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My parents taught me a lot but the one that came to mind is speaking properly. If I used slang like "ain't" or " yo, what up?" Instead of "isnt" or " how are you?" I'd get a smack for that! Now, in my 30's, I say that stuff all the time lol. They were correct though. Speaking properly helps so much in job interviews. also just to seem more educated and respectable.
I can relate with “save everything” and don’t waste resources because my grandparents lived in the Soviet Union, so my grandma is a big hoarder and nothing ever goes to waste. It’s a goldmine really, they still use plastic bags from 20 years ago
One of the main problems with plastic bags is when sunlight comes in contact with the bags. If you keep your bags away from the sun as much as possible, your bags should be able to last for much longer. Another problem is heat. If you keep the bags at about room temperature, the bags will also last longer. I have noticed that bags that are kept in the truck of a car tend to fall apart quicker than those that are kept in the house. Also, if you clean your bags, then you might not even want to throw them away. (Of course, I just use plastic bags as trash bags.)
As far as I know, putting shoes neatly together facing forward towards the entrance comes from the old times when the houses were made of wood and paper and has a pure practical reason: in case of fire and earthquakes (usually followed by fires) one could get the shoes on and evacuate as quickly as possible.
It's good to teach children to be considerate of other people. But if manners just become "rituals" just for the sake of looking good, people should consider if it's worth beating it into their kids...
My wife and I are Americans, but we still take off our shoes for cleanliness and comfort. Unfortunately, we don't keep them organized and often have to search for the matching pair we want to wear before going out! I've often thought about making a getabako for practicality (and because I'm so fond of many things Japanese:).
Same here; I always wear slippers indoors .However I don't like going completely barefoot since I always am banging my feet on something or stepping on painful. 😬
Taking off shoes inside a home is universally an Asian thing. Not uniquely Japanese. I'm Filipino, And all of us here take off our shoes inside our homes.
All the acts with mottainai in mind makes sense but skip the worn out socks and especially the toothbrush part because they need to be replaced before the bristles splay. The rest reminds me of the very simple things I do to help prevent waste and needless expense.
I was fortunate to train in karate with roots in Shuri, Okinawa. We were taught much of what is described here. Manners are very important, as they show respect and self control. Greetings, in proper order, were important for similar reasons. We also placed shoes neatly. 😊 This video explains much, and is appreciated.
7:08 I can understand. The more an activity is related with violence and/or competition, the more politeness is important to avoid conflicts. Even gamers have politeness codes like glhf and gg
Even dogs have a method of politeness for this. It's called the "play bow", and it's a very clear signal that the dog is engaging in play and not actually viciously attacking their buddy. It's different from human bows, though. So politeness during violence among friends goes way back.
In Uruguay many parents teach their children to be humble while teaching them not to let people walk over them by telling them "you don't matter more than anyone, bot no one matters more than you"
They all good manners, I cam from a big family we were taught manners mainly by my mother of course saying a prayer before start eating and give thanks after we were done it was a must, one more thing we were taught as kids when sit with adults you listen more than you talk so you could learn wisdom from adults.n
Many of these ‘ don’t waste ‘ rules are common in countries that suffered through WW II and the lack of supplies ( at least the older Generation ) I still see my Dad use the back side of his comb to empty out toothpaste tubes etc. my mom had several little devices that would roll up tubes so they could be emptied completely I still use them out of respect for nature’s gifts ( or am I allowed to say out of respect for the kami of food / condiments )
4:20 That's actually rather unhealthy. You should replace your toothbrush at least every 6 months regardless of how nice it looks. All that grime adds up. Also should soak it in mouthwash about once a week or so.
Omg my parents used the hard toothbrushes thinking it would last longer but now dentists tell you to use the soft ones for better gums. I also noticed toothbrushes lack effectiveness when splayed out from overuse.
so interesting. I also had a strict family but from a different culture, greetings, please may I , thank you , excuse me and very strict table manners were all enforced. I really enjoy your content! I am sub and happy to share your vids with others!
