I am Anu dasaka, from , Hyderabad ,India. i am a hindu and a Brahmin..why i am mentioning is bec I worked along with a catholic priest regular watching your videos. I worked for 33 yrs for the street and neglected children as a volunteer. I fully appreciate your work for the poor and the most needed people in Russia. God appoints certain people as his volunteers and what we do is service to God. I am always interested in people especially youngsters like you doing such wonderful work ,never ever miss even one episode of yours. May God bless you son ,your parents and family are so fortunate to have a son like you.. This type of work some times gives us or puts us in trouble if we cannot live up to the expectations of the people we work hard for or if we cannot be there to be of use asand when they need us...expectations run high and they do start depending on us. It's their need after all but then we have to make sure we cannot be there for them all the time...they have to be a little self sufficient also. Take care,love and hugs.
You expressed your sentiments true and correct. My brain shut down on this woman a couple of episodes back. It is best to help those who sincerely want to change in a better direction. Still, no good deed goes unpunished, and better to move on before they suck the last of your pure heart and soul's light.
Waste of time bothering with her. She lies and lies, like all drunkards do. They make big promises and yet nothing changes. It's always someone else's fault. She will drag her son down to her level. Leave them to smoke and drink in their filth.
Yes, besides one does not need someone else to stop drinking. The decision is hers to make alone. Person needs to understand they are putting all their money into buying poison and have been throwing all their life away on it. It's madly stupid and should be utterly repulsive.
I wouldn't have the nerves to even enter a house like this and still to be able, to speak relaxed to those drunken people. Big respect for how you managed this situation.
I just wonder how you would manage to stay sober if you had to lead a life like this - with parents and grandparents drinking themselves to death at their 40s or 50s, passing addiction on to their kids even before they are born, because in many rural areas of Russia there is no perspective, no money, jobs, no food, noone that helps, no hope. Even after watching so many of Sergey's videos, some people obviously can't even imagine what it means to grow up in an abandoned russian village, being sick and isolated, trying to make a living of 100 Dollars a month in a country where vodka is cheaper than bread.
@classicbird2627 FACT. I can't imagine & I can't presume how hard it is. Even considered a low income senior here in US I'm able to have many things they can't. We just don't have anything to compare it with. Even our more rural areas: Mississippi or WVa gets benefits way over how they survive in old homes & little money. Different life, more understanding. And BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE.
Good day, Sergei, appreciate what you do but there comes a time when enough is enough with this family. Would like to see you spending your precious time & precious funds from your channel helping those who appreciate it, like the seniors do & who need help moreso than this family-they are young & can fend for themselves instead of buying liquor. The mother is an alcoholic & it will be up to her to change & go to work & pay for her family's food, etc., not from funds that people kindheartedly send to you. Sorry, Sergei, time for tough love with this family!
This woman is beyond help. She will take all she can from you, but not make a real attempt to help herself, or her son. Forget her, and do what you can for her son before he goes the same way.
How would you know? He hasn’t EVEN OFFERED HER ANY ADDICTION RECOVERY HELP…..Christ he thinks all one does is say…..yep done drinking ….that’s over now. Ya never thought it a bit ODD he wants these people supposedly but yet never offers ANY HELP for recovery? Plenty of judgment and willfully ignorant people like just LOVE talking cruel and judgmental in the comments….. Can you critically think or use logic? Sure don’t act like it 🙄🤡
Everytime I see Lesha he get help , chances from Sergei but always leaves jobs. better life to return to village life , mom. Is he, Too going to end up the same. He's gotten so much help but is inconsistent in carrying it forth.
@@robincamacho7174 You do not understand the heart an mind of an abused child. It is not easy to just not want love an relationship with your mother. It is not easy to break off. No one understood the same about me. I have been married for 15 years, broken addiction cycles, have a home, etc. God did all of this for me through the prayers of others. He brought me home to him after my grand an others prayed faithfully for 33 years. We do not give up on people. Pray an do not slander. You are not helping by tearing him down. I will pray for God to touch your heart. God loves you. I love you. God loves Lesha. I love Lesha.
The worst thing about this is that the son's search for his mother's love was what ended with her death. Despite her abuse, he preferred to be with her mother and defend her until the end. I still can't get the idea that the boy died 😢
This is beyond ridiculous. You have tried to help this young man & his family many times before. You can only help those who want the help. You can't do it for them.
I pray for this young man. Having to grow up with alcoholic parents must have been difficult. Thank you so much for helping him and all the other people in the small communities.
I grew up under alcoholism and my parents separated 16 times by my 16th birthday. It was hell on earth! But God saw me through it all. I'm 70, married for 47 years to the same woman, two children and seven grandchildren. My heart goes out to these poor souls that have to tread that path. ....
@@josephvanwie6706You are an inspiration to others that have grown up under dire circumstances. Proof that if you are determined to get away from that lifestyle you can. I hope Lesha learns from your example.
Sergei is a true humanitarian… someone said that this is a repeat- regardless of the possible reposting of certain scenes of this footage Sergei continues to have new viewers and that’s the reason he has to show the history of Lesha’s life in order for his story fully… those naysayers who demean the videos and think Sergei is doing this for ‘the money’ don’t understand what he’s really doing and he’s got people who’ve been watching his videos since the beginning. He asks that people subscribe as he says that is the most important part of gaining followers who are free to watch without paying. Some of the comments are negative because these people perhaps don’t want to understand that getting these stories out is extremely valuable and effective, especially regarding the rampant alcoholism that affects many poor people in his country- and specifically in Lesha’s case has created a serious detrimental impact on Lesha’s young life. Don’t be so judgmental in your comments as every video explores the impact of alcoholism, poverty and a society that is continuing to destroy families and lives.
Sergi has given this family too many chances in the past. They do not want to change. Sergi got them jobs, a nice apartment and household things and they returned to their old ways. Time to move on from this family.
@@workingman-xl6xhI second you . If they cannot change their lifestyles after so many times getting all the help ? Then i think they r taking advantage of Sergei's good heart they think he is naive ...
