Challenges of marrying young.

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  • Опубликовано: 19 май 2022
  • Married at 20 years and by 26 years she had 3 kids.
    Her marriage never worked and eventually failed. They separated but she blames it all on herself.
    She has always taught her kids to respect their father for he will always be their father.

Комментарии • 168

  • @natashablessings4354
    @natashablessings4354 2 года назад +11

    I gave birth to my first born at the age of 17 yrs, second born at 20 and third born at 23, my marriage failed when i was pregnant with my third born. I was the topic in my village eti nimerudi kwetu na watoi wawili na mimba, but today God turned the tables watoi wangu wawili wako high school,my first born did last year's KCSE and scored a B+ with 77 points,there is God of many chances 🙏🙏 Wambui please pin this watu wajifunze na my testimony wasife moyo

  • @doriswangui6114
    @doriswangui6114 2 года назад +5

    Very educative , informative , she said the truth love yourself enough first before your set forth to love someone else. Very wise woman, her takeaways from her failed marriage has equipped her to help other people. Such a lovely lady!

  • @bredawakio5381
    @bredawakio5381 2 года назад +20

    Mombasa am locked me pia soon nitatafut WAMBUI about fighting something society blames me for yet it's not my wish things are the way they are it's not easy but once my testimony is here I will share it..prayer worriers please interven am passing through alot

    • @annnjoki2421
      @annnjoki2421 2 года назад +2

      Hi Wakio,,, take heart ❤️❤️ it's well,,, God loves you n He's always closer.

    • @susankariuki1607
      @susankariuki1607 2 года назад

      Nono !!! It's you don't based like that!

    • @annnjeri864
      @annnjeri864 2 года назад

      WHAT MY GOD CANNOT DO OR CHANGE INTO GREAT DOES NOT EXIST MY Sister SOON YOUR GOING TO SMILE KEEP STONG IN JESUS

    • @pstleilaciku7171
      @pstleilaciku7171 2 года назад

      It shall be well with you 🙏🏻❤

  • @jamesgathaiya6450
    @jamesgathaiya6450 2 года назад +3

    Let's us appreciate our guest today she's such vibe and straight forwards ,,if you feel you're not ready for marriage don't do it untill you feel you're oky ,,,,better broken relationship than broken marriage

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 2 года назад +2

    The host lady has been thru a difficult journey but resilient.. She's a strong lady. Thanks for sharing

  • @africanoafrica2479
    @africanoafrica2479 2 года назад +8

    Woow today guest is a bomb very positive story we need her again .... sometimes if we focus to much on negative side people lose taste of marriage.

  • @JUSTWANGUI
    @JUSTWANGUI 2 года назад +10

    I agree with her 100 percent , I married young and out of desperation I was 20 too , being with someone I didn't really know ,then getting pregnant has really bruised my life to date because I was wrong and I have been very bitter overtime but am getting back to my senses and with mental growth now am ready to identify a spouse that I will be with for the right reasons.

    • @salomewanjiku7370
      @salomewanjiku7370 2 года назад +2

      Sure,i get married at 19 ad 3kids my husband was21 then niliteseka sana coz my hazi was not matured utoto ulikuwa mwingi,but thanks to God am still in my marriage now11 years

    • @Cate861
      @Cate861 2 года назад +1

      I agree with you at my time I got married@19 and at 24 I had all my 3 kids still in marriage now my grand kids are the ones I tell are my kids

  • @mercykihuga8056
    @mercykihuga8056 2 года назад +2

    Thank u for being real enjoyed the whole talk.

  • @maureengithinji01
    @maureengithinji01 2 года назад

    Aki this is me. Am 20. Am married. I sometimes think to myself that I married young. I pray everything to unfold itself.

  • @estahadassah9470
    @estahadassah9470 2 года назад +2

    Anne, you are an amazing lady 💃🏾. Yours is straight talk 🎶👏🏾💞

  • @wambuinderitu2461
    @wambuinderitu2461 2 года назад +4

    Ann thanks a lot for teaching us.....♥️am young, a student not yet married n you have helped me learn 🥰

  • @jenniferk4167
    @jenniferk4167 2 года назад +1

    Very educative .Thanks 💕

  • @patrickmugo5962
    @patrickmugo5962 2 года назад

    A good approach for the interview. I have learnt something.

