days in my life & new year's resolutions

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @victoriawalker7792
    @victoriawalker7792 2 года назад +209

    We overestimate what we can do in a day, but underestimate what we can do in a year.

  • @anthonyholton2886
    @anthonyholton2886 2 года назад +153

    "Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can, tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

  • @hannahdigitals
    @hannahdigitals 2 года назад +278

    Your videos always make me tempted to move to the British countryside

    • @victoriageorgopoulou4292
      @victoriageorgopoulou4292 2 года назад +2

      hahahaha but do not....well unless you are British and resilient....or writing a book etc...

    • @victoriageorgopoulou4292
      @victoriageorgopoulou4292 2 года назад +2

      @@Buzzj4k hahaha this is hilarious...and soooo cute British....I am Greek and used to live within the multicultural safety of M25 ... I of course liked my ocasional visits to the British countryside but I instantly turned into something semi-exotic and rare , whereas in London I was simply....just another Londoner working in the NHS...

    • @victoriageorgopoulou4292
      @victoriageorgopoulou4292 2 года назад +1

      @UCyvtBHHN6deefzpDGw5tfpg Mmm Blackpool...I am not sure if had visited Blackpool, if yes it would have been for a psychology conference. I also lived in Birmingham for two years and I was commuting to Wolverhampton while there. By the way in my distorted little foreigner's viewpoint....almost anything outside of London is "countryside" not in the sense of lovely spaces and greenery but again in that sense of being exotic. It was amazing how safe and welcomed one felt while living in London which was hard to replicate anywhere else. Having said that my Wolverhapmpton job was super too and very inclusive so part of it all was in my mind too and how I had interpreted some of the countryside experiences (like being asked too many questions as in why do you work here instead of Greece , why do you have an unusual accent etc etc). I left UK back in 2009 and have not been able to visit since...which is soooo strange. If I go there now it will instantly feel like home...and it would be amazing to meet my friends after all those years. You know what ? I have to plan a trip sometime soon. thank you for this reminiscent conversation.

    • @BrewSwayin
      @BrewSwayin 2 года назад

      Me Also

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 2 года назад +7

      Same. Her house & area are like my perfect dream.

  • @violettiger21
    @violettiger21 2 года назад +20

    I'm a 41 year old mother of 2 and I love watching your videos Ruby! I'm in my final year of a degree, and I often take inspiration from you, thank you 😊

  • @laracastagnetti3183
    @laracastagnetti3183 2 года назад +91

    Hi ruby, one of my resolutions is going to bed before 1am and wake up before 10 am. I struggled with depression a lot in the past years, and my sleep schedule was really bad and that didn't help at all. Now I'm trying to do better❤️(ps:sorry for my english, it's not my first language)

    • @komorebi7995
      @komorebi7995 2 года назад +18

      Wishing you lots of success with that! I have a similar goal. Also, your English is really good, truly, no need to put a disclaimer!

    • @fatmabatmaz2
      @fatmabatmaz2 2 года назад +5

      Ah same I go to bed at like 1,30 when I have school tomorrow because of anxiety

    • @p.archmentproductions
      @p.archmentproductions 2 года назад +4

      Wishing you all the best!!

  • @veronikakrejcarkova
    @veronikakrejcarkova 2 года назад +5

    5:20 The Moldau by Bedřich Smetana. Honestly, one of the pieces that make me proud of my country. ❤️

  • @reevex1090
    @reevex1090 Год назад +1

    She is such a comfort person....i love her very much

  • @larrymilliken288
    @larrymilliken288 2 года назад +24

    One of the best New Year’s resolutions for me is to live one day at a time-not fretting over yesterday or borrowing from tomorrow. Your comments were very practical and logical, as they always are. I just began Wuthering Heights and very glad I’ve finally got around to reading it, but how it yanks my emotions-I declare. I’ve been deep in Dickens for the past couple of months, finishing Oliver Twist, halfway through David Copperfield, and almost done with Nicholas Nickleby-each one a superb reading experience. Happy New Year, Ruby, and if you feel inclined tell us more about your part-time job and the Masters Degree program you want to pursue.

