Nice story. The love they all felt was real. It is hard for father to accept his son as a girl. But the love he felt when seeing his daughter for the first time was priceless.
this one has got to be one of the best stories yet on this channel. it brought up so many emotions that I was weeping through out the story. why oh why was I born with the wrong desires and why I can't subdued them?! big thumbs up!
This brought tears to my eyes. Very well written. I saw so much of myself in Timmy, except he had more of a spine than I did at his age. He had the courage to take the path to his dreams, and I never did. I spent my life being miserable because of it. I'm too old and disabled and poor to even attempt it now. This was a beautiful story with a happy ending. I really liked it.
I am so sorry that you felt you could not transition all those years ago, it is a common story though for many who were born in the 1940's and 50's. Some of us did manage to do it though and were extremely grateful that the medical profession were able to help us. This is why our current government's attempts to prevent age appropriate trans affirmative care needs to be opposed by all caring, compassionate people.
I would not say well written! An attorney is not going to call with his clients “ultimatums”, but send a letter that is professionally wrote in legal ways! Also, John had no proof to back up why he was going to fill for divorce because it’s basically a he said she said situation! Timmy could easily lie to the judge to help ensure he would be in his mother’s custody! Timmy could also mention that his dad abused him & left bruises on him that his mother could back up & say that’s when she told him to leave! Also, since John left, he has willingly had zero contact with his son that can be easily verified by phone records & even neighbors telling the truth that he had not been home since he left like a madman! Research is always important for storytelling!
Wonderful story. I can relate to so much of this. I was never caught by anyone but many times wished I had been. Maybe then I wouldn't have lived a life of regret.
I was in tears through the whole story. I can relate to some aspects of Timmy's experience. When the story mentioned the prayer I felt that the most. I know that prayer by heart for that was always my prayer growing up and I am sure many other trans girl's and trans women's as well. Those who never experience being transgender will never know what we go through just to be who we are.
Hi I have watched this story multiple times and it still upsets me to see the father's angry response when his wife tries to explain about Timmy and picking him up by the arm and holding against a wall
I found a story to be a very wonderful I really enjoyed listening to the store yet brought back a lot of memories of my days when I was younger and I look in the mirror and I see a girl looking back and be all confused
This is the outcome that I was wanting. While it is very hard for a real father to accept a "son",, more so a young pre-teen son to have the deep down true natural feelings of actually being a girl, either parent should ever force the child to be either sex. The child will "balance" things out and it will be the best for them mentally. Excellent story, btw.
I have to add.. The point of acceptance became the point at which the boy decided to just be the girl he truly is and from there think compassion became a door to a better future for them all together.. Dad just couldn't deny what he saw when she walked in the courtroom..
Some little boys are lucky enough to have an understanding mother that actually encourages them to enjoy wearing cute feminine nylon panties and other cute feminine apparel after school!
When I tell people about my grandmother they just don't believe me. he had 4 children, one being my father, and two uncles. an Aunt did not know died at a young age, this crushed gramma. Both her sons as well as my mom's brother had baby boys, they ALL wanted a girl. At a very young age my favorite uncle called me Jeffarina the Ballerina I was so young. Little Jeffy so pretty they all said. They were all, both sides wanting me to be a girl. They got me instead. Gramma always treated me like a female as I aged and she got grandpa to give me hormones basic puberty blockers. I ended up being kinda like Timmy similar problems, an internal battle. Being being born in a males body caused struggles from a very early age, by kindergarten I prayed to God every Sunday to make me a girl. I am an adult woman now.
Wow, how wonderfully written! Without disclosing dire personal information: I have spent over 50 years trying to decide if I am transgendered or "Just" an extremely avid crossdresser. I have been on estrogen and anti-androgens for over 20 years. I am very happy with my handling of my lifelong dance with gender dysphoria. If I had been 30+ years younger...who knows...joyfully I can smile and say that somehow I made the best life decisions (Hint: all my original anatomy is intact) and I have no regrets! And...it's all good...and I consider that backed-up by the fact that I DID NOT cry at all listening to this. -;)
As a boy growing up in the sixties this brought back sad memories as my dad saw me only as a pathetic boy and tried to make a man of me it didn't work just mixed me up till late in life i finally became the woman inside i think my mum knew but back the men controlled the family my dad finally saw me as a woman when he was in his eighties,my mother told me to ignore him my brother and sisters ignore me still,im glad him mum and aunt accepted him totally and his father finally accepted his daughter in the end its just sad he put the family throug all that emotional hurt beforehand
This store is very special to me may God always watch over this family hope he grows up to be a gorgeous lady i will pray for everyone in this family ever night what a brave young person God proud of you T very very very nice store
This is such a beautiful story. And such a wonderfully happy ending. Timmy is so brave to finally come out to his Aunt and mother. Its sad that his father refused to accept it until it was almost to late. Timmy showed alot of intelligence about wanting to take such a big gamble to show up as his real self at the court. Of Course at the end to have such loving parents to accept who he was was the happy ending. Its sad that their are so many of us never get this chance, i know i was a girl since i was 3 years old, but my parents never accepted it. When i was 16 i told them again i was and was kicked out and disowned. Their is still way to much STIGMA even in today's society that many of us attempt suicide and and many never return from it. For the rest of us, we suffer in silence just waiting for the fay our lives come to an end.
