Mimi slap ya kwanza nilitoka with my two kids, am still single but my former husband is still marrying na kutupa. @ times we get married to total failures in relationships
My daughter in faith, my firstfruit in my ministry, bless the Lord for you, will never forget that day you got saved, called an altar you answered the call, was so shocked to see you, but God saved you just the way you were, transformed you. God perfect everything that concerns you, you are destined for greatness
Hey, yours was a real battle between God and the devil. God won. Hallelujah! I kept asking myself what kind of girl you were. It was satan at work but praise God all is well that ends well.
That's my story ten yrs back,,,I went through hell kuchapwa kutukanwa mbele ya watoto,watoto kutenganishwa Hadi naambiwa niende nitafute baba zao,but all in all I thank God he lifted me again,Kuna mungu ambaye hupigana vita vyetu
This lady is so beautiful, so youthful. It's a testament to God's grace. May the lord restore you completely and May he give you beauty for ashes. May you sow where you'll yield a great harvest in Jesus name 🙏
What do people want? When you used to smoke weed, cigarette and drink alcohol it was a problem, when you quit it was a bigger problem, what do you do? You have a lot of patience and thanks to God for the deliverance and transformation. You are so beautiful, both of you look great ❤❤❤
Aww she is our neighbor in Ondiri. Her love for God and ministry is so surreal . Sadly she has had to endure alot in her marriage. Wakabiru gai arokuririkana agucenjerie ritwa 🙏. Thank you Wambui for sharing her story❤️
ur blessed hio uamuzi ni ya nguvu umenibariki sana wamama wako kaburi juu walishidwa kuamua wanauliwa wakivumilia lazima wamama wajue do si kuvumilia nikupedwa kama hupedwi unavumilia nini toka umsamehe na ukwamie yesu mwanaume amejaa mapenzi mume akiamua kubadilika merudiane alishidwa kaa kwa yesu ukipata umepata yote asante kwa kusamehe pia uaeda bali God bless you kuna shida kubwa kabisa kwa wanaume kama huyu hupedi mkeo unaka?waume ukichoka na mtoto msichana wa mtu mwambie aede kwa si kumchapa wazazi vujeni mila ya kutohesabu wasichana kama warithi parent simameni mseme apana huwezi nichapia msichana wangu akikushida ako na kwao wapewe mashamba .
GOD will always protect you Mom your story it's the same my story I was going through with my Ex the life I went through it was hell I thank God 🙏 today
Your guest is a kingdom first-born...the person who carries a ministry in any family..such person goes through hell and people don't understand them...but she have reached her destiny now nothing can stop her.gal go go
Yur tomorrow is greater momıe yur beutiful and Good mother and natıon better to be a sımple life with joy and happy. Serve yur God mom without any fear becoz one day yu will enjoy. Forgive and forget what yu pass through stay what yu see God want.
I do not know why i have listened to your story. I have refused to listen to these stories any more. I am sick and tired of women subjecting themselves to years of abuse. Why? Why? You had a long opportunity to plan for a very good exit to clean out that home of your investment. All your sweat seem to have been wasted in that home. However, you are a strong woman. May the Lord bless you in your destiny.
How could you go through such torture in the name of marriage..... na vile that family appear respectful...shame on him....go go go and do what's you have been called by God to do and may the good Lord continue to guide you sister
The worst part about gbv is,one cannot undo what they have already done to their spouses and children the wounds and scars remain forever.For this case the man may desire to change now but what will he do to erase the pain.
I think it is proper to allow every person involved here to heal. It is not easy to put up with a wife who smokes or abused drugs. A church going , a born again mother inlaw would feel totally lost with a daughter inlaw like her. Let's be real here! However, it is divine to forgive especially now that she has found the Lord. Thank God, that the old is gone and the new has come.embrace your faith and live for the Lord. He has better things planned for you. All the very best.
I would not encourage any woman to go thru this kind of shit for the sake of marriage. Your peace and happiness matters. Your kids need a happy mother. You will make it. You are strong 👍
Ooh pole kwa yote everything happens with a reason thahabu njega igeragiruo mwaki ini be strong with God utaenda far better kwahiuha kiura ruga no need to stay in a toxins marriage
Very Powerful Words From Wambui.. Fine Gold Goes Through Fire..You Are An Amazing Woman.. Hold On To God..Forgiveness is The Key.. Stand Up And Look On To God Almighty
Cameraman kumulika dreads,,,,she is so beautiful.I feel bad for her,she worked so hard in that home,farming,milking, kupigwa...but the good thing is making a decision to run for your dear life.Wacha aandike mtu ajue ulikuwa unafanya kazi...jiachilie kwa Mungu ,serve him now without fear he surely will come to your rescue.
