lashed out and him and said that he should give my phone back (the one I gave him, cause his was broken). He still hasn’t given that phone back tho, he said I only cared about the phone when we had fights, out of angriness I said yeah I care only about that phone & I really did in the end tho, I really couldn’t love him anymore after the way he rejected me. We had a long-distance relationship, he lives in Amsterdam, I live in the south of the Netherlands, close to the German border
That is sad, but at the same time normal. It happens in life. It must be heartbreaking for one, but if the other person starts feeling distant then it's better to just end things. Or work on the relationship.
Yes, sorta except for at least in crossing point they were discussing as she was asking him whether or not their relationship can go on bcs it seems like the guy is fading. But in this one, they don't seem like to (or wanted to but couldn't) make the effort to save or fix the relationship T.T
I watched it last 2017 before meeting my boyfriend. He’s same with the guy. Lovable at first then later on, he keeps on spending more time with his friends because he enjoys being with them than being with me. He also play games as well with his friends (I play games too and I really like to play with him). He likes to play with his friends than playing with me. Also, there’s a distance growing between us. He also lie just to play games but I always caught him. It’s just frustrating to see the once who loved me and confessed to me is now getting distant from me. He really liked me way back then that’s why he confessed. I just missed the old him but somehow, he’s trying to catch up. (Also, he doesn’t care if I break up with him so I always end up saying that I don’t mean it because I just want to say it to see if he care but he doesn’t give a damn). He wants to break up with me but he just want me to say it first. For now, we’re doing okay but I hope we won’t end breaking up. Just like the story, he liked me first and we went on a trip to celebrate. My boyfriend and I are together for 14 months up until now. Sorry for speaking too much. It’s just, I can really relate to this story.
then you need to be straight with him and say hey look if you wanna spend time with ur freinds or doing things you like to do then just tell me about and ill understand i wont be mad and then say well ok ill go shopping or somethign just text me when your ready to spend time again its that simple why is that so hard to say
Hate when this happens. Fckn sucks. But we keep doing love because we want to believe that there’s one person out there that will look at us like it’s the first time even 10years later. But if there aren’t, I hope I can make peace with that and get more cats.
She suffocated him. She’s always there and he feels like he can’t do his own thing because of her That’s why some people ask for a “space” but some don’t believe on space and they preferred “break up”
it's kinda sad to see how he liked her so much and she was scared to give her heart away. and yet he gets annoyed by her and she gave once again her heart away only to get hurt.
Usually im the one who becomes distant first... But its because im trying to respect their space.... But i guess they can get the wrong idea... Usually guys don't care or notice thats what im trying to do.. And they become distant too... But they become disrespectful with it by talking to females and going out more.... Like yeah you can have your space but it doesnt mean you can go partying 4 days out of the week and flirting with girls.
i'm really really into my girlfriend right now, we both said we really love eachother and before being a couple we were both friends, but i just dont want anything like this to happen i dont want to become more distant from her ever and im worried that because there is distance we will become distant:( we can only meet once a week... has anyone else been in this situation where its not fully long distance but its far enough that u cant see eachother everyday?
Dont wanna experience break up? Lover her, that's the answer for ya. Love comes from your heart/inside you can control it. Love the way she smiles, love her effort to be with you, love her weird habits, love her every single part. I wish I would have been more loving bf
Same only once a week cause I have to do other stuff and my parents don’t like me to be on the phone a lot we can only text it’s a distance relationship but lately I feel we’re gojng apart he is always busy when I have time but as soon as I am busy he is not but we’re making it work I had other relationships and to be honest it didn’t work out cause one was too clingy and didn’t give me my space plus I had to date him cause my friend went on my phone and text him yes when he ask me out we dated for like two and a half months I think anyway he always came right after my classes and lunch and morning and afternoon going back home plus he cause problems for me and every time I was with him I was not really happy he was always sweaty I don’t like to be hug if your always sweaty later after finals we went back to school and i broke up with him in the morning j just don’t think i should have been with him he never made me happy plus I like someone else I still do like them we’re together and I am happy now but my ex I don’t know but we’re not talking anymore since we broke up and he is a pshyco that’s also why I broke up with him my other ex he is fine we’re still friends we talk and turns out he still likes me but he understands I like someone else and he wants me to be happy even if it’s not with him so yea I had like one bad relationship
I'm a guy, and I swear to God whenever I'd get a girlfriend I'd never leave her alone. I'd take care for her as much as possible. Even if y'all say things like "oh that would never happen. All guys leave their girlfriend after sometime." No. I'm not like that. Well unless she is cheating on me.
