How to seduce an ESFJ | CS Joseph

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @Chekuthan0101
    @Chekuthan0101 5 месяцев назад +7

    2 Si users with no idea what's happening around them. Fascinating 😮

  • @rogerbee1234567
    @rogerbee1234567 5 месяцев назад +12

    se woman walking across the fucking street just to pose in front of the camera and walk back the same way lmfao

  • @leviathan4971
    @leviathan4971 5 месяцев назад +17

    Skipping ENFJs? no way

  • @julianah.5157
    @julianah.5157 4 месяца назад +1

    You gotta be buzzed in this

  • @amandapendley5352
    @amandapendley5352 5 месяцев назад +2

    When Samwise rolled up I done lit up like a cigar. Great to see y'all together. Thanks as always, Chase.

  • @00Klingon
    @00Klingon 4 месяца назад

    It's good to confirm that some UD INTJ are hard to notice. Reminds me of a female INTJ co-worker who is completely morose about everything, like a caricature of Eeyore. She's extremely good at her job, but nobody seems to notice her except in how morose she is. She was quick to trust someone who showed her a modicum of respect and next thing you know, the gifts started flowing and she began to open up. Worked hard to be deserving of that trust.

  • @stivii5322
    @stivii5322 5 месяцев назад +4

    Had to click right away, great content :))

  • @law9051
    @law9051 5 месяцев назад +1

    Awesome seeing Sam! Fun video😁

  • @amberfaille394
    @amberfaille394 5 месяцев назад

    It’s so cool that you are so open and seem happier now. Would you ever share why?

  • @Godbrother
    @Godbrother 5 месяцев назад +4

    Are these streams going to be uploaded to the recording (podcast) section soon?

  • @clarinettel574
    @clarinettel574 5 месяцев назад +7

    Hello Chase. Thank for this video, was good.
    One question please : is this me or ENFJs tend to expect that everyone (listen to them, yes but also) have to take care of them and serve them because they take care of everyone + Si trickster make them self-neglecting ? Kind of gluttony Java-The-Hutt-ish, "serve me while I'm on my ass instead of doing it myself", "I rely on you for this 100%, yea, much appreciated." when at its worst ?

    • @carlurbananimals
      @carlurbananimals 5 месяцев назад +4

      Ni parent (which is a pessimistic function) holds people around them to very high standards, which is why I have been unintentionally avoiding them my whole life

    • @chriskozak7356
      @chriskozak7356 5 месяцев назад +1

      ENFJ Ne critic/Te demon is ridiculously annoying. Especially when they have an overactive Se child. They'll blow up their own gluttonous life, not take any risks (ti inferior worry) yet criticize you for what they perceive is laziness or incompetence. And this is coming from an INFJ that's had an ENFJ sister and close friend for years. I struggle with mind temple types.

    • @clarinettel574
      @clarinettel574 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@chriskozak7356 exactly ! hedonist as f*ck yet hypercritical.
      I've forgiven them so many times because Fi nemesis makes me feel soooo sorry for them.
      one question for you : can you tell me what were your struggles with each one of mind temple types please ? (thank if you do, fine if u don't).

    • @supremegentleman4276
      @supremegentleman4276 5 месяцев назад

      Yes

    • @ericalvarez6018
      @ericalvarez6018 5 месяцев назад +2

      I heard that hi fe users (esfj, enfj) have this thing were they endure things for people without asking for help then they want you to listen to their logic (ti) wrong or right because they endured this thing for you. If you don't listen to their logic (ti) then say fuck everybody (te). It's about they're (esfj, enfj) logic(ti).

  • @lau3003
    @lau3003 5 месяцев назад +6

    I observed that golden pair is awesome for friendship.
    I’m an INTJ having ENTP bestfriend, sister and Dad and they are simply the best for helping me through any kind of adversity and for having fun while discussing history politics and society in general.
    BUT for love, omg this is so hard, feels like it couldnt work unless we are 70 yo and our Fe/Fi childs finally grow up 😂
    I defenitely prefer feelers for love, they are kind and reassuring by default.
    I’m in love with an ENFP and we have the strongest bond ever.
    The Zendaya Tom Holland kind of bond
    And yes Tom Holland is an ENFP (wake up he is too socially and emotionally aware to be intp!!)
    My point is to say you should emphazise more on compagnion relashionship bc the attraction is there and the complementarity is priceless !
    For natural pair : as an INTJ my natural pair is ESFJ and I agree that I’ve got a huge compatibility with ESFJ (lot of highschool friends, and gay friend).
    I dont know many hetero ESFJ men, they are rarer than INTJ women in France I presume 😂

    • @chriskozak7356
      @chriskozak7356 5 месяцев назад +3

      I've always said that I think golden and silver pairs are best for friendships, while natural, super ego and pedagogue are the best relationship pairs

    • @piotrnogas8448
      @piotrnogas8448 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@chriskozak7356 great observation; super-ego might be rough though, at least at the beginning ;)