  • @coachannmuriithi1588
    @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад +19

    Thanks wambui for having me ...am humbled 💓

    • @sofiasofia2238
      @sofiasofia2238 2 года назад +1

      You are beautiful,eloquent

    • @bredawakio5381
      @bredawakio5381 2 года назад +1

      Wow that hitted differently 😭

    • @annnjoki2421
      @annnjoki2421 2 года назад +1

      Thank you namesake,, you said it the way it is without sugar coating

    • @libertywild7507
      @libertywild7507 2 года назад +2

      You didn't represent us well as Kirinyaga people. Abai lugha itù nìtùmìùwì wee. I mean aria gìkìrìnyaga

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад +1

      Haha liberty wild...yes am from Kirinyaga my dear ..next time nitajaribu sana abai😊💕thank you

  • @joystemmukuhi2842
    @joystemmukuhi2842 2 года назад +3

    This interview is very good. The guest so great. I really like it.

  • @suzzykaroki6518
    @suzzykaroki6518 2 года назад +2

    The best advice i needed to hear. Very timely. Now i have points to talk to my daughter. She's in form 4 and I've been worrying about her life after high school.

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 2 года назад +3

    You're human. You don’t have to be strong all the time. You’re allowed to be overwhelmed, sad, cry, fall down and get back up again. The most important thing is not to lose your link with your Maker. He has a reason for everything. You’ll emerge much stronger.

  • @monicamwangi3122
    @monicamwangi3122 2 года назад +3

    Congratulations wambui...Annie your story has encouraged many........good job

  • @zackzackie.
    @zackzackie. 2 года назад +2

    The woman 👠👠👠 looks🤒 Fantastic namba yake ulisema uifiche kama bangi😂😂😂😂😂

  • @marygitundu7746
    @marygitundu7746 2 года назад +2

    Maisha ni GOD ajarishi uliolewa na miaka ngapi mimi niliolewa na miaka 16 nasasa niko sawa nyumba yangu nimesimama nakutoka niolewe niko na miaka 26 niko na watoto wawili sasa sisi tumeolewa tuache uongopesha wasichana.

  • @joetaxi440
    @joetaxi440 2 года назад +1

    Anne Mueiithi, I totally agree with you, if things done match, the best thing is to stop in order to see why things are not going thru. Joseph Wathuta Wa Nduriri Toulouse France from Ihururu Nyeri Kenya

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      Thank you Joe for watching..
      You can also follow my channel
      ruclips.net/channel/UC5odJDh0Bc8n5H-7xsHNqFA

  • @nellymunene5799
    @nellymunene5799 2 года назад +4

    Can't wait to hear this...

  • @Lufion-
    @Lufion- 2 года назад +1

    Really waiting to hear

  • @annejoy1429
    @annejoy1429 2 года назад +5

    I second u mama I came from a broken family ....that love every child need to me it's a history so got married at 19 even though it never worked I blame myself for getting married by then.

  • @paulinekomu9010
    @paulinekomu9010 2 года назад +2

    He story is nice but left me hanging, we need a full story

  • @sarahkague4525
    @sarahkague4525 2 года назад +6

    Ann has hit it spot on, unhealed emotional wounds are very bad and they control all aspects of our lives. I wish we could all write our own personal journeys as we could relate with this well.
    I live under the motto that if anything I possess will make me break if I lose it, then I don't need it. Life is too short.

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      Oh yes dear Sarah and am so humbled that you understand 💕

  • @serahwothaya5476
    @serahwothaya5476 2 года назад +1

    Team 'Ras iria honoku' hatubanduki. Tumewakilisha🤣🤣

  • @esthermburu6097
    @esthermburu6097 2 года назад +1

    Thanks madam mras,,accepting the truth u a healed

  • @shezeel
    @shezeel 2 года назад +2

    Congratulations wambui 🎉🎉🎉🥳thanks Ann for the encouragement

  • @maryokendi814
    @maryokendi814 2 года назад

    Wambui usifinye toto...Kaa tu comfortable for the sake of that angel....