This story touched me I love girl but sometimes I want u now free time a little like she's the only 1 for me but sometimes I have to work Doo things work on it
This happened to me just recently. It was painful. Lol At first he was very sweet and attentive. I was very hesitant to meet him coz he is younger than me and I didn't experience dating a younger guy yet. He is Korean. However, I went through some rough times and he was the one that did not leave my side eventhough I kept pushing people away. I relied and depended on him. We were always together. We like spending time together. Until one day he just stopped. I was ready but he left me hanging. I was so hurt. The pain is still fresh. I can see him every weekdays cos we have the same workplace but he doesnt wanna talk to me. I stopped trying. It was painful. Idk what to do right now. I do not even know what I did to make him like that.
why is everyone blaming him? 😂 I just think they don't go well together since she is the type to be around her bf 24/7 and he just needs some time without her 🤷🏻♀️ I don't think anyone is at fault and tbh I would be like the dude as well.
I KNOW HOW IT FEELS LIKE. i mean, any girls must have known what it feels like, right? i remember when that time i missed my bf and send "what you doin'?" and then he said "i'm on a reunion, talk to you later k?" and then i don't dare to send him any message to him. and 1 month later when i half-heartedly dump him, he was like "okay, i know what you've going thru" when he didn't actually know how i feel so heartbroken during the time we became so distant. and two weeks later, he dated someone else and told his friends /that is also a friend of mine/ to keep it a secret from me, which is so useless coz my stalking skill is to high that i don't need anybody to tell me, coz i happened to know it first. and that's the most shitty moments of my life, and i moved on 3 years later...
Well actually this is so realistic cz this is what actually happens in all relationships boys are all the same! They're so nice when you don't care but from the moment you start giving thm more attention and become better to thm they change ☹ I tried it several times when you neglect thm they stay stuck to you and care for you.. This is life 🙁
this actually happens in real life..especially if you are seeing each other everyday,mostly this happens for the guy's part..they need some ME TIME and ME AND THE GUY'S TIME and you as his gf,let him do that once in a while..if not,they will fed up and eventually it can lead to breaking up..i know and i understand the girl's part too,that we rather choose hanging out with them and do nothing than not to see them at all..as we all know,girls are more attached to anything while guys usually (i'm not saying all but mostly) they need a little bit of space,and we girls should know and understand..if you (girls) think and feel there is something not right why he's distant with you,you will know that..i believe in girl's instinct,mostly 99% percent of it are accurate and true..so you'll know but other than that,let's give them space and break..even us girls need that too once in a while..^_^
this eps is my relationship with my bf rn... we didnt live tgt because its a taboo thing here. but we paid a small room per month for us to kiss and cudd.. and i always wnted to be with him and see him. appearently he needs more 'me time' just like in this eps. My Boyfriend actualy told me that hanging with his friends are more comfortable rather than hanging out with me.. he used to be very sweet and all even come to my place when he miss me. now he'll just 'im tired after work and seeing you rn its not efficient'...
I never was in an relationship before because I’m pretty young and I don’t think I need one but is it always like this kdramas? Boys make you feel in love with you and then then leave you because they need more “me” time?
It's weird because he liked her a lot and confessed but he's the one becoming distant and she's left hanging, it's really sad
why is it like that?
sania khawaja I hate it when that happens
sometimes man just being like that ,i dont know why .
