Yeah i agree but for some people a real point of view can help a great relationship to be better... Very humble always room for growth .. I love my husband and i know he is right for me but never a afraid to grow... The more you know...
I broke up a relationship after 5 years because he doesn't believe in marriage. Better thing I did. I know I should have done this before, but it's never too late to fix things in life.
Stephan this good 🙏. Another sign of a perfect relationship is when you both together make a positive impact on other people’s lives, whether that’s the lives of a few or many.
I know I’m in a freaking fantastic relationship. Though, this is my first official one! Even my therapist was like I knocked it out of the park with this first one. I just wanna keep my relationship healthy and not get too much in my head and self sabotage. This man is so AMAZING! He is so caring, kind, responsible, has good character, is self aware and continues to work on himself. He is such an adorable human. Yet, someone I look up to and respect. Oooohhhh and he’s FINE TOO! Look, even my friends give me the head nod when they meet him. He is amazing and we have similar values and wants in life. Yep, I found the one. Thing is we are very similar, even our habit to overthink. I just wanna keep it healthy, but I’m scared I’ll mess up and I realized he’s scared of messing up too. How can we ease the anxiety?
Congratulations on meeting "The One". I think I met "The One" too. The thing I was doing to mess it up was overthinking. I am working to stop overthinking. I still do it sometimes, but I'm more likely to catch it before I text it. If I do text it, I hopefully catch it and apologize. My own personal peace grew. My personal peace has helped me to enjoy the relationship.
Realize that you're on the same page and that you will both eventually and inevitably mess up. You both seem very compatible and happy. Just do that, don't worry. ♥️. If one of you slips, forgive quickly. It's not about not messing up, it's about forgiving when someone does and never choosing anyone but them. Take care and I hope that helps 😊. It seems like you won't do anything that can't be forgiven.
These points are excellent. Your wisdom on the the topic of identifying healthy relationships is so refreshing. Thank you so much for sharing with those of us who truly desire to get it right. God bless you and the messages you sincerely want people to get.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
Great video. The unhealthy partners I’ve had always felt that their strong feelings justified bad behavior, so I especially appreciate what you said about disagreeing versus being disrespectful.
A lot of things that you listed are Bible principles, that’s why I believe they’re so effective. My favorite one is Ephesians 4:26 “ be wrathful but do not sin; do not let the sun set while you are still angry.” It really shows a lack of communication, problems will only build up, and eventually resentment will set up root.
Yay! I'm so happy seeing more and more people talk about Healthy relationships and promoting this subject on RUclips. Thank you for your contribution! And to all parents...teach your kids and lead by example! Respect your children folks.
This List of 12 Signs is excellent. I love how you explain each point thoroughly and give examples of what healthy looks like in each instance. For those of us who grew up with narcissistic or mentally unhealthy parents, you showed us what is possible and achievable if we put in the work and do it together. Thank you so much for your wisdom and expertise. 😇❤💯
So glad I watched this video..because lately I have been questioning my relationship and its really because we dont know how to communicate without it escalating into an argument. This video really helped me to look at myself and work on things with my partner.
Don’t just show up to a relationship, you both have to have a least mastered some of the points and are actively working on the rest and even better if you are both at the same level 😊
Excellent video. Agree, with all of your 12 key points. I think once you establish your partner as a best friend the communication flows, the conversations are deep and loving, and you begin to understand each other beyond the layers. Knowing someone at their core and trusting them with with your heart is definitely a great sign you have a loving relationship. It is what makes you want to pour into them and uplift them because the love is so deep and genuine. Once you have a foundation that is established on mutual trust, respect, and friendship that helps to build the physical intimacy and creates that lasting bond of love. Yes, even loving relationships need space. Love is freedom as the partner should never feel bound or controlled. Mainly, when love is there you level up. All areas of your life start to improve. Thank you for the video. Bless up.
@@adostu7179 People are certainly capable, if they are willing to make the effort and sacrifice for the greater good. When you release the ego, true love is all about giving, and unconditional love, the way God loves.
