48 Things Women Hear In A Lifetime (That Men Just Don't)
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as a kid, people telling me “he’s picking on you because he likes you” was so infuriating because that doesn’t make it okay that kids are literally hitting you ????
Yep. Even worse than that - instead of telling young girls they shouldn't hit boys unless they are being touched without consent or if they are hit as self-defense they allow them to abuse this power they have over boys and allow them to hit boys for any reason or kiss them without their consent.
Alexis Theiss some other kid bit me when i was younger and they teacher said he just likes u
23Starcatcher yes it doesn’t make sense me being a girl thinks no girl or guy should hit another girl or guy unless like you already said they have a good reason such as self defence no matter what gender or even race!
This is crazy lol I’m a guy and this definitely doesn’t check out no way Jose, your messing with the wrong guys sis lol
Kaiya Anderson but it’s frustrating when a boy is hurting you (even if it’s only a little) and you tell someone you trust and all they do is say “he likes you”. i understand kids don’t understand the weight of their actions but they should be taught right then and there that hitting someone or “picking on” someone, especially when you like them, is not okay. not only does not doing this teach boys their behavior is excusable, it also teaches girls that violence is a sign of love. it’s not okay, even for kids.
Don’t forget “that’s not very lady like” I hate this one.
yeah but if boys act girly they'll be told the same shit "that's not very manly".
Leo Animations that’s not the point. but go off
Leo Animations that’s not the point
I know I hate that one too
@@shayshowyipee the point of this vid is things women hear the men DONT. I'm saying, some sayings they heard also are heard from men too. But go off
“You must have been beautiful when you were younger” she is still gorgeous
If you like dead people
you're so moronic that you can't see that if someone says that to you it's because you're beautiful. but coming from someone who speaks like if beautiful and gorgeous are the same words, what do you expect?
True
@@blvckemo_ lmaoooo
Alright, but would you tap that
How about, "you're very opinionated for a girl."
I swear if someone ever says this to me😬😀
@@saartjeh 🔪🩸
The person saying this so my face will get an opinion back!
@@fred7883 Why watch the video if you're just gonna comment this hm?
@@fred7883 sorry.
"Stop being so emotional" lol the amount of times I've been told that.
How many drinks did you drink tonight. Loooool
I was just thinking that. Lots of men and boys would have been told that but in different context. Women and girls are usually told this as a way of discrediting their experiences, knowledge or opinions. Men and boys, however, are basically trained that the only emotions their allowed to have is happy, okay and angry so when they show empathy, sadness (especially sadness) they're told they're being weak. In fact they're regularly compared to being feminine if they show they're sad or hurt. And as we all know being like a girl or a woman is a terrible thing. Interesting how sexism holds ALL genders back.
But we can push a baby out but you can't stand being sick idk why don't say that when there more emotional😂😂
@@Infornografista actually no not every woman has a man working for them some are strong and work for themselves
@@poprockcandy3400 and adding to what you said, there are still countries that have sexist laws against women
Another one that I’ve been told: you don’t know how to cook? Who’s going to cook for your husband then? I was 16 at the time
Girl yu don't need to know how to cook. Whatever age yu are rn I'm pretty sure ur a master chef. I'm 14 nd I can't cook but imma learn nd I will get there. Whoever said that to yu is such a disgusting person, I hope yu never felt yu were nothing at that time. I don't know who yu are but I love yu nd the tough times will past through nd happiness will come ur way. Stay safe luv😘❤
Omg same but I’m 13 . My mom always tell me how I’m gonna Cook for my future husband like 😐.
He's going to cook. Because he is a human fucking being and lives in that fucking house. It isn't your responsibility to feed him just like it isn't your responsibility to clean up after him. You guys both take turns doing these things because no one should be forced to do things just because they are a certain gender. I get this too because my dad is constantly telling me how cleaning and cooking is me and my moms responsibility because we are the women.
Even my father cook for himself when my mother is tired...
I feel like you're mexican then
I didn’t realize that “he picks on you because he likes you” was sexist. I used to hear it all the time when I was younger
Not that much sexist but isnt really okay cs they r basically normalising abuse in some cases (like hitting a girl and slapping her butt)
Tamo Neka Hana yeah, I agree. It’s more like casual sexism, or just disrespect
its normalising rape culture. It teaches girls and boys that abuse is a form of love when its not.
I remember getting punched as a little kid and one of the teachers telling me he was “trying to express his love to me”. I’m 100% sure hitting someone isn’t showing love. I hate that people still use that line to excuse shit like that. It’s the start of abusive behavior
Same
The feminism one annoyed me because apparently wanting equal rights is seen as wrong nowadays
literally i don’t understand
It’s because a lot of people who say they’re feminist are saying things that imply that they don’t want to be equal to men, but rather that men are terrible just for being male and that women are better than they are.
L C i know but people who say that freaking suck & i just wish they didn’t give feminism a bad reputation yk
@@haleyunderwood8529 your own female members gave the feminists the bad rep if they weren't going on rallies with these "oh men are trash" claims then there wouldn't be a bad rep. You guys can't even hold a movement together.
Leo Animations im not responsible for shit other human beings do. i wish they wouldn’t do that & act that way, but there’s not much you can do about it. “your own female members” was an interesting way to phrase it.
“She only plays games cause she wants guy’s attention” being a gamer girl is hard these days with people saying this to me
Groovy Juice that’s very true.......
Same
SERIOUSLY!!!! can’t I just enjoy video games without being compared to men?
Facts
Same, as a girl, I feel so uncomfortable when I’m playing online that I just turn my mic off
"You eat a lot for a girl." Of course a guy won't fucking hear that.
hahaha
+Bonneh UHC Besides, most females never actually finish the food on their plate for appearance, because they don't want to look indulgent even though no one is actually judging them for it. This shit is all in their head...
+Bonneh UHC Ya I get called "fat-ass"
***** You are, though...
Drew Gaughan fucken MISOGYNY
"He picks on you because he likes you." Can we just not teach kids this because it can normalize abusive actions and say that stuff is okay. Kids shouldn't pick on each other or hit each other unless they are getting touched in a way that makes them uncomfortable or is against their consent
yup they say that and we do not want that to be said it is not true but they that
I was always told "boys will be boys"
@@carterbriggs2828 and PiNk Is A gIrLs CoLoR
@@iam_stacy yeah i always hated that one too.
My mom told me that. But my grandma told me "if he treats you like this now. He'll treat you like this if you get married. Don't risk it." Major respect for her opening my eyes like that. Now teasing i can handle,but constantly I cant.
who else is here from tiktok
yes! i’m glad i am, honestly, it’s so powerful.
Meee
dannielle stafford same
me
Me too
Man I wish I got told "you look so pretty"
All I got was "fat-ass"
+Eric Cartman But you're just big boned.