@@januk7725 Oh yes. They think he will be always doing the same thing time after time as if its their rights . I hate such people even that sister of theirs shes useless. Guys that cant sit down and talk something positive by themselves ?
After travelling to see the mum thinking she was sober and capable of having a sensible conversation about her son, you are greeted by someone clearly intoxicated who not only wants you to take her away from her living situation but also wants you to give up drinking for her. And when you realise that any further attempt at conversation would be pointless you sit in your car outside her home and watch her go to the shop and buy more liquor. Do not drain your energies, bank account and time away from your precious family to cater to those who want an easy answer to a hard situation, because as we all know life isn’t like that. Focus your attention on those who are desperate to change for the better and genuinely need a helping hand for that change to happen. Always believe tomorrow will be a better day 😊
Honestly Sergei you really impressed me with how you handled that whole situation. You were calm but honest and loving at the same time like a good papa. Fathers are so important as are mothers we are given the honor of raising children for our future society what we do as parents effects so much.
For all of you speaking against Lesha, please know that an abused child that grows into adulthood, is always going to want the love of his mother. It is a natural and biological instinct to want your mother to love you. It is not as easy to just let go as one would think. He is damaged and it can be hard to be the 1st in the family to break a cycle. Lets surround Lesha with prayers. This all seems to be a while back from before Lesha was arrested over the incident with stepdad. I dont know where Lesha currently is but i know that God does and i will love this child in prayer and i ask you to do the same. Lets pray for God to touch and keep his heart, soul and mind. Out of all the people Sergi has helped, Lesha stays with me. There is more to this child than meets the eye. He will not be another statistic even if he is in jail now. He will break this cycle and he will succeed at escaping poverty and pain. There is a generational curse on him but it will be broken in the name of Christ Jesus. Lets lift him up in prayer.
It's called a trauma bond. They're so abused yet desperate for their parents love and for them to stop whatever substance they're on. The "mothers" lover murdered him and she filmed it and egged him on. May Lesha RIP now poor child
Getting sober is really hard… I remember being so addicted to drugs and wanting to desperately stop on countless occasions but not being physically able to because of withdrawal. It was the darkest place I’ve ever been… but with time and help I was able to overcome it. If someone wants it they will do what it takes… however it may take a lot of attempts and a lot of help from others.
Sergei, I love your videos and I am happy to be a patron. I have sympathy for Lesha, having been raised in such a horrible situation, with such terrible parents, however, you have helped him enough. I feel that his mother and that family situation is a complete waste of your time and ours, when there are so many more deserving people, maybe even in that small community they live in. Let's focus on people who are in serious need of some assistance, like most all of the other people who have been featured in your videos do, and let this waste of humanity live as they choose. At some point, people have to help themselves. From Washington State
Oh my goodness!!! These people live like barn animals. If they threw all of that junk away, quit getting drunk and got a job maybe they could like a normal life. You can be poor but you don’t have to be dirty. I think that’s an American saying. Poor Leshq needs a home a guidance for the future.
The wicked are arrogant, for they are blind thinking God can do them no harm and overnight they will find themselves on the street's living like rat's!
Take care of this guy. He really needs it. He can live a good life if he stays away from those kind of people. It’s not easy though because he grew up in this environment and that’s what he knows.
You're going above any beyond the call Buddy. Your a better man than I. Personally speaking, drama I don't do it, can't because it leaves me worse for were and the other people are sorted, no more. Other people's drama definitely don't. The older I get the more I don't want to be around people. If one can afford to be independent the fist thing to do is unhitch from the invisible life suckers that drain you of all your good energy after refreshing themselves on yours.
Well if we all did this then society would fall to crap as people who need help will never get it. But I understand, there is always a risk when dealing with desperate people.
This is not an old video. He met the Lesha in the store and helped him years ago. Then Lesha needed more help. Lesha was injured and Sergi took him to the hospital. Lesha was admitted with plant poisoning and blisters on his legs. Sergi then got him away from his mom in the village and got him an apartment and job. Then Sergi helped his mom get sober and get a job and she moved in with Lesha. He has been helped many times but always goes back to his mother in the village. Lesha was also in the military for a while. His mom went back to the village from town and Lesha just cannot stay away. Sergi is trying to be kind when he says "but he loves his mother..." This cycle keeps happening over and over. Time to let them live with their decisions.
@@gloriabreznikSo what? You can’t deny he helps a lot of people with the money he makes. Is it making him wealthy? Of course but people are being helped as a result of his channels so it’s a win win.
@wytmagic Nope. He got both Lesha and Dima jobs at this place. Don't believe me? Go back and watch the original videos on Lesha. This is old. He moved Lesha to Kaluga and eventually his mother. Lesha eventually left this job and they were both working at a hotel (I think). Lesha's mom started drinking again and left him. There's a whole video series about it. She went back to the village and is probably still drunk now or dead. This is absolutely old.
An angel never gives up thats how I know Sergei has the heart of an angel. When he says, "but he loves his mother " I cry 😢 God gave Sergei the heart for this, the patience and love. We must protect and support the angels among us 🙏💗🙏💗🙏
Sergei you are sometimes too kind hearted. Time to let this one go. My best to you, your Dad and the rest of your lovely family. Much respect from America!
@@yinyangforyou It’s not an old video. It’s a situation that’s been revisited multiple times and Sergei has made many attempts to help this dysfunctional family - to no avail. The son is the only one worthy of help, his dreadful mother will never change because she likes alcohol too much.
@@yinyangforyou It is a new video! With a recent update! The content is old as the mother is drinking again. If you’ve watched from the start you’d know that. Pay attention! 🙄
@@kittykatz3518 you need to go back and watch the old ones, he speaks of when leesha WAS in the military, this is not old. He has been in several videos but thank you anyway
@@kittykatz3518 Stop with your stupid propaganda and trolling. Haven't you got anything to do that's actually worthwhile? Don't you see how empty trolling on RUclips is? And that you get nothing for it? Sheesh!