  • @rosendunge4217
    @rosendunge4217 2 года назад +3

    Wao wambui umebarikiwa..Anne ur so strong woman 👩

  • @mamadenzel9137
    @mamadenzel9137 2 года назад +2

    Her laughter is contagious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rachelmuiruri5689
    @rachelmuiruri5689 2 года назад +4

    You are gud at guiding n giving words of wisdom but hujapeana story yako....ama ni mm sijashika...?

  • @alicewambui1190
    @alicewambui1190 2 года назад +1

    Wooiih,,,I think myn was lyk a movie at. 17first brn,19sec brn as en 21 third born,,,,,, Mwathani I suffered I remember my neiboor telling me aki unakuwanga na watoto wengi,,,,,,,mhusband tukaanza kusubuana na yye ananishow Sasa wewe na hii nursery yko Nani anaweza kubali uende kwake😭😭😭,,,kibarua ya shamba asubuhi jioni ya kufua,,,,,Nie kwa Ngai ndikauma now my womb opener is 14yrs,sec 11yrs and third.9yrs,,,,,,,,at 31 all my praise unto you my Jehovah

  • @ethanngugi1743
    @ethanngugi1743 2 года назад +2

    Its good to be straight forward

  • @joycemokoi4275
    @joycemokoi4275 2 года назад +2

    Heri yeye alkua 21 Mimi at18 two kids but now am happy kuona niko na watoi wakubwa Nikiwa myoung

  • @georgekinyajui1689
    @georgekinyajui1689 2 года назад +7

    First one wapi likes waiting from kitengela

  • @samuelmuchoki7238
    @samuelmuchoki7238 8 месяцев назад

    In Everything our God first He is the giver &maintainer of marriages bcoz there even older couples but they are still passing alot of problems in marriages.

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 2 года назад +3

    At my age I have never thought of marriage Annie Thank you sharing this at 20s it's time to learn and build yourself

  • @teresiawambui3372
    @teresiawambui3372 2 года назад +16

    For once we have a host admitting her failures,congrats,for being accountable.

    • @jamesmichuki5804
      @jamesmichuki5804 2 года назад +1

      I agree n salute this lady. Her honesty and owning up to her weakness are outstanding. She is surely a rare breed of women and easily earns a pat on her back.

  • @Miss-kariuki__251
    @Miss-kariuki__251 2 года назад +1

    Wambo leta Ann tena she's full of wisdom such a good topic

  • @wanjikuwaweru8541
    @wanjikuwaweru8541 2 года назад +1

    It was refreshing to be counselled...
    😚

  • @melissaeston2869
    @melissaeston2869 2 года назад +1

    Wambui pia wewe naona ukichukua tips,, which is good. Mee too God bless that girl.

  • @trizahshiru2028
    @trizahshiru2028 2 года назад +7

    Very educative, marriage is a two way traffic, we should not judge one side only..

  • @shugunderitu8999
    @shugunderitu8999 2 года назад +4

    Me too, kam we stay at 20 gave birth same year and left same year.😂😂😂

  • @shirowkihara6577
    @shirowkihara6577 2 года назад +1

    Leo nita watch but won't comment 🙌

  • @wanyagahostrich2443
    @wanyagahostrich2443 2 года назад +2

    Mimi I always wish when I was 22yrs ningeolewa n give birth even before 30yrs nimalize hii chapter ya giving birth 🤰.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 2 года назад +1

      Am thankful i did what you wish, was very difficult but God came through for me. In my 30’s niko sete

  • @ukweliKE
    @ukweliKE 2 года назад +1

    Awesome talk . Most of the ladies go through similar stages in life. This story should be an eye opener to young ladies

  • @theworld7439
    @theworld7439 2 года назад +1

    What a point, ladies will always blame men for their failed marriages and viseversa.

  • @muigaiwinnie7313
    @muigaiwinnie7313 2 года назад +1

    I love this lady

  • @janemukami7348
    @janemukami7348 2 года назад +1

    Number 5 locked here🤞🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @soniroberts6865
    @soniroberts6865 2 года назад +1

    Number 4 ... waiting

  • @margaretgithu9452
    @margaretgithu9452 2 года назад +1

    na wenye badala ya periods tulipata ball at 17 tuseme tulikua minor 😅😅
    nakuzalia home with that age n no one to guide 😢
    kuna tent yetu?
    but sinilyf my son is 18yrs today n iam 35
    apa 🇦🇪 kazi tu as I get free classes of lifestyle through this channel good job wambu

  • @vivsstudio8105
    @vivsstudio8105 2 года назад +1

    She is into more counseling than giving out her story...

