God spoke to me about going offline i'd end up looking through people's pages without even realizing i was comparing until the Holy Spirit is like, what are you doing? thank you so much, this video is very spirit led. comparison has been a big deal of my daily living and God is just speaking through this video..
im not there yet, but there are moments in my day when my spiritman will just confirm through peace, but i am still learning to hear God's voice clearly..
Great video we have to be careful not to be distracted by other people’s lives. I admire successful people but found myself admiring others so much volunteering etc that I was not pouring much into myself. Comparison is the thief of joy and with social media especially Instagram have to be careful not to waste valuable time scrolling instead of being productive.
I needed this at this very MOMENT! I have been on Instagram all week comparing my life and journey with what I see. I repent from the sin of comparison and will embrace who God has made me to be. I will live my life bringing glory to him by being grateful and fulfilling HIS purpose for MY life! Thanks for your transparency! God’s best to you!!
This points are soo trueee , honestly I used to be someone that loved comparing myself to others until I saw I wasn’t going any where & started looking at God
My soul sister right here! Feels like I experienced it how u did. I used to feel so bad cos I thought it was an age thing, like on getting to a certain age, I shouldn't be struggling with certain things but it's calming to know that anyone, no matter how old can stumble. Comparison will kill your self esteem, leave you feeling like your portion is "below the standard"and cause you to idolize/worship the idea of having something......it destroys relationships too! I pray anyone struggling with this quickly understands why they shouldn't compare themselves to anyone.....and completely rises above comparison. Another thing that has helped me in my walk overcoming comparison is constantly reminding myself that whatever I accomplish or any good thing that happens to me is not for ME...it's not for me to oh just feel good about myself.....but sincerely for the glory of God.....that helps to humble me
I used to compare myself to a girl in my hostel.. This went on for yrs and this really robbed me of my joy, I felt so inferior for so long. God taught me to love her instead with the love of Christ and like you said pray for her. I bless God I'm free. I've been so blessed by your videos and all my friends know that you're my fav youTuber 💕💞. God bless you and your family!
Comparison is very annoying. I think many of us deal with this at varying degrees in life, whether it be with people abroad, or those in our own household. It is very draining and it’s painful and devastating when you have to honestly admit to yourself that you’ve been operating out of jealousy 😣😖😔 What is going on for others has nothing to do with us. It’s not our time, season, or even destiny to have what others have. We do need to run our own race and keep our eyes on the end goal of this life journey. Thank you for your vulnerability and generosity in sharing your experience with this very toxic behavior. 😊😘
I am so grateful to God for bringing me to this video. For such a long time I have struggled with comparison; of my family (and seeing others with their families), of my friends and what they’re doing, and of people online. I’ve had such a love/hate relationship with social media and I guess that’s what the Lord was trying to highlight for me. I never realized that it could be linked to pride, nor did I realize it could be connected to not fully knowing my identity in Christ. Thank you for following the leading of the Holy Spirit with this video! Lord I repent even now 🤲🏾😩
Thank you for your obedience to record this video. Thank you! Just stumbled on this video after 4 years you recorded this and I am so grateful for your obedience.
God wants us to walk in joy and walk in it abundantly! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and practical tips on how we can overcome comparison. God bless you for your transparency sis!
Ugh you did such an amazing job with this video. This has been a battle of mine for years, I’ve followed you on insta. Thank you ♥️ your vulnerability has inspired me because I was afraid to speak on this.
