dear brother - original song by tate mcrae

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  • Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2024

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  • @candicegodwin1381
    @candicegodwin1381 4 года назад +4839

    “scares me to think that we’ll grow up and i’ll barely know ya” that scares me

    • @dreamingofclare
      @dreamingofclare 4 года назад +21

      Candice Godwin “... so can you stay right here.” 😭😭 ballin’ man

    • @ranjana2319
      @ranjana2319 4 года назад +10

      Me too! It hurts like so much

    • @isafredriksson3200
      @isafredriksson3200 4 года назад +6

      Same. I’m really close to my older brother. He does everything for me and i love him more than anything in life. He’s really my best friend and always protects me. So many party nights going wrong ending up with me being sad, angry or broken. But wherever and whenever i am, he always come and helps me. Even 3 am on a saturday night

    • @isafredriksson3200
      @isafredriksson3200 4 года назад +2

      Candice Godwin And it hurts that maybe one day, i’ll feel like i don’t even know him.

    • @thepighouse7663
      @thepighouse7663 4 года назад +4

      I have a younger sister (my family are all girls apart from my dad) and we used to play together all the time but we don’t at all anymore. And I swear in 5 years I won’t even know her

  • @zoya3142
    @zoya3142 4 года назад +2478

    "Scares me to think that we'll grow up and I'll barely know ya"

  • @ajssisterbbk2730
    @ajssisterbbk2730 3 года назад +949

    It’s sad that most the ppl missing their brothers still live in the same house as them

    • @bubblefaeries9395
      @bubblefaeries9395 3 года назад +55

      I can just go to his room right infront of mine.. And hug him.. But we never really talk.. I wanna be close to him..

    • @life_withmegan234
      @life_withmegan234 3 года назад +4

      Yea go enjoy it while u can 💔.

    • @AM-vw7hb
      @AM-vw7hb 3 года назад +2

      @@bubblefaeries9395 me too 😭

    • @lisaheine1262
      @lisaheine1262 3 года назад +14

      I have 3 brothers I wish that they would talk to me but they all hate me they wish that I was dead and I just wish that they would love me

    • @jessicahoward3025
      @jessicahoward3025 3 года назад +5

      I live in the same house as my brother we talk but not a lot

  • @cathyburke7872
    @cathyburke7872 4 года назад +2243

    “Wish I could read your mind, but I barely know you”
    This hit hard

    • @hollie2107
      @hollie2107 3 года назад +28

      I barely know my brother and I am not emotional at all and I cried at this. Wish I knew him more.

    • @ontobooks1815
      @ontobooks1815 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/xLk1-B6JU6g/видео.html🥺❤❤

    • @hollie2107
      @hollie2107 3 года назад +1

      @Shoyo Hinata I’m really sorry for you ❤️ virtual hugs too you, hope you get to know him/her more. ❤️ Xxx to you

    • @lavinakoosman9977
      @lavinakoosman9977 3 года назад

      Same

    • @lotika4168
      @lotika4168 3 года назад

      Yeah

  • @candicegodwin1381
    @candicegodwin1381 4 года назад +4019

    coming from someone who has an older brother this hits hard🥺

    • @chrisistired6083
      @chrisistired6083 4 года назад +24

      Candice Godwin it made me cry

    • @yara.e
      @yara.e 4 года назад +36

      My brother is like my twin even though he’s a year younger than me. I started crying immediately after I listened to the first line of this song! I was thinking of how I’ll be there for my brother for as long as I live and breathe and then I got the notification for this song! I love this song so much! I sent it to my brother so I can show him that I’ll be there for him no matter what!

    • @aisaimamovic2796
      @aisaimamovic2796 4 года назад +5

      Samee

    • @thea7099
      @thea7099 4 года назад +18

      I have three brothers older than me way older than me

    • @zahraahmed24x
      @zahraahmed24x 4 года назад +5

      Candice Godwin same 😭

  • @shradhaaggarwal913
    @shradhaaggarwal913 3 года назад +325

    I want those days back like when we were just sitting in the same room fighting for the TV remote , when we were laughing at each other like anything , when I was making the hell out of him scared.
    Damn!! I want it all back

    • @calebstewart2556
      @calebstewart2556 3 года назад +1

      If you don't mind me asking, what exactly is stopping this?

    • @AM-vw7hb
      @AM-vw7hb 3 года назад +9

      @@calebstewart2556 everything, their age gap, their sudden change in personality and them hating u

    • @sonakshiraj1073
      @sonakshiraj1073 2 года назад +1

      Even I want those days back. It always pains to think that we are grown up now and we won't be the same we used to be. 😭

    • @jaswithareddyarani1014
      @jaswithareddyarani1014 2 года назад +1

      @@AM-vw7hb dude they don’t know how to show that they love you so the fight instead trust me I know what is like

  • @sunshinem2412
    @sunshinem2412 4 года назад +3533

    I have a brother and this is seriously the most relatable thing.

    • @backbrace7855
      @backbrace7855 4 года назад +38

      Yeah he is order and I barely know him

    • @shirinkhademi9086
      @shirinkhademi9086 4 года назад +3

      Same

    • @katrapport2237
      @katrapport2237 4 года назад +33

      my brother is leaving for college and I wanna know him so bad but idk what to do

    • @backbrace7855
      @backbrace7855 4 года назад +2

      @@katrapport2237 same with mine

    • @emeraldzoll4439
      @emeraldzoll4439 4 года назад +19

      Sunshine M Ike I miss him I miss the old days and now he is annoying,Loud,Mean, And he insults me he always insults me saying stuff like “Go do your hair it’s disgusting” “Ew”

  • @hediyehzahra8150
    @hediyehzahra8150 4 года назад +2775

    I sent this to my brother and he came from his room, hugged me and told me “I’m never gonna forget you, baby sister.” He turned 18 a few weeks ago and will move to foreign in less than six months for studies. I’ll miss him and thank you Tate for this song.

