@@renanqueiroz2678 it will be too late by then homie. we're going to have a generation of hags that are expired and VERY bitter about that. the darkest timeline is to come.
Just came from a video of a guy who saved a drowning woman only for her to accuse him of grape because he pulled her out of the water without consent...
Agreed. If your wife feels like she "settled" for you... she's going to leave when she finds someone "better". Just like most guys who feel they "settled" for their wife will cheat when they think they can get someone "better".
@jasoncarto I mean, the generalisation isn't that far off. "Girlboss" is typically used to refer to a woman who has great pride in being a "strong independent woman", and a lot of the time is used as fuel for egos. That's why you see social media flooded with them. A failed girl boss still has the same underlying personality that made her seek out that lifestyle to begin with, she just failed at it and is settling for an alternative to her preference.
Lumi's girlboss friend learned that high-earning competitive careers are really hard. By contrast, having a man who loves you, has dedicated his life to making you happy, and being in a central role of a family is a pretty nice feeling.
the greatest trick the capitalists have ever pulled was convincing society that woman working at home to support her family is slavery, but a woman working thankless toil for a faceless megacorp is freedom
When anime women who sell the "I'm your anime waifu/girlfriend" idea are more based in reality then a majority of women who go to learn useless stuff and get in debt......
Imagine using the experiences of two women as representative of billions of women worldwide. You ignore that men have been exploited through the ages. We were providers, yes, but we were made to toil until we dropped down dead. If anything, these women recognize that there's a problem; shit's too tough. Life is cruel and tough. Men recognize this too. Smart men don't blame this on the supposed weakness of women, but on the cruelty of this system that hurts men and women alike.
@@NihongoWakannai If you could be satisfied with such a life, then that's on you. But there is no "we" here. I think that most of us still have enough shame and ambition to deny such a lifestyle without a second thought.
@@WAAAAAAGH nah you just don't know the reality for most people stuck in dead end jobs. There's most likely more opportunity to sate your ambition working from home while doing housework instead of being mentally drained from a terrible day job that gets you no where. "Grinding" is a scam, you're just turning yourself into a servant for the rich elites who will toss you into the trash without a second thought. I'd rather at least be a servant to a rich elite who is hot and loves me.
aka landmines, a failed girl boss will never take you seriously, and will always think she settled and is better than you. There is no future to build with that material
It's kind of funny seeing this evergrowing dynamic of women who said they'd never settle, never marry, never have kids and have a career, make almost a complete 180 once they reach their 30s and realize that their future will be really lonely if they don't settle and have kids now. Seeing this firts hand through vtubers has really opened my eyes to this, and it kinda sucks to hear that some of these girls are trad wife material, but may never settle as they never go outside and socialize
Now that you mention it, I've also been seeing an uptick of these notions recently in the chuubas I watch. It is a bit sad to see but at the end of the day we all make our own beds so
ya can't ignore biology forever. 30s seems to be the magic number when their feminine impulses meet their choices to ignore their feminine impulses, that's why guys call it the wall. i imagine that "career women" have always been experiencing this, but the advent of social media is what's highlighted it
My sister's friend was valedictorian in high school, went to med school, and graduated top of her class, she hasn't practiced in 12 years and is a mother of 3.
ok but sidenote, whenever i hear those stories, i cant help but think:"man what a waste of resources". like their own time, time and effort from the schools and teachers. money aswell. like why go through all of that education, to then not put it to use or effect?
Well I mean she still got the education. If something happens in the future then she at least has a diploma. Also she will be able to help the children with math better than if she only had a high school level education.
The opportunities to put a highly specialized academic track into practice can be more difficult to come by than the education itself. Perhaps in an ideal world they'd have an opportunity to do both both, but in the world we live in, they chose the route that made them the most happy.
@@friendlyhobo6483 Yes, but that prestige slot at the Ivy League uni could´ve gone to a man who actually WOULD have built a career out of it. So what this means is this woman just stole the future of an entirely different upper-middle class family that could've existed if not for her vanity. Meanwhile, she just settles out and that doctor career is now left entirely vacant. Women don't spend half the time in their career path that men do. Educating them instead of another man is a waste of resources, a mistake, and cruel to that man and his future wife.
@@strife9827 What does it matter even if they were 10x worse, if these women then go on not to work? Let me repeat: An entire family now functionally doesn't exist because a provider-level single income job now goes untaken. In fact, I can do you one better: if the woman is that smart, she should be having all the babies in the world as soon as possible. And yes, individually you can argue about wants and preferences, but this is no way to run a society, and her intelligence that beat the guy is now twice wasted.
as someone who tried both life of tradhusband and a worker grinder, being house keeper is amazing, all you do you do for yourself and person you love, your efforts instantly get gratification from person you love, and it’s just nice, you do what you like take breaks when ever and do things however. i really don’t understand why would anyone HATE being a housekeeper.
While most Western institutions are openly misandrist, there are many, many people who feel entirely differently, as you just watched in the video above. So no, it's not over. The only time it's over is when you choose to wallow in sorrow, rather than using your time to make your life & the world a better place.
Why you would want to spend the majority of your life wanting to cry at your office job because your corpo robo boss gave you overtime instead of being able to stay at home, cook in your underwear an raise the kids, will always be a mystery to me. An thats for both genders
@@RambleOn07 The biggest scam of feminism was teaching women that they'd somehow be happier working a 9-to-5 than raising a family that would love them to their dying day.