How would u know if he confessed or he didn’t. Like we don’t know the whole thing
Caramel LatTae I have not
That line though,
" When did it begin? Hanging out with friends becoming more interesting than being with you."
True, and his bored face too 😥
Sometimes being with someone 24/7 take a toll on your relationship. That's why we should always allow each other to have their own 'me' time.
Manjistha Rawat but.... Yeah... Like....
My boyfriend and I have been living together for more than two years, and we are pretty much around each other 24/7 except when I go to school/he works. He gets sad if we ever get separated for over a day. Even when we are under the same roof, if we get separated in the house for over half-an hour (e.g I in bedroom, he in living room), he comes find me, cuddles me, and stays in the bedroom with me or ask if I can stay in living room with him.
With my EX though, it was a complete different story. I tried so hard to change myself to be less clingy, be more cold, text him less, etc. I didn’t like it. I feel like I was just someone who I was not.
The message I want to send out is, if you’re a clingy girl, there is going to be a clingy boyfriend out there for you!
Nana Cheng awwww how sweet. I wish you all the best. Your comment made me happy
Nana Cheng you have a good boyfriend
Nana Cheng 👍
Ugh I wish ;-;
lucky girl.. that's really sweet.. :)
I feel like it's always like that. Men fall in love easily and grow out pretty quick as well whereas women take their time but are in it forever. Just like at the start he was so into her and she was hesitant.
You are right... 💔
Sooyoung trash trueeeee😢
"forever" just fucking other people too
Sometimes, that is true. But I have encountered many women who I have made commitments to, but they just chicken out and shatter the relationship.
Sometimes it's the opposite! It's not always the men
I really hate it when guys put so much effort in a relationship and then they just slowly fade away from you after. Like seriously? What is the whole point of a relationship if you're gonna be like that?
Andrea Tran thats trueee :")
So true they only love you when you don't 😧
I'm this type of guy you are describing.Let me explain lol. Possibilities for fading away: not enough space, no appreciation, one specific charecteristic than you hate about and cant changed, the girl break your trust and dont respect you or your family or the girl is not what you imagine. A relationship should be put effort from both side.
DerDopplpunkt I mean that’s true too, and I agree with you. Both of the couples should put effort, but give enough space for each other too.
Andrea Tran from personal experience it starts to fade away when you start to not care much about your self.. I was dating the woman of my dreams.. after 5 months she stopped going to the gym.. stopped dancing she lost her muscles and in general she took this lazy attidute..
also when you make fights for noooo reason.. then we start to think you cant see the bigger picture and you dont appreciate anything therefore you are stupid..
He said he was confident that he will not cause her pain! Words! Words!
stop acting like 15year olds so you wont get dumped.. you make fight about everything and lie about everything
When after they become a couple few month later is a happiness for the boy. Because he get the girl he wants. And for the girl she isn't giving all her heart to him. Then after a year the girl already love him and give him her heart but the boy getting bored with the relationship. It's often happening tho :')
So the problem was he wanted some time to himself, which is understandable, but he never really let her now. Which left her feeling lonely and sad, and him feeling suffocated by her. He just needed to communicate his feelings honestly to her, so that she could do the same back.
shine199723 Well said, communication is a very powerful factor in a relationship. In general men are not good with communication (i.e. sharing emotions and talking about it ) while women are more open to communicate. Relationships are like a muscle if you don't "work it" it will never be strong and healthy.
I felt that way too. People need to be more forward and open about their needs and wants. But I do think it's how one approaches the topic too. It can't come off as demanding either.
Very true.
Well, he was wrong and lied, but she was also losing him. Being content, with "just existing" will get boring after a while...the relationship was hanging low, both of them need to work hard...
123Koizora123 I think she worked hard enough..... 💘
start with cute relationship and the girl start to fall but at the middle of the relationship i think the guy left the girl hanging, you can see the love start to fade away its just sad for the girl part
This made me cry a bit..
