All the money I made in Dubai for years went to alcohól - Lawrence Nyaga - Shared Moments
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
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Tonight we take you back in time for a dark past that Lawrence would want to forget, then walk you right to the future! A future full of hope and fulfilment. This is what it means to shake off the chains of addiction.
There is hope and help for those struggling with addiction of any kind.
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You can reach out to Lawrence through +254705310577
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Jerusha Selah
Brian Kwame
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Lawrence is still a very looong way from recovery. This interview was premature given that it is only about 6 months since he watched the video of Kilanga that "purportedly" caused him to change his ways. So, if we are to go by that, and believe that he has truly been sober since, that is not even enough time to have completed the step-work required for true recovery.
The other obvious red flag that he still has a lot of work to do is the lack of accountability.
For starters, the fact that he doesn't mention any timelines in his story is quite strange. True recovering addicts and alcoholics take a lot of pride in stating how long they have been sober for.
For example, they would say, "I've been sober for 1 year 7 months; or 5 years; or 8 years, etc."
He appears to be intentionally vague about it, which could mean that he hasn't be all the way committed during this time of so-called recovery.
The other thing is the lack of accountability. An addict or alcoholic who is truly in recovery will always acknowledge how their actions, behavior and addiction negatively impacted the lives of those closest to them. They are usually deeply remorseful about it. Lawrence did not once mention what his drinking did to his family. He does not acknowledge how it affected his wife, his children, and his mother.
He casually brushed over it stating that oh "they (wife and son) were shaken because of how frail he looked when he came back from Dubai." That's it.
That shows that he is either lying by downplaying what he put his family through, or (-more likely-) he has no clue how his addiction affected his loved ones. This shows he is nowhere near recovery and has no moral authority to speak on sobriety at this stage of his journey.
Lastly, he has not said what he is doing now. What has he learned "now that he is sober" (allegedly)? What is he doing to improve his relationship with his wife and children? Is he earning an income at the moment? How is he keeping busy? Is he finally being a man and contributing to the household? Or how is he spending his money since he has never really had to support his family - ever? (Remeber, his wife has been the one holding fort while he drank his salaries).
I hope he gets the help he needs, but for now, this interview was too premature. It should have waited until he was at least 2 years sober and done the inner work required. Only then would he be an inspiration to others.
On a side note: Women, let's normalize walking out of toxic relationships that don't serve us. While everyone is busy congratulating the wife for staying with an alcoholic who has never brought anything to the table, ask yourself this: If the tables were turned, would the man stay with an alcoholic wife who can't take care of her household or children? The answer is a big fat NO.
Society would be quick to tell the man to leave her and look for a "good woman."
So, women, staying with a man who battles addiction, and doesn't even contribute financially or emotionally to the running of your household has NO VALUE to you. Leave. Move on. Save your kids from the trauma. You are his wife, not his mother. Staying in such relationships is not an achievement to be proud of.
Let his mother love him unconditionally. You don't have to.
I salute your wife. She must be very patient.
I have seen what alcoholism has done to our families.please if you have never started alcohol never try.
Is true what you are saying. Many people who are addicted today it all started with testing.
You can recover the years you lost if you want. You are also very intelligent and your English is eloquent, don’t waste yourself.
To your wife, she is one out of a million, respect and love her.
Headmaster, Brother, it has taken the hand of God that you are here today. Yesterday (8/11/2022) we lost a friend (Mutwiri) over alcohol. Thanks for the inspiration. May God take you to even greater heights.
God bless you. I hope my brother will find help one day and turn his life around. He has wasted 40 years in alcoholism 😥 😔
He will be fine in jesus name
@@favouredblessed2631 thanks
I know how much you have gone through. It was always painful watching what alcohol had reduced you to. What an inspiring story. Am elated for you my brother.
May God see you through..
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Having grown up with you as my friend and neighbor...am more than elated for taking the bold step.God bless you bro
May God's hand touches anyone who is straggling with any addiction in Jesus Name.
Wow!! What a testimony.... ur wife is God sent
If he refuses to stop , little his wife can do…. Not saying she didn’t try but l have been there
It is a testimony ,so glad to listen to this 🙏🏿
My dear friend am surprised and happy to see you hear.Am proud of you 👏 you coming out brave.
Glad that he changed for his family and himself, but parts of his story are hilarious.
Waaaw i have seen you drunk and sober all ican say i thank GOD... for this doing
Headmaster your story is very inspiring. Thanks for shairing ..
Thank you for being liberated, sharing your story and inspiring the world.
Am happy for this man... he's a living testimony ...
Lawrence is still a very looong way from recovery. This interview was premature given that it is only about 6 months since he watched the video of Kilanga that "purportedly" caused him to change his ways. So, if we are to go by that, and believe that he has truly been sober since, that is not even enough time to have completed the step-work required for true recovery.
The other obvious red flag that he still has a lot of work to do is the lack of accountability.
For starters, the fact that he doesn't mention any timelines in his story is quite strange. True recovering addicts and alcoholics take a lot of pride in stating how long they have been sober for.
For example, they would say, "I've been sober for 1 year 7 months; or 5 years; or 8 years, etc."
