I Left My 24 Years Marriage & My 3 Bedroom House For A Bedsitter
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Thank.you.so.much
My colleague,neighbour and friend,just want to let you know that:
1.Its OK not to be OK
2.Its OK to choose you coz at the end you need you
3. Its OK to miss your wife and children
4. Its OK to let go
5. Its OK to be where you are appreciated.
And above all its OK to choose peace over violence. Good job brother. Let's follow our brother and support him.
Pole sana
People never learn. Similar situations are told countless times and still find people stuck in such cases. Not discouraging anyone but be on the lookout. Great humble guy.
Living with someone who's never learn is such a big mess, but guess what, there's God in heaven the righteous judge.
You made a good decision to walkout. It is difficult to live in a relationship where you cannot communicate. No marriage works out without communication. Communication is the foundation of everything relationship.
I have had the same question to my ex husband, how i he could explain why he hated me so much and tormented me and the most painful part is for him to start confusion the children against me and deep down his heart he knows i never wronged him. It pains as a mother to see the children failing to follow the correct direction and follow a parent who misleads them.
It's never easy to leave or to be left, Only those who have gone through such situations understands better. But Glory be to God Who Never dissapoints and loves us unconditionally. May peace prevail. Good advice, never Carry today's burdens to tomorrow for tomorrow is a new day and it's not garanteed
I relate this story as the one I heard from Tuko because it relates, but the years are different the tuko is 27 and here is 24,so am confused or people look alike
Not an easy journey sorry for the many tribulations .. The devil comes to steal kill and destroy.. Thanks for sharing your lifes lesson
Conflict resolution expert not able to solve his own conflict.
I think it's good to also listen to the side of his wife..
Waaaaah, what a story, what a gentleman. Hats off for you. All the best in life.
I was giving up in life being a single parent is the wordiest thing I have ever experienced now I'm strong again after watching this
Love fades and plummets
It 🔥 dies, it is OK it happens and move on . A bad marriage is not good for anyone.
Such a humble man,wanapatikana wapi?Us we're just enduring bcs of the children.
Most good men get badbad wives
@@irenekarimi692 and the vice versa is true😥
I would support the woman in question and I am show she went through much pain. Hold on to Jesus Christ my sister. You are not in anyway lesser
George ,could be you just said you loved her but your actions were opposite
I can relate with him..the wife could be narcissistic..
Salute sir, my colleague and good friend, all is well soldier
You are solving many problems in every family. Keep sharing. I worked with you on Peace Building and it will be well
Chacha has just reminded me of my ex when he said that his ex would remind him of things he did in1994
Your story resonates! Your courage to speak up to inspire others is simply amazing. May you find true peace and happiness that you really deserve.
Sorry for such a painful experience, please take heart.
It is because you live your family. Never regret of doing good brother.
I don't trust military personnel...talking out of experience
Why?
The only thing that will hurt a woman is cheating on her. Let’s hear the wife’s side of the story.
True..
What about a woman who got married and has been blessed with 2kids only to find out that the third child isn't yours and she's the first to file divorce.
@@thomasmomanyi285 leave. People should learn to leave when they can. Its not a matter of life and death.
There’s many cases for women abusing their husbands and nowadays they have doubled women’s cases so don’t doubt please!!! Many women are cheating on their husbands also too!!!
@@e.sharmer2057 Of late women are adulterous than men ,more worse others cheat to an extended of God punishing them with an all over sudden conceiving hence giving birth to an outside wedding children ,once awoman does that it haunts her and becomes too brutal to the husband cooking all manner of a husband's weaknesses hating her inlaws almost hitting everybody, booom! here come DNA test results.
The interviewer though. 🤔
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Just concentrate on your 2nd marriage hii ya kwanza imeenda
Good to see Men Speak out.
Thanks Chacha, for sharing your story. It's true that in marriage, we are silent, partners are usually silent over issues and let the matters pass...but these are the cracks in the marriage palace. Thanks for putting all these into perspective/ words....these have always gone unspoken yet people/partners feel offended, taken for granted, unappreciated etc and keep to themselves yet hurting.
