I cant even imagine the pain of that miscarriage, on top of everything else you were going thru.. ive always said that sometimes it gets beyond exhausting having to be strong ALL the time. Youve earned the beautiful life you have now, and its only going to get better. ily jess, and i will forever be so proud of you. 💚
I don't understand why ppl still ask u about having children when you explained it so many times. That has the potential to re-traumatize u any time they ask. Im so sorry for what you went through I've been through that as well and it's extremely traumatizing and excruciatingly painful emotionally and physically
You mentioned losing your spark, I just want you to know that you were part of the reason that I decided to go to law school. I got in last spring and I started there this semester. I think about the stories that you tell when I look at cases. I think about your story especially having Micah. I hope to use the training that I’m getting right now to do some good for people that may end up in your situation. You inspired that.
Girl - so sorry about your uterus struggles. I had problems as well. Thank you so much for being so open with us, esp after everything you have been through.
Not ALL felons are bad. People tend to focus on what once was and not what is. Present tense is what matters. In Jess's case she is reformed. She transformed herself and her life, no longer a drug runner, shes sober , no longer a terrible person as she said she used to be . Shes a gorgeous woman newly engaged mother of 3. Shes sober and responsible. She uses her trauma experiences to educate others. No one talks about that though you know. They leave out the whole picture.
Hi Jess. I rarely, RARELY comment but have been w you from day 1. Just had to say, I'M SO PROUD OF YOU. So happy to see you soooooooo happy! PS My Husband is also a felon. Been w him 18.5 years now, and counting. We raised 7 kids together. Wasn't easy but don't blink because it definitely goes by so fast! All of our children are adults now and are thriving!!
I really loved this. Like I always go back and rewatch your lives, and I always feel for you when people start asking stupid or disrespectful things and it's obviously like annoying and disappointing to you and like can alter the vibe a little. So I like just you having total control of the vibe, and being able to share how you want to. Happy for you and everything you have going in your life that brings you joy!! ❤
I’d love for you to do another magazine crew story time, even if it’s a repeat!! You have so many new followers since then, and those story times are relatable in a lot of ways, especially to us recovering addicts!!
I don’t think it should be socially acceptable to ask people about their plans regarding having kids/more kids etc. Maybe I’m jaded because of my own experiences 🤷♀️ I had my first child no problems and my husband and I agreed to try for another when my son was 2 - which was the start of 4 years of miscarriages and heartbreak before being diagnosed with a brain tumour and told I could not have more children. During that time I was relentlessly told I was selfish for not giving my son a sibling and that he would be a “selfish only child”… then 2 years later I had my miracle baby 💖 It was a very difficult pregnancy but I felt so blessed. I now have a 15 year old and a six year old and until a year or so ago I was STILL harassed by people that my family would not be complete unless I tried for a girl 😂 I am very happy to have my 2 boys and wouldn’t change a thing. Moral of the story? People are frickin weird.
You are so right. The best people I know are actually alcoholics or recovering from drugs. They are so kind to everyone and always ready to help anyone. I'm so proud to call them my friends! Please people don't judge if you don't know the person.
@@JessicaKent Those prison shower videos were nice :) but I'd love to hear some more spicy stuff 😇 About you, your sex life (if u still have it), your pleasures, like how often you Double-click your mouse etc :))
Thank you for sharing your story in regards to the first question as to whether you want more kids/a boy. Sincerely, I am glad you said that was an inappropriate question to ask someone. I have asked people that(usually only an immediate family member and not someone I barely know) and it never occurred to me that it was inappropriate. I never meant anything negative by the question but now I see how inappropriate it is. From now on I will not ever be asking that question ever again! I'm glad I saw this video so I won't do it anymore. I love your videos!
We only have one kiddo and he’s 12 years old. I have some serious health issues that kept us from having a second and the amount of times I’ve heard “there’s always adoption” is truly disgusting
@heather4180 Sticks and stones, babydoll. Words ain't going to break any of our bones, no matter how disagreeable we might personally find them from time to time
Hi Jess! Thank you for all the videos you’ve made over the years. I’ve been watching you since the beginning . I would really appreciate if you did make a video about your miscarriage. You absolutely don’t have to if you don’t want to, but I recently went through a miscarriage, and I found a lot of comfort in the videos I watched on RUclips with other peoples stories. Love you so much and I’m so happy for you and I look forward to watching your future videos
Its actually nice to hear about that phone call with Berner. As for the people he hurt... idk when it became acceptable to simp for cho-mos. Yes, i understand that some people have that and never act on it, so good for them. But i have never heard of someone who DID act on it becoming a productive member of society afterwards... they always do it again. By acting like they deserve a redemption arc, you are basically guaranteeing ruining many children's lives. It isnt worth it, and its wack that there are people who think that it is. Pretty telling, if you ask me.