What was the most devastating consequence of my own breaking of the rules while growing up was getting disapproval from my father. In some cases that was devastating enough, even without words.
#1 - I grew up in Hawaii where it's customary to take your shoes off before going in the house .... well, it's most often zori, at least in the old days and a lot of people might have zori that look the same. You might walk home in someone else's shoes! Or with one of yours and one of theirs because the color is similar and it's late at night etc. So I learned early to put my shoes together neatly so I could find them again, no one else would get them mistaken for theirs, etc. It's just common sense!
My grandparents spent their childhood in the post war era, so they suffered famine and lack of basically everything. So, they taught their children and grandchildren the "mottainai" of our country (that is basically what you explained in the video, but with a lot of leftovers recipes). I remember my grandmother praising us for finishing our share, and taking any leftovers to the fridge for the next meal. Sometimes, she froze it and appeared days later, when we (in theory) had forgotten that one meal. Nowadays, I try to plan the meals so no food is wasted (I still fail sometimes) and I really regret having food spoiled, although I only experienced hunger when on a diet XD. In the present time, trying to reduce consumption of items and recourses is a good thing in the global scheme, so there are a lot of different "mottainai" approaches taking place at once.
I think the shoe thing is situation dependant. I also have a no-shoe rule in my home. However, I live alone and very rarely have guests. Therefore, only 1 or 2 pairs of shoes are at the doorway at any given time. In this situation, I've found that switching between house sandals and outdoor shoes is FAR more efficient if all pairs face one side, rather than forward or backward. Stepping to the side is less of a awkward balancing act. Bonus: no rotating needed I can understand though that in other situations, in which multiple people live in (or visit) a building, that facing shoes forward is more orderly and would look nicer. :)
Hello Shogo, I'm from Germany and I was taught as a kid to be honest, mostly independent and that rights and duties come as the two sides of the same coin. A person can't have one while disregarding the other. In my family, politeness, whether table manners or greetings, or just respect for others, was not taught as much as it probably should have been. School does cover it a bit. But it's more of "get along with each other and listen to the teacher" than making someone look noble or well-raised. Mottainai wasn't exactly taught in my family either. It was more like "if you don't look after your stuff, you won't have as much". Most of my family do put the shoes neatly together unless they are in a hurry, but it was never considered important. Just practical. It's interesting to see what is different in another culture.
Not being wasteful was and continues to be a big rule for both my husband and myself. For him he was raised as it being respectful, for me I had a rough childhood and was kicked out at 17, so was very poor and see it as part of being resourceful.
Great points, I had to laugh at pulling out the plugs from the walls on appliances or electronics not in use. They have a bypass within the machine when not in use and doesn't use any electricity. My grandfather was very strict on water, because water heater wastes heat. The water would always turn freezing half way into filling up the tub for a bath. 🥶
So after watching this, suddenly I wonder how much my grandfather was influenced by being a practicioner of Judo. This is all pretty common in my household as well, even from a european background. Its nice to see when cultures collide like this.
Hi Shogo, I love your channel and all the information! And also that video. Please consider that the consumerism of our generation is the cause for all our environmental problems, so the thought of もったいない is more important than ever. Looking forward to your next video!
I would say my parents taught me almost all the manners you mentioned. They're the basics and I would say everyone should atleast be taught these. Especially the resources one, it will eventually become a habit with everything.
Mostly, it's the same rules that I grew up with. My parents were very strict too. Often the punishment didn't march the degree of our behavior. Mottainai... If we left a single grain of rice in the bowl, he would lecture us how a single grain would turn into multiple amount of rice every time. As an old weman I am today, I still practice all those. I didn't beat my kids to teach the manners like my parents did, but I taught my kids by examples, and they are great.
In Malaysia we also were taught not to waste things and resources like foods or electricity. Well, for electricity, here we use British Type G plug (and 240V/50Hz) that's infamous for its bulky design but this Type G plug is I'm grateful for. We have switches for plugs so if we don't wanna use any particular devices or appliances, we would just switch them off. There's no need to plug and unplug every single goddamn time. If there're multiple plugs connected to an extension, we can just switch off the extension's plug switch that we connected to. Ezpz.