The most interesting thing is that: there are two sides of Kīambu that don't mix- across the King'eero border. They are different, those are different. So most older generations hold strongly true. Another thing I have observed: the big name church members feel other churches are sort of 'not right'... We are all sojourners in this life, equal as can be, and this life in us is not ours, at all.
Wambui Mwangi, I ask you sometimes to be letting your audience speak their peace because there could be an important part of the story you’re missing. Kindly 🙏🏾 This woman is so strong and inspires a lot of us who have gone through domestic violence. I urge you, because I know you probably haven’t experienced it, allow someone to speak to their end. Thank you
For once we have a person admitting the 'sins' we committed during our youthful days.And now when our kids do this we are up in arms....ati 'watoto wa siku hizi' good story and well delivered.
One thing I know Presbyterians are very much against changing churches especially a certain generation of our parents. Afadhali uvute bangi Na usitoke PCEA
This is very unfortunate and Am asking myself. What a coincidence,, When this woman was drinking and smoking which is very weird behavior for African lady and especially Kikuyu and to make the matter worse wife of someone. That her husband was very good to her but when she had turning point w8th positive impact, the husband turned to be so evil to her. How can he dare even to insults her in front his children and son in law. I can see you have a very great destiny and I hope when your husband will meet head-on with Christ this marriage will be elevated to another glory. I also like the words of wisdom from Wambui Mwangi. Pastor P w be strong in the Lord Jesus and preach the gospel in season and out of season. Amen
I don't see a problem so whe a man do those things is right but when a woman do is wrong , why? So that means there's is someone who has power than others, everyone has his or her life and if you're really worry about what your spouse does you should consult them with care not violence because people go through alot to end up in that situation and if you cant you can go your own ways
@@TerryRoberto This topic is not even negotiable. If you are smoker or you drink alcohol it is your choice and you can even share with your children. Why should you be mean to them if you are feeding your body the right things but to me I know smoking and drunkenness is very evil thing
Wambo,today you have a very interesting guest, funny,I didn't know that those early days ladies could smoke until they get addicted.....I happen to know that beautiful lady and truely you can't judge a book by its cover...
Was married @ 18 years, separated after 6 years left with my two kids, now both mature, my former husband is still marrying na kutupa bibi na watoto ako na bibi wa tano sasa @ times we marry TOTAL FAILURES. Nobody should stay in an abusive, toxic marriages just for image.
I AGREE NO WIFE SHOULD BE ASSAULTED OR BITTEN AS THERE ARE BETTER WAYS TO RESOLVE. I THANK GOD FOR TURNING PRISCILLA'S LIFE AROUND. HOWEVER, THERE IS ONE PART SHE FAILED, IF YOU ARE MARRIED YOU ARE SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR HUSBAND AND THE BIBLE SAYS SO. IF HER HUSBAND WAS NOT HAPPY OF HER BEEN AWAY FOR DAYS AND SOMETIMES WEEKS TO MINISTER,SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE GONE WITHOUT HER HUSBANDS BLESSINGS. SHE SHOULD HAVE SERVED GOD LOCALLY AND GRADUALLY TRANSITION TO TRAVEL TO GIVE HER HUSBAND TIME TO BLEND IN TO THAT NEW DEVELOPMENT. THIS WAS A 360 DEGREES TURN AROUND THAT THE HUSBAND WAS NOT USED TO LEAVE ALONE THE IN LAWS. GOD DOES NOT HONOUR WHEN YOU DISOBEY YOUR HUSBAND. SHE CONFIRMED A TIME CAME THEY DID NOT HAVE FOOD IN THE FARM AS SHE WAS BUSY MINISTERING. SHE SHOULD HAVE TAKEN CARE OF HER FAMILY FIRST BEFORE GOING TO SERVE OTHERS. THIS FAMILY WELCOMED HER VERY WELL AT THE BEGINNING AND HUSBAND ACCOMODATED HER EVEN AFTER FINDING OUT SHE SMOKED. SERIOUSLY NO AFRICAN HUSBAND WILL TAKE THAT ESPECIALLY THOSE DAYS. I THINK THE GUY LOVED HER VERY MUCH. I GUESS THERE WAS COMMUNICATION BREAK DOWN AND EVERYTHING ELSE WENT LOOSE.
some Christians have wrongly used these Bible verses as an excuse for husbands to mistreat their wives, the verses actually communicate the vast responsibility a husband has to care for his wife and the wife’s duty to honor her husband. Eph. 5:24 Paul does not mean that wives must endure abuse, neglect, or mistreatment of any kind by their husbands. Rather, Paul is reminding the church that a wife is under the leadership of her husband (Eph. 5:23). A Christian husband must always show his wife honor, both publicly and privately, and protect her dignity and reputation from any and all slander (1 Pet. 3:7).