It was so much more than cross dressing, it is about truly knowing yourself to be of the opposite sex to what was printed on your birth certificate. Thankfully that can be changed these days. When I received my new one 20 years ago, I sat on the edge of my bed and cried solidly for 30 minutes, tears of joy (and regret that I hadn't been able to do it all those years previously).
This is so well written in such a "realistic way", that it would appear to be written by someone who recounted what had happened, versus penned by a fictional writer. Go figure, the least qualified, least experienced, least informed, namely a "10" year old child, is trusted by the beloved "Aunt" in order to fix a broken family!
My mom caught me wearing a neighbor girls panties. When she asked what I thought she should do about it. I suggested buying me panties and letting me wear them for a week. Didn’t happen. I really wish this had been the outcome
I seen this store over 24 hours ago and i have more comments to add but for right now Mom an dad and aunt r support Timmy let him grow up to be a gorgeous lady
Beautiful story why does this happen we don't understand I think I know how the child feels as I felt that way when I was young but was not as lucky bless her
This was a beautiful story that brought tears flooding down my cheeks because it echoed mine in a lot of ways -I was Timmy, except that I was born at a time (almost 80 years ago) when so little was known about transgender people. I was around 5 at the time I realised that I should have been a girl - and like Timmy, I too prayed to God to turn me into a girl and I felt so alone in the world and that I was the only child to feel this way. However, at the age of 7 the news of Christina Jorgensen filled the front news of the papers. I vividly remember the moment. I was lying on the carpet reading a comic and my father read the story to my mother. My ears pricked up - there was somebody who felt like me and who became a woman. However, after finishing the story my father added his own thoughts - "people like that should be locked away in the Looney Bin, and the key thrown away". My hopes, dreams and prayers came crashing down around me and I quickly realised that I would have to hide my truth from my parents - or I would lose them forever. This haunted my pre-adolescent and adolescent years. The strain finally told though and at the age of just 26 I tried to take my own life as I just could not continue like this - thankfully the suicide attempt was unsuccessful. It was then I approached psychiatric help and counselling, finally being referred to one of the few Gender Identity Clinics and eventually became the whole woman that I am today. I have now had a very happy and fulfilling life - even as I now approach the end of it. When I told my mother (my father had died the year before) she obviously cried - but vowed to help and support me through this and we had a beautiful relationship until she too died (at the ripe old age of 95) about 20 years ago. I miss her warmth, love and understanding terribly though.
I’ve always wanted to be a girl, but I’m to masculine to get away with it. Timmy is lucky that he has feminine traits and that he has people that understand what he is going through. Also that they will help him.
❤ Harriet should maybe consider surprising Tim err is it " Tammy " now by placing the items in an unused drawer in his room ! Maybe invite him to help her with her laundry ; go shopping for new clothes and have Timmy hold his Moms purse and all her purchases! He'll either be half embarrassed to death or be delightfully intrigued to learn more ! That is about women's clothes, of course . Harriet's sister Ruth may have a few ideas in handling Timmy's situation ; it has to be handled very carefully, though ! His dad , John, would likely go ballistic at finding out about his son's peculiarities and preferences ! Dads have a very difficult and hard time accepting a son being different from what they expected !
I really enjoyed this story. It seemed very realistic with the attitudes and reactions and ending up in court over a failure by one parent to understand that they need to help their child rather than themself. That kid has a rough life coming no matter which way things go but much harder, sadder ill-fated if she can't be herself. I don't understand why men have such a hard time dealing with their "son" wanting to dress like a girl. There is a reason; curiosity or something more deeply seated and truth be known, they have more than likely done it at least once in their own life. If it's curiosity, the desire will be gone once they find out what it's like and if it is something more, they should do everything they can to help their child determine what is right for them. I can tell you, it's no fun living a life trying to appear as someone you aren't. I would have loved to have had understanding and supportive parents.
Like most stories online, I am sure this one is fictional but, I am also sure that it is someone's personal story with appropriately changed names. I also enjoyed the story very much and the outcome. That said, I find the judge's comments and instructions to be some of the wisest I have ever heard, fictional or otherwise. No, I don't hang around court rooms or even the legal profession but have heard enough to know wisdom when spoken.