Great video! Can you make a video of how dating is in Japan? I heard that you can’t meet the parents not til the guy is serious to introduce you for marriage. In other culture, you can meet the bf or gf and introduce to the family.
@@Jimmystrzelczyk ahh interesting.. Fortunately, in my old dojo, the punishment was like only 20-50... Well I hope I would get to visit that place again sometime in the future. I somehow miss the sensei and the friends I had back then...
I always hate that because, practicing martial arts doesn't mean you have to believe in ghosts or spirit... so what is the point of bowing to something you don't necessarly believe or non physicaly existing ? I find that as much bothersome and annoying as praying before eating when you're atheist for example. when believing are mixing with "manners" it's becoming annoying.
Congratulations on the impending birth of your second child! In regards to rules & regulations, I like the Viking approach, embracing my inner barbarian...
I am a 73 year old woman from USA. My parents were raised during the Great Depression. Many of the same types of things were taught to my brothers and me, even though my family was considered upper middle class. With my children and grandchildren I am very adamant about table manners and greeting adults. Because obesity here is a huge issue here, I’ve never forced the grandkids to eat everything on their plates. I will say, are you sure can eat all that? Don’t waste food now. As little ones their eyes were bigger than their stomachs at times. As teenagers it’s not any problem at all. The shoes did make me smile. We did the same because not even my father dared to walk across mom’s beautiful hard wood floors and mar them! Thank you for sharing and helping me to recall pleasant memories. Congratulations to your whole family for the soon to be here member!
in phillipines ...just like you master shogo ..we even to punishment in our parent but after punishment they explain why there doing this because they love us ......( you know waht i mean )
Just found your channel. Thank you for all the well produced and very interesting content 😊🙏 And you are such a nice family 😍🥰❤️ All the best greetings to Japan from Denmark 🇯🇵🇩🇰
I did learn a bit of Jujitsu in France during teenage times, if we didn't put our zoori the right way neatly near the tatami like you said, the sensei would throw them away on the other side of the dojo, when I came to Japan after I already had the right habit :) - As for the mottainai, my family was the same (except the socks) this is a bit extreme
I think that the shoe rule could also be consider a safety rule in case you need to flee your home quickly. Using a toothbrush too long is just unsanitary. In the Southern US, manners are also considered a clue to how vulgar or educated a person is.
Love your videos Shogo-san! You have a new subscriber and I am happy to reconnect with Japan through you after an absence of 30 years. Kore kara mo gambatte kudasai! 🙏🌸
In France too these points are very important and we are strictly educated that way. I scold my children if they do not respect it. Showing exampke is a key. I do not beat ar all my 4 children and they are kind children and respectfull. We are very stricts about mottainai aswell.
Thanks for the informative video! I have a question about the first one: would it be considered rude to turn around to face the door WHILE taking your shoes off, instead of taking your shoes off while facing into the home, and then turning your shoes to face the door afterwards?
This was interesting. So, if I were to visit your house I couldn't kick my shoes off across the room, be wasteful, my table manners would have to change dramatically and I'd have to be respectful. Ok, I have to work on these things.
Strangely interesting video. By not following your parents on how you pass their lessons to your children, you are effectively showing that people can make progress DESPITE 'education'.
I'm ashamed to say growing up in the US, my parents only rule was pretty much "don't embarrass us too badly", shoes got flung wherever they landed if I bothered to take them off at all, and table manners? I sat in front of the TV in the living room to eat, except perhaps on Thanksgiving or some other holiday.
If you consider a friend by how neat he puts his shoes in the entrance, that you must consider me as a hater by me walking WITH MY SHOES into the house...
My mom is Japanese but my (mildly) obsessive need to use every last bit of toothpaste, shampoo, etc. comes from me being me. 😂 My mom isn’t as strict compared to some parents so technically I was self-taught this. As for food though, I save leftovers in the fridge and eat it the next day.