    • @chriskozak7356
      @chriskozak7356 5 месяцев назад +1

      @piotrnogas8448 Yeah, for sure. It takes time especially dealing with octogram. Just saying from experience, my three best friends currently are 2 INFPs (silver) and 1 ENFP (gold), and theose friendships are pretty much unbreakable. In general, I've never met an INFP or ESTJ I haven't gotten along with. We support each other, but also know when to keep each other in check respectfully. Also was in a long term relationship with an ENTP, and that was the most effortless, brilliant partnership I may ever have.
      -INFJ, M, Ud/Sf

    • @lau3003
      @lau3003 5 месяцев назад

      @@chriskozak7356 I agree for pedeagogue and natural ! Not so sure for superego, lot of attraction but not sure it would work in the long run unlesss you live in a comunity with other types since superego diad share communication and interaction styles (less complementarity in communication)

    • @aladdout9454
      @aladdout9454 4 месяца назад

      Nah. The other way around is good too if not better. You just have a preference for this.

  • @pthfnder450
    @pthfnder450 5 месяцев назад +2

    True thing Sam. My sister calls it pretty girl syndrome. She right on the money with Ti parent there.
    Thanks for another Chase. Loving it.

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 5 месяцев назад +1

      Who has Ti parent?
      You're not mentioning your sister type.

    • @pthfnder450
      @pthfnder450 5 месяцев назад

      @@honor9lite1337 My sister has Ti parent.

  • @pfff936
    @pfff936 5 месяцев назад +5

    Why'd you skip ENFJs?

    • @Al.kathrah24
      @Al.kathrah24 Месяц назад

      There is a whole video about "how to seduce an enfj".
      Unfortunatly, it slipped under the radar and u won't find it in the playlists, you can find it by typing the title in the searching engine.

  • @LonerWolf1224
    @LonerWolf1224 5 месяцев назад +2

    Eat cigars, drink vodka and vomit knowledge. Lol.

  • @Saavys
    @Saavys 5 месяцев назад +2

    Samwise the GOAT 🐐

  • @MK-100x
    @MK-100x 5 месяцев назад +1

    Cool podcast Chase. Nice to see Samwise

  • @noThing-uw9xd
    @noThing-uw9xd 5 месяцев назад

    All a guy has to do is to say I'm ugly and ignore me and I'm down bad😩

  • @intpninja
    @intpninja 2 месяца назад

    The hard part is determining someone’s octagram

    • @CSJoseph
      @CSJoseph  2 месяца назад

      It’s the easiest

    • @intpninja
      @intpninja 2 месяца назад

      @@CSJoseph I’ll have to do a deeper dive. Is the general theory here that acting coquettish works best on SDSF people who have opposite cognitive functions? Would someone in the same quadra require acting rakish?

  • @Istpmom
    @Istpmom 5 месяцев назад +2

    Go Sam!

  • @Amrrkevin
    @Amrrkevin 5 месяцев назад +3

    13:00

  • @Saavys
    @Saavys 5 месяцев назад +3

    Algorithmic comment

  • @Istpmom
    @Istpmom 5 месяцев назад +2

    C.s. Grandpa 😂🤣😂 (old man)

  • @spinningadam
    @spinningadam 5 месяцев назад

    I'm sure I saw Sam in Lord of the Rings

  • @Istpmom
    @Istpmom 5 месяцев назад

    Esfj’s just not giving a shit. Lol

  • @supremegentleman4276
    @supremegentleman4276 5 месяцев назад +1

    Maybe they Te demon jungian psychology. Te demon is the worst

  • @StanleyNewbury-f4i
    @StanleyNewbury-f4i 2 месяца назад

    Wilson Christopher Harris Larry Harris Thomas

  • @carlurbananimals
    @carlurbananimals 5 месяцев назад

    This video brings me shame, I've used my Delta Quadra vice on a lot ESFJ women in my life, and 2 specifically my Ti critic was too certain that I liked them which left them really overloaded. Recently been looking for Alicia Keys type ENTP to Te Parent in shopping centres, but after watching this video and compulsively raking at an estp woman in her 40s at church today i dont think i can watch these videos without feeling shame.

  • @tylerpond1229
    @tylerpond1229 5 месяцев назад +6

    You’re beginning to talk past people more and more. Becoming more difficult to listen.
    That guy would have easily joined you on the show if you just started typing him. No need to ask if he wants to be on. Assume the sale!

    • @rogerbee1234567
      @rogerbee1234567 5 месяцев назад +3

      the guy was obviously scared to be exposed as ignorant after chase defied him talking about women’s prime

  • @redtape3260
    @redtape3260 5 месяцев назад +2

    Samwise is an INTJ

    • @marty2090
      @marty2090 5 месяцев назад

      How can you say shit like that so shamelessly? Like, you provided zero proof or arguments. Do you have some personality disorder?

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 5 месяцев назад +4

      His body language and demeanor is clearly representation of the Crusader type, an introverted one.

    • @Yaboi-yl6rr
      @Yaboi-yl6rr 5 месяцев назад

      Nah, I live with the guy

    • @NotCJ95
      @NotCJ95 5 месяцев назад +1

      He's verrryyy clearly Si child/Se Trickster XD