This is why couples shouldn't be together all the times. They need their space...we always need space at some point to appreciate what we have...for eg I'm a painter...I paint up close but I need to take space to admire hole picture.same with food if you eat your favourite cake everyday, you will get sick of it...relationships, as anything else in life, are no different. The only thing that saved my relationship was giving him enough space, cuz I was like her, hanging and "suffocating" him with my love..he returned after he took his time. We women when we fall in love and especially when we have insecurities from past relationships, we tend to give 200% ..she didn't followed her own advice of not giving all her heart at once and made the same mistake without knowing, but when women love they can only know how to give even more..and when guys see they don't have to work for it anymore, they stop appreciating. Such a fine balance seems hard to find..
true :(((
great reply my friend. It is true.. I think it's the instinct of a man..
marishkaspirit even if you give space to them and they never react to how you feel at certain stage you contemplating whether to give up or not. It's hard to give up and it's harder to hold on yet your heart still want to hold even when everything in your mind says otherwise. You can decide how to improve your relationship when you don't know what to talk without upsetting other and giving in later the cycle continue
marishkaspirit totally agree ,especially when you said women they can only know how to give so they must learn how to make them feel hungry sometimes so they don't feel sick from his partner this is about some just in relationship but what about someone already married ?
so then why do people get married? they have to stay with each other all the time and see each other all the time, and even though there are divorces, many marriages are still together? it really depends on whether or not the person is mature enough to handle the other at all times.
This is why still now I haven't been in relationship.. I know all these things will happen when we'll in relationship because my bestfriend had suffered from it too..
Tanu Magar same here
This is why I am scared of being in a relationship😥why can't guys heart be constant 😭😭
because women decided there is no need for them to make efforts in a relationship :) its a mans job.. well no..
But women as well put much efforts to take care of their relationships 😥
never been in one relationship like that :S
no they dont ;p
He just needed space but didn't comunicate it and explain her. It isn't healthy to stay 24/7 with your couple. We all need time for us, go out with friends and family, have our own hobbies and enjoy our time alone.
This proves on how much us women/men put effort into our relationship
The beginning of a relationship is called puppy love. That stage doesn’t last forever, but relationships do fail when communication is lost.
This really hits home. My ex 3 years ago is just like this. He liked me so much, put so much effort and everything and so I am. I really don't know what happened tho. He started to get distant and left me because he realized he have need to focus on his own self and all. After that.. I really didn't get to be in a relationship again. It's not I don't like anymore.. but I'm really scared. To be left hanging again after so much love and effort. It's just so sad.
THIS VOICE ACTING THO HUHU ♥️
I can relate this 😓 At first I'm the distant one, but slowly I feel like I'm falling in....and then guys ending it. I don't know what's wrong with me but everytime this happens to me 😖
Man, this is so relatable. We were friends for a long time, but like a month after we started dating, he was getting distant. We supposedly broke up because I had to leave for 3 months (at least that's what he said the reason was), yet only a month later, he confessed to my best friend who also moved away (for longer than I was supposed to)! Relationships are hard to maintain, and it's hard to tell when a truly good one comes your way. I wish you all good luck in your relationships!! Fighting! 💜
A guy like that doesnt deserve a good girl
I don't blame either sides but when she noticed him being distant, she should have realized that he needed time and she should've just give him that. Honestly, they shouldn't have felt that their love was fading because it wasn't, each just needed more understanding and time away from each other.