The felon question got under my skin my boyfriend is a felon and an addict and has the most beautiful soul I’ve ever seen. Addiction is unfair and so is the court system he’s not violent at all he treats me better than any man ever has
I love seeing and feeling like your in such a beautiful and much happier and healthier mental place and everything else! I’m a bit older than you and I struggled with a very similar situation and life events. And had a very similar long term (10 yr) relationship relationship w/ my sons father (who also was the only father figure my first born ever knew) and he was king Narcissist and bc of my very crazy childhood and not knowing my biological parents names even let alone who they are among my own adoptive father turning me out on opiates starting around 7 yrs old i didn’t recognize how unhappy and abusive my relationship and life had become. And I was addicted to those opiates from around 7 to 36! I now have 4.5 yrs sober and I relate so much to you. I’m so glad to really genuinely believe you’re doing well. And enjoying life as u deserve! ❤❤❤
That online smear campaign riled me so much!! And I know it riled a lot of other people who have been following you for a while, too, because it was so stupid. Please know that many of us never believed a word - and, instead, support you, believe you, and want you to be happy 💖 The stunt being pulled was **painfully** obvious, and I even caught your ex out in one thread by baiting him (he's really not as smart as he thinks he is...). I wouldn't worry about any followers you lost as a result, because if they're going to be taken in by that dumbassery, and be so ready to believe such blatant horse sh1t, then they're no loss to you. Whilst you never needed to, you would regularly provide proof to back up your version of events that was airtight... And they would provide "proof" that looked like a 5 y/o piecing together some ridiculous online conspiracy theory (eg "person A knows person B. B is the 2nd letter of the alphabet and Jess has 2 kids. That proves that Jess lied about the moon landings". Like, WTF, dude?! None of that makes ANY sense!! 🤨😂). Here's to a very happy future for you, Berner, and the three little ladies 💖👍
i haven’t watched a youtube q&a video in probably 10 years. i love hearing you talk though. you are so real and funny and being a ride or die crew member is an honor 🥹
Hahaha the corn on the cob comment on his live was funny af! And there were a couple other hilarious ones and yall have a great sense of humor & I loved that Berner laughed at them - like if they’re funny they’re funny. Period.
i use to be one of those people who would ask women/couples/men like oh you just had a kid blah blah blah ready for more? until someone pulled me aside and said her husband had just finished recovering from an accident that has likely left him unfertile.... i pulled him aside apologized as we arn't that close but hes a good person and we cross paths at occasional boys nights ect. from then on everytime i think about asking questions like that im reminded like wtf am i asking this shit for?? its personal and isnt even good small talk as it has no follow ups and the most interesting thing and best case scenario is you learn 2 people are rubbing uglies so ive completly cut it out of my conversation... and i feel like people need one weird wake up call like this to realize how fucking odd it is
That felon question really grinded my gears. Also, the fact that those trolls still spend so much time trying to mess with your life is absurd. I know you know this, but you are doing great and you're happy. People just suck.😂😂
Why do people think they are owed an apology from someone they don't even know?! You're such a lovely, sweet and genuine person. Those who see it, see it. Some won't and, honestly, who gives af. If I like a person, I'll stick with them even when they do something I don't like. We are not perfect. We can just strive to be a good people and learn from our mistakes. Idiots can't do that and that is the major difference between them(those who are trolling and harassing you!) and us. And I know that I'm a bit...different than the majority of the population, but I love and appreciate myself and that exact things. Blending with the masses was never my thing and goal. Try not to let toxic people get you down, although it's easier said than done. But you know your worth and we, those who are supporting you and will stay here no matter what, know that too. Love from Croatia 💙
Thank you for sharing this personal information. It’s very interesting and inspiring. In life we go through different seasons and sometimes what worked for one season doesn’t transfer over into the next so well, and that’s ok.
Am truely inspired by you Jess. Thankful not only that wee met briefly but that as a result I started to follow your content. Just keep moving forward you rock and am rapt that your in a better place. Keep following your dreams.
My husband is a felon and we’ve been happily together for almost 2 decades…. He’s the most kind, accepting loving man I’ve ever known. He will give you the shirt off of his back. And he’s 19 years older than I completely different generations so not only is he a felon but a very progressive individual. ❤ I have family that are felons and are some of the kindest and thoughtful human beings ❤❤❤
Jess, you’re amazing! I absolutely love your outlook on life. I too have in a very toxic and abusive relationship. It’s so great to see you light up when you talk about your new fiancée! Y’all have a beautiful life together and it’s only going to get better from here! I wish I had the balls that you do! I’d love to be a content creator! Where did you learn about filming and editing? Much love to you and your beautiful family, from one of your Ride or Dies! 🥰🩷
I love how open you are always have been watching you for years. I'm so happy for you genuinely and those girls no way. Women support women that's the way in my life it is. We face so much judgement as women it's hard too we are objectified and labeled for what we say do and act and you are such an incredible advocate for this. As for asking about if your going to have more children that isn't an ok question to ask people. I have had 2 miss carriages and an ectopic I know the trauma that comes with that too it's painful but healing and meditation helps. We love you jess ❤
I think its a basic question to ask. Its only offensive if you have had personal struggles with pregnancy. So the person asking may not know you personally, they may just think she seems like a good mom. We wouldn't ask Jess bc we know her and it bothers her right. But someone may meet her and see how happy her children make her and she seems like a good mom plus she's newly engaged so it's a normal question to ask.
Felons and the ones from the hood have the best heart! I come from the hood 🎉 not a flex but it's truth. I knew so many from the hood and they climbed out too. Have a heart of gold. So Jessica is not wrong! Felons do have a good heart!
YES! It’s a 180 guys, if you’re trying to say someone has done a complete turn around/change. People mess this phrase up, and say, ‘you’ve done a 360’… that quite literally means that you’re in the exact same place - not that serious just a pet peeve of mine lol
I’m 10k deep in family court already. And all because I’m worried about my daughter’s safety because her dad can’t hold his sobriety for more than 6 months at a time. I am 7 years in recovery and work as a recovery coach so it’s not that I don’t understand substance use disorder. He is a narcissist and he has never been concerned about what is best for our daughter but rather how he can make my life as difficult as possible and in the mean time essentially taking food out of her mouth. I pray it ends soon and that all the sacrifice and money and stress is worth it. I live paycheck to paycheck and these lawyer fees are killing me but I have to keep going for my little girl who got me clean and sober 💪🏻
Im sorry you’re going through that but the money you’re wasting won’t be worth it. I know you want to keep your baby safe but family court ONLY cares about what’s best for the child AND can these two adults get along to figure that out for themselves. That’s it. It’s SO shitty! You have to keep your baby safe bc the courts will not.