This is a great story when feels a girl of a man in the wrong body of birth the feling being someone els never going away stick help im now a transwomen of 72 year old I love my life now as women i live the netherlands rotterdam greetings chanta arts
If the dad hadn't come to some acceptance, emotional damage to Timmy would be substantial. There would be resentment and a sh*tty relationship between them. The ending of this story is so much happier than what many viewers have experienced.
I enjoyed this one much more than the forced fem stories that you so much of on these channels. I feel it's more realistic when the person wants to transition and a more happy ending when the person gets to be there self in the end.
This is crazy accurate for my transition, i stole my cousins clothes and would wear them every night and hid them in my room in a hollowed out speaker, and i prayed every day for god to make me a girl. Eventually i told my mom and got on female hormones at 15 before my male puberty could kick in.
I cried. My father always believed being LGBTQ was a lifestyle choice. He died 8 years ago and the next year at the age of 57 I came out as Trans….😢 Thank goodness times have changed but we need to ensure we don’t revert…..
Our days on this planet are numbered. So many of us have lost years, or decades, conforming, deceiving and being compliant. 57 is not "too late". Don't do as I do, spending hours at a time lamenting over the time you lost, just do your best at making every minute remaining be honest ones, where your authentic self is out, proud, and strong.
As it says in the story, you have to learn to give and take. But it also takes an open mind or a mind that is willing to accept the changes that come along that path. ajh
Aunt Ruth should have brought a little something over for Timmy like a little white over the shoulder bag and a pair of white cotton gloves for going out.
I wasted 30 years living a lie. Worried about what everyone would think if they knew my secret. I'm fifty now, twenty years living my life for me;) Be yourself, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Being the girl I've always known I was has cost me 90% of my family. Including both of my parents and sister, my only sibling.They have been replaced by good friends, closer than family;)
Rarely do I comment twice as I know this is a fictional story. However, having seen numerous families break 😳 😢 apart in divorce court in real life, 😳 ! I felt that I had to speak more from my gut and emotional feelings. I've seen where the two lawyers circle each other carefully like sharks ! Brutal jabs; thrust and counter-thrust ; ugly words said in the heat of anger, that're hard to hear and still 😢 harder to forgive once uttered. It's like watching a " Danse Macabre " that ends only in the destruction for both partner dancers ! This story hit uncomfortably close to me personally 😢! I was glad to see them reconcile their differences in the end ! John, Harriet, and Ruth all have a hard road to travel ahead, and their son has perhaps the hardest road ahead of them all. Timmy must reconcile two halves of his personality! This won't be easy to do for Timmy. Nevertheless , with his parent's love and support, I think 🤔 he'll be 👍 👌
I had a dad just like this story and mom backed dad, Boy did i Get a few beatings and a lot of getting yelled at. So I have kept myself hidden for over 60 years. Dad is gone and mom is in a care facility. I am now on HRT and could not be happier
I know a few people in their 60s that are on hrt. There are some additional risks, but is not being you worth it? You have to choose. I'm 55 and am finally on hrt. It's worth the risk to me.😮
There are no risks to taking HRT in your 60’s! You will take hormones for the rest of your life no matter what age you start taking them! People never do the research but just belt out whatever they “hear” or just want to say!
Nice story. However, when Mommy & Timmy were in the resolution phase after his " confessions" there were too many lies. Ex. Hiding the girl clothes in an old trunk, he was instructed to say a older teacher left them. That's not a good start. Mommy should have told Father that Timmy sees himself as a girl, not a boy. Note, there is physical evidence of this condition. I have this same problem. The reason for lack of muscular appearance no interest in sports or other boy stuff.
Until you've had the deal with gender dysphoria, you will never know how. soul crushing it can be. This is not something I would wish on my very, very worst enemy.