I don't know how my parents thought children learned manners, but they basically told me nothing and just supposed I'd be mimicking them. Also I taught them not to waste things, and it's not like they came from well-off families, so I have no idea where they got that attitude towards food and objects.
Raised in Hiroshima? If it's no longer radioactive, that's pleasing to hear. Given the pollution problems we are facing mattanai, may be very necessary.
I’ve learned a lot about japan from this channel, but the one thing I can’t figure out is what that Japanese phrase shogo says at the end of his intro means. My theory is it roughly translates to “enjoy the video”
1:30 Here in the USA, for decades I take off my shoes when entering my apartment or home (shoes are dirty, y'all), but I do this sideways to the entrance so I don't have to turn them around to put them on. Simple!
Except for the first one, all the others were something that I can empathize with since childhood. How to properly greet people, especially elders. Not being wasteful (with the toothpaste alone, once there's nothing to be squeezed out of it, I remember how my own folks would go the extra mile by actually cutting the wider end of the tube and along its sides, so any leftovers can be fully scraped off by the toothbrush, not joking). Being corrected if our backs and shoulders were hunched, poor table manners, and the list goes on.
First one is a common manner in many Asian nations. For example, everyone leaves shoes out in India where I live. However, there is no requirement to put them in a specific direction, you just need to leave your shoes outside the house,that's all.
My Japanese husband only lines the slippers up when leaving the bathroom because I said so. Really need to tell him to line up his shoes in the genkan.
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Ironically, I was always taught to take responsibility for my actions. But what my parents really meant was take responsibility for theirs.
Same as your parents Shogo-san.
They taught everyting about manners, to be wise and honorable according to our customary norms
Everything you described, except that part about toilet paper. That is way too much, even for them.
"Your knowledge makes your value' and your morals make your charm".
My parents taught me a lot but the one that came to mind is speaking properly. If I used slang like "ain't" or " yo, what up?" Instead of "isnt" or " how are you?" I'd get a smack for that! Now, in my 30's, I say that stuff all the time lol. They were correct though. Speaking properly helps so much in job interviews. also just to seem more educated and respectable.
"My father was a president of a company, and my mother is from Kyoto."
Kyoto always lives up to the reputation.
@@thotslayer9914 More like "thought slayer"
I can relate with “save everything” and don’t waste resources because my grandparents lived in the Soviet Union, so my grandma is a big hoarder and nothing ever goes to waste. It’s a goldmine really, they still use plastic bags from 20 years ago
Holy crap I didn't know plastic bags lasted that long...
@@JariDawnchild well plastic in general can last a long time
@@JariDawnchild - Maybe the ones made 20 years ago. It's all about being cheap now.
One of the main problems with plastic bags is when sunlight comes in contact with the bags.
If you keep your bags away from the sun as much as possible, your bags should be able to last for much longer.
Another problem is heat. If you keep the bags at about room temperature, the bags will also last longer.
I have noticed that bags that are kept in the truck of a car tend to fall apart quicker than those that are kept in the house.
Also, if you clean your bags, then you might not even want to throw them away.
(Of course, I just use plastic bags as trash bags.)
Same with my parents from the Polish People's Republic
As far as I know, putting shoes neatly together facing forward towards the entrance comes from the old times when the houses were made of wood and paper and has a pure practical reason: in case of fire and earthquakes (usually followed by fires) one could get the shoes on and evacuate as quickly as possible.
This sounds crazy, but it really sounds like I should've gotten more of this when I was younger. Better manners means people also treat you better.
It's good to teach children to be considerate of other people. But if manners just become "rituals" just for the sake of looking good, people should consider if it's worth beating it into their kids...
@@kymo6343 Yea, whenever some people do it. It makes me think they're just on auto-pilot. They don't know the actual meaning of what they do.
That was smooth by the way, where did you learn It?
In Germany, we are also taught to be polite and respectful, especially to always say 'please' and 'thank you'.
My wife and I are Americans, but we still take off our shoes for cleanliness and comfort. Unfortunately, we don't keep them organized and often have to search for the matching pair we want to wear before going out! I've often thought about making a getabako for practicality (and because I'm so fond of many things Japanese:).