I love how youre putting everything on patreon instead of yt, like if im gonna profit off of my pain, im getting the best ROI 😂👌 seriously im not a member, but i am SO here for it!!
My brother pays a mail company to handle his mail, then they forward anything to him that's not junk mail. Might be a good thing to look into, to not have your address out there.
Question for Berner (sorry if this isn't the place for it, just let me know): While you were growing up, how much do you think the Frontrunner train in Ogden contributes to crime/gang activity (since it connects Ogden to so many other cities)?
Just curious after getting out of such a toxic relationship if you felt getting engaged so quickly was the wrong decision. You have never been married before? Is that correct? I was married for 4 years, together for 7 years total and have been separated/then divorced from him for 14 1/2 years. I've been with my current boyfriend almost 12 years. Have lived together since 4 mos after we met. Have moved to 3 different states together and I still don't want to get engaged. Just wanted your insight on your feelings on that.
Thank you so much for answering my question! I agree so much- it truly is ultimately about learning how to trust yourself above all. Fantastic advice! I’m in therapy with an amazing therapist and it’s been so helpful! I just wanted to say that sharing your personal experiences has been so validating and helpful as I navigate healing from my own Narcissistic relationship. You are brave, inspiring and this world is a more beautiful place because of you 🫶💕
I've been watching your videos for a while in my opinion keep up what you are doing forget what people sat bout you. The success you're talking bout is your success. You're successful in life after prison. With a man who loves you and 3 beautiful children. May God continue to bless you Mrs Kent
That whole smear campaign got absolutely crazy I haven't watched your stuff in so long. Talk about toxic. What the hell ever her name was Nicole Tracy and the other blonde haired chick I was like I cannot deal with this anymore. 😮 It literally made me sick. I ain't going to sit here and say there weren't nothing on your videos that made me upset I didn't voice my opinion about. But my God how freaking crazy did that get I hope everybody's leaving you alone now.
Left my abuser in 2017. He was silent for years until he sent me a Catholic Annulment in the mail. I was asked to appear in Catholic Court like a year ago, if I wanted to. I threw it in the trash and did nothing with it.
Someone asked me the other day what sgurd i have been taking cause recently lost so much weight in a short time (196lbs-130lbs in roughly 3-4months) and if i planned to ever have anymore kids one day (boy mom of a 13yr old as of monday, and 8yr old with a 8yr old bonus boy) and i literally spent hours after breaking down after, i laughed them off in the moment and said must be the good ones and probably not, but they didnt know my true story, i started dropping the weight because my uterus was trying to end me (along with a couple other health issues we are working on) and that my dr fought for my safety so i could continue to be here with my living children, and i had a total hysterectomy due to medical needs (after we found out, had i not removed it, the cancer they hadnt even noticed yet would of taken over within no time worse then what it already was - they didnt catch it until the biopsies after surergy my dr just knew me and trusted me and my body to believe that we where missing a bigger picture then what we already knew was a problem) then yes i always wanted a baby girl, but i also lost her almost 5yrs ago at 12 weeks in a hospital alone while the father was with our youngest introducing him to the women he was cheating on me with, and was too "busy" to be by my side, Its been 12 weeks since my surgery, losing all the body fat i had, my curves, chest, bottom, and now having nothing but bones and hanging skin, on top of losing everything but my ovaries to keep me safe, has taken a major toll on my mental health and feeling like a woman and to know i walk around and half the people who dont know my story now think that im just a relapsed addict that they can ask insesentive questions to about more children,ect literally destroys me, neither of my boys dads have ever been stably active consistently and to know i finally have a life partner that i would of loved to grow a child with and fill the rest of our heart's with and because of my own body we will never be able to has effected me more then i could of ever imagined, sometimes i wish people would just ask, whats your story instead of assuming or questioning things that could truly be extremely tramatic to someone, i know i made the right choices, and i know in time it wont feel like it does now, but man.... think before you speak to a stranger. 🫶 thank you for speaking up about how that question is NOT okay to bother someone with.
I apologize for asking the uterus question. I didn’t think about it in the way that you shared here! I’m so sorry if I offended you or upset you it was not my intention. I do still love you though and will continue to support and follow you ❤️
Back in day I had a total hysterectomy at 31 People would ask if my new husband and I were planning and One thing about being old and kids graduated I no longer get asked but I now freaking get if my kids are having more, any, or when they getting married. I also got that my son shouldn’t have a kid because ftm should not have kids. I have one sea horse grandson. I feel the society no longer thinks boundaries matter and because ur out in public u have no privacy. Ronny and I spoke prior and both agreed that public does or tries to come into your relationship even if its not their place. We agreed only to post one what we want but keeping us with us or with friends/family
I may not keep up with your videos as much as I use to but I hate when people are labeled “felons”. Literally it’s something on a RECORD. No one is BORN A FELON. Jess is NOT a felon she’s a woman and Berner is NOT a felon he is a man. People make mistakes and if they fix their mistakes that’s all that matters. Some of y’all are so BORED with your life and seriously need to find something positive to do with your time.