There no use to Blame Mom or dad the mind is the most important part of the body God bless the people who love's the ones who are truly themselves in Jesus name amen
It's definitely a happy ending for them all But unfortunately it doesn't always work out that way because of ignorance close minded discrimination of anyone being different from them And it's truly Sad of "those humans" I myself is a nice caring transgender girl So I know how Timmy/Tami feels 🙂
Great story! Too bad the A.I. messed up on too many words and phrases. The script writer help to mess this up by misspelling many words. I'll give this a 7 out of 10 😐
I CLOSELY WATCHED AND LISTENED TO THIS STORY, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT IS RIGHT OR WHAT IS WRONG. I AM 74 YEARS OLD AND WAS RAISED BY MY MOTHER WHO WENT TO AN ALL GIRLS SCHOOL AND BECAME A LADY AND MY GRANDMOTHER WAS A SELF MADE LADY. I WAS ADOPTED WHEN I WAS 2 FROM AN ALCOHOLIC MOTHER WHO WHO**ED AROUND WHILE MY BIRTH FATHER WORKED ON SHIPS FOR MONTHS AT A TIME. MY BIRTH MOTHER BASICALY SOLD ME TO VERY LOVING PARENTS AND I GREW UP IN A BROKEN HOME YET I NEVER LET THAT MAKE ME. WHILE SO MANY PEOPLE CONDEMN GAYS, LESBIANS, TRANS AND THE LIKE I HAVE HAD FRIENDS ON ALL LEVELS AND NEVER PUT THEM DOWN. THIS 10 YEAR OLD HAS FELT LIKE A GIRL AS LONG AS HE COULD REMEMBER. MY ONLY QUESTION WHY DIDN'T THE MOTHER SEEK A PSYCHIATRIST? A QUALIFIED DOCTOR CAN ASSERTAIN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER IF A10 YEAR OLD BOY IS INDEED A GIRL INSIDE WHILE OUTSIDE A BOY. WE AS GROWNUPS ARE TAUGHT THINGS AS WE GROW UP EITHER YOU ARE BORN THIS OR THAT. CASE IN POINT I AM NEITHER A DEMOCRAT NOR A REPUBLICAN, HEAVEN KNOWS MOST IN CONGRESS AND THE SENATE NEED TO BE REMOVED AS THEY DON'T CARE EXCEPT WHAT THEY CAN GET. IN ANY CASE THE FATHER DIDN'T LISTEN TO HIS CHILD AND THE MOTHER FAILED TO INFORM HIM WITH THE HELP OF A DOCTOR. THINK WHAT YOU WILL BUT MANY BOYS AND GIRLS ARE GOING THROUGH THIS ALL OVER THE WORLD. I'M A CHRISTIAN AND GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES BUT SOMEWHERE WHILE IN THE MOTHER'S WOMB THINGS HAPPEN WE CANNOT EXPLAIN AND SCIENCE THINKS THEY CAN EXPLAIN BUT THE FACT IS EACH CHILD HAS TO BE LISTENED TO AND SEEN BY PROFESSIONALS WHO ARE QUALIFIED THYEN AND ONLY THEN CAN A FAILY AND THEIR CHILD GO FORWARD. JUST SAYING.
As a detransitioned mtf, I feel like it would be FAR better for me as a father to catch my son in the throes of this than any woman. I know the pitfalls of transition and cross dressing personally, and through experience. I know the feelings of dysphoria intimately and can articulate it exactly, when they are struggling to find the words to express it. I would also immediately be suspect of the mother abusing or neglecting him behind my back, because in my experience that is related to feelings of dysphoria of this nature and instead of pushing him to do more boy stuff, push the mother to give him more praise and affection and less discipline. I wouldn't stop him from cross dressing either, but I suspect after getting an allowance of vulnerability that boys are often denied AS a boy, he wouldn't be so desperate to feel it or internalize it as femininity. If he still persisted in his gender identity, a year or so after we have corrected our relationship with him, THEN we can talk about transition with a HEAVY recommendation NOT to have reassignment surgery. Boys can be cute, boys can be pretty, I certainly was, and I know how alienating it is when you don't connect with masculinity because it feels like you are denied those feelings by virtue of being a boy. The separation of masculinity and vulnerability has damage the lives of many men.
That story left me in tears. That was great story and I quite enjoyed it. Thank you.
Nice story. The love they all felt was real. It is hard for father to accept his son as a girl. But the love he felt when seeing his daughter for the first time was priceless.
The greatest blessing here is compassion. I really enjoyed this story.
This is a beautiful story, so happy they worked it out.
It made me really cry at the end.... Big tears, thank you for this wonderfull story
This story brought me to tears and so many points hit home with my own memories
A most beautiful story, it touched my heart and my soul.
stay strong together and accept and raise nowdaughterTAMMY so good a story
What a beautiful story, so sensitively told, I loved it.
this one has got to be one of the best stories yet on this channel. it brought up so many emotions that I was weeping through out the story. why oh why was I born with the wrong desires and why I can't subdued them?! big thumbs up!
This was a great story, with the right end.. Thank you.
This brought tears to my eyes. Very well written. I saw so much of myself in Timmy, except he had more of a spine than I did at his age. He had the courage to take the path to his dreams, and I never did. I spent my life being miserable because of it. I'm too old and disabled and poor to even attempt it now. This was a beautiful story with a happy ending. I really liked it.
I am so sorry that you felt you could not transition all those years ago, it is a common story though for many who were born in the 1940's and 50's. Some of us did manage to do it though and were extremely grateful that the medical profession were able to help us.
This is why our current government's attempts to prevent age appropriate trans affirmative care needs to be opposed by all caring, compassionate people.
I would not say well written! An attorney is not going to call with his clients “ultimatums”, but send a letter that is professionally wrote in legal ways! Also, John had no proof to back up why he was going to fill for divorce because it’s basically a he said she said situation! Timmy could easily lie to the judge to help ensure he would be in his mother’s custody! Timmy could also mention that his dad abused him & left bruises on him that his mother could back up & say that’s when she told him to leave! Also, since John left, he has willingly had zero contact with his son that can be easily verified by phone records & even neighbors telling the truth that he had not been home since he left like a madman! Research is always important for storytelling!