Thank you for this video! I'll keep playing it when I need it. I know this isnt going to be an overnight fix. I struggled with insecurity and jealousy for the longest of time. Since I was a kid until now being 22. However, things intensified and my heart and thoughts became even more destructive because the guy I liked liked another girl. I got pregnant but everything was all not real, his heart was for the other girl. I was trapped in feeling completely horrible about my self and constantly hating how I look and how I am compared to this particular girl. Many people would say that she is in fact a very physically attractive beautiful girl, and has a nice figure. She can rock a nice dress and makeup along with a pretty face and all in all she is also very nice. Just like him she too was also Mexican. Upon this whole situation I got my self involved in I felt like my life and my existence of being me was useless and I hated God for making me and thinking he could have made me better. One of those really bad insecurities of mine is being Filipino, being an Asian. Growing up and even till now I was mad and frustrated why I had to be born Asian when so many people that God created are Caucasian, European, Hispanic, etc. I would always get hurt because I would think how this girl has a pointed nose, light skin, pitch dark hair, just in my eyes overall perfection and she is nonAsian and most of all liked by him, and how I think to myself I am Filipino, just a regular Asian with flat nose, small eyes, chubby cheeks, and flat round face. I wanted to be okay but then it became a full blown hatred over God in why I felt he made me ugly and Asian and how he made his other daughters beautiful and appreciated. How I wouldve wanted to be born in a different life not being Asian and experience what it is to feel pretty and to be seen like this particular girl. I was hurting and it came to a point where it wasnt just her now but wherever I go whenever I encounter someone whose pretty and nonasian. I pray and I also ask brothers and sisters that you guys pray for me in this journey and that my sin and pride will be done and over with, its not easy but me soon becoming a single mom I want to put love and positivity on my self, my surrounding, and most importantly my son. Please do leave a comment, an advice, or just anything itll really help me by a ton. Much love!
Thank you for this video 💕💕 to be honest Instagram and Snapchat are culprits of comparison. They have you wishing and wanting the life of another person that they don’t even have. It’s crazy!
I agree on the points you made. Comparison is not good at all but we've all struggled with it in some way. There's beauty in loving who we are and where we are in life. God is always teaching us things in every season. I love that parable too. P.S. I love your hair/makeup look.
My sister I give God all the glory for this message. It has hit home to me like you never could believe. I typically don't comment on anyting but I had to. Please allow God to continue to use you. I can't even express in words how this has blessed me. He has showed me myself in this video😢🙌🏾🙌🏾❤. Thank's again
Thanks for this video. Lately I have been dealing with a "friend" trying to compete with me and was envious of me. In return when I realized it I cut the friendship off then realized that all my goals I disclosed to her she obtained even before me! So I have been feeling a way about that, and am now wanting her to do bad! Which isn't me! The way she deeply felt about me ...I am starting to feel about her. So I have been praying to GOD to clean my heart... this is not me, I'm not that girl. I have to keep praying to get help about this situation. I don't ever want to be jealous of anyone because what GOD has for me is for me.
CaramelMommy 17 oh my goodness! I know how you feel I dealt with a friend that was very toxic... I felt like God was leading me to stay away from her and I started acting like I shouldn’t... in the end she played the victim role 🤦🏾♀️ I’ll be praying for you because I could imagine how you feel
Amen. I sincerely do not wish to make excuses for the friend in question but from my personal experience, I've been that friend that was jealous and I sincerely didn't know that was what I was doing...I didn't realize comparison birth that envy in my heart until the fruits started manifesting and I decided to repent. It's painful to see what jealousy can do to relationships but it's really possible she didn't know that was what she was doing (not sure anyone genuinely wants to be identified as envious). Maybe u could try praying for her.....Let the Spirit lead you, not the flesh. Pray that God will open her eyes to see how destructive it is to operate in envy and competition and continue to look to God to heal you. God's purpose for your life is for YOU and YOU alone to fulfil no matter who tries to imitate. God's plan for you will bring Him glory, just always remember that the sole purpose of God placing anything in your heart/hands is not just for you to feel like oh you've achieved, but much more to bring Him glory and make an impact. Bless you and I sincerely pray for your heart to be healed completely in Jesus name.
You look so beautiful. Thankyou for sharing, it came right on time. I know this is not a "beauty" channel but I would like to see a GRWM or a tutorial for this look. ❤
Thank you for this video! It's the perfect topic for us believer's. We always need help to strengthen our walk with Christ. (BTW) Nice hair too lol 😊 I like the color and the cut!
Thank you for letting the Lord use you sis this was inspiring to me I was feeling down but this convicted me and helped me see the truth. Thank you so much Lord bless the fruit of this womans work🙌🏼
Thank you so much for this message. God led me straight to your video & not only did the title speak straight to my heart but the entirety of your video. Blessings to you and your husband xx
Hey Debo. Thank you so much for your continuous transparency. I am currently overcoming, some very personal things in my life and still struggle at times in certain areas. And I honestly can relate to your experience of comparision. Thank you, so much for your guidence and testimonies. God honestly is the focus. And its very easy to say but when put into actions, I genuinely fall more in love with the Lord. May God continue to use you, to anoint others.🙏❤ Suggestion Topics: steps you took to pray and read your bible, overcoming brokenness and how to handle criticisms. Again amazing video and well done.👌🙌🙏💕💕
Thank you! This is such a blessing to hear. It's something I've been struggling with, but God is bringing me through. Thank you for sharing what He has placed on your heart. Have an amazing day!