Every young adult needs to hear this and think about it before getting into a committed relationship. Such great advice here and I wish someone would have shared this with me when I was younger...except Stephan wasn't born yet lol.
I loved your video. It's nice to hear what my husband and I have been living. It's not easy. Real love requires real work. We are 38yrs been together since 19yrs married at 25. Have an 11yr and have custody of my 11yr niece. He also has a 17yr daughter that we love that doesn't live with us. I love him so much. I'm still so in love to the fact that it brought me to you. I have been watching your videos to do all I can to help with my continued growth on becoming the best version of myself to make sure I'm taking care of him just as well as he is and has been taking care me and everyone else. He has been so patient with me over these years as he has been helping me to better communicate and put logic and another's perspective into view above emotions and as a Libra that's not easy lol as we've gotten to know each other. Hes my best friend. I trust him more than myself and his family has become mine and vice versa. We love spending time together and I understand he needs his video games after work to decompress even though it cuts into our time/sleep time. We both spend everyday together working from home as I have Epilepsy and yet we love cuddling at night to go to sleep. I'm so thankful 🙏. Thank you for this. 🥰
Thank you for the elaboration of the importance of shared values….. I’m learning it’s so important, no matter how small the value. Scripture says “ How can two walk together lest they agree” Sometimes love means to walk away for the benefit of both persons.
have friends like that..the communication is off..they cut me off each time I try to express myself..they dont go into deep conversations..and what they talk about they dont give a full explanation ..one yawns when I try to give more details about a subject I bring..and another one is on the defensive for each comment I make on what he says..and there is nothing inappropriate.. I have decided to hang out by myself too..and hopefully meet more people.
My Partner with power she never worries she's never put in compromising position because her partner has power he protects her 24/7 She would never disrespect him that's what makes him love her and respect her.
I think your content is fantastic. It feels on point. I believe you have helped a lot of people have a more satisfying and healthy relationship with the guidance you provide through your videos. Thank you Stephan
Just met a guy on dating app. We both got off of it after two weeks. Things seem to be ok right now. We will see! ❤we are both great communicators. This helps since he’s on vacation for the winter in Europe. We FaceTime
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank You! I started listening to you and another older wise spiritual leader and it's been very helpful in this area of my life which I've complicated as well as allowed others to manipulate (internally and externally where the the "victim" can turn into the "enabler" or "abuser"). Your videos and books go from shedding light on the "warning signs of an unhealthy relationship/person, meanwhile sharing Wisdom nuggets teaching us to seek and implement opportunities to a more healthier relationship... refreshing and enlightening thanks Coach!😇👑🙏
Great video! I’m also glad you addressed that “marriage being a piece of paper” statement. That one irks me to no end. If it was just a piece of paper, the 🏳️🌈 LGBTQ+ community would not have fought so hard for the right to marry. Furthermore, people would not be so afraid to take their relationships to the next level if that were so.
False Perceptions👏👏 Yes!!! Many think some toxic traits are normal, but again, to have a healthy relationship, both must be committed to evolving and bettering oneself to give the best version to the other🙏 God should be your Advisor, oh and Stephan too☺ Have a blessed weekend, thank you for this video🙏
I have no grudges in this healthy relationship its fine with me having you listening in your coaching. I trust and respect you so don't bother some thinking that I will not agree or whatever I'm favorably that I'm in a good path so, thank you so much some guidance you are giving in this relationship.