I really commend you for sharing your story. I believe it will help many couples who care to listen.
I also believe it will help your son's and your first wife too. Maybe, you'd get to that point of reconciliation and communicating.
Yes, it feels bad that they had a function for your late son yet you were not invited but forgive them.
I also feel that both you and your first wife need therapy (counseling). The children need therapy too. Your second wife needs therapy too.
Thanks for choosing peace over violence.
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Therapy for both ,nooooo ,he came out to save himself,he got his therapy and that's enough
Let's hear from the wife
Hi Cate, you need to add volume on your mic. I have strained to listen.
Thanks George for sharing your story. I think you are strong man.
Am just awed by the courage you had in turning the other cheek
That part of his son hanging and him had to take his dead body down is really saddening 😔😔
Im really sorry for your loss and may the Lord grant you the fortitude to continue bearing the loss🙏.
This man is a soldier and he can bundle it. My thought
@@tomntooki1612 Being a soldier doesn't mean he has no emotions or feelings.
He's just like other human beings.
I have Keely listen to the conversation and Chacha cares so much for his first wife.Chacha was able to establish mental health for his son and not his wife.I strongly feel she has a lot of mental issues that needs to be addressed and your son issues could have been heriditary it had nothing to do with the way you were treating him..Kindly get a psychologist and help her.Divorce is not a solution she needs help.And thats thereason she couldn't write on the paper your fault in the marriage Many people today are suffering from mental health without our knowledge.
In life put God first and Family second please Mr chache
Lynn Ngugi this is your story to narrate
What else will she get out of him apart from what we've heard here arleady🤷?
It’s good to leave done staying in the house where they is no peace
I left marriage of 23yrs, it's okay for your peace ..wish you well brother
Ooh, so i am not alone....My sister, we must have been riding on the same boat...23years and throwing in the towel. Osa vinya mukamba.
Thanks a lot George! My peace is in my enemy’s hands
Wow what a man!
Sometimes we don't value what we have until we lose it,
My man died over 20 years ago?,I just wonder how Someone would just let their man,father to their children just slip away???
I need such a man. Wako wapi!
Ask the ex wife what went wrong. You never know what happened
He was a military man. No expression of love. Just criticisms. No compliments
@@syntabellehawa, police men n teachers no joke ... First if you are the kids .... lots of pressures
wanaume haki the marriage has challenges unaenda nje na unaenda kuoa really?? yani umemvumilia na shida akapata pesa anaoa,,this is discouraging
I would like to know the other side of the story! Till then, i reserve my comment!
You have commented arleady 😊
Yap
Someone cheats on you and has a whole other family and wants to tell you how you should act...lolz...can spot toxicity a mile away
I thought he got a family after breaking up😢
Thank you sir for sharing the real story, and performing well in the interview, mat God heal our marriages
Very Bad interviewing skills. He has a story to tell but hii interview hapana.
Ikr. I was getting soo frustrated coz it’s a very interesting story but poorly directed.
@@aiishacali7425 Very much so..Couldn't get through to the end😵
@@Honey-rb9vo Me too.
I totally agree with you! The interviewer needs some skill.
Poor sound very good
Life story
Thank you for your service sir
What you don't you know is that mwanamke akikupenda anakupenda with all her heart.utampiga,utamhanya,utamtesa na bado akupende na akuvumilie BUT when the love is gone my friend, there's no forgiveness no reconciliation no nothing....I am a victim also I can relate....
Me too work for years like donkey to better our life.
You are right
Satan is a liar.Couples needs to be Christ centred.Marriage is spiritual and it's a matter of time everything will be restored.Let"s pray for our families,not by our own strength but strength from above Amen
people who look talk gd outside here are fire inside let's get also from her side men who look fluent out here are.....I think u need also to visit me I give u out my story about this men finally this thing of u don't break marriage u break the weeding ndio kitu gani buana
I wish we can hear the other side of the story.
I have a feeling that you ghosted yr family.
Most men backstab their wives to justify their bad actions.