Ok I do the seatbelt thing too every time I get in the car because I have trauma with things being too close to my neck. And I got a ticket for not wearing my seat belt like 2 months ago. I tried to explain that I had the seatbelt clicked but it didn’t matter. Be careful cuz I didn’t know I was ever gonna get a ticket for that! I mean it makes sense but it never even crossed my mind
Truly excited for new tattoo “burns” lolol. “You have this tattoo!!!” is not a diss guys. He knows it’s there. It’s on his face. Probably didn’t get them all by accident. The people want quality insults or none at all please and thank you! ❤
you know...i am just a stranger on the net and i am lacking the right words, english is not my language and i try to navigate my thoughts in foreign words but i want to say that i support you. and not every one on the net hates you. i just wanted to say that
Trust and believe, I feel you on that one. My son will be 16 this Thursday Sept 26th 2024. His baby sister, my daughter, will be 8 in April 2025. They grow WAY too fast!!
Keep doin you hun! Trolls are always gonna be there. Sucks but it is what it is. Obviously, lol. I respect the fuck out of you and have been a long time follower. You a strong ass woman to still be rockin and rolling, with everything you’ve been through. Congrats on your engagement.
I'll keep saying it. I have nothing but love for you all. I don't have the energy to send hate onto the Internet. Much love and hugs to you all. I hope you have a great rest of your year. ❤
11:41 Just an FYI: it’s a bad idea to say females when you mean women. I know you’re probably not going to see this comment (the video is a few days old already, and you have a life outside RUclips), but I have a good reason for making the recommendation to say women instead. The reason: I have it on good authority from a man I know who ended a friendship over this, that predators will use “females” instead of “women” to camouflage with normalized patterns what they’re really saying when talking about their attraction to underage girls. The logic comes from the fact that every human female is female, but only adults are called women, so saying females lets them know they’re being inclusive, but hides it from the people who would justifiably hate them for meaning girls either as well as or instead of women. The asshole who revealed this to my source misjudged who he was confessing this shit to, and now I think it’s important to let anyone who is inclined to (even just occasionally) saying “females” instead of “women” know that they probably don’t want to contribute to normalizing that pattern of speech. It’s going to probably become the normal way to talk anyway, but we can sure as hell slow down the evolution of this and deny them the camouflage as long as possible. I know you’re not a predator, and you would never use it that way, but if this pattern of speech is allowed to stay it’s actually got serious potential to be harmful. Normally grammar changes and speech evolution are fine, but this is the one exception that needs to be paid attention to. If you see this, I really hope you’ll understand I’m only passionate about this because of its potential in the broader social sphere, and it’s not a criticism. I don’t expect good people to realize the harm here without an explanation.
My husband Is 58 years old never been in a gang, he’s just a god ole boy. Old dad bod(I love it 😍) But he can’t ever keep his dang pants up either!😂😂 I feel your pain!
I cant even imagine the pain of that miscarriage, on top of everything else you were going thru.. ive always said that sometimes it gets beyond exhausting having to be strong ALL the time. Youve earned the beautiful life you have now, and its only going to get better. ily jess, and i will forever be so proud of you. 💚
Not a Flex. Just a fact. Cracks me up everytime! Love it.
I like the "ta-da" noise when she says it 🤣
@@sarahschouveller1993 😆... That's another one 😆
😂
pretty sure it's Peter griffin saying ta - da , cracks me up everytime
@@batgurl6969 sounds more like a demented chipmunk to me but it could be a human!
I know felons with better hearts and souls than “regular” people.
So true!!!!!
Definitely true
I’m a nurse and I find felons weather in or out of jail/prison much more polite and respectful person then then non felons
I don't understand why ppl still ask u about having children when you explained it so many times. That has the potential to re-traumatize u any time they ask. Im so sorry for what you went through I've been through that as well and it's extremely traumatizing and excruciatingly painful emotionally and physically
Sticks and stones... Words don't re-traumatize anyone
You're clearly very ignorant and it shows.. @@pukeachu
Thank you for being willing to still be open and honest. We appreciate you!
You mentioned losing your spark,
I just want you to know that you were part of the reason that I decided to go to law school. I got in last spring and I started there this semester. I think about the stories that you tell when I look at cases. I think about your story especially having Micah. I hope to use the training that I’m getting right now to do some good for people that may end up in your situation. You inspired that.
This is by far 1 of the coolest comments I've ever seen & I hope Jess sees it 🙏 keep on keeping on ❤
Girl - so sorry about your uterus struggles. I had problems as well. Thank you so much for being so open with us, esp after everything you have been through.
Not ALL felons are bad. People tend to focus on what once was and not what is. Present tense is what matters. In Jess's case she is reformed. She transformed herself and her life, no longer a drug runner, shes sober , no longer a terrible person as she said she used to be . Shes a gorgeous woman newly engaged mother of 3. Shes sober and responsible. She uses her trauma experiences to educate others. No one talks about that though you know. They leave out the whole picture.
Omg! The loud WHAT! had me absolutely shit scared nearly fell off the treadmill 😂
Hi Jess. I rarely, RARELY comment but have been w you from day 1.
Just had to say, I'M SO PROUD OF YOU. So happy to see you soooooooo happy! PS My Husband is also a felon. Been w him 18.5 years now, and counting. We raised 7 kids together. Wasn't easy but don't blink because it definitely goes by so fast! All of our children are adults now and are thriving!!