Thanks Debo The video came beforehand 😌..please I would like you to talk on what to do while waiting on God, I’m currently trusting for a particular thing and he seems so far..I’m getting tired🙈 Thank you
Hi sis not sure if you still use RUclips, I would like to share this channel with you called *TRUMPET OF GRACE* I pray you will be blessed by what you hear
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God spoke to me about going offline i'd end up looking through people's pages without even realizing i was comparing until the Holy Spirit is like, what are you doing? thank you so much, this video is very spirit led. comparison has been a big deal of my daily living and God is just speaking through this video..
Natalie Kimuri How are you able to hear His voice clearly?
im not there yet, but there are moments in my day when my spiritman will just confirm through peace, but i am still learning to hear God's voice clearly..
but on going offline the urge just died down and i knew this was the work of God but basically mine was staying off social media completely :)
Natalie Kimuri Oh okay.Thanks for your input.I wish you all the very best in your journey in being closer to God.☺
Great video we have to be careful not to be distracted by other people’s lives. I admire successful people but found myself admiring others so much volunteering etc that I was not pouring much into myself. Comparison is the thief of joy and with social media especially Instagram have to be careful not to waste valuable time scrolling instead of being productive.
ZO A I agree!
I needed this at this very MOMENT! I have been on Instagram all week comparing my life and journey with what I see. I repent from the sin of comparison and will embrace who God has made me to be. I will live my life bringing glory to him by being grateful and fulfilling HIS purpose for MY life! Thanks for your transparency! God’s best to you!!
This points are soo trueee , honestly I used to be someone that loved comparing myself to others until I saw I wasn’t going any where & started looking at God
Yes bby. I know this struggle too well
My soul sister right here! Feels like I experienced it how u did. I used to feel so bad cos I thought it was an age thing, like on getting to a certain age, I shouldn't be struggling with certain things but it's calming to know that anyone, no matter how old can stumble. Comparison will kill your self esteem, leave you feeling like your portion is "below the standard"and cause you to idolize/worship the idea of having something......it destroys relationships too! I pray anyone struggling with this quickly understands why they shouldn't compare themselves to anyone.....and completely rises above comparison. Another thing that has helped me in my walk overcoming comparison is constantly reminding myself that whatever I accomplish or any good thing that happens to me is not for ME...it's not for me to oh just feel good about myself.....but sincerely for the glory of God.....that helps to humble me
I used to compare myself to a girl in my hostel.. This went on for yrs and this really robbed me of my joy, I felt so inferior for so long. God taught me to love her instead with the love of Christ and like you said pray for her. I bless God I'm free. I've been so blessed by your videos and all my friends know that you're my fav youTuber 💕💞. God bless you and your family!
Comparison is very annoying. I think many of us deal with this at varying degrees in life, whether it be with people abroad, or those in our own household. It is very draining and it’s painful and devastating when you have to honestly admit to yourself that you’ve been operating out of jealousy 😣😖😔
What is going on for others has nothing to do with us. It’s not our time, season, or even destiny to have what others have. We do need to run our own race and keep our eyes on the end goal of this life journey. Thank you for your vulnerability and generosity in sharing your experience with this very toxic behavior. 😊😘
Amen and Amen o
I am so grateful to God for bringing me to this video. For such a long time I have struggled with comparison; of my family (and seeing others with their families), of my friends and what they’re doing, and of people online. I’ve had such a love/hate relationship with social media and I guess that’s what the Lord was trying to highlight for me. I never realized that it could be linked to pride, nor did I realize it could be connected to not fully knowing my identity in Christ. Thank you for following the leading of the Holy Spirit with this video! Lord I repent even now 🤲🏾😩
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I need this hair!
Thank you for your obedience to record this video. Thank you! Just stumbled on this video after 4 years you recorded this and I am so grateful for your obedience.
🤎🤎🤎🤎 thank you 🤎🤎🤎
God wants us to walk in joy and walk in it abundantly! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and practical tips on how we can overcome comparison. God bless you for your transparency sis!