The husband is to provide. But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. (1 Tim. 5:8) Lets stop switching roles.
I think he should have left her if he was unable to deal with her comings and goings. Because even when she tried to change, he became even more abusive and more of a drinker. Nobody is perfect but I don't think this lady is to blame here..at least not entirely. This guy had issues of his own, least of all poor self-esteem, addiction, plus he was a violent, abusive man. I am glad she had the strength, albeit late, to leave him amd find her peace.
@@janenyaruiru4588 where do you get your doctrine of which comes first between love and submission and whether one is a command and another is an ask. This is the sort of religious thinking that leads to disappointment then you begin blaming God
Mimi slap ya kwanza nilitoka with my two kids, am still single but my former husband is still marrying na kutupa. @ times we get married to total failures in relationships
My daughter in faith, my firstfruit in my ministry, bless the Lord for you, will never forget that day you got saved, called an altar you answered the call, was so shocked to see you, but God saved you just the way you were, transformed you. God perfect everything that concerns you, you are destined for greatness
Hey, yours was a real battle between God and the devil. God won. Hallelujah! I kept asking myself what kind of girl you were. It was satan at work but praise God all is well that ends well.
I'm so excited to have you as a father! The day you bought me a new bible marked the beginning of the great ministry! God bless you Dad ❣️
That's my story ten yrs back,,,I went through hell kuchapwa kutukanwa mbele ya watoto,watoto kutenganishwa Hadi naambiwa niende nitafute baba zao,but all in all I thank God he lifted me again,Kuna mungu ambaye hupigana vita vyetu
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This lady is so beautiful, so youthful. It's a testament to God's grace. May the lord restore you completely and May he give you beauty for ashes. May you sow where you'll yield a great harvest in Jesus name 🙏
Twatiguo hugging Wairimu ena maudu mainge muno no NGAI ario geteine ndukamake my namesake wihe hinya no ukuhona Ngoro
What do people want? When you used to smoke weed, cigarette and drink alcohol it was a problem, when you quit it was a bigger problem, what do you do? You have a lot of patience and thanks to God for the deliverance and transformation. You are so beautiful, both of you look great ❤❤❤
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My question too
Too much of anything is poisonous
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Angemfukuza tu..or she should have left a lot earlier. That man hated her guts.
wambui wewe ni msafi aki,,,you always look stunning mama Jabali....Mungu akulindie sisi Sana,good health all through gal
Nashukuru Mungu.
amen amen.
Amen! You are absolutely right 👍👍👍
Marriage is not a bed of roses and in laws should respect someone's marriage. Putting GOD first is number one.
Aww she is our neighbor in Ondiri. Her love for God and ministry is so surreal . Sadly she has had to endure alot in her marriage. Wakabiru gai arokuririkana agucenjerie ritwa 🙏. Thank you Wambui for sharing her story❤️
Waaah wambui ambia huyo mahubiri ajipee nguvu onanii rugano rwakwa ruhana uguo
I love your counsels wambui wa mwangi. ❤️
ur blessed hio uamuzi ni ya nguvu umenibariki sana wamama wako kaburi juu walishidwa kuamua wanauliwa wakivumilia lazima wamama wajue do si kuvumilia nikupedwa kama hupedwi unavumilia nini toka umsamehe na ukwamie yesu mwanaume amejaa mapenzi mume akiamua kubadilika merudiane alishidwa kaa kwa yesu ukipata umepata yote asante kwa kusamehe pia uaeda bali God bless you kuna shida kubwa kabisa kwa wanaume kama huyu hupedi mkeo unaka?waume ukichoka na mtoto msichana wa mtu mwambie aede kwa si kumchapa wazazi vujeni mila ya kutohesabu wasichana kama warithi parent simameni mseme apana huwezi nichapia msichana wangu akikushida ako na kwao wapewe mashamba .