Somebody is lying …they are all using you and taking advantage of your good nature you’ve rescued mom & son before .. gave them money got them an apartment found the boy 2 or 3 jobs bought him clothes & shoes boots and coats . Mom needs professional drying out & counselling , her intellect is low and her motivation is even lower . There’s mental illness here as well as alcoholism my advice is walk away this time ,if they truly want to save themselves they will find a way you cannot do it for them . The entire family is dysfunctional ,chaotic , confused & can’t be trusted.
A few funny moments in this video. Your little moment of blocking anger, a few of frustration, and then that diplomatic "more sober" or "less drunk." No, you beat me hands down. Going back to a horrible situation and try again do save at least some dignity for people that simply fall back every time. I sure hope that that son one day will be able to stand proud, but only you can give that chance to him. The people that should, are "not there" to do it, let them be, they will just frustrate you and waste you. Salute.
Poor Lesha needs to realise his mother will not change. I know he needs her, but sadly she is not a good influence on him. I'm surprised he isn't also a drinker by now. I wrote that before I saw that he is drinking. Poor young man. Is that the place that you took Dima to? He did well there.
This is terribly depressing. It looks like these adults have given up. Pray for Lesha to save himself by keeping his job and staying far away from any temptation to drink.
it's disgusting to see adults living in such filth / spending what little they have on booze??/ while the child suffers and whose heart is broken...how humiliating for that son of hers.
So very sad people dont really want to change despite numerous attemptd. Sergie, you are a much better person than I am. It's this the 6th time you try to help them. Looks like his sister got out of that life.
Oh, my! You are also such an advocate for people in need! Blessings! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I still wish you had treatment centers and Alcoholics Anonymous over there. Maybe if they saw it as politicos having control over the ones who give in and drink…🤷🏼♀️ Addicts need help to stop. Maybe someone could get a copy of Alcoholics Anonymous book to you?!❤
My son's father started off as a strong willed, kind, loving husband and father / a true family man with moral values.... withing 2 years of our marriage, drugs and alcohol slipped into my marriage and with them developed a cruel creature...my husband hungered for alcohol and drugs so badly that to make sure he spent his money on his 'addiction'...he drugged my son / little toddler and me, only 21 years old...and drove us all through the night to the very far north / icolated wilderness and dumped us off on a mountain road and simply drove himself back home.... over 12 hour's drive.... i know what addictions can do to even the 'sweetest' mind....I know how the ugliness of it can tear a family to shreds... its a demon / bottom line.
You're amazing Vasya! I hope this young man will find his world. Do hope his mentors teach him to pick up heavy stuff responsibly so he won't break his joints.
You're very patient. Some people take your help for granted and don't appreciate it. They tell you they will change but they go back to their old ways as soon as you leave.
You are brave to go confront his parents about their behavior how terrible to treat your child like that of course in US many parents treat their children badly! Give the young man a hug he needs a hug! To let him know someone cares about him.
His vlog has become an inspiration to me. I also like the episode about your life. How u started and got married and now with an adorable son. Very inspiring! Im
I don't think the animals don't get feeding to, so sad situation, oh dear she is so drunk. 😕 He don't know the basic mathematics, wow, I hope he success
Please listen. It is better for Lesha to be on his own. Last time when he came back from training he looked cleaned up and orderly. He needs to be on his own away from the alcoholics. Don't enable the mother and fathers are a lost cause! He needs to cut the cord and mature on his own.
thank you to help him...not the mother, you have give her a chance and they disappear and let "her so loving son " alone in appartment for continued to drink! we can t help evrebody! big hug beautiful
This family is only interested in what you will provide for them, (and that's probably funds for alcohol), and Lesha is incapable of independence from them in the long term. Cut your losses Sergei, or you will find yourself in an unbreakable cycle of help, hope and then helplessness again. Lesha might accept your help for a while but he will return to his family time and time again.
Lesha and his Mom moved to the city and found jobs. His mom was doing very well and working hard and even stopped drinking. But eventually she left and went back home and started drinking again. Lesha became depressed because things were going so well for he and his Mom in the city and all that ended. Lesha never drank through all of that after growing up watching his Mom, Dad and Stepdad getting drunk all the time. I hope Lesha isn’t drinking. It was unclear at the end of the video if he really was.
Thank you very much for your invaluable support in helping those in need! 💖💖 It's truly heartbreaking to witness an entire family slowly succumbing to alcoholism. As a nurse, I've encountered numerous individuals struggling with alcohol addiction, and within the medical community, it's often regarded as one of the most challenging substances to quit due to the risk of developing delirium tremens. Lyudmila's descent into drunkenness has inflicted immense pain and sorrow upon her son, and I hold deep resentment for her actions. However, I genuinely believe that if she attempts to achieve sobriety for even two days without medical intervention, her chances of survival may be slim.
This is some extra video he made for us, if you haven't seen the older videos of this family, anyways I think she died a few months ago and Sergey hasn't posted anything really recent on this whole situation, like... we're not exactly sure what Lesha is up to at this moment, but Sergey should be updating us soon.
It’s hard to pull children out from the destructive pattern parents have made for them. My sister is 40 years old and shes had numerous people try to help her out but each time she goes back into the self destructive mode. I hate watching her slowly self destruct …..but she believes the lie of the substance she is addicted to..
Yup! And mine is 60. For a while it seemed like cancer had woken her up, but as soon as that scare was passed, she returned to the same old abusive and selfish person. I will not subject myself to her abuse again.
You can't make an alcoholic quit, they have to do it themselves, I had several uncles that could never change, one even owned his own house, but always liked drinking with his other relatives under a bridge somewhere, the only time he did quit', it killed him, he got stranded at a church homeless shelter during a blizzard and nothing was open for weeks, so he had a final seizure and died in the shelter.
i hope he continued to work at this place! it seem a very good work! he learn a good things with good people! please god help them to not have fear to have a good life! let them far away from her mom. thank you.
