Damn, this really shows how a child will always try to love their dad or mom no matter what, unconditional love is the love family is suposed to represent.
I agree 💯 bcoz I can never give up on my parents even after many heartbreaking situation.. but I wish the parents realise how much they hurt their child by their actions.. Mentally snd physically.. 💔
I only wish my mom would understand what it's like to be the child, trying her best to ignore the war going on outside her door. Left playing video games, petting the cat and trying to pretend you love your life
I wonder if my dad remembers I'm his little baby girl from all those years ago. It hurts when I wonder if I'm a charity award, like the song says, or if I'm his daughter to him.
I really respect and admire Demi for creating such an emotional and personal song that many children of abusive and neglectful parents can relate and heal to, including me. My mother is an abusive narcissist. My dad abandoned me when I was 11. These lyrics really speak deep in me. Thank you, Demi, ever so much.
I grew up the same way. My dad left when I was around 13 though. I may not know you but I understand that pain and you aren't alone. Big hugs XX It changes you growing up like that. It makes all those moments other children had seem so far out of reach. When you talk to partners and friends they don't really understand what you went through
I'm currently going through a rough time. my grandma died when I was 10 and my dad and his roommate are mentally abusive and I had a argument with my mom that broke our bond, so seeing your comment while listening to the song made me start crying. it's good to know I'm not alone. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but just know there are hundreds if not thousands of people who understand your pain and are there for you.😢😭🤗
my dad left me for drugs to become homeless and be in and out of jail I haven't talked to him in 8 years and the last time I heard him was when he called my mom screaming about her new boyfriend he dosen't even know I have a brother
"please father put the bottle down for the love of a daughter, don't you remember I'm your baby girl", this is exactly how it feels to have an alcoholic father but you still love him no matter what and you can't let him go
My father was an alcoholic too but mostly tried to kill me and my mom, At some point we managed to escape. After the divorce he didn't even try to fight to see me. So now I'm looking for Him now And i wants to show him my love for him By stabing it in the lung Just as he once taught me this on me...
The fact that I relate to all of this is actually really depressing... “I can be manipulated only so many times, before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” ... That hit me really hard
I can also relate to this because my dad left 7 months before I was susposed to be born and I was so envious that my siblings were able to stay with him for 5-10 years.I also wish you a happy life 😄
My father left when I was 11 or 12 on Christmas. Everytime me and my sister and brother go visit him he is always talking bad about our mom and step dad. I'm 21 and I still suffer from depression because of everything he has done but I'm trying to move on.
Same, i had an abusive father i usally took the hit for my siblings and now im blind in one eye and i have scars all over my face and im fucking nine he did that when i was five
"put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved". It hurts. The traumatic memories of my abusive narcissist mother abusing me.. These lyrics really speak to me. Thank you, Demi for creating such a personal song.
yet it's relatable and healing to people like me who have abusive and neglectful parents to see someone in the spotlight touch our souls through her own pain that actually is relatable to many of us, sadly.
@@bwingbwinggwiyomi Then why do people keep tearing Demi down? I find it funny how Demi nearly died from that overdose, Thank God she made it out, went through rehab because addiction is really hard to fight and just when it seems like Demi is finding herself again people go back to trashing her. Why? I don't understand. What are we doing as a human species?
This is why Demi is my inspiration. She is so honest and pure. She literally pours out her sincere emotions in her songs. I could really imagine what a four year old felt. I know she has an amazing dad(step), but deep down, she really missed her father. I write poetry to express my feelings just like demi writes songs.. If any of you read this comment, please pray so that i can become an established poet and pour out honest emotions just like lovato does.
“Don’t you remember I’m you’re baby girl” That hit me hard....I don’t have an abusive family and I’m lucky because I feel very bad for the people that do
You instantly cry when you've experienced the meaning of the song. I was 4 years old, My Father and Mom weren't married, My Father cheated on my Mom and when they were on court on who would take custody over me, My Father told the court that I wasn't his daughter and refused to take me so My Mom got custody of me. He also married his side chick and they adopted a child together because the woman was infertile. I was 9 when my Father came back when he and his side chick divorced, The happiness lasted for 1 year then he showed his true colors, he drank every night and would always curse me and my mom... He pushed me to depression, I took pills to end my life and instead of comforting me and helping me... He just called me a disappointment and continued to curse at me and threaten me, There was a moment when he tried to punch me if it weren't for my Mom shielding me, I would've been hit. Still waiting for the moment that my Mom will realize that my Father just pushed me to a worst scenario. I'm even more scared to come out to my Father as Bisexual because he would always tell me that he will kill me if I were to have a relationship with a girl.
Please reach out to someone When your old enough go live somewhere else, and dont let your abusive dad tell you how to live your life when he can barely control his (Sorry was that too much?😬😶) you'll get through this God has plans for all of our futures I wish you the best🙏🏼💖
3:16 you hear that? That's the pain she's feeling So please Don't ask for likes Don't ask for replys Ask her if she's okay And if she's not Comfort her and numb all the pain
@@Frookipop no, no one deserves any pain. You are worth the world to someone, even though you dont feel it. Both of my younger brothers were mistakes but, my parents learned to love them slowly but surley. Ok? You or no one deserves any pain.
Ppl are talking about “don’t you remember I’m your baby girl” but the line that hits me that hardest is “well I can be manipulated, only so many times before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” idk it just kinda speaks to me and reminds me of stuff I’ve been through
Same tbh, it feels so hollow, lonely and depressive to realise that hearing "I love you" or "you're our daughter" from your parents doesn't mean anything anymore, because it's just a comma between arguing and yelling at you for smallest of things. You can say I'm overdramatic cuz I'm a late teenager and it's just my edgy phase, but seriosuly, when you hear that and you don't feel the same warmth as you used to when you were a child, you start feeling desperate to have it back. For me it's like the never-to-happen urge to watch a movie for the first time once again because when you watched it for the first time you were too young to be hit by all the feelings that you later notice should be there, and you just want to know what it would feel like to understand it from the very beggining
@@xiesie_xiesie literally like I don’t know by biological parents and I don’t know what went through beyond what I’ve been told but the woman who had me has only ever sent me one letter and my “father” has sent me none it’s like I was just a page of their life that they never wanted
"Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter..." A year and a month ago I didn't even realize that these lyrics related to me. My dad used to drink on a daily basis. He wasn't abusive or anything but he used to say stuff he didn't mean to, to me and my brothers. I used to even be kind of scared to stay home with him and every chance I got I would go with my mom somewhere just to get away from home. We used to complain to our mom begging her to tell him to stop drinking. They used to always fight about my dad's drinking and one day they had a fight in the car(my brothers and I weren't with them) where our mom told him that either he stops drinking or she divorces him. He stopped drinking and one day he was going to visit our neighbor alone and he fainted in front of our house without us knowing. Thankfully someone was driving and saw him laying on the ground and knocked on our door. My mom went outside and called the ambulance while I of course stayed inside and started crying cuz I was afraid of losing him and later my mom comforted me, telling me everything will be okay. He was in the hospital for about 2 weeks. Last month was his one year anniversary, now he is doing great and has stopped drinking and he is the dad and husband me and my mom always wanted. If you read this to the end I just wanted to say thank you for listening to my story and I hope you're doing great. ❤
That is so sad never give up I'm here for you ok just reply anytime😌 thanks for sharing I know how you are my parents are divorced and I'm sad I see my dad 2 days a week but...I don't know where I belong
I managed to get my dad to stop “smoking” but he does it secretly and he doesn’t know I know... I’ve been telling him ever since I was 2 and I’m now 14.. he still drinks and he drinks more than he used to- do you guys have advice on how to stop him?
Awwww I’m so sorryyyyy I’m literally crying right now... I miss my father since he died but we do have family problems from my fathers side my moms side are very not like that like they love everyone
Y'all in the comments. Never forget that you are loved. You are already the person you've been searching for. You are already enough, no matter what your dad did to you. It's not your fault for having a idiot for dad. I have the same situation and I'm here for every single one of you. Take care.
This is my story scroll past if you want: I lived with my mom, dad, and brother in a little house. My family was always at war with each other. My mom and dad were always yelling at each other. He always needed money. He stayed in the basement and rarely was seen. Everytime he came inside they would always fight. My grandfather was my father figure. I looked up to him. He was kind, and caring. He was my role model. We moved to a different house. The fighting never stopped I was 7. My father always had strangers around the house when my mom was at work. The cops came around a lot and I didn't understand why. I'll never forget the night I thought that my dad was going to hit my mom. He was angry. She was telling him to leave. He threw her phone. I screamed at him to stop through my tears. The was arrested many times. He was a drug addict and a alcoholic. He skipped all of his court dates and is currently a fugitive. My mom filed for full custody over me. Court came around and he never showed. I felt abandoned. I was never expecting him to show up but I didnt realize how much it would hurt.Was I not a good enough daughter for him? I havent seen him in over 2 years. My grandfather, my father figure, died last May. I went through the loss of our house. I've been diagnosed with 3 different anxiety disorders and depression. I self harm. I struggle with my body image and am currently fight anorexia. For anyone out there who feels like they are worthless. Just know YOU ARE NEEDED IN THIS WORLD. YOU MATTER. Dont let anyone tell you any different. I love❤❤ Stay strong. Keep fighting it will get better.
listen the thing is probably around 1 in 3 people suffer from no father or a father with addictions or issues and remember we are all here for you to talk to
I'm 13 now, i remember 7 year old me crying my eyes out to this song sitting under my desk bc my dad was always drunk arguing with my mom. When they got divorced he'd constantly vent to me and made me feel as if it's my fault. I realize I didn't miss the alcoholic him, I missed the Interactive dad side of him I rarely saw. I'm so sorry to everyone who can relate as well, stay strong ml
Hey this is Ashley Shes 12 years old Her dad left at 6 Her dad was a alcoholic Ashley is hopeless She knows she doesnt have a point in life Ashley decided to end it in her birthday June 28 Ashley knew her mom and brother would be sad if she did tho Ashley has battled through deppresion,anxiety,D.I.D,fake friends, people not accepting her for being aesexual,her dad leaving,and eating disorders, Ashley went through all this and to this day still is Ty
I don't have a father like this but reading these comments. Made me realize some people do and its hard for them. I cant stop crying though because the meaning of this strong. Everytime i listen to it.