Same here; I always wear slippers indoors .However I don't like going completely barefoot since I always am banging my feet on something or stepping on painful. 😬
Do it!
Taking off shoes inside a home is universally an Asian thing. Not uniquely Japanese. I'm Filipino, And all of us here take off our shoes inside our homes.
All the acts with mottainai in mind makes sense but skip the worn out socks and especially the toothbrush part because they need to be replaced before the bristles splay. The rest reminds me of the very simple things I do to help prevent waste and needless expense.
I was fortunate to train in karate with roots in Shuri, Okinawa. We were taught much of what is described here. Manners are very important, as they show respect and self control. Greetings, in proper order, were important for similar reasons. We also placed shoes neatly. 😊
This video explains much, and is appreciated.
7:08 I can understand. The more an activity is related with violence and/or competition, the more politeness is important to avoid conflicts. Even gamers have politeness codes like glhf and gg
Even dogs have a method of politeness for this. It's called the "play bow", and it's a very clear signal that the dog is engaging in play and not actually viciously attacking their buddy. It's different from human bows, though. So politeness during violence among friends goes way back.
In Uruguay many parents teach their children to be humble while teaching them not to let people walk over them by telling them "you don't matter more than anyone, bot no one matters more than you"
I'm Finnish and the things you explained with Mottanai feel very similar to what my family has taught me. But we aren't that strict on it.
Is just me or the "don't waste anything" isn't just for Japan but for other nationalities too. I am Pilipino and i can relate with that.
Dang Shogo, that whole toilet paper thing would have ended me as a kid. I would spin out the paper like I was making tails for dragon kites.
Parenting: the sharpest double edge. A nice balance is needed. Dont spoil and dont neglect. Teach em respect and to be respected.
They all good manners,
I cam from a big family we were taught manners mainly by my mother of course saying a prayer before start eating and give thanks after we were done it was a must, one more thing we were taught as kids when sit with adults you listen more than you talk so you could learn wisdom from adults.n
not all the tooth brish is not healthy
In California my father taught me to be very frugal scolding me as a small child over wastefulness I can relate
Many of these ‘ don’t waste ‘ rules are common in countries that suffered through WW II and the lack of supplies ( at least the older Generation ) I still see my Dad use the back side of his comb to empty out toothpaste tubes etc. my mom had several little devices that would roll up tubes so they could be emptied completely
I still use them out of respect for nature’s gifts ( or am I allowed to say out of respect for the kami of food / condiments )
4:20 That's actually rather unhealthy. You should replace your toothbrush at least every 6 months regardless of how nice it looks. All that grime adds up.
Also should soak it in mouthwash about once a week or so.
Omg my parents used the hard toothbrushes thinking it would last longer but now dentists tell you to use the soft ones for better gums. I also noticed toothbrushes lack effectiveness when splayed out from overuse.
@@WokOverEasy how long did it take you to notice that? LOL
My dentist says 3mos and i clean them with salt and baking soda sometimes
Congratulations on your 2nd child!🤗😊💕
Most of these rules and manners are also important for me and I tried to teach them to my children and now to my students too
so interesting. I also had a strict family but from a different culture, greetings, please may I , thank you , excuse me and very strict table manners were all enforced. I really enjoy your content! I am sub and happy to share your vids with others!
What was the most devastating consequence of my own breaking of the rules while growing up was getting disapproval from my father. In some cases that was devastating enough, even without words.
#1 - I grew up in Hawaii where it's customary to take your shoes off before going in the house .... well, it's most often zori, at least in the old days and a lot of people might have zori that look the same. You might walk home in someone else's shoes! Or with one of yours and one of theirs because the color is similar and it's late at night etc. So I learned early to put my shoes together neatly so I could find them again, no one else would get them mistaken for theirs, etc. It's just common sense!
All those manners are exacly the same manners we have in Greece and mym other she was super strict to that ether.