  • @calvixhkamita6018
    @calvixhkamita6018 2 года назад +2

    Waaooh sec born on the way,,,, congratulations

  • @ja9293
    @ja9293 2 года назад +9

    True, unhealed childhood trauma, emotional or otherwise shows up in adult relationships ...I am also against boarding schools for young kids. Let's hold our kids close every day. Avoid boarding schools that tend to cause 'detachment' from parental / guardian love. The seemingly "classy" perception of boarding schools is just an illusion. No teacher can replace the love of a caring mom, or dad, or guardian, or grandparent ( of course this applies if the parents or caregivers are loving and not toxic).

  • @ruthwanjiru4495
    @ruthwanjiru4495 2 года назад +1

    Wambo tuko locked...

  • @Dee_the_blessed1
    @Dee_the_blessed1 2 года назад +8

    20 ain't young for girls depending on the mental maturity and the partner you get,

    • @elizabethnganga
      @elizabethnganga 2 года назад +1

      Wūi!

    • @ja9293
      @ja9293 2 года назад +3

      20 is very young. The frontal lobe of the brain does not fully develop until age 25

    • @elizabethnganga
      @elizabethnganga 2 года назад +2

      @@ja9293 very well said!

    • @SM-th6cm
      @SM-th6cm 2 года назад +1

      20 is young surely!

    • @marymugwe7150
      @marymugwe7150 2 года назад +1

      20 is very young

  • @bensonndichu4246
    @bensonndichu4246 2 года назад +2

    Wambui ati mukurino and rastah falian

  • @teresiawambui3372
    @teresiawambui3372 2 года назад +8

    Thank you Anne,you can save a marriage even if yours is broken.

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад +1

      Teresia yes dear ..our experiences should be used to help out others and help them with love

    • @caroslifestyle619
      @caroslifestyle619 2 года назад +1

      Very true I am going to call her tomorrow

  • @jsamukuyubae4103
    @jsamukuyubae4103 2 года назад +4

    Is she talking about me ???this my story very similar

  • @rosemwai8791
    @rosemwai8791 2 года назад +2

    Hi Wakio.
    You can talk to me .
    I'm here.
    Take heart

  • @simonmurage7177
    @simonmurage7177 2 года назад

    Wambui nîwecuka,
    Ona ndikûonete tiga ndaigua nîria hu ra nguo

  • @beatriceweru7894
    @beatriceweru7894 2 года назад +2

    My boss back then in chandaria lady with a golden heart

  • @maggienjenga3949
    @maggienjenga3949 2 года назад +1

    You were better in age than me hahaha

  • @jsamukuyubae4103
    @jsamukuyubae4103 2 года назад +2

    I got married at 17 give I first born at 18 ,3 kids a 25😌i also blame myself a gup of 10yrs with my partner also how I was raised intervined

  • @marywanjiku3026
    @marywanjiku3026 Год назад

    Think uhana ihu

  • @simonmurage7177
    @simonmurage7177 2 года назад

    But you don't pick calls wambui..I called several times but went answered

  • @chegecatherine8349
    @chegecatherine8349 2 года назад +2

    Ndi kuo ona nii

  • @africanoafrica2479
    @africanoafrica2479 2 года назад +4

    Wambui mwangi why you not talking about the pastor you hosted the other day and she passed away alteast show some concerns to your viewers.
    Wambui nyumba ya shosho wa 90s nayo aje

    • @wambuiwamwangi
      @wambuiwamwangi  2 года назад +1

      we posted on Tuesday
      concerning shush house we did a follow na shush akaingia nyumba mpya on December. Though she has been sick on and off

    • @joykimathi3011
      @joykimathi3011 2 года назад +1

      What the guy who married 7 ladies ?

    • @wangaremakimii2578
      @wangaremakimii2578 2 года назад +1

      Pastor yupi Tena..