Wonderful story. I can relate to so much of this. I was never caught by anyone but many times wished I had been. Maybe then I wouldn't have lived a life of regret.
I was in tears through the whole story. I can relate to some aspects of Timmy's experience. When the story mentioned the prayer I felt that the most. I know that prayer by heart for that was always my prayer growing up and I am sure many other trans girl's and trans women's as well. Those who never experience being transgender will never know what we go through just to be who we are.
Good
Very touching story I'm glad it had a happy ending!!
Hi I have watched this story multiple times and it still upsets me to see the father's angry response when his wife tries to explain about Timmy and picking him up by the arm and holding against a wall
This is a very beautiful story so brave young person and love's mommy and daddy just wants to be the living a true life very special
I found a story to be a very wonderful I really enjoyed listening to the store yet brought back a lot of memories of my days when I was younger and I look in the mirror and I see a girl looking back and be all confused
This was healing for me.
This is a great story.
This is my favorite story because it most closely matched my youth. I just wish this conclusion had been possible when I was young.
Nice story heart breaking ❤
This is the outcome that I was wanting. While it is very hard for a real father to accept a "son",, more so a young pre-teen son to have the deep down true natural feelings of actually being a girl, either parent should ever force the child to be either sex. The child will "balance" things out and it will be the best for them mentally. Excellent story, btw.
I have to add.. The point of acceptance became the point at which the boy decided to just be the girl he truly is and from there think compassion became a door to a better future for them all together.. Dad just couldn't deny what he saw when she walked in the courtroom..
Very moving story. Thank you..
Some little boys are lucky enough to have an understanding mother that actually encourages them to enjoy wearing cute feminine nylon panties and other cute feminine apparel after school!
When I tell people about my grandmother they just don't believe me. he had 4 children, one being my father, and two uncles. an Aunt did not know died at a young age, this crushed gramma. Both her sons as well as my mom's brother had baby boys, they ALL wanted a girl. At a very young age my favorite uncle called me Jeffarina the Ballerina I was so young. Little Jeffy so pretty they all said. They were all, both sides wanting me to be a girl. They got me instead. Gramma always treated me like a female as I aged and she got grandpa to give me hormones basic puberty blockers. I ended up being kinda like Timmy similar problems, an internal battle. Being being born in a males body caused struggles from a very early age, by kindergarten I prayed to God every Sunday to make me a girl. I am an adult woman now.
I wish I had an understanding family.. I love wearing feminine clothes.. I started when I was young and have had to keep it secret my whole life..
Wow, how wonderfully written! Without disclosing dire personal information:
I have spent over 50 years trying to decide if I am transgendered or "Just" an extremely avid crossdresser. I have been on estrogen and anti-androgens for over 20 years. I am very happy with my handling of my lifelong dance with gender dysphoria. If I had been 30+ years younger...who knows...joyfully I can smile and say that somehow I made the best life decisions (Hint: all my original anatomy is intact) and I have no regrets! And...it's all good...and I consider that backed-up by the fact that I DID NOT cry at all listening to this. -;)
As a boy growing up in the sixties this brought back sad memories as my dad saw me only as a pathetic boy and tried to make a man of me it didn't work just mixed me up till late in life i finally became the woman inside i think my mum knew but back the men controlled the family my dad finally saw me as a woman when he was in his eighties,my mother told me to ignore him my brother and sisters ignore me still,im glad him mum and aunt accepted him totally and his father finally accepted his daughter in the end its just sad he put the family throug all that emotional hurt beforehand
This store is very special to me may God always watch over this family hope he grows up to be a gorgeous lady i will pray for everyone in this family ever night what a brave young person God proud of you T very very very nice store
I totally love this story and believe God knows who we are and perhaps allows the final decision
This is such a beautiful story. And such a wonderfully happy ending. Timmy is so brave to finally come out to his Aunt and mother. Its sad that his father refused to accept it until it was almost to late. Timmy showed alot of intelligence about wanting to take such a big gamble to show up as his real self at the court. Of Course at the end to have such loving parents to accept who he was was the happy ending. Its sad that their are so many of us never get this chance, i know i was a girl since i was 3 years old, but my parents never accepted it. When i was 16 i told them again i was and was kicked out and disowned. Their is still way to much STIGMA even in today's society that many of us attempt suicide and and many never return from it. For the rest of us, we suffer in silence just waiting for the fay our lives come to an end.
The stories are wonderful about cross dressing thank you
It was so much more than cross dressing, it is about truly knowing yourself to be of the opposite sex to what was printed on your birth certificate. Thankfully that can be changed these days. When I received my new one 20 years ago, I sat on the edge of my bed and cried solidly for 30 minutes, tears of joy (and regret that I hadn't been able to do it all those years previously).