Ugh you did such an amazing job with this video. This has been a battle of mine for years, I’ve followed you on insta. Thank you ♥️ your vulnerability has inspired me because I was afraid to speak on this.
Thank you for this video! I'll keep playing it when I need it. I know this isnt going to be an overnight fix. I struggled with insecurity and jealousy for the longest of time. Since I was a kid until now being 22. However, things intensified and my heart and thoughts became even more destructive because the guy I liked liked another girl. I got pregnant but everything was all not real, his heart was for the other girl. I was trapped in feeling completely horrible about my self and constantly hating how I look and how I am compared to this particular girl. Many people would say that she is in fact a very physically attractive beautiful girl, and has a nice figure. She can rock a nice dress and makeup along with a pretty face and all in all she is also very nice. Just like him she too was also Mexican. Upon this whole situation I got my self involved in I felt like my life and my existence of being me was useless and I hated God for making me and thinking he could have made me better. One of those really bad insecurities of mine is being Filipino, being an Asian. Growing up and even till now I was mad and frustrated why I had to be born Asian when so many people that God created are Caucasian, European, Hispanic, etc. I would always get hurt because I would think how this girl has a pointed nose, light skin, pitch dark hair, just in my eyes overall perfection and she is nonAsian and most of all liked by him, and how I think to myself I am Filipino, just a regular Asian with flat nose, small eyes, chubby cheeks, and flat round face. I wanted to be okay but then it became a full blown hatred over God in why I felt he made me ugly and Asian and how he made his other daughters beautiful and appreciated. How I wouldve wanted to be born in a different life not being Asian and experience what it is to feel pretty and to be seen like this particular girl. I was hurting and it came to a point where it wasnt just her now but wherever I go whenever I encounter someone whose pretty and nonasian. I pray and I also ask brothers and sisters that you guys pray for me in this journey and that my sin and pride will be done and over with, its not easy but me soon becoming a single mom I want to put love and positivity on my self, my surrounding, and most importantly my son. Please do leave a comment, an advice, or just anything itll really help me by a ton. Much love!
Thank you for this video 💕💕 to be honest Instagram and Snapchat are culprits of comparison. They have you wishing and wanting the life of another person that they don’t even have. It’s crazy!
Watched this years ago & still so relevant today, thank you for sharing xxx
I agree on the points you made. Comparison is not good at all but we've all struggled with it in some way. There's beauty in loving who we are and where we are in life. God is always teaching us things in every season. I love that parable too. P.S. I love your hair/makeup look.
My sister I give God all the glory for this message. It has hit home to me like you never could believe. I typically don't comment on anyting but I had to. Please allow God to continue to use you. I can't even express in words how this has blessed me. He has showed me myself in this video😢🙌🏾🙌🏾❤. Thank's again
Thanks for this video. Lately I have been dealing with a "friend" trying to compete with me and was envious of me. In return when I realized it I cut the friendship off then realized that all my goals I disclosed to her she obtained even before me! So I have been feeling a way about that, and am now wanting her to do bad! Which isn't me! The way she deeply felt about me ...I am starting to feel about her. So I have been praying to GOD to clean my heart... this is not me, I'm not that girl. I have to keep praying to get help about this situation. I don't ever want to be jealous of anyone because what GOD has for me is for me.
CaramelMommy 17 oh my goodness! I know how you feel I dealt with a friend that was very toxic... I felt like God was leading me to stay away from her and I started acting like I shouldn’t... in the end she played the victim role 🤦🏾♀️ I’ll be praying for you because I could imagine how you feel
Amen. I sincerely do not wish to make excuses for the friend in question but from my personal experience, I've been that friend that was jealous and I sincerely didn't know that was what I was doing...I didn't realize comparison birth that envy in my heart until the fruits started manifesting and I decided to repent. It's painful to see what jealousy can do to relationships but it's really possible she didn't know that was what she was doing (not sure anyone genuinely wants to be identified as envious). Maybe u could try praying for her.....Let the Spirit lead you, not the flesh. Pray that God will open her eyes to see how destructive it is to operate in envy and competition and continue to look to God to heal you. God's purpose for your life is for YOU and YOU alone to fulfil no matter who tries to imitate. God's plan for you will bring Him glory, just always remember that the sole purpose of God placing anything in your heart/hands is not just for you to feel like oh you've achieved, but much more to bring Him glory and make an impact. Bless you and I sincerely pray for your heart to be healed completely in Jesus name.