My grandparents spent their childhood in the post war era, so they suffered famine and lack of basically everything. So, they taught their children and grandchildren the "mottainai" of our country (that is basically what you explained in the video, but with a lot of leftovers recipes).
I remember my grandmother praising us for finishing our share, and taking any leftovers to the fridge for the next meal. Sometimes, she froze it and appeared days later, when we (in theory) had forgotten that one meal.
Nowadays, I try to plan the meals so no food is wasted (I still fail sometimes) and I really regret having food spoiled, although I only experienced hunger when on a diet XD.
In the present time, trying to reduce consumption of items and recourses is a good thing in the global scheme, so there are a lot of different "mottainai" approaches taking place at once.
You are so kind and descent....i wish I could bless father like you
"Manners Maketh Man" indeed
"do you know what that means? well, let me teach it to you"
And I thought Crayon Shin-chan is slice of life, while it is fantasy.
Another series to check out is Atashin'chi it's slice-of-life with some gentle and humorous moralizing, I'm really addicted to it.
I'm a Filipino and I was also taught about these in a way; except for the first one, though.
I think the shoe thing is situation dependant.
I also have a no-shoe rule in my home. However, I live alone and very rarely have guests. Therefore, only 1 or 2 pairs of shoes are at the doorway at any given time. In this situation, I've found that switching between house sandals and outdoor shoes is FAR more efficient if all pairs face one side, rather than forward or backward. Stepping to the side is less of a awkward balancing act.
Bonus: no rotating needed
I can understand though that in other situations, in which multiple people live in (or visit) a building, that facing shoes forward is more orderly and would look nicer. :)
I like watching you gesticulate, it really helps get what you're saying across
Hello Shogo, I'm from Germany and I was taught as a kid to be honest, mostly independent and that rights and duties come as the two sides of the same coin. A person can't have one while disregarding the other. In my family, politeness, whether table manners or greetings, or just respect for others, was not taught as much as it probably should have been. School does cover it a bit. But it's more of "get along with each other and listen to the teacher" than making someone look noble or well-raised. Mottainai wasn't exactly taught in my family either. It was more like "if you don't look after your stuff, you won't have as much". Most of my family do put the shoes neatly together unless they are in a hurry, but it was never considered important. Just practical. It's interesting to see what is different in another culture.
That strangely also summed up the household I grew in myself as well...
Not being wasteful was and continues to be a big rule for both my husband and myself. For him he was raised as it being respectful, for me I had a rough childhood and was kicked out at 17, so was very poor and see it as part of being resourceful.
Great points, I had to laugh at pulling out the plugs from the walls on appliances or electronics not in use. They have a bypass within the machine when not in use and doesn't use any electricity. My grandfather was very strict on water, because water heater wastes heat. The water would always turn freezing half way into filling up the tub for a bath. 🥶
So after watching this, suddenly I wonder how much my grandfather was influenced by being a practicioner of Judo. This is all pretty common in my household as well, even from a european background. Its nice to see when cultures collide like this.
Hi Shogo, I love your channel and all the information! And also that video. Please consider that the consumerism of our generation is the cause for all our environmental problems, so the thought of もったいない is more important than ever.
Looking forward to your next video!
Bless you shogo blessing you and your family
Thank you
I would say my parents taught me almost all the manners you mentioned. They're the basics and I would say everyone should atleast be taught these. Especially the resources one, it will eventually become a habit with everything.
Mostly, it's the same rules that I grew up with. My parents were very strict too. Often the punishment didn't march the degree of our behavior. Mottainai... If we left a single grain of rice in the bowl, he would lecture us how a single grain would turn into multiple amount of rice every time. As an old weman I am today, I still practice all those. I didn't beat my kids to teach the manners like my parents did, but I taught my kids by examples, and they are great.
In Malaysia we also were taught not to waste things and resources like foods or electricity.
Well, for electricity, here we use British Type G plug (and 240V/50Hz) that's infamous for its bulky design but this Type G plug is I'm grateful for. We have switches for plugs so if we don't wanna use any particular devices or appliances, we would just switch them off. There's no need to plug and unplug every single goddamn time. If there're multiple plugs connected to an extension, we can just switch off the extension's plug switch that we connected to. Ezpz.
