These women telling him he is "too good of a guy" can't possibly be good women. A good woman would want a good man. Consider yourself blessed that these women are showing you who they are up front. He is not ugly at all. Don't give up. It will happen for you. God bless you.
Oh the myth about "good women don't want good men" 🙄 That's bullshit. Women want good men, but we NEED men who have some leadserhip / dominance attributes (whatever you wanna call it: Not a doormat). And who has those? Unfortunately some guys who are actually not the definition of "good guys" cause they are disagreeable, they can stand up for themselves and towards others for their women. So women end up picking the one who covers our NEEDS any day and sacrifice some "wants". Ideally we'd want a good man who can also lead but there simply aren't that many of those on the dating market.
What they mean is he's boring, uninteresting, or too clingy but they don't want to argue with him or crush his spirits. Sometimes the only characteristic someone has is nice.
@@TaraTiaraBell where are you from? Plane tickets are cheap😇😈.✈️ I’m a “young” man btw lolablue is my pup who passed away🐶🙏🏾. I’m 31 they say I’m handsome but maybe You could give me a second opinion ?
Bruce wouldn’t you want those kind of women to stay in thier truth cuz who got time for games better to leave those kind alone and run into some one that truly wants you for you
To this man. Steve is correct I had the very same problem many women broke up with me because I was too nice. but a female coworker once told me after having my heart broken because of that. She said never let a woman change who you are . now I have a beautiful wife who appreciates me for who I am and how I treat her. be patient brother
Been with my wife just shy of 7 years and I by far from a handsome man. My wife is beautiful and she has all the qualities I love in a woman. God will bless you if you just hold on for the right one.
Stop trying to date America's Next Top Model, date the woman with qualities that mirror your qualities. You really get what you want but whether you'll want what you get is the real question?!
You thinking this dude a female or something lol. Men have no problem dating a woman below them or at there level, it's the woman at the Same level and below him who truly believe they are better then this average man and they deserve a man who has a body builder figure and has a massive income.
I was looking for that cause I'm like that, always swore i would never use a dating app... Used a dating app and found this great amazing guy that is such a gentleman. Hes a legit good guy and I'm falling in love with him. Women do look for that, men do look for that, just gotta look for the one that you start slow with cause we tend to focus on the ones that flirt and makes us giggle and whatnot so we overlook the quiet ones and trust me, if you give them a chance you might find the love of your life.
There are two reasons why women say that. 1.) They are not physically attracted to you. 2.) They have low self-esteem and to actually be treated right by a guy and his family freaks them out.
Preach Steve..... Some women don't know a good thing when they see it! He's a great looking, well spoken young man... God has a special lady for men like him ❤️ 🙏 💕
I don’t know whether to be happy or jealous of these people. I just wonder when I’ll get my first taste of love. I hope it’ll be soon though. I really can’t stress how bad I want it, but everyday it feels less and less likely it’s gonna come and I don’t know how long I can keep believing before finally just letting go of that dream.
Wrong places. Find your interests, whether volunteering at animal shelter or soup kitchen at a church, or some sport, and start by being friendly. Ask for a coffee date, progress to free music or movie. Focus on places you both can talk in unpressured environment. Above all, Be YOUR NICE GUY SELF!!
I really feel for this guy, and LOVE Steve's answer. ❤️ I couldn't see his body, but I might suggest for him to focus on physical fitness/weight training. That may tip the scales and help get him noticed by more women in a romantic way.
Remember being to nice can be a problem, you make it easy for people to take advantage of you. What I am getting at to be a effective leader and a solid pillar in your household, you have to learn how to say no. Then last of all learn to recognize manipulative behavior. It can come from anywhere. From relatives, neighbors; or members of your own family. Remember saying no protects you, as well as them.
Listen to Steve! You are lucky to be rejected by the wrong people--that way you'll be available when the right one comes along. Steve knows about this stuff.
Go where you're appreciated - you'll be like a glass of cool water on a hot day. No point wasting time trying to mix oil with water, just doesn't work out.