  • @studybuddy9501
    @studybuddy9501 2 года назад +33

    You never fail to motivate me! Thx ruby….😊❤

  • @radiant_charly
    @radiant_charly 2 года назад +3

    I do like what you said about resolutions being made at any time of the year. I treat my resolutions like a running to-do list for the year so that I feel like I can add new ones as they appear or remove ones that I placed on there but I no longer feel aligned with.
    Really important to remember that you don't have to achieve every goal you put out there, especially if it no longer is suitable for the direction you're heading🙏🏻

  • @morganelova
    @morganelova 2 года назад +13

    Hi Ruby! One of my resolutions is to follow a 30-day yoga program and I have been doing great so far. I also decided to try and read all of the books I own that are on my TBR before buying any new books... That's ambitious ahah. I wish you a happy new year and a productive week!

  • @kannot1
    @kannot1 2 года назад +5

    She is doing her master's💞👏🏼👏🏼 just a reminder that each of you should picture your future life and how to get there. A lot of people study all their life when many successful people are gaining experience outside of school👀 pick wisely, friends!

    • @inspiredby-sx7wy
      @inspiredby-sx7wy 2 года назад +1

      Well,I do both! Already worked at five companies and doing a double-masters right now 😊

  • @braininabab
    @braininabab 2 года назад +1

    Watching you talk about setting a better night routine at 2:30am in the morning whilst drinking coffee lmao- I'm working on that as well, and I've definitely been using that reassurance of 'one bad day doesn't mean you have to give up'; my sleep used to be all over the place, esp in my last year of college and first year of uni where I was just completely burnt out and not addressing my mental health issues. You've been a big reassurance, role model and help for me for years since you were making videos in college and I was in year 11. Beautifully convenient to be able to get advice from someone's videos who was always one academic year ahead of me 😂ty for everything you do :)

  • @thetragicyouth
    @thetragicyouth 2 года назад +4

    Excellent point about 100% consistency being unrealistic! Presumably that means you have days that aren't structured? What do you do on unstructured days - long lie-ins? Spawl on the sofa in front of the TV? Lie in the bath for hours? Daydream? 😇

  • @marlieshogeveen
    @marlieshogeveen 2 года назад

    I love the way you are approaching resolutions, with the example you gave of "I'm the kind of person who drinks enough water", and that 100% consistency isn't realistic. Literally already saying you're the kind of person who does a particular thing, to really embrace that idea so it becomes more natural, part of who you are. Maybe it's also worth internalising the idea that "I'm the kind of person who doesn't need 100% consistency to keep on doing my best to live out my goals". To literally praise yourself every time you've continued doing your best after you've 'failed'. This way you'll actually never fail, cause you've only learned. We only fail when we give up trying. 💫

  • @eltrym
    @eltrym Месяц назад

    You are so inspiring! Thank you Ruby.

  • @Misha13ify
    @Misha13ify 2 года назад +2

    Hi Ruby, I just wanted to thank you for this cozy video, today i'm just being very anxious and overwhelmed by tommorrow final oral exam, i keep thinking negative thoughts about myself, but your video helped me with my anxiety and i feel slightly better, so just thank you for you content :) Sending best regards for the New Year as well, I hope your master studies application ends up well :)

  • @kerryelliott9718
    @kerryelliott9718 2 года назад +6

    Love your content you always encourage me to be myself and productive
    I hope that you and everyone that you love is well

    • @kerryelliott9718
      @kerryelliott9718 2 года назад

      One video that I think you could do if you have time is a Video about every youtube content creator you would recommend watching and subscribe to

  • @rossrreyes
    @rossrreyes 2 года назад

    Your videos make me happy. I see and know that the world can be quiet and beautiful.