Midnight Gaming if u don’t have a father like this don’t feel sorry for us. We have to deal with it stop crying it’s not u. U have a father that’s there....
I’m 18 now and my mom is exactly like the song. I’m sorry I know it hurts, you’re mom is the person who’s supposed to be there the most for you. Everything gets better as time goes on. When I was younger I was suicidal and I am so happy to be alive today. You’ll be okay, you have the strength within you.
"Dont you remember I'm your baby girl? how could you throw me right out of your world so young when the pain had begone now forever afraid of being loved" These lines hit me the hardest
“Now forever afraid of being loved” Yeah, and no one even realizes it. I love who i choose to love, because I’ve been forced so many times, and broken too many of those times. Too scared to let myself be loved ever again, because of the pain I’ll feel again when they give up on me when I need them most.
April Rivera ok so I know that this comment has nothing to do with what you said but are you relatives with Naya Rivera or do you just have the same last name as her
My dad was exactly like this when I was a child I never grew up with a father my mom raised me by herself my dad never cared, never bonded or anything with me, he didn’t understand me and my mom was left to cope with me as I was hyper active and etc etc and always ran off or miss behaved and because my dad never understood my ways he bassically left my mom get on with me and raise me alone. When I was 4 the earliest time I can remember I would be lonely and longed for a friend or at least a little sibling to play with because I was always alone and one day my wish came true and my mom got pregnant with my brother, when he was finally born I finally had company and wasn’t alone anymore and didn’t have to fear being an only child anymore when he was born I was 7 and I finally had someone to spend all my time with. My dad and I never bonded or went anywhere when I was young he literally doesn’t even know me now or what I like and I’m his own daughter he didn’t understand the stuff that made me me. I remember my dad used to hit me when I was misbehaving when I was 6 and he used to hit my mom too when she would stand up for me and try and explain that it was the way I am but he would shout and they’d argue and he’d hit her most from what I can remember anyway. When I was 12 my parents got a divorce, we wasn’t all that sad to see him go and to be honest we were glad to see him go as we were all find it hard and then it was just the four of us me, my mom and my 2 younger brothers. Right now my dad’s engaged to his new girlfriend who he’s marrying in 2 years and is gonna have a new family and hasn’t once gave me a second thought so I guess we’ve just kinda ignored and avoided seeing each other I’m 19 now we haven’t seen each other in like a year but I honestly don’t care because we never really had that close bond but I realised growing up that I never needed a father because I have both a mother and a father in my mom. That’s why this song reminds me of my dad because iDemi’s life is similar to mine growing up with a father who never cared I sometimes wonder and question to myself “did he ever love me?” So every time I listen to this song it reminds me of my dad.
My life is a little bit hard but i can understood even if i have a step mother and a Step sister and a step brother its ok for me but i wish one day i wana see them im only 9. Years old some times its hard and some times i cry 😭 but its ok for me when im in school i always get bullied i. Dont want to tell my dady and some times i go to my room and get a knife but i cant kill myself the one day i tell my dad that i get bulied so dont be sad or lonley
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} you made me cry I'm sorry you had to go threw all of that I understand how it feels I at least get to see my dad thank you for showing that I should be glad for the father I have.
Emoji Girl thank you and you’re welcome lots of people are lucky to have a dad who cares about them I wish I’d had that be great full for your dad who cares and loves you 😊
"So Young When The Pain Had Begun... Now Forever Afraid Of Being Alone.." (I Always Use To Hear It As Forever Afraid Of Being Loved So Now I Hear It Both Ways 😍)
I used to relate to this song 5 years ago. My dad had a serious drinking problem and did things I wont ever forgive him for. The past years he quit drinking altogether and his relationship with my mother and the rest of my family has gotten better. It was hard waiting for him to change. My heart is with all of you who will relate to this song. One day you'll be happy, may it be with or without him
I see all these comments saying they showed this to their father and their father changed... I could only wish to be able to show this to my father, but he won't give me the time of day.
I'm so sorry it will get better I promise it might take a long time but it will get better it's when u turn 18 that is when it makes or breaks the "relationship" I'm sorry u have to go through it I know it's hard just hold on as tight as u can I know it seems worthless right now but it actually might change the result
Day Dream same... mine would beat me and my mom cuz the voises in his head told him to. he left me and my brother on my moms door steps. people ask me were he is so i have to tell them that he is at work. the last time i saw him he called me ugliy and smacked me. for every one who relates know u r stronger then what ur father says!!!!
"How could you throw me right out of your world? So young when the pain had begun Now forever afraid of being loved" "Am I your child or just a charity ward?"
My dad stopped drinking for me. He left a horrible women and his drinking problem to raise me and care for me. I feel so lucky... I refuse to forget this song.
"Am I your child or just a charity ward?" That line punched me right in the gut. When I lived with my mom she would take the money that my dad paid her when he paid child support, and she would buy alcohol with it.
My parents used the money that was supposed to support me for drugs and alcohol and then abused me and my younger brothers. I tried so hard to save them
Demi Lovatos life is so sad. No wonder she takes drugs. I love her no matter what. And if someone is fighting this just like Demi, pleas know that it will be ok. And If he ever sais he loves you and dont know what to say and what to believe just say " How am I to know that your saying the truth?". I love you people!😭❤ (Black or White people!👧🏿👧🏾👧🏽👧🏼👧🏻and Yelow people 👧👦🏿👦🏾👦🏽👦🏼👦🏻👦❤)
I literally can never listen to this without crying... It hurts much so sing. The memories and the feelings...so much pain. I'm so sorry for anyone who also went through abuse. You don't deserve it and you never did.
This reminds me of my own life, my dad raped my mom and that's how I was born. He left us after he was reported and sent to mexico. My mom raised me all alone and he killed my twin sister when he was abusing my mom. She wasn't even born yet. Now I'm an activist, fighting with passion. I'm glad the school allows me to make speeches at the assemblys. Honestly, I am so happy at the moment
For anyone going through anything, just know someone will always love you. Someone will always need you, you are strong. Keep fighting! Afterall, you are human. Heal Unity Mighty Awesome iNtelligent
this is ruby she’s 13 her dad left when she was 7 and chose alcohol over her. she has gone through multiple eating disorders and self harming, has anxiety depression and ptsd and doesn’t know what to do, she’s alone, she has lost all of her friendships and has been left to fight for myself and she’s still fighting.
Hey, it’s been a year..i’m not sure if you’re still here, but I promise that it will get better, you are so strong and i’m proud of you for that, stay safe out there! 💕
Thank you that's all I needed to hear right now my dad treats me like a charity ward he is an alcoholic and hurts my mom I stand up for her but I have to deal with this for a few more years before I can buy my own house and live happy again I can't wait for the future but patience is the key and it hurts to still be with him I did self harm for 4 years and Im on holiday rn so I'm glad he is not here but Ik he will always be with me
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl? How could you push me out of your world? Lie to your flesh and your blood? Put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved?”
The last thing my father said to me and my siblings is that he is getting married and he will finally have kids that love him. We loved our father until he decided that he would rather lie about working and be in a bar drinking, talk bad about our mom, and stalk our family every time he found out where we live.
Everybody is sharing their story here. So here I am. I still remember when I was a toddler, my mother and bio father would fight a lot. I would go to bed to screaming and crying. My mother always worked a lot to put food on the table while my father spent it all on alcohol. One day, my parents had a fight of who was picking me up from preschool, and my bio dad hit my mom. I remember, she was laying in the snow, while I was kneeling by her. Now he's wondering why I don't want to call him. My step dad asked me if I ever want to see him. And I said no, because I can't look at a person the same that caused my family pain. Please if anything like this is happening to you. Tell somebody, this is very serious and if you're dealing with abuse. Tell a teacher or any other adult ♡
Mine doesn't drink either. He's devoted to my mother in an emotional dependant (and very toxic) relationship to the point he started to ignore his 2 daughters when we were teenagers. My mother is an abusive bitch but my father doesn't see it, and instead of protecting us from her, he defends her when she plays victim and push us away saying we're awful people. I used to be a daddy's girl, playing with him, making up stories, having fun, being loved... Now I just feel abandoned even if he's sitting next to me.