Most women need to feel some sense of arousal to put a man in "potential mate" category. Both attraction and arousal can be stimulated via; smiles, laughter, eye contact, stimulating conversation, discovering & sharing common interests, liveliness, flirting, compliments, sharing exciting activities... Attraction and arousal can quiclky be extinguished by a lack of stimulation, especially if it's repeated sequentially. This often occurs due to passive, boring encounters & activities; especially with men who are needy, and/or trying to skip thru 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base 'preliminaries' because they are "driven" towards something they haven't yet "cultivated". Personally I'm totally turned off by men who sends me romantic vibes before we've actually gotten to know one another.
He looks like a respectable man. A full grown man can't be ugly to a woman it just that way. It's about character, drive, purpose. Yes being fit helps but the face overall as a man is something that woman seek after looking at the body and bank account
Finding the right woman comes down to one simple thing where are you looking if you’re going to the club you’re not gonna find it if you’re going to the gym that’s not a bad place church I don’t know no big church guy sometimes just go outside and run in one day I met the love of my life at a party and then fucked it up for the next 3 1/2 years luckily I ran into her accidentally and I’ve been married now for 33 years
Hopeless romantic men are so rare. They are usually faithful and knows about making you feel like a Princess. Don’t give up. I think you are attracted to the wrong kind of women. U need to look for the women who dresses more romantic. Same kind of people will flourish!
I married a really nice guy. Boy is he passive aggressive. Sometimes women get a feeling... and I sure wish I had listened to that 'feeling'. just saying. :#
When a person tells you you're too nice or too good of a person, that's their way of saying that they are toxic and like drama and pain. It's ridiculous and sad.
Hey bro when you are a nice guy, nice guy finish last. Women don't appreciate good men. You wear your heart on your sleeve,I to wear my heart on my sleeve. Be careful because a woman will use you. But don't change how you are just be careful
Not. Not. Not. Treat a woman like a queen if you dare. First she'll act like a queen. Shortly after she'll act like royalty. Then comes stuck up. Bet that
You should be thanking God the way you are.I say because God is weeding the bad ones out.Sir you are not a ugly guy.Just be patient,the right one will come along!!! Don't force it!!!!
its simple he lacks confidence. be the type of man that lets a woman know that you are the catch.. quiet confidence is the strongest. believe that you can pull Beyonce money aside
Not code for ugly. Definitely not ugly. It's code for boring. Find some hobbies or interests. Art, rock climbing, skating. Find out what you like. Broaden your likes. You'll find that good woman you deserve. Also it seems your confidence level is lacking. You are handsome, well spoken, seem intelligent. Seem deserving. You have to know that about yourself or a women will never be able to see it
I've been wanting to hear this from another; while I've continuously telling myself exactly what Steve said to myself. I'm 34 years old im old school, every woman is beautiful and every woman should be treated like a Queen. We Would Be Nothing Without A Woman!!!!!! Bottom line.
My man just wants love. Pretty sure he has to go to ww because bw think he’s not thug enough, he’s not aggressive or any of the other negative attributes bw go for.
These women telling him he is "too good of a guy" can't possibly be good women. A good woman would want a good man. Consider yourself blessed that these women are showing you who they are up front. He is not ugly at all. Don't give up. It will happen for you. God bless you.
Oh the myth about "good women don't want good men" 🙄 That's bullshit. Women want good men, but we NEED men who have some leadserhip / dominance attributes (whatever you wanna call it: Not a doormat). And who has those? Unfortunately some guys who are actually not the definition of "good guys" cause they are disagreeable, they can stand up for themselves and towards others for their women. So women end up picking the one who covers our NEEDS any day and sacrifice some "wants".
Ideally we'd want a good man who can also lead but there simply aren't that many of those on the dating market.
@@ninoslanguagejourney6002 Exactly. He only lacks leadership and dominance (masculinity)
To each is own . And to nice is paying bills and not your gf . Paying for ubers and you can't come over .. getting used basically is to nice
there's no such thing as too good of a man, but there is such thing as too weak of a man
What they mean is he's boring, uninteresting, or too clingy but they don't want to argue with him or crush his spirits. Sometimes the only characteristic someone has is nice.