Alcoolul ,drogurile distrug vieti , familii ... foarte trist ...bine cu forta nu se poate face .. 🤔🤔 / continua sa ajuti , multi oameni in necaz , altii cu paharul in mana .. bautura , drogurile sunt flagelul vremurilor pe care le traim ... si totusi / bautura, drogurile costa .. asta este ...💎☝️♥️
Alcohol, drugs destroy lives, families ... very sad ... well, you can't do it with force .. 🤔🤔 / keep helping, many people in trouble, others with a glass in hand .. drink, drugs are the scourge of the times that we live ... and yet / drink, drugs cost .. that's .
I totally respect you going into their house and talking to the drunken pair. You can't help them, I am unsure if you can help Leisha Doesn't he always go back to his mother, give her money and not help himself make a new life for himself. He will work but will support his mother's habit and eventully move back home where the whole cycle starts again. You are not a social worker, an alcohol counsellor,just a kind intelligent man helping people who need help, in this family I fear you are fighting losing battle. Leisha is worth giving a chanceto, but he is under his mother's control and she manipulates him into doing things he doesn't want to because of his love for his mother. Thank you for being you, you have the biggest heart, but don't get too involved you can only do what you have done which is get Leisha a job he has to the rest by himself, he has to grow up, put his foot down with his mother when she asks him for money or whatever and make something of his own life.
Sergei I think these people are ones you cannot help. They do not want the help themselves and you have tried before. They will drain you and think nothing of it. If anyone help the son but that is the same. Unfortunately you may not be able to help him break the bin with his mum 😢
The young man has no self esteem, I hope he receives enough emotional support so he can begin his new path. Once he gets climatized to the job he will have a chance 🤞💖
Ive got my hopes on the kid. Tell him we can see that he has great potential. Tell him many people can see his worth. It is obvious he is scared and does not have any parents. Trust that he will become a great man one day.
Please stop trying to help Lesha and his family. I feel that after all the other times you have tried to help him, he is scamming you and the people who donate to your channel. There are so many more that would welcome your help. Time to let this family deal with their problems or continue to live this way since it is their choice.
Does Lusha know how many sober loving caring mothers he has on RUclips? I know we’re not there however perhaps the multitude of us could fill his heart in place of the one we wish he would fire forever! Like a bad employee he should fire her & take us instead! Love u Sergei!
What a mess. His mother has not set a good example for him. I can hear the frustration in your voice when you are talking to her. You can help people follow through on good decisions, but if the insist on making mad decisions you can’t fix that for them.
I am Anu dasaka, from , Hyderabad ,India. i am a hindu and a Brahmin..why i am mentioning is bec I worked along with a catholic priest regular watching your videos. I worked for 33 yrs for the street and neglected children as a volunteer.
I fully appreciate your work for the poor and the most needed people in Russia. God appoints certain people as his volunteers and what we do is service to God.
I am always interested in people especially youngsters like you doing such wonderful work ,never ever miss even one episode of yours.
May God bless you son ,your parents and family are so fortunate to have a son like you..
This type of work some times gives us or puts us in trouble if we cannot live up to the expectations of the people we work hard for or if we cannot be there to be of use asand when they need us...expectations run high and they do start depending on us.
It's their need after all but then we have to make sure we cannot be there for them all the time...they have to be a little self sufficient also.
Take care,love and hugs.
Thank you also ❤
You expressed your sentiments true and correct. My brain shut down on this woman a couple of episodes back. It is best to help those who sincerely want to change in a better direction. Still, no good deed goes unpunished, and better to move on before they suck the last of your pure heart and soul's light.
I agree. I wish someone would take the dogs away.
@@debrandw246
They will just get more. 😓
May God bless you .
Waste of time bothering with her. She lies and lies, like all drunkards do. They make big promises and yet nothing changes. It's always someone else's fault. She will drag her son down to her level.
Leave them to smoke and drink in their filth.
I agree with you.This is one story that I have lost interest in.I feel they take advantage of Sergei.
Totally agree!
Lost cause
Yes, besides one does not need someone else to stop drinking. The decision is hers to make alone. Person needs to understand they are putting all their money into buying poison and have been throwing all their life away on it. It's madly stupid and should be utterly repulsive.
I agree completely. Full of shit. It's gotta drive you a bit crazy how so many of these people who are drinkers, lie to your face.
I wouldn't have the nerves to even enter a house like this and still to be able, to speak relaxed to those drunken people. Big respect for how you managed this situation.
Watch his russian channel he is a bodybuilder and knows how to handle himself
I just wonder how you would manage to stay sober if you had to lead a life like this - with parents and grandparents drinking themselves to death at their 40s or 50s, passing addiction on to their kids even before they are born, because in many rural areas of Russia there is no perspective, no money, jobs, no food, noone that helps, no hope. Even after watching so many of Sergey's videos, some people obviously can't even imagine what it means to grow up in an abandoned russian village, being sick and isolated, trying to make a living of 100 Dollars a month in a country where vodka is cheaper than bread.
@@charlie125125uk He's an athlete and a martial artist, not a body builder.
@@charlie125125ukyou can tell how well he keeps himself in shape. And his son and his cool dad.
@classicbird2627 FACT. I can't imagine & I can't presume how hard it is. Even considered a low income senior here in US I'm able to have many things they can't. We just don't have anything to compare it with. Even our more rural areas: Mississippi or WVa gets benefits way over how they survive in old homes & little money. Different life, more understanding. And BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT YOU HAVE.
Good day, Sergei, appreciate what you do but there comes a time when enough is enough with this family. Would like to see you spending your precious time & precious funds from your channel helping those who appreciate it, like the seniors do & who need help moreso than this family-they are young & can fend for themselves instead of buying liquor. The mother is an alcoholic & it will be up to her to change & go to work & pay for her family's food, etc., not from funds that people kindheartedly send to you. Sorry, Sergei, time for tough love with this family!
You can’t force someone to quit an addiction. They can’t even give it up themselves. And they will suck the life out of you for trying.
Truth!^
Only the Lord Jesus can break an addiction off a person; both I and millions of others know and have experienced this.