I trust as much as you give me to trust. What I mean is I'll trust you as long as you're doing the right things and walking a straight line as I am also but the minute I confirm you're doing something out the way all my trust is really shaky I'm sorry 😐
Thanks for opening my eyes right from day one , I've been following you back to back from 2018 till date...and you've been the best so far...but I prefer being happily single than being in a relationship where I'll be taken for granted...I've invested into the wrong relationship several times, and I don't want to keep on repeating same shit...am tired n I think the best is for me to keep on working on my success n nothing more, I still believe In true love but I know the right man won't stress me 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Stephan for your video. Your videos really have educated me. I agree with you 💯 percent. Communication is the key. I am a firm believer on that. You looking handsome as always😍🥰🤴🏿🖤
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I have a question why do some women stay in toxic and abusive relationships and marriages. For example i have a friend that is in a relationship with a man who mess with other women and he don't care if she finds out or not. Then on top of that he talks bad about by friend but he is still living with her. I don't get it. He left her twice for two other women. I guess those women really didn't want him because he came right back to my friend. I don't understand her. I am just tired of her complaining about the same mess i told her to get rid of.
@@tashamack8701 She will learn one day I never forget when my ex left me in my dying state I bounce right back stronger than before he wants to get back with me I tell him about is self and that was it we live we learn
My son keeps trying to stick his nose into my relationship but I put a 🤚🏽 to it. Then he involved his Dad in it and then I had to block his Dad too 😳... I'm still working on the other points..
The unlikely happened and after a tumultuous life of trauma terrible relationships and health / business problems (due to my inability to put myself first)… I met this amazing well mannered man who shares value/viewpoints and it feels veeeeerrrryyy different when we meet. He’s consciously holding back his lust which I’m so thankful for. Now, I’m not a Christian and he’s more into philosophy… but I am deeply uncertain how to take this forward as I do think the best to live by are the Ten Commandments. We’re both end 30‘s and have had our own troubles and experiences… how do I proceed? I mean…. I’m not fully done cleaning up all the mess re health/business/self-work. It’s early days… how to know if we’re meant for one another?!
I supported my gf always, she has a very pessimistic nature and I stayed close to her, supported and showed her love, and told her to not worry, she will achieve everything, for anything, she has me. Ok she achieved everything, finished her Master, found a job in the bank, and after she started work in a bank, she said to me " I love you less, I'm thinking about breaking up with you, don't write me always" and so on, now she ignores my messages. It hurts a lot, spent a significant amount of time supporting her, then I met her family, she met my family, both liked each other, everything was perfect, now she lost love for me, and probably found a boy in the bank :/ hurts
@@michaelshollaj6428I'm so sorry to hear that. For me it sounds like you were always there for her, supported her no matter what (you are a great person). She grew and now she don't have "a usage" for you anymore. This can be a common dynamics in unhealthy relationships which are imbalanced. I wish that you find a great girlfriend who gives back the same positive energy as you deserve. 😊
@@gaiagensouki Thanks a lot, I really appreciate your positive comment ☺after 2 months, no contact, I leveled up in life, everything is going great, and 2 months ago she told me "I don't want to see you again" while 2 days ago, out of nowhere, she liked a photo I posted in Instagram 😅what can't kill you, just it makes you stronger :)) and staying always positive, respect for you :D
Awesome points, thank you Stephan. I have several of your books & appreciate the honest & direct consistency in yr messages (via yr Podcast/RUclips) & books. God Bless Yr Platform
Great video & Pure Energetic!💜 In addition... Our partnership becomes a journey of evolution, and the two individuals have an opportunity to expand more than they could alone. Deep satisfaction and long-term fulfillment arise as a result. Happi home, Happi Life! ❤
Yep the religion thing can be a real issue. I married an atheist, I’m a Christian. It became a huge problem in our marriage about 15 years in. And let’s just say I’m eight years out.