I'm a hopeless romantic too and he's gorgeous 💜 definitely not ugly
You should hit him up if you're single 😅👌🏿👍🏿
Nice guys finish last ask 2pac
@@nextgenownage I would if I didn't live so far away 😊
Damn I need a woman like you.
@@TaraTiaraBell where are you from? Plane tickets are cheap😇😈.✈️ I’m a “young” man btw lolablue is my pup who passed away🐶🙏🏾. I’m 31 they say I’m handsome but maybe You could give me a second opinion ?
You just haven't met the RIGHT one! You definitely are Not ugly. Please stay "nice", that type of man is hard to find. Stay blessed!
Is that why a lot of the women I know are with a holes?
I just hope he doesn't rush into a relationship, and ends up being taken advantage of!
great advise
Facts! We are out here looking for “that”.
Really?
@@terryjohnson1250
Absolutely! Weeding through the negativity to connect to a like-minded person is the hard part.
@@MsSong2U the evidence would suggest otherwise.
Too nice equals friend zone
@@ministerstayfly9213 To some types of women, maybe. That is not true for all.
Been living that my entire life. The phrase, "I like you as a friend", gets to be wearing after a bit.
Yup
Please don't give up and please don't change. We good women are definitely out here. We get discouraged too so we feel your pain
Treat them like shit they like it they are like cats with a ball of yarn 🧶
Bruce wouldn’t you want those kind of women to stay in thier truth cuz who got time for games better to leave those kind alone and run into some one that truly wants you for you
To this man. Steve is correct I had the very same problem many women broke up with me because I was too nice. but a female coworker once told me after having my heart broken because of that. She said never let a woman change who you are . now I have a beautiful wife who appreciates me for who I am and how I treat her. be patient brother
Thank you ! Stay who you’re if someone don’t want you for who you’re and your values then you may need to wait for the one who fit you
Nice guys don't get laid
Been with my wife just shy of 7 years and I by far from a handsome man. My wife is beautiful and she has all the qualities I love in a woman. God will bless you if you just hold on for the right one.
SIR.....there's someone just craving your tender loving care.....dont give up💝💝💝
I like him! God Bless you on your search🙏🏽
Most women want a good guy when you find the right one for u you will b appreciate brother.
He is handsome, and strong looking.
Nice guys finish last or simply get friend zoned
Steve, on point! No such thing as too nice...
Stop trying to date America's Next Top Model, date the woman with qualities that mirror your qualities. You really get what you want but whether you'll want what you get is the real question?!
You thinking this dude a female or something lol. Men have no problem dating a woman below them or at there level, it's the woman at the Same level and below him who truly believe they are better then this average man and they deserve a man who has a body builder figure and has a massive income.
@G Kab If we only spend half our energy working on our inside, we wouldn't have to work so hard on the outside! Goodness shines through! 🌹
May God blessing Good ♥️
May God blessing all of us to be thankful for good ♥️
Cause your ♥️is talking about God’s blessing ✨✨✨🦋
Yes, you're a gem!😍🥰 The "You're too nice". Is code for they've never been treated nicely.
Yes, he's handsome and his way makes him outstanding 😍
I was looking for that cause I'm like that, always swore i would never use a dating app... Used a dating app and found this great amazing guy that is such a gentleman. Hes a legit good guy and I'm falling in love with him.
Women do look for that, men do look for that, just gotta look for the one that you start slow with cause we tend to focus on the ones that flirt and makes us giggle and whatnot so we overlook the quiet ones and trust me, if you give them a chance you might find the love of your life.
I suffer from the same thing and i gave up a long long time ago because I’m tired of getting used
Fr fr hes awesome u cn c it in his eyes poor bby…🥺
There are two reasons why women say that. 1.) They are not physically attracted to you. 2.) They have low self-esteem and to actually be treated right by a guy and his family freaks them out.
Preach Steve..... Some women don't know a good thing when they see it! He's a great looking, well spoken young man... God has a special lady for men like him ❤️ 🙏 💕
I don’t know whether to be happy or jealous of these people.
