Cut your losses now and go NC . And yes tell your wife ASAP so she can protect your child , wouldn't put it past your mom to make your wife miscarriage . Now I'll listen to the rest of the story .
Mum 'your wife can not become pregnant before your sister" Op " ok, first why is it your business and why do you care, tell you what, here's a different offer, not only will we keep our baby, you and my sister Wil not see them or us, we are no longer family, and you can look after the little princess"
Story 1: People are so ridiculous being surprised that he still had hope. When you’re not raised being fed love on a silver spoon then you’ll lick it off a knife. If you cannot understand that then you’re very lucky.
I don't understand people who completely ignored their partner's feeling and push them to get in touch with their family they have cut off. If I were OPs wife I would be furious, not heartbroken. Also, OP should never had trusted his mother as far as he could throw her. I am not surprised the mother ran to OP crying, "I want to be a grandma," when she found out sister wanted to be childfree.
Op's wife comes off as one of the idiots who think family means everything no matter how toxic they are. Oh yeah, mom now wants to be a grandma, she can't be trusted, she might take it upon herself to steal the baby to give to her golden child.
Some people who were raised in good families think that all families are good families and there's always a chance to mend fences with relatives. OP and his wife were both suckers for giving the mother a second chance, including having a dinner with the mother without the sister being there should have been a clue that something was off. The mother attempted to poison the wife at that dinner.
Well Ella sucks. She shouldn't be shocked this is happening because she insisted OP invite his toxic family back into his life. Now she's getting poisoned as well.
Op needs to take his wife to couples counseling if she can’t respect ops decisions and boundaries their marriage will eventually fail but at this point in time there’s still time to fix it.
When OP's mother told him to short the baby so that daughter could have the 1st grandchild he should have said, "OK mok, good-bye". OP should have been suspicious of his mother's change of heart. Now mom has attempted to poison Ellie, she needs to be in jail. Why is she out? Turns out sister infertile, too bad too sad, mom lost all rights to be called Nana.
Lemme guess, his wife somehow gets poisoned at the dinner, what a surprise! I will continue watching for confirmation of my suspicions. If it does happen, they brought this upon themselves with their stupidity.
Considering op has repeatedly let them back in even after what they have done and his sister's blatant explanation as to how she doesn't care about him or his wife ,her mother does everything she wants .....and op still lets them in . Yeah they'll let those nutters back in . Again and again
This perfectly illustrates what happens when a boy grows up without a father. They tend to let their emotions dictate their actions. Op should have cut off contact much earlier and realized their entire relationship was financially and emotionally abusive. There is also his wife not respecting his boundaries. She should have accepted that he knew his mom and sister better than she ever would and not brought it up on the first place
You are a misogynistic pig aren't you?? I am a divorced mother of 2 and my sons would never act like this. If I did they would cut me off. Why are you blaming the son and his wife in the first place. Did they try to abort a fetus?? You can blame women all you want for weak men.ckerp it up but I pity any women who has anything to do with. It's a made up story . Get a life
Would you have had the same opinion if he agreed with the mother and asked his wife to abort the baby?what if he said that he'd divorce her if she didn't? Alot of these made up stories go that way too. He would be a Mama's boy then. I'm sure that someone's reading this and thinking of creating a story like that. Another variation to the same story. I always respect my dils and never interfere with any of their personal decisions. The great majority of us are like this. Keep your misogynistic beliefs to yourself.
@ I would have had the same opinion if agreed his with his mother. He’s far too worried about his emotions to see what kind of person his mother is. In a lot of ways he is still a momma’s boy for not cutting them out as soon as his mother made her demand, but he didn’t. Your comment at the end perfectly encapsulated the difference in the way men and women think btw. You internalized this story, by talking about yourself, and then went for a personal attack by calling me a misogynist, which is absolutely false I didn’t say anything negative towards women in general, only the ones specific to this story. A boy raised by his father is taught to recognize these behaviours and when he is being taken advantage of.
@@nalaka3488 I actually heard the same crap from my inlaws when raising my sons. How a boy without a father would grow up to be unstable, do drugs join a gang, and also become gay.
@ I don’t know about the gay part, but statistically the rest of it is pretty clear. Are there outliers? Sure, but that doesn’t mean we should treat them as the norm
OMG TOXIC PPLdo not deserve to let into u&wife life boot them both out there shud be no choice put ur wife first tell them go to hell protect ur wife at all cost how can your mom even suggest that stop being a fist class jerk DO NOT LET THEM INFLUENCE YOU PROTECT UR WIFE AT ALL COSTS
You are fool an utter fool get a restraining order against them both keep them away from and Elle tell the police to warn them away from both of you you are mental if u let herANYWERE UR BABY xx
Both OP and his wife should take heed to the manner in which they handled this situation. Anyone who displays this level of weakness, cluelessness, and gullibility is a walking red flag. This type of stupidity can and will be a source of contention for them in the future... 😏
This guy has a serious problem with his wife in that she does not take what he says seriously and does not respect his boundaries. He needs to tell his wife that his relationship with his immediate family is his business and that her interference will not be tolerated.