Women only look at the top 10% of men, so they see guys in fancy suits just messing around in an office and think "hey that's not fair, we can do that too" (they cant), totally ignoring the 10s of thousands of men who do the REAL work of keeping society running, stuff like powerplants, farming, logistics, etc. That's why you never see women advocate for equality in roofing for example, because like hell are women gonna work in 100+ degrees on a roof all day pouring noxious-smelling tar, but men do it because they have to, because theyre men.
2:45 "it's just a meme bro!" Proceed to all go after those very few 6'5" Chad/Tyrone/Miguel in existence that have practically limitless options & get treated as just that: an option. Queue the "men are trash" talking points. Why are they like this bros?
it is technically a meme in the very literal sense of the world. women actually have very simple standards, you have to have an attractive face and be taller than her in high heels if she wears them. anything in addition to that (e.g. money) is for uglier dudes like how jeff bezos landed his wife. why? he has money, but she was clearly willing to toss him aside for leo decaprio, why? he's way more attractive. face -> all also "men are trash" = "my choice in men is trash but i'm not self aware enough to take accounability" one of men's greatest delusions is assuming that women have the same standards as they do. i get women's frustration in that regard, like being called superficial for not dating a guy for his personality. it's biology, you can't turn that shit off. personality doesn't trigger hormones, pretty face does.
look at what they do, not what they say. women's standards are actually incredibly simple when you do this facial attractiveness is the #1 trait women look for in a man, it eclipses everything else, yes even height. but yes "men are trash" = "my choice in men is trash but i have no self awareness" basically
look at what they do, not what they say. vvomen's standards are actually incredibly simple when you do this facial attractiveness is the #1 trait women look for in a man, it eclipses everything else, yes even height. but yes "men are trash" = "my choice in men is trash but i have no self awareness" basically edit: man i can't believe how much i had to censor this post just for it to go through, youtube is censorship crazy more than ever lately.
look at what they do, not what they say. girl's standards are actually incredibly simple when you do this facial attractiveness is the #1 trait ladies look for in a man, it eclipses everything else, yes even height. the whole jeremy meeks mugshot debacle is a perfect situation that highlights this
Yup. Plus, all the attributes that made her a successful "girlboss" don't go away all of a sudden just because she gives it up. Not really looking to clock back in once I get home from work lmao
As a guy almost middle age with no woman either gf/wife, a barely paying job, and a family I almost barely see, and no real prospects, I'm ready to give up in the worst sense.
@@williethenerfherder2193 Going overseas is a meme, loads of guys think if they get a girl from Asia she'll live out their trad fantasy when if you talk to any Asian guy they'll tell you how much Asian girls want a walking credit card. Doesn't matter the culture, women are women.
I feel you man. I know it's not much, but all I can say is this: Stay strong if you can, and I sincerely hope things get better for you. I know I'm just some dude on the internet, but I want you to know that you are understood, and that you are not judged, no matter how things turn out or where you go from here, at least as far as I am concerned. I hope this sentiment helps at least a little bit. Also, as much as you can, try to ignore any negative comments you got here. I'm sure this other guy is suffering similarly and trying to help in his own way... but I don't think more negativity is what you need right now.
Back in 2015-2019 i was about $27k in debt and working retail for $9-$11 per hour. I lived at home with my parents so no real bills and i cruised for a little bit paying my debt off slowly. Then the last year i got angry at everything and ate ramen noodles and great value beefaroni for 6 months to speedrun the rest of my debt. $7k in one payment. Now I'm out of debt and quit that job and got a less annoying higher paying one and am in a much better place mentally. No gf, but I'm a lot happier than i was and haven't really been looking for one. You might suffer at times in your life, but if you keep hammering away at it little by little, things usually get better. If you give up things will never have a chance to improve.
@@axelmilan4292 possibly. Hopefully not. Men can start a family at any time in their life. Ladies… their window for starting a family is significantly smaller.
guys, if you keep going after the 8's 9's and 10's, you better be a model type looks yourself or you're going to be seen as being settled for. thats why if you want to marry , go after a 5 or 6 that becomes a 7 when you drink. that woman aint gonna think she settled
@@RambleOn07Must protect? Brother, she would literally throw the chair and other things at you if you piss her off enough. Granted, she's very caring outside of that so I guess there's also that
I dont like cleaning but I do it because it is not a good idea to keep your cave dirty. Invites bugs, the air in the room does not feel all that great and the smells....the smells sets the mood. If the smell in your room is refreshing and nice you feel better even if your day went wrong. You inhale and say to yourself that you already feel better. I have never baked, and cooked only eggs and fries (which i learned on my own) because my mother is old school. Very typical eastern european mother where she envisions that there is no use to teach the son how to cook, he will have a wife for that. Meanwhile my sister got to learn how to cook, how to use the washing machine etc , and did not want to which I find funny. I know how to use the washing machine because for a time I sold the damned machines and had to know.
Too many people have pie-in-the-sky ideas that of they get Post-Secondary education, you're going to be making a 6 figure income. Millennials had it beat in to their head that if they don't go to college or university, they'll "end up being a garbageman or janitor." I hated hearing that, because I recognized how important of a job both of those are. More important than the overwhelming majority of degrees you can get. The education system is just as much of a rat race as the job market is, on top of anything outside of STEM, Economics and Healthcare are a scam; a waste of time, money and debt.