Wairimu your praise and worship is the best
GOD will always protect you Mom your story it's the same my story I was going through with my Ex the life I went through it was hell I thank God 🙏 today
Nima kaba kweherera uture na thayu gukira ugage wi muhiku na no maithori,you are strong n blessed woman keep moving God is always with you ❤️❤️
Your soo beautiful may God see you through and open door for you
She's so open and beautiful in n out
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God bless you n give you strength
May you be blessed & grow stronger 🙏🏾 . You will be okay 💕
Haiya!! Hi namesake,Muiruri is my dad and he’s your bro,we call my nephews “kairuri”you’re beautiful.For me I’m not trying this marriage thing
My dear cousin, and family pastor, may God bless you for the great work you have done. It is going to be well.
Pole pastor for what you have gone through,follow your calling God never disappoint.
May God bless your platform.....Wambui and pst pricilla May God bless you ........I love the last part or this story ...
Your guest is a kingdom first-born...the person who carries a ministry in any family..such person goes through hell and people don't understand them...but she have reached her destiny now nothing can stop her.gal go go
Yur tomorrow is greater momıe yur beutiful and Good mother and natıon better to be a sımple life with joy and happy. Serve yur God mom without any fear becoz one day yu will enjoy. Forgive and forget what yu pass through stay what yu see God want.
❤ God bless you and your ministry
My dear friend God is doing a new thing, how blessed are the feet that take the word,Pst i respect the anointing in you, and God will use you
All things work together for the good of those who love him who created you in his image and likeness.
Wairimu nindamaka.....pole sana nitakutafuta......Ann wa kamau from kinoo
Very beautiful heart ...mambo good men got shida
This sounds interesting.... awaiting.🇮🇪
I do not know why i have listened to your story. I have refused to listen to these stories any more. I am sick and tired of women subjecting themselves to years of abuse. Why? Why? You had a long opportunity to plan for a very good exit to clean out that home of your investment.
All your sweat seem to have been wasted in that home. However, you are a strong woman. May the Lord bless you in your destiny.
How could you go through such torture in the name of marriage..... na vile that family appear respectful...shame on him....go go go and do what's you have been called by God to do and may the good Lord continue to guide you sister
Haki this lady na mûiru wake si wamepitia magumu woi....may God refresh you
May God bless you and meet your needs
Wambui wa mwangi God bless you💗💖💖💓❤🧡👊👊👊👊
Mama jabali you look so stunning dearest mungu akubariki sana mammy penda you sana
Wambui good job 💖💖💖
Nice story wambui good job wamama hupitiya mengi aki
sorry mama,men have this habit kuheaga ciana uhoro wa nyina na nihindiria ciana cigimarire.vibaya Sana
The worst part about gbv is,one cannot undo what they have already done to their spouses and children the wounds and scars remain forever.For this case the man may desire to change now but what will he do to erase the pain.
What a testimony!
Pole mum God bless you and will take you far
You are so beautiful... And you are a servant of God .. God bless ..you.. ,(you are going far...
A strong woman of faith
Everything happens for a good reason for those who truly trust in God you'll go far my dear..
God's doing.....may you live for many years to reach many and to change those who are taking those things drugs.
Ladies really pass alot in their marriages bt God will always stand with ladies.
Kudos mum.
Four months I think it was too fast to tell your story, but all the same I wish you all the best in your new life.
I think it is proper to allow every person involved here to heal. It is not easy to put up with a wife who smokes or abused drugs. A church going , a born again mother inlaw would feel totally lost with a daughter inlaw like her. Let's be real here! However, it is divine to forgive especially now that she has found the Lord. Thank God, that the old is gone and the new has come.embrace your faith and live for the Lord. He has better things planned for you. All the very best.
May God bless your ministry.
no beating at all move on
I would not encourage any woman to go thru this kind of shit for the sake of marriage. Your peace and happiness matters. Your kids need a happy mother. You will make it. You are strong 👍
Ruhii rwa mundurume mundu aiguaga tari ruku rwamugutha
Dear God Heal Our Homes N Marriages....
Ooh pole kwa yote everything happens with a reason thahabu njega igeragiruo mwaki ini be strong with God utaenda far better kwahiuha kiura ruga no need to stay in a toxins marriage
Very Powerful Words From Wambui.. Fine Gold Goes Through Fire..You Are An Amazing Woman.. Hold On To God..Forgiveness is The Key.. Stand Up And Look On To God Almighty
Thank you Jesus Christ. He is with you.