    • @stargirl_niaa
      @stargirl_niaa 4 года назад +77

      Hadya Zahra Awwwww that Is the sweetest thing ever

    • @cool_abhe
      @cool_abhe 4 года назад +85

      That’s precious! My brother is 2 years younger than me and we fight constantly and it’s my worst fear to not be close ever

    • @brookevandeventer9291
      @brookevandeventer9291 4 года назад +45

      mine is going to college soon too i sent it to him and he replied her never has replied to me in my who life now we talk but not in person just over text but it is the start of something just know they will also be there maybe not near you but they are there and they are in your heart to

    • @olivia-yf5tb
      @olivia-yf5tb 4 года назад +36

      i wish my brother realized one day we won’t be talking as much we’re only in middle school but i’m scared for when we get older and if i’ll still talk to him a lot

    • @ashleyherbert7047
      @ashleyherbert7047 4 года назад +11

      Aww that’s so sweet doesn’t matter how far people are you guys will always love each other and I wish you the best❤️

  • @nihal.n
    @nihal.n 3 года назад +89

    ive never had a good relationship with my brothers the line "it scares me to think that we’ll grow up and i’ll barely know ya" just hits hard...

  • @freetime4651
    @freetime4651 4 года назад +1632

    Tate is really dropping bops after bops. I don’t know her personally, but I’m honestly so proud🥺✨💕

  • @elleb3496
    @elleb3496 4 года назад +3868

    imagine having a good relationship with your older brother
    ooh can’t relate

    • @aleska_2.017
      @aleska_2.017 4 года назад +104

      Elle B I know right I have my big brother blocked on everything 😔 I miss how it used to be

    • @sierralynn1590
      @sierralynn1590 4 года назад +78

      imagine having a brother
      cant relateee

    • @elliefordee
      @elliefordee 4 года назад +68

      i wish wish wish i was close with them. Is do anything

    • @BasicallyLacy
      @BasicallyLacy 4 года назад +10

      I feel you

    • @BasicallyLacy
      @BasicallyLacy 4 года назад +9

      @@aleska_2.017 same here

  • @macksfantasticlife9637
    @macksfantasticlife9637 3 года назад +130

    i’m showing this to “my brother” he’s 25 and i’m 13 and we’re just like brother and sister, this song hit hard to me. thank you love you.

  • @mandarinorangess
    @mandarinorangess 4 года назад +490

    "i won't know you in five years" hit hard and scares me even more.

    • @haleigh8887
      @haleigh8887 3 года назад +3

      Ikr same

    • @kim5708
      @kim5708 2 года назад +2

      “One day I hope that you call me tell me your problems..” hits

    • @1wolflover675
      @1wolflover675 Год назад

      Same

  • @cpcequestrian2464
    @cpcequestrian2464 4 года назад +695

    My brother practically raised me. He’s been there for me since I was little one. Most heartbreaking moment ever was when he moved to Texas and I was all alone, for 6 months I cried myself to sleep. He came back and I tackled him to the ground and we got back to our normal routine of sibling bs lol. 2 years later, he’s now engaged and has 2 baby girls. I’m the proudest sister ever, we hangout at least once a week and we are finally close again. My point is that, brothers are special, they will always be there for you no matter what’s going on, they’ll give the stone cold truth even when it hurts, and they’ll love you unconditionally even if they don’t show it 24/7
    . Brothers are special.

    • @minikomochi1864
      @minikomochi1864 4 года назад +17

      *aww that touched my heart 💓*

    • @gabrielleroussy3671
      @gabrielleroussy3671 4 года назад +23

      Maybe for you. You got the chance to have a brother who cares that much about you.
      I’m pretty sure that mine, when I’ll be heartbroken, he will just say « Cheh, you deserve it. » or something like it. I’m pretty sure that we will just see ourselves in the family’s event like the birthday of our mother. I’m pretty sure when we will get older, I’ll see him twice a year. I’m pretty sure that right now I’m the worst person in the world for him. I’m pretty sure that when I’ll call him he will tell me that he’s occupied, each times. I’m pretty sure that if I tell him my problems, he won’t care at all.
      So I love my brother, a lot. And of course he like me. But does he like me that much ? No. And I’m pretty sure that he won’t ever. ‘Cause that’s our relation brother-sister. And every time I think of it, I become sad. But maybe I ask for too much ? Everybody who doesn’t have one say that they wanna have one, they want a older brother who’ll protect and love them. I have a older brother, ask for love and protection might be a little too much.

    • @minikomochi1864
      @minikomochi1864 4 года назад +14

      @@gabrielleroussy3671 I understand.... But trust me it will get better.... When u get later on in life he will realize what a bad brother he has been, but if he is teasing u that's just the older siblings way of fun

    • @kaylahaguayo4556
      @kaylahaguayo4556 4 года назад +6

      Aww that made me cry

    • @kaylahaguayo4556
      @kaylahaguayo4556 4 года назад +3

      Star light ya your right

  • @bubblegum3311
    @bubblegum3311 3 года назад +7

    Today my brother moved abroad for further studies, not even a minute passed and I'm already missing him🥺.
    Safe journey bro❣️

  • @SlaySoulSister45
    @SlaySoulSister45 4 года назад +1412

    This legit made me cry so much. My relationship with my brother has pretty much completely deteriorated, sometimes we try to talk to each other, but tbh neither of us know how to talk to the other. It's really sad because I keep remembering when we were kids and we were inseperable, reading each others minds and all that. Now he's gonna graduate high school next year and I have no clue who he even is.

    • @nalanibelvin251
      @nalanibelvin251 3 года назад +24

      I know how that feels. Only I'm unable to actually see him because he is so far away.