Shut up cartman
I'm anorexic, much worse then being a fatass...
To be fair that's kinda funny if you're immune to it which you're not so it's not
lol
"you're 23 and not in a relationship?" are women expected to get married, have a family and then die? Lol
Etak yes they are expected and should do so😜
i mean are called that too
@@halosainswavvy9202 You're disgusting.
It's usually us saying that a women is pretty and we're surprised that they don't have a fella. Atleast we compliment the other gender :)
@@satan1626 I would appreciate if you call me beautiful instead 😊
It’s so funny how so many guys in the comments are talking about what men are told every day. The thing is, that’s not the point of the video. I’m sorry that you have to go through that but don’t desensitize the claims made this video. It’s so obnoxious seeing all the comments made by men saying that women are too privileged and are complaining about how everyone’s already equal and that problems solved when it’s really not! Yes, men go through it but that doesn’t mean that you can just push aside women’s issues like their minor. Some people are just a little bit ignorant 😔🙄
Ace - Animal Crossing
Well that’s just assuming that because a small group of bad eggs want something that every single one of them want that same thing. There are women out there who want that sort of thing but just because they do exist doesn’t mean that every single feminist wants that exact thing. Also, the freedom of speech excuse is so... ugh... yeah you have freedom of speech, good for you, but don’t be upset or get angry when someone retaliates because we all have freedom of speech
Peacheu we also here most of the things they hear so like what point are they even trying to get across anyway
ainsley d
We know that things like this aren’t exclusively used for women but these in particular are just a small sum of what is said to women everyday. The point of this video in particular isn’t assessing men’s issues, if you want to find a video catering to that then look it up. This video isn’t made to touch on men’s issues that’s no what it’s about.
Peacheu yup 1000% agree. And the people who made this video made one about men but the titles weren’t equal
@@sterloin there was a different video for men and their issues so don't complain
“It’s THAT time of the month.”
that’s not funny or cute. It makes you look like someone who’s never experienced it. You think we *wanna* be angry, frustrated, sensitive? No we don’t.
Moreover, sometimes they say it when we have a strong opinion on something and it's the most frustrating thing ever. Like, you got angry at something they did? You think something is wrong? You want to call out something or someone because uggggggh? They just pull the "that time of the month?" Card and suddenly all your opinions are discredited because you're just hormonal and can't think like a human, yOU CAN'T THINK LIKE A MAN AHDIWBZJW
It's especially "funny" when I'd get angry for them saying that and they'd say "see"? and thinking it's an affirmation of what they just said rather than the fact I am reacting to their statement.
It’s a quick way to invalidate how someone feels and acts. You can’t even rebuttal because there’s no way to prove you are or aren’t on your period, unless you’re open to a pelvic exam. And if people think you are then everything you say after that gets attributed to hormonal imbalance.
@@koemiseina4495 I say that because I genuinely don't know, and also it helps to ask. Most men know when women are on their period their emotions are elevated, asking if they're on it shouldn't be wrong. Men don't know if you are on it so asking is like the only way, I'm not saying ask that every single time a woman gets mad, but I ask when it seems they're unreasonably mad/too mad over something too little. I also ask it just because I want to pinpoint what's wrong, it's usually the first alot of people would ask because it's a commonly accepted thing for women. Id ask that to rule it out, then ask if they're stressed out or are having a meltdown, but a biological thing that occurs to women every month will always usually be the first I ask. Also, a lot of women excuse their behavior during this time period by blaming it on hormones, your assumption that men believe women are incapable of thinking like logical humans is backed up, by other women. Its common that women say it's hormones, or I'm on my period, so how is it rude to think that when that's what women point the finger on? I don't think when women are on their period they're incapable of thinking like a human being, far from it in fact, I think that they are still responsible for what they say, but I allow leeway because I also understand what is contributing to that.
If your being really mean and rude or crying alot of course people are gonna say that because yes you guys can't controll your periods and everything that comes with it but you can choose how to act your smart enough to know that "I'm on my period but I still know how to treat people" IT'S SO SIMPLE.
One time my mother told me she was scared I wouldn’t make friends or a boy/girlfriend cause I don’t shave my legs. I told that if they didn’t wanna be friends just cause I grew hair on my legs, I’m better off without them as a friend.
right though. i dont shave my legs either and i just brush off anyone who says something rude about it.
I know this might sound offensive and trust I really don’t wanna make any one mad but
Shaving your legs is like showering everyday, it’s just expected as a daily thing I guess. Sorry again if I offended you
@@barackobama8039 both men and women are socially expected to shower regularly.
Why aren't men expected to shave their legs?
@@ezekieloruven I don’t know
@@yoruasa_1 don’t try and turn me into a ass hole I’m trying to keep it into just a comment not an argument
one time I got my ears pierced and my family was like, “ wow she finally looks like a girl” was I not before?
Just because someone didn’t have their ears pierced doesn’t make them any less of a girl, it’s just society today and stereotypes that all girls should pierce their ears, I didn’t get mine pierced until I was 14
urmom i bet you did not look like a girl, and I also bet it’s a fake ass half ass story.
Halosain Swavvy nigga u can get ur 3 views ass out my mentions BYE
My wife had her ears pierced as a baby (it was common in her culture to do it that young), but she always had a boys haircut. Strangers would walk up and tell her mother what a cute boy. My wife laughs about this story. It was what it was. No biggie. She's a grown woman now who who puts the past in context and owns who she is now.
urmom banchote at least i got views that more than 3, and also at least I don’t be telling fake ass story’s on the Internet
it is sad how many people I hate in this comment section...
But...how many do you 💘LOVE?!......can't hate...without love. Always try to strike a healthy balance.
It's chill, we hate you too!
Oscar Navarro nobody asked for you to speak though
@@esme8756 Sue me, sweetheart.
Oscar Navarro first of all, don’t call me sweetheart. second of all, literally nobody asked for you to reply originally so just stfu and take you’re smart ass negativity somewhere else
This comment section is filled with angry guys who can’t see that some things they say are wrong
A MAN?......saying something wrong!?.....uh...I suppose...it's possible..but I'm a man...I've NEVER said anything wrong!👹.....I have , of course, male friends...THEY'VE NEVER mentioned saying anything wrong!...nope..I'm afraid I'm gonna hafta FIGHT you on this one.....LET'S WRASSLE!👺
nope......it is bullshit you have done in the video, RESPECT is mutual, if you think men are such deamons....stay away!!
@@brettrobinson2901 you have definitely said something wrong if thats your attitude
@@Gia-vi2dp OBVIOUSLY....you don't KNOW 1st rate , grade A horsesh√t , when you read it!😜
@@brettrobinson2901 the hell ;-;
"Your biological clock is ticking" wow I'm seriously shocked and concerned that people don't say that to men I mean whats wrong with society
Ikr?