This story brought tears to my eyes.
Lovely story though.
I love that story!
Best mom ever!!!!!
I wish I had a mom like that 🥹
This is so well written in such a "realistic way", that it would appear to be written by someone who recounted what had happened, versus penned by a fictional writer. Go figure, the least qualified, least experienced, least informed, namely a "10" year old child, is trusted by the beloved "Aunt" in order to fix a broken family!
A powerful story understanding and respect are always hurt in this situation talk is always a good thing
My mom caught me wearing a neighbor girls panties. When she asked what I thought she should do about it. I suggested buying me panties and letting me wear them for a week. Didn’t happen. I really wish this had been the outcome
I seen this store over 24 hours ago and i have more comments to add but for right now Mom an dad and aunt r support Timmy let him grow up to be a gorgeous lady
I love this story,
Beautiful story why does this happen we don't understand I think I know how the child feels as I felt that way when I was young but was not as lucky bless her
You guys are so special may God watch over you guys forever in the name of Jesus Amen
This was a beautiful story that brought tears flooding down my cheeks because it echoed mine in a lot of ways -I was Timmy, except that I was born at a time (almost 80 years ago) when so little was known about transgender people. I was around 5 at the time I realised that I should have been a girl - and like Timmy, I too prayed to God to turn me into a girl and I felt so alone in the world and that I was the only child to feel this way. However, at the age of 7 the news of Christina Jorgensen filled the front news of the papers. I vividly remember the moment. I was lying on the carpet reading a comic and my father read the story to my mother. My ears pricked up - there was somebody who felt like me and who became a woman. However, after finishing the story my father added his own thoughts - "people like that should be locked away in the Looney Bin, and the key thrown away". My hopes, dreams and prayers came crashing down around me and I quickly realised that I would have to hide my truth from my parents - or I would lose them forever.
This haunted my pre-adolescent and adolescent years. The strain finally told though and at the age of just 26 I tried to take my own life as I just could not continue like this - thankfully the suicide attempt was unsuccessful. It was then I approached psychiatric help and counselling, finally being referred to one of the few Gender Identity Clinics and eventually became the whole woman that I am today.
I have now had a very happy and fulfilling life - even as I now approach the end of it. When I told my mother (my father had died the year before) she obviously cried - but vowed to help and support me through this and we had a beautiful relationship until she too died (at the ripe old age of 95) about 20 years ago. I miss her warmth, love and understanding terribly though.
I’ve always wanted to be a girl, but I’m to masculine to get away with it. Timmy is lucky that he has feminine traits and that he has people that understand what he is going through. Also that they will help him.
Great story
❤ Harriet should maybe consider surprising Tim err is it " Tammy " now by placing the items in an unused drawer in his room ! Maybe invite him to help her with her laundry ; go shopping for new clothes and have Timmy hold his Moms purse and all her purchases! He'll either be half embarrassed to death or be delightfully intrigued to learn more ! That is about women's clothes, of course . Harriet's sister Ruth may have a few ideas in handling Timmy's situation ; it has to be handled very carefully, though ! His dad , John, would likely go ballistic at finding out about his son's peculiarities and preferences ! Dads have a very difficult and hard time accepting a son being different from what they expected !
I really enjoyed this story. It seemed very realistic with the attitudes and reactions and ending up in court over a failure by one parent to understand that they need to help their child rather than themself. That kid has a rough life coming no matter which way things go but much harder, sadder ill-fated if she can't be herself. I don't understand why men have such a hard time dealing with their "son" wanting to dress like a girl. There is a reason; curiosity or something more deeply seated and truth be known, they have more than likely done it at least once in their own life. If it's curiosity, the desire will be gone once they find out what it's like and if it is something more, they should do everything they can to help their child determine what is right for them. I can tell you, it's no fun living a life trying to appear as someone you aren't. I would have loved to have had understanding and supportive parents.
Very nice story!
Like most stories online, I am sure this one is fictional but, I am also sure that it is someone's personal story with appropriately changed names. I also enjoyed the story very much and the outcome. That said, I find the judge's comments and instructions to be some of the wisest I have ever heard, fictional or otherwise. No, I don't hang around court rooms or even the legal profession but have heard enough to know wisdom when spoken.
A tough subject. A parent trying to make the best decision possible.
Love this
How you know my name 😂 keep hearing John and jt make sit so personal 😅
This is a great story when feels a girl of a man in the wrong body of birth the feling being someone els never going away stick help im now a transwomen of 72 year old
I love my life now as women
i live the netherlands rotterdam greetings chanta arts
I even have makeup 💄 and eye lashes and night gowns to and love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤it
Ok so this got me right in the feeling at the end sometimes I wish I had come out to my dad before he passed away 😢
Holy shit this story hits way to close to home
I cried also. I always dreamt about this outcome. But reality and lack of understanding ruled…….