On point. Just 10 mins into the story and the amount of self praise is alarming
I smell narcissism
I also doubt all the self praise. Might she have been going through emotional abuse?
Yeah it doesn't make sense a woman has stood with you through your poverty then suddenly just goes cold on you ..not talking to you for a month??🤔suspect!!! Kuna kitu alifanyia uyu bibi yake aki
If you have never been in such a situation you will never understand! He said it as it is he even praised her for who she's been in his life! It's very easy to judge when you haven't been there! I always listen and do not judge either party. After I went through my own it's never an easy journey and no matter what you say people will always take sides
I think you didn't try enough. Ungebembeleza tu. No need starting another family
Problem shared is a problem almost solved.These people never talk and solved their problems.His first wife was selfish and self centred.
@ Sarti kimutai remember you have only heard one side of the story
If you had any hope of reconciling with your first wife you can forget about it now, how do you go around putting her in such a negative light all over media and expect her to reconcile with you? In life we protect what we love, and what you are doing is the exact opposite of that. And what about your new wife? How must she feel as you are going around telling the whole world that you would you wish you were still with your first wife? You are failing to protect neither of them, although the second wife is getting her karma for going into another woman's marriage.
in life there will be situation where you wont get closure, you'll just find a way get up and keep going
Happiness,peace, love cannot be bought by money so if your happy wherever you are then let it be.
Pole sana chacha
🤣🤣🤣huyu ndo anajua sahii bibi ndo alikua mzuri🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some wives are too selfish and just feel that they are only the ones to be heard.
The interviwer is all over with questions,be procedural
You needed deliverance
He will not be sure whether he was loved because he is in another type of love and he is in comparison and obviously the new love cuts deep.
The interview is all over the place...direct the interview and give the guest time to explain juu tunarukishwa kama kwa matatu
Settle down in your new marriage!!!
No one will never life the marriage without I reason, so must be a hidden issue
The lady has alot to say 🕸
You are reminiscing too much, gooosh. Io ndio ubaya ya kupenda sana, you get crapped on. Kama hataki reconsolidation wachana naye, especially now that you have moved on, she can never accept it.
However, there are two sides to the story. Something's going on he doesn't know, maybe ATA YEye alipendwa na mwingine
It's very sad but staying alone is hectic look for a companion to move on with. There r good ppl outside 😜😜😜
there is nothing wrong with staying or being alone!
Were you listening really?
May be you did not know each other language of love
Something doesn't add up here my brother. Your side of the story sounds too good to be true. You cannot be innocent in all the equation. WA shayashaya wena
I can relate to this story very well-Disturbing indeed. Two unmatched personalities in the same house and walking out of your own home to a 8x8 bed room!! Sorry George, it shall be well with you brother-Wisdom prevails and self-care takes precedence over killing one another. Property just like love is not enough.
If possible listeners could wish to hear your wife's story though such personalities are hard to come to public gallery to expose self on family matters.... But not hosted by Catherine, maybe Lynn Ngugi show. Catherine is cut out for other areas not love matters, if you may. Catherine you have been exceptionally great in your other shows but on this, you are not gifted, sadly.
You think about your son who you never showed concern about? Fathers are hypocrites i nearly hunged myself and my daughter back 2021 and my dad seemed not to care, i fought depression alone and ky daughter he blocked everything took my ID and my certificates my daughter's notification nisitoke nyumbani niteseke zaidi, we will live with the truth that some of us go through alot in the hands of parents more so the so called fathers! I know the boy you call your son now with degrees as you mentioned seems you never showed concern, to an extent of hunging himself he really tried , rest in peace Steve.
But soldiers , policemen and teachers are so strict to the wives and kids and sometimes it gets too much .... i grew in such a household and maybe we can hear the wives side
Pole sana mura mwana weito
To sombo water ...means to fetch water in Luo.. 😂..The fact that you never hit her not even once melted my heart... you deserve better, no regrets.She is narcissistic and that was what a narcissist does they make you feel guilty for their own shortcomings...If she didn't want to have a talk with you...let her be...You have biological needs as week, u ain't a piece of furniture..You can't change people who wants no change .
