Your Therapist Is Not God with Casey Beveridge
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- Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
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Love seeing my girls together. I think this will help people understand that seeing a therapist is not as intimidating as it might seem.😘
*Casey episodes are now my fave🥹 she’s so sweet & is such a breath of fresh air in a world where everyone & their dog is a mental health expert😭🙏🏻 also love how she flips it back on Shannon so it’s not a one sided conversation💕*
Shannon: let's fight 😡
Casey: not today not here 😇
Casey is just so mature. Like that is a full adult right there. I don’t know that I’ll ever get to that level lmao.
You are mature too!! Just in a more relatable way to me- hopefully u didn’t take that the wrong way hahaha
I'm 30 and I was thinking the same thing. Neurodivergent nb lesbian. Out all 3 over a decade ago. Feel like I've had 3 kinds of puberty.
lol casey telling clients to unfollow shannon
i can tell casey is a good therapist and i hope i get someone like her for my future. we could all use someone who is smart and caring to guide us to be our best self. and also work thru any queer related pains.
Casey emanates this comforting and kind aura that I can't explain. She is definitely a natural people healer. 💛
y’all’s sister relationship is so sweet! more episodes with Casey she’s so well spoken. also her being so concerned about making sure it’s ethical speaks to how good a therapist she is!
Props to Casey for being so open and vulnerable! It's great to know that there are therapists out there with the best intentions who are in it for the right reasons 👏
The respect that you have for one another is beautiful. And, clearly you are each others’ biggest fans 😊 as a future therapist, I appreciate this educational feedback!
The episodes in which you host your sister are some of my absolute favorite. Casey exudes a quiet confidence and is masterfully measured in her words in the most meaningful way. She's thoughtful, endearing, and incredibly compelling. This episode was such a delight, from start to finish. I'm hopeful she'll guest on your podcast more often, required she's comfortable with doing so, of course.
I think, we've become simultaneously overstimulated and under-socialized as a society. As you mentioned, despite technology advancing at the speed of light, psychologically-speaking, we just don't have the capacity to adapt as quickly to the societal "rules of engagement" technologically is constantly requiring of us. Therefore, perhaps, we have gotten into the trend of pathologizing our language as a means of compartmentalizing people, behaviors, preconceptions, etc. I think your sister nailed it when she made note of our limited capacity to socialize the "old fashioned" way. For example, our perspectives of many people often is the product of that person's ability to heavily curate their appearance, various signal(s) of self/identity, and "personality". Thus, this unintentionally places undue pressure and expectations that are really difficult to reproduce in the actual lived world and not through the lens of an app. Essentially, we no longer perceive people in the real world, we are introduced to them through a literal virtual reality, only making for more work to actually get to know people. Now, not only do we have to get to know people, we have to now unlearn our perceptions of who we thought they were, talk about social conflict.
Anywho, as always this was such an incredible episode. Many thanks to your sister for her vulnerability and guesting on your show again! :)
@ 1:01:09 Losing a phone in a chip bag is so ADHD coded 😂😂😂
next time I lose my keys, i'm blaming shannon
Not sure if you're still staying up around upload times but thanks for the ep and have a good sleep shannon! Goodnight!
depends on the week!! this time you caught me! thank you ❤❤❤❤
@@nowthisisliving Yess I'm so glad!! ❤❤❤❤
Casey is the best!! So great to hear her perspective on things. Thank you for being on the podcast!! ☺️
as a therapist i say that i loooved this! casey is awesome! good job casey!!!
I love it when Casey is on the podcast. She really just has such a calming presence, and I can sense she's such a caring therapist.
Love seeing Casey on the podcast again and hear your conversations from a different angle! She seems so lovely and genuine, it's so interesting to hear her perspective ON therapy and share more about herself as well.
I love the Casey episodes! I selfishly would love to see more of her on the Internet. I personally think that Kati Morton, LMFT, does a good job of sharing the right amount of her personal life within her online presence; however, I’m sure Casey already knows that anybody online these days has to deal with a fair amount of trolls, false narratives and unwarranted backlash.
I love Casey! She is so gentle and mindful with her words. And comes across so genuine, much like you. Listening to an emotionally intelligent conversation is always so refreshing. If you don’t ever have your own podcast together, ya’ll should make this a more regular thing.
I love the safe space this brings us into, organically created between you two sisters.
I loved this episode. I'm a psychologist myself and even though I also have a lot of therapist friends, it is so nice and helpful to hear a new perspective! Thank you, Casey, for sharing so many thoughts about your work and therapy overall!
Loved hearing from Casey! She is incredibly easy to listen to, passionate, and informative. Great episode!