    • @rose_l7250
      @rose_l7250 3 года назад +27

      Glad I'm not the only one even when I try to be nice or talk to my brother we just end up fighting

    • @rolandalija1769
      @rolandalija1769 3 года назад +15

      Look one or another you got to talk I only have one brother 10 years older than me and he is finishing college which makes me happy but sad bec next year he's going to the US and I'm trying to make things better so I created this game we have this little thing that we hide in places around the house we we mostly stay when I find it I hide it when he finds it he hides it the same path and if we don't want to get something for each other and both don't want to get something we play rock paper scissors every single time we don't want to do or get something for each other but this happens at night when he's free from work

    • @hollie2107
      @hollie2107 3 года назад +13

      I feel exactly how you feel. I love him mire then anything or anyone in the world. He is such an amazing person, but whenever i try to talk to him we often end up fighting 😭

    • @naegastranger4679
      @naegastranger4679 3 года назад +4

      I exactly know how it feels its really hurts, im in this situations right now, and less than 6 months he will study abroad. I dont know but it just make me so sad

  • @cherubp3447
    @cherubp3447 4 года назад +3062

    This made me miss my brother who’s actually just in another room playing on his xBox
    Damn

    • @riceisgood29
      @riceisgood29 4 года назад +122

      My brothers room is right next to mine he never comes out

    • @greenluv3676
      @greenluv3676 4 года назад +63

      My brother is in the next room playing among us with his friends

    • @jose_heheh3195
      @jose_heheh3195 4 года назад +59

      my brother used to be in the room right next to mine but one year ago he turned 18 and moved to foreign for studies.i miss him so much :C

    • @angelagokei9824
      @angelagokei9824 4 года назад +11

      Same

    • @simplyxsad3658
      @simplyxsad3658 4 года назад +11

      Same 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @emmameyers5398
    @emmameyers5398 3 года назад +8

    He never opens up to me no matter how hard I try, he’s so distant… I miss the old him who protected me from the world…

  • @noeliapilar718
    @noeliapilar718 4 года назад +328

    I can still remember “I wrote I song” It’s amazing how far she got is not easy but she hads the spark

    • @vincejeugmans8941
      @vincejeugmans8941 4 года назад +6

      i hate it when artists blow up, because the music changes..
      when i listen to some great artists from a couple years ago i'm like you changed, you were better

    • @noeliapilar718
      @noeliapilar718 4 года назад +2

      Vince Jeugmans true but sometimes people get tired of always singing the same tone sometimes they just want a change not for fans but for themself

    • @vincejeugmans8941
      @vincejeugmans8941 4 года назад +1

      @@noeliapilar718 it's not the tone, the lyrics change (less real: you don't connect with it)

    • @river1409
      @river1409 4 года назад

      @@vincejeugmans8941 fair point. And I kinda agree.

    • @noeliapilar718
      @noeliapilar718 4 года назад

      Vince Jeugmans you’re right again but in the wrong way, true the lyrics change but also people’s feeling a person does not leave there whole just feeling one thing people change so does there feelings they are inspired by there happiness,sadness or anger so yes lyrics do change but I like to believe that’s only a little part of the whole story and btw I love music I actually love to write songs I do connect just in a different perspective.

  • @kyliesteenson
    @kyliesteenson 4 года назад +5468

    When she gets like real big, some of us have been here since the beginning and that gonna be kinda cool lol
    Ahh I didn’t realize this comment got so many likes hahaha but it’s been a year and I mean she’s getting bigger faster now.. she’s not our secret Tate anymore:( so proud tho

    • @rachel-gh3dh
      @rachel-gh3dh 4 года назад +111

      Kylie Steenson damn I don’t want her to get big, I mean I do but it’s going to be sad

    • @izza5163
      @izza5163 4 года назад +67

      i hope she never changes

    • @sophiebaker224
      @sophiebaker224 4 года назад +47

      I like the fact that she’s not huge bc if she did get rly big yes we could all say we have been here from the very start but her music would slowly change and so would she ... that’s what has happened to most boy bands I used to listen to wether they broke up or their music changed but I like her the way she is .... it’s perfect ♥️😇

    • @rachel-gh3dh
      @rachel-gh3dh 4 года назад +3

      Sophie Baker amen 🙏🏻

    • @kascey_mai6358
      @kascey_mai6358 4 года назад +4

      literally me 🥺

  • @unspokenrizz555
    @unspokenrizz555 3 года назад +409

    "Dear ex best friend"
    "Dear parents"
    "Dear brother"
    "Dear u"
    Tate loves using "dear" in her titles

    • @aly1632
      @aly1632 3 года назад +23

      Her dear songs are the best ones I think personally
      (You forgot Dear U)
      But make sure to add Dont be sad and happy face to the best

    • @unspokenrizz555
      @unspokenrizz555 3 года назад +5

      @@aly1632 yes happy face and don't be sad are my fav songs of hers

    • @Sophielauvie
      @Sophielauvie 3 года назад +6

      Dear parents
      Dear sister
      Dear cousins

    • @lorelailuthorkar-el137
      @lorelailuthorkar-el137 9 месяцев назад +2

      You forgot dear person who doesn't understand me

  • @pepperoni101.
    @pepperoni101. 4 года назад +296

    this is my biggest fear. Growing apart from my brother. Its actually just growing up but its still scary to think how everything will change in a few years..

    • @littleleah5182
      @littleleah5182 4 года назад +1

      Nami xo me and my sisters and brothers all split apart now and we haven’t met it 2 years 😔🤭

    • @adi-lf5eb
      @adi-lf5eb 4 года назад +2

      growing up doesnt mean growing apart..just most times

    • @leilei4705
      @leilei4705 4 года назад +1

      I have to older brothers and one of them is 14 and all ready rood to me and my 12 year old brother and they never play with me Eny more

    • @jennabananaslime9082
      @jennabananaslime9082 4 года назад +1

      I feel you to me growing up means growing apart. My brother is already working a full time job while I am in elementary school 😢

    • @hollie2107
      @hollie2107 3 года назад

      Yeah

  • @lenkagajdos8273
    @lenkagajdos8273 4 года назад +337

    when my brother died i regretted not talking and not spending much time with him, you never know when what you have will be gone in one hospital trip or going to the shop for some reason, spend as much time with your loved ones, ❤️

  • @elo-xf5fo
    @elo-xf5fo Месяц назад +3

    "same fears, same dreams
    still tryna' get my brother to like me" hits harder now

  • @wonydoIi
    @wonydoIi 4 года назад +578

    _In 5 years I won’t know who my brother is. I barely know him now.._

    • @andrewward4012
      @andrewward4012 4 года назад +2

      • C l x u d y • what?