  • @thesmellof_cinnamon2521
    @thesmellof_cinnamon2521 2 года назад +4

    Hi Ruby! My resolution is to don't base my self-worth on work. I am struggling with looking for a job after finished university. It is a hard time because at school/ uni I just knew what to do to accomplish something. Now lots of depends not only on me.
    It would be lovely if you did some live time to study or write with me again! It was very motivating and just a nice time with you, tea, and books. 😍

  • @p.archmentproductions
    @p.archmentproductions 2 года назад +2

    Babel changed my life. I had never felt so seen. I devoured that book. Especially as a female of colour working in a very white-male occupation that is meant to "serve queen and country", and who went to a gothic, secluded university on a peninsula, I felt like R.F. Kuang looked into my soul and wrote my experiences on a page. There were some parts/conversations in the book that were so accurate and that mirrored my real life experiences so well that I felt like she had spied on my life and the wrote a book about it. At least the beginning part.
    Anyways, I hope you enjoy the book Ruby. I have never been so excited for someone to read a book. Can't wait to hear your opinion on it in a future video!

  • @amandalarssontv1385
    @amandalarssontv1385 2 года назад

    This is such a lovely video to start my day with. I love the calmness and reality of it. For me it's been a little hectic the first days of the year so having a slow morning is so important to me.

  • @Oliver389
    @Oliver389 2 года назад +7

    Ruby's vlogs are always so aesthetic! ✨🍂
    They give off the perfect cozy vibes ❤️❤️

  • @harryjamessmithmusic7762
    @harryjamessmithmusic7762 2 года назад +2

    Rewatching. You know, you also have a very nice voice. It's so relaxed, pleasant, light, friendly and welcoming. I like it. lol

  • @Differentlife-np7kz
    @Differentlife-np7kz Год назад

    I am a non-native english speaker,soo,you inspire me soo much for reading ❤

  • @SHRATA
    @SHRATA 2 года назад

    Your voice is so soothing and soulful..feels like keep listening 💗

  • @matildetorterolo8802
    @matildetorterolo8802 2 года назад +5

    Hi Ruby, how are you? I truly love all of your videos, you bring so much peace and happiness to our lives. Sending you lots of love from Uruguay! Saludos!

  • @lina5699
    @lina5699 2 года назад

    My new years resolution is to build some skills, consistently keep up with learning, create income stream for myself and also continue writing my book.

  • @felixiadisomma5472
    @felixiadisomma5472 2 года назад

    hi Ruby! Watching your videos makes me really motivated, I always have a productive day afterwards. I just wanted to say how much I am grateful to you! :')

  • @Ggs-t6u
    @Ggs-t6u 2 года назад +1

    Ruby. thank you so much for posting. I was having such a horrible day today, and lost hope in everything. But, thanks to you for posting, I've regained that hope. I love your content and videos !! Keep posting :)

  • @inazerega
    @inazerega 2 года назад

    My resolutions for this year are cooking more diversely and listening to more music! I really like your mindset- we can totally set goals for ourselves at any time

  • @cunninglilcutie
    @cunninglilcutie 2 года назад +5

    I love the style of your room Ruby! I really wanna get one of those bust statue things for my desk, it’s so dark academia

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  2 года назад +2

      You should! The design is so beautiful 😻

  • @polymath19
    @polymath19 2 года назад

    Hi ruby I have been watching your channel since you were in high school and then university all the way until now because your videos have always motivated me to study, and I enjoy watching them.Thank you

  • @Elbrownn
    @Elbrownn 2 года назад +1

    The new years chat was extremely important and somthing a lot of people needed to hear happy new year! 😊

  • @alexst.8789
    @alexst.8789 2 года назад

    MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR🎄🎄❤️
    Congratulations on your new job! You are born to teach, aren't you? This channel proves that. Keep inspiring new generations of students/pupils.
    All the best!! 🎄🥇🏆

  • @jasmine9406
    @jasmine9406 2 года назад +1

    I honestly love watching your videos. The aesthetic,music, edits, You, your voice.. everything is just beautiful and relaxing and motivating at the same time. 🤍🤍

  • @jasmincordelia5477
    @jasmincordelia5477 Год назад

    Hello Ruby!:) Just wanted to say that you are the most classy RUclipsr I have come acrossed…stay that way! Classy n intellectual:) cheers to your channel

  • @PlanetImo
    @PlanetImo 2 года назад

    I find timers help me to stay focused, too. Really useful advice.