Polish American households also take off shoes before entering the house. It irks me when friends walk around their houses with shoes.
Lol! Great one! and the images you chose to illustrate the video make it even greater
Great video!
Can you make a video of how dating is in Japan? I heard that you can’t meet the parents not til the guy is serious to introduce you for marriage. In other culture, you can meet the bf or gf and introduce to the family.
Congratulations for your second child!
I love this channel. Subscribed!
Great video guys. You should put a series together just on the Omake talks. Its good to hear your personal perspective.
thanks this video helped me read those weird forms of hiragana writing i couldnt decipher them in the past :D
Manner no.2 really suprise me in a positive way! Looking forward for next video!😄
Thanks Shogo, will use these tips wisely.
In my aikido dojo, if I enter on gym mat without permission or without bow I have to do 100 push ups
Haha that is a common thing... Did you get also like 50 for being late?
@@hollistantang9469 It depends how much, but yes. 50 is minimum.
@@Jimmystrzelczyk ahh interesting.. Fortunately, in my old dojo, the punishment was like only 20-50... Well I hope I would get to visit that place again sometime in the future. I somehow miss the sensei and the friends I had back then...
I always hate that because, practicing martial arts doesn't mean you have to believe in ghosts or spirit... so what is the point of bowing to something you don't necessarly believe or non physicaly existing ?
I find that as much bothersome and annoying as praying before eating when you're atheist for example. when believing are mixing with "manners" it's becoming annoying.
Very similar to Yorkshire in the UK.
I find myself empathizing with your list. I was raised by my parents and by extension my culture) with very similar principles.
Congratulations on the impending birth of your second child!
In regards to rules & regulations, I like the Viking approach, embracing my inner barbarian...
I am a 73 year old woman from USA. My parents were raised during the Great Depression. Many of the same types of things were taught to my brothers and me, even though my family was considered upper middle class. With my children and grandchildren I am very adamant about table manners and greeting adults. Because obesity here is a huge issue here, I’ve never forced the grandkids to eat everything on their plates. I will say, are you sure can eat all that? Don’t waste food now. As little ones their eyes were bigger than their stomachs at times. As teenagers it’s not any problem at all. The shoes did make me smile. We did the same because not even my father dared to walk across mom’s beautiful hard wood floors and mar them! Thank you for sharing and helping me to recall pleasant memories. Congratulations to your whole family for the soon to be here member!
in phillipines ...just like you master shogo ..we even to punishment in our parent but after punishment they explain why there doing this because they love us ......( you know waht i mean )
Just found your channel. Thank you for all the well produced and very interesting content 😊🙏 And you are such a nice family 😍🥰❤️
All the best greetings to Japan from Denmark 🇯🇵🇩🇰
Very nice Manners. It gives me the possibility to make a good impression. 😊
I was taught these things too
But I'm not from Japan :'D
Was scolded and sometimes beaten too
This is so relatable video :'D
Thank you so much for these cultural lessons. These help me avoid making faux pas in Japanese households and alienating my hosts.
Tip: cut the toothpaste tube, to scoop out the last drop.
@Let's ask Shogo -Your Japanese friend in Kyoto *"Ah, i see you are a man of culture as well."* @ 0:04:45 and 0:06:45.
I did learn a bit of Jujitsu in France during teenage times, if we didn't put our zoori the right way neatly near the tatami like you said, the sensei would throw them away on the other side of the dojo, when I came to Japan after I already had the right habit :) - As for the mottainai, my family was the same (except the socks) this is a bit extreme
I think that the shoe rule could also be consider a safety rule in case you need to flee your home quickly. Using a toothbrush too long is just unsanitary. In the Southern US, manners are also considered a clue to how vulgar or educated a person is.
Love your videos Shogo-san! You have a new subscriber and I am happy to reconnect with Japan through you after an absence of 30 years. Kore kara mo gambatte kudasai! 🙏🌸
In France too these points are very important and we are strictly educated that way. I scold my children if they do not respect it. Showing exampke is a key. I do not beat ar all my 4 children and they are kind children and respectfull. We are very stricts about mottainai aswell.