Well, what is the solution?
Treat the problem not the symptom. Usually addiction is a symptom.
This is so true and depress you to the max....!!
This woman is beyond help. She will take all she can from you, but not make a real attempt to help herself, or her son. Forget her, and do what you can for her son before he goes the same way.
How would you know? He hasn’t EVEN OFFERED HER ANY ADDICTION RECOVERY HELP…..Christ he thinks all one does is say…..yep done drinking ….that’s over now. Ya never thought it a bit ODD he wants these people supposedly but yet never offers ANY HELP for recovery? Plenty of judgment and willfully ignorant people like just LOVE talking cruel and judgmental in the comments…..
Can you critically think or use logic? Sure don’t act like it 🙄🤡
Everytime I see Lesha he get help , chances from Sergei but always leaves jobs. better life to return to village life , mom. Is he, Too going to end up the same. He's gotten so much help but is inconsistent in carrying it forth.
@@robincamacho7174 You do not understand the heart an mind of an abused child. It is not easy to just not want love an relationship with your mother. It is not easy to break off. No one understood the same about me. I have been married for 15 years, broken addiction cycles, have a home, etc. God did all of this for me through the prayers of others. He brought me home to him after my grand an others prayed faithfully for 33 years. We do not give up on people. Pray an do not slander. You are not helping by tearing him down. I will pray for God to touch your heart. God loves you. I love you. God loves Lesha. I love Lesha.
The worst thing about this is that the son's search for his mother's love was what ended with her death. Despite her abuse, he preferred to be with her mother and defend her until the end. I still can't get the idea that the boy died 😢
Correct. She watched her lover murder her son and egged him on. Shes despicable.
Alcoholics who are drinking will tell lies. Let go with love.
This is beyond ridiculous. You have tried to help this young man & his family many times before. You can only help those who want the help. You can't do it for them.
Correct!
She will never change - more interested in getting drunk than having a decent life and spending quality time with her poor son.
I pray for this young man. Having to grow up with alcoholic parents must have been difficult. Thank you so much for helping him and all the other people in the small communities.
I grew up under alcoholism and my parents separated 16 times by my 16th birthday. It was hell on earth! But God saw me through it all. I'm 70, married for 47 years to the same woman, two children and seven grandchildren. My heart goes out to these poor souls that have to tread that path. ....
@@josephvanwie6706I am so happy for you having made such a good life for yourself.
@@josephvanwie6706You are an inspiration to others that have grown up under dire circumstances. Proof that if you are determined to get away from that lifestyle you can. I hope Lesha learns from your example.
Sergei is a true humanitarian… someone said that this is a repeat- regardless of the possible reposting of certain scenes of this footage Sergei continues to have new viewers and that’s the reason he has to show the history of Lesha’s life in order for his story fully… those naysayers who demean the videos and think Sergei is doing this for ‘the money’ don’t understand what he’s really doing and he’s got people who’ve been watching his videos since the beginning. He asks that people subscribe as he says that is the most important part of gaining followers who are free to watch without paying. Some of the comments are negative because these people perhaps don’t want to understand that getting these stories out is extremely valuable and effective, especially regarding the rampant alcoholism that affects many poor people in his country- and specifically in Lesha’s case has created a serious detrimental impact on Lesha’s young life. Don’t be so judgmental in your comments as every video explores the impact of alcoholism, poverty and a society that is continuing to destroy families and lives.
@@marymclarnon759 Well said. Thank you for your response. 👍👏👏👏
Thank you for being such a great help to all these people. Youre a very generous man with a huge heart.
Sergi has given this family too many chances in the past. They do not want to change. Sergi got them jobs, a nice apartment and household things and they returned to their old ways. Time to move on from this family.
@@workingman-xl6xhI second you . If they cannot change their lifestyles after so many times getting all the help ? Then i think they r taking advantage of Sergei's good heart they think he is naive ...
@@iggymich i feel they are using Sergei, they think they can get help then crap on him again, i hate seeing them take advantage of Sergei's kind soul
@@workingman-xl6xh I totally agree! They are a complete waste of space. They’ll never change because they like getting drunk too much.
@@januk7725 Oh yes. They think he will be always doing the same thing time after time as if its their rights . I hate such people even that sister of theirs shes useless. Guys that cant sit down and talk something positive by themselves ?
You are a great man. The world needs more people like you. God bless you
No; the world needs US TO BE LIKE HIM
Amen
After travelling to see the mum thinking she was sober and capable of having a sensible conversation about her son, you are greeted by someone clearly intoxicated who not only wants you to take her away from her living situation but also wants you to give up drinking for her. And when you realise that any further attempt at conversation would be pointless you sit in your car outside her home and watch her go to the shop and buy more liquor.
Do not drain your energies, bank account and time away from your precious family to cater to those who want an easy answer to a hard situation, because as we all know life isn’t like that. Focus your attention on those who are desperate to change for the better and genuinely need a helping hand for that change to happen.
Always believe tomorrow will be a better day 😊
Well said! And I agree with you.
You have wasted too much time on this family. I am surprised they get any money at all. I cannot stand their arrogance and utter stupidity.
Amen. I completely agree!
She'll never stop drinking, always has her hand out.
Lesha has to do it alone,his mother will only drag him down
Take him far,,,far away from mother.....
Agreed. She’s a lost cause.
It's a shame that Alexei ultimately died at the hands of his stepfather... How sad. 😢❤
Honestly Sergei you really impressed me with how you handled that whole situation. You were calm but honest and loving at the same time like a good papa. Fathers are so important as are mothers we are given the honor of raising children for our future society what we do as parents effects so much.
Sergei, you have a heart of gold. Thank you for what you do for this and many other families. Respect.
Thank you for helping these people.💜 RIP Alexey. You deserved a better life. Only 22, just got a job. Heartbroken.
Did he died?