I was about to comment saying how the military ain't it; how it's almost just a jobs program for a lot of mediocre people, and then I realized that actually kinda validates your point. So, uh... +1 I guess.
@@dotnet97 Nah. You don't get to dictate what a real man is. Reality doesn't give a shit about your cringing. Argue the points being made or have fun on your own with your feels.
@@JellyMyst then keep pathetically whining about how no one likes you, it's going to make you very likable. People love to tie their future to weak men who do nothing but cry about how the world won't cater to them.
Look, i'm a welder, surrounded by tradesmen all day at work, so a fairly traditional environment. If i see a dude say he wants to be a traditional man in a relationship, i'll have so many red flags go off lmao
Never thought I’d hear this from actual women themselves. And feminists are calling us men misogynists? These two are so real for this. They actually understand
*thinks* I'm not really certain who is more feminine of these two. Who wears dresses more often and who is going to ask me to kill the spider the fastest?
Honestly, there is nothing wrong with girls being traditional girly-girls who to do traditionally girly-girl things. Plus I see my fellas talking about how women discovering that corporate jobs leading to later only for many to desire long-term companionship and kids. That's most certainly true, but it also goes for us men too. I know because I feel this way currently, especially seeing so many family and friends getting married with kids. Granted, I've always wanted this sorta thing since I was growing up, but I willing to bet it's a feeling a lot of men share. Not just hooking up for the seggs, but having an actually long-term romantic relationship based on deep mutual love. That and actually having kids as a result of said love to enhance that. Or maybe I am just a hopeless romantic.
@@ElementUrth You say that like they’re all the same person. Granted some would think that way but you’re failing to understand that maybe a majority of these “failed girlbosses” were fed the lie “you can be happy with working without being with a man or a tradwife” by modern feminism. Something that has been encouraged more and more the last 10 years or so. Maybe they’re _just_ learning that it’s all bullshit and decided that the women or former classmates that became wives and mothers early on are really as happy as they seem. That it’s not being forced upon them like feminism claims. That it’s also what they’ve wanted, they just didn’t realize it because they’re told they shouldn’t want that. Believe what you want in any case but your logic puts you on the same level as girlbosses too, the type most women (even traditional) won’t wanna deal with.
But what if I'm a Man-boss who gave up and wants to cook for my dommy girl-boss wife and her boyfriend? Where is my state-mandated girl-boss wife? I guess we just gotta Feminism harder.
I know the chance that any female human actually reads this is low but: Don't let society tell you, that you need to be some kind of girlboss. You weren't born like this, when you were small, you probably had a baby doll you loved to take care of and played house and stuff. These girlboss ideas are not yours, society just tells you constantly that you have to be this way now. You don't. Embrace your inner woman, embrace your feminity. There is nothing wrong with being a mother and housewife. Don't let any feminists tell you otherwise. Don't be ashamed of what you truly want.
So, she stole a prestige slot at uni that could've supported another family if her place was taken by a random man, and then dipped out into a comfortable life after wasting away that potential to serve her own vanity?
@@MASJYT Yes, the hiring process is destructive in who gets these jobs. Thanks for confirming what I'm saying, I guess? The vanity is the actual thought process by which these women become girl bosses only to then abandon everything given to them. It's a fashion statement to them, as the girls themselves point out in the video. They don't really want these positions or jobs, they want the prestige of being a girl to do it, and then realize they don't care about it at all. "Go queen slay" until they get bored. Why did you call it 'canned,' though, if apparently this is an entirely new way of describing this stuff to you? Which is it? Canned or novel and obscure? Kinda weird, dude.
@@ElementUrth For some reason YT is deleting my response to him, but yes. They get told "go slay girl," she does it for the momentary prestige, and then all that effort and that slot spent educating her is just gone. That's a doctor we could've had that's not there. Meanwhile, men are not 'settling' into becoming stay at home dads after uni. That's even what the girls in the video are pointing out. I don't understand why he would called that a 'canned talking point' if he doesn't even understand the talking point.
@@MASJYT "A random man would be the last one to get that slot with current DEI practices." That's literally what I'm saying. Did you even read the comment?
Maybe between 50-60? My dad is currently 52. My dad’s oldest, my older brother, is 34. Our baby sisters (with different moms, born months apart) are 16-17. He has 8 kids total btw.
My personal black pill is baking homemade pizza for a "girlboss", yet she eventually got bored and prefer Dominos. Personally I would rather not have pizza than Dominos, but it is what it is. Exact same story with single origin coffee - "I'll just get it at the shop, thanks". I get the beans from the exact same local shop, the only difference is they use their shitty blend rather than the single origin bags, and my machine cost 1/100 of theirs. If you are ugly with stable employment, just date foreign girls.
I have this weird conclusion, my decision to get a girlfriend might just ruin their entire career that would have contributed to the humanity better. So staying single might be better choice.
Well, maybe, aside from the fact that your high-career not-girlfriend now isn't having kids and therefore there will be no future hers for humanity. She didn't appear from nowhere, you know.
I feel like lumi is not really on the same plane of existence with the rest of us. Just really bad vibes from her all the time. Opposite from shiina tho
Worth noting that a woman who got privately funded education will come from a good family, so this is just more people of the same caste marrying. She didn't get an easy out because she's a woman, she got an easy out because of her parents.