Hey daily my Bello I love you you are great Ben of the essence Bailey saying you are great of everything you are in the Great Hall of the standing in you're a father who died Factor your baby girl Demi Lovato
*Don't You Remember? I'm Your Baby Girl!How Could You Push Me Out Of Your World?!Lie To Ur Flesh And Blood! DON'T YOU REMEMBER?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!I'M YOUR BABY GIRL~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HOW COULD U YOU THROW ME RIGHT OUT OF UR WORLD?!?!?!?!???!?!?!?!!!!!Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,I'd Love To Leave You Alone But I Can't Let You Go..Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,Put The Bottle Down For The Love Of A Daughter...I Can Be Manipulated,ONLY SO MANY TIMESSSSSSSSS*
I went through this… I know other people who go through this I’m praying for all and I promise it gets better it’s hard to forgive my father though he’s changed a lot but it still hurts. And on top of it I have a twin sister who hits me almost every day and nobody does anything about it. Everything will get better. Thanks for making the song. I’m praying for anyone Else going through tgis
@@gamer_2255 it’s alright. I made this a year ago. And everything is getting better day by day! Not quickly, but slowly. But throughout a year it’s been so much better! I do appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
@@sierraremsen2619 I understand the song but I'm not broken. But It does remind me of a family member who went through this. *starting to cry wall think about it*
"now forever afraid of being alone" i relate so much to this that actually hurts. I never had a healthy male figure. My father manipulated me for years, was abusive with my mother, my siblings and i. Since i was eight i was forced to be in a narrative i never wanted to be included. Used to listen to their to him and my mom fighting all night, and that caused my trouble sleeping until this day. And my brother is literally an younger version of my father. And that lack of good image in my entire life made me scared of relationships, i literally can't trust any man, and honestly, after trying so hard, i don't think i'm capable of ever loving romantically someone. Thanks dad, you were the first man to broke my heart.
I love how people are sharing their own problems and others are helping the, just remember: you’re not alone my dad’s not an alcoholic but he does fight with my mom a lot. Just remember: you guys are not alone 😊
My dad is not a alcoholic either but he did fight with my mum and older sister when i was around 2 and so we moved and now we vist him every Sunday at the end of each month and he still claims he did nothing but my sister remebers him fighting.
The more selfish people get..the more children get hurt, their change in emotions, I was always happy when my dad was with my mom as soon as the broke up,I was a different person
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl?” “How could you push me out of your world?” “Lie to your flesh and your blood?” “So young when the pain begun, now forever afraid of being alone” These hit so hard-.. 🥺😭
To all those people being bullied To all those people who have lost a loved one To all those people who have lost a pet To all those people being abused To all those people going through depression To all those people with anxiety To all those people in poverty To all those people going through a breakup To all those people having a bad day To all those people with insecurities To all those people just having a hard time, Don't forget Your weakness today Is your strength tomorrow It always gets better Your loved ones will remain in your hearts You always have the memories Love yourself Stand up for yourself Money can't buy happiness Those lovers Just weren't right Don't abuse yourself Don't abuse others Kill them with kindness Treat people with kindness We've all had these times There will always be a hole in our chests But Let's all be each others' strength weather you're Black White LGBTQ+ Christian Atheist Etc Love yourself Love others Don't cut Don't kill Don't criticize Don't beg Don't do drugs Don't starve yourself Don't starve others We aren't supposed to do any of that Just keep your strength Keep your faith Don't change because you were told to Be yourself
3 minutes ago Thank you u needed this so bad I am 13 years old ever since July 2022 I have started to stop eating as much which made me feel really unwell causing me to hardly eat at all I would cut out dinner lunch and only sometimes eat breakfast and this carried on until December but around September and October I was at school and I got in trouble and I had to go into isolation (if I if that is a thing in other countries it is in England though) and I got really sad for some reason and a couple of days before that I took a compass away from a friend and had it with me the day I got isolation and I took it out of my pocket and look down at my arms and started to scratch my arms with the compass I only did light scratches and I did this for a couple of days and one day in a maths lesson I was feeling really sad so I did it again my friend next to me noticed and took the compass away we got in a big argument about it and she told the teacher and that teacher told a different teacher and I had to speak to the two teachers my friend was there and the teacher asked her to give her the compass but as she was giving the teacher the compass I quickly snatched it out of her hands and ran off crying and for the next couple of days I kept doing and one day I got hold of a sharpener and did some deeper cuts not too deep though and a safeguarding teacher found out about it and I had to show him I begged him not to tell my mum cause I thought my mum would think I'm weird or think I was doing it for attention the teacher told me to tell my most trusted teacher Mrs Turner who I talk to about my problems and stuff she ended up telling my mum and my mum kept me home for a couple days and took my phone away this made me even more sad and I kept having to speak to teachers about this and I kept getting sadder and sadder day by day and the cuts got deeper and deeper eventually getting deep enough to bleed and this kept going for ages and then I stopped for a month or so and I did it again in January when I kept getting in loads of trouble and getting excluded the cuts were still deep enough to bleed and I had the sharpener taken away a while ago but the that's my story I'm still feeling really sad on most days I always feel like I need to cut again but I try to stop myself I have been doing well stopping but some days I do it:( Thanks for reading I hope anyone who is going through this knows that you are strong and keep going you can stop have a great day
Thanks....today i tried talking to him bc he abandoned me but .... nothing AND I JUST CANT LET HIM GO I NEED HIM I MISS HIM !!!! HE BROKE MY HEART AND MY LIFE
There's so much father out there who didnt took care of their children... some loved them, some just don't know how to love... I know it hurts. We're all human. Pray for them to change. 💪❤ Shout out to all the child out here raised by a single mom or grand parents or even by themselves. God is your answer. His love is greater than anyone's. God bless you 🌸
This song describes my life perfectly I first heard it today and I’m literally crying right now my father has hurt me so many times that I can’t form relationships with people anymore because I’m afraid of what might happen if they get mad at me. I get angry often instead of being sad because I was always taught not to show my emotions. And I know most of you guys don’t care about what I’m saying but I just felt like I had to comment it.
My dad started hitting me when I was 6. He kept on until I was 11 then hit me with a belt from head to toe. After that it started going down hill. It got to a point where he shattered myself esteem and told me that I was a nobody. He was abusive verbally physically and emotionally. Still is just less on the physical part. I'm still living with him though cause in African culture there's no such thing as moving out unless u get married.
If you have a good job, move out. If you can’t move out, try to keep a distance. Keep busy, don’t say it things that would upset him. Protect your self girl! Study, find a job, learn, save money. You will not be there for too long
Everyone’s talking about how there fathers were terrible and ya I relate but like no one is even talking about Demi and the song like hearing her singing was enough to make me cry you can tell that even her own song was about to make her cry
Sometimes, My mom ask me, "why do you eat so much,you need to start exercising like me" "Why don't you try to fix your teeth" "Your waking up to late" "Wear something nicer,like brighter colors" "Learn something for once!" And the one that hurt me the most, "why don't you stand up and try to get some friends" *Be nice to everyone you meet and see,and if they need it,give them a hug* ❤️❤️
My mom and I have a good relationship but she always tells me too (actually) try to get some friends.. I do. But I can't be myself around them cause all the girls are like happy and popular and the boys are too crazy. Some girls are just down right crazy too. I feel more comfortable keeping to myself. Is that bad?
That is what makes me mad, people telling you that you do something wrong when you are perfectly fine with what you do, what you wear, how much you eat, your hygine your learning skills, like you could learn slower than others, maybe you like wearing darker colors, maybe you don't give a crap about what other people think of you as, maybe you don't mind waking up late, and you DON'T HAVE TO AMKE FREINDS IF YOU ARE TOO SHY, OR MAYBE YOU MIGHT NOT WANT FREINDS, who knows? People need to learn how to be nice to others, not bully them OR judge them for what they do, dress, or otherwise. It is very rude.
I told my mom that my humor was died she took it seriously and started to talk about how I was a Debby downer and not very social. One time we were at a forever 21 and said dont dress like a lesbian As a bisexual I felt hurt like she just insulted me and I never told her yet cause I don't care to be open with her about it and I don't want to tell her.
Sending a big hug to anyone that resonates with this song 💗 You deserve so much better, and I hope that life brings you the happiness and love you deserve xxx
here in 2024 after a lot of healing, my father was an addict and i remember when me and my sister were about 9 and 10 yrs old we sang this song to him as like a karaoke performance lol and after that he decided to get sober and he’s really stepped up and become the man that i never imagined he could be. i really have no words to describe how proud i am and lucky to have the opportunity to mend my relationship with him. it’s just crazy to look back and see how far we’ve come. idk just felt like sharing coz i haven’t heard this since then and it just brought up a lot of feelings lol.
My bio dad left be for i was born. Then cam back to my mum when i was 2. On Christmas he proposed to my mum,at the time she was like 21. She said she was not ready to marry anyone yet. So he left us.and started another family. I did not have a father figher in my life till i was 5. Im now 12 close to being 13. Have a nice life with my mum,dad and 3 sisters. Till this day i wonder what it wold have been like if i was nit born.
This is exactly my life. My dad chose alcohol and drugs over me. I relate so much. Never got the dad I deserved and I unfortunately never will. I feel like it's my fault
My father abandoned us and i have a lost baby sister...he broke my heart and he broke me now im just sad and there is alot of things but im not just gonna say it
"I'd love to leave you alone, but I can't let you go." I've tried so many times to stop talking to my dad. All of the times failed. I tried to stop trusting him, but I still can't help it. He's my father, even though he's an alcoholic, and neglects his children. I just wish he wasn't mine.
When that one sentence hits you: angry crying what a music right here a u t h e n t I c v i e w s dun took Demi Lovato oFf 2 da big leagues and fo dat I will always be super grateful
A lot of people have said that their father's changed. If I showed him something like this he'd get mad and start making fun of me. I've been trying to change my daddy since I was about 6. At 24 yeas old, I've realized that I'm not good enough for him and I'm done trying. I wanna be able to say that if he wants to drink himself to death or end up dead in a drunk driving accident I don't care... but I can't mean it because he's still my daddy. Even if he's the cause for years and years of pain, heartbreak and a lifetime of feeling not good enough.