He appears to be intentionally vague about it, which could mean that he hasn't be all the way committed during this time of so-called recovery.
The other thing is the lack of accountability. An addict or alcoholic who is truly in recovery will always acknowledge how their actions, behavior and addiction negatively impacted the lives of those closest to them. They are usually deeply remorseful about it. Lawrence did not once mention what his drinking did to his family. He does not acknowledge how it affected his wife, his children, and his mother.
He casually brushed over it stating that oh "they (wife and son) were shaken because of how frail he looked when he came back from Dubai." That's it.
That shows that he is either lying by downplaying what he put his family through, or (-more likely-) he has no clue how his addiction affected his loved ones. This shows he is nowhere near recovery and has no moral authority to speak on sobriety at this stage of his journey.
Lastly, he has not said what he is doing now. What has he learned "now that he is sober" (allegedly)? What is he doing to improve his relationship with his wife and children? Is he earning an income at the moment? How is he keeping busy? Is he finally being a man and contributing to the household? Or how is he spending his money since he has never really had to support his family - ever? (Remeber, his wife has been the one holding fort while he drank his salaries).
I hope he gets the help he needs, but for now, this interview was too premature. It should have waited until he was at least 2 years sober and done the inner work required. Only then would he be an inspiration to others.
On a side note: Women, let's normalize walking out of toxic relationships that don't serve us. While everyone is busy congratulating the wife for staying with an alcoholic who has never brought anything to the table, ask yourself this: If the tables were turned, would the man stay with an alcoholic wife who can't take care of her household or children? The answer is a big fat NO.
Society would be quick to tell the man to leave her and look for a "good woman."
So, women, staying with a man who battles addiction, and doesn't even contribute financially or emotionally to the running of your household has NO VALUE to you. Leave. Move on. Save your kids from the trauma. You are his wife, not his mother. Staying in such relationships is not an achievement to be proud of.
Let his mother love him unconditionally. You don't have to.
I like your comment and agree with everything you've said. I've heard stories of guys who've transformed and they're very different. They talk in details how they hurt their families and what they've done after redemption. And it make alot of sense and tou can tell they've reformed. As you've said, this one is premature.
It’s HIS journey, let him be.
😂😂 ptho
Thank you
Thank you for sharing your story Lawrence. I'm so glad you sought help and you're now healthy and thriving. Your wife is an angel.
Your story was entertaining and yet with lots of teaching. You are a testimony that God can turn a life around and you have given hope to someone who is helpless and hopeless. Thanks for sharing!.
I love your story telling skills you’re truly gifted.
you are such a vibe headmaster 😂 what an experience!
GOD of mercy ❤
If you are a kikuyu man . Kindly know that alcoholism is a cultural phenomenal. Me and my brothers we struggled with addiction until we visited our ancle with a bull and muratina . Kutoka iyo siku no booze
Was he initially the cause?
Quite inspiring!
Wow thanks to God🙏🙏 if rama u changed the group ya joro , robert na dommy simulikua walevi😍
Waah is it the same Churchill Deira,,, Dubai Ina maneno, me too was in naif later murakabat finally AL awir😂😂😂had Pima Deira, but am happy 5yrs 7 months in doha and transformed,,, Dubai raha tupuu
We have every reason to be happy for you
Congrats Man.This is total Miracle
Good job
Hapo sawa HM👊👊
Wow wow wow.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I wish ningepata chance ya ku earn that kind of money
Shout out to his wife for holding him down 👍
hello
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Kaka ameamua Air Conditioner (AC) ni Alternating Current 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂I hadn’t noticed. I rewound after reading your comment...😂😂😂😂😂
Uku Dubai wanaume wengi wamepotelea pima they don't save anything just wasting their time
God is good
There's hope for a tree that has been cut down
Ameandika book? I feel like he should write a book if he hasn't
Lot of ladies making money with this kid of guys ,, 😻😻 if u know u know , bro hukupoteza job ulii promote pima n 😻😻 job
🤣🤣🤣🤣
What you're saying is humorous but true.
Sadly, this man isn’t yet close to recovery but he’s willing. Annnnd he’s a pathological liar. Y’all need to get this man help quick before he dies!!!!!
How do you know?
Do you know him at personal level
Why talk about him like that,I work in a mental institution and I can tell you alcohol has ruined people lives
I agree with you Irene but not on him being a liar (not sure about it but you could be right) but he's not recovered yet. Stop listening with emotions, listen carefully and also listen to people who have truly reformed. There's a big difference.
Kwani hauko Na plan ya Maisha yako
😂😂 is called Kanairo without proper financial literacy skills alcohol will finish you not forgetting friends wakuchocha mtu ukirudi Kenya 😂 Mimi huezi ni chocha priss
Life is for living. Enjoy the alcohol
Uku Dubai wanaume wengi wamepotelea pima they don't save anything just wasting their time
There is a common assumption that alcohol is non-existent in Arab lands, kumbe si true.
@@b.3940 hadi Saudi there's alot of alcohol wanatengeza wao changaa nku baya sana uku
Huko ndo iko mob, them too hulewa chini ya maji
you are such a vibe headmaster what an experience