Role Model Reveals What Caused His Breakup

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июн 2024
  • Role Model opens up about how homesickness lead to his breakup.
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  • @helendang8017
    @helendang8017 17 дней назад +272

    The emotional disassociation to your surroundings, fear of commitment, fear of not being understood and the relationship self-sabotage he's experiencing ... are very real. It's a hard question, and it's hard to admit, or fully disclose what he's feeling, especially on camera. Some people go through this event and feel more than others. I'm not a psychologist but I understand what he's going through. Please be kind to this man. We are all trying to figure out.

    • @CupNoodlees
      @CupNoodlees 10 дней назад +2

      This comment is so comforting

  • @symptomoftheuniverse3862
    @symptomoftheuniverse3862 17 дней назад +513

    He said he wanted to be around friends and family, he saw her as neither

    • @anisasiena3834
      @anisasiena3834 16 дней назад +40

      wow, well noticed :(

    • @missbella1377
      @missbella1377 16 дней назад +30

      The romance relationship is different than family and friends!
      You can't just stuck with one of them that's not healthy at all

    • @symptomoftheuniverse3862
      @symptomoftheuniverse3862 15 дней назад +6

      @@missbella1377 Huh?

    • @nataliabroadbent2163
      @nataliabroadbent2163 15 дней назад +9

      He wanted to be HOME around them though, that’s the difference

    • @ATAXIA424
      @ATAXIA424 14 дней назад +1

      ouch

  • @tiffanybrittin
    @tiffanybrittin 16 дней назад +210

    i think he gave us a general idea of why they ended while still protecting their privacy. he seemed like he was going through an identity crisis and didnt know how to articulate his feelings without the other person taking it personally. sounds like they wanted different things. which is normal this young. ❤️ amazing interview.

  • @selinaross3625
    @selinaross3625 15 дней назад +60

    I think the whole concept of losing yourself to a relationship is very indicative of an unhealthy attachement style. So wether you are the disorganized, anxious or avioidant type - losing all sense of self and the things that make you - well you - I think speaks to the lack of healthy attachement styles that a lot of us have (speaking from experience lol). Hopefully this is something we can all work on in the future and learn about, so that we can be in happy and fulfilling relationships were we don’t feel isolated from the world or from the things that make us feel like ourselves.

  • @user-20deal
    @user-20deal 21 день назад +267

    Bro this is so heartbreaking.

    • @symptomoftheuniverse3862
      @symptomoftheuniverse3862 17 дней назад +6

      Well when you are young you go through these break ups, so you learn and grow. When you finally find the one, you will be a better partner.

  • @MaderlinWeng
    @MaderlinWeng 21 день назад +130

    his talking voice is so much deeper and i love that

  • @mbv22311
    @mbv22311 21 день назад +196

    Zack always asking the hard hitting questions getting us the tea!!!

  • @paulanicole4786
    @paulanicole4786 18 дней назад +136

    it kinda feels like maybe he just wasn't the best at maintaining relationships outside of his romantic one? which I feel like is a skill that you can work on not like something inherent with being apart of a couple

    • @malinawins3688
      @malinawins3688 13 дней назад +5

      Yeah I felt the same. Sounds like he doesn’t know how to balance his other relationships while in a romantic one. He even says he tries to talk his friends out of being in a relationship bc he doesn’t wanna lose them??? Seems like maybe they were maybe a little co-dependent w each other so this split was probably a good thing for the both of them.

    • @veroboro4035
      @veroboro4035 2 часа назад

      @@malinawins3688 it seems they had an unhealthy attachment style. (avoidant+anxious)
      But in the other hand breaking up just bc hes visiting his home town more often is weird, even when he doesnt communicate it well. I mean a lot of couples have long distance relationships for years and it works.

  • @leonichen
    @leonichen 22 дня назад +136

    my heart just broke for him

  • @aboutnol
    @aboutnol День назад +1

    I've heard in a podcast of emma she said she is a very communicative person, and she realized she needs to be around people who are communicating as well.
    I relate to that a lot. I've been in a long term relationship with someone who won't communicate straight forward and it was the biggest challenge for us.
    As well as former friends, they just wasn't straight forward and I don't like to be around that anymore.
    It's not a bad thing to be neither, communicater or not. It's just needs to fit to each other's needs and style.

  • @alexialoveland420
    @alexialoveland420 10 дней назад +9

    God dude this breaks my heart… Its probably so hard maintaining a relationship in the spotlight, and trust me Tucker we all know you genuinely love Emma even after your break up….

  • @lolafuentes1521
    @lolafuentes1521 6 дней назад +7

    The not having friends aside from the relationship is a decision one makes. I hope everyone in a relationship could experience that and have a balance with it so that the bond between you and your partner stays healthy while also having other people/friends to turn to and share moments and feelings with.