  • @architadhar2296
    @architadhar2296 2 года назад

    I can't tell you how much I love the NASA outfit you were wearing, omg!!

  • @juliapatterson4962
    @juliapatterson4962 2 года назад

    I also have started to develop a morning and night routine, and trying to get to sleep earlier. Now it’s Saturday morning, and I’ve gotten up before my dad😁

  • @thedarkladyofangmar6184
    @thedarkladyofangmar6184 2 года назад

    I LOVE seeing your dog in your videos, Ruby. She's gorgeous!

  • @giuliapariz
    @giuliapariz 2 года назад

    love 🤍 happy new year ruby

  • @likaulianova8711
    @likaulianova8711 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for your video! My NY resolutions aka goals: finish my masters degree, find a work in education and begin a PhD

  • @jamesnoonan9302
    @jamesnoonan9302 2 года назад

    A love as true as Ruby
    Good luck with your masters statement.
    I've been questioning multi-tasking lately. I think when you multitask there's a slippery slope where you start choosing worse tasks to compliment your main task. Like say Ruby reads while brushing her teeth, and eventually she's just grabbing any book to compliment this task to where she's not carefully selecting the book.
    It's something I'm considering.
    Just thought I'd say that.
    One thing I want to work on this year is getting to sleep, and not really working in the night hours. Like if I wake up in the middle of the night with some idea, maybe not acting on it, but resting, and seeing what idea's come in the day time. I think day time idea's tend to be more healthy and even done out of love more, where at night I may be more competing, or trying to get even with someone, or something along those lines.

  • @JuliaEmsmeyer
    @JuliaEmsmeyer 2 года назад +3

    Can you please do a What I Got for Christmas, Ruby!

  • @GoldShadowSociety
    @GoldShadowSociety 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely wonderful Darling… I always enjoy your videos. 🥀

  • @peanutbrittle99
    @peanutbrittle99 2 года назад +1

    Your vlogs are always so wholesome ❤

  • @victoriageorgopoulou4292
    @victoriageorgopoulou4292 2 года назад

    @Ruby there are many things that I enjoy while watching your videos and one of them is that they actually record the makings of a writer...

  • @idk123-rv
    @idk123-rv 2 года назад

    Thank you ruby for the tip of keep trying 💛💛✨ good luck on your masters application ✨

  • @uma_kageyama
    @uma_kageyama 2 года назад

    You really are very inspiring Ruby. I love watching you so much 💖. I just love how dedicated and hardworking you are and it's not easy considering all the distractions that we have around us. I wish to be hardworking like you 🌼💖

  • @leerentremundos
    @leerentremundos 2 года назад +1

    Great video Ruby! I always gather inspiration from you keep up the good work and greetengs from MEXICO 🇲🇽

  • @gabz591
    @gabz591 2 года назад

    You’ve really inspired my channel❤

  • @XeniaSketchbookPages
    @XeniaSketchbookPages 2 года назад +1

    I have never owned an electric blanket, but I understand that this thing would be very useful to me. I work from home and the only thing that saves me is a lot of warm tea during the day.

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  2 года назад +3

      I would highly recommend getting one! They’re so cosy and also very cost effective 💛

    • @XeniaSketchbookPages
      @XeniaSketchbookPages 2 года назад

      @@RubyGranger8 Thank you for your answer! I hope they are available in our stores.

  • @happy_reads
    @happy_reads 2 года назад

    You are amazing Ruby ❤thank you for the time you spent doing theses videos ✨✨

  • @gillschmid5267
    @gillschmid5267 2 года назад +1

    Happy New year Ruby. Love watching and listening to you. You are truly inspirational. Thank you.

  • @littlelilly93
    @littlelilly93 2 года назад +13

    You’re working in a school? How perfect for you! I hope your pupils are well behaved for you! Happy new year Ruby❤

    • @RubyGranger8
      @RubyGranger8  2 года назад +11

      I am LOVING it honestly! 🥰📚

    • @Yesica1993
      @Yesica1993 2 года назад

      @@RubyGranger8 Wow, I'm happy for you!

