This is emotional. Our men are working so hard that they miss out on enjoying life with their kids. The kids grow up and when they don’t need your money anymore, then comes the distance between you and them. Most kids maintain their friendships with their mothers even as adults but have very little interest in their fathers. To men, please enjoy the money you’re making too. You’re part of the family. Don’t be a stranger in your own home
Being a single mother is hard especially if the dad isn’t absent by choice……… sometimes death creates a single parent situation and you will never forget it cause of all the stigmatisation around single parenthood.
Tolanibaj is always speaking sense and saying things that a lot of people can relate to. Her mentioning how the bond between a man and his baby mama makes them family for life 100% true. I’ve witnessed about 3 situations whereby a man and his baby mama ends up getting married after a long time of disagreement. The funniest part is the baby mama getting married to another husband, having a child for that husband and still going back to remarry the man who made her a baby mama. All these things are happening for real!!! I’ll always find this podcast interesting🤭 Love you, Tbaj🥰❤️❤️❤️
Your pod keeps getting better every episode🔥🔥 This was emotional🥺 esp the part Tbaj almost shed tears. You're a strong Lady,keep pushing.💯 Well-done ladies.👏
Great topic Great episode ❤ New found respect for tbaj especially with answering questions Yes, it’s best to have both parents. No one is better alone UNLESS circumstances make you parent alone ❤
Please do some research into this IVF success Rate and how much it cost for from start to finish, this is mostly for wealthy people don’t give most women that hope. Please try do things the right way that is mom and Dad, it’s just easier for you and your child. And if you just want a child remember your child will grow up and leave you to build their families. Get a companion at least
I haven't watched this podcast yet but from watching the snippet i can say that my mum is a single parent and as much as she tries so hard and obviously lack at some bcs she wasnt meant to train my brothet and i alone,emotionally it takes its toll on us as the children. My mum has really been there for me and i respect her a lot but it tells on ms emotionally. Not having a father figure made me scared of relationships at a point and still affects my relationships bcs i just dont know how to wing it. Anyways shout out to all single parents!!! Y'all are loved
Moet needs to heal. I see where the hate for men is coming from now. I think she should try therapy with her dad cause she's still holding a lot of pain and hurt from his absence in her life.
Lol. So which one does Moet think is more unsettling.. Knowing who your dad who doesn’t want to be in your life is, or not even knowing who your dad is, like being totally clueless as to "whose loins you come from" 😅
Not in all cases. A family may start with child. The child may be the reason why the parents decide to get married. Some people believe that once there’s a child between a man and a woman, they’ve automatically become husband and wife. The love they have for the child could convince them not to separate. They eventually may not get married officially, but just decide to bear more kids and expand the family.
TRUTH BE TOLD...AFRICAN PARENT DON'T WANT HIS OR HER CHILD TO DISRESPECT HIS CULTURAL VALUES WHILE RAISING HIS FAMILY IN THIS PART OF THIS WORLD ESPECIALLY THE NIGERIAN PARENT...LITERALLY..THEY REALLY DON'T CARE..AND..NO MATTER HOW THEY ALWAYS FOLLOW THERE CULTURAL INSTICT AS ALWAYS?
LADIES...NOT EVERY PARENT HAVE THE SAME ATTITUDE..AND..MOST AFRICAN PARENT BELIEVES..THAT...HE'S THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY...AND..WHATEVER THEY SAY GOES WITHOUT ANY CHALLENGE..BUT..NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND! ALSO...THIS GENERATION OF THIS ERA HAS BEEN INFLUENCE..BY..THIS WESTERN CULTURE THAT HAS NO VALUE TO US BEEN AN AFRICAN PARENT THAT GREW UP WITH A HUGE SENSE OF CULTURAL HISTORICAL VALUES AND DISCIPLINE REGARDLESS OF WHO'S INVOLVED?
POINT OF CORRECTION...LADIES...YOUR PARENT UPBRINGING IS QUIET DIFFERENT FROM YOU LADIES ERA..AND..REMEMBER..THAT...DURING...THERE OWN TIME THERE'S THIS KIND OF AFROCENTRIC MENTALITY PARENTING VALUES OF DISCIPLINARY FAMILY BACK THEN! WHICH...THEY CARRY ALONG WITH THEM...WHEREVER...THEY GO TO..AND..LITERALLY REPECT THE CONCEPT OF AFRICAN CULTURE IN THEM WHICH THEY REALLY BELIEVED IN DEEPLY WITHOUT BEEN DISTRACTED! ALSO YOUR PARENTS BEEN STRICT IS FROM A PLACE OF LOVE❤❤❤ REGARDLESS OF OUR INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES?
Moet and Tbaj is the combo we didn’t know we needed 🔥🔥
This is emotional. Our men are working so hard that they miss out on enjoying life with their kids. The kids grow up and when they don’t need your money anymore, then comes the distance between you and them. Most kids maintain their friendships with their mothers even as adults but have very little interest in their fathers. To men, please enjoy the money you’re making too. You’re part of the family. Don’t be a stranger in your own home
Being a single mother is hard especially if the dad isn’t absent by choice……… sometimes death creates a single parent situation and you will never forget it cause of all the stigmatisation around single parenthood.
Tolanibaj is always speaking sense and saying things that a lot of people can relate to. Her mentioning how the bond between a man and his baby mama makes them family for life 100% true. I’ve witnessed about 3 situations whereby a man and his baby mama ends up getting married after a long time of disagreement. The funniest part is the baby mama getting married to another husband, having a child for that husband and still going back to remarry the man who made her a baby mama. All these things are happening for real!!!