Shalim Cruz WELL GOOD FOR YOU SOME PEOPLE HAVE BAD FATHERS my father good but this is a serious matter for the people who have abusive fathers or alcoholic fathers
For anyone who is depressed and can relate to this song i just want to say that you, me, everyone in this crazy world matters and please dont you let anyone else tell you otherwise ❤
This is for everyone that is going through something hard.Just remember you are always loved and cared for.No matter how rude family can be there is a space in their heart with you in it.You are awesome loved cared for beautiful kind smart.Just keep pushing through all of it.It will get better soon.God will answer your prayer and be there for you.Thanks for reading this.
this is basically my song, my dad chose my ‘step-mum’ over me. not just me, my 2 brothers. I haven’t saw my dad in 3 years. because he’s gone. he committed suicide because my ‘step-mum’ left him.
Damn, this really shows how a child will always try to love their dad or mom no matter what, unconditional love is the love family is suposed to represent.
yeeeppp
I agree 💯 bcoz I can never give up on my parents even after many heartbreaking situation.. but I wish the parents realise how much they hurt their child by their actions.. Mentally snd physically.. 💔
I only wish my mom would understand what it's like to be the child, trying her best to ignore the war going on outside her door. Left playing video games, petting the cat and trying to pretend you love your life
I had shit done to me by my father at 6 then again at 8 until I called the cops on him...
This song describes my twin brother and me I love him unconditionally❤️❤️
*”So young when the pain had begun, now forever afraid of being alone”* hit different 🙂💔
😀💔
It does
It really does I have separation anxiety, and insomnia, thx to my mother
It's actually forever afraid of being loved
@@lilymikaelson671 It is-
"Don't you remeber I'm your baby girl?" I can't stop crying to this part
@Margaret HudgensIkr
I wonder if my dad remembers I'm his little baby girl from all those years ago. It hurts when I wonder if I'm a charity award, like the song says, or if I'm his daughter to him.
@@shadowkatsukibakugo4891 bruh that's deep
@@samo_glupa_cura7 it's true though. Those thoughts keep me awake at night silently crying.
@@shadowkatsukibakugo4891 Oh…it sucks to hear that
I really respect and admire Demi for creating such an emotional and personal song that many children of abusive and neglectful parents can relate and heal to, including me. My mother is an abusive narcissist. My dad abandoned me when I was 11.
These lyrics really speak deep in me. Thank you, Demi, ever so much.
My dad is abusive so yeah…
agreed this hits so hard to home with both of my parents being abusive..
I grew up the same way. My dad left when I was around 13 though.
I may not know you but I understand that pain and you aren't alone. Big hugs XX
It changes you growing up like that. It makes all those moments other children had seem so far out of reach. When you talk to partners and friends they don't really understand what you went through
Same just my dad left when I was 2 and he knew what my mom was doing but said it was my fault plus he's a alcoholic so this song hit home 😢
I'm currently going through a rough time. my grandma died when I was 10 and my dad and his roommate are mentally abusive and I had a argument with my mom that broke our bond, so seeing your comment while listening to the song made me start crying. it's good to know I'm not alone. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but just know there are hundreds if not thousands of people who understand your pain and are there for you.😢😭🤗
"Don't you remember I'm your babygirl"
Ouch. Hits hard, my Dad left me for Drugs, Alcohol, and a terrible woman 😔
Hey
Ha what are we twins?
Same.. that stings man. I feel bad for you.
That do sad
my dad left me for drugs to become homeless and be in and out of jail I haven't talked to him in 8 years and the last time I heard him was when he called my mom screaming about her new boyfriend
he dosen't even know I have a brother
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl how could throw me right out world 💔” that hits in the heart so hard
same i start crying so much when that verse comes
ik TwT
Annie Carlston as soon as I read this that part came on
Same I feel that way
Same it reminds me not only my dad but my mom. My grandma raised me :(
"please father put the bottle down for the love of a daughter, don't you remember I'm your baby girl", this is exactly how it feels to have an alcoholic father but you still love him no matter what and you can't let him go
Exactly,even if he falls off the wagon multiple times,you still love him.
And It hurts more than you want it to...
My father was an alcoholic too but mostly tried to kill me and my mom, At some point we managed to escape. After the divorce he didn't even try to fight to see me. So now I'm looking for Him now And i wants to show him my love for him By stabing it in the lung Just as he once taught me this on me...
I know 😖😖😖. Sending love too everyone with the pain of seeing there fathers go.❤
This is so true thats me and my dad
shoutout to the girls who’s father broke their hearts before any teenage boys ever could
My cheated 3 times then lied also drinks and lies about not bringing any in when we smell and hes always arguing and never there for me
Mine
@@x_callmeamber_x85 my dad wasnt in my life
My dad died when i was one😄😃😄😃
@@lillymarmoljeo223 my brother marty died when he was 1
"put the bottle down for the love of a daughter"😳😭 she know just how to touch my heart.
Yeah i can feel it
This is something that actually happen to her whenever she was little and she decided to write a song about it.
I cry😭
Me too 😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭
😭😞😞
The fact that I relate to all of this is actually really depressing...
“I can be manipulated only so many times, before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” ...
That hit me really hard
I can also relate to this because my dad left 7 months before I was susposed to be born and I was so envious that my siblings were able to stay with him for 5-10 years.I also wish you a happy life 😄
My father left when I was 11 or 12 on Christmas. Everytime me and my sister and brother go visit him he is always talking bad about our mom and step dad. I'm 21 and I still suffer from depression because of everything he has done but I'm trying to move on.
Same
Me too
Same, i had an abusive father i usally took the hit for my siblings and now im blind in one eye and i have scars all over my face and im fucking nine he did that when i was five
"put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved". It hurts. The traumatic memories of my abusive narcissist mother abusing me.. These lyrics really speak to me. Thank you, Demi for creating such a personal song.
_Put your hands on the one you swore you loved_
Like that fucking hurt.
Same, at the chorus I always sing: oh mother, please mother, put your hand down for the love of a daughter...
Same all is hear is mother in replace
I HAVE THE SAME KIND OF MOTHER LOL
You tried the song "older" yet? I find this song just as relatable to the video im commenting on!
You can actually feel the pain in her voice it’s so sad
yet it's relatable and healing to people like me who have abusive and neglectful parents to see someone in the spotlight touch our souls through her own pain that actually is relatable to many of us, sadly.
Ik it's sad
@@bwingbwinggwiyomi Then why do people keep tearing Demi down? I find it funny how Demi nearly died from that overdose, Thank God she made it out, went through rehab because addiction is really hard to fight and just when it seems like Demi is finding herself again people go back to trashing her. Why? I don't understand. What are we doing as a human species?
Ikr
I can sing very well with my voice i made
It hurt so much i sang to my entire family and my only friend i lost!
This is why Demi is my inspiration. She is so honest and pure. She literally pours out her sincere emotions in her songs. I could really imagine what a four year old felt. I know she has an amazing dad(step), but deep down, she really missed her father. I write poetry to express my feelings just like demi writes songs..
If any of you read this comment, please pray so that i can become an established poet and pour out honest emotions just like lovato does.
I hope that your prayers come true of being a great poet.
Praying for ur dream to happen! Would love to hear one if u like to share!!
U got this!❤️🙏
ok i try praying but i just dont have time but ill try
I will i write and i give out my feelings really well and how I feel about them as well
“Don’t you remember I’m you’re baby girl” That hit me hard....I don’t have an abusive family and I’m lucky because I feel very bad for the people that do
Clouds Sky I’m always there if you need someone to talk to
@@heyasimp5321 that's so sadddd I'll be your online best friend because you deserve a friend
AB Gacha That would mean a lot to me tbh
Gacha Skies Thank you a lot..
Clouds Sky Of course😊
You instantly cry when you've experienced the meaning of the song. I was 4 years old, My Father and Mom weren't married, My Father cheated on my Mom and when they were on court on who would take custody over me, My Father told the court that I wasn't his daughter and refused to take me so My Mom got custody of me. He also married his side chick and they adopted a child together because the woman was infertile. I was 9 when my Father came back when he and his side chick divorced, The happiness lasted for 1 year then he showed his true colors, he drank every night and would always curse me and my mom... He pushed me to depression, I took pills to end my life and instead of comforting me and helping me... He just called me a disappointment and continued to curse at me and threaten me, There was a moment when he tried to punch me if it weren't for my Mom shielding me, I would've been hit. Still waiting for the moment that my Mom will realize that my Father just pushed me to a worst scenario. I'm even more scared to come out to my Father as Bisexual because he would always tell me that he will kill me if I were to have a relationship with a girl.
I'm sorry.. Keep living for you and your mother, I'm sure your mother will come to her senses and realize what's best for you and here.
Please reach out to someone
When your old enough go live somewhere else, and dont let your abusive dad tell you how to live your life when he can barely control his
(Sorry was that too much?😬😶) you'll get through this God has plans for all of our futures I wish you the best🙏🏼💖
I was scared to tell my dad the same thing
Wow..
I've lived this song except it's "MOTHER PUT THE PILLS DOWN FOR THE LOVE OF A DAUGHTER"
3:16 you hear that?
That's the pain she's feeling
So please
Don't ask for likes
Don't ask for replys
Ask her if she's okay
And if she's not
Comfort her and numb all the pain
I love this song sooooo match💖💖
Yass I agree
Now this person is smart
@@GingerEnjoyer_808 Thank you, I think you are a smart person aswell
@@778hm thank you
When that one sentence hits you: *angry crying*
Yup...