    • @MaybeStarlight
      @MaybeStarlight 4 года назад +6

      • C l x u d y •
      _Same here, hun..._

    • @brooklynngrace7177
      @brooklynngrace7177 4 года назад +1

      Same

    • @juni5287
      @juni5287 4 года назад +6

      wow, that's exactly what crossed my mind at that lyric. guess we have the same problems

    • @Blackrose-xl3um
      @Blackrose-xl3um 4 года назад +4

      clxudy ‘ ‘ 😔👌that’s how some of us siblings are now a days I kind of don’t even know how to act around him he’s barley home anymore to

  • @trinimartinez2190
    @trinimartinez2190 4 года назад +376

    i felt this me and my brother don’t talk even tho we live together and it scares me that we’ll never be close

    • @cedarkrodel1980
      @cedarkrodel1980 4 года назад +4

      You should send him this song! It might work who knows!!!

    • @gailrego2480
      @gailrego2480 4 года назад +8

      Lol I don't like my brother hes really annoying tbh and what is worse is that I have a younger bro and older and the older one is rude and the little bro is annoying xd

    • @Lisa00275
      @Lisa00275 4 года назад +4

      same... :(

    • @je9862
      @je9862 4 года назад +5

      Trini Martinez same💔

    • @cpcequestrian2464
      @cpcequestrian2464 4 года назад +2

      gail rego Lol I get that. When me and my brother were younger he was an ass to me. Give it some time and you’ll be inseparable. Me and my bro do everything together.

  • @amara._222anderson
    @amara._222anderson 3 года назад +18

    im listening to this. a day before my older brother’s wedding. this hurts so much. i spent my whole life with him. i grew up with him. i cant imagine how i can survive. idk who i will talk to abt my day at school. or calling him while he is on his way to come home so that he can buy me snacks. im so proud of the person he has become. sending hugs and kisses to yall💕

  • @shekinahbasoodelsing4468
    @shekinahbasoodelsing4468 4 года назад +1901

    **Me singing in the shower**
    My Parents: "Since when do we own a dying goat in our shower?"
    Me: :0
    Also me: Why can't I sound so good like Tate

    • @aireyverse
      @aireyverse 4 года назад +13

      Practice

    • @jkka1477
      @jkka1477 4 года назад +5

      Alexa Bug agreed

    • @jkka1477
      @jkka1477 4 года назад +5

      So relatable

    • @summernorris3058
      @summernorris3058 4 года назад +4

      Omggggg sameeeeeee !!! 🙃 x

    • @zinoklii8998
      @zinoklii8998 4 года назад +5

      That’s me when I record a video of me trying to sing but the audio OoF

  • @caramelcream3995
    @caramelcream3995 4 года назад +513

    hoping that whoever who reads this is healing from whatever that is hurting him/her :)

    • @Kira.D07
      @Kira.D07 4 года назад +3

      but sometimes u can’t do the healing.. sometimes people just drink/smoke/cut themselves because they think that it’s helping them. and sometimes u don’t do the healing, but you’re there to see the healing happen. maybe u just don’t need to heal because whatever happened to you is a lesson and u can’t get over the fact that it happened. there are different reasons as to why people heal, but most likely they go into depression and heal from that, or they take their life because they get so overwhelmed from everything, or they feel as if they are just an organism taking up space and wasting air. maybe, anything is possible. but sometimes healing leaves a big scar. healing from something makes u stronger, but in the process makes u weaker. u can’t heal if you feel the pain. but when u heal, it’s just super-coating the incident that happened, and moving on. i choose to heal only when I feel the need to heal.

    • @kyra4318
      @kyra4318 4 года назад +3

      you're cute thanks i appreciate this

    • @caramelcream3995
      @caramelcream3995 4 года назад +3

      Kyra nyaw stay safe during quarantine hun!!

    • @kyra4318
      @kyra4318 4 года назад +2

      @@caramelcream3995 same goes to you🥺

    • @yusur3440
      @yusur3440 4 года назад +2

      @@Kira.D07 that made me cry, i felt that

  • @aswithaaa
    @aswithaaa 2 года назад +3

    “one day i hope that you’ll call me and tell me your problems when ur just so lost don’t know what to do”
    that hit so hard for some reason

  • @rubybailey2952
    @rubybailey2952 4 года назад +121

    I've never cried to a somg about siblings but this hits differently and im crying river

  • @neko7046
    @neko7046 4 года назад +91

    This song is absolutely beautiful. I have an older brother and I can really relate to this song because at first we never really knew how to talk to eachother. Though as we started to talk more we are now best friends so this song hits close to home. Thank you so much ❤️

    • @cedarkrodel1980
      @cedarkrodel1980 4 года назад +1

      That's the same as my brother and we are a year apart and his bday is soon and I was wondering what present I should get him!😝

    • @je9862
      @je9862 4 года назад

      NEKO GAMING I hope that happens to me too

  • @2cool4u_k11
    @2cool4u_k11 3 года назад +16

    My brother graduated boot camp like last month. And this made me miss him so much, I always thought he was gonna be a “move in to your parents basement” type of guy but he is officially a Solider. Thank you for helping this country and others in need I love you 💗💗🥺🤞I never realized how much I would miss him until now…

  • @regina__8025
    @regina__8025 4 года назад +58

    I love how she can tell everything in one song

  • @ezthsevina
    @ezthsevina 4 года назад +61

    i have two older brothers. one im cool with and actually have a good relationship while the other one doesnt talk to me. we live in the same house but we barely even talk. he seems to have a bond with my other brother and my little sister but not me. im afraid that we're gonna grow up with an unhealthy relationship when we're suppose to stick together. this song is just what i needed. thank you tate.

  • @zainab8174
    @zainab8174 3 года назад +30

    I actually have an older brother and this song gave me chills and almost made me cry...