AGAIN, ALL THAT I ASK GOD TO DO , FOR ME, AT THIS PARTICULAR POINT IN TIME, IS.... TO SEND ME A GIRL, THAT''S NOT ONLY SWEET, HONEST, CUTE, AND FUNNY, BUT.... SOMEONE WHO'S NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK HER TRUTH AND CALL ME OUT ON THINGS THAT NOT ONLY OFFEND HER, BUT MAKE HER FEEL LESS THAN, WHO SHE REALLY IS / SUPPOSE TO BE! SOMEONE WHO NOT ONLY WANTS TO GROW WITH ME, LAUGH WITH ME, BULID WITH ME, BUT... SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO BE WITH ME, AS MUCH AS I WANT TO BE WITH HER, FOR THE LONG HAUL! AND... THEN SOME! - VIRGO
I need a healthy relationships..i just broke up with my toxic relationship just two weeks. But his trying to come back give me more advice how to manage this kind of person
Am passing the same thing respect but we have two children together am walking away but he is referencing now i don't know what do to we are together for 6years now but no marriage
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Finally I am dating a healthy man and it feels good. It didn’t come easy. I healed a lot of my childhood trauma.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Yass!!
Wonderful! It is a great feeling!
Same here💯 #7years two people have to be on the same page with hailing elevated through every hurdle or issue they go through being together
Bonus sign: you wouldn’t have to question if you’re in a good relationship , there wouldn’t be a reason to hesitate or think about it.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Exactly sweetheart! 🥰🌸
Yeah i agree but for some people a real point of view can help a great relationship to be better... Very humble always room for growth .. I love my husband and i know he is right for me but never a afraid to grow... The more you know...
@@mikamika2508 Thank you for sharing, I appreciate hearing from you!
@@mikamika2508 Absolutely. your right dear. 🥰
I broke up a relationship after 5 years because he doesn't believe in marriage. Better thing I did. I know I should have done this before, but it's never too late to fix things in life.
You learned from that mistake riiiight? ❤️🩹
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Unfortunately most of us learned this the hard way, but we learned.
Best of luck to finding what I also want, that's marriage.
Disrespect will kill a relationship quicker than anything else.
HEALTHY FEELS GOOD.....TOXIC DOES NOT !!!!! 🌟
You're absolutely right!
Stephan this good 🙏. Another sign of a perfect relationship is when you both together make a positive impact on other people’s lives, whether that’s the lives of a few or many.
You're absolutely right thank you for sharing!
🙏❤️
Awesome message…Use it!! 💯🌸
AMEN!SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
I know I’m in a freaking fantastic relationship. Though, this is my first official one! Even my therapist was like I knocked it out of the park with this first one. I just wanna keep my relationship healthy and not get too much in my head and self sabotage. This man is so AMAZING! He is so caring, kind, responsible, has good character, is self aware and continues to work on himself. He is such an adorable human. Yet, someone I look up to and respect. Oooohhhh and he’s FINE TOO! Look, even my friends give me the head nod when they meet him. He is amazing and we have similar values and wants in life. Yep, I found the one. Thing is we are very similar, even our habit to overthink. I just wanna keep it healthy, but I’m scared I’ll mess up and I realized he’s scared of messing up too. How can we ease the anxiety?
Congratulations on meeting "The One". I think I met "The One" too. The thing I was doing to mess it up was overthinking. I am working to stop overthinking. I still do it sometimes, but I'm more likely to catch it before I text it. If I do text it, I hopefully catch it and apologize. My own personal peace grew. My personal peace has helped me to enjoy the relationship.
Realize that you're on the same page and that you will both eventually and inevitably mess up. You both seem very compatible and happy. Just do that, don't worry. ♥️. If one of you slips, forgive quickly. It's not about not messing up, it's about forgiving when someone does and never choosing anyone but them. Take care and I hope that helps 😊. It seems like you won't do anything that can't be forgiven.
Happy for u ,
12th point: “deterioration of spirit”
Thank you for that Stephan…this speaks volumes to me ❤️
My pleasure ❤
I recommend a man who helped me get my ex back after the separation, now my partner is back, all thanks to him, he can help you too
Yes! Stephan I just mention to a person how dysfunctional has been accepted as normal because a lot of people is experiencing it.
Thank you for sharing. It definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!
These points are excellent. Your wisdom on the the topic of identifying healthy relationships is so refreshing. Thank you so much for sharing with those of us who truly desire to get it right. God bless you and the messages you sincerely want people to get.