This was a great episode Shannon & Casey! Something Casey said that reallllllly resonated with me was around dating apps and talking to someone on the app for a long time before you actually meet them. I think you're right, you can more quickly gauge who that person really is if you meet them in person, especially before you've had a chance to build them up in your head.
One thing that I've been doing since being catfished, is asking the person if they don't mind doing a little video call with me (i'm more of a caller than a texter anyways) - especially if our schedules are busy and we want to meet but we can't meet in person right away. I know that's maybe a lot to some people, but for me it relieves some of the nerves I have around safety. Most people are willing, and those who aren't screened themselves out for me.
You look like you have an amazing connection and love for one another. It’s great to see.
Shannon I’ve loved listening to you in the past, hearing different prospectives and thoughts on life. Your words remind me to be more tolerant and forgiving to myself and others.
Casey you sound so considered and eloquent, with a passion for your work in mental health which is such a breath of fresh air. I love your ethical stand to maintain the best therapy - client relationship, you see this stepped over so much these days which I feel is not the healthiest thing to do. Is nice to see that there are therapists out there with such integrity.
Your parents raised an amazing family.
Finally the second episode with Casey ❤ I was waiting for it!
it's nice to see how relaxed Shannon is "interviewing" her
I love how you guys interact. It’s so genuine and sweet :)
hi shannon, i've been a silent listener for a while now. absolutely love listening to your podcast eps. It's nice to see Casey again, hope she's feeling good about what she shares, (if u see this Casey you're lovely!! interesting hearing your opinion on these things) anyways byee
This is one of my favorite episodes. Please feature her more often!
Great convo Casey and Shannon💜
Loved this episode, and hearing Casey speak. Such a caring and kind presence. Please thank her for sharing and taking the time to be on podcast, even though she had some reservations.
I really love how Casey gives helpful insights while also caring about being ethical. Also, she's so comforting idk what it is she just looks SO KIND. PS.: yes the names don't match lol
this episode was ONE OF MY FAVORITEEEEEES
hearing Casey's opinion on topics (and also from a psychological perspective) was so interesting. Could have listened to you two for hours. Loved it!
She did great! Very interesting to hear this type of conversation!
Thank you for coming on the pod Casey! It was great to see how more comfortable you were getting throughout the episode :D
love having casey on the pod! she is sooo smart!❤️❤️
It’s interesting to hear you guys almost had a podcast together considering people favor these so much
I love meeting guests, I think the back and forth conversations are really interesting and even feels like company, but I have been loving your intros and hearing things about your life so I feel like it’s definitely time to incorporate a solo ep again!!
Also Casey seems so lovely and I love the consideration she puts into her responses. She has so much knowledge in her brain!
First Word after 10 mn! She's such a good listner...i think a rock to rely on Shannon ! And...you look so exhausted! Missed your energy in this great episode...
Love to see Casey back!!!❤
love episodes with casey!!! you should have a mini series with her inside your pod
YES YES YES CASEY EPISODE! The greatest gift
I always fall asleep when I´m listening your podcast, love your voice and u💗
I don’t know. When I was in therapy it was very important to me that my therapist was gay. I felt like that was the only way they could understand my difficulties. Now i just want them to be good at their job. Which is to help me explore and guide my personal problems. Therapy is mainly listening. And me being able to explore feelings in a safe place. I don’t understand video therapy. Although, it is the new big thing. I need to be able to read the non -verbal as well as verbal. Whole new world. i tried video nursing It was so hard Kinda like s 911 operator you have to listen for whats not being said. I love episodes with your sister. They make you think about where you stand. Not just the fluff of a regular guest 😂
usually just a silent listener/follower but want to hop and say it's great to have Casey back!! Didn't expect it to end feels like it could go on forever and be just as thought stimulating. Totally understand why it would be scary though, but I think both of y'all handled the wild Wild West magnificently.
Love Love Your Podcast Shannon ❤❤
I love when you have Casey on! I'm a lawyer and the liability issues re therapy (and giving legal advice) online are mind-spinning.
Rated the podcast, I watch every week, I try to like and comment on each video 🫶🏻 love this show love you and hope it helps 😊
I decided that every day is Pride. A month is not long enough after ages of nonsense.
I love your solo intros and now I've said it.
Casey, you rock. All love. Yay!
Loved the episode shannon and Casey seems so sweet❤❤
Ope I absolutely love Wednesday mornings with Shan ❤
Casey is so smart, I always love the energy she brings and also what she brings out in Shannon
Casey has such calming energy
29:21 yes, this. I don’t like the idea of labeling myself as “anxious” etc, but it’s helpful to know the concepts bc I can recognize in real time, where is this reaction coming from.