I just wonder when I’ll get my first taste of love. I hope it’ll be soon though. I really can’t stress how bad I want it, but everyday it feels less and less likely it’s gonna come and I don’t know how long I can keep believing before finally just letting go of that dream.
Tell him Steve!!
Yes, there is a such thing as being a too nice of a guy, just like there's a such thing as being too naive.
I wish i had a sweet guy like that
Good looking guy 🥰
These Steve Harvey clips are useful.
Bunch of bull crap. Nice guys get played.
Exactly what I'm looking for!!!!
Nice guys finish last. Always have always will
just proves my point that dating is a skill.
Being nice or handsome doesn’t equate to dating success for men.
Best answer Steve ever gave. Be who you are, and date the right kind of woman. There's orobably more to the story.
If people saying you're too nice that means you need to have boundaries. Simple.
I wouldn't say it's code for ugly. But knowing women it's probably code for boring and not sexy.
He's very handsome and seemingly raised well. I pray he ends up with someone made just for him. Best to you Sir ❤
He’s a handsome guy! Where do he live because I’m looking for a guy like him!!!
Wrong places. Find your interests, whether volunteering at animal shelter or soup kitchen at a church, or some sport, and start by being friendly. Ask for a coffee date, progress to free music or movie. Focus on places you both can talk in unpressured environment. Above all, Be YOUR NICE GUY SELF!!
NEVER CHANGE. I’ll take a “too nice” man any day. What kind of world are we living in ???
He's not "too nice, he's trying to go after the wrong type of woman...baddies aren't looking for a 9 to 5 guy, they're chasing a bag with legs
@G Kab so, what are you "going to disagree" with???
I say don’t too much for a women, especially when you just met her. She got to prove her self, just like you do it’s gotta be mutual.
I really feel for this guy, and LOVE Steve's answer. ❤️ I couldn't see his body, but I might suggest for him to focus on physical fitness/weight training. That may tip the scales and help get him noticed by more women in a romantic way.
He's definitely not ugly. Women will walk all over a nice guy. Steve is right, the right one will come along.
He's handsome 😊
Stay this way the right woman will find u if u don't 💯find her first wishing u the best
Got ta say, many are looking for exciting, dangerous, gorgeous, wealthy, then after a few kids realize it's not what they want.
Remember being to nice can be a problem, you make it easy for people to take advantage of you.
What I am getting at to be a effective leader and a solid pillar in your household, you have to learn how to say no.
Then last of all learn to recognize manipulative behavior.
It can come from anywhere.
From relatives, neighbors; or members of your own family.
Remember saying no protects you, as well as them.
"Too good" or "too nice" is code alright... it's code for "I'm not going to sleep with you."
We need to be matched up
He just needs to save that thing on his chin.
I feel his pain.
Stay the way you are.
That part BRO
I think he's very attractive, and I love nice guys!! He will definitely find the right woman.
Sir ,
Hold on,
Change your environment maybe ?
The women saying that , aren't .
There are those ...💞
Be the Good .🕯
What the heck?! He’s cute and sounds great. Please don’t change
I'll take Him
Steve is right there is no such thing as being too nice of a guy, he probably is choosing the hoochies that ain't looking for him is all.
You're perfect. Just have to find the right one!!!
Listen to Steve! You are lucky to be rejected by the wrong people--that way you'll be available when the right one comes along. Steve knows about this stuff.
Please Don’t change find the rite lady 🙏🏾❤️
Great advice Steve and hope he finds the wife God has for this young man. Blessings everyone 💜
Go where you're appreciated - you'll be like a glass of cool water on a hot day. No point wasting time trying to mix oil with water, just doesn't work out.
Maybe he's "looking for love in all the wrong places" in the words of the song.
Most women need to feel some sense of arousal to put a man in "potential mate" category. Both attraction and arousal can be stimulated via; smiles, laughter, eye contact, stimulating conversation, discovering & sharing common interests, liveliness, flirting, compliments, sharing exciting activities...