Born too late for tradwives, born too early for the return of tradwives, born just in time to get falsely accused.
the plight of the young millennial/old gen z man. let’s just hope our crypto and meme stocks come thru
More 10 or 20 years i guess women will get tired of girboss/OnlyFans life and return to the old ways.
@@renanqueiroz2678 it will be too late by then homie. we're going to have a generation of hags that are expired and VERY bitter about that. the darkest timeline is to come.
Just came from a video of a guy who saved a drowning woman only for her to accuse him of grape because he pulled her out of the water without consent...
@@Zantetsu13 And there is Andrew Tate so ... I think its safe to say there are horrible people , male and female
These two must be popular with the Twitter Feminists.
you cannot imagine the fight inside hispanic internet over an influencer who cooked for his boyfriend on a tiktok last week...
@@andres-vb7js Cooked? For the boyfriend?! This is basically modern slavery OMG!
But yeah this is beyond ridiculous.
I despise feminists and feminism alike. I can say this, I'm a woman
@@andres-vb7js "his boyfriend on tiktok"
I'd rather not know about any of this, thanks.
@@ChrisDeve You say it as a joke but that is actually their argument... no cap.
It's doubly funny knowing Shiina used to work as a model and multiple phase girls gushed about how hot Lumi is.
She used to work as a model?? Holy shit the crazy to hot graph really does exist for a reason and phase is 1% of both lmao
So Shiina was a model, Lumi is hot, according to Lia Pippa is very pretty… What is Sakana smoking, gang?
Pro tip for guys: Don't ever touch failed girlbosses they will look down on you, resent you and will find any way to hurt you.
Absolutely agree. Their resentment for their failures will be directed at you.
based & truth-pilled
And then divorce you and take (if you're lucky only) half your shit.
Agreed. If your wife feels like she "settled" for you... she's going to leave when she finds someone "better".
Just like most guys who feel they "settled" for their wife will cheat when they think they can get someone "better".
That entirely depends on her motivation for it. Many yes.
But if she genuinely changed and it was not just the clock.
NEVER EVER take failed girlbosses seriously, in their minds they are always "settling" for you
the thanklessness will always show
Who hurt you?
@@jasoncarto
1. feminine-brained, low-test comment, go get pegged
2. try to convince me that my statement is wrong
@@jasoncarto
feminine-brained, low-test comment, go get pegged
@jasoncarto I mean, the generalisation isn't that far off. "Girlboss" is typically used to refer to a woman who has great pride in being a "strong independent woman", and a lot of the time is used as fuel for egos. That's why you see social media flooded with them.
A failed girl boss still has the same underlying personality that made her seek out that lifestyle to begin with, she just failed at it and is settling for an alternative to her preference.
🫂 Never settle for someone who thinks they are settling for you by settling with you
May the scars from whoever hurt you fade into a humorous story
Star women based
Guys will literally watch this and just type "wife(s)"... I know I did!
Crab headband. Crab Headband? Crab Headband. It's cute.
Women: "Why aren't there more women CEOs?! It must be ThePatriarchy!"
Also women: 4:13
women: income disparity is one of the greatest issues women face
also women: i need a man who makes more money than me
Every day I try to better myself, that I might become a man who can take care of woman like Lumi.
want: trad wife
get: tard wife
They are unreachable but good luck.
@@a_person_7477 I'm a Celt. I was raised with the belief that just because you'll probably lose is no reason not to fight.
@@KageMinowaraThis is really the words to live by
@@KageMinowarai was raised as a traditional norteno (cowboy mexican lol), all of a sudden i feel kinship with celtic people.
Lumi's girlboss friend learned that high-earning competitive careers are really hard. By contrast, having a man who loves you, has dedicated his life to making you happy, and being in a central role of a family is a pretty nice feeling.
Men are easy, just be nice to them
the greatest trick the capitalists have ever pulled was convincing society that woman working at home to support her family is slavery, but a woman working thankless toil for a faceless megacorp is freedom
How are the Phase Connect girls the most sane and realistic?
well not Uruka
Probably, artism saves them from falling into trends.
Counterpoint: Lia
@@San-nj8fj But she's Lia.
@@jovenlyle7915she's lia
To be fair, she is smart. In a world where everyone is rushing to get money, she chills at home and get pampered by her husband
When anime women who sell the "I'm your anime waifu/girlfriend" idea are more based in reality then a majority of women who go to learn useless stuff and get in debt......
Who doesn't want a girl who can beat that super hard Elden Ring boss, and make a mean pot roast?
Fr dude
Guys throughout tens of thousands of years: *hourly, daily, weekly, and yearly grind till death*
Women after half a century of the same:
Imagine using the experiences of two women as representative of billions of women worldwide.
You ignore that men have been exploited through the ages. We were providers, yes, but we were made to toil until we dropped down dead. If anything, these women recognize that there's a problem; shit's too tough. Life is cruel and tough. Men recognize this too. Smart men don't blame this on the supposed weakness of women, but on the cruelty of this system that hurts men and women alike.
Bro if we had the option to be the house husband of a hot rich woman in this economy then we'd take it too.
@@NihongoWakannai If you could be satisfied with such a life, then that's on you. But there is no "we" here. I think that most of us still have enough shame and ambition to deny such a lifestyle without a second thought.