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God bless you as well!
I recommend a man who helped me get my ex back after the separation, now my partner is back, all thanks to him, he can help you too
ANEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! AUG 2021
You can’t punish the next person for what the last person did or didn’t do
Great video. The unhealthy partners I’ve had always felt that their strong feelings justified bad behavior, so I especially appreciate what you said about disagreeing versus being disrespectful.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
A lot of things that you listed are Bible principles, that’s why I believe they’re so effective. My favorite one is Ephesians 4:26 “ be wrathful but do not sin; do not let the sun set while you are still angry.” It really shows a lack of communication, problems will only build up, and eventually resentment will set up root.
❤ 🙂 Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that. Communication is definitely key!
Yay! I'm so happy seeing more and more people talk about Healthy relationships and promoting this subject on RUclips. Thank you for your contribution! And to all parents...teach your kids and lead by example! Respect your children folks.
This List of 12 Signs is excellent. I love how you explain each point thoroughly and give examples of what healthy looks like in each instance. For those of us who grew up with narcissistic or mentally unhealthy parents, you showed us what is possible and achievable if we put in the work and do it together. Thank you so much for your wisdom and expertise. 😇❤💯
So glad I watched this video..because lately I have been questioning my relationship and its really because we dont know how to communicate without it escalating into an argument. This video really helped me to look at myself and work on things with my partner.
I'm happy that this has been helpful to you and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 😂😂😩
I hope everything is going well for you 🙏
Don’t just show up to a relationship, you both have to have a least mastered some of the points and are actively working on the rest and even better if you are both at the same level 😊
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Truly spend your time embracing the challenge of keeping a relationship healthy and less time embracing Tik toc challenges . ❤️
This is so much counsil session in one video. Without knowledge we perish.
Excellent video. Agree, with all of your 12 key points. I think once you establish your partner as a best friend the communication flows, the conversations are deep and loving, and you begin to understand each other beyond the layers. Knowing someone at their core and trusting them with with your heart is definitely a great sign you have a loving relationship. It is what makes you want to pour into them and uplift them because the love is so deep and genuine. Once you have a foundation that is established on mutual trust, respect, and friendship that helps to build the physical intimacy and creates that lasting bond of love. Yes, even loving relationships need space. Love is freedom as the partner should never feel bound or controlled. Mainly, when love is there you level up. All areas of your life start to improve. Thank you for the video. Bless up.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!
Very few are capable of this today! I agree however!
@@adostu7179 People are certainly capable, if they are willing to make the effort and sacrifice for the greater good. When you release the ego, true love is all about giving, and unconditional love, the way God loves.
love this
Every young adult needs to hear this and think about it before getting into a committed relationship. Such great advice here and I wish someone would have shared this with me when I was younger...except Stephan wasn't born yet lol.
A healthy relationship feels exhilarating!! 💞
I loved your video. It's nice to hear what my husband and I have been living. It's not easy. Real love requires real work. We are 38yrs been together since 19yrs married at 25. Have an 11yr and have custody of my 11yr niece. He also has a 17yr daughter that we love that doesn't live with us. I love him so much. I'm still so in love to the fact that it brought me to you. I have been watching your videos to do all I can to help with my continued growth on becoming the best version of myself to make sure I'm taking care of him just as well as he is and has been taking care me and everyone else. He has been so patient with me over these years as he has been helping me to better communicate and put logic and another's perspective into view above emotions and as a Libra that's not easy lol as we've gotten to know each other. Hes my best friend. I trust him more than myself and his family has become mine and vice versa. We love spending time together and I understand he needs his video games after work to decompress even though it cuts into our time/sleep time. We both spend everyday together working from home as I have Epilepsy and yet we love cuddling at night to go to sleep. I'm so thankful 🙏. Thank you for this. 🥰
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 🥰
Wow I am going to have to look at this again to get all this excellent information. Thank you!!