    • @africanoafrica2479
      @africanoafrica2479 2 года назад

      @@joykimathi3011 wa 7yrs he was talking like whispering

    • @annwamithi8355
      @annwamithi8355 2 года назад

      @@joykimathi3011 does she mean that pastor,Wambui tuambie kama ni huyo please.

  • @marykuria8472
    @marykuria8472 2 года назад +1

    Tuned as usual

  • @teresiawambui3372
    @teresiawambui3372 2 года назад +1

    On a light note, when yo you digest you off load not download

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      Haha some times words dissapear when their needed most ... thanks for noting💓

  • @coachannmuriithi1588
    @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

    Am in

    • @njamatv
      @njamatv 2 года назад

      Hellooo Ann

  • @mamatwins5379
    @mamatwins5379 2 года назад

    Twedi ndwari kanini... mahikaga mari teens🙌

  • @monicakahenya6441
    @monicakahenya6441 2 года назад +3

    Mimi niliolewa na 17 and still niko

  • @jaynesam6958
    @jaynesam6958 2 года назад +1

    Wambui wacha kuvinya mtoto.. kaa free

  • @davidkinyaki
    @davidkinyaki 2 года назад +1

    Ucio Ni mutumia Ngatha

  • @juliaduncan5009
    @juliaduncan5009 2 года назад +2

    You have not given us your story,much of it is coaching

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      Sorry julia but that was the objective if you would listen to wambuis introduction.. blessings

  • @joe6680
    @joe6680 2 года назад +1

    Sex should strictly come after marriage. Pass this information to your doughters.

  • @mburulucky9580
    @mburulucky9580 2 года назад +1

    You can’t choose your family. The Almighty has done that for you. So learn to give and take as much as possible. Remind and guide when you can. Remain respectful and keep the peace. It’s not easy. But know that breaking the ties of kinship is a huge sin.

  • @rahabnganga2793
    @rahabnganga2793 2 года назад +1

    Our guest could be a good counselor she's so deep.

  • @bingimwenyewe5416
    @bingimwenyewe5416 2 года назад +1

    Unfortunately I never learnt anything today. She never told us her story. Why she left her marriage despite the fact that she's soo beautiful

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      Bingu mwenyewe...the objective was speaking about challenges in marrying young.sorry that you learnt nothing.soon ill share in details.

    • @bingimwenyewe5416
      @bingimwenyewe5416 2 года назад +3

      @@coachannmuriithi1588 thanks Anne for the feed back. Personally I would like to know the challenges women face because am looking for someone to settle down with and I don't want to mess anyones daughter. I listen keenly to learn what women want so that I won't make a mistake in future others made

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      Bingi,i am happy that your keen to understand the woman .. however of importance is to know first that theres always going to be issues of different nature in marriage..and understanding yourself first is what is most important...when we understand ourselves and the inner US then we are able yo be patient as we learn others ..and we can tell if we are able to put up with their nature as well.
      You can reach me if in need of coaching on more of this through the number aired.

    • @bingimwenyewe5416
      @bingimwenyewe5416 2 года назад

      @@coachannmuriithi1588 thanks. I will halla. I don't wether you are comfortable because our timings are different. I might call you but it could be late night in kenya.

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      Bingi,My working hours is 8am to 5pm Kenyan time.

  • @petergicharu7738
    @petergicharu7738 2 года назад

    T

  • @susanwaggi8903
    @susanwaggi8903 2 года назад +1

    Ff

  • @ezranjehia8384
    @ezranjehia8384 2 года назад +1

    Sasha hii ni story gani! Nonsense!

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад +1

      Sorry it didnt impact you .. the intention was good thank you.

    • @joekaruga7746
      @joekaruga7746 2 года назад +2

      Ezra what is nonsense to you is so much sensible to someone.Share ur sense.Learn to respect others.

  • @maxwellgichovi4066
    @maxwellgichovi4066 2 года назад +2

    I think you are counselling rather than giving your story. Am bored

    • @coachannmuriithi1588
      @coachannmuriithi1588 2 года назад

      This was the objective.apologies for not meeting your need.💕

  • @020shiko
    @020shiko 2 года назад +2

    Sasa wambui this is my true I need her number