I really loved this. Like I always go back and rewatch your lives, and I always feel for you when people start asking stupid or disrespectful things and it's obviously like annoying and disappointing to you and like can alter the vibe a little. So I like just you having total control of the vibe, and being able to share how you want to. Happy for you and everything you have going in your life that brings you joy!! ❤
I’d love for you to do another magazine crew story time, even if it’s a repeat!! You have so many new followers since then, and those story times are relatable in a lot of ways, especially to us recovering addicts!!
I filmed one not to long ago
@@JessicaKentdid u see that stalker freak CJ guy did a video on magazine crew stealing your idea? These people are nuts.
I don’t think it should be socially acceptable to ask people about their plans regarding having kids/more kids etc. Maybe I’m jaded because of my own experiences 🤷♀️ I had my first child no problems and my husband and I agreed to try for another when my son was 2 - which was the start of 4 years of miscarriages and heartbreak before being diagnosed with a brain tumour and told I could not have more children. During that time I was relentlessly told I was selfish for not giving my son a sibling and that he would be a “selfish only child”… then 2 years later I had my miracle baby 💖 It was a very difficult pregnancy but I felt so blessed. I now have a 15 year old and a six year old and until a year or so ago I was STILL harassed by people that my family would not be complete unless I tried for a girl 😂 I am very happy to have my 2 boys and wouldn’t change a thing. Moral of the story? People are frickin weird.
You are so right. The best people I know are actually alcoholics or recovering from drugs. They are so kind to everyone and always ready to help anyone. I'm so proud to call them my friends! Please people don't judge if you don't know the person.
I love your voiceover content it’s always so calming! Helps me body double to clean or cook or whatever my adhd doesn’t have the dopamine for 😂
Ok I got you! ❤️
Ok - that does sound pretty chill- I may need to check it out 💜⚡️
@@sarahissersohn5495 you should! Jess does an amazing job! ❤️
@@JessicaKent Those prison shower videos were nice :) but I'd love to hear some more spicy stuff 😇 About you, your sex life (if u still have it), your pleasures, like how often you Double-click your mouse etc :))
@@bekeneel wtf?
Thank you for sharing your story in regards to the first question as to whether you want more kids/a boy. Sincerely, I am glad you said that was an inappropriate question to ask someone. I have asked people that(usually only an immediate family member and not someone I barely know) and it never occurred to me that it was inappropriate. I never meant anything negative by the question but now I see how inappropriate it is. From now on I will not ever be asking that question ever again! I'm glad I saw this video so I won't do it anymore. I love your videos!
Girl I will never never forgot first having your live streams pop up on my RUclips and following you! An og watcher here
We only have one kiddo and he’s 12 years old. I have some serious health issues that kept us from having a second and the amount of times I’ve heard “there’s always adoption” is truly disgusting
Yeah, we only have one kiddo also. In hindsight, practicing my dropkicks on the ol'ball'n'chain's belly was probably ill-advised
Exact same situation. I’m so grateful to have my son. People really need to stop and think about what they’re saying. Much love to both of you.
@@heather4180 you as well!! I’m sorry you’re in this position as well. It can be difficult but like you said I’m just beyond grateful for my son
@heather4180 Sticks and stones, babydoll. Words ain't going to break any of our bones, no matter how disagreeable we might personally find them from time to time
You are a winner and a warrior! Keep walking with your head held high and keep smiling. I'm happy that you're in a good place in life.
Ive. Seen a huge difference with you coming back to making content. Also I see a difference in your self and proud of you
Hi Jess! Thank you for all the videos you’ve made over the years. I’ve been watching you since the beginning . I would really appreciate if you did make a video about your miscarriage. You absolutely don’t have to if you don’t want to, but I recently went through a miscarriage, and I found a lot of comfort in the videos I watched on RUclips with other peoples stories. Love you so much and I’m so happy for you and I look forward to watching your future videos
Its actually nice to hear about that phone call with Berner. As for the people he hurt... idk when it became acceptable to simp for cho-mos. Yes, i understand that some people have that and never act on it, so good for them. But i have never heard of someone who DID act on it becoming a productive member of society afterwards... they always do it again. By acting like they deserve a redemption arc, you are basically guaranteeing ruining many children's lives. It isnt worth it, and its wack that there are people who think that it is. Pretty telling, if you ask me.
Sooo many keyboard hate warriors on the internet, if u ever meet any of them in real life they couldn't even keep eye contact.
Stay real and happy.
The felon question got under my skin my boyfriend is a felon and an addict and has the most beautiful soul I’ve ever seen. Addiction is unfair and so is the court system he’s not violent at all he treats me better than any man ever has
I get tickled with the “TAAADAAAA” when your mug pops up and you add cheesing next to it. 🤣
I love everything you share. God bless you and Berner.