    • @pearl22chiara
      @pearl22chiara 2 дня назад

      exactly! to add to that i really value the time apart from the relationship when you're doing your own things with your friends or hobbies and then bringing new energy and experiences to the relationship and hearing from the other person as well it keeps i t fun. idk if i said that right

  • @Elmerphant
    @Elmerphant 17 дней назад +18

    I relate to this so hard. Your music actually helped me with this so the new album will probably totally be me too lol. In 2016 I moved back home, leaving my fiance at the time because I was so home sick for the east coast. Sometimes relationships just fizzle out and our own stuff just mucks it up. Nothing dramatic really needs to happen. It's just life. And you can only thrive where you feel yourself. I was dying (it felt like that and my depression got really dark) being so far from home. I didn't feel like me (I felt so lost even from me). It's wild. So I completely understand Tucker (aka Role Model). It sucks but it's life

  • @crazymofodonialler
    @crazymofodonialler 21 день назад +28

    This makes me so sad 💔

  • @felicitase9727
    @felicitase9727 7 дней назад +5

    I hope Emma is fine with what he said

  • @akellahenry4258
    @akellahenry4258 13 дней назад +13

    It's those dam GQ or whatever Q interviews that break couples uppp sigh we should've warned them 😪😭

  • @luvroo11
    @luvroo11 17 дней назад +97

    He said so much but said nothing at all wtf

  • @SilverShoes174
    @SilverShoes174 9 дней назад +2

    Cali girl here, born in LA, and raised hours north from LA. Most people in Hollywood are vapid and soul less. The fact that you don't feel right at home with them is a positive attribute. 👍 Protect your mental health and surround yourself with genuine people. 💖 So excited to see you producing new music btw!

  • @jessie.jordan
    @jessie.jordan 22 дня назад +48

    The tea!

  • @juicyjessica2298
    @juicyjessica2298 19 дней назад +113

    two people met at the wrong times of their lives as they both are now such social animal. that's amazing.

    • @leahmb3215
      @leahmb3215 17 дней назад +12

      omggg that’s so true not only is she uploading again but she said in a vlog how she’s been so much more social in her life

    • @juicyjessica2298
      @juicyjessica2298 17 дней назад

      @@leahmb3215 exactly and they should be because they are so young. it’s cool that two people cannot be social in a relationship but can be when they are alone. it’s good to experience it and make the decision on your own accords when to settle down.

  • @pipperlue
    @pipperlue 17 дней назад +36

    I’m sure being with her was isolating on a whole other level than he could experience single. Wanting to get away from the circus of that and be the “main character” with your childhood friends and family makes a lot of sense

  • @thisiskaleidoscopic
    @thisiskaleidoscopic 13 дней назад +7

    It seems that he was going through some internal struggles... especially with the identity he had created in LA. His career is really why he is ultimately in LA but otherwise feels no connection with the space. I think through all of that he met Emma but she attracts so much attention because she's such a big internet figure... that he prob felt even more suffocated in LA. Yea sure you can love someone enough to overcome such things.. but you'd end up sacrificing yourself for the sake of the relationship.. which is not healthy. It seems that it was almost an organic breakup of a passing relationship that happens to everyone. We've all had this type of relationship and then we either find it again after growing or find someone else.

  • @SW-yx4oj
    @SW-yx4oj 8 дней назад +6

    Bro is a fkn Taurus of course he gonna act like a baby and go run home and never tell the person he dating how he feels

  • @Yourlocalvamp13
    @Yourlocalvamp13 14 дней назад +8

    Ngl it sounds like he’s describing an abusive relationship because in a good one , you don’t abandon your friends and you almost become a better version of yourself with the right person.

    • @mmullarkey7656
      @mmullarkey7656 14 дней назад +21

      That just means that person is not a good match for you, not necessarily that they are abusive. It would be abusive if she was stopping him from going home and hanging out with friends and family. Or if she was orchestrating his isolation from them. In this case it just sounds like he felt lonely in the relationship.

  • @zozo_GH.
    @zozo_GH. 16 дней назад +20

    honestly speaking, I've never understood how you can lose friends/reduce contact with family members and people you love when ur in a relationship (yes I've been in a relationship so I know what I'm talking abt lol). I'm sorry but that means something is wrong, and ur probably over-dependant on the person. Cuz I can't IMAGINE losing any of my friends just because I'm in a relationship...likeee, I'll make time for my partner ofc, but my family and friends are also important. Because I don't expect him to be spending every waking hour with me or texting/calling me, and vice versa. We both have our own lives and shit to do, so I mean idk....I wasn't in the relationship with them so there's no way I would know whether the were actually over-dependant on each other and CONSTANTLY spending time with each other (to the point where is WAS affecting their relationships with family and friends), or it was something completely different🤷‍♀
    But anyway, this was just my opinion, not trying to hate, just my honest thoughts. Would really like to hear if you guys have experienced losing friends and family because of a relationship and why you think it happened + why you think that happens to some people in general

    • @ItsNeverAManequin
      @ItsNeverAManequin 2 дня назад

      Since you asked: yes. My older sister and I used to be super close. She got married, had some kids, and now we hardly talk. In fact, I contacted her saying that I don't feel we're close anymore and I know she's busy but we should make time to chat. I told her when I was free. She responded with 'that sounds great'! But hasn't reached out. So I'm on the otherside. Lost my sister to her relationship. In my relationship I make time for friends and family. My friends and family have met my girlfriend. She doesn't have many friends and sometimes I feel she uses me for my friends. We are good friends and spend a lot of time together but being with someone who has more of a social life would be ideal. I don't have a typical job so there's a lot of down time. Both he and his ex didn't have typical jobs either. It can be hard on relationships if you don't get a break from your partner.