For all of you speaking against Lesha, please know that an abused child that grows into adulthood, is always going to want the love of his mother. It is a natural and biological instinct to want your mother to love you. It is not as easy to just let go as one would think. He is damaged and it can be hard to be the 1st in the family to break a cycle. Lets surround Lesha with prayers. This all seems to be a while back from before Lesha was arrested over the incident with stepdad. I dont know where Lesha currently is but i know that God does and i will love this child in prayer and i ask you to do the same. Lets pray for God to touch and keep his heart, soul and mind. Out of all the people Sergi has helped, Lesha stays with me. There is more to this child than meets the eye. He will not be another statistic even if he is in jail now. He will break this cycle and he will succeed at escaping poverty and pain. There is a generational curse on him but it will be broken in the name of Christ Jesus. Lets lift him up in prayer.
So beautifully said❤Amen🙏
Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 ❤
Amen !!
I agree ❤
It's called a trauma bond. They're so abused yet desperate for their parents love and for them to stop whatever substance they're on. The "mothers" lover murdered him and she filmed it and egged him on. May Lesha RIP now poor child
Getting sober is really hard… I remember being so addicted to drugs and wanting to desperately stop on countless occasions but not being physically able to because of withdrawal.
It was the darkest place I’ve ever been… but with time and help I was able to overcome it.
If someone wants it they will do what it takes… however it may take a lot of attempts and a lot of help from others.
Sergei, I love your videos and I am happy to be a patron. I have sympathy for Lesha, having been raised in such a horrible situation, with such terrible parents, however, you have helped him enough. I feel that his mother and that family situation is a complete waste of your time and ours, when there are so many more deserving people, maybe even in that small community they live in. Let's focus on people who are in serious need of some assistance, like most all of the other people who have been featured in your videos do, and let this waste of humanity live as they choose. At some point, people have to help themselves.
From Washington State
Oh my goodness!!! These people live like barn animals. If they threw all of that junk away, quit getting drunk and got a job maybe they could like a normal life. You can be poor but you don’t have to be dirty. I think that’s an American saying. Poor Leshq needs a home a guidance for the future.
The wicked are arrogant, for they are blind thinking God can do them no harm and overnight they will find themselves on the street's living like rat's!
Take care of this guy. He really needs it. He can live a good life if he stays away from those kind of people. It’s not easy though because he grew up in this environment and that’s what he knows.
Need more people like you.♥️
You're going above any beyond the call Buddy. Your a better man than I. Personally speaking, drama I don't do it, can't because it leaves me worse for were and the other people are sorted, no more. Other people's drama definitely don't. The older I get the more I don't want to be around people. If one can afford to be independent the fist thing to do is unhitch from the invisible life suckers that drain you of all your good energy after refreshing themselves on yours.
Well if we all did this then society would fall to crap as people who need help will never get it. But I understand, there is always a risk when dealing with desperate people.
@@drezworthyWe have to be smart about who we help.
You tried to help him and his mother before. I hope he stays on the right track this time. Bless you Team Vasya 🕊️❤️🙏
God help all them!
Nothing is worse than talking to a drunk person. She won't remember anything when she gets sober.
This is not an old video. He met the Lesha in the store and helped him years ago. Then Lesha needed more help. Lesha was injured and Sergi took him to the hospital. Lesha was admitted with plant poisoning and blisters on his legs. Sergi then got him away from his mom in the village and got him an apartment and job. Then Sergi helped his mom get sober and get a job and she moved in with Lesha. He has been helped many times but always goes back to his mother in the village. Lesha was also in the military for a while. His mom went back to the village from town and Lesha just cannot stay away. Sergi is trying to be kind when he says "but he loves his mother..." This cycle keeps happening over and over. Time to let them live with their decisions.
He is wearing this one out for all he can get out of it. He is not stupid.
@@gloriabreznikSo what? You can’t deny he helps a lot of people with the money he makes. Is it making him wealthy? Of course but people are being helped as a result of his channels so it’s a win win.
It is old. This is where Lesha originally worked.
@@kittykatz3518 That was Dima - the man that died who worked there... Not Leesha.
@wytmagic Nope. He got both Lesha and Dima jobs at this place. Don't believe me? Go back and watch the original videos on Lesha. This is old. He moved Lesha to Kaluga and eventually his mother. Lesha eventually left this job and they were both working at a hotel (I think). Lesha's mom started drinking again and left him. There's a whole video series about it. She went back to the village and is probably still drunk now or dead. This is absolutely old.
An angel never gives up thats how I know Sergei has the heart of an angel. When he says, "but he loves his mother " I cry 😢 God gave Sergei the heart for this, the patience and love. We must protect and support the angels among us 🙏💗🙏💗🙏
So much love to Lesha. He's so lonely and depressed. Please take good care of him ❤❤❤
Sergei you are sometimes too kind hearted. Time to let this one go. My best to you, your Dad and the rest of your lovely family. Much respect from America!
He was doing well at one point. Even his mum moved and was doing better. Such a shame but you do try x your heart is big.
This is an old old video. Was so disappointing. I was hoping he was finally doing an update. To bad.
I think he will be. He has a lot of new subscribers. He may be leading up to a new video, I hope.
@@yinyangforyou It’s not an old video.
It’s a situation that’s been revisited multiple times and Sergei has made many attempts to help this dysfunctional family - to no avail. The son is the only one worthy of help, his dreadful mother will never change because she likes alcohol too much.
@@josimpson7999 Yes it is an old video. I have watched all Serge's videos. Clearly you haven't. I know the story because I've watched from the start.
@@yinyangforyou It is a new video! With a recent update! The content is old as the mother is drinking again.
If you’ve watched from the start you’d know that. Pay attention! 🙄
Continue what you are doing helping your countrymen.
I am so glad you did this update, I have been worrying about this young man.
It's not an.update. it's an old video.
@@kittykatz3518 you need to go back and watch the old ones, he speaks of when leesha WAS in the military, this is not old. He has been in several videos but thank you anyway
@@kittykatz3518 Stop with your stupid propaganda and trolling. Haven't you got anything to do that's actually worthwhile? Don't you see how empty trolling on RUclips is? And that you get nothing for it? Sheesh!