Theres a gentleman on this sight who says this is what happens when a single mother raises male children. This calm rational man doesnt take inconsideration that is a fictional story . I pointed up this is in my very first post this is FICTIONAL. This before his post. He defamed all single mothers and their children. The irony this calm "rational man" was making comments about a person who actually DOES NOT EXIST. Calm and rational doesnt know whats real and not real. Does being delusional mean your calm and rational??
Honestly it sounds like you enjoy being abused by your mother because how much you're willing to sweep under the rug and look at her with rose-tinted glasses. While I'm happy you have finally done the right thing and protected your family. I have to say that you guys basically ask for this punishment..
There's different varieties of this same story on this app. They are pretty much the same except in this one she actively tries to kill the fetus.vthey all end the same with her son cutting ties with her and her sister being infertile. I just hope they don't keep repeating it over and and over again. Unfortunately I think they will. This doesn't make this story unique by mil trying to kill the fetus, it just shows the lack of creativity on this sight and others.
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I've never heard someone fight so hard to keep toxic ppl with them.
Get a Restraining Order against your mother.
Cut your losses now and go NC . And yes tell your wife ASAP so she can protect your child , wouldn't put it past your mom to make your wife miscarriage . Now I'll listen to the rest of the story .
Mum 'your wife can not become pregnant before your sister"
Op " ok, first why is it your business and why do you care, tell you what, here's a different offer, not only will we keep our baby, you and my sister Wil not see them or us, we are no longer family, and you can look after the little princess"
Story 1: People are so ridiculous being surprised that he still had hope. When you’re not raised being fed love on a silver spoon then you’ll lick it off a knife. If you cannot understand that then you’re very lucky.
I don't understand people who completely ignored their partner's feeling and push them to get in touch with their family they have cut off.
If I were OPs wife I would be furious, not heartbroken. Also, OP should never had trusted his mother as far as he could throw her. I am not surprised the mother ran to OP crying, "I want to be a grandma," when she found out sister wanted to be childfree.
Op's wife comes off as one of the idiots who think family means everything no matter how toxic they are. Oh yeah, mom now wants to be a grandma, she can't be trusted, she might take it upon herself to steal the baby to give to her golden child.
Get hold of a lawyer then the cops cause it might get bad if there talking all crazzy
That’s it if grandma doesn’t turn into a stalker.
I don't understand people who completely ignored their partner's feeling and push them to get in touch with their family they have cut off.
Some people who were raised in good families think that all families are good families and there's always a chance to mend fences with relatives. OP and his wife were both suckers for giving the mother a second chance, including having a dinner with the mother without the sister being there should have been a clue that something was off. The mother attempted to poison the wife at that dinner.
Well Ella sucks. She shouldn't be shocked this is happening because she insisted OP invite his toxic family back into his life. Now she's getting poisoned as well.
🤯 get restraining order and ask for mental health evaluation 💯❗‼️
Cut off Mom and Sis, Ella's and your baby are your family now. They need protection from your toxic Mom and sister
That's dark.
She stole from you. Sister should have been arrested. Greedy Gwen can f off.
I want to hit my head on the wall! How can OP be so gullible into believing that his mom is sincere!
Op needs to take his wife to couples counseling if she can’t respect ops decisions and boundaries their marriage will eventually fail but at this point in time there’s still time to fix it.
I am happy with a real voice and an occasional peak at who the voice belongs to. 😊
A wall of text is helpful, in case I have to turn the sound off.
Move on your mom crazy
When OP's mother told him to short the baby so that daughter could have the 1st grandchild he should have said, "OK mok, good-bye". OP should have been suspicious of his mother's change of heart. Now mom has attempted to poison Ellie, she needs to be in jail. Why is she out? Turns out sister infertile, too bad too sad, mom lost all rights to be called Nana.
Lemme guess, his wife somehow gets poisoned at the dinner, what a surprise! I will continue watching for confirmation of my suspicions. If it does happen, they brought this upon themselves with their stupidity.
At least there's no anime for monster of MIL to try to get rid of baby.
Considering op has repeatedly let them back in even after what they have done and his sister's blatant explanation as to how she doesn't care about him or his wife ,her mother does everything she wants .....and op still lets them in . Yeah they'll let those nutters back in . Again and again
REALLY ?? REALLY ?? ALLOWING. MOM. AROUND YOUR. PREGNANT. WIFE ////. UNBORN ?? REALLY ?? UNBELIEVABLE ! SHAME ON YOU ! WEAK. DUDE ! TERRIBLE. FATHER. BEFORE. BABY IS EVEN. BORN !