If the dad hadn't come to some acceptance, emotional damage to Timmy would be substantial. There would be resentment and a sh*tty relationship between them.
The ending of this story is so much happier than what many viewers have experienced.
I enjoyed this one much more than the forced fem stories that you so much of on these channels. I feel it's more realistic when the person wants to transition and a more happy ending when the person gets to be there self in the end.
This is crazy accurate for my transition, i stole my cousins clothes and would wear them every night and hid them in my room in a hollowed out speaker, and i prayed every day for god to make me a girl. Eventually i told my mom and got on female hormones at 15 before my male puberty could kick in.
Oh and whats different with this story is that me transitioning destroyed my mom and dad's relationship. I fully own it
Your mom and dad were unable to be a team when the situation required it. Their relationship wasn't worth much...
I cried. My father always believed being LGBTQ was a lifestyle choice. He died 8 years ago and the next year at the age of 57 I came out as Trans….😢 Thank goodness times have changed but we need to ensure we don’t revert…..
I know exactly how you feel 😢
Our days on this planet are numbered. So many of us have lost years, or decades, conforming, deceiving and being compliant. 57 is not "too late". Don't do as I do, spending hours at a time lamenting over the time you lost, just do your best at making every minute remaining be honest ones, where your authentic self is out, proud, and strong.
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A beautiful story;
I truly wish I could've had a Mother and an Aunt like Harriet & Ruth 😢😭
Feminine ladyman for e🎉🎉❤
As it says in the story, you have to learn to give and take. But it also takes an open mind or a mind that is willing to accept the changes that come along that path. ajh
Aunt Ruth should have brought a little something over for Timmy like a little white over the shoulder bag and a pair of white cotton gloves for going out.
I even have makeup 💄 and night gowns to
Harriet is better off without that ogre of an abusive husband... she should also take photos of Timmy's arm!
I wasted 30 years living a lie. Worried about what everyone would think if they knew my secret. I'm fifty now, twenty years living my life for me;) Be yourself, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. Being the girl I've always known I was has cost me 90% of my family. Including both of my parents and sister, my only sibling.They have been replaced by good friends, closer than family;)
Rarely do I comment twice as I know this is a fictional story. However, having seen numerous families break 😳 😢 apart in divorce court in real life, 😳 ! I felt that I had to speak more from my gut and emotional feelings. I've seen where the two lawyers circle each other carefully like sharks ! Brutal jabs; thrust and counter-thrust ; ugly words said in the heat of anger, that're hard to hear and still 😢 harder to forgive once uttered. It's like watching a " Danse Macabre " that ends only in the destruction for both partner dancers ! This story hit uncomfortably close to me personally 😢! I was glad to see them reconcile their differences in the end ! John, Harriet, and Ruth all have a hard road to travel ahead, and their son has perhaps the hardest road ahead of them all. Timmy must reconcile two halves of his personality! This won't be easy to do for Timmy. Nevertheless , with his parent's love and support, I think 🤔 he'll be 👍 👌
I had a dad just like this story and mom backed dad, Boy did i Get a few beatings and a lot of getting yelled at. So I have kept myself hidden for over 60 years. Dad is gone and mom is in a care facility. I am now on HRT and could not be happier
congrats darling
I have heard hrt isn't good for people our age. Is that true? What are the risks?
@@dougwheaton1469 I also want to know what the risks are
I know a few people in their 60s that are on hrt. There are some additional risks, but is not being you worth it? You have to choose. I'm 55 and am finally on hrt. It's worth the risk to me.😮
There are no risks to taking HRT in your 60’s! You will take hormones for the rest of your life no matter what age you start taking them! People never do the research but just belt out whatever they “hear” or just want to say!
I had youth very similar to Timmy. Except my dad is tolerant of everyone except people identifying as LGBTQIA.
I just saved my legs right now
Made me cry
love this story. that story is the same as my one when i had the right parents now i am 58 years old and ad the bi' gin off my cross dressing
Been there, done that, caved in to the norms of society 60 yrs ago Still seeing a shrink to this dsy
Nice story. However, when Mommy & Timmy were in the resolution phase after his " confessions" there were too many lies. Ex. Hiding the girl clothes in an old trunk, he was instructed to say a older teacher left them. That's not a good start. Mommy should have told Father that Timmy sees himself as a girl, not a boy. Note, there is physical evidence of this condition.
I have this same problem. The reason for lack of muscular appearance no interest in sports or other boy stuff.
In the end Timmy or Tammy knew best
Until you've had the deal with gender dysphoria, you will never know how. soul crushing it can be. This is not something I would wish on my very, very worst enemy.
I believe God intervene and showed this family true love
00:34:44 my hiding drawer was the dresser in storage, middle, under a blanket!!