@@WAAAAAAGH nah you just don't know the reality for most people stuck in dead end jobs. There's most likely more opportunity to sate your ambition working from home while doing housework instead of being mentally drained from a terrible day job that gets you no where.
"Grinding" is a scam, you're just turning yourself into a servant for the rich elites who will toss you into the trash without a second thought. I'd rather at least be a servant to a rich elite who is hot and loves me.
@@WAAAAAAGH nah
All I got from this is there are plenty of failed girlbosses in the sea
aka landmines, a failed girl boss will never take you seriously, and will always think she settled and is better than you. There is no future to build with that material
Can't find a girlboss who's given up when I gave up long ago.
Lumi: 100% confirmed woman
It's kind of funny seeing this evergrowing dynamic of women who said they'd never settle, never marry, never have kids and have a career, make almost a complete 180 once they reach their 30s and realize that their future will be really lonely if they don't settle and have kids now. Seeing this firts hand through vtubers has really opened my eyes to this, and it kinda sucks to hear that some of these girls are trad wife material, but may never settle as they never go outside and socialize
Now that you mention it, I've also been seeing an uptick of these notions recently in the chuubas I watch.
It is a bit sad to see but at the end of the day we all make our own beds so
ya can't ignore biology forever. 30s seems to be the magic number when their feminine impulses meet their choices to ignore their feminine impulses, that's why guys call it the wall. i imagine that "career women" have always been experiencing this, but the advent of social media is what's highlighted it
You can say that you're settling, but actually settling is the hardest part. The internet isn't a real place.
99% of them have boyfriends and husbands, don't fool yourself
Thats why many fans of those Vtubers want them to find their so.
My sister's friend was valedictorian in high school, went to med school, and graduated top of her class, she hasn't practiced in 12 years and is a mother of 3.
Meemaw is the realist for this.
Also the more women that leave the traditional workforce the easier it will start to become for the average man
Unless they ramp up the export of jobs and import of labor. Necessary, but not quite sufficient.
ok but sidenote, whenever i hear those stories, i cant help but think:"man what a waste of resources". like their own time, time and effort from the schools and teachers. money aswell. like why go through all of that education, to then not put it to use or effect?
Well I mean she still got the education. If something happens in the future then she at least has a diploma. Also she will be able to help the children with math better than if she only had a high school level education.
The opportunities to put a highly specialized academic track into practice can be more difficult to come by than the education itself. Perhaps in an ideal world they'd have an opportunity to do both both, but in the world we live in, they chose the route that made them the most happy.
@@friendlyhobo6483 Yes, but that prestige slot at the Ivy League uni could´ve gone to a man who actually WOULD have built a career out of it. So what this means is this woman just stole the future of an entirely different upper-middle class family that could've existed if not for her vanity. Meanwhile, she just settles out and that doctor career is now left entirely vacant.
Women don't spend half the time in their career path that men do. Educating them instead of another man is a waste of resources, a mistake, and cruel to that man and his future wife.
@@jovenlyle7915 like I understand your point, but if they just got beat out of the University spot by them then they weren't that good to begin with
@@strife9827 What does it matter even if they were 10x worse, if these women then go on not to work? Let me repeat: An entire family now functionally doesn't exist because a provider-level single income job now goes untaken. In fact, I can do you one better: if the woman is that smart, she should be having all the babies in the world as soon as possible.
And yes, individually you can argue about wants and preferences, but this is no way to run a society, and her intelligence that beat the guy is now twice wasted.
as someone who tried both life of tradhusband and a worker grinder, being house keeper is amazing, all you do you do for yourself and person you love, your efforts instantly get gratification from person you love, and it’s just nice, you do what you like take breaks when ever and do things however. i really don’t understand why would anyone HATE being a housekeeper.
"we've accepted our place" might be the hottest thing a woman can say
Two wives talking to each other
is it joever for us fellas?...
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it never began.
@@microppgaming6971 Let us not mourn over hope's flight, instead we can rejoice in dreams seen manifest through closed lids
Do what you can to become self sufficient. Society was never meant for men. This one openly hates them.
While most Western institutions are openly misandrist, there are many, many people who feel entirely differently, as you just watched in the video above. So no, it's not over.
The only time it's over is when you choose to wallow in sorrow, rather than using your time to make your life & the world a better place.
J O E W A R I D A
Why you would want to spend the majority of your life wanting to cry at your office job because your corpo robo boss gave you overtime instead of being able to stay at home, cook in your underwear an raise the kids, will always be a mystery to me.
An thats for both genders
Men did it because they had to. Women did it out of vanity.
@@RambleOn07 The biggest scam of feminism was teaching women that they'd somehow be happier working a 9-to-5 than raising a family that would love them to their dying day.
Women only look at the top 10% of men, so they see guys in fancy suits just messing around in an office and think "hey that's not fair, we can do that too" (they cant), totally ignoring the 10s of thousands of men who do the REAL work of keeping society running, stuff like powerplants, farming, logistics, etc.
That's why you never see women advocate for equality in roofing for example, because like hell are women gonna work in 100+ degrees on a roof all day pouring noxious-smelling tar, but men do it because they have to, because theyre men.
2:45 "it's just a meme bro!"