  • @dinobuccolier1672
    @dinobuccolier1672 4 года назад +358

    My brother hates me, he hurts me constantly.
    I still love him, I always have, and I always will.
    He’ll probably never love me, but I’ll always love him.

    • @itsari8118
      @itsari8118 4 года назад +4

      Dino Buccolier same but with my sis

    • @rose_l7250
      @rose_l7250 3 года назад +19

      Same it doesn't matter how hard I try to be nice it'll never be the same as when we were kids

    • @gwengriffin1972
      @gwengriffin1972 3 года назад +6

      my brother hates me but loves my twin...

    • @baby_potatoo
      @baby_potatoo 3 года назад +1

      Samee

    • @angelavelazquez3880
      @angelavelazquez3880 3 года назад +1

      🥺😭🥺😭🥺😭🥺🥺😭🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 same

  • @charvigolechha
    @charvigolechha 4 года назад +46

    This scared me. I can't even imagine my life without talking to my brother every day. It was already hard enough when he left for college with a promise to call daily. 🥺

  • @zaramarie2175
    @zaramarie2175 4 года назад +14

    its scary because i remember 2 years ago, i started listening to her music, and now she become a big popstar and is played on radio stations across the world. like, even my mum has fallen in love with hed music, and i think its so amazing. love u Tate ❤

  • @ravenhood5414
    @ravenhood5414 4 года назад +158

    "Dear Brother"
    3am on a Friday night
    Driving down the highway
    We just saying nothing
    Wish I could read your mind
    But I barely know it at all
    Guess that's probably my fault
    I wish that I could hold on to everything
    I wish that I could just have another minute
    Scares me to think that we'll grow up
    And I'll barely know you
    So one day when we're living our lives
    I hope that we're just fine
    Hope that I know what you're going through
    One day I hope that you'll call me
    And tell me your problems
    When you're just so lost
    Don't know what to do
    Heard that it's just when you're younger
    That things seem harder
    So I'm really hoping that talk is true
    Just wanna be clear
    That I have this big fear
    I won't know you in five years
    So can you stay right here? mmh
    So can you stay right here?

  • @lucyeverson550
    @lucyeverson550 4 года назад +37

    who has been here since the begining? she has matured so much!! love this!!

  • @clairekimble1272
    @clairekimble1272 3 года назад +8

    god this whole song just hit the spot for me.. recently i’ve just realized how i bearly know my brother and i miss him we are still young yes but i just want my brother..

  • @yuligarciaa
    @yuligarciaa 4 года назад +17

    it’s sad how when you and your big bro would care about each other so much and when he would go through the rough things you would be there for him, but then something happens that makes you fade away from each other to make him hate you..... 💔

  • @sydneynoelle3744
    @sydneynoelle3744 4 года назад +31

    0:37 that was the camera tearing up cause these lyrics are so beautiful

  • @stephenhobbs5883
    @stephenhobbs5883 Год назад +23

    As an eldest brother who went through a lot this is beautiful. ❤️

  • @writtenbyldr
    @writtenbyldr 4 года назад +69

    I was thinking about this topic yesterday before I went to sleep
    couldn't have said it better
    luv ya

  • @juliaprentiss4139
    @juliaprentiss4139 4 года назад +30

    This actually made me cry because my brother is in college and I feel like soon we will not even know each other.

  • @aubreyboone6797
    @aubreyboone6797 4 года назад +7

    this relates so much to how i feel about my brother. we used to be really close, but now, i’m 13 and he’s 17 and we barely talk at all. i miss hanging out with him, but i guess it’s just as much my fault as it is his. i just don’t wanna grow up and barely know eachother anymore.

  • @minime274
    @minime274 4 года назад +143

    I'm crying so hard. This hit hard because I haven't spoke to my older brother in 5 years. I just saw him recently and he didn't even speak to me, just stared at me. It sucked.

    • @micaelajuarez7304
      @micaelajuarez7304 4 года назад +4

      literally same. it’s the hardest thing ever

    • @hellothere8311
      @hellothere8311 4 года назад +3

      That must have hurt. I don’t want that to happen to me and my brother.

    • @janimals6131
      @janimals6131 4 года назад +2

      I havent seen two of my half siblings in five or six years, i barley know anything about them, one younger half brother and one older half sister

    • @laylanimaldonado4121
      @laylanimaldonado4121 4 года назад +4

      My brother doesn’t care about me the only time he is nice is when he wants me to make him food and he treats me like a maid I have to bribe him do to something for me

    • @janimals6131
      @janimals6131 4 года назад +3

      @@laylanimaldonado4121 that is pretty much my brother, he is 4 years older than me and only talks to me when he wants something and i also have to bribe my brother to do ANYTHING for me, i always tried to make my brother happy by buying him stuff like a $40 fish that he had always wanted(im still in middle school so that seems like alot of money, especially on a fish), he was so happy, but then it died about 2 week later, and he acts like i dont do anything for him(i always help him and lend him money when he "needs" it), i know what you mean

  • @leelee4832
    @leelee4832 4 года назад +474

    I dont know my brother at all, hes so distant and sometimes I get so mad at my parents for it because of our 10 year age difference :(
    I never had the brother-sister experience and I never will

    • @stella-pm9nc
      @stella-pm9nc 4 года назад +23

      i can’t relate even more x it scares me to think that when i have a family and when he has a family we won’t ever even talk but don’t worry everything happens for a reason even if it’s not the nicest thing for you:(

    • @lucyclaire3600
      @lucyclaire3600 4 года назад +20

      I feel. Me and my brother are the same and I envy those who have those brothers that’ll protect them and tease them and such..