@@Frookipop no, no one deserves any pain. You are worth the world to someone, even though you dont feel it. Both of my younger brothers were mistakes but, my parents learned to love them slowly but surley. Ok? You or no one deserves any pain.
Angery
@@imjustchilling4477 The man😅. Really needed that
@@Frookipop anytime..
me with daddy issues: crying
dad walks by :
also me : starts to freak out
are you okay? :(
X_seemeinacrown_X yes thank you for asking
Omg I can relate so much
ok
@Billie Jenkins omg im so sorry about that
Ppl are talking about “don’t you remember I’m your baby girl” but the line that hits me that hardest is “well I can be manipulated, only so many times before even I love you starts to sound like a lie” idk it just kinda speaks to me and reminds me of stuff I’ve been through
SAMEEE THAT LINE HITS ME MOST 😭😭😭
Same tbh, it feels so hollow, lonely and depressive to realise that hearing "I love you" or "you're our daughter" from your parents doesn't mean anything anymore, because it's just a comma between arguing and yelling at you for smallest of things.
You can say I'm overdramatic cuz I'm a late teenager and it's just my edgy phase, but seriosuly, when you hear that and you don't feel the same warmth as you used to when you were a child, you start feeling desperate to have it back. For me it's like the never-to-happen urge to watch a movie for the first time once again because when you watched it for the first time you were too young to be hit by all the feelings that you later notice should be there, and you just want to know what it would feel like to understand it from the very beggining
@@xiesie_xiesie literally like I don’t know by biological parents and I don’t know what went through beyond what I’ve been told but the woman who had me has only ever sent me one letter and my “father” has sent me none it’s like I was just a page of their life that they never wanted
"Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter..."
A year and a month ago I didn't even realize that these lyrics related to me.
My dad used to drink on a daily basis. He wasn't abusive or anything but he used to say stuff he didn't mean to, to me and my brothers. I used to even be kind of scared to stay home with him and every chance I got I would go with my mom somewhere just to get away from home. We used to complain to our mom begging her to tell him to stop drinking. They used to always fight about my dad's drinking and one day they had a fight in the car(my brothers and I weren't with them) where our mom told him that either he stops drinking or she divorces him. He stopped drinking and one day he was going to visit our neighbor alone and he fainted in front of our house without us knowing. Thankfully someone was driving and saw him laying on the ground and knocked on our door. My mom went outside and called the ambulance while I of course stayed inside and started crying cuz I was afraid of losing him and later my mom comforted me, telling me everything will be okay. He was in the hospital for about 2 weeks. Last month was his one year anniversary, now he is doing great and has stopped drinking and he is the dad and husband me and my mom always wanted.
If you read this to the end I just wanted to say thank you for listening to my story and I hope you're doing great. ❤
That is so sad never give up I'm here for you ok just reply anytime😌 thanks for sharing I know how you are my parents are divorced and I'm sad I see my dad 2 days a week but...I don't know where I belong
@@jadecofey7936 Thank you so much!😊
And I'm so sorry to hear about that😔
This is exactly like my life... I am so happy that I am not the only one that this relates to...
I managed to get my dad to stop “smoking” but he does it secretly and he doesn’t know I know... I’ve been telling him ever since I was 2 and I’m now 14.. he still drinks and he drinks more than he used to- do you guys have advice on how to stop him?
@@axellion6940 I'm really sorry to hear that but does anyone else know he's still smoking asside from you?
it sucks that the first and only man that broke my heart was my father.
Awwww I’m so sorryyyyy
I’m literally crying right now...
I miss my father since he died but we do have family problems from my fathers side my moms side are very not like that like they love everyone
@@sozoling4653 im so sorry !
Aw, that is so sad. I'm sorry, and I can relate.
Same...
Same😥
Y'all in the comments. Never forget that you are loved. You are already the person you've been searching for. You are already enough, no matter what your dad did to you. It's not your fault for having a idiot for dad. I have the same situation and I'm here for every single one of you. Take care.
thank you ✌️
@Moon Riddle I'm sorry that's A BIG OOOOF
Thank you 😭
Min_yoongi_lover_and Mark_lee_lover you’re welcome
Min_yoongi_lover_and Mark_lee_lover hi army, I hope your doing ok😭
I cant even describe how this song hits, the lyrics alone just make me cry every time. I'm so sorry for anyone else that had to go through this
This is my story scroll past if you want:
I lived with my mom, dad, and brother in a little house. My family was always at war with each other. My mom and dad were always yelling at each other. He always needed money. He stayed in the basement and rarely was seen. Everytime he came inside they would always fight. My grandfather was my father figure. I looked up to him. He was kind, and caring. He was my role model. We moved to a different house. The fighting never stopped I was 7. My father always had strangers around the house when my mom was at work. The cops came around a lot and I didn't understand why. I'll never forget the night I thought that my dad was going to hit my mom. He was angry. She was telling him to leave. He threw her phone. I screamed at him to stop through my tears. The was arrested many times. He was a drug addict and a alcoholic. He skipped all of his court dates and is currently a fugitive. My mom filed for full custody over me. Court came around and he never showed. I felt abandoned. I was never expecting him to show up but I didnt realize how much it would hurt.Was I not a good enough daughter for him? I havent seen him in over 2 years. My grandfather, my father figure, died last May. I went through the loss of our house. I've been diagnosed with 3 different anxiety disorders and depression. I self harm. I struggle with my body image and am currently fight anorexia.
For anyone out there who feels like they are worthless. Just know YOU ARE NEEDED IN THIS WORLD. YOU MATTER. Dont let anyone tell you any different. I love❤❤ Stay strong. Keep fighting it will get better.
@@zeynepozsurekcigil7696 I'm fine I've gotten out of it I suffer with depression and anxiety but I'm fighting it Thank you for caring though
Don’t worry I’m here my discord name is: FNAFfan 123 and my number is:
#7126
@Megan Loxton thank you
@@Scrambledomlet thank you
listen the thing is probably around 1 in 3 people suffer from no father or a father with addictions or issues and remember we are all here for you to talk to
3:32 s “father” hits different the way her voice transitions as a crack is wild and I feel like it shows the pain
“oh father, please father, put the bottle down for the love of a daughter” hit harddddd
Same
Me too☹️
Yep
Hi my name is Ella to
Same legit all the words hurt me
I'm 13 now, i remember 7 year old me crying my eyes out to this song sitting under my desk bc my dad was always drunk arguing with my mom. When they got divorced he'd constantly vent to me and made me feel as if it's my fault. I realize I didn't miss the alcoholic him, I missed the Interactive dad side of him I rarely saw. I'm so sorry to everyone who can relate as well, stay strong ml
Stay strong guys, when I was 13 I thought I wouldn’t make it to 18, I’m 24 in a week and it does get better ❤❤
Girl same thing to and I'm also your age too😢😢
" lied to your flesh and your blood "
And
"Put your hands on the ones ,you swore you loved "
Hits so hard bro
Same
It tells my story right there💔
It really does
@@cosmickinnly hi
oh gosh yes.. Those are some that cut the deepest. Relating to my father and my abusive narcissist mother inflicting those onto me.
Hey this is Ashley
Shes 12 years old
Her dad left at 6
Her dad was a alcoholic
Ashley is hopeless
She knows she doesnt have a point in life
Ashley decided to end it in her birthday June 28
Ashley knew her mom and brother would be sad if she did tho
Ashley has battled through deppresion,anxiety,D.I.D,fake friends, people not accepting her for being aesexual,her dad leaving,and eating disorders, Ashley went through all this and to this day still is
Ty
I feel so sorry for her...
Well this Ashley that you are talking about is one of the strongest people on this earth.
Awwwwww I SUPORTE LGBTQ STANDS FOR LESBIN,GAY,BISEXUAL,TRANSGENDER.I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT THE Q STANDS FOR IM STRAIGHT BUT I SUPPORT STAY STRONG.
Ashley reminds me of myself
@Riley Strohm I live with my mum
I don't have a father like this but reading these comments. Made me realize some people do and its hard for them. I cant stop crying though because the meaning of this strong. Everytime i listen to it.
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Midnight Gaming if u don’t have a father like this don’t feel sorry for us. We have to deal with it stop crying it’s not u. U have a father that’s there....
Midnight Gaming i have a dad that does drugs and im 9
Midnight Gaming :( sad
Midnight Gaming i havent seen my dad since i was 2 and im 11 now
"oh father, please father, I'd love to leave you alone but i can't let you go" has me in tears everytime i listen to this song.
I replaced the word "Father" with the word "Mother" because my mother is being extremely like the song explains
Damn.
I’m 18 now and my mom is exactly like the song. I’m sorry I know it hurts, you’re mom is the person who’s supposed to be there the most for you. Everything gets better as time goes on. When I was younger I was suicidal and I am so happy to be alive today. You’ll be okay, you have the strength within you.
same...
Catty Randoms mine to hang in there my mom yelled at me today
*We Can't Hide,My Demon Inside,.....*
"Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter..." we all have that one memory that will be in all our nightmares...
Yea i have low PTSD
Yeah..*i have been betraid..sometimes..😔*
I can relate
Ya
Mine more like put the phone down for a love pd a daughter
I'm gonna say forever that this song is the best by Demi Lovato. It's so well done and so emotional.