She looks like a bit of Han Hyojoo
Love fades away...the ultimate truth
Where to get his jacket 3:38
Megu X you're mood 😂
I can relate to this stories soo much because nowadays my boyfriend just think that his friends are more important than me :'(
I hate it when his like that
if he does not have feelings for me anymore then just tell me face to face...no need to keep it shut from me
i bet he doesnt feel like that... but you need to make more of an effort with him, you probably wait for him to start the convo
Jnigo寒意 now I understand a lot...you're right :')
His been really busy since he has training in the city so that's why he text me that he apologize for not replying to my text or he does not give attention to me lately ☺ anyway thanks a lot for giving me little bit of advice to give me hope ❤
These short stories are pretty good. Love it
i was so invested in this relationship and then this happens and gOD MY HEART >:"(
i’m actually crying, this is so sad :,(
This made me cry )): poor gal.. It used to be him who liked her a lot but now he doesn't care
How to make me cry 101
This hurts. When he’s all clingy and sweet to you in the beginning, but as time passes by.. he slowly loses interest in you. Especially when you guys aren’t even dating in the first place so you can’t complain about it. There was never an “us” to begin with. An almost-relationship wow... hurts like hell.
this reminded me of how my relationship went out, even though we don't spend our time together always, it still went like this.
Oh my god this one was so realistic and sad☹️☹️☹️💔
The main guy looks like DO Exo
this made me sad :( aw they’re a cute couple too :((
They are the same actor from that perfume ads😂😂😂
This is how my ex-boyfriend and me broke up, he became very distant, I don’t even know, he wouldn’t even tell. When he said he was going to study, I still saw him online on the app we were chatting and I really felt so bad, he was lying to me. I told him but he kept repeating, he wasn’t lying. One day, he unfollowed me on Instagram, I was so flustered, I asked him why, he replied hours later, saying he only follows a few celebrities & friends, I felt so hurt. I lashed out and him and said that he should give my phone back (the one I gave him, cause his was broken). He still hasn’t given that phone back tho, he said I only cared about the phone when we had fights, out of angriness I said yeah I care only about that phone & I really did in the end tho, I really couldn’t love him anymore after the way he rejected me. We had a long-distance relationship, he lives in Amsterdam, I live in the south of the Netherlands, close to the German border
That is sad, but at the same time normal. It happens in life. It must be heartbreaking for one, but if the other person starts feeling distant then it's better to just end things. Or work on the relationship.
Has anyone watched crossing point by Wong fu? This is like that.
Yes, sorta except for at least in crossing point they were discussing as she was asking him whether or not their relationship can go on bcs it seems like the guy is fading. But in this one, they don't seem like to (or wanted to but couldn't) make the effort to save or fix the relationship T.T
this whole series feels like strangers again
Yeasssss
I like this square format!
What is the name of the song they use? Please answer it's a beautiful song. 💞
Reminds me of my past relationship...
I watched it last 2017 before meeting my boyfriend. He’s same with the guy. Lovable at first then later on, he keeps on spending more time with his friends because he enjoys being with them than being with me. He also play games as well with his friends (I play games too and I really like to play with him). He likes to play with his friends than playing with me. Also, there’s a distance growing between us. He also lie just to play games but I always caught him. It’s just frustrating to see the once who loved me and confessed to me is now getting distant from me. He really liked me way back then that’s why he confessed. I just missed the old him but somehow, he’s trying to catch up. (Also, he doesn’t care if I break up with him so I always end up saying that I don’t mean it because I just want to say it to see if he care but he doesn’t give a damn). He wants to break up with me but he just want me to say it first. For now, we’re doing okay but I hope we won’t end breaking up. Just like the story, he liked me first and we went on a trip to celebrate. My boyfriend and I are together for 14 months up until now.
Sorry for speaking too much. It’s just, I can really relate to this story.
This is exactly the situation with my boyfriend right now, so much so that it made me cry. This entire video just broke my heart.
then you need to be straight with him and say hey look if you wanna spend time with ur freinds or doing things you like to do then just tell me about and ill understand i wont be mad and then say well ok ill go shopping or somethign just text me when your ready to spend time again its that simple why is that so hard to say
Wow ... that’s sad.
He was so in to her 😔
Hate when this happens. Fckn sucks. But we keep doing love because we want to believe that there’s one person out there that will look at us like it’s the first time even 10years later. But if there aren’t, I hope I can make peace with that and get more cats.