I’ll always find this podcast interesting🤭 Love you, Tbaj🥰❤️❤️❤️
😯
Your pod keeps getting better every episode🔥🔥
This was emotional🥺 esp the part Tbaj almost shed tears. You're a strong Lady,keep pushing.💯
Well-done ladies.👏
This podcast is really keeping me funky... Firstly the way u guys express so effortlessly.. the vibes.. infact I love it.. bahd n boujee to the world❤
Great topic
Great episode
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New found respect for tbaj especially with answering questions
Yes, it’s best to have both parents.
No one is better alone UNLESS circumstances make you parent alone ❤
I am loving Bahd and Boujeee!!!!!!!!!
Biggest Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaj not the little one😍😍😍
Biggesttttt baaaaaaaaaj... Pls u guys should respect boundaries and allow this grl for me .. u are doing well mehnnnn
Tbaj is so smart! Atleast when she wants to be but if you want clueless she’d give you That too…. I love me some Tbaj!
I love love this episode ❤❤❤
Tolani's relationship with her mum is so sweet and beautiful.
You'll see it in her RUclips channel.
Please do some research into this IVF success Rate and how much it cost for from start to finish, this is mostly for wealthy people don’t give most women that hope. Please try do things the right way that is mom and Dad, it’s just easier for you and your child. And if you just want a child remember your child will grow up and leave you to build their families. Get a companion at least
Them go adopt last last.
I haven't watched this podcast yet but from watching the snippet i can say that my mum is a single parent and as much as she tries so hard and obviously lack at some bcs she wasnt meant to train my brothet and i alone,emotionally it takes its toll on us as the children. My mum has really been there for me and i respect her a lot but it tells on ms emotionally. Not having a father figure made me scared of relationships at a point and still affects my relationships bcs i just dont know how to wing it.
Anyways shout out to all single parents!!! Y'all are loved
My father was everything & more!!!!
I agree , more men need to learn how to be good fathers. Society gives men too much slack
I really enjoyed this conversation, keep it up. ❤❤❤
Love every bit of the show
This podcast 🥹🥹🤌🏽🤌🏽🫶🏽
Tolanibaj ❤
Tbaj we agree 100%
The average man will not pick a woman with kids over a woman Without kids
Abi ooo child wey de heaven de drink capri sonne you bring am come life come de give am agbo Jedi 🤦♂️
Tbaj is such a baby girlll😍🥹🥹😍🫶🏽🫶🏽
Lovely discussion 👌
I love it. Honesty and varying opinion but the both have a way of talking it .
Loving this podcast tbaj I love you big baj not the little one
Most women won’t like to deal with baby mama issues; same way most men don’t like to deal with baby daddy issues.
Moet needs to heal.
I see where the hate for men is coming from now.
I think she should try therapy with her dad cause she's still holding a lot of pain and hurt from his absence in her life.
Literally when u have a child don't force the nigga to love Ur child let it come effortlessly... But if he did allow him to flow with the child❤
Created in love or lust
Lol. So which one does Moet think is more unsettling.. Knowing who your dad who doesn’t want to be in your life is, or not even knowing who your dad is, like being totally clueless as to "whose loins you come from" 😅
A family starts with marriage not child.
Not in all cases. A family may start with child. The child may be the reason why the parents decide to get married. Some people believe that once there’s a child between a man and a woman, they’ve automatically become husband and wife. The love they have for the child could convince them not to separate. They eventually may not get married officially, but just decide to bear more kids and expand the family.
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TRUTH BE TOLD...AFRICAN PARENT DON'T WANT HIS OR HER CHILD TO DISRESPECT HIS CULTURAL VALUES WHILE RAISING HIS FAMILY IN THIS PART OF THIS WORLD ESPECIALLY THE NIGERIAN PARENT...LITERALLY..THEY REALLY DON'T CARE..AND..NO MATTER HOW THEY ALWAYS FOLLOW THERE CULTURAL INSTICT AS ALWAYS?
Lol.
LADIES...NOT EVERY PARENT HAVE THE SAME ATTITUDE..AND..MOST AFRICAN PARENT BELIEVES..THAT...HE'S THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY...AND..WHATEVER THEY SAY GOES WITHOUT ANY CHALLENGE..BUT..NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND!
ALSO...THIS GENERATION OF THIS ERA HAS BEEN INFLUENCE..BY..THIS WESTERN CULTURE THAT HAS NO VALUE TO US BEEN AN AFRICAN PARENT THAT GREW UP WITH A HUGE SENSE OF CULTURAL HISTORICAL VALUES AND DISCIPLINE REGARDLESS OF WHO'S INVOLVED?
POINT OF CORRECTION...LADIES...YOUR PARENT UPBRINGING IS QUIET DIFFERENT FROM YOU LADIES ERA..AND..REMEMBER..THAT...DURING...THERE OWN TIME THERE'S THIS KIND OF AFROCENTRIC MENTALITY PARENTING VALUES OF DISCIPLINARY FAMILY BACK THEN!
WHICH...THEY CARRY ALONG WITH THEM...WHEREVER...THEY GO TO..AND..LITERALLY REPECT THE CONCEPT OF AFRICAN CULTURE IN THEM WHICH THEY REALLY BELIEVED IN DEEPLY WITHOUT BEEN DISTRACTED! ALSO YOUR PARENTS BEEN STRICT IS FROM A PLACE OF LOVE❤❤❤ REGARDLESS OF OUR INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES?
But why una de forget say women fit pure hypo for your black too?!🤷🏽♂️
You guys are broad up from a broken house jare ... you fit perfectly to your show tho
Please talk about abortion as a solution to single parenting
What!
You guys try on this podcast this time