Somba is also a swahili word…kusomba maji…. Chacha is from kuria he meant ku somba
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true. sometimes i feel like wemen just wany nasty men. they are not ready for good men and they will take it as a weakness
The question is who is truly the narc? There are narcs who are non-violent but extremely emotionally abusive.
Can't judge coz haven't heard the side story of the wife
It takes two to tangle…
That was lack of communication not lack of compromise
This men
Is this brother Chacha?
This is an interesting story, I like how calm George is. But throughout their marriage has George or anyone thought his ex-wife has a mental issue? remember their son committed suicide. I feel for her and I think she needs help both of them need counseling, especially for the loss of both their child and the marriage. There is no moving on for this couple
I agree with you. I also feel that there's some kind of deep hidden pain, unspoken hurt, ....therapy is highly recommended.
Probably there's a mental problem issue with her that didn't get the attention needed
He married a narcissist 😢
No Peace in polygamist
Thiathia jaka Baba kk negi nono.
All this are lies can we hear other side of the story awoman cannot be that way for nothing
Shame on you she wanted to kill you for nothing? When you want to go for other women that's what you lie to justify your behavior once more shame on you atakuua amekushika wapi?
Shame on you l want to hear the side of her story don't bad mouth her tell us about your cheating.
Wewe stop projecting your problems om other people
Wewe uko na kamudomo sana mupee time aongee eeishh..kiherehere mingi na kumukata short......
Uongo
True
U have a lot of complaints against her. Why didn't you start by paying her compliments?
I don't buy some of the information I'm getting from this guy even though I'm aman.
yes dia I know the guy personally
This interviewer leaves a lot to be desired.
George, stop denial!! Your marriage comes accross as very toxic.... Toxicity index high. You need to move on! It is what it is... Dead is the word.... Hanging on to dead relationship is detrimental!!! Again your peace is your responsibility! Not your enemy's. Forgive and move on. You may consider to see a family counselor.
One sided stories are mostly biased and unfair.
This guy is depressed
You had a narcissist in your life whom you loved deeply but had no feelings with you😢
His a kuria no wonder
I think God wanted u to be a priest no wife no children. Cos honestly after all the sacrifices u did for ur wife the marriage didn't still work. I think every woman n especially me desires to ave such a husband. I also left my marriage after 25years having tolerated alot n unapologetic husband. All in all even if u started a fresh I believe u r happy n in peace now.
Biological processes💯.....importanter😎
Whatever you do. Eat at home
I would wish to hear ex wife's side of the story.
She is not willing to talk
@@jackianotieno4085 coz she knows what she did
Imagine some women are possessed with demons.......l have a sister in law who behaved the same which lead to the death of the husband. Men are very secretive and proud that if he was the cause....he could not have come out in public
If it was the woman here,you couldn't have asked for the husband's side of the story... some women are naturally wicked
@@marthawangui7237 there must be something in to this than what we've just heard ...according to me something is not adding up...women can take in alot before they say its enough.
Give the guest time huko na kameme sana whish it was lynn hosting this guy
I love the way he has narrated his story but of çourse one sided,may be the time they discuss Ed their issues,he never kept His words ,which may be made his wife angry
What a couragious man to leave all his wealth behind to search for peace.
Something a miss in this story, I believe this former soldier is not revealing all info. There are always two sides of coin. Bring the ex-wife on board too.
I agree. When men cheat some wives never get over and it leads to bitterness. If not handled, it leads to ugly situations
You got it👍
The case of a codependent man who got a covert/vulnerable narcissistic woman... This was my life 2012 - 2020... I can categorically say that nothing could/can help the relationship. The only way is to have no contact with her. Then try to get your long lost glory.... Be careful with any new relationship coz the pattern could be same.. Heal from codependency first...
I am.really tired of these stories. Can't Kenyan journalists look for something else to talk about apart from failed marriages? Where is their creativity?
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let people talk and heal. enda kwa churchilo ukaone comedy
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For a parent to loose a child is very very hard.pole sana brother.