Any one trying to talk shit or bring others down are not happy with their lives. Happy people don't try to bring others down. 👏
Exactly! 💯
Omg my heart, when you said Mica will be 17 in 5 years! I threw up a bit!!! And Riley will be 13! No longer babies 😢
I love seeing and feeling like your in such a beautiful and much happier and healthier mental place and everything else! I’m a bit older than you and I struggled with a very similar situation and life events. And had a very similar long term (10 yr) relationship relationship w/ my sons father (who also was the only father figure my first born ever knew) and he was king Narcissist and bc of my very crazy childhood and not knowing my biological parents names even let alone who they are among my own adoptive father turning me out on opiates starting around 7 yrs old i didn’t recognize how unhappy and abusive my relationship and life had become. And I was addicted to those opiates from around 7 to 36! I now have 4.5 yrs sober and I relate so much to you. I’m so glad to really genuinely believe you’re doing well. And enjoying life as u deserve! ❤❤❤
Seriously I’ve watched your journey for so long I’m soooo happy for you
That online smear campaign riled me so much!! And I know it riled a lot of other people who have been following you for a while, too, because it was so stupid. Please know that many of us never believed a word - and, instead, support you, believe you, and want you to be happy 💖
The stunt being pulled was **painfully** obvious, and I even caught your ex out in one thread by baiting him (he's really not as smart as he thinks he is...). I wouldn't worry about any followers you lost as a result, because if they're going to be taken in by that dumbassery, and be so ready to believe such blatant horse sh1t, then they're no loss to you. Whilst you never needed to, you would regularly provide proof to back up your version of events that was airtight... And they would provide "proof" that looked like a 5 y/o piecing together some ridiculous online conspiracy theory (eg "person A knows person B. B is the 2nd letter of the alphabet and Jess has 2 kids. That proves that Jess lied about the moon landings". Like, WTF, dude?! None of that makes ANY sense!! 🤨😂).
Here's to a very happy future for you, Berner, and the three little ladies 💖👍
i haven’t watched a youtube q&a video in probably 10 years. i love hearing you talk though. you are so real and funny and being a ride or die crew member is an honor 🥹
Hahaha the corn on the cob comment on his live was funny af! And there were a couple other hilarious ones and yall have a great sense of humor & I loved that Berner laughed at them - like if they’re funny they’re funny. Period.
Thanks for the life updates! Glad to hear that you are building a new life ❤
Jessica!!!! I just wanted to say Hi and Keep Smiling!!
i use to be one of those people who would ask women/couples/men like oh you just had a kid blah blah blah ready for more? until someone pulled me aside and said her husband had just finished recovering from an accident that has likely left him unfertile.... i pulled him aside apologized as we arn't that close but hes a good person and we cross paths at occasional boys nights ect. from then on everytime i think about asking questions like that im reminded like wtf am i asking this shit for?? its personal and isnt even good small talk as it has no follow ups and the most interesting thing and best case scenario is you learn 2 people are rubbing uglies so ive completly cut it out of my conversation... and i feel like people need one weird wake up call like this to realize how fucking odd it is
That felon question really grinded my gears. Also, the fact that those trolls still spend so much time trying to mess with your life is absurd.
I know you know this, but you are doing great and you're happy. People just suck.😂😂
Why do people think they are owed an apology from someone they don't even know?!
You're such a lovely, sweet and genuine person. Those who see it, see it. Some won't and, honestly, who gives af.
If I like a person, I'll stick with them even when they do something I don't like. We are not perfect. We can just strive to be a good people and learn from our mistakes. Idiots can't do that and that is the major difference between them(those who are trolling and harassing you!) and us. And I know that I'm a bit...different than the majority of the population, but I love and appreciate myself and that exact things. Blending with the masses was never my thing and goal.
Try not to let toxic people get you down, although it's easier said than done. But you know your worth and we, those who are supporting you and will stay here no matter what, know that too.
Love from Croatia 💙
Hey girlypop, not seen your videos in so long! So good to see u pop up doing good x
Love your Q&A's! ❤
Thank you for sharing this personal information. It’s very interesting and inspiring. In life we go through different seasons and sometimes what worked for one season doesn’t transfer over into the next so well, and that’s ok.
Am truely inspired by you Jess. Thankful not only that wee met briefly but that as a result I started to follow your content. Just keep moving forward you rock and am rapt that your in a better place. Keep following your dreams.
My husband is a felon and we’ve been happily together for almost 2 decades…. He’s the most kind, accepting loving man I’ve ever known. He will give you the shirt off of his back. And he’s 19 years older than I completely different generations so not only is he a felon but a very progressive individual. ❤ I have family that are felons and are some of the kindest and thoughtful human beings ❤❤❤
Jess, you’re amazing! I absolutely love your outlook on life. I too have in a very toxic and abusive relationship. It’s so great to see you light up when you talk about your new fiancée! Y’all have a beautiful life together and it’s only going to get better from here! I wish I had the balls that you do! I’d love to be a content creator! Where did you learn about filming and editing? Much love to you and your beautiful family, from one of your Ride or Dies! 🥰🩷
I love how open you are always have been watching you for years. I'm so happy for you genuinely and those girls no way. Women support women that's the way in my life it is. We face so much judgement as women it's hard too we are objectified and labeled for what we say do and act and you are such an incredible advocate for this. As for asking about if your going to have more children that isn't an ok question to ask people. I have had 2 miss carriages and an ectopic I know the trauma that comes with that too it's painful but healing and meditation helps. We love you jess ❤
2:30 that should absolutely not be a socially acceptable question.
Agreed!! I understand that people THINK it's socially acceptable, let's change that narrative 👏 not an appropriate question.
I agree, the narrative needs to change. 💯
I think its a basic question to ask. Its only offensive if you have had personal struggles with pregnancy. So the person asking may not know you personally, they may just think she seems like a good mom. We wouldn't ask Jess bc we know her and it bothers her right. But someone may meet her and see how happy her children make her and she seems like a good mom plus she's newly engaged so it's a normal question to ask.
The seatbelt? It is not just about you, you have 2 kids and if something happens to you they will be orphans.
She's saying it for effect
Felons and the ones from the hood have the best heart! I come from the hood 🎉 not a flex but it's truth. I knew so many from the hood and they climbed out too. Have a heart of gold. So Jessica is not wrong! Felons do have a good heart!