Ella needs to know the truth and she should feel bad for pushing you into reaching out to your toxic family!
Your name is not Kraven.
You should never have reached out to your family and should enforce NC permanently!
This is even worse than golden child syndrome, this is God’s precious gift.
Just Wow!!!
This perfectly illustrates what happens when a boy grows up without a father. They tend to let their emotions dictate their actions.
Op should have cut off contact much earlier and realized their entire relationship was financially and emotionally abusive.
There is also his wife not respecting his boundaries. She should have accepted that he knew his mom and sister better than she ever would and not brought it up on the first place
You are a misogynistic pig aren't you?? I am a divorced mother of 2 and my sons would never act like this. If I did they would cut me off. Why are you blaming the son and his wife in the first place. Did they try to abort a fetus?? You can blame women all you want for weak men.ckerp it up but I pity any women who has anything to do with. It's a made up story . Get a life
Would you have had the same opinion if he agreed with the mother and asked his wife to abort the baby?what if he said that he'd divorce her if she didn't? Alot of these made up stories go that way too. He would be a Mama's boy then. I'm sure that someone's reading this and thinking of creating a story like that. Another variation to the same story. I always respect my dils and never interfere with any of their personal decisions. The great majority of us are like this. Keep your misogynistic beliefs to yourself.
@ I would have had the same opinion if agreed his with his mother. He’s far too worried about his emotions to see what kind of person his mother is. In a lot of ways he is still a momma’s boy for not cutting them out as soon as his mother made her demand, but he didn’t.
Your comment at the end perfectly encapsulated the difference in the way men and women think btw. You internalized this story, by talking about yourself, and then went for a personal attack by calling me a misogynist, which is absolutely false I didn’t say anything negative towards women in general, only the ones specific to this story.
A boy raised by his father is taught to recognize these behaviours and when he is being taken advantage of.
@@nalaka3488 I actually heard the same crap from my inlaws when raising my sons. How a boy without a father would grow up to be unstable, do drugs join a gang, and also become gay.
@ I don’t know about the gay part, but statistically the rest of it is pretty clear. Are there outliers? Sure, but that doesn’t mean we should treat them as the norm
OMG TOXIC PPLdo not deserve to let into u&wife life boot them both out there shud be no choice put ur wife first tell them go to hell protect ur wife at all cost how can your mom even suggest that stop being a fist class jerk DO NOT LET THEM INFLUENCE YOU PROTECT UR WIFE AT ALL COSTS
You are fool an utter fool get a restraining order against them both keep them away from and Elle tell the police to warn them away from both of you you are mental if u let herANYWERE UR BABY xx
Both OP and his wife should take heed to the manner in which they handled this situation.
Anyone who displays this level of weakness, cluelessness, and gullibility is a walking red flag.
This type of stupidity can and will be a source of contention for them in the future... 😏
You should have told Ella that even though you miss your family; you will not invite them because they are toxic and they suck!
This guy has a serious problem with his wife in that she does not take what he says seriously and does not respect his boundaries. He needs to tell his wife that his relationship with his immediate family is his business and that her interference will not be tolerated.
dude how stupid can you be?
OP: holt my beer!
its not evem funny as a joke how he is!
This is Ellas fault!
You are at fault, the reason being that you set yourself up to be abused.
Hey what happened to the anime? 😅
Not done the anime for some time, now.
My guess is that it was too time-consuming.
Theres a gentleman on this sight who says this is what happens when a single mother raises male children. This calm rational man doesnt take inconsideration that is a fictional story . I pointed up this is in my very first post this is FICTIONAL. This before his post. He defamed all single mothers and their children. The irony this calm "rational man" was making comments about a person who actually DOES NOT EXIST. Calm and rational doesnt know whats real and not real. Does being delusional mean your calm and rational??
You should have gone no contact with your toxic and narcissistic mother and sister for your own spiritual and physical health!
Nope. She stopped being grandma the moment she demanded the grandchild’s death. No coming back from that.
Why do you let your wife run your life?
7th lol. Nope nope nope crazy mother
Honestly it sounds like you enjoy being abused by your mother because how much you're willing to sweep under the rug and look at her with rose-tinted glasses. While I'm happy you have finally done the right thing and protected your family. I have to say that you guys basically ask for this punishment..
5th yay 🎉
There's different varieties of this same story on this app. They are pretty much the same except in this one she actively tries to kill the fetus.vthey all end the same with her son cutting ties with her and her sister being infertile. I just hope they don't keep repeating it over and and over again. Unfortunately I think they will. This doesn't make this story unique by mil trying to kill the fetus, it just shows the lack of creativity on this sight and others.
Another sociopath women