I wonder what a good comeback could be. Especially if you don't even want children.
Maybe somethimg like " my clock is always on after 4 so I can drink your stupidity away"
YES! I'M WONDERING WHAT'S WRONG WITH SOCIETY AS WELL!
Thankyou for being aware sometimes I think all guys are dicks but you just reminded me they aren't.
What exactly is so shocking about it? Women have a literal time limit within which they can have children, and men don't really have the sane issue.
@@VogtTD It is shocking because its incredibly rude and not that person's business and a women doesn't have to have a baby if she doesn't want to.
"Stop being so emotional"
I get told that all the time when I try to be brave and get like small tears in my eyes while trying to not to cry
Crying is healthy and natural. It just means that no one wants to see you overreact.
@@troyt6532 don’t gaslight them with the “it just means no one wants to see you overreact “ no it just means that the other person wants them to stay quiet and not express what they’re feeling 😐
@@user-zu2kh8or7z because they’re overreacting.
I’m not trying to get in peoples heads. Stop being so emotional.
@@troyt6532 LMFAO at it again with the gaslighting it just went straight over your head
@@user-zu2kh8or7z because you insist that I’m “gaslighting,” you just don’t acknowledge my point. I tried give you some credit and understand your side, but since I can’t change your blatant ignorance (and never tried to), I’m better off wasting my time talking to a wall.
Also, revealing that you’re in avoidance of believing anything I say, *as if it might actually cause you to rethink your own opinion,* just gives me more credibility.
If it really weren't for social media, i would've been spending my whole life thinking these statements are normal for a 'lady' to hear..
uhm your not a normal woman. noone is and many of these phrases are never used.
@@duckfacemcgee3271 sure Austin. Ur not a woman so it’s definitely not natural for u to hear these on a regular basis let alone starting from a young age. Deprogramming misogyny even in my own head was tough. U can do it too.
@@duckfacemcgee3271 i bet you know all about being a woman huh?? ;)
@@duckfacemcgee3271 how would you know? are you a woman?
@@duckfacemcgee3271 ive heard these phrases my whole life and im 14. If your not a girl or a woman please listen to us instead of silencing us
“It must be that time of the month” okay but can I just be sad or angry without you invalidating my emotions??
You sure can.
"You look so pretty" "Are you planning on working after you have a kid" Oh gosh the horror!
+BroTheDude Yes, I just can't imagine the psychological damage experienced by the females who have had these sexist phrases spoken to them. The horror.....the horror.
Lol men hear this a lot. girls call guys pretty all the time
+BroTheDude You really don't get it, don't you? As as a woman, society tell us to be pretty and to have kids. All the time. Someone has already told me "you can't do your dream job, you'll have kids later!". It's not because it's not traumatic that it's not a bad things. As a woman, you have to be pretty. You have to be a woman. Even if you don't want to. And you, you will never understand how women feel.
Sorry to disapoint you but:
1- Some boys have ovaries too
2-I have a boyfriend and we both don't want kids (maybe because we're only 16, who knows (:)
3-You ar the one who need to be educated. You are calling me a "bitch" only because I don't want kids. Plus, I didn't assaulted anyone and called them "bitch" or "petulant sack of shit"
4- I am educated, I'm currently speaking fluent english even if I'm french, and I speak fluent spanish too
5- Those "mysoginistic restriction" still exist. I'm going to an engineering school but everyone tell me that I can't because "I'm a girl".
You absolutly don't know anything about the subject. You could at least try to debate in a intelligent way, but you don't. You're just yelling. I bet you like Donald Trump.
And I'll add a little something that I realise by re-reding your hateful comment. You say "last two genomes XY genomes"
XY aren't genomes. They are chromosomes. Genomes is the DNA.
Lacrossingueuse what type of engineering?
"Are you trying to be a guy?" Nah m8, just don't want long hair
I get the "you look like a boy" comment every time I get a pixie cut... For the past 20 years!
I am a girl, and I hate that I spend ages doing my hair :/ so they can back off.
I’m a guy and I like long hair hard to manage but I like how it looks
My dad actually cool with me having short pixie haircut but my mom was overreacting as if I've committed a crime.. so then I said to my mom : "look Jesus Christ has long hair, does it make him a woman?" Ofc she can't answer.
I always hear, “Dont wear that, it’s too short. The men will do bad things to you.” It’s annoying.
Yumi cause have you ever heard of pedos and rapist
Men will fricking kill you then themselves because how damn traumatizing what's up there. you're parents never told you
@@halosainswavvy9202 no i understand what’ll happen. But it’s still annoying when you constantly hear it over and over after you already know what’s going to happen. I don’t wear short skirts for a good reason
@@duckfacemcgee3271 i understand that. My parents always tell me what happens. When there’s a child that gets raped, stolen, or killed they always tell me. I’m mature enough to know what’ll happen but thank you for being aware
I swear this makes me feel aggresive
Omg would everybody just STOP! Not once did this video mention that men say these things to women. Without women humanity would fail to exist. So y'all just get a life and please, show some respect towards women.
Please.
Pineapple Slices you obviously don’t know how reproduction works but k...
@@andersoni.7472 Yeah you need a boy to make a kid to
@@justsomelochnessmonsterony8265 technically not any more. Look it up there's a procedure for two women to have a child without a man at all
@@graceuveges8106 What is this, is it that stupid bone marrow transplant that they tried. Cause if it's that, then well, I hope your ready to care for a kid with problems
@@andersoni.7472 well, who would give birth to children? Yes, men are quite an important part in reproduction (😂), but without a woman carrying the child and giving birth, humanity would quickly go extinct
I like video games, and hate “girly” things. Girly? No...we’re humans. Please stop.
Yeah. Just say "that person is so personey"
Yeah they nail polish and dressing ul is girly so what
So how do you call girly stuff? Guys have different interests than girls deal with it. We are different. thats a fact.