2023 and still hitting me 😭
"Dont you remember I'm your baby girl? how could you throw me right out of your world so young when the pain had begone now forever afraid of being loved"
These lines hit me the hardest
Me too 😪😢😭
I know right
Same..
Me too
“Now forever afraid of being loved”
Yeah, and no one even realizes it. I love who i choose to love, because I’ve been forced so many times, and broken too many of those times. Too scared to let myself be loved ever again, because of the pain I’ll feel again when they give up on me when I need them most.
How did this girl manage to sing this without breaking down? I always start cracking when I try to sing it man.. Demi is so strong
April Rivera I tried singing it but broke down at "How could you push me out of your world?!"
April Rivera ok so I know that this comment has nothing to do with what you said but are you relatives with Naya Rivera or do you just have the same last name as her
Bailey Snyder maybe she just has the same last name as her
April Rivera
IKR
I was the same way for the first 3 times but after that i stopped crying and sang the entire thing i feel like crying
My dad was exactly like this when I was a child I never grew up with a father my mom raised me by herself my dad never cared, never bonded or anything with me, he didn’t understand me and my mom was left to cope with me as I was hyper active and etc etc and always ran off or miss behaved and because my dad never understood my ways he bassically left my mom get on with me and raise me alone. When I was 4 the earliest time I can remember I would be lonely and longed for a friend or at least a little sibling to play with because I was always alone and one day my wish came true and my mom got pregnant with my brother, when he was finally born I finally had company and wasn’t alone anymore and didn’t have to fear being an only child anymore when he was born I was 7 and I finally had someone to spend all my time with. My dad and I never bonded or went anywhere when I was young he literally doesn’t even know me now or what I like and I’m his own daughter he didn’t understand the stuff that made me me. I remember my dad used to hit me when I was misbehaving when I was 6 and he used to hit my mom too when she would stand up for me and try and explain that it was the way I am but he would shout and they’d argue and he’d hit her most from what I can remember anyway. When I was 12 my parents got a divorce, we wasn’t all that sad to see him go and to be honest we were glad to see him go as we were all find it hard and then it was just the four of us me, my mom and my 2 younger brothers. Right now my dad’s engaged to his new girlfriend who he’s marrying in 2 years and is gonna have a new family and hasn’t once gave me a second thought so I guess we’ve just kinda ignored and avoided seeing each other I’m 19 now we haven’t seen each other in like a year but I honestly don’t care because we never really had that close bond but I realised growing up that I never needed a father because I have both a mother and a father in my mom.
That’s why this song reminds me of my dad because iDemi’s life is similar to mine growing up with a father who never cared I sometimes wonder and question to myself “did he ever love me?” So every time I listen to this song it reminds me of my dad.
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} look like we have the same life
My life is a little bit hard but i can understood even if i have a step mother and a
Step sister and a step brother its ok for me but i wish one day i wana see them im only
9. Years old some times its hard and some times i cry 😭 but its ok for me when im in school i always get bullied i. Dont want to tell my dady and some times i go to my room and get a knife but i cant kill myself the one day i tell my dad that i get bulied so dont be sad or lonley
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} you made me cry I'm sorry you had to go threw all of that I understand how it feels I at least get to see my dad thank you for showing that I should be glad for the father I have.
Emoji Girl thank you and you’re welcome lots of people are lucky to have a dad who cares about them I wish I’d had that be great full for your dad who cares and loves you 😊
Kiara LionessTM {Kiara Fray Fairchild} thanks 😭😃👍
"So Young When The Pain Had Begun...
Now Forever Afraid Of Being Alone.."
(I Always Use To Hear It As Forever Afraid Of Being Loved So Now I Hear It Both
Ways 😍)
I used to relate to this song 5 years ago. My dad had a serious drinking problem and did things I wont ever forgive him for. The past years he quit drinking altogether and his relationship with my mother and the rest of my family has gotten better. It was hard waiting for him to change. My heart is with all of you who will relate to this song. One day you'll be happy, may it be with or without him
Same.My dad quitted too 3 years ago. But he started again😢
I see all these comments saying they showed this to their father and their father changed... I could only wish to be able to show this to my father, but he won't give me the time of day.
I'm so sorry it will get better I promise it might take a long time but it will get better it's when u turn 18 that is when it makes or breaks the "relationship" I'm sorry u have to go through it I know it's hard just hold on as tight as u can I know it seems worthless right now but it actually might change the result
Day Dream same
Day Dream right
Mine too
Day Dream same... mine would beat me and my mom cuz the voises in his head told him to. he left me and my brother on my moms door steps. people ask me were he is so i have to tell them that he is at work. the last time i saw him he called me ugliy and smacked me. for every one who relates know u r stronger then what ur father says!!!!
"How could you throw me right out of your world?
So young when the pain had begun
Now forever afraid of being loved" "Am I your child or just a charity ward?"
My dad stopped drinking for me. He left a horrible women and his drinking problem to raise me and care for me. I feel so lucky... I refuse to forget this song.
I’m so sorry 😕 I hope you guys feel better forever❤
You really are so lucky. I may not know you, but I am so happy for you! ❤
"Am I your child or just a charity ward?"
That line punched me right in the gut. When I lived with my mom she would take the money that my dad paid her when he paid child support, and she would buy alcohol with it.
That's just AWFUL!
Aww that's so sad!
Thats what happened with my mom. Her mom would do the same thing. Dont worry, my mother is ok now
I feel bad for you 😭
My parents used the money that was supposed to support me for drugs and alcohol and then abused me and my younger brothers. I tried so hard to save them
Poor Demi with an overdose she didn't deserve this she's so amazing and talented.This song makes me cry for her😘😢
Demi Lovatos life is so sad. No wonder she takes drugs. I love her no matter what. And if someone is fighting this just like Demi, pleas know that it will be ok. And If he ever sais he loves you and dont know what to say and what to believe just say " How am I to know that your saying the truth?". I love you people!😭❤ (Black or White people!👧🏿👧🏾👧🏽👧🏼👧🏻and Yelow people 👧👦🏿👦🏾👦🏽👦🏼👦🏻👦❤)
Same
😊😭
😭😭😭
Yes this is sad....A lot of kids have this story,and im there too.My father do not drink,(well he drink but not always) he..leave me and my mom
Me: *screaming this song out*
My dad passes by:
Me: *pauses music*
Yep
@@duhmadi wow you are truly lucky
Felt
@@duhmadi lucky I have to horrible fathers one is my stepdad in the other one is my real "father"
My dad cried so much when he heard this song
you can hear the pain in their voice, the way they gulped multiple times clearly holding back tears.
It's feels like she is singing my story💔
Same.
Ikr my dad left before I was born
Aww that's sad😭🥺
Same here :/
@Savoca Criddle with me both parents
I literally can never listen to this without crying... It hurts much so sing. The memories and the feelings...so much pain.
I'm so sorry for anyone who also went through abuse. You don't deserve it and you never did.
I'm here to talk if u need it
This reminds me of my own life, my dad raped my mom and that's how I was born. He left us after he was reported and sent to mexico. My mom raised me all alone and he killed my twin sister when he was abusing my mom. She wasn't even born yet.
Now I'm an activist, fighting with passion. I'm glad the school allows me to make speeches at the assemblys. Honestly, I am so happy at the moment
Wow
This literally happened to my bestfriend
Hey you should check out the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I love you and so does god. God bless
;-;
HE KILLED YOUR SISTER?!?!?!?! IS HE CRAZY?!?!?!?!
For anyone going through anything, just know someone will always love you. Someone will always need you, you are strong. Keep fighting!
Afterall, you are human.
Heal
Unity
Mighty
Awesome
iNtelligent
Thank you so much. ❤
I’m crying because I need
Love from a dad
Who else
me
@@EMBYRR wait are you serious???
Hey if you want you can Text me i give you the love (017674602311) i always be there ~jasmin♥️
@@themanbehindtheslaughter8569 who were you talking about
@@faythblount6744 if someone need Help i will here for him or she
this is ruby
she’s 13
her dad left when she was 7 and chose alcohol over her. she has gone through multiple eating disorders and self harming, has anxiety depression and ptsd and doesn’t know what to do, she’s alone, she has lost all of her friendships and has been left to fight for myself and she’s still fighting.
You're SO strong!💓
Please never stop trying
Hey, it’s been a year..i’m not sure if you’re still here, but I promise that it will get better, you are so strong and i’m proud of you for that, stay safe out there! 💕
I hope your ok ❓
:For the love of a daughter:If anyone has to deal with a father like this then I'm sooooo sorry about that,NO ONE should have to deal with that 😞😢
Thank you that's all I needed to hear right now my dad treats me like a charity ward he is an alcoholic and hurts my mom I stand up for her but I have to deal with this for a few more years before I can buy my own house and live happy again I can't wait for the future but patience is the key and it hurts to still be with him I did self harm for 4 years and Im on holiday rn so I'm glad he is not here but Ik he will always be with me
It hurts my father don't put the bottle down
thank you
@Emily Betzold I'm so sorry to hear that😟😢😥😭
That used to be me..
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl?
How could you push me out of your world?
Lie to your flesh and your blood?
Put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved?”
💔
My dad did the same thing saying he’s gonna kill me 😔😔go check out my sad life story on Official_Werewolf/crazy lunatic kinda wolf
Im cryin bc of that line even tho i dont relate
💔
I read this at the exact time it was in the song
listening to this on repeat on father’s day:)
@Benardisheadelf it’s not Father’s Day yet though🤨
I will be doing the same! ❤
The line "how could you push me out of your world?" Kills me bc it's damn accurate
The last thing my father said to me and my siblings is that he is getting married and he will finally have kids that love him. We loved our father until he decided that he would rather lie about working and be in a bar drinking, talk bad about our mom, and stalk our family every time he found out where we live.