Good job ,mama Jabali 💕💕💕
Waaao May the Lord visit you and do you good! Your patience is on another level!
ata mzee wangu,ako hivi ukieda mahali ukirudi ana uliza watoto huyu ametoka wapi.
Wambo ngwendete❤️kwanza sauti God bless you
Wambui thanks,that's the best I've listened to,very encouraging, Wambui from Karatina
Cameraman kumulika dreads,,,,she is so beautiful.I feel bad for her,she worked so hard in that home,farming,milking, kupigwa...but the good thing is making a decision to run for your dear life.Wacha aandike mtu ajue ulikuwa unafanya kazi...jiachilie kwa Mungu ,serve him now without fear he surely will come to your rescue.
The most interesting thing is that: there are two sides of Kīambu that don't mix- across the King'eero border. They are different, those are different. So most older generations hold strongly true.
Another thing I have observed: the big name church members feel other churches are sort of 'not right'...
We are all sojourners in this life, equal as can be, and this life in us is not ours, at all.
Oh my God, so embarrassing,, mungu tusaidie sisi wamama
Good job wambu
I would like to listen to the Husband.Hapo alipata watu wameenda alafu anaomba 50 bob na ako na ministry hapo...If possibe invite husband too
Good job 👍
You have a great seed of greatness in thats why thebdevil was fighting you
Haha ma ndiri ndaigua uhoro Wa thigara na niguo wari murata wakwa 🤣
This is my friend weuh
Wambui turehere part 2 pliz
You look good, pastor n wambo
Mama hio nywele haina doa na bado una hubili
Wambui Mwangi, I ask you sometimes to be letting your audience speak their peace because there could be an important part of the story you’re missing. Kindly 🙏🏾
This woman is so strong and inspires a lot of us who have gone through domestic violence. I urge you, because I know you probably haven’t experienced it, allow someone to speak to their end. Thank you
What do you mean ?
For once we have a person admitting the 'sins' we committed during our youthful days.And now when our kids do this we are up in arms....ati 'watoto wa siku hizi' good story and well delivered.
According to my point of view Wairimu kiyo giaku nikio kia maturaga i have passed all so i can relate to your pain.
Damn that’s my age mate. I can’t imagine this happening after this long
Naniguo wi muthaka ma
I feel you😥😥😥😥
A God of second chances always will come knocking ur door keep pressing on my dear sister there is God in heaven watching over you
One thing I know Presbyterians are very much against changing churches especially a certain generation of our parents. Afadhali uvute bangi Na usitoke PCEA
Ushio Muthuri egugwetha muno after kuona bata waku utari gwake i asure you he will came crawling for forgiveness
This is very unfortunate and Am asking myself. What a coincidence,, When this woman was drinking and smoking which is very weird behavior for African lady and especially Kikuyu and to make the matter worse wife of someone. That her husband was very good to her but when she had turning point w8th positive impact, the husband turned to be so evil to her. How can he dare even to insults her in front his children and son in law. I can see you have a very great destiny and I hope when your husband will meet head-on with Christ this marriage will be elevated to another glory. I also like the words of wisdom from Wambui Mwangi. Pastor P w be strong in the Lord Jesus and preach the gospel in season and out of season. Amen
I don't see a problem so whe a man do those things is right but when a woman do is wrong , why? So that means there's is someone who has power than others, everyone has his or her life and if you're really worry about what your spouse does you should consult them with care not violence because people go through alot to end up in that situation and if you cant you can go your own ways
What's wrong with woman smoking and taking alcohol.tumetoka hizo enzi
@@TerryRoberto This topic is not even negotiable. If you are smoker or you drink alcohol it is your choice and you can even share with your children. Why should you be mean to them if you are feeding your body the right things but to me I know smoking and drunkenness is very evil thing
@@m.cndungurichman7751 I don't drink too,but I don't condem Walevi cos I know am not perfect. Hakuna haja ya kujifanya holy
Majabu ya mungu ni mukubwa
Racheal njeri look alike
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This lady is numb.May God heal you
Wambo,today you have a very interesting guest, funny,I didn't know that those early days ladies could smoke until they get addicted.....I happen to know that beautiful lady and truely you can't judge a book by its cover...
Wambo you never dispoint, looking good as usual
Someone to tell that rooster ( jogoo) itulie maji ichemke😂
Tuna hesabu siku sasa🙌
Wakabiru nitukwendete.
She is a woman of respect even now she recognises her husband kibiru.