4:15 I've got the same situation over here bro 🥲
Yes. They taught you well. Be glad you have them.
Thanks for the informative video! I have a question about the first one: would it be considered rude to turn around to face the door WHILE taking your shoes off, instead of taking your shoes off while facing into the home, and then turning your shoes to face the door afterwards?
Didn't know you're a saiyan...
and a titan...
Watching these makes me think I must be seen as very uncouth while in Japan! Lol!
This was interesting. So, if I were to visit your house I couldn't kick my shoes off across the room, be wasteful, my table manners would have to change dramatically and I'd have to be respectful. Ok, I have to work on these things.
To be honest, except the use of chopsticks, I follow this rules unconsciously. I can't explain how, but I do 😂
Strangely interesting video.
By not following your parents on how you pass their lessons to your children, you are effectively showing that people can make progress DESPITE 'education'.
domo arigato gozaimazu for your explanations sir..
Idk how or why this is in my reccomondations, but I like it!
that lil sis is lovely 😊👼🏻
The Japanese culture also teach us great discipline.🙂👍
I'm ashamed to say growing up in the US, my parents only rule was pretty much "don't embarrass us too badly", shoes got flung wherever they landed if I bothered to take them off at all, and table manners? I sat in front of the TV in the living room to eat, except perhaps on Thanksgiving or some other holiday.
Make sense
Americans don't properly discipline their kids and those who try to do it poorly
Very cool!
If you consider a friend by how neat he puts his shoes in the entrance, that you must consider me as a hater by me walking WITH MY SHOES into the house...
4:32 Darning socks used to be a common skill.
Half of these kinda make sense to me, I’m not from japan but was also taught this.
Thank you Shogo!
Number 1 is the most reasonable one.
ありがとございます。：）
Great video!
My mom is Japanese but my (mildly) obsessive need to use every last bit of toothpaste, shampoo, etc. comes from me being me. 😂 My mom isn’t as strict compared to some parents so technically I was self-taught this. As for food though, I save leftovers in the fridge and eat it the next day.
I don't know how my parents thought children learned manners, but they basically told me nothing and just supposed I'd be mimicking them. Also I taught them not to waste things, and it's not like they came from well-off families, so I have no idea where they got that attitude towards food and objects.
Lmao when he said the Yamaguchi household was particularly strict, I was like ohhh boy here we go - Latino upbringing flashbacks
Raised in Hiroshima? If it's no longer radioactive, that's pleasing to hear.
Given the pollution problems we are facing mattanai, may be very necessary.
All the best God bless you
I’ve learned a lot about japan from this channel, but the one thing I can’t figure out is what that Japanese phrase shogo says at the end of his intro means. My theory is it roughly translates to “enjoy the video”
O, how many thousand times did I hear "Turn out the light!" growing up?
1:30 Here in the USA, for decades I take off my shoes when entering my apartment or home (shoes are dirty, y'all), but I do this sideways to the entrance so I don't have to turn them around to put them on. Simple!
Except for the first one, all the others were something that I can empathize with since childhood. How to properly greet people, especially elders. Not being wasteful (with the toothpaste alone, once there's nothing to be squeezed out of it, I remember how my own folks would go the extra mile by actually cutting the wider end of the tube and along its sides, so any leftovers can be fully scraped off by the toothbrush, not joking). Being corrected if our backs and shoulders were hunched, poor table manners, and the list goes on.
First one is a common manner in many Asian nations. For example, everyone leaves shoes out in India where I live. However, there is no requirement to put them in a specific direction, you just need to leave your shoes outside the house,that's all.
My Japanese husband only lines the slippers up when leaving the bathroom because I said so. Really need to tell him to line up his shoes in the genkan.
2:20 mother telling him to fix the shoes, or demon
shogo, if "you cannot live alone" how, in great detail, do you explain the FACTUAL existence of hermits and monks?
Yea and hikicomouri