@@17MrLeon people like you are the reason so many believe the “gender identity” bullshit
@@17MrLeon you came to the wrong comment sections lad
The fact that this video has almost as many dislikes as likes is sad
it's the way they phrased it as if men DONT or can't relate to those sayings when in fact we do but it a different way
Leo Animations I didn’t even think it that way
Elizabeth Rose no it’s amzing😜
It's scary right how many people oppose you I'm one of them 😂😂
@@Leoshti i see you all over this comment section and here what I have to say to you, you are part of the problem, if you feel attacked or offended, that's because you are a part of the problem, you are the reason we don't have equality, if you feel attacked or shameful, you should. and you don't have to try and defend yourself as the nice dude, because we know there are some nice men, but put yourself in our shoes for a day, getting cat called and constantly nit picked. if somebody falls down and asks for a bandage but another person doesn't fall down and still asks for one, who do you give the bandage to? the person who needs it or the person who doesn't? of course you would hand it to the person who needs it (which would be women in this situation) some men can relate to these situations, but in much different ways all tying into women, it is said that being a woman is bad and being male is good, so if you are a man and act sad, you get called emotional, why is that a bad thing? because woman women are stereo typed to be weak and emotional. do you not understand why we have these problems? these are the reasons and they NEED to be addressed
“Someone’s hormonal”
Trueeeeee
Literally makes me so mad ughh
The “nice wrack” hit different Bc boys at my school say that I look like a porn star and then say it’s a compliment...
Boys are disgusting. Men would treat a women with respect
Well I dont see the problem with it myself please give me some insight on why it's not a complement
Sam Smith it makes girls feel like that’s the only good part about them that their bodies are all that matter and personally it’s an insult I couldn’t even wear a sweaters hurt and jeans without them saying I looked like I should be a porn star it makes me feel uncomfortable in my own skin and makes me feel stupid and that they were saying I could only be successful off my body alone and not my brain or talents.
@@popdazai2523 I've had this said to me by 60 year old men while I was a 14 year old working at a grocery store. Grown men do this too and I wouldn't quite constitute them as mere boys
I hate being expected to have pretty looks to get a man. I don’t really want children and I don’t care a whole whole ton about my looks. As long as I don’t look like i slept on grass I am fine lol (
"She picks on you because she likes you" I heard that in my male childhood
+MILFMILF221 Same, but the thing is, here in my town girls weren't treated as delicate little flowers and I punched back once. I'm sure you can guess how that went.
+MILFMILF221 yea me too, but it turns out is was just because was an odd duck and girls can be mean just like boys. wait was saying girls can be mean sexiest I can never tell anymore. Hope I don't lose my job over it.
i still do
I'm sorry, you have my sympathy ❤
Sexism against men is as rotten as sexism against men. I just reported a sexist ad that depicts a woman abusing a man.
The video is literally about things that mostly females hear that males DON'T. THEN LOOKING AT THE COMMENTS. Suddenly there's a flood of comments by males being angry and there comments are all based on some political agenda about women AND to be honest, alot of those male hate comments literally makes them sound like they hate females. Like, is those females hurting you? Did they hurt your manly pride? Well, you know what. There's something called being a decent human being and understanding the perspective of how a female might feel. it's called RESPECT and EMPATHY im a male myself too and you dont see me complaining about some political female agenda. its cause i know the video is based from the perspective of a female so I gotta respect it. ALSO, most of the hateful comments by males tell me that they never been taught much manners in life or have any signs of empathy. So in conclusion. Some of the males in here don't know how to handle a simple video without their pride being hurt or knowing how to be respectful. like forreal, you knew what you were coming to watch when you read the title. why are you so upset at such a little thing. it's not like your gonna hear those words in the video be said to you like how those females hear regularly sometimes.
John Connor bro i have so much respect for you. im sure you’re a keeper. btw heres this 👑
Finally a male commenting on here not saying we're over reacting or stuff like that I respect you so much now
king shit
it's the title bruh. The vid paints it out like these statements can't be experianced or related to men. It literally says things mens won't hear" acting as if men can't relate...
dropped this king👑
Ladies, I just want to say as a man I’m sorry. I’m sorry you all go through so much in your daily lives and the stresses you all deal with day in and day out. I’m a father of 5 and 3 of them are girls. Ages 27, 22, and 15. I listen to them and the things they deal with. I watch this video and more like it and it hurts way down. I’m sorry for all the crap you all put up with. I’m sorry for the expectations this world tries to place on you. None of you should have to worry about even just the smallest of things. As a man I take so many things for granted daily that you all do not. No person should live in fear, mistrust, or being taken for granted as a person.
Ok beta male
@@shrek19yearsago78 fun fact: being a jerk doesn't make you an alpha
Ah yes a true man
😂
Well you do know men are the ones who are suffering in today's society
That type of boys **Says something about boys having it harder**
Me **defends that both genders have it hard but this is showing what females hear from men and women**
That type of boys: feminists... always says girls have it worst
I dont get this comment
Sam Smith every time I try to explain the pain woman go through (I think both sides have it hard) im called a feminist and that I only think woman have it harder yet I don’t
THIS. seriously, they just don't want to acknowledge the other genders' struggles. also, don't be afraid to be called a feminist. the traditional definition is essentially the same as a humanist. have a good day
@0perative08
cool, why are you telling me this
@0perative08
oh, cool :)
Seeing the younger girls prove that our society is messed up and it breaks my heart and because of stuff people say like this and the social beauty standers it broke me…my body dysmorphia started at the age of 6 because of stuff like this
I'm so sorry for that. People are terrible.
Bro you play Roblox these people are all at least 10 years older than you and you can’t self diagnose a serious condition like that.
And i think its more unfair men literally die more but to each their own 😐
@Aphinoo Men are usually killed by men.
@@aphinoo2538 girl what. You pulled a problem out of thin air. Sit down this video ain't about men
men experience worse
"No guy wants to have sex with a virgin."
Wait, what?!
yes my granfather sincerely regretted it so much he jumped off a building.
it’s literally the opposite
Ig both apply. Either way, there are a lot of creeps, both men and women, that are obsessed with other women's virginity.
I've honestly heard "no man wants to sleep with a slut" from older people and "no man wants to sleep with a virgin" from people my age, so gotta love this contradictory culture ✨✨
@@koemiseina4495 Those are people's preferences. Its like saying. I've honestly heard" Men don't cry" or "Man up" from several groups of people and "What's wrong with sharing your feelings" from other several groups of people. so gotta love this contradictory culture. However, the first one is about obscure sexual preferences. The second is believing one gender doesn't deserve to be understood and that they are better, kinda like yourself.
I hate it when they try to justify bullying with “he just likes you” ok then why is he beating me?
Who does that? Literally no one does that.
@@JG-cj2zm Yes they do
@@JG-cj2zm literally everyone does that
Another form of sexism. Telling women to be nice, when you don't know what she is going through. Expecting her to be perfect and submissive. Expecting her to like any man just because he exist. Like I was never born with eyes.
Another form of sexism, telling a man anything cause "you don't know what they are going through".
Are you living in parallel universe or you smoking very cheap stuff ?
That’s a thing men go through to that extremely sexist
@@JG-cj2zm This is about *WOMEN* NOT *MEN.*
@@barackobama8039 This is about *WOMEN* NOT *MEN.*
"why are you so emotional"
Considering this is a video of women whining about completely inoffensive things people say to them, that is a perfectly valid question.