Proceed to all go after those very few 6'5" Chad/Tyrone/Miguel in existence that have practically limitless options & get treated as just that: an option.
Queue the "men are trash" talking points.
Why are they like this bros?
It goes both ways, guys fantasize over hot girls but the hot girls are the most likely to treat them as disposable.
it is technically a meme in the very literal sense of the world.
women actually have very simple standards, you have to have an attractive face and be taller than her in high heels if she wears them. anything in addition to that (e.g. money) is for uglier dudes like how jeff bezos landed his wife. why? he has money, but she was clearly willing to toss him aside for leo decaprio, why? he's way more attractive.
face -> all
also "men are trash" = "my choice in men is trash but i'm not self aware enough to take accounability"
one of men's greatest delusions is assuming that women have the same standards as they do. i get women's frustration in that regard, like being called superficial for not dating a guy for his personality. it's biology, you can't turn that shit off. personality doesn't trigger hormones, pretty face does.
look at what they do, not what they say. women's standards are actually incredibly simple when you do this
facial attractiveness is the #1 trait women look for in a man, it eclipses everything else, yes even height.
but yes "men are trash" = "my choice in men is trash but i have no self awareness" basically
look at what they do, not what they say. vvomen's standards are actually incredibly simple when you do this
facial attractiveness is the #1 trait women look for in a man, it eclipses everything else, yes even height.
but yes "men are trash" = "my choice in men is trash but i have no self awareness" basically
edit: man i can't believe how much i had to censor this post just for it to go through, youtube is censorship crazy more than ever lately.
look at what they do, not what they say. girl's standards are actually incredibly simple when you do this
facial attractiveness is the #1 trait ladies look for in a man, it eclipses everything else, yes even height.
the whole jeremy meeks mugshot debacle is a perfect situation that highlights this
This is wny manosphere exist, guys. 😂😂😂
Nah... I think I'd pass on that. Maybe it wasn't a great idea to mess around in your 20s and be a "girl boss".
facts
Yep, if I was the kind of guy that those girls wanted I'd choose one that is still young, fertile, and hasn't been run through by half the planet.
Yup. Plus, all the attributes that made her a successful "girlboss" don't go away all of a sudden just because she gives it up. Not really looking to clock back in once I get home from work lmao
@Enexawr and she'll convince herself that you're the reason she had to stop "girlbossing" and resent you for it.
Big agree. I'm not someone's fuckin rebound after they've failed at literally trying to assume the role of a man for a few years. I'm good on all that
As a guy almost middle age with no woman either gf/wife, a barely paying job, and a family I almost barely see, and no real prospects, I'm ready to give up in the worst sense.
Sadly you'd have to go over seas just to get a reliable woman. You have a 50 percent chance of getting divorced for a first marriage.
@@williethenerfherder2193 Going overseas is a meme, loads of guys think if they get a girl from Asia she'll live out their trad fantasy when if you talk to any Asian guy they'll tell you how much Asian girls want a walking credit card. Doesn't matter the culture, women are women.
I feel you man. I know it's not much, but all I can say is this:
Stay strong if you can, and I sincerely hope things get better for you. I know I'm just some dude on the internet, but I want you to know that you are understood, and that you are not judged, no matter how things turn out or where you go from here, at least as far as I am concerned. I hope this sentiment helps at least a little bit.
Also, as much as you can, try to ignore any negative comments you got here. I'm sure this other guy is suffering similarly and trying to help in his own way... but I don't think more negativity is what you need right now.
Stay strong pops we’re gonna make it! 💪
Back in 2015-2019 i was about $27k in debt and working retail for $9-$11 per hour. I lived at home with my parents so no real bills and i cruised for a little bit paying my debt off slowly. Then the last year i got angry at everything and ate ramen noodles and great value beefaroni for 6 months to speedrun the rest of my debt. $7k in one payment. Now I'm out of debt and quit that job and got a less annoying higher paying one and am in a much better place mentally. No gf, but I'm a lot happier than i was and haven't really been looking for one. You might suffer at times in your life, but if you keep hammering away at it little by little, things usually get better. If you give up things will never have a chance to improve.
Lumi and Shiina just became very attractive all of a sudden. Is anyone else experiencing the same phenomenon?
very... breedable, one would say
You're ovulating
Don't get your hopes up. They're just holding out for Chad while pandering to lonely men.
@@axelmilan4292 possibly. Hopefully not. Men can start a family at any time in their life. Ladies… their window for starting a family is significantly smaller.
@@axelmilan4292 Why are you right?
Nah, I'll pass. AI girlfriends are a lot cheaper in this economic downturn.
Real girlfriends don't go away when the power goes out.
@@Pan_Z
Pretty sure they go away when the money runs out lmao.
@@Pan_Z Just print her out
That's what batteries are for, dummy @@Pan_Z
@@dzvw True.
Girlbossing is one of the biggest tricks played on women.
Top tier phase women because they are actually women.
guys, if you keep going after the 8's 9's and 10's, you better be a model type looks yourself or you're going to be seen as being settled for. thats why if you want to marry , go after a 5 or 6 that becomes a 7 when you drink. that woman aint gonna think she settled
Can i get a girlboss to marry me and i take care of the housework?
She will resent you for being beneath her in terms of economic status.
For a year or two, maybe.