Looks like a fine, strong young man. teach him well and he will do you proud
Somebody is lying …they are all using you and taking advantage of your good nature you’ve rescued mom & son before .. gave them money got them an apartment found the boy 2 or 3 jobs bought him clothes & shoes boots and coats . Mom needs professional drying out & counselling , her intellect is low and her motivation is even lower . There’s mental illness here as well as alcoholism my advice is walk away this time ,if they truly want to save themselves they will find a way you cannot do it for them . The entire family is dysfunctional ,chaotic , confused & can’t be trusted.
I couldn’t agree more.
I feel very sorry for Lesha - but the rest of them are absolutely dreadful and a complete waste of time and energy 🤮
A few funny moments in this video. Your little moment of blocking anger, a few of frustration, and then that diplomatic "more sober" or "less drunk." No, you beat me hands down. Going back to a horrible situation and try again do save at least some dignity for people that simply fall back every time. I sure hope that that son one day will be able to stand proud, but only you can give that chance to him. The people that should, are "not there" to do it, let them be, they will just frustrate you and waste you. Salute.
Well spoken !!
This lady is beyond help. She will destroy her son’s prospects of even a half-decent life. Let it be.
Please Never Stop trying to help people …..you Are Very much Needed . Thankyou from me in the UK 🇬🇧
Best wishes to You and your Family 🌻
Poor Lesha needs to realise his mother will not change. I know he needs her, but sadly she is not a good influence on him. I'm surprised he isn't also a drinker by now. I wrote that before I saw that he is drinking. Poor young man. Is that the place that you took Dima to? He did well there.
Gentle man you help others ,God help you and God bless you ❤🙋
This is terribly depressing. It looks like these adults have given up. Pray for Lesha to save himself by keeping his job and staying far away from any temptation to drink.
it's disgusting to see adults living in such filth / spending what little they have on booze??/ while the child suffers and whose heart is broken...how humiliating for that son of hers.
I just joined your patreon. I hope my small amount helps you do the wonderful work you do.
You are an example of goodness. Thank you
❤ Tasmania Australia through your videos we get a glimpse of a life we couldn't even imagine
Thank you
You are a great man Sergei
I feel sorry for the dogs. What sort of life do they have. They rely on their owners.
Me too that's the only thing I worry about the humans are less than animals they choose their life
My first thought 😢😢😢
Me too! The poor dogs must be starving, if they are not feeding the children the dogs have no chance. Plus chained up on leads in the house 😢😢
Take care of the dogs, they have been loyal.
Poor dogs ... terrible owners...
So very sad people dont really want to change despite numerous attemptd. Sergie, you are a much better person than I am. It's this the 6th time you try to help them. Looks like his sister got out of that life.
Thesisterdidlook better. But we will see. I'd love eher to raise her baby well.
Oh, my! You are also such an advocate for people in need! Blessings! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I still wish you had treatment centers and Alcoholics Anonymous over there. Maybe if they saw it as politicos having control over the ones who give in and drink…🤷🏼♀️ Addicts need help to stop. Maybe someone could get a copy of Alcoholics Anonymous book to you?!❤
That’s why I said treatment. The AA book can be translated. 👍❤️
Who can read them? They need more help
My son's father started off as a strong willed, kind, loving husband and father / a true family man with moral values.... withing 2 years of our marriage, drugs and alcohol slipped into my marriage and with them developed a cruel creature...my husband hungered for alcohol and drugs so badly that to make sure he spent his money on his 'addiction'...he drugged my son / little toddler and me, only 21 years old...and drove us all through the night to the very far north / icolated wilderness and dumped us off on a mountain road and simply drove himself back home.... over 12 hour's drive.... i know what addictions can do to even the 'sweetest' mind....I know how the ugliness of it can tear a family to shreds... its a demon / bottom line.
You're amazing Vasya! I hope this young man will find his world. Do hope his mentors teach him to pick up heavy stuff responsibly so he won't break his joints.
His name is Sergei, Vasya is the name of his cat..
@sasha. I never knew who Vasya was.
Oops@shack above comment @ sashais Toyota. NowI know the title story. 😂
Was this before you got Lesha the job with your friend and Lyuda was working at the restaurant?
I thought Lesha was living in Kaluga having a new life.
Confused.
You're very patient. Some people take your help for granted and don't appreciate it.
They tell you they will change but they go back to their old ways as soon as you leave.
Dear heavenly father please help these people.
You are brave to go confront his parents about their behavior how terrible to treat your child like that of course in US many parents treat their children badly! Give the young man a hug he needs a hug! To let him know someone cares about him.
You can’t help people who don’t want help. Most rehab centers will tell you this.
Neka Jahve blagoslovi tebe i tvoju obitelj Sergej dobar si čovjek ovo što ti radiš čini veliku razliku ti spašava živote svaka ti čast
Thank you!💜
So upset with lesha's mother she never change despite all the help.
It is a terrible disease, Alcoholism. It will destroy peoples lives. You are helping Lesha so much Sergei. God Bless you.
That’s so wonderful you got him a job. It’s actually like a career job he can do for life.
Love your videos hope he ok
What you are doing is simply amazing!
His vlog has become an inspiration to me. I also like the episode about your life. How u started and got married and now with an adorable son. Very inspiring! Im
Thanks!
I don't think the animals don't get feeding to, so sad situation, oh dear she is so drunk. 😕 He don't know the basic mathematics, wow, I hope he success
support from norway 👍👍
Heartbreaking to see that Leisha isn’t making much progress to change the course of his life. Hoping for the best for him.
Please listen. It is better for Lesha to be on his own. Last time when he came back from training he looked cleaned up and orderly. He needs to be on his own away from the alcoholics. Don't enable the mother and fathers are a lost cause! He needs to cut the cord and mature on his own.
thank you to help him...not the mother, you have give her a chance and they disappear and let "her so loving son " alone in appartment for continued to drink! we can t help evrebody! big hug beautiful
I hope you can help Lesha. 🙏🏻
This family is only interested in what you will provide for them, (and that's probably funds for alcohol), and Lesha is incapable of independence from them in the long term. Cut your losses Sergei, or you will find yourself in an unbreakable cycle of help, hope and then helplessness again. Lesha might accept your help for a while but he will return to his family time and time again.