  • @lissag.8561
    @lissag.8561 22 дня назад +8

    NOOOOOOOOO 💔💔

  • @linavitt
    @linavitt 21 день назад +101

    posting this video separately with a clickbait title kinda feels like a punch, doesn’t it? but maybe that’s just me

  • @Dybwmlt
    @Dybwmlt 21 день назад +52

    Why is everyone infantilizing him? He said literally nothing

  • @angelbunnyoftheuniverse
    @angelbunnyoftheuniverse 18 дней назад +55

    All good but he can’t even LIKE communicate his like feelings on this like podcast so

    • @graceless6103
      @graceless6103 8 дней назад +2

      He’s trying to speak about it without telling too much personal info please be serious

  • @dubdeezzyy
    @dubdeezzyy 15 дней назад +5

    alcohol free is the way to be

  • @Funfettiwitch
    @Funfettiwitch 11 дней назад +2

    Is this Austin mahine

  • @roxygribbin7046
    @roxygribbin7046 17 дней назад +23

    Im still confused why they broke up am i dumb lol

    • @mollykhadija2012
      @mollykhadija2012 17 дней назад +26

      I think the break-up revolved around his mental health and the actions it caused him to do. Im going to assume Emma broke up with him because of the lack of communication on his part.

  • @sydneylinh_
    @sydneylinh_ 21 день назад +56

    Wtf is the thumbnail 😂

    • @ddiannaaa
      @ddiannaaa 21 день назад +24

      him & his ex dressed up as the "shining twins" for halloween at the time lol

    • @user-qi3hf8ko3q
      @user-qi3hf8ko3q 16 дней назад +2

      @@ddiannaaaemma?

    • @knxa
      @knxa 16 дней назад

      ​@@user-qi3hf8ko3qYea

    • @ddiannaaa
      @ddiannaaa 16 дней назад

      @@user-qi3hf8ko3q yes

    • @ant_47383_uei
      @ant_47383_uei 15 дней назад

      @@user-qi3hf8ko3q yeah

  • @dubdeezzyy
    @dubdeezzyy 15 дней назад +1

    A'int nothing wrong with being a Lobster in a sea of fish - keep your head up Role Model!!!!

  • @brooksb4799
    @brooksb4799 9 дней назад +1

    to me, this just meant he didn’t want to be around her anymore. sounds like he felt trapped in LA as he lost feelings, and tbh IMO i think he used her for fame. then he got tired of acting. 🎭

  • @gemikaross8305
    @gemikaross8305 22 дня назад +14

    😮😮 I’m just trying not too much

  • @rickislife
    @rickislife 18 дней назад +17

    oh i think we know who influenced emma’s earlier disdain for la

    • @AD-il9zs
      @AD-il9zs 17 дней назад +19

      Bro Emma has hated la since the start of her career and she began dating him what, 2-3 years ago? Know your facts before hating on someone.

    • @luisa-vu6gv
      @luisa-vu6gv 17 дней назад +1

      yeah and it was probably the dolan twins

  • @blahblah4129
    @blahblah4129 6 дней назад

    LA is an incredibly weird place to be.
    I don't blame him for not wanting to be in the most fake place in the States.

  • @user-vw6yz1sj8k
    @user-vw6yz1sj8k 18 дней назад +8

    I didn't get it someone explain

  • @LesleyGal
    @LesleyGal 12 дней назад +4

    so you can ask these questions but not to nasty Ariana grande? 🤢🤮

    • @urmom-yy7xg
      @urmom-yy7xg 12 дней назад

      maybe cus its none of ur business abt ariana’s love life??? 😂 entitled much??

  • @CraigMingus
    @CraigMingus 22 дня назад +9

    His name is Role Model? Ego much?

    • @aditimungale1126
      @aditimungale1126 21 день назад +72

      it's supposed to be a joke

    • @ddiannaaa
      @ddiannaaa 21 день назад +12

      his actual name is Tucker

    • @valentinacastillo9347
      @valentinacastillo9347 21 день назад +22

      R u joking it’s not that serious

    • @Yolozohra
      @Yolozohra 20 дней назад

      Girl are you slow?

    • @juicyjessica2298
      @juicyjessica2298 19 дней назад

      What do you got to say about Lady Gaga...she thinks she's a baby...what a try hard.