+Mai Nya yes, even though the answer is obviously because of their biological disposition
That is brutally true
Also the don't be so bitchy one
+Happy the Annoying Blue Flying Cat It's not that any individual statement is harmful. The comments are, when taken out of context, completely innocuous. However, such things add up. They're a lot worse when taken into consideration with a much larger backdrop.
are you a woman? only woman can say what is offensive and what is not.
I'm a dude and this is messed up.
im a girl and both genders are being exploited like this.... i know the society is fucked up
@@prismmioouu No, guys have it way easier in everything.
@@otsutsukiindra2647 not everything , but at parts they do have it easier than girls
@@otsutsukiindra2647 false
at least some men understand
“Sit like a lady” “be a lady”
“Stop manspreading”
"You're so pretty" OMG SO EFFENSIVE "Man up" sips male tears cup
@@duckfacemcgee3271 what?
@@duckfacemcgee3271 omg I want one so bad
amazon, ebay, or both
Honestly i just want to live in a world with equality. Why is that so hard? :(
People suck and not enough punishment or consequences for bad behaviour
Because men and women are different , you imbecile
Exactly women should buy there man a ring when they get engaged too, why's that no a thing
Equality=EPIC
It is because our history and culture which goes back 4 million years to the emergence of the first humans and our way of surviving: the man hunts and defends his home and is the big pack leader who decides everything and the woman stays behind and takes care of the children and foraging for food because she is physically weaker (there are many other reasons at play, I have just naming the reason that still causes conflict and drives sexism today). And that mindset has been ingrained in a lot of minds for the past 4 million years, so it's logical that it's going to take a while to put down that instinctive behavior and that instinctive sexism. Therefore, the only key to success is that WE (the first generation to realize that this is not necessary) teach our children that we no longer need this. In some countries this will probably take much longer (e.g. India or Afghanistan). But that doesn't mean that we, the highly developed industrialized countries, cannot teach our children that. All women have to do is stand up for themselves and show everyone that there is another way (exactly what women did before us in the days of industrialization). And there will be conflict, stress and maybe suffering therefore giving, but never let that stop us from being what we want.
I have been told 32 of those 48 things.....I am only 21.
A tear came out of my eye before I recognised I was even feeling a bit sad watching this, so I rewatched the video and counted. No wonder.
stop believing you are a victim
29 things and only 15
@Ramesh MV are you high on curry
@Ramesh MV haha, good one
@@jerry5286 stop believing that being an asshole is cool
some of these comments aren’t right. this isn’t an attack on men people. this is a message to everyone, boys and girls. this whole video is about respecting the way we talk to women. i myself am a boy and i 100% support the message behind this video. woman have these things said to them when they don’t deserve it. please to all the boys commenting saying ‘men have this too’ and ‘this is an attack on men’ it is not, yes men have this but this video isn’t about men, this is about women. sadly men still have a privilege in society and we need to do whatever we can to make men and women equal. not one more than the other. EQUAL. To all women and girls who have had unkind things said to them when they don’t deserve it, remember you are kind, amazing and beautiful. don’t listen to ANYONE who brings you down.
Excuse me sir,but please reread the title of this video
@@videochris1916 well I don't hear men getting victim blamed for what they were wearing when they were raped but go off ig
xiuchvn lol I don’t hear men getting respected when there raped
Anthoria voice the 5hing is though. Where are these so called “incel comments” the worst thing I’ve seen is someone just saying that a few men also face these problems.
Decepti Stark what’s that got anything to do with what i just said
“You’re so exotic, where are you from.” I’ve been told this a lot..
That’s a compliment though?
You have never heard that in your life bruh😂😂
@@jiw. me or her?
@@AGreenApple_ her
@@jiw. ok.
"You play video games? The boys must love that."
When a guy plays video games its the norm and they are just like other guys. When a girl plays video games she is like a god to people. It might seem like a compliment but its offensive to be almost an exotic creature just for doing what other people do.
"You don't want kids? Aren't you worried you won't be fulfilled?"
Just because I was born with the parts to have children does not mean I have to have children. I am a person who wants to live a life focused on my own happiness. It would not be fair to have a child because I don't have the proper patience and a child needs someone with patience. Not everyone is built for motherhood. If everyone knew this, kids would not grow up with their parents nearly as much.
Cassidy Alexis Thank you, my mother always says im being selfish because i don't want kids
@@rosiebenson4710 ofc
But girls play videogames much less and us guys really love when girl plays videogames. I see nothing wrong with that statement. Its pretty much same equivalent when girl told me that girls must love that I can dance. Who the hell finds that offensive?
@@17MrLeon Its the fact that its such a surprise a girl plays video games for the facts shes a girl. That is what makes it offensive. Your a dude!!!! You have a bias.
@@17MrLeon also, I dont care if you dont mind. I mind.
'No Steve, you cannot see your kids.'
+Sober Toucan "I'm leaving and taking my kids!"
"Bitch! They're my kids too!"
A month later...
"And the court hearby declares that Ms. ____ receives full custody of the children."
A month later...
"Man found dead in his apartment after committing suicide."
It's fine to point out the sexism women face, but why say that "men don't have to deal with things like these" when it's not true? I'm all for equal rights but this one-sided thinking needs to stop. Strict sexual stereotyping is bad for both men and women
***** That's not the feminism I know. It gets such a bad rep nowadays because people have distorted its message, which is nothing more than equal rights.
+tuila I wish people told me I was pretty qq
+tuila Then why not just say you are for equal gender rights? The word "feminist" in itself is about females only.
***** Feminism is, by definition, a belief that men and women should have equal rights. See here for example: www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/feminism It's closely associated with the women's right's movement for obvious historical reasons (women's voting rights etc), but it nevertheless stands for equality for both genders. The message has been somewhat distorted in many of the post-modern US interpretations, but I refuse to let a loud minority dictate the contents of a philosophy with such a long and rich tradition. That's why I keep referring to myself as a feminist - and by that I mean it in the original and traditional sense: equality for all.
tuila The root word in feminism is femininity. That's literally where the word is derived from. The meaning has changed, not by random people, but by the leaders in the modern "feminism" movement. If you think its just about equal rights, you're wrong. In that case the word is obsolete. It would be like you referring to yourself as an abolitionist, and saying its just about equal rights. It makes no sense in a modern context, especially since women have achieved much equality since the early women's rights movements. Feminism in its modern form is about protection of women only. It's a philosophy that revolves around women, sometimes in expense to men. Just say you are for equal gender rights. Calling yourself a feminist just causes more division among gender.
This is just so sad that our society is like this. I’ve been told a lot of these things, and being a girl/woman sucks.