This is attacks of the devil just to frustrate you through your husband but God will fight for you
I always respect muslim religion mwanamke akaae kwA nyumba with kids kalas
Never fear just obey God.
Woi pole tuko wengi mine almost 20yrs by someone who was preaching the word God 💔💔💔 💔
sorry for what you went thru
Essie kwani tulikuwa pamoja aki pia mm20yrs nilitoka 2019 na pia yy alikuwa pastor ,woiyee mungu tuonekanie
@@suechiku9591 Woi haki is too painful 😓 and betraying expecialy to the church very embarrassing
@@wambuiwamwangi thanks wambui ❤️❤️❤️😓
Was married @ 18 years, separated after 6 years left with my two kids, now both mature, my former husband is still marrying na kutupa bibi na watoto ako na bibi wa tano sasa @ times we marry TOTAL FAILURES. Nobody should stay in an abusive, toxic marriages just for image.
Wambui rathimwo ni Ngai.
Such a funny story!
Tene mugeni aheyaguo album onage kamuira chai uhie 😅
I recall and relate🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Sarahirara Only legends can understand this interview
Wambui Kai uriithiitie nguku icio irakuga
When women visit you for first time they are always ok to give you never disappoint you to eat home delivery
Ni kii mundu mugima ahuragwo akahurwo Na ndangiohora? What’s the worse evil? Just wondering..
I AGREE NO WIFE SHOULD BE ASSAULTED OR BITTEN AS THERE ARE BETTER WAYS TO RESOLVE. I THANK GOD FOR TURNING PRISCILLA'S LIFE AROUND. HOWEVER, THERE IS ONE PART SHE FAILED, IF YOU ARE MARRIED YOU ARE SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR HUSBAND AND THE BIBLE SAYS SO. IF HER HUSBAND WAS NOT HAPPY OF HER BEEN AWAY FOR DAYS AND SOMETIMES WEEKS TO MINISTER,SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE GONE WITHOUT HER HUSBANDS BLESSINGS. SHE SHOULD HAVE SERVED GOD LOCALLY AND GRADUALLY TRANSITION TO TRAVEL TO GIVE HER HUSBAND TIME TO BLEND IN TO THAT NEW DEVELOPMENT. THIS WAS A 360 DEGREES TURN AROUND THAT THE HUSBAND WAS NOT USED TO LEAVE ALONE THE IN LAWS. GOD DOES NOT HONOUR WHEN YOU DISOBEY YOUR HUSBAND. SHE CONFIRMED A TIME CAME THEY DID NOT HAVE FOOD IN THE FARM AS SHE WAS BUSY MINISTERING. SHE SHOULD HAVE TAKEN CARE OF HER FAMILY FIRST BEFORE GOING TO SERVE OTHERS. THIS FAMILY WELCOMED HER VERY WELL AT THE BEGINNING AND HUSBAND ACCOMODATED HER EVEN AFTER FINDING OUT SHE SMOKED. SERIOUSLY NO AFRICAN HUSBAND WILL TAKE THAT ESPECIALLY THOSE DAYS. I THINK THE GUY LOVED HER VERY MUCH. I GUESS THERE WAS COMMUNICATION BREAK DOWN AND EVERYTHING ELSE WENT LOOSE.
The husband's are COMMANDED to love their wives while the women are ASKED to submit. Love comes before submitting
some Christians have wrongly used these Bible verses as an excuse for husbands to mistreat their wives, the verses actually communicate the vast responsibility a husband has to care for his wife and the wife’s duty to honor her husband. Eph. 5:24 Paul does not mean that wives must endure abuse, neglect, or mistreatment of any kind by their husbands. Rather, Paul is reminding the church that a wife is under the leadership of her husband (Eph. 5:23). A Christian husband must always show his wife honor, both publicly and privately, and protect her dignity and reputation from any and all slander (1 Pet. 3:7).
The husband is to provide. But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. (1 Tim. 5:8)
Lets stop switching roles.
I think he should have left her if he was unable to deal with her comings and goings. Because even when she tried to change, he became even more abusive and more of a drinker. Nobody is perfect but I don't think this lady is to blame here..at least not entirely. This guy had issues of his own, least of all poor self-esteem, addiction, plus he was a violent, abusive man. I am glad she had the strength, albeit late, to leave him amd find her peace.
@@janenyaruiru4588 where do you get your doctrine of which comes first between love and submission and whether one is a command and another is an ask. This is the sort of religious thinking that leads to disappointment then you begin blaming God