She suffocated him. She’s always there and he feels like he can’t do his own thing because of her
That’s why some people ask for a “space” but some don’t believe on space and they preferred “break up”
but see thats the problem why cant people just say what the want without hurting the ones they love
I felt the same way... Went through the same way... It still kills me
it's kinda sad to see how he liked her so much and she was scared to give her heart away. and yet he gets annoyed by her and she gave once again her heart away only to get hurt.
The empty gaze lovers give each other after getting used to each other,😐😐💔
One of the reasons why I dont date. This situation scares me.
Usually im the one who becomes distant first... But its because im trying to respect their space.... But i guess they can get the wrong idea... Usually guys don't care or notice thats what im trying to do.. And they become distant too... But they become disrespectful with it by talking to females and going out more.... Like yeah you can have your space but it doesnt mean you can go partying 4 days out of the week and flirting with girls.
i'm really really into my girlfriend right now, we both said we really love eachother and before being a couple we were both friends, but i just dont want anything like this to happen i dont want to become more distant from her ever and im worried that because there is distance we will become distant:( we can only meet once a week... has anyone else been in this situation where its not fully long distance but its far enough that u cant see eachother everyday?
Dont wanna experience break up? Lover her, that's the answer for ya. Love comes from your heart/inside you can control it. Love the way she smiles, love her effort to be with you, love her weird habits, love her every single part. I wish I would have been more loving bf
I see my bf every two weeks or sometimes a month. It's hard in between but it's awesome when we see eachother cause we miss eachother so much.
Same only once a week cause I have to do other stuff and my parents don’t like me to be on the phone a lot we can only text it’s a distance relationship but lately I feel we’re gojng apart he is always busy when I have time but as soon as I am busy he is not but we’re making it work I had other relationships and to be honest it didn’t work out cause one was too clingy and didn’t give me my space plus I had to date him cause my friend went on my phone and text him yes when he ask me out we dated for like two and a half months I think anyway he always came right after my classes and lunch and morning and afternoon going back home plus he cause problems for me and every time I was with him I was not really happy he was always sweaty I don’t like to be hug if your always sweaty later after finals we went back to school and i broke up with him in the morning j just don’t think i should have been with him he never made me happy plus I like someone else I still do like them we’re together and I am happy now but my ex I don’t know but we’re not talking anymore since we broke up and he is a pshyco that’s also why I broke up with him my other ex he is fine we’re still friends we talk and turns out he still likes me but he understands I like someone else and he wants me to be happy even if it’s not with him so yea I had like one bad relationship
So far I were making our relationship work and I am happy I am with the person I love he is really a great guy
Jnigo寒意 I love you
Not even a 10 seconds into the video and im already pissed off by the title.
This is why both people in a relationship need me time.
Omg they both are so cute
Damm that is so relatable men are aaaalways like this
This series is too real o-o
ahhh all man always like this
Communication is the 🔑
I'm a guy, and I swear to God whenever I'd get a girlfriend I'd never leave her alone. I'd take care for her as much as possible. Even if y'all say things like "oh that would never happen. All guys leave their girlfriend after sometime."
No. I'm not like that.
Well unless she is cheating on me.
This story touched me I love girl but sometimes I want u now free time a little like she's the only 1 for me but sometimes I have to work Doo things work on it
What jacket is that he wears at 3:30 that has the word Celebrity on it? Where can I buy it?
Damnnnn that trust issues things when he actually really lying.
IM BOUTTA CRY
This happened to me just recently. It was painful. Lol
At first he was very sweet and attentive. I was very hesitant to meet him coz he is younger than me and I didn't experience dating a younger guy yet. He is Korean. However, I went through some rough times and he was the one that did not leave my side eventhough I kept pushing people away. I relied and depended on him. We were always together. We like spending time together. Until one day he just stopped. I was ready but he left me hanging. I was so hurt. The pain is still fresh. I can see him every weekdays cos we have the same workplace but he doesnt wanna talk to me. I stopped trying. It was painful. Idk what to do right now. I do not even know what I did to make him like that.
Ah Pride. You lose when you choose pride in these cases.