We are all Humans we all have our own problems in life you cant just say being a woman sucks while never feeling what a boy feels abd will feel while living his life (yes i know really old comment which i reply right now you probably wont see me writting this)
@@EDP-6000 Why is it that every time a woman speaks about her experience, people like you have to immediately have to butt in and make it all about you? I swear women can never have anything for themselves.
You can go for surgery to change your gender
@@humanperson318 go watch some videos about men, then you see the exact same thing happen but with a bunch of feminists in the comment, and now i want you to shut up!
@@metube3398 You really don’t think about anyone but yourself don’t you? Woman go through more pain, suffering, trauma, and abuse than a man ever will.
My dad likes to say “the shopping and beauty gene will kick in soon enough” and it infuriates me. It makes me feel like if I do show interest in those things, I’m just giving into stereotypical images of women despite knowing women are so much more than that and I CAN show interest in those things without being reduced to a crude stereotype.
oh booo hoo only happens to girls. not like im sterotyped into liking sports and videogames
And to this comment, I just want you to know that you’re amazing and don’t deserve to be treated this way. Just because some women have a liking to make up and shopping, doesn’t mean that they should be stereotyped into like things like that. I don’t like make up either or shopping much, but I will do it sometimes. It’s bull shit that we get treated this way, but we will prove them wrong, women can be just as successful as men. Just know you’re not alone and you’re an amazing person who shouldn’t be treated like this, I hope you have a great day, bye!
Getting pressed about a comment that you’re dad made remember he’s your dad not a random guy just sit down with him and tell him that you didn’t like his comment and explain it to him
*"Stop being so emotional"*
Killing Time 'shes just hormonal'
STOP CATCALLING ME. in all seriousness that is used against boys too
I' m not emotional, I'm passionate about the subject.
why don't you now do 48 things men hear in a lifetime (That Women Just Don't)
Because that would be sexist, duh. Don't you get it, men have the perfect life and are never challenged or questioned
+Adequate Panda oh yeah that's right how could I forget my life is so perfect just because I'm male.
+Dom Musser at least you accept it. Now if you just listen to and believe all feminists then you might be a decent human being. Maybe...
+Ting Tang your not even worth $20.
it's in quotes because it's something men hear from women. great job with reading though.
My parents didn't *explicitly* say "he picks on you because he likes you" but they did say "oh if he's trying to annoy you then he has a crush on you, bc boys show affection in different ways" something like that. I never believed it and I still don't. It sucks that girls are even taught this though.
This coming from a boy
THAT DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE
I for one hate when people say that to both boys and girls
“Sit like a lady”
That is a valid remark. Some girls are sitting that men can see all the way to the kitchen.
@@17MrLeon women can sit how they please.
"breathe like a lady"
If you’re wearing a skirt with your legs wide open, you should cross them
@@zred3879 if you have on underwear, do what you pls. don't sexualize us 😀
I made the male version for anyone that feels that there should have been one.
+Harry John Thumbs up and everyone should know about this.
+Harry John Very good video.
Kirby The irony is that it won't be seen by many.
Thank you regardless :)
SlavenHarkin Thank you, that means a lot.
+Harry John It's a very good video! I actually enjoyed it! It's sad because people think this video suck but when they watch your video they think: GOD THIS IS AWESOME! =P people are cynical, they can't see things clearly... Too many differences between genres do this... It's bad for both.
My mother says she disowns these 'feminists'.
She laughed and said they need to grow up.
They never said the things they heard were bad, tell your mom to think before she speaks.
Fugo's Fork unfortunately everybody has an opinion..and we have to respect their opinion, even if we don’t like it or disagree:/
@@oikawasleftbootycheek6579 I'm aware. I don't respect all opinions though. I know this is extreme but if someone says they think raping is ok I'm not gonna be alright with it.
Fugo's Fork I’m not either, people are cruel :/ and it’s not correct but we can’t do anything to change their way they think:/
The*
Boys at my school actually are surprised that I play games like Minecraft... wth
Shaquille Oatmeal cause why not
It were girls back in the day who called boys nerds for playing such games. So not weird at all that they are surprised.
They are shocked girls like playing PC games coz its like a boys club which excludes girls just like footy other organisations when they get older Boys will be boys even when they are men coz they continue with boyhood interests for example cars model making sport - all allowed and viewed as acceptable- if a lady would do the same it would be viewed as inappropriate for fks sake a woman cannot walk into a bar/ pub alone without suspicious looks so we stay at home keep a low profile and look after the kids!!! Its unfair as it restricts freedoms/ rights which should be equal in society , evidently things are still unfair .
@@715michala ikr? it's really fucked up
an awful part I had to live through, being a guy myself (and I acknowledge that this is such a tiny thing compared with the monstruosities you females might have gone through), was arguing with all the idiots who say bullshit like "giRls wAnt tO bE beTteR thAn BoyS nOw"
a very idiotic part of it is that, if you dare to support feminism as a male, you get targeted by those same sexist mfs to say shit like "she won't have sex with you, stop trying" or "she'll never show you her boobs"
All I have to say is to those assholes is "OK incel"
It happens vice versa also your name is sussy Baka I see why
This comment section disgusts me and fills me with rage..how dare people come at everyone speaking facts and say men have it harder and I’ve never heard that. Maybe you haven’t but most women have in this world and what makes this sick is that you are too focused on defending your self then listening and solving the problems in today’s society. This is my opinion and I’m entitled to it.
Then listen to my opinion,Eugene,men have it rough too,not just women,sure women out there are having worse days,but you forget that men have the same problem,but what they and I were saying is that the goverment and society trust women more than men,which causes A LOT of problems
that’s not the point of the video though...
Decepti Stark that’s not the point of the video, tho. There is a separate video talking about men struggles
@@videochris1916 But in the comment section they said that men have it harder?
@@videochris1916 yes men do have more problems then females. I female and I relie this
"Your not taking your husband's last name?" Women do not have to take a man's name, we are who we are. We are not some object like a name tag or some object of lust. We are humans
Please get a brain, you actually have negative iq, what when I marry someone I get to choose my name? That's not how it works oh I'm Jefferson now? If I want the last name to be that?
When someone says that they don’t mean women are objects, it’s traditional ,so stop exaggerating please a making men seem like the worst in the world.
Oh my god it’s not the end of the world stop crying if you don’t want the last name don’t take it your the only one talking about “objects” sthu
oh jeez the replay section has sexist men whining about their problems.
buy a cake and celebrate it
after watching this, my hatred for feminism has become stronger
VEGETA, WHAT DOES IT SAY ABOUT HOS HATE LEVEL? IT'S OVER NINE THOUSAAAAAAND
+Bonneh UHC his**
why? don't take offence just curious...