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair 2 года назад

    0:42 Some of the wlw at my former high school noticed me reading this book and invited me to their book club at this café. They had hoped they would have one more wlw join them- I disappointed them a bit when I shared I had a boyfriend, but we developed wonderful friendships within the group and we still make sure to meet up a few times a year even if we’re at uni. and have new friends and some have family situations to tend to.

    • @hsoderberg6505
      @hsoderberg6505 2 года назад

      Curious as to meaning of wlw & why having a boyfriend meant you couldn't join the club.

    • @connie6738
      @connie6738 2 года назад

      @@hsoderberg6505wlw means women loving women, and so i think it was a queer book club :)

  • @almotivations4341
    @almotivations4341 2 года назад

    Live closed to nature, save the feel

  • @ElizabethEllisOU
    @ElizabethEllisOU 2 года назад

    Have lunch every day is my resolution. BTW I think I like your day in the life videos best.

  • @bryanbearsley8314
    @bryanbearsley8314 2 года назад

    i hope you are having a good new year ruby. and i am so happy 2023 is here 🥰❤

  • @cozycrimecorner
    @cozycrimecorner 2 года назад

    I love horoscopes. I'm not into astrology, but they either give you some nice inspiration for the day or they're outright funny.
    At my 2015 excavation we had that huge astrology magazine at the camper, it was sort of tradition started by the late head of excavation to read that every morning. It was one of those super inaccurate, wild and over the top ones by a local "guru" who had his portrait on every single page. We had so much fun following it, especially the "fashion advice" that your stars apparently commanded you that day 😂

  • @athiyyawikantari8884
    @athiyyawikantari8884 2 года назад

    Aaa cant wait to hear your thoughts about babel!

  • @MtMcKinley
    @MtMcKinley 2 года назад

    ive been waiting to get my hands on one of your yearly planners but they were all sold out until i saw the new one in the description when i first played the video. it went through and so excited to get it in!!!

  • @defineddisabledlife3463
    @defineddisabledlife3463 2 года назад +1

    What program do you use to write your books? Do you use word, notion, or something else? Could you please do a video about how you plan out and write your books? With my goals. I use the success, motivation, etc. I also use the ideal progress over perfection. Using these I’ve been able to loose 20kg in 4 months in preparation for my upcoming surgery, I’m getting double below the knee amputations and I’m planning during my recovery I want to work on beginning to write an autobiography, and in the future write a fiction novel, hence the earlier questions.

  • @limeparticle
    @limeparticle 2 года назад +1

    Oh hey I’m reading Babel too! Really loving it so far ❤

  • @mariakurko2032
    @mariakurko2032 2 года назад

    I would like to publish my poems which are highly influenced by Emily Dickinson's poetry. I think that I will also write a poem every single day to keep me happy.
    Happy New Year Ruby! ❤📖

  • @harryjamessmithmusic7762
    @harryjamessmithmusic7762 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful video, Ruby! Good luck!

  • @xristynna
    @xristynna 2 года назад +1

    love your videos Ruby 🥰

  • @lucindasspace3135
    @lucindasspace3135 2 года назад

    Missed you Ruby!! Hope you are doing well and having a good start to the new year💗

  • @jade.estelle4850
    @jade.estelle4850 2 года назад +3

    What age are you working with in the school Ruby? Your presentation looked wonderful! Would love to hear what Masters program you are applying for too if you're happy to share x

  • @chocolatecupcake2172
    @chocolatecupcake2172 2 года назад +1

    This video just made my day :)

  • @khileesachan3200
    @khileesachan3200 2 года назад

    Thank u ruby 💜
    For giving your precious time to motivate us!!!

  • @julissaespinosa880
    @julissaespinosa880 2 года назад +1

    I just finished reading Babel and it was amazing. I hope you enjoy it too, Ruby

  • @rautengarten6872
    @rautengarten6872 2 года назад +4

    Beans on pizza...ever seen anything more British? 😂 ❤

  • @emilygranger
    @emilygranger 2 года назад +2

    Love u💗💗💗

  • @felixalvarez7296
    @felixalvarez7296 2 года назад

    Amazing video, hope you fulfill your goals for this year and thanks for motivating the world

  • @TheTraskinator42
    @TheTraskinator42 2 года назад

    That opening shot was fantastic!