27:20 Mal called it “trickle down therapy” on her pod recently
We are so lucky to get Casey on the pod
I love the question about letting people talk (vs interrupting with questions). It's probably similar to doing a cross-examination. Letting people talk tends to lead to more... and more... Interrupting keeps the interviewer in control, but they may not necessarily be listening, but trying to get what they want to hear.
Love a Casey ep!
Love Casey episodes and solo Shannon episodes... hell just a fan of everything
I’m always down for more episodes with Casey
Sorry Shannon gonna need to unfollow so Casey can be my life coach. jk 😂 Loved the ep!
I love the Casey episodes!
You two are great ❤
A future possible question Casey could address is, what if the client develops a crush on their therapist? Does it need to be addressed and can the dynamic still work if this is the case? This totally doesn't have anything to do with any current situation I may be in >.> Love the ep!
omgg i am super early!!!
I love the episodes with Casey
solo episode is my favorite
Waiting for the Chappel Roan episode. Not in the way, hurry up but in the way of, there's no way this isn't happening.
Also, my land lord told me this because im still going through my heartbreak "I can tell you are very hurt. It's very painful to share a life with someone and have it crushed like this. I hope you don't see your grief as inconveniencing others. No one is trained for things like this. Grief is the price we pay for caring and loving. It shows that it was real and meant a lot to you"
She meant a lot me and my love for her knew no bounds.
Casey has a very soothing voice
If you don’t know you’re not dating Charlie Demilio…that’s a bigger problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tired Shannon is SAVAGE 🤌🏻🔥
More of Casey- Please! She is awesome.
agree with the below comments about these episodes being my favorite 🙌thank you
I don't like it either but it has become kind of weird to call someone instead of texting them. Even though I never mind if somebody calls me directly, I still hesitate to call people on their phone.
Casey and Sarah Baska’s sister Rachel would make a great podcast duo!
She sounds so much like Debbie 😅😊 voice and intonation ❤
every time I look at Casey, I just see Deb, and I love that ❤
I do prefer when you have guests for each episode
Struggling with if I need a new therapist or i need a break been going to therapy for 3yrs
for me, i think i would want to know a little bit about my therapist's personal life just so i can gauge personality and know how to talk to them about certain life experiences. like whether they grew up in the south. do they interact with gay people or people of color. stuff like that but i don't want to see what they're cooking for dinner that week or how many pets they have or what they fight about with their partner. i think some mystery keeps the professional boundry.
I agree with this. I think we cant treat the profession of therapy as immune from subconscious bias. The really is that even therapy has not good people working in the profession and those biases can really affect their level of care. It’s just reality
my dad's a therapist and he also never uses it as a weapon with me :') if anything, it's the rest of the plebs in the world weaponizing therapy speak lol
I was catfished by a regular girl this past winter. It was … crazy. I was very sad because I genuinely fell for it and thought we had this deep connection. I am a smart person too… I like to think I am at least lol. It’s crazy out there.
Casey's episodes are❤
People love to rag on dating apps but there are so many things you can put upfront on an app that are really awkward and weird to bring up to someone in person. Besides knowing who's single and queer, just knowing what they want, complex orientations or needs... as an acespec person it's really hard to get into with someone I don't meet on an app unless we're friends first (and that has its risks) because it's such a bit socially weird thing to talk to a stranger about your relationship to sex, the pace at which you need to take romantic relationships, areas of inexperience...
Heyyyyy❤
Positive comment for Casey. Something you tell yourself to feel better. Also, put an extra cherry on top.
Love
20:03 😂
yaay casey
Yayyyyy! Casey🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
I've never been this early
well its disability pride month!!!!!!!!!! happy pride to my community.
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My ex uses the internet for relationship advice/help. This generation is so into the 'situationship/red flag' like it's all about gaslighting. It's sad. Like, "dont date, anyone who has red flags" my red flag was expressing myself my anger but it doesnt justify me as a whole. I supported my ex above and beyond because I made the same mistakes hurting her feelings. I tired and she kept played with my feelings. Lol note to self. Talk to a real psychologist with a phd.
Yas queens
AAAAAA THIRD. SO EXCITED
Hot take: I feel like it’s not fair to view going to a therapist as always a better option than online self help content. There are PLENTY of therapist who misdiagnosed and provide horrible advice. Therapy is only as successful as the knowledge of the therapist and your ability to self assess and provide information. If you have a therapist who is very out of touch or has some crazy personal view points you may end up misdiagnosed or completely misguided. Sometimes online self help is a great prompt to help you seek out a diagnosis or to bring up stuff to your therapist. I hate the idea that therapy is somehow the gold standard.
Everyone knows all Shannon's are gay so in my opinion its a perfect fit
Did shannon do the intro in her closet? ;) she looks adorable
i left there awhile ago…. i filmed it at vanessa and amy’s!!
@@nowthisisliving Hehe Got it! Love you tho