How good are your emotional social skills? Typically men are weak at this, and what girlboss women need most is emotionally intelligent men
would wife: Tenma, Lumi, Shiina, Airi
Frens: Pippa, Kirsche
fun times: Dizzy, Hime
Lia: lia
Dizzy wife material, face it
tenma? are you a masochist or deaf?
@@the1exnayTenma just gives off strong must protect vibes.
@@RambleOn07Must protect? Brother, she would literally throw the chair and other things at you if you piss her off enough. Granted, she's very caring outside of that so I guess there's also that
They know what'll make them happy. ^^
3:28 actually we do have a fallback, some refer to it as sewerslide.
Menbros, we lost...
We are playing from behind.
Funny way of saying she's the least gremlin out of everyone in Pheet Connect.
Writer = Ultimate low paying hobby job. Spitting facts!
I love all the newest kitchen gadgets, i think they're really cool, so when i have a wife she's going to have all the best kitchen stuff around 😊
Dissociative stare for the second half
Just go into politics, literally free money.
kinda competitive though
And ruin people life u no better than them
No straight white men allowed tho
I dont like cleaning but I do it because it is not a good idea to keep your cave dirty. Invites bugs, the air in the room does not feel all that great and the smells....the smells sets the mood. If the smell in your room is refreshing and nice you feel better even if your day went wrong. You inhale and say to yourself that you already feel better. I have never baked, and cooked only eggs and fries (which i learned on my own) because my mother is old school. Very typical eastern european mother where she envisions that there is no use to teach the son how to cook, he will have a wife for that.
Meanwhile my sister got to learn how to cook, how to use the washing machine etc , and did not want to which I find funny. I know how to use the washing machine because for a time I sold the damned machines and had to know.
Too many people have pie-in-the-sky ideas that of they get Post-Secondary education, you're going to be making a 6 figure income. Millennials had it beat in to their head that if they don't go to college or university, they'll "end up being a garbageman or janitor." I hated hearing that, because I recognized how important of a job both of those are. More important than the overwhelming majority of degrees you can get.
The education system is just as much of a rat race as the job market is, on top of anything outside of STEM, Economics and Healthcare are a scam; a waste of time, money and debt.
Passport bros can keep winning whilst delulu feminists take care of 8 cats
Men have a plan b, its called military
And, just like the women's plan b, it ends when you reach your 30s
I was about to comment saying how the military ain't it; how it's almost just a jobs program for a lot of mediocre people, and then I realized that actually kinda validates your point. So, uh... +1 I guess.
3:20 Aww that's so thoughtful. It's tough out here. You either chew gravel and wake up at 2am for the grindset or you're nothing these days. SUUUCKS.
the PHD to VTB pipeline is real
This got so real
doe broken failed girlboss wife is a need
It's not settling when you find a man who loves you and will take care of you.
It is when your friends don't think he's hot or wealthy enough.
@@mr.stotruppen8724 broootal
@@mr.stotruppen8724 No vagina tingles, no sale.
I love how 50% of the comments is redpill talking points like we could ever trust again lol
nice to see that the Phase Connect audience is pretty based ngl
The incel shit is pretty cringe though, like, don't you feel pathetic acting that weak and hopeless? Aren't you supposed to be a "worthy" man?
@dotnet97 can't say for the rest of the comments but I've dated down too many times to trust, let alone love a bitch.
@@dotnet97 Nah. You don't get to dictate what a real man is. Reality doesn't give a shit about your cringing. Argue the points being made or have fun on your own with your feels.
@@JellyMyst then keep pathetically whining about how no one likes you, it's going to make you very likable. People love to tie their future to weak men who do nothing but cry about how the world won't cater to them.
This was the best yap stream of all time
Look, i'm a welder, surrounded by tradesmen all day at work, so a fairly traditional environment. If i see a dude say he wants to be a traditional man in a relationship, i'll have so many red flags go off lmao
Theres still hope boys. Dont give up.
I need Loombi wife. With a secret toggle too.
we love our deranged, based queens!!
A lot of guys go overseas. My wife is Ukrainian.
Never thought I’d hear this from actual women themselves. And feminists are calling us men misogynists? These two are so real for this. They actually understand
They call you a misogynist but they don't call you wrong
Wait till you discover Jelly.
Two of the bases of women. shiina would be a cute, cute hands say why
edit: that hobbie story is what the punter for the chief talked about
*thinks* I'm not really certain who is more feminine of these two.
Who wears dresses more often and who is going to ask me to kill the spider the fastest?
Meemaw would just go up to you and say "Let Me Parry It"
Men will be finding a different meaning of "trad man" and become serfs to some rich guy.
Maybe
Guess there's few human women are there...
Tradwaifus
well that was just sad...
anyways..
Man lumi really is dreamy
Honestly, there is nothing wrong with girls being traditional girly-girls who to do traditionally girly-girl things.
Plus I see my fellas talking about how women discovering that corporate jobs leading to later only for many to desire long-term companionship and kids. That's most certainly true, but it also goes for us men too. I know because I feel this way currently, especially seeing so many family and friends getting married with kids. Granted, I've always wanted this sorta thing since I was growing up, but I willing to bet it's a feeling a lot of men share.
Not just hooking up for the seggs, but having an actually long-term romantic relationship based on deep mutual love. That and actually having kids as a result of said love to enhance that.
Or maybe I am just a hopeless romantic.