Update in the young man? Tell him the world watches this. God bless.
Lesha and his Mom moved to the city and found jobs. His mom was doing very well and working hard and even stopped drinking. But eventually she left and went back home and started drinking again. Lesha became depressed because things were going so well for he and his Mom in the city and all that ended. Lesha never drank through all of that after growing up watching his Mom, Dad and Stepdad getting drunk all the time. I hope Lesha isn’t drinking. It was unclear at the end of the video if he really was.
Thank you very much for your invaluable support in helping those in need! 💖💖 It's truly heartbreaking to witness an entire family slowly succumbing to alcoholism. As a nurse, I've encountered numerous individuals struggling with alcohol addiction, and within the medical community, it's often regarded as one of the most challenging substances to quit due to the risk of developing delirium tremens. Lyudmila's descent into drunkenness has inflicted immense pain and sorrow upon her son, and I hold deep resentment for her actions. However, I genuinely believe that if she attempts to achieve sobriety for even two days without medical intervention, her chances of survival may be slim.
This is some extra video he made for us, if you haven't seen the older videos of this family, anyways I think she died a few months ago and Sergey hasn't posted anything really recent on this whole situation, like... we're not exactly sure what Lesha is up to at this moment, but Sergey should be updating us soon.
you tried to help them before, she failed and fled back to her old ways abandoning Lesha...am i right???
YES!
You most certainly are!
It’s hard to pull children out from the destructive pattern parents have made for them. My sister is 40 years old and shes had numerous people try to help her out but each time she goes back into the self destructive mode. I hate watching her slowly self destruct …..but she believes the lie of the substance she is addicted to..
Yup! And mine is 60. For a while it seemed like cancer had woken her up, but as soon as that scare was passed, she returned to the same old abusive and selfish person. I will not subject myself to her abuse again.
You can't make an alcoholic quit, they have to do it themselves, I had several uncles that could never change, one even owned his own house, but always liked drinking with his other relatives under a bridge somewhere, the only time he did quit', it killed him, he got stranded at a church homeless shelter during a blizzard and nothing was open for weeks, so he had a final seizure and died in the shelter.
i hope he continued to work at this place! it seem a very good work! he learn a good things with good people! please god help them to not have fear to have a good life! let them far away from her mom. thank you.
Alcoolul ,drogurile distrug vieti , familii ... foarte trist ...bine cu forta nu se poate face .. 🤔🤔 / continua sa ajuti , multi oameni in necaz , altii cu paharul in mana .. bautura , drogurile sunt flagelul vremurilor pe care le traim ... si totusi / bautura, drogurile costa .. asta este ...💎☝️♥️
Alcohol, drugs destroy lives, families ... very sad ... well, you can't do it with force .. 🤔🤔 / keep helping, many people in trouble, others with a glass in hand .. drink, drugs are the scourge of the times that we live ... and yet / drink, drugs cost .. that's .
Sending blessings and ☮️ and 💓 from the UK 🇬🇧
so sad. i'm glad you are there, Sergei
I was just wondering about him😢 I like that kid. I hope things get better for him
Poor dogs, unfortunately they can’t run away from this misery.
omg if i could help more i would..what horrific life these ppl live:( u are awsome all the work u do and the ppl around u.
So sad that people think alcohol will solve their problems 🤦♀️
I totally respect you going into their house and talking to the drunken pair. You can't help them, I am unsure if you can help Leisha Doesn't he always go back to his mother, give her money and not help himself make a new life for himself. He will work but will support his mother's habit and eventully move back home where the whole cycle starts again. You are not a social worker, an alcohol counsellor,just a kind intelligent man helping people who need help, in this family I fear you are fighting losing battle. Leisha is worth giving a chanceto, but he is under his mother's control and she manipulates him into doing things he doesn't want to because of his love for his mother. Thank you for being you, you have the biggest heart, but don't get too involved you can only do what you have done which is get Leisha a job he has to the rest by himself, he has to grow up, put his foot down with his mother when she asks him for money or whatever and make something of his own life.
Lesha is such a good example, love you Lesha from Switzerland
Sergei I think these people are ones you cannot help. They do not want the help themselves and you have tried before. They will drain you and think nothing of it. If anyone help the son but that is the same. Unfortunately you may not be able to help him break the bin with his mum 😢
The young man has no self esteem, I hope he receives enough emotional support so he can begin his new path. Once he gets climatized to the job he will have a chance 🤞💖
Thank God, Sergi! I would crack to broken all the way if he started drinking.
Keep us updated. Tks you. God bless you.
Ive got my hopes on the kid. Tell him we can see that he has great potential. Tell him many people can see his worth. It is obvious he is scared and does not have any parents. Trust that he will become a great man one day.
Sergei. Please stop Lesha from "signing contracts". I pray for him and You Both!
Please stop trying to help Lesha and his family. I feel that after all the other times you have tried to help him, he is scamming you and the people who donate to your channel. There are so many more that would welcome your help. Time to let this family deal with their problems or continue to live this way since it is their choice.
I love what you do and how you handle things.
Dear Lord, what a hovel. Poor Lesha 😢.
I despair of these drunks - nothing changes, same old same old! I’d have given up with them a long time ago.
Does Lusha know how many sober loving caring mothers he has on RUclips? I know we’re not there however perhaps the multitude of us could fill his heart in place of the one we wish he would fire forever! Like a bad employee he should fire her & take us instead! Love u Sergei!
🙏❤
What a mess. His mother has not set a good example for him. I can hear the frustration in your voice when you are talking to her. You can help people follow through on good decisions, but if the insist on making mad decisions you can’t fix that for them.
I wouldn't be the woman i am today without my mother and father.