Thank you for allowing God to speak through you into my heart every single time.
You look so beautiful. Thankyou for sharing, it came right on time. I know this is not a "beauty" channel but I would like to see a GRWM or a tutorial for this look. ❤
Fantastic points! Thank you for your transparency and wisdom.
Always happy whenever i get notifications from this channel!keep bringing the real!
Where comparison begins, contentment ends. Thank you for this video Debo. Always love watching your videos x
This is such a Sound Word! Love this 💕
The praying part can definitely be difficult at first.
Thank you for this video! It's the perfect topic for us believer's. We always need help to strengthen our walk with Christ. (BTW) Nice hair too lol 😊 I like the color and the cut!
Wow, what a good run down
Thank you for letting the Lord use you sis this was inspiring to me I was feeling down but this convicted me and helped me see the truth. Thank you so much Lord bless the fruit of this womans work🙌🏼
This topic is everything! Thank you for this video
Amen!!!!!!
Came back to re-watch this today as it's so timely given the circumstances. So many important points made in this video!!
This is so so good and something I’ve so needed to hear, right now. Thank you! Xxx
God bless you - this broke a lot off me ! Literally God speaking to me through you :)
Need prayer please this been an issue for a long time married with kids and it's affecting my family
Thank you for posting this.
God bless you Debo
Amen, amen, amen !!!
Thank you so much for this message. God led me straight to your video & not only did the title speak straight to my heart but the entirety of your video. Blessings to you and your husband xx
Thank you so much for this video. It's really opened my eyes & helped me. May God continue to bless you 💖✨
Really good! 🙌🏾 Please could you do a video on healing x Physical or mental.
Thank you for the video. Very timely. I thank God for what you doing. And oh, I love your hair! Very lovely :)
Thank you so much for this
Any time!
This is such a blessing. Thank you so much. I needed this. God bless x
You look beautiful, God bless you !
Hey Debo. Thank you so much for your continuous transparency. I am currently overcoming, some very personal things in my life and still struggle at times in certain areas. And I honestly can relate to your experience of comparision. Thank you, so much for your guidence and testimonies. God honestly is the focus. And its very easy to say but when put into actions, I genuinely fall more in love with the Lord. May God continue to use you, to anoint others.🙏❤ Suggestion Topics: steps you took to pray and read your bible, overcoming brokenness and how to handle criticisms. Again amazing video and well done.👌🙌🙏💕💕
Lady J thank you Joyce! Your encouragement is always appreciated! 💕
Thank you! This is such a blessing to hear. It's something I've been struggling with, but God is bringing me through. Thank you for sharing what He has placed on your heart. Have an amazing day!
This was absolutely amazing! Thank you so much for this Debs! God bless you sis!
I really needed to see this.
Love it when you release videos so much wisdom 🙏🏿💕 could you do a video on worldly music?
Love this Debo well done🙏
🙏🏽💜 Thank you for this sis!
Grace E 💕💕💕💕
Thank you sis for this
You look so beautiful, your hair!!😍😍
Thank you for this
Thank you so much for posting a video on this topic! I really needed to hear this!
God Bless ✨
Thank you and God bless you for sharing your thoughts on this topic sis 🙏🏾😊
So so so so good. Could totally relate to this teaching and now have some understanding and a starting point on how to deal + overcome.
Thanks Debo
The video came beforehand 😌..please I would like you to talk on what to do while waiting on God, I’m currently trusting for a particular thing and he seems so far..I’m getting tired🙈
Thank you
mayo debo hi mayo I have a previous video on that. Waiting on God| Praying For Your future husband
Thank you for being so honest. I needed this video!
I love your videos. 😎 Always inspiring
I feel this video. Thank you ❤️
this was so good
Good word
Amazing video...wow...
Please make a video on how to be content in the season of singleness
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You look so beautiful, I just see God when I look at you
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Debs! when we getting new videos???
Hi sis not sure if you still use RUclips, I would like to share this channel with you called *TRUMPET OF GRACE* I pray you will be blessed by what you hear
Jesus is the best role model.