0:03 sauce anyone?
Azalanz
Ill take one given up girl boss pls
They sound like gold diggers that failed
Nah, girl bosses that realized that they would rather be taken care of.
I wouldn't discard it, but they def don't sound like golddiggers, those have a lot more obvious "pickme" talking point
@@RambleOn07i would never want a failed girlboss. Those "girlboss" traits just don't disappear and will make the miserable.
@@ElementUrth You say that like they’re all the same person. Granted some would think that way but you’re failing to understand that maybe a majority of these “failed girlbosses” were fed the lie “you can be happy with working without being with a man or a tradwife” by modern feminism. Something that has been encouraged more and more the last 10 years or so. Maybe they’re _just_ learning that it’s all bullshit and decided that the women or former classmates that became wives and mothers early on are really as happy as they seem. That it’s not being forced upon them like feminism claims. That it’s also what they’ve wanted, they just didn’t realize it because they’re told they shouldn’t want that. Believe what you want in any case but your logic puts you on the same level as girlbosses too, the type most women (even traditional) won’t wanna deal with.
yeah..........
Lol I love Shiina
Thanks I'm depressed now
People making cents on the internet 🤯
Do not give up boys. Go to the gym, lift weights, use the stair machine and the treadmill. You can make it.
Then still get ignored by women and only get compliments from gay guys.
(And by Tenma when she reviews kanpainiki gains.)
1:50 this shit would kill me to hear
pippa pog
Pipoggers even
But what if I'm a Man-boss who gave up and wants to cook for my dommy girl-boss wife and her boyfriend?
Where is my state-mandated girl-boss wife? I guess we just gotta Feminism harder.
I know the chance that any female human actually reads this is low but: Don't let society tell you, that you need to be some kind of girlboss. You weren't born like this, when you were small, you probably had a baby doll you loved to take care of and played house and stuff. These girlboss ideas are not yours, society just tells you constantly that you have to be this way now. You don't. Embrace your inner woman, embrace your feminity. There is nothing wrong with being a mother and housewife. Don't let any feminists tell you otherwise. Don't be ashamed of what you truly want.
So, she stole a prestige slot at uni that could've supported another family if her place was taken by a random man, and then dipped out into a comfortable life after wasting away that potential to serve her own vanity?
A random man would be the last one to get that slot with current DEI practices.
What is this talking point about vanity? Where is it coming from?
@@MASJYT Yes, the hiring process is destructive in who gets these jobs. Thanks for confirming what I'm saying, I guess?
The vanity is the actual thought process by which these women become girl bosses only to then abandon everything given to them. It's a fashion statement to them, as the girls themselves point out in the video.
They don't really want these positions or jobs, they want the prestige of being a girl to do it, and then realize they don't care about it at all. "Go queen slay" until they get bored.
Why did you call it 'canned,' though, if apparently this is an entirely new way of describing this stuff to you? Which is it? Canned or novel and obscure?
Kinda weird, dude.
@@MASJYThe means it in the sense of "she could do it simply because she could." No intention to use the knowledge besides flautung the degree.
@@ElementUrth For some reason YT is deleting my response to him, but yes. They get told "go slay girl," she does it for the momentary prestige, and then all that effort and that slot spent educating her is just gone. That's a doctor we could've had that's not there. Meanwhile, men are not 'settling' into becoming stay at home dads after uni.
That's even what the girls in the video are pointing out. I don't understand why he would called that a 'canned talking point' if he doesn't even understand the talking point.
@@MASJYT "A random man would be the last one to get that slot with current DEI practices." That's literally what I'm saying. Did you even read the comment?
On a side note, how old you want to be when your third child turns 20?
Maybe between 50-60? My dad is currently 52. My dad’s oldest, my older brother, is 34. Our baby sisters (with different moms, born months apart) are 16-17. He has 8 kids total btw.
And that is why educating women is a waste of resources.
Crazy how 40K years of gender roles cant be wiped away with some picketing and a social movement based on lies.
My personal black pill is baking homemade pizza for a "girlboss", yet she eventually got bored and prefer Dominos. Personally I would rather not have pizza than Dominos, but it is what it is. Exact same story with single origin coffee - "I'll just get it at the shop, thanks". I get the beans from the exact same local shop, the only difference is they use their shitty blend rather than the single origin bags, and my machine cost 1/100 of theirs. If you are ugly with stable employment, just date foreign girls.
Is lumi peak wife?
Be the reason a girlboss quits the grind
I have this weird conclusion, my decision to get a girlfriend might just ruin their entire career that would have contributed to the humanity better. So staying single might be better choice.
Well, maybe, aside from the fact that your high-career not-girlfriend now isn't having kids and therefore there will be no future hers for humanity. She didn't appear from nowhere, you know.
>women
>contributing to humanity to make it better
>implying
kek
lmao even
I feel like lumi is not really on the same plane of existence with the rest of us. Just really bad vibes from her all the time. Opposite from shiina tho
We all need a domesticated girlboss.
Wth actual women.
Wife.
With how toxic work places can be . . . I don't blame you ladies in the least.
Worth noting that a woman who got privately funded education will come from a good family, so this is just more people of the same caste marrying. She didn't get an easy out because she's a woman, she got an easy out because of her parents.
As a non binary person I also organise my clothes when I'm bored you're not alone lumi
Just be a black mam they love it