    • @stella-pm9nc
      @stella-pm9nc 4 года назад +3

      Lucy Claire omg yes! my best friend has a older brother and there like best friends and enemies! what id do to have a brother like that😐💗

    • @valarirussak11
      @valarirussak11 4 года назад +3

      Lee is a sad gay my brother is 5 years older than me and I am 12 years older than my sister

    • @holhnolhsi1061
      @holhnolhsi1061 4 года назад +3

      @@stella-pm9nc THAT IS MY LIFE

  • @kaitlyneyre8813
    @kaitlyneyre8813 3 года назад +8

    My brother moved out this past summer, and while I know him pretty well, it still hits hard because I miss him so much every day

  • @varadeils
    @varadeils 4 года назад +83

    Been there since the beginning, love and hate that she’s getting big 🥺

  • @shu3494
    @shu3494 4 года назад +1945

    Me:”gets emotional and goes to her brother”
    Bro: Get out of my room
    Me: NO
    Bro: Mom can you please take the trash out of my room
    My life is hard QwQ

    • @maze56
      @maze56 4 года назад +12

      Same

    • @oumeimachaouali8380
      @oumeimachaouali8380 4 года назад +10

      Same 😅😅😅

    • @avielvaknin1147
      @avielvaknin1147 4 года назад +30

      Don't worry
      I do that to my siblings too sometimes but i still love them no matter what and sometimes thats just what brothers do 😂
      Im sure ur brother if the same and he doesn't do it on purpose or to hurt u
      👍

    • @jasonohneck6544
      @jasonohneck6544 4 года назад

      Same

    • @twees5238
      @twees5238 4 года назад

      Same

  • @GoldMane-r6c
    @GoldMane-r6c 2 года назад +3

    The line "I won't be able. to know you in 5 years " made me cry.

    • @ttmkrae
      @ttmkrae 2 года назад +1

      Me too

  • @dhikradouifi6533
    @dhikradouifi6533 4 года назад +17

    Every single song of Tate is relatable 💜god bless this talent for ever love her so freaking much

  • @niharika3144
    @niharika3144 4 года назад +24

    I cry everytime I listen to this song coz I also have an elder brother and I never thought about these things before but now I do and it really scares me..

  • @CR-sk8vq
    @CR-sk8vq 3 года назад +6

    I have an older brother, this song hit hard... I know we’re getting older & that things will never be the same as they used to...I’m 13 and he’s 17 and I’ve noticed throughout the past few years we don’t laugh and play around like we used to. Especially with our age gap I think it hurts us even more because we will never be in high school together. He’s graduating next year and I know it won’t be the same...especially with him going to college and moving out eventually. 🥺

    • @CR-sk8vq
      @CR-sk8vq 3 года назад +1

      Great song Tate & I’ve been watching u ever since I was little. Congratulations on the success you’ve gotten over the years you definitely deserve it.

  • @hebabaig03
    @hebabaig03 4 года назад +6

    It's unbelievable how so many of us are going through the same things and that you can bring us together with your voice.
    Thank you so much for this Tate.
    I really needed this.

  • @beautyexclusive9777
    @beautyexclusive9777 4 года назад +163

    Can you do a updated "how i write my songs" I need some inspo!!! And I love your voice🥰🥰

  • @nivedakumar3474
    @nivedakumar3474 3 года назад +40

    this song literally fits the exact way i feel towards my brother. debating whether i should send it to him or not

    • @butterflythangu
      @butterflythangu 2 года назад +1

      i felt this

    • @DylansPen
      @DylansPen 2 года назад +4

      Send it. One thing you do not want to do is go through life and later think, 'what if'. Send it.

    • @1wolflover675
      @1wolflover675 Год назад +2

      I sent it to mine so send it girl

    • @Dreamy........................
      @Dreamy........................ 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@1wolflover675 How did he respond? What did he say?

    • @carriesweedler1802
      @carriesweedler1802 10 месяцев назад

      Send it. Idek how I’d send it to mine. Idk where he lives or his number

  • @abbyc9474
    @abbyc9474 4 года назад +109

    Lyrics:
    3am on a friday night
    Driving down the highway
    We just saying nothing
    Wish I could read your mind
    But I barely know it at all
    Guess that's probably my fault
    I wish that I could hold on to everything
    I wish that I could just have another minute
    Scares me to think that we’ll grow up
    And I'll barely know you
    So one day when we're living our lives
    I hope that we’re just fine
    Hope that I know what you're going through
    One day I hope that you'll call me
    And tell me your problems
    When you're just so lost
    Don't know what to do
    Heard that it's just when you're younger
    That things seem harder
    So I'm really hoping that talk is true
    Just wanna be clear
    That I have this big fear
    I won’t know you in five years
    So can you stay right here? mmh
    So can you stay right here?

    • @malomgyt
      @malomgyt 4 года назад +7

      The lyrics are ligit in the video bro
      Yeet

    • @balencii326
      @balencii326 4 года назад

      do you know the chords by any chance?

    • @abbyc9474
      @abbyc9474 4 года назад +1

      Spicyniah i used G D Bm A

    • @aliyaha2863
      @aliyaha2863 4 года назад

      Bruh

  • @damonsalvatore4346
    @damonsalvatore4346 4 года назад +302

    no one:
    me in my feels at 3am listening to this for the 100th time and watching fan edits of damon and elana:

  • @Sf4life1216
    @Sf4life1216 Год назад +11

    I live with my younger siblings and we barely talk bc of a lot of trauma that our parents put us through. We keep to ourselves. I don’t understand why… this makes me want to go hug them. My little sister was my everything

    • @taybrxx
      @taybrxx Год назад +1

      i hope your doing alright, if you needa talk i'm here

  • @euphoria1473
    @euphoria1473 4 года назад +52

    Oh God this made me miss my big brother even more. He's currently studying in our home country and I'm staying with my parents 'till I finish Junior high school.
    When he was still staying with us, I would tell him all of my problems and he listens so well and never tells them to anybody. He would also show affection especially when he's sick and goes: "Hey, I'm sick. Can you give me a hug?" he will whine and ask me if I can sleep next to him😂 There are also times that he would barge into my classroom and hang out with my friends and I- at that time, I was really embarrassed cuz he would shout: "Hey, baby sis!" in front of everyone. Also, just last month, I told him that I cut my wrist(sorry) and he literally went: "I'll really pinch you many times based on how many scars you have if you don't stop" and said so many stuff to help me.
    He's very fun and caring and I'm lucky to have him as my older brother❤️ I'm sharing it here cuz even tho I'm an affectionate person, I'm not really showy when it comes to my family. Sorry for wasting all of your time😅✌🏻️

    • @gillianm2693
      @gillianm2693 4 года назад +1

      Oh hon! Sorry you are going thru that! I hope you find all the help and strength you need. I will pinch you too;) i know we just "met" but already it hurts me to think of the pain you might be going through. Love ❤ and Prayers.🙏

    • @norardiatyazleen
      @norardiatyazleen 4 года назад +4

      i cant relate, my brother is NEVER there for me !