+william ibekwe same tbh
+william ibekwe They are fighting our battle for us, their stupidity is self defeating
I didn't even make it half way through this and I can already assure you, I have lived (for 26 years) to experience hearing MANY of these remarks.
I know right? I'm 17 and have heard so much of these. It's really sad that we're so young and have heard so much bullshit.
@@raesmith2164 Y'all heard about being on that time of the month
"Her father must be proud of her" is a classic
that makes me sad i also got that
How is that a bad thing to say?
By watching this video I realized that I've been told most of this things by other women. Only 16 of the 48 i've been told by men. Women should start beeing nice to each other and stop repeating those things to their children, friends or themselves.
@Juece Hey, if this doesn't occur to you then don't worry. Just respect other genders, and don't be a piece of shit
It's mostly older women from what I've seen, like...70% boomer strangers and 30% my mom and some aunts LMAO.
"Does your husband mind that you make more money than him?"
EVERY
GAY
HOUSE
EVER.
Lesbian Amazon Sister how would a lesbian house have husbands? Think for at least a second, smartass
@Lesbian Amazon Sister LIE! 😠 and I've LOOKED! LESBIANISM was a cynical invention by the porn industry to sell more product!👹........ooooo..such a SWEET, SWEET, cynical invention....oh yeah.😑
@Lesbian Amazon Sister no one asked
@@brettrobinson2901 simp
@@boltotsutski6165 What gave me away?!😵
Why is it that I could relate because I’ve heard every single one of these up until they talked about older women 🙁
Vanessa Fernandez sucks to be yall
@@halosainswavvy9202 I dont understand, which one of these are bad or negative in any way? If this is bad things woman hear be glad you arent man, we hear quite fucked up shit. Women have too easy today.
Jiří Dušek we men are gods
@@halosainswavvy9202 bro that's messed up women struggle men struggle the issue is this video is bs cause trade some of the words with boy or girl they both struggle with it
being a young girl i hate older guys how they treat older women
I have been told all of these and I’m only 16 😶
Your victimhood cup overfloweth.
@Isabella Blum Discord mod moment 😎
This video is incredibly insensitive to deaf people.
BinkieMcFartnuggets there’s something called captions
@@sunnysidedown4148 woooossh
Priceless
@@sunnysidedown4148 r/wooooosh
You sir, are very right
I have heard most of these thing many times on my life
“You should smile more, you look prettier like that”
-Grandpa
Usually I don’t mind it but after being told it every time I see him, it gets old
Anyone come from TikTok? Just me. Oh ok...
Nah me too. This video is so powerful but yet ppl don't understand what women nd girls go through
"Don't be so bossy" was a thing I heard about 1,687 times through the ages of 3-10. Because a lot of kids are a little bit of brats as kids.
I mean. I was a little worse but ehh.
I'm probably gonna get hated for saying this but, most of these sayings are from other females saying that to each other than men saying these lines.
How about 48 things that bother people that believe in theirselves and want equal rights
Clarke Stalling you worded that a little weird, I can't quite tell whose side your on
MYSOGINY
MagusFyre it’s crazy cause that’s actually true
MagusFyre you won’t get hate don’t worry the tittle never said men said that it said “things that woman have to hear” it never specify who was saying it
"you're a girl, girls cook and clean and do what they're told by their boyfriends or husbands so stop being lazy and go help your mom clean the house" said by my dad...
I wish I had a dad like that..... Mines apparently "open-minded" bullshit and rejects "Thousand year-old thinking"
@@johnmachenzie1613 what.💀
@@ggiq_xxll It is what it is 😔
Yeah I call people like your dad little boys because that is what they act like.
once I said to my dad “I don’t wanna have kids I wanna work” and he got mad at me.and also when I was 10 my mom was making me sweep and she said “you have to learn because when you marry you’ll need to clean for your husband”
Both of my parents have told me that I have to shave/clear my legs... I say to my father that I will only shave if he does too!!! This is so annoying, I really love him but he doesn’t have the right to make me feel down if he could have been through this too but never went!
I'm a girl, and I think some of these are not remotely offensive...."you look pretty", "your dad will have to chase the boys away" "you don't look like you just had a baby" "do you plan to keep working after the baby's born?"
And then some of them are applicable to guys too.."how drunk were you?" for example. Sure, some were offensive ("you must have been pretty when you were young" etc.) but there are tons of sad things guys hear that girls don't! "Be a man." "Boys can't cry." "Don't be a sissy." "Ew, don't act so gay."
Can we all just accept that men and women should be equal but will NOT EVER BE THE SAME! Each gender has its own perks and disadvantages, and they balance out.
+omgiluvlipstuff Nicely put, I was kind of confused when 90% of everything said was something I've experienced as a man. But I agree, both sides have their ups and downs.
+Seth Brown True, I'm a pretty sensitive person so I probably would have been offended by it--it's kind of like a backhanded compliment. Nonetheless, it's not the WORST thing someone could say to you..
+omgiluvlipstuff
I like how you premise this on "I'm a girl..."
+omgiluvlipstuff Could you please write to your local elected representative to tell them how you feel?
Hey, I am male and I have heard quite a few of those!
Some even from my boyfriend!
LMAO
@@ronan3730 LOL good job gays you got me good there!
Yo wtf
I mean no disrespect whatsoever, but this video is just stuff women hear, but of course it's not limited to JUST women. These are things they've actually heard and are just providing the female perspective. Again I have no disrespect for you and understand you have your own opinion, and I just wanted to voice mine.
@@jeanpierrepolnareff9009 u just have to be a simp?
I'm so glad that there's finally woman standing up because this needs to stop!
We are always standing up for ourselves and for each other, we usually don't get heard though
@@ejqr stop believing you are a victim
@@jerry5286 whats the supposed to mean?
@@katieyoung2046 exactly what i said
Jerry you don't even know if she's a victim so shut your pretty mouth and get outta here
As a kid, I always had boys telling me “someone’s on her period” when I would let them do something stupid like not let them cheat off my test or even me just standing up for myself.
I'm always hearing things about how I can't show my midriff. Some people say because I'm "not skinny enough to pull it off" and others say "Women have to be modest, you don't want any boys chasing after you." Namely, my own mother. Not feminist, but I don't like hearing these things since I'm already really insecure about my body. I only wore it once. Never again.
I used to feel this way about skirts and bikinis. I was always told to cover up. Now I literally don't care what people say or think. I now live by the saying " If you don't care about them, why do you care what they think?"
Honestly some of these comments make me ashamed to be a male. Wtf guys, c'mon. Look past the surface on some of these points that the women are making, christ, it's not that hard to see what the deeper message is.
***** Again, look deeper. The statement on the surface might seem harmless, but this is shit women have to deal with ALL THE TIME, it's systematic in how much they have to deal with it, and it's fucked that they have to.