Sabrina Pascua 100% I started crying 😭
@@honeybunny3365 Know that what he said is a lie. You loved, but he was undeserving of it.
And he will go on to harm his future children too.
The lyrics and the power in her voice make this song so deep and meaningful. Her voice is so incredible in this song
"Oh father, please father, I'd love to leave you alone but I can't let you go"
So sad. :( ILY DEMI!!!
Everybody is sharing their story here. So here I am. I still remember when I was a toddler, my mother and bio father would fight a lot. I would go to bed to screaming and crying. My mother always worked a lot to put food on the table while my father spent it all on alcohol. One day, my parents had a fight of who was picking me up from preschool, and my bio dad hit my mom. I remember, she was laying in the snow, while I was kneeling by her. Now he's wondering why I don't want to call him. My step dad asked me if I ever want to see him. And I said no, because I can't look at a person the same that caused my family pain.
Please if anything like this is happening to you. Tell somebody, this is very serious and if you're dealing with abuse. Tell a teacher or any other adult ♡
"Oh father, please father, put the bottle down for the love of a daughter"
I've never thought some lyrics could make me cry
Some gacha life videos made me cry
yeah..
"And you can't take back what we never had" 🙁😕☹️😟😞😔😣😖😫😩😤😠😡😢😭😓🤐🤐🤐
I can't relate to the bottle part but everything else hits hard. My dad doesn't drink, he consciously chooses to beat and hurt his supposed family.
Mine doesn't drink either. He's devoted to my mother in an emotional dependant (and very toxic) relationship to the point he started to ignore his 2 daughters when we were teenagers. My mother is an abusive bitch but my father doesn't see it, and instead of protecting us from her, he defends her when she plays victim and push us away saying we're awful people. I used to be a daddy's girl, playing with him, making up stories, having fun, being loved... Now I just feel abandoned even if he's sitting next to me.
I'm here to talk if u need it
im srry u have/are going through i hope things get better soon
if you have ever gone through this situation. i am actually genuinely so sorry. and i hope you heal from that.
Thank you. ❤
When a song explains your life completely
yup
yeah
So true
yeah my dad walked out on me and my sister when i was 8-9 im now 13 and could care less about us
Karlee Cox my dad walked out on me when I was born and then had two other kids then walked out on them as well
"Oh father please father put the bottle down for the love of a daughter"
Hey daily my Bello I love you you are great Ben of the essence Bailey saying you are great of everything you are in the Great Hall of the standing in you're a father who died Factor your baby girl Demi Lovato
I can relate to that
Agreed
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*Don't You Remember? I'm Your Baby Girl!How Could You Push Me Out Of Your World?!Lie To Ur Flesh And Blood! DON'T YOU REMEMBER?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!I'M YOUR BABY GIRL~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HOW COULD U YOU THROW ME RIGHT OUT OF UR WORLD?!?!?!?!???!?!?!?!!!!!Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,I'd Love To Leave You Alone But I Can't Let You Go..Oh Father,PLEASE FATHER,Put The Bottle Down For The Love Of A Daughter...I Can Be Manipulated,ONLY SO MANY TIMESSSSSSSSS*
7 years later and I’m back. I just want to hear my dad say “I love you” without holding a bottle in his hand and bruises on my moms body.
That all I ever wanted
Same 🥲
I can relate what you were saying
I went through this… I know other people who go through this I’m praying for all and I promise it gets better it’s hard to forgive my father though he’s changed a lot but it still hurts. And on top of it I have a twin sister who hits me almost every day and nobody does anything about it. Everything will get better. Thanks for making the song. I’m praying for anyone Else going through tgis
I'm so so so sorry. 😢
@@gamer_2255 it’s alright. I made this a year ago. And everything is getting better day by day! Not quickly, but slowly. But throughout a year it’s been so much better! I do appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
"Don't you remember I'm your baby girl"
Hitz me hard 😭💖
WAIT
Damn, i ACTUALLY found a song THAT LITERALLY describes my life word for word. Thank you, Demi
Fr
Exactly
Sameeeee 😭😭😭😭
Me: *tears up*
Also me: *accidently presses the dislike button*
ALSO me a year later: SHOoT- I hit the wrong button-
Now you see why so many good songs have dislikes :)
you dont get the song until your broken
xXJosieXx lol
I hope u change it
@@sierraremsen2619
I understand the song but I'm not broken.
But It does remind me of a family member who went through this.
*starting to cry wall think about it*
My father broke my heart before any teenage boys ever could.
“Soo young when the pain had begun” this one hits hard 😩💔
Thisssssss. So sorry ❤😢
"now forever afraid of being alone" i relate so much to this that actually hurts. I never had a healthy male figure. My father manipulated me for years, was abusive with my mother, my siblings and i. Since i was eight i was forced to be in a narrative i never wanted to be included. Used to listen to their to him and my mom fighting all night, and that caused my trouble sleeping until this day. And my brother is literally an younger version of my father.
And that lack of good image in my entire life made me scared of relationships, i literally can't trust any man, and honestly, after trying so hard, i don't think i'm capable of ever loving romantically someone.
Thanks dad, you were the first man to broke my heart.
It's actually "forever afraid of being loved."
I wasn't in a great ralentship with my father either so i stopped seeing him...
I love how people are sharing their own problems and others are helping the, just remember: you’re not alone my dad’s not an alcoholic but he does fight with my mom a lot. Just remember: you guys are not alone 😊
My dad is not a alcoholic either but he did fight with my mum and older sister when i was around 2 and so we moved and now we vist him every Sunday at the end of each month and he still claims he did nothing but my sister remebers him fighting.
My "dad" who is A FUCKING ASSHOLE WHO SHOULD STAY OUT OF MY LIFE FOEEVER IS a alcoholic I'm not mad anymore I'm FUCKING PISSED!!!
All of us are NEVER going to be alone
Thank you. ❤
The more selfish people get..the more children get hurt, their change in emotions, I was always happy when my dad was with my mom as soon as the broke up,I was a different person
My parents broke up because of my birth
Corynn Taylor
Seriously ?😨
“Don’t you remember I’m your baby girl?”
“How could you push me out of your world?”
“Lie to your flesh and your blood?”
“So young when the pain begun, now forever afraid of being alone”
These hit so hard-.. 🥺😭
To all those people being bullied
To all those people who have lost a loved one
To all those people who have lost a pet
To all those people being abused
To all those people going through depression
To all those people with anxiety
To all those people in poverty
To all those people going through a breakup
To all those people having a bad day
To all those people with insecurities
To all those people just having a hard time,
Don't forget
Your weakness today
Is your strength tomorrow
It always gets better
Your loved ones will remain in your hearts
You always have the memories
Love yourself
Stand up for yourself
Money can't buy happiness
Those lovers
Just weren't right
Don't abuse yourself
Don't abuse others
Kill them with kindness
Treat people with kindness
We've all had these times
There will always be a hole in our chests
But
Let's all be each others' strength
weather you're
Black
White
LGBTQ+
Christian
Atheist
Etc
Love yourself
Love others
Don't cut
Don't kill
Don't criticize
Don't beg
Don't do drugs
Don't starve yourself
Don't starve others
We aren't supposed to do any of that
Just keep your strength
Keep your faith
Don't change because you were told to
Be yourself
Thank u I needed this ❤️
Ikr I’m all of them except the brake up one
Thank you so much, I'm going through all what you mentioned above. It's hard, but I'm trying. Although, this made me feel better. Thank you again❤
3 minutes ago
Thank you u needed this so bad I am 13 years old ever since July 2022 I have started to stop eating as much which made me feel really unwell causing me to hardly eat at all I would cut out dinner lunch and only sometimes eat breakfast and this carried on until December but around September and October I was at school and I got in trouble and I had to go into isolation (if I if that is a thing in other countries it is in England though) and I got really sad for some reason and a couple of days before that I took a compass away from a friend and had it with me the day I got isolation and I took it out of my pocket and look down at my arms and started to scratch my arms with the compass I only did light scratches and I did this for a couple of days and one day in a maths lesson I was feeling really sad so I did it again my friend next to me noticed and took the compass away we got in a big argument about it and she told the teacher and that teacher told a different teacher and I had to speak to the two teachers my friend was there and the teacher asked her to give her the compass but as she was giving the teacher the compass I quickly snatched it out of her hands and ran off crying and for the next couple of days I kept doing and one day I got hold of a sharpener and did some deeper cuts not too deep though and a safeguarding teacher found out about it and I had to show him I begged him not to tell my mum cause I thought my mum would think I'm weird or think I was doing it for attention the teacher told me to tell my most trusted teacher Mrs Turner who I talk to about my problems and stuff she ended up telling my mum and my mum kept me home for a couple days and took my phone away this made me even more sad and I kept having to speak to teachers about this and I kept getting sadder and sadder day by day and the cuts got deeper and deeper eventually getting deep enough to bleed and this kept going for ages and then I stopped for a month or so and I did it again in January when I kept getting in loads of trouble and getting excluded the cuts were still deep enough to bleed and I had the sharpener taken away a while ago but the that's my story I'm still feeling really sad on most days I always feel like I need to cut again but I try to stop myself I have been doing well stopping but some days I do it:(
Thanks for reading I hope anyone who is going through this knows that you are strong and keep going you can stop have a great day
To all the people who had to go through hell and back because of this sad reason❤️❤️❤️ You’re not alone
You don't know anything
@@Hanaaachan_ Naila is only trying to be nice!