    • @anh435
      @anh435 4 года назад +2

      He sounds really nice

    • @janimals6131
      @janimals6131 4 года назад

      Your brother sounds great, and i hope your ok even tho i dont know you☺

    • @lathikaalathikaa3820
      @lathikaalathikaa3820 4 года назад

      i cut my wrist too more than ten times and my legs

  • @hannahmichaela8602
    @hannahmichaela8602 4 года назад +17

    UR SONGSSS JUST HIT ME SO HARDDD

  • @riceisgood29
    @riceisgood29 4 года назад +3

    This hit hard. I cried it’s so relatable especially when you have an older brother ha she is just in his room all day not knowing what he is going to do when he is older.

  • @z.l.1819
    @z.l.1819 4 года назад +21

    It’s so crazy that most of your songs deal with the same issues I got in my life like for real.. it’s like we have the same life, going through same things and fears only you write songs about it and I can relate so much. Wow. You really are a genius!

  • @olani9268
    @olani9268 4 года назад +6

    Dang this hit me. Tate oml I'm gonna cry. I have an older brother who's 8 years older than me and all tho we hang out a lot when he visits I don't truly know what he goes thru. Thank u for blessing our ears.

  • @nataliadipietro4238
    @nataliadipietro4238 2 года назад +4

    It is very sad to love a brother who ignores you and does not love you, whatever you do when you see that this brother is not born to love us, I just accept it and try to be happy as it is!

  • @Ash-bi4zg
    @Ash-bi4zg 4 года назад +30

    My brother is 22 and I’m 13 I’ve only seen him 11 times my whole life and I can’t relate more Bc this is me when I see him

    • @mmhmk3
      @mmhmk3 3 года назад +2

      Same with me except he almost died and have other siblings but we barely talk

  • @ДаринаНиколова-н9м
    @ДаринаНиколова-н9м 4 года назад +10

    She's literally the best... 🥺🥺🥺

  • @shaharfrenkel7247
    @shaharfrenkel7247 4 года назад +5

    its crazy how i keep finding myself in your songs, thank you so much for being you and putting these songs out there. I dont think you realize how much impact you have on people's lives just through giving them a way to express themselves. This world is a lot less lonely when you learn that people go through the same things that you do. you inspire me every single day, i cant thank you enough

  • @gabypage.x2008
    @gabypage.x2008 4 года назад +71

    My brothers ignored me for 8 years, this song just gets to me🥺I’d do anything to see him again :(

    • @sharonwinolapeazold5706
      @sharonwinolapeazold5706 3 года назад +2

      You will... ❤️ Im sure

    • @woooooooo9061
      @woooooooo9061 2 года назад

      Are you a good person? Why would he ignore you if you're decent?

    • @gabypage.x2008
      @gabypage.x2008 2 года назад +4

      @@woooooooo9061 lmfao I’m a good person, he’s the one who isn’t x

  • @moniquevanwyk9160
    @moniquevanwyk9160 3 года назад +5

    hits hard when you have an older brother who you wish you were really close with🥺

  • @eds2366
    @eds2366 4 года назад +11

    Who else has been here since the very start?
    When it was just like this. A few people, watching a beautiful girl play the piano and sing her originals.
    I don't know you, but I'm so proud.

  • @jinlee4833
    @jinlee4833 4 года назад +12

    She's so talented!! She deserves so much more!
    Her voice is so angelic!!!

  • @katethegreat6050
    @katethegreat6050 3 года назад +7

    My brother used to be my bestfriend. We spent every waking moment with eachother when I was younger. When he got older though he left me and I understand why but he hasn't spent a single moment with me in so long and I miss him so much.

  • @alessandrascorcia3925
    @alessandrascorcia3925 4 года назад +6

    how is it even possible for someone to sound this angelic

  • @laoisemeilandershorne4183
    @laoisemeilandershorne4183 4 года назад +18

    okay but remember when she first uploaded “i wrote a song” w this wall behind her and the song became one day which brought her to where she is today?

  • @sarak5797
    @sarak5797 3 года назад +32

    siblings be like: “i’ll give you my kidney, but I won’t give you my charger l”

  • @hxppy__4815
    @hxppy__4815 4 года назад +104

    “I love you” c:
    To the people reading this comment...
    If anybody see’s.

  • @londoncollins5
    @londoncollins5 4 года назад +459

    I wish i had a chance to give this to my brother before he...passed...😔

    • @itsari8118
      @itsari8118 4 года назад +28

      London Collins I am sorry for ur loss :( I am sure u loved him a lot how did he pass away u don’t have to tell me but I am just wondering

    • @maliabruner8404
      @maliabruner8404 3 года назад +20

      Im so sorry, mine did too and I miss him a lot

    • @edytak162
      @edytak162 3 года назад +14

      My brother also passed away this year due to Covid. I'm sorry for everyone who has to go through this kind of pain.