Saying shit like "have thicker skin" or "grow up" or "stop being a pussy" or "this generation is so soft" doesn't fucking help anything.
payz hayz Stop taking one quote and acting like that's all they said in the video. You know that's not the whole story here.
+rrpjdisc Well, so what's the deeper message? I don't see it.
EmperorFishFinger The fact that women systematically have to deal with a bunch of the shit they were talking about in the video. It might be harmless if just a few guys did it on occasion, but that's not the reality. It's unwarranted abuse, and it needs to stop. That's the message.
+rrpjdisc The fact that it happens to both genders and is only seen as a girl problem is stupid.
I hate when people tell me “beauty hurts” because what does beauty mean. Just because someone has make up or shaves doesn’t mean that’s beauty. Just because someone has plastic surgery doesn’t mean that’s beauty. Beauty shouldn’t have to hurt.
0:18
There’s something about her accent that is so smooth and satisfying. Idk if it’s just me-
But this was so sad. I can relate to this. Boys think it’s so easy to be a girl and that girls are just so emotional all the time but they don’t know what they have been going through. Girls hear this stuff every day and sometimes it can get frustrating. It so hard to be a woman and I hope by seeing this video the boys minds will change and that they will stop picking on girls.
That last one always hits me in the feels.
wahhh i heard things i don't like
my life is so hard man
For a Black woman, add 50 more things to the list.
i just wanna know who disliked this video.
Maria Vazquez me
@Chill House or maybe that fact that this video makes no sense how about instead of saying he men never face this names but half of these men have gone through
@Chill House i say they could fix some of these or take out the men don't go through part
@Chill House that's why i dislike both videos too prove it the male video said everyone
@Ramesh MV have you seen what the the title says
I don't want kids and when I tell people this, they tell me that I'll change my mind or it's just a phase or having kids will be the happiest thing to ever happen to me -____-
I once said that I couldn't care less if I became sterile and I got a lecture on how I would change my mind and that my family members wouldn't accept the idea of me adopting if I did decide to become a mom... like wtf?!
@ツ Sans ツ 100% agree
@ツ Sans ツ I thought you were a girl lmao
@sans. Yep they are said by a early teen (14) if u must know
“Put on more clothes” “your cleavage is showing” when my brother literally walks around the house all day in his underwear. I was wearing my “cleavage showing” shirt at home. Alone.
@Sara Mill your that one toxic kid
It is interesting that about half of these things I've heard on this list, I've heard from other women.
same mostly it's women saying this to other women
That’s because mostly women are sexist 😂
@@pulangrosas7255 Actually No 🙃🙂
@@poppysensei3858 Actually yes 👍 sorry but this is based on my own experiences.
@@pulangrosas7255 I’m sorry you’ve had so many bad experiences in life but clearly not enough if this is your assessment of women.
The last ones made me specifically sad... so sad that women are just seen as objects
you are an object everybodys an object were an object in space
@Maple Apple like I said we are all objects in this ever expanding universe
@Maple Apple us humans are not special there are others in the space of a galaxy
@Maple Apple i didn't objective anybody the universe did
I’m a guy and I don’t see you as an object. We’re all human beings, and bo matter what gender we are, we’re still equal no matter what. I truly feel bad for people that suffer this kind of abuse, but it’s kinda close minded to imply most men treat women this way (at least I hope that’s not true).
"Don't be so bitchy" Literally said in the men's video
Men can be so bitchy! It honesltly is bad when people are bitchy. But it is the wrong word and people assume only women are like that when lots of men are bitching about everything.
"Your husband cooks dinner for you? You must have him so well trained"
I love how a statement that includes treating the male figure like an animal that can be trained is used to exemplify the sexism only women face...
::FACE PALM::
My dad cooks a lot btw he likes cooking out of the ordinary explain chef Ramzee
Cause people assume that cooking is a feminine chore that’s what she means. Of course is not and males and females can both do it but it’s so common that “the wife makes dinner”
@@user-kh7th6nx6o "womensplain"
@@Vinnybin yep those mansplainers are sexist for not going back to the kitchen and making me a sandwich!
Olga Yarkova The majority of professional chefs are men lol
I hate being female.
Also something I want to say:
Even as a female, I HATE when people say men or boys shouldn't hit women or girls. And saying he's picking on you because he likes you proves that wrong.
Just don't hit people.
well I don't like to hear that either because then it seems like you are declared a saint
Trust me, being a man is harder. - writing this before WW3 begins because the male population is going to drop by about 35% when it does.
the fact that ive heard all but a few
"You don't even look like you had a baby!"
Oh the humanity, somebody kill me for I do not want to live in a world of such hate!
Isn't that a compliment anyway? It's essentially saying you took care of your body extremely well after pregnancy and that you look good
MrFredstt by saying that it’s claiming that women lose all attractiveness and completely let themselves go after they having a baby, you might not mean it like that, and some take it as a compliment, but there are actually a lot of women that look basically the same after having a baby and it’s just kind of rude to assume they’ll look like trash after a kid
MrFredstt A woman should never have to be concerned with how she looks after giving birth....get it you moron! Her HEALTH is what should be important. Think!
@@MrFredstt they never said the things were supposed to be bad things, your dumbass just assumed that for no apparent reason.
@@fugosfork7907 It was quite obvious this video was meant to show the negative things women deal with that men don't.
One of them is wrong... I always tell my brother he needs to wax his eyebrows
I mean its normal for boys to have "big" eyebrows. For girls were not
Me with my dad's legs! But then, HIS legs AREN'T that big of a deal as MINE..
As a girl from the age of 8 I got told to wax my eyebrows so did all my friends it happened to loads of people :£
@@katieyoung2046 Only by society's standard. If there wasn't pressure for women to wax their eyebrows you'd see a lot more women with thicker brows.
@@shuhuasworkshop8702 Yeah my cousin's family keeps telling her to shave her legs even though she doesn't wear anything other than long pants. They don't even see her legs at that point but still feel the need to say something. 🙄
here from tik tok, this video is beautiful. kinda sad i didn’t find out about this video much earlier, but i’m glad i did and this has a very strong message. ❤️💪
I have been told that I should be careful, and aware wherever I go, and to be with someone all the time, even in my own neighborhood! My parents taught me to be afraid of how I should be able to live... I want to go outside without being worried that I will be kidnapped, or raped, or scared that some man will come up to me and kidnap me, they tell me that if I go outside alone somewhere in my neighborhood, I will never see my parents again because I will be taken away, what parents say to boys... “have fun! And don’t forget to come home early!” This just makes me sick, and it makes me so sad that little girls, and woman like me have to deal with this their whole lives