Moving, thank you. UKUK
Nice story.😂
Please let me know Timmy new name she got a great future very brave young lady
This store is so paradise and God does unstand he made all of us people use churches and the Bible for their own needs
There no use to
Blame Mom or dad the mind is the most important part of the body God bless the people who love's the ones who are truly themselves in Jesus name amen
It's definitely a happy ending for them all
But unfortunately it doesn't always work out that way because of ignorance close minded discrimination of anyone being different from them And it's truly Sad of "those humans"
I myself is a nice caring transgender girl So I know how Timmy/Tami feels 🙂
00:12:15 Tammy is a girl, not a third arm 00:12:30 .... hahaha
Great story! Too bad the A.I. messed up on too many words and phrases. The script writer help to mess this up by misspelling many words. I'll give this a 7 out of 10 😐
I CLOSELY WATCHED AND LISTENED TO THIS STORY, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT IS RIGHT OR WHAT IS WRONG. I AM 74 YEARS OLD AND WAS RAISED BY MY MOTHER WHO WENT TO AN ALL GIRLS SCHOOL AND BECAME A LADY AND MY GRANDMOTHER WAS A SELF MADE LADY. I WAS ADOPTED WHEN I WAS 2 FROM AN ALCOHOLIC MOTHER WHO WHO**ED AROUND WHILE MY BIRTH FATHER WORKED ON SHIPS FOR MONTHS AT A TIME. MY BIRTH MOTHER BASICALY SOLD ME TO VERY LOVING PARENTS AND I GREW UP IN A BROKEN HOME YET I NEVER LET THAT MAKE ME. WHILE SO MANY PEOPLE CONDEMN GAYS, LESBIANS, TRANS AND THE LIKE I HAVE HAD FRIENDS ON ALL LEVELS AND NEVER PUT THEM DOWN. THIS 10 YEAR OLD HAS FELT LIKE A GIRL AS LONG AS HE COULD REMEMBER. MY ONLY QUESTION WHY DIDN'T THE MOTHER SEEK A PSYCHIATRIST? A QUALIFIED DOCTOR CAN ASSERTAIN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER IF A10 YEAR OLD BOY IS INDEED A GIRL INSIDE WHILE OUTSIDE A BOY. WE AS GROWNUPS ARE TAUGHT THINGS AS WE GROW UP EITHER YOU ARE BORN THIS OR THAT. CASE IN POINT I AM NEITHER A DEMOCRAT NOR A REPUBLICAN, HEAVEN KNOWS MOST IN CONGRESS AND THE SENATE NEED TO BE REMOVED AS THEY DON'T CARE EXCEPT WHAT THEY CAN GET. IN ANY CASE THE FATHER DIDN'T LISTEN TO HIS CHILD AND THE MOTHER FAILED TO INFORM HIM WITH THE HELP OF A DOCTOR. THINK WHAT YOU WILL BUT MANY BOYS AND GIRLS ARE GOING THROUGH THIS ALL OVER THE WORLD. I'M A CHRISTIAN AND GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES BUT SOMEWHERE WHILE IN THE MOTHER'S WOMB THINGS HAPPEN WE CANNOT EXPLAIN AND SCIENCE THINKS THEY CAN EXPLAIN BUT THE FACT IS EACH CHILD HAS TO BE LISTENED TO AND SEEN BY PROFESSIONALS WHO ARE QUALIFIED THYEN AND ONLY THEN CAN A FAILY AND THEIR CHILD GO FORWARD. JUST SAYING.
Wow
I even have a mini skirt and slip and outfit to go with it
As a detransitioned mtf, I feel like it would be FAR better for me as a father to catch my son in the throes of this than any woman. I know the pitfalls of transition and cross dressing personally, and through experience. I know the feelings of dysphoria intimately and can articulate it exactly, when they are struggling to find the words to express it. I would also immediately be suspect of the mother abusing or neglecting him behind my back, because in my experience that is related to feelings of dysphoria of this nature and instead of pushing him to do more boy stuff, push the mother to give him more praise and affection and less discipline. I wouldn't stop him from cross dressing either, but I suspect after getting an allowance of vulnerability that boys are often denied AS a boy, he wouldn't be so desperate to feel it or internalize it as femininity. If he still persisted in his gender identity, a year or so after we have corrected our relationship with him, THEN we can talk about transition with a HEAVY recommendation NOT to have reassignment surgery.
Boys can be cute, boys can be pretty, I certainly was, and I know how alienating it is when you don't connect with masculinity because it feels like you are denied those feelings by virtue of being a boy. The separation of masculinity and vulnerability has damage the lives of many men.
Lovershe got me on the nest❤
why do they not go shopping together? let him buy a nice outit for mun with underwear too? shecan choose one for him? simpes
I even have a mini skirt and slip to
I would like to have some language to
I would love to put on luggage to
By the way my partner is al transgender 35 year old transmen
This is so painful to listen to. 😢😢
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