That's an absolute great thing to teach your kids Jessica, i applade you.
I seeing you smile makes me happier the rest of the day.
YES! It’s a 180 guys, if you’re trying to say someone has done a complete turn around/change. People mess this phrase up, and say, ‘you’ve done a 360’… that quite literally means that you’re in the exact same place - not that serious just a pet peeve of mine lol
I’m 10k deep in family court already. And all because I’m worried about my daughter’s safety because her dad can’t hold his sobriety for more than 6 months at a time. I am 7 years in recovery and work as a recovery coach so it’s not that I don’t understand substance use disorder. He is a narcissist and he has never been concerned about what is best for our daughter but rather how he can make my life as difficult as possible and in the mean time essentially taking food out of her mouth. I pray it ends soon and that all the sacrifice and money and stress is worth it. I live paycheck to paycheck and these lawyer fees are killing me but I have to keep going for my little girl who got me clean and sober 💪🏻
Im sorry you’re going through that but the money you’re wasting won’t be worth it. I know you want to keep your baby safe but family court ONLY cares about what’s best for the child AND can these two adults get along to figure that out for themselves. That’s it. It’s SO shitty! You have to keep your baby safe bc the courts will not.
I love how youre putting everything on patreon instead of yt, like if im gonna profit off of my pain, im getting the best ROI 😂👌 seriously im not a member, but i am SO here for it!!
My brother pays a mail company to handle his mail, then they forward anything to him that's not junk mail. Might be a good thing to look into, to not have your address out there.
Question for Berner (sorry if this isn't the place for it, just let me know): While you were growing up, how much do you think the Frontrunner train in Ogden contributes to crime/gang activity (since it connects Ogden to so many other cities)?
I freakin LOVE you!!!! You're so strong, beautiful, wise, thoughtful...just an amazing human being and I wish I was friends with you lol
Just curious after getting out of such a toxic relationship if you felt getting engaged so quickly was the wrong decision. You have never been married before? Is that correct?
I was married for 4 years, together for 7 years total and have been separated/then divorced from him for 14 1/2 years. I've been with my current boyfriend almost 12 years. Have lived together since 4 mos after we met. Have moved to 3 different states together and I still don't want to get engaged. Just wanted your insight on your feelings on that.
You're so dang comforting Jess ❣️ thanks so much for sharing
Patron gang 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Thank you for letting us Into your life and brain a bit with this one!
@@ConstellationNails RST!!
@@Faith.Ford.Rivera what's RST? Sorry, it's like 2:30am for me and I can't for the life of me figure it out with my sleepy brain
@@ConstellationNails "Real shit though.." lol no worries
Heck yeeeeeesssssssess🎉 so exciteddddd
Thank you so much for answering my question! I agree so much- it truly is ultimately about learning how to trust yourself above all. Fantastic advice! I’m in therapy with an amazing therapist and it’s been so helpful! I just wanted to say that sharing your personal experiences has been so validating and helpful as I navigate healing from my own Narcissistic relationship. You are brave, inspiring and this world is a more beautiful place because of you 🫶💕
I've been watching your videos for a while in my opinion keep up what you are doing forget what people sat bout you. The success you're talking bout is your success. You're successful in life after prison. With a man who loves you and 3 beautiful children. May God continue to bless you Mrs Kent
❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Proud of you and really enjoy your videos! 💜💜💜
I LOVE the no one more successful than me analogy
“No one more successful than me will….” 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I’m 20 and the kids questions are already starting. STOP IT
I absolutely love you and your content and I got your back. Certain things are just not meant to be shared. Period.
That whole smear campaign got absolutely crazy I haven't watched your stuff in so long. Talk about toxic. What the hell ever her name was Nicole Tracy and the other blonde haired chick I was like I cannot deal with this anymore. 😮 It literally made me sick. I ain't going to sit here and say there weren't nothing on your videos that made me upset I didn't voice my opinion about. But my God how freaking crazy did that get I hope everybody's leaving you alone now.
Left my abuser in 2017. He was silent for years until he sent me a Catholic Annulment in the mail. I was asked to appear in Catholic Court like a year ago, if I wanted to. I threw it in the trash and did nothing with it.
VERY proud of you
Teenagers are a lot more work than toddlers 🤣🤣🤣
Be strong, Jess. We support u.
I’m so proud of you Jess! ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing Jess! ✌️💚
Someone asked me the other day what sgurd i have been taking cause recently lost so much weight in a short time (196lbs-130lbs in roughly 3-4months) and if i planned to ever have anymore kids one day (boy mom of a 13yr old as of monday, and 8yr old with a 8yr old bonus boy) and i literally spent hours after breaking down after, i laughed them off in the moment and said must be the good ones and probably not, but they didnt know my true story, i started dropping the weight because my uterus was trying to end me (along with a couple other health issues we are working on) and that my dr fought for my safety so i could continue to be here with my living children, and i had a total hysterectomy due to medical needs (after we found out, had i not removed it, the cancer they hadnt even noticed yet would of taken over within no time worse then what it already was - they didnt catch it until the biopsies after surergy my dr just knew me and trusted me and my body to believe that we where missing a bigger picture then what we already knew was a problem) then yes i always wanted a baby girl, but i also lost her almost 5yrs ago at 12 weeks in a hospital alone while the father was with our youngest introducing him to the women he was cheating on me with, and was too "busy" to be by my side, Its been 12 weeks since my surgery, losing all the body fat i had, my curves, chest, bottom, and now having nothing but bones and hanging skin, on top of losing everything but my ovaries to keep me safe, has taken a major toll on my mental health and feeling like a woman and to know i walk around and half the people who dont know my story now think that im just a relapsed addict that they can ask insesentive questions to about more children,ect literally destroys me, neither of my boys dads have ever been stably active consistently and to know i finally have a life partner that i would of loved to grow a child with and fill the rest of our heart's with and because of my own body we will never be able to has effected me more then i could of ever imagined, sometimes i wish people would just ask, whats your story instead of assuming or questioning things that could truly be extremely tramatic to someone, i know i made the right choices, and i know in time it wont feel like it does now, but man.... think before you speak to a stranger. 🫶 thank you for speaking up about how that question is NOT okay to bother someone with.