My pleasure ❤
PEOPLE WHO FEEL LIKE MARRIAGE IS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER WILL HAVE NO LEGAL RIGHTS AND THE COURT DOSEN'T RECONIZE RIDE OR DIE'S.....
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Ewww shit cold blooded😂😩
Your wisdom is changing me, and shining light on many of my misguided beliefs about myself. I’m on your healing path, and I’m so grateful. Thank you.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
AGREE......
Perfectly said Tessa! I am with you on this!
@@annmacdonald7875 me to
Thank you for the elaboration of the importance of shared values….. I’m learning it’s so important, no matter how small the value. Scripture says “ How can two walk together lest they agree” Sometimes love means to walk away for the benefit of both persons.
Do not comform to this world but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind... stay strong in your walk bro
Am in a LDR but we hit the 12 signs u mention thanks to know our relationship is healthy
13TH SIGN YOUR IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP......YOU BOTH LISTEN AND UNDERSTAND STEPHAN......
lol, 🙂 thank you!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks STEPH THANK YOU....
Lols, this is key 😁
@VASHTI KELLY My pleasure ❤
@@alanstevens75 ❤ 🙂 Thank you!
have friends like that..the communication is off..they cut me off each time I try to express myself..they dont go into deep conversations..and what they talk about they dont give a full explanation ..one yawns when I try to give more details about a subject I bring..and another one is on the defensive for each comment I make on what he says..and there is nothing inappropriate..
I have decided to hang out by myself too..and hopefully meet more people.
My Partner with power she never worries she's never put in compromising position because her partner has power he protects her 24/7
She would never disrespect him that's what makes him love her and respect her.
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I really love this advice you gave today. It was well given.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Beautiful video. I agree. I am looking forward to this type of relationship with my Kingdom Spouse. Letting God check the boxes. ❤
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching!
I think your content is fantastic. It feels on point. I believe you have helped a lot of people have a more satisfying and healthy relationship with the guidance you provide through your videos. Thank you Stephan
Yes, getting better and getting healed!!
I love this video ,this was educating a I needed this.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
Just met a guy on dating app. We both got off of it after two weeks. Things seem to be ok right now. We will see! ❤we are both great communicators. This helps since he’s on vacation for the winter in Europe. We FaceTime
Excellent Relationship Coach!
Thank you!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks
Thank You!
I started listening to you and another older wise spiritual leader and it's been very helpful in this area of my life which I've complicated as well as allowed others to manipulate (internally and externally where the the "victim" can turn into the "enabler" or "abuser").
Your videos and books go from shedding light on the "warning signs of an unhealthy relationship/person, meanwhile sharing Wisdom nuggets teaching us to seek and implement opportunities to a more healthier relationship...
refreshing and enlightening thanks Coach!😇👑🙏
We will conflict if you cant agree with THE DOCUMENTS OF what is right..BUT you on I feel ..i feel. You out my life a rocket 🚀
Great video! I’m also glad you addressed that “marriage being a piece of paper” statement. That one irks me to no end. If it was just a piece of paper, the 🏳️🌈 LGBTQ+ community would not have fought so hard for the right to marry. Furthermore, people would not be so afraid to take their relationships to the next level if that were so.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
Truth
Thank you for that encouragement and information. God bless you and stay safe.
👀I'm definitely here for this cheat sheet 🤔
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
I agree relationship and marriage you should be on the same page or have the same values and have a connection but first allowing Christ to lead
And he is key to healthy
@@withapinchofsteph8044 I agree wholeheartedly thank you
You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing!
I pray everyone finds one
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Great Advice🙏🏾❤️ Thanks for sharing!!
False Perceptions👏👏 Yes!!! Many think some toxic traits are normal, but again, to have a healthy relationship, both must be committed to evolving and bettering oneself to give the best version to the other🙏 God should be your Advisor, oh and Stephan too☺ Have a blessed weekend, thank you for this video🙏
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
I SWEAR YOUR ON POINT WITH THIS ONE TOTALLY 💙💙❤❤😊😊😀😀
Great video! Extremely helpful!
