[ALL ABOUT PINAY #8] Dating Culture in Korea! Who Pays for the Dinner? Man or Woman?

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What's it like to date in Korea? Are Korean men as romantic as in Kdrama?
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[@andreac6663]

Very interesting cultural differences. I am born in raised in the U.S. - 3rd generation, but am of Filipino ancestry. My parents still made the boys I dated come to house to pick me up. They wanted to know who I was going out with. I think it was more a safety issue, as well as to see if the guy had any manners. If they didn't like the guy, they could voice their opinion right away and try to nip that sucker in the bud. Haha! It was really important that whomever was taking me out on a date addressed my parents as "Mr." and "Mrs." There was no calling my parents by their first names or simply not addressing them at all. Despite being third generation, respect was and is still very important. I think most Asian cultures are big on that regardless of ethnicity.

[@joyceaccampo9566]

Ricky, you got a priceless jewel. She's worth keeping for life

[@graceiringan1796]

The reason why I love you both is because you not only entertain your subscribers but you put emphasis on educating people on your respective culture and tradition and how you help each other understand and adapt to these factors that has a great impact in your life together as an international couple. Cheers to more fruitful years together! 😘

[@saintclaire1201]

Don't leave the affection behind. Emotions is as important as intelligence. Keep the Filipina in you, you stand out from the crowd with your emotional badge. Quick question, top 3 messages you want to tell your FUTURE kids being a Pinay and being a Korean growing to be interracial children?

[@glysherylmanansala7679]

I just realized how true it is when others said that it's really difficult to be with someone who has a different culture. Because, just based on this video, if a Filipina is quite sensitive or if she wouldn't have an open mind about things, she'd have so many reasons to be hurt or disappointed by how a Korean man prioritizes efficiency even in terms of relationships/love. 😁 I wonder how Erica communicated her expectations or perceptions about these things when he was her boyfriend...

[@jenniferfaller5204]

I love how Ricky is so interested trying to understand the Filipino culture. Cultural differences may cause conflict but with these two , they try to compromise. The bottom line is there’s always a reason behind each behavior respect , understanding and embracing is key 🔑! God bless your family! Isa kang dalagang Filipina Erica👏👏👏

[@patriciahill4219]

Hello guys, I love watching the two of you. Actually Filipinos and Koreans are almost similar in culture. Erika is more showy because she is a millennial Filipina. Meaning she was born between 1981 to present. She did not see the conservative side of the Filipinos growing up. If she was born before 80ś or mid 80ś she might still be conservative. Back then in my younger years, Filipinos have really different upbringings. I grew up in a very conservative family. We normally do not say I love you but we show it through actions. Now a days because people are getting more open through social media and also traveling or working abroad. we are learning things like being more expressive or verbally open in saying I love you or I care for you. I was also not showy when I was younger but when I married an American i get to adapt their culture but only the good things. I try to watch Korean dramas to learn the culture and to be familiarize with the language. Keep posting new videos about Korean culture please. God Bless you both and your coming baby..

[@giovannialmoro4207]

Among the "decent" thinking filipinos, it is considered inappropriate to ask how much money you make. Those things are usually kept private.

[@unique05]

I can't stop laughing when Ricky said " when it's private just the two of us, we're getting more hotter" because we keep it inside.. i don't know what he meant by that haha😆🤪😂😜Ricky is so funny hahahaha!!!!

[@aicelfernamg9469]

Erica is so ME when it comes to friends or barkada,that's how we greet a close friend esp.if we have not seen them for quite long time;we hug them as if there's no tomorrow! Lol,i melt with that hug 😩🥰...

[@cocofuente9605]

Introducing yourself (guy) to the girl's parents that means you have good intentions.

[@yricajaen3312]

"Embracing each others culture, understanding and respect, resulting healthy relationships" 💖

[@lanieverzosa4153]

Wow because of this,it makes me feel how greet and being unique to be a filipino,nothing compare being caring and very hospitable are we ...we also adoptable..keep doing more video so the world know love no boundary,im so much excited for your baby ...

[@theradioactiverockstars6037]

This is a very good topic to discuss for couple who came from different cultures to avoid culture shock it happened to me the first time I went out on a date with a foreigner in a coffee shop he ask me money to pay for my coffee I was so shock because in the Philippines it will not happened in my generation at least we are treated like a princesses by our male relatives and friends in my opinion the Filipinos are the most romantic in the world in courting a woman they may not be rich but they know how to make the woman feel special in own little ways.

[@janeanson2056]

Embracing each one's culture is love and respect to one another.. "love knows no bounds" .. stay in love my fav couple

[@aicelfernamg9469]

Ricky,generally,filipino parents do not ask about financial or social status (we think that's rude),when their daughter/son introduce someone special,they welcome them,periodt.Most filipino parents are jolly and welcoming and considerate.But your mom and grandma were GREAT,too so i therefore conclude,it's not about the race/culture,it is about the person's upbringing,regardless of race or ethnicity.

[@rhodamacapagal9714]

Awwww so adorable: Erika, so mahinhin, so sweet and Ricky, so smart and funny - perfect combination ! i have many Korean colleagues but none of them are like you, Ricky - you are a rare breed! Be careful, you might end up in a museum for "Rare Species: A very smart & unbelievably funny Korean male that existed in the 21st century and never found one again " :D You guys are so blessed to have each other <3 "In Korea, we love/propose efficiently." Haha, good one, Ricky ! Personally, I didn't like the dating in the Philippines - awkward! Here in Switzerland, it's more "straight-forward", I prefer it this way. Anyway, thanks guys for making me smile/laugh whenever I watch you. RUclips just randomly "suggested" your videos last week and since then, I'm hooked ! BTW, it's a good thing that you post every Tuesday only; your videos are great, kasi talagang na prepared nang husto before posting. Your "fans" are more excited to watch you - more like Korean drama series (never watched one in the past but started last Sunday because of you and now kasalanan nyo na addict na rin ako :D ). Well done you both !

[@kuyae5602]

Nakakatuwa naman po kayong dalawa... Hindi ko mapigilan mapangiti habang pinapanuod ko kayo at pinakikinggan bawat sweet moments niyo. Although mahirap talaga ang culture differences but still you manage to accept and embrace one another's culture. God bless po sa inyong dalawa. 😊🙏

[@mommyluvgabby]

I think there’s a difference in that old fashion Filipino culture of courting, when a man courts a woman he already has the endgame of marriage in mind, with her. He’s not still trying to figure out whether he wants to marry her. That is why he’s already visiting with her family because he wants to convince her to marry him. It seems in Korean culture, From what I’m hearing here is not the case.

[@gracebenitez4214]

I really love how you understand each others culture...i really think you are still together despite of cultural differences because you truly love each other 💜