Thanks....today i tried talking to him bc he abandoned me but .... nothing AND I JUST CANT LET HIM GO I NEED HIM I MISS HIM !!!! HE BROKE MY HEART AND MY LIFE
@@salsablanca26 awww I feel bad my life is really bad its like the song older my friend send me this cause it reminds her of my life and her life
Thankyou
There's so much father out there who didnt took care of their children... some loved them, some just don't know how to love...
I know it hurts. We're all human. Pray for them to change. 💪❤
Shout out to all the child out here raised by a single mom or grand parents or even by themselves. God is your answer. His love is greater than anyone's. God bless you 🌸
Amen 🙏🌈
Truth
This song describes my life perfectly I first heard it today and I’m literally crying right now my father has hurt me so many times that I can’t form relationships with people anymore because I’m afraid of what might happen if they get mad at me. I get angry often instead of being sad because I was always taught not to show my emotions. And I know most of you guys don’t care about what I’m saying but I just felt like I had to comment it.
Hey I care and I hope your doin OK
Thisssss 😢
Demi makes it so easy for me to relate to her songs.
Angela Herrera yep
no song has ever described my life like this one. i want to love him but it all sounds like a lie now
Same my dad is 😭😭
I understand completely :'( This song describes my relationship with my dad almost flawlessly.
All three of you i promise it will get better
proxy girl I know how you feel I look really happy all the time but am I
Abby Johnson I know I hate my dad for everything he has done to me so I know how you feel
" how could you push me out of your world
So young when the pain begun
And now so scared to be alone""""
My dad started hitting me when I was 6. He kept on until I was 11 then hit me with a belt from head to toe. After that it started going down hill. It got to a point where he shattered myself esteem and told me that I was a nobody. He was abusive verbally physically and emotionally. Still is just less on the physical part. I'm still living with him though cause in African culture there's no such thing as moving out unless u get married.
I hope you are okay🥺❤️, love you.
Thanks I love u too.
Hopefully things will get better
Although no offense I think that's bullshit given the situation
All children Deserve a parent but not all parents Deserves a child.😢 I really hope you are okay.❤❤❤
If you have a good job, move out. If you can’t move out, try to keep a distance. Keep busy, don’t say it things that would upset him. Protect your self girl! Study, find a job, learn, save money. You will not be there for too long
Everyone’s talking about how there fathers were terrible and ya I relate but like no one is even talking about Demi and the song like hearing her singing was enough to make me cry you can tell that even her own song was about to make her cry
Zoe Wednesday
It's really true, I was waiting for a comment talking about this
Zoe Wednesday for me, it’s my mom.
Like I heard it like that almost crack in her voice! It's sad and makes me cry....! 💔💖
She probably took ages being able to sing it without crying half way through
Just the sadness, and the breaking in her voice...hurts me so much.
Sometimes,
My mom ask me, "why do you eat so much,you need to start exercising like me"
"Why don't you try to fix your teeth"
"Your waking up to late"
"Wear something nicer,like brighter colors"
"Learn something for once!"
And the one that hurt me the most, "why don't you stand up and try to get some friends"
*Be nice to everyone you meet and see,and if they need it,give them a hug* ❤️❤️
so sorry to hear that! Feel virtually huged by me! Keep your head up, otherwise you wont see the stars
My mom and I have a good relationship but she always tells me too (actually) try to get some friends.. I do. But I can't be myself around them cause all the girls are like happy and popular and the boys are too crazy. Some girls are just down right crazy too. I feel more comfortable keeping to myself. Is that bad?
That is what makes me mad, people telling you that you do something wrong when you are perfectly fine with what you do, what you wear, how much you eat, your hygine your learning skills, like you could learn slower than others, maybe you like wearing darker colors, maybe you don't give a crap about what other people think of you as, maybe you don't mind waking up late, and you DON'T HAVE TO AMKE FREINDS IF YOU ARE TOO SHY, OR MAYBE YOU MIGHT NOT WANT FREINDS, who knows? People need to learn how to be nice to others, not bully them OR judge them for what they do, dress, or otherwise. It is very rude.
Can relate to them all except the waking up late one
I told my mom that my humor was died she took it seriously and started to talk about how I was a Debby downer and not very social. One time we were at a forever 21 and said dont dress like a lesbian
As a bisexual I felt hurt like she just insulted me and I never told her yet cause I don't care to be open with her about it and I don't want to tell her.
Sending a big hug to anyone that resonates with this song 💗
You deserve so much better, and I hope that life brings you the happiness and love you deserve xxx
Thank you
tysm ml
here in 2024 after a lot of healing, my father was an addict and i remember when me and my sister were about 9 and 10 yrs old we sang this song to him as like a karaoke performance lol and after that he decided to get sober and he’s really stepped up and become the man that i never imagined he could be. i really have no words to describe how proud i am and lucky to have the opportunity to mend my relationship with him. it’s just crazy to look back and see how far we’ve come. idk just felt like sharing coz i haven’t heard this since then and it just brought up a lot of feelings lol.
I'm so so sorry. ❤😢
Can I get a like from all the girl that went through this
That how my father is too
My bio dad left be for i was born. Then cam back to my mum when i was 2. On Christmas he proposed to my mum,at the time she was like 21. She said she was not ready to marry anyone yet. So he left us.and started another family. I did not have a father figher in my life till i was 5. Im now 12 close to being 13. Have a nice life with my mum,dad and 3 sisters. Till this day i wonder what it wold have been like if i was nit born.
My dad left me when I was a baby literally when I was 1 years old
okay i'm a girl but using another account
I kinda did
This is exactly my life. My dad chose alcohol and drugs over me.
I relate so much.
Never got the dad I deserved and I unfortunately never will.
I feel like it's my fault
Kayah Ann Partridge it’s not
It's not your fault, your dad is just an a$$hole, choosing alcohol over u? That's just bad, but u r not alone, we're here for u
My father abandoned us and i have a lost baby sister...he broke my heart and he broke me now im just sad and there is alot of things but im not just gonna say it
@Aurora Crane i lost 666 brain cells reading this
@Aurora Crane oh that explains it....you are a kid
"I'd love to leave you alone, but I can't let you go."
I've tried so many times to stop talking to my dad. All of the times failed. I tried to stop trusting him, but I still can't help it. He's my father, even though he's an alcoholic, and neglects his children. I just wish he wasn't mine.
When that one sentence hits you: angry crying
what a music right here a u t h e n t I c v i e w s dun took Demi Lovato oFf 2 da big leagues and fo dat I will always be super grateful
A lot of people have said that their father's changed. If I showed him something like this he'd get mad and start making fun of me.
I've been trying to change my daddy since I was about 6. At 24 yeas old, I've realized that I'm not good enough for him and I'm done trying. I wanna be able to say that if he wants to drink himself to death or end up dead in a drunk driving accident I don't care... but I can't mean it because he's still my daddy. Even if he's the cause for years and years of pain, heartbreak and a lifetime of feeling not good enough.
Юлия Элизабет my father is nice so idk what your talking about so whatever bro cya boi
Shalim Cruz ...then... I’m obviously not talking about you...? 🤦🏻♀️ 🙄
Shalim Cruz WELL GOOD FOR YOU SOME PEOPLE HAVE BAD FATHERS my father good but this is a serious matter for the people who have abusive fathers or alcoholic fathers
i fell so bad for you i wish that your dad realizes how amazing you are ( :
I am 16 ten months ago my father died he was a horrible alcoholic. He loved my half siblings more than us. I didn't cry at his funeral.
For anyone who is depressed and can relate to this song i just want to say that you, me, everyone in this crazy world matters and please dont you let anyone else tell you otherwise ❤
🖤
Thank you so much. ❤
This is for everyone that is going through something hard.Just remember you are always loved and cared for.No matter how rude family can be there is a space in their heart with you in it.You are awesome loved cared for beautiful kind smart.Just keep pushing through all of it.It will get better soon.God will answer your prayer and be there for you.Thanks for reading this.
You may say that but it doesn't feel like it all but thanks anyways
8 years later and I still cry to this song
I'm so thankful I can't relate to this! Both my parents are amazing people but I hope those who's parents aren't find some sort of happiness.
xChloe x thanks...But so far I’ve just got Darkness........And Hell.....
Then u shouldn't be here
Your so lucky. Never take them for granted xx
@@khalliabankslynn5310 she can like the song and listen to it if she wants
@@olivertew4642 whatever
Demi you such a strong woman .My heart goes for u.great inspiration😘💙
Love you Demi💖💖
this song helps me cry myself to sleep
this is basically my song,
my dad chose my ‘step-mum’ over me.
not just me, my 2 brothers.
I haven’t saw my dad in 3 years.
because he’s gone.
he committed suicide because
my ‘step-mum’ left him.
I'm so sorry ❤
Mystery girl Thankyou so much! I hope you’re safe ❤️
rukiya kabir this means so much too me, I hope you’re staying safe ❤️
I literally dropped my phone because my dad also chose my stepmom over me
Richie Tozier I’m sorry for that 🤍
its so hard to expect a man to love me and stay when the first man that was supposed to do that walked out without hesitation.
Alexus Dunikowski I know how that is..
Same! My own father left me,my own father chose drugs over us, my own father tried to kill me... 😕
ya ik how that feels
Alexus Dunikowski so true it sucks😥💔
Alexus Dunikowski : same here,I feel you girl