I apologize for asking the uterus question. I didn’t think about it in the way that you shared here! I’m so sorry if I offended you or upset you it was not my intention. I do still love you though and will continue to support and follow you ❤️
Hearing keys tends to set off my prison PTSD.
Back in day I had a total hysterectomy at 31 People would ask if my new husband and I were planning and One thing about being old and kids graduated I no longer get asked but I now freaking get if my kids are having more, any, or when they getting married. I also got that my son shouldn’t have a kid because ftm should not have kids. I have one sea horse grandson. I feel the society no longer thinks boundaries matter and because ur out in public u have no privacy. Ronny and I spoke prior and both agreed that public does or tries to come into your relationship even if its not their place. We agreed only to post one what we want but keeping us with us or with friends/family
My sister's name is also Emerald :)
I may not keep up with your videos as much as I use to but I hate when people are labeled “felons”. Literally it’s something on a RECORD. No one is BORN A FELON. Jess is NOT a felon she’s a woman and Berner is NOT a felon he is a man. People make mistakes and if they fix their mistakes that’s all that matters. Some of y’all are so BORED with your life and seriously need to find something positive to do with your time.
We love a q and a
Ok I do the seatbelt thing too every time I get in the car because I have trauma with things being too close to my neck. And I got a ticket for not wearing my seat belt like 2 months ago. I tried to explain that I had the seatbelt clicked but it didn’t matter. Be careful cuz I didn’t know I was ever gonna get a ticket for that! I mean it makes sense but it never even crossed my mind
Truly excited for new tattoo “burns” lolol. “You have this tattoo!!!” is not a diss guys. He knows it’s there. It’s on his face. Probably didn’t get them all by accident. The people want quality insults or none at all please and thank you! ❤
Of course the kids like Burner, he’s a paint by number.
Yes!!!!
You forgot Tim Allen when mentioning “felons we know” 🤣
14:51 the way you handled this question 👏🏼
you know...i am just a stranger on the net and i am lacking the right words, english is not my language and i try to navigate my thoughts in foreign words but i want to say that i support you. and not every one on the net hates you. i just wanted to say that
Trust and believe, I feel you on that one. My son will be 16 this Thursday Sept 26th 2024. His baby sister, my daughter, will be 8 in April 2025. They grow WAY too fast!!
I really like the skits you do!
Lol me 2 esp. when she dresses up like Burner.
Keep doin you hun! Trolls are always gonna be there. Sucks but it is what it is. Obviously, lol. I respect the fuck out of you and have been a long time follower. You a strong ass woman to still be rockin and rolling, with everything you’ve been through. Congrats on your engagement.
I'll keep saying it. I have nothing but love for you all. I don't have the energy to send hate onto the Internet. Much love and hugs to you all. I hope you have a great rest of your year. ❤
The uterus question!!! For REAL thouggghhh!!! Like stop asking me if im having sex to have ababy! so invasive! Lol
11:41
Just an FYI: it’s a bad idea to say females when you mean women. I know you’re probably not going to see this comment (the video is a few days old already, and you have a life outside RUclips), but I have a good reason for making the recommendation to say women instead.
The reason: I have it on good authority from a man I know who ended a friendship over this, that predators will use “females” instead of “women” to camouflage with normalized patterns what they’re really saying when talking about their attraction to underage girls. The logic comes from the fact that every human female is female, but only adults are called women, so saying females lets them know they’re being inclusive, but hides it from the people who would justifiably hate them for meaning girls either as well as or instead of women. The asshole who revealed this to my source misjudged who he was confessing this shit to, and now I think it’s important to let anyone who is inclined to (even just occasionally) saying “females” instead of “women” know that they probably don’t want to contribute to normalizing that pattern of speech. It’s going to probably become the normal way to talk anyway, but we can sure as hell slow down the evolution of this and deny them the camouflage as long as possible.
I know you’re not a predator, and you would never use it that way, but if this pattern of speech is allowed to stay it’s actually got serious potential to be harmful. Normally grammar changes and speech evolution are fine, but this is the one exception that needs to be paid attention to. If you see this, I really hope you’ll understand I’m only passionate about this because of its potential in the broader social sphere, and it’s not a criticism. I don’t expect good people to realize the harm here without an explanation.
Love you ❤
"It is okay to cry"
I'm going to remember that when I'm knee deep next semester. Thank you for answering my question! 🖤🫶🏼
So early ❤
Thanks for the Q and A. I also have bad dreams of my ex
Old cars had lap belts and some had no seat belts at all. The lap strap is better than nothing, so I wouldn’t sweat it.
My husband Is 58 years old never been in a gang, he’s just a god ole boy. Old dad bod(I love it 😍) But he can’t ever keep his dang pants up either!😂😂 I feel your pain!
Sending you so many hugs.❤❤❤