    • @hamzahanfaoui6251
      @hamzahanfaoui6251 3 года назад +9

      Im a girl and i never have seen my brother but i know i have a brother but how is he😔😔😔

    • @hamzahanfaoui6251
      @hamzahanfaoui6251 3 года назад +5

      @@edytak162 i know but you have seen your brother but i do not now wath have my brother have i wish i was with him because i know he was happy wene my mum have say you have a sister now im 13 and i didnt seen him ,he is alive or not 😔😔😔😔😔

  • @rodneytanner5462
    @rodneytanner5462 5 месяцев назад +1

    All I can say is thank you bc this song reminds me so much of my BFF I lost but I've looked up so much different music and yours is the only ones I can relate to and that helps me at least right now

  • @zoya3142
    @zoya3142 4 года назад +145

    When you have two elder sisters and they won't tell you anything about their life because you're too young even though you're not "that young"

    • @annamaria81818
      @annamaria81818 4 года назад +6

      I know the feeling too. I’m in the worst age right now with my cousins that are all in college or finished it and have a serious relationships and I’m still high school without an ex

    • @marie_sydney_4272
      @marie_sydney_4272 4 года назад +3

      im baby story of my life

    • @malagurung4957
      @malagurung4957 4 года назад +1

      Same here

    • @fruityziplock8876
      @fruityziplock8876 4 года назад +1

      Im the youngest in all of my family cousins and all well at least im not younger than my puppies the cousin thats closest to my age is 13 or 14 or maybe 15

    • @angieb8309
      @angieb8309 4 года назад +3

      I can definitely relate they tell me nothing so how do they expect for me to talk to them abt my problems

  • @thegarlictwins9919
    @thegarlictwins9919 4 года назад +30

    When you have an older brother miles away this hurts

    • @nalanibelvin251
      @nalanibelvin251 3 года назад +2

      It really does

    • @iwishiwasasleep
      @iwishiwasasleep 3 года назад +2

      My older brother is 3 days away from me

    • @mariatineo4513
      @mariatineo4513 3 года назад +2

      Yes 💔

    • @crazy_gacha8021
      @crazy_gacha8021 3 года назад

      It does my brother is about to leave for California and I'm soooo far away from my oldest brother :(

  • @Sibling_vlogs
    @Sibling_vlogs 3 года назад +1

    Wait stop bc the “when we’re just living our lives” made me cry so much tho 🥺

  • @itsmeh9498
    @itsmeh9498 4 года назад +13

    When you replay tates songs much times it hits harder to me

  • @amanda-lw6dj
    @amanda-lw6dj 4 года назад +154

    my older brother hates me and i don't know why. yeah i can be annoying but i'm a good friend to him and he doesn't appreciate it. i can't even tell you the last time we hugged, it's been years.

    • @baby_potatoo
      @baby_potatoo 3 года назад +4

      Sameeee

    • @angelavelazquez3880
      @angelavelazquez3880 3 года назад +2

      I'm literally crying

    • @nihal.n
      @nihal.n 3 года назад +2

      me too :(

    • @layla70456
      @layla70456 3 года назад +2

      Amanda Srsly me too :(

    • @sarak5797
      @sarak5797 3 года назад +2

      That’s how siblings are. Outside they hate you, inside they love you more than anything.

  • @cherrycanary307
    @cherrycanary307 Год назад +1

    An artist will wrote the most heart wrenching and soul stirring song to ever grace your speakers then only make it a minute and a half

  • @alexandriarivera7822
    @alexandriarivera7822 4 года назад +42

    I relate to this so much we are 7 years apart I'm 10 turning 11 soon and he is 17 turning 18 I wish we will keep in contact when he moves out and when we are both adults

    • @kbog5587
      @kbog5587 4 года назад +4

      I’m ur same age, Me and my brother are separated me at our parents house him at my grandmas house 3000 Miles away, I haven’t seen him in years, my parents think that he has issues and so do I, they want us to go to counseling, I refuse so does he, I’m saving up my own money to go and see him

    • @jjwan-ie9078
      @jjwan-ie9078 3 года назад +1

      Same I turned 11 and he's 18 now and he went to his college today I miss him..

    • @tyliabridges2061
      @tyliabridges2061 3 года назад

      Me and my brother are 7 years apart too and he’s 19 and I’m 12 your gonna miss him a lot and when he comes back it may be awkward for a bit but y’all have each other

    • @crazyhazelthegsp
      @crazyhazelthegsp 2 года назад

      Im 11 too my brother and i were separated when i was 6 and he was like 17:(

    • @b4nd41ds5
      @b4nd41ds5 2 года назад +1

      im close to your age, but my brother is 24 now, he’s getting married in 10 months. ive never felt so alone.

  • @heatherfath1043
    @heatherfath1043 4 года назад +22

    When I’m listening to “can you stay right here” I’m look at my teenage brother trying to wrestle my dad

  • @aniahdelancey1877
    @aniahdelancey1877 3 года назад +4

    Ur singing just makes it feel amazing . And shout outs to all big and little brothers

  • @hannahsmith4852
    @hannahsmith4852 4 года назад +4

    I felt this. I feel as time passes my brother is just gonna leave me. He's 19, I'm 15 so he has the ability to and that's what scared the hell out of me. He just, hasn't left yet

  • @blueskies5849
    @blueskies5849 4 года назад +10

    “When your so lost don’t know what to do” that’s my whole life...

  • @rarekid4519
    @rarekid4519 3 года назад +1

    "heard that it's just when you're younger when things seem to get harder".....hits differently

  • @hannahmichaela8602
    @hannahmichaela8602 4 года назад +7

    I REALLY LOVE UR SONGSSS AND UR VOICEEEEE😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @stacey7305
    @stacey7305 4 года назад +4

    Haven't spent time with my brother ever since he entered college. It's been 2 years now 🥺 oh how I miss those old times 😔

  • @LittleBittySaidit
    @LittleBittySaidit Год назад +4

    Beautimous song, voice, everything! My brother raised me, we went through a lot of trauma together. He went off to the army, married, had kids, and lives thousands of miles away now. We’re not phone ppl so we don’t talk, but our occasional “I miss you and love you” means alot! It’s that unspoken love and bond that will never leave us!

  • @novaarts7232
    @novaarts7232 4 года назад +4

    I love this.... I miss my brother so so much rn. I havent seen him in 7 years...

  • @adabuenaventura9317
    @adabuenaventura9317 4 года назад +21

    I have a brother and we were really close when we were young but now we aren't that close ever since my mum and I moved to a different country and he didn't come with us. I speak a different language from him so it's hard for us to talk. I feel like I don't even know him.