I have no grudges in this healthy relationship its fine with me having you listening in your coaching. I trust and respect you so don't bother some thinking that I will not agree or whatever I'm favorably that I'm in a good path so, thank you so much some guidance you are giving in this relationship.
I trust as much as you give me to trust. What I mean is I'll trust you as long as you're doing the right things and walking a straight line as I am also but the minute I confirm you're doing something out the way all my trust is really shaky I'm sorry 😐
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Thanks for opening my eyes right from day one , I've been following you back to back from 2018 till date...and you've been the best so far...but I prefer being happily single than being in a relationship where I'll be taken for granted...I've invested into the wrong relationship several times, and I don't want to keep on repeating same shit...am tired n I think the best is for me to keep on working on my success n nothing more, I still believe In true love but I know the right man won't stress me 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks Stephan for your video. Your videos really have educated me. I agree with you 💯 percent. Communication is the key. I am a firm believer on that. You looking handsome as always😍🥰🤴🏿🖤
❤ 🙂 Thank you I appreciate your feedback!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I have a question why do some women stay in toxic and abusive relationships and marriages. For example i have a friend that is in a relationship with a man who mess with other women and he don't care if she finds out or not. Then on top of that he talks bad about by friend but he is still living with her. I don't get it. He left her twice for two other women. I guess those women really didn't want him because he came right back to my friend. I don't understand her. I am just tired of her complaining about the same mess i told her to get rid of.
@@tashamack8701 She will learn one day I never forget when my ex left me in my dying state I bounce right back stronger than before he wants to get back with me I tell him about is self and that was it we live we learn
@@gracemitchell373 i am glad you found your worth. That is important. Self love is everything.
My son keeps trying to stick his nose into my relationship but I put a 🤚🏽 to it. Then he involved his Dad in it and then I had to block his Dad too 😳... I'm still working on the other points..
You got this and I pray you’re able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
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Boys always be the one to do it my sons are like but not the girls I would love Stephan to do a video on this
The unlikely happened and after a tumultuous life of trauma terrible relationships and health / business problems (due to my inability to put myself first)… I met this amazing well mannered man who shares value/viewpoints and it feels veeeeerrrryyy different when we meet. He’s consciously holding back his lust which I’m so thankful for. Now, I’m not a Christian and he’s more into philosophy… but I am deeply uncertain how to take this forward as I do think the best to live by are the Ten Commandments. We’re both end 30‘s and have had our own troubles and experiences… how do I proceed? I mean…. I’m not fully done cleaning up all the mess re health/business/self-work. It’s early days… how to know if we’re meant for one another?!
Amazing, never too old to learn hey... Thank you Stephan... Was good to look and learn from your speech. Bless you.
Awesome relationship coach. When I speak like this people think I'm crazy and asking to much.🙅
Amen! thank you for that intro!
My pleasure ❤
I Approve This Video 💯 Zero Disagreement Over Here 💅
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The most important relationship is your relationship with God when you have a good relationship with the Lord everything else falls into place
💯 yes!