1:42 damn you 2 stop looking into my soul.... it’s creepy af
Ik they looking @ each other but STILL.. idk I’m dramatic :))))
why is everyone blaming him? 😂 I just think they don't go well together since she is the type to be around her bf 24/7 and he just needs some time without her 🤷🏻♀️ I don't think anyone is at fault and tbh I would be like the dude as well.
my hearts breaking
It was so sad that it made me cry 😭
I can feel it... I can.. Iam 😢
I STILL LUV THIS
im starting to not wanting to continue watching this drama cuz i can relate and it reminds me of the past
URRGGHHH IM SO ANGRY.... I WOULD JUST LEAVE AND HE WOULD NEVER SEE ME AGAIN
lol these are getting to real and similiar to what i'm going through :^)))
I KNOW HOW IT FEELS LIKE. i mean, any girls must have known what it feels like, right? i remember when that time i missed my bf and send "what you doin'?" and then he said "i'm on a reunion, talk to you later k?" and then i don't dare to send him any message to him. and 1 month later when i half-heartedly dump him, he was like "okay, i know what you've going thru" when he didn't actually know how i feel so heartbroken during the time we became so distant. and two weeks later, he dated someone else and told his friends /that is also a friend of mine/ to keep it a secret from me, which is so useless coz my stalking skill is to high that i don't need anybody to tell me, coz i happened to know it first. and that's the most shitty moments of my life, and i moved on 3 years later...
expectation vs reality
Ahhhh there’s no way I would ever treat my girlfriend like that. But what can I say I’m the single one 😭😭
It remind me of love playlist 😭 miss it
This happen to me... my mom said there will always be someone else... 'But I dont want to be with someone else :(...
Well actually this is so realistic cz this is what actually happens in all relationships boys are all the same! They're so nice when you don't care but from the moment you start giving thm more attention and become better to thm they change ☹
I tried it several times when you neglect thm they stay stuck to you and care for you.. This is life 🙁
This hurts so bad
this actually happens in real life..especially if you are seeing each other everyday,mostly this happens for the guy's part..they need some ME TIME and ME AND THE GUY'S TIME and you as his gf,let him do that once in a while..if not,they will fed up and eventually it can lead to breaking up..i know and i understand the girl's part too,that we rather choose hanging out with them and do nothing than not to see them at all..as we all know,girls are more attached to anything while guys usually (i'm not saying all but mostly) they need a little bit of space,and we girls should know and understand..if you (girls) think and feel there is something not right why he's distant with you,you will know that..i believe in girl's instinct,mostly 99% percent of it are accurate and true..so you'll know but other than that,let's give them space and break..even us girls need that too once in a while..^_^
awww 😞😞😞😞 walang forever
i wanted more to watch..but it was ended soon.
their names?
anyone knows the background song?
힘들어😢
I thought he is Andrew foy GOSH...
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.. BUT HE IS NOT..
jjkkk01 97 😂💓
Notttt
jjkkk01 97 He is Kang Yoon Je, JYP actor
Remember Girls! Gaming ruins Relationship😂
amen to that and i completely agree unless its a game your both interested in then it will be diffcult to maintain
Were can i watch this drama
The man's out of himself.
Kakatakot na tuloy magkajowa😂😂
this eps is my relationship with my bf rn... we didnt live tgt because its a taboo thing here. but we paid a small room per month for us to kiss and cudd.. and i always wnted to be with him and see him. appearently he needs more 'me time' just like in this eps. My Boyfriend actualy told me that hanging with his friends are more comfortable rather than hanging out with me..
he used to be very sweet and all even come to my place when he miss me. now he'll just 'im tired after work and seeing you rn its not efficient'...
i rlly miss my boyfriend though..
I never was in an relationship before because I’m pretty young and I don’t think I need one but is it always like this kdramas? Boys make you feel in love with you and then then leave you because they need more “me” time?
Can someone tell me the name of the Jacket?
so relatable.. :'