Attraction and arousal can quiclky be extinguished by a lack of stimulation, especially if it's repeated sequentially. This often occurs due to passive, boring encounters & activities; especially with men who are needy, and/or trying to skip thru 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base 'preliminaries' because they are "driven" towards something they haven't yet "cultivated".
Personally I'm totally turned off by men who sends me romantic vibes before we've actually gotten to know one another.
Ur not ugly no way
He looks like a respectable man. A full grown man can't be ugly to a woman it just that way. It's about character, drive, purpose. Yes being fit helps but the face overall as a man is something that woman seek after looking at the body and bank account
He’s handsome
Finding the right woman comes down to one simple thing where are you looking if you’re going to the club you’re not gonna find it if you’re going to the gym that’s not a bad place church I don’t know no big church guy sometimes just go outside and run in one day I met the love of my life at a party and then fucked it up for the next 3 1/2 years luckily I ran into her accidentally and I’ve been married now for 33 years
He's just been meeting the wrong women. He's attractive.
Hopeless romantic men are so rare. They are usually faithful and knows about making you feel like a Princess. Don’t give up. I think you are attracted to the wrong kind of women. U need to look for the women who dresses more romantic. Same kind of people will flourish!
Let’s go out.
u Only need one and only go appreciate just You för being the person u are
Hope he finds a decent and nice woman. Shame if he connects with a scheming one. He seems perfect.
His “picker” might be off. For example, he might be choosing women who don’t want to be monogamous. He might be choosing women who are broken.
He's cute to me. He's a lil nerdy looking but ain't nothing wrong with that. If he's a good dude hell some lucky lady will scoop him up!
What is this high school. Ain't no grown ass man nerdy looking if a female has that perspective her mindset is still at a teenager level.
He's not nerdy
@@irenek4177 i said nerdy looking. I would have to know him to know if he's an actual nerd or not.
I married a really nice guy. Boy is he passive aggressive. Sometimes women get a feeling... and I sure wish I had listened to that 'feeling'.
just saying. :#
When a person tells you you're too nice or too good of a person, that's their way of saying that they are toxic and like drama and pain. It's ridiculous and sad.
Hey bro when you are a nice guy, nice guy finish last. Women don't appreciate good men. You wear your heart on your sleeve,I to wear my heart on my sleeve. Be careful because a woman will use you. But don't change how you are just be careful
Not. Not. Not. Treat a woman like a queen if you dare. First she'll act like a queen. Shortly after she'll act like royalty. Then comes stuck up. Bet that
Not ugly at all!
Same I’m to good of a person
The hell there ain’t no such thing as a nice guy! Look up Patrice O’Neal “STOP BEING NICE”
You should be thanking God the way you are.I say because God is weeding the bad ones out.Sir you are not a ugly guy.Just be patient,the right one will come along!!! Don't force it!!!!
Not ugly at all.
Amen!
Nice guys finish last.
its simple he lacks confidence. be the type of man that lets a woman know that you are the catch.. quiet confidence is the strongest. believe that you can pull Beyonce money aside
It's a code for Mr Nice
Could he be too clingy???
That’s how Tupac started out but he learned he couldn’t stay that way.
Don’t change
Steve really wanted to say, woman don't want a nice guys
You are looking for the wrong type of woman.
Not code for ugly. Definitely not ugly. It's code for boring. Find some hobbies or interests. Art, rock climbing, skating. Find out what you like. Broaden your likes. You'll find that good woman you deserve. Also it seems your confidence level is lacking. You are handsome, well spoken, seem intelligent. Seem deserving. You have to know that about yourself or a women will never be able to see it
That’s right
I've been wanting to hear this from another; while I've continuously telling myself exactly what Steve said to myself. I'm 34 years old im old school, every woman is beautiful and every woman should be treated like a Queen. We Would Be Nothing Without A Woman!!!!!! Bottom line.
Women just think he’s boring.
Steve straight up lied
These young men its nice
All these chicks talking in this thread... Talking. Words are worthless when your actions are counter to them.
My man just wants love. Pretty sure he has to go to ww because bw think he’s not thug enough, he’s not aggressive or any of the other negative attributes bw go for.