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I supported my gf always, she has a very pessimistic nature and I stayed close to her, supported and showed her love, and told her to not worry, she will achieve everything, for anything, she has me. Ok she achieved everything, finished her Master, found a job in the bank, and after she started work in a bank, she said to me " I love you less, I'm thinking about breaking up with you, don't write me always" and so on, now she ignores my messages. It hurts a lot, spent a significant amount of time supporting her, then I met her family, she met my family, both liked each other, everything was perfect, now she lost love for me, and probably found a boy in the bank :/ hurts
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks Stephan, I really appreciate it
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Stephan, new news, she told me tonight that she was sleeping with her teammate
@@michaelshollaj6428I'm so sorry to hear that. For me it sounds like you were always there for her, supported her no matter what (you are a great person). She grew and now she don't have "a usage" for you anymore. This can be a common dynamics in unhealthy relationships which are imbalanced. I wish that you find a great girlfriend who gives back the same positive energy as you deserve. 😊
@@gaiagensouki Thanks a lot, I really appreciate your positive comment ☺after 2 months, no contact, I leveled up in life, everything is going great, and 2 months ago she told me "I don't want to see you again" while 2 days ago, out of nowhere, she liked a photo I posted in Instagram 😅what can't kill you, just it makes you stronger :)) and staying always positive, respect for you :D
This video help a lot how I feel
Glad to hear that and thank you for your response ❤
Awesome points, thank you Stephan. I have several of your books & appreciate the honest & direct consistency in yr messages (via yr Podcast/RUclips) & books. God Bless Yr Platform
Thank You for sharing !! 👣💓🙏
My pleasure ❤
Excellent tips Steph ❤😍
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I couldn’t cut off my ex at first but towards 8 month before it end I step up
Where is Mrs. Stephan Speaks? What do you base your expertise on?
You are always on spot! I love listening to you! 🙏
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Great video & Pure Energetic!💜 In addition... Our partnership becomes a journey of evolution, and the two individuals have an opportunity to expand more than they could alone. Deep satisfaction and long-term fulfillment arise as a result. Happi home, Happi Life! ❤
Well said and thank you for sharing!
As always 💯!
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When conversations occur it usually one sided my started conversations are skip, cut short and not acknowledge.
You are so right
Yep the religion thing can be a real issue. I married an atheist, I’m a Christian. It became a huge problem in our marriage about 15 years in. And let’s just say I’m eight years out.
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AGAIN, ALL THAT I ASK GOD TO DO , FOR ME, AT THIS PARTICULAR POINT IN TIME, IS....
TO SEND ME A GIRL, THAT''S NOT ONLY SWEET, HONEST, CUTE, AND FUNNY, BUT....
SOMEONE WHO'S NOT AFRAID TO SPEAK HER TRUTH AND CALL ME OUT ON THINGS THAT NOT ONLY OFFEND HER, BUT MAKE HER FEEL LESS THAN, WHO SHE REALLY IS / SUPPOSE TO BE!
SOMEONE WHO NOT ONLY WANTS TO GROW WITH ME, LAUGH WITH ME, BULID WITH ME, BUT...
SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO BE WITH ME, AS MUCH AS I WANT TO BE WITH HER, FOR THE LONG HAUL!
AND... THEN SOME!
- VIRGO
Thank you for sharing and I pray that you receive the partner who's truly best for you. The one God has for you 🙏
Great clarity and expression, I pray you find each other soon 🙏
Oil and water don't mix, when it comes to different spiritual believes.
All your vids are on points
Perfectly said 👏
Mega educative👌
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Thanks...
My pleasure ❤
And well received.
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
No thank you.
I don't want to get hurt. I hate getting hurt.
I need a healthy relationships..i just broke up with my toxic relationship just two weeks. But his trying to come back give me more advice how to manage this kind of person
I have to have my me time daily, like an hour away from any distractions.
I'd LOVE to have A TALK HOUR!!!
Looking handsome as usual with your amazing advice.
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You're welcome.❣️😊
Weird , had all of that but he chose his freedom over me, very suddenly.. weird . Just thinking if all of it was a lie … 😏
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
God help me to heal…🙏🏾💕thanks shalom
Love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amen, true
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Is it possible to have a "me time " in a long distance relationship?
🤥 Who in their right mind would Disagree with this Valuable information here? 🌸
Money is paper too
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@@flaviamuhluri if y'all not married he really not obligated to...not trying to be mean just trying to be your online sister.
More great content!
How do you feel about open relationships
Am passing the same thing respect but we have two children together am walking away but he is referencing now i don't know what do to we are together for 6years now but no marriage
Yeah this is foreign to me lol. One day though
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Hmmm.
When god send you your wife best husband ever pray God send me some one like that.
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