  • @journey.to.blackcoat
    @journey.to.blackcoat 2 года назад

    Such a beautiful video ... glad I am watching it before going to bed 🛌 😴. I absolutely love your voice over videos 📹

  • @elleabe6463
    @elleabe6463 2 года назад

    Hope ur doing well Ruby...been subscribed since 2017...take care of your mental and spiritual health🥰😘

  • @charissagault9262
    @charissagault9262 2 года назад

    I feel myself getting tired in the afternoons every day, but somehow really awake at night, when I know I should be going to bed to get enough sleep. (I always wake up early even when I go to bed late) Do you have any ideas/tips on how to stay awake and motivated during a slump?

  • @marianpochyly
    @marianpochyly 2 года назад +1

    It´s never too late for new year´s resolutions, so one of them could be to release new videos on Tuesdays. We could call it "Ruby Tuesday" and enjoy the tune from the Stones song as well. 🙂

  • @Cynthia-uf9ro
    @Cynthia-uf9ro 2 года назад

    Happy New Year Ruby!

  • @EE-iw3fy
    @EE-iw3fy 2 года назад

    "I couldn´t sleep so I woke up at 5 am" me, but exclusively during semester break. During semester, I sleep so deeply that my alarms cannot wake me up anymore until about 9:15. Or my alarm is broken, Idk. I´ve missed several lectures because of it and one time even 3 hours of group work (I´m presenting it now because I feel bad for having missed almost half of the whole working process).

  • @carolynmarshall1968
    @carolynmarshall1968 2 года назад

    Happy New Year Ruby! Another chilled vlog x

  • @amm-xn6nr
    @amm-xn6nr 2 года назад +1

    3:07 Your father (or at least I'm assuming so) looks like Pied Piper in this wonderful coat! Have you read the book by Viktor Dyk? It's my favorite classical piece from my country and I'd love to know your opinion on it! 💞

  • @vanessaw3184
    @vanessaw3184 2 года назад

    Hi Ruby!! I have finished one book already almost done with book number 2. 😊😊

  • @marinamullerr
    @marinamullerr 2 года назад

    what an amazing video! ❤️

  • @natedawg9488
    @natedawg9488 2 года назад

    Ruby is so lovely 🥰

  • @emilygranger
    @emilygranger 2 года назад

    I appreciate your work 💞

  • @belh808
    @belh808 2 года назад +1

    I love you so so much 😍🥰

  • @tezzakim7
    @tezzakim7 2 года назад

    Thank you for uploading ☺ 💖💖

  • @emakorbelova6806
    @emakorbelova6806 2 года назад

    Hey Ruby. I want to tell you happy new year

  • @anja8595
    @anja8595 2 года назад +3

    Gosh, Wuthering Heights was such an intense book.

  • @cheninblanc
    @cheninblanc 2 года назад

    Love your videos!

  • @Mia73189
    @Mia73189 2 года назад

    Have you thought of working as a college professor for literature or writing? I feel like you’d love it + be brilliant at it.

  • @mitzloo1933
    @mitzloo1933 2 года назад +2

    For the love of all that’s holy, show us what you got for Christmas.

  • @lucybealll1375
    @lucybealll1375 2 года назад

    I just finished my PhD personal statements! good job on getting yours done :)

  • @Sofiella
    @Sofiella 2 года назад

    You’ll really enjoy that book. I’ve just finished it. It’s amazing. I couldn’t help but notice your bear sat on your bed was he a Christmas present?

  • @Lefthandshake
    @Lefthandshake 2 года назад

    Happy New Year! I'm interested to hear what you think of Babel. I got a copy of it for Christmas and will be starting it this week :)

  • @zedalis
    @zedalis 2 года назад +1

    I keep hoping to run into you at Almack's, Ruby!

    • @rhythmicelegance4670
      @rhythmicelegance4670 2 года назад +1

      I have a printed invitation for that place! Nice historical reference! 💌😉

    • @zedalis
      @zedalis 2 года назад

      @@rhythmicelegance4670 Pencil me in for a waltz?