Quadriplegic tries metal arm! *Yikes*
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- Quadriplegic tries metal arm! Yikes
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This is eye opening how much more challenging every day tasks are for people of limited mobility.
Joy Goodwin I was thinking the exact same thing.....
So true. Makes you appreciate small things that you take for granted everyday
We should thank God for everything ,every morning when we open our 👀1st thing in the morning.
Bummer, man.
Laundry pods. (Don't eat the pods. Smile.)
I love how charisma doesnt allow him to give up on himself and encourages him to be independent. She is such a supportive partner
Cole is a comedian for sure, keep us laughing and smiling, the the world needs more of it. Blessings to you both.
this was so funny right?!
I'm getting here in 2021 September
How is it going 🤔 with the independence Cole 😳 you are doing well from what I am seeing I do get to view everything but I try to keep up. You guys are awesome 👌.it's challenging but u will get better
It takes time. Praying for one 🙏 all things are possible .
We have a front load washer and dryer with spring loaded doors - you push it to close and push it again to open - no fine motor skills or pulling required. I can just hit mine with the side of my knee/wheelchair and it pops open.
I would also recommend a low table about the height of your knees to put the laundry basket on - then you can load the basket on the table and slide it on to your lap rather than having to pick it up from the floor.
I hope Cole and Charisma read this
What the detergent how do you manage to put the exact quantity?
What the detergent how do you manage to put the exact quantity?
I would guess pods are easier
Yeahh..they need appliances that he can use!! That help out since he has a disability!!
getting the laundry pods might be easier for Cole than the big liquid bottle.
We agree
I was thinking the same thing
I was also thinking maybe a larger rolling basket might be helpful to try make moving the laundry easier? you will probably have to rig something to his chair for him to pull it
Hey this is Brian! I'm a paraplegic and I love the pods!
when you guys get more money, maybe invest in a touch screen washer and dryer thats front facing.
RUclips recommended one of your videos the other day... I haven’t stopped catching up. I love both of you. Your positivity (and also sense of humor) is an inspiration. Greetings from Puerto Rico.
Thank you! You’re awesome
Gotta love Charisma, encouraging him the whole way. What an amazing woman!!!
Yes Cole..........with the independence! Love that.🤗💕
Cole: “what do I do?”
Charisma: “keep trying” 😂😂😂
❤️💕🌻❤️🌻💕❤️
I loved when she said that!
When cole fell forward charisma’s spidey senses kicked in
I do not understand how anyone in this world could down-like/dislike any of your videos. Admirable doesn't even scratch the surface in describing you and your journey. Rock on dude!!!
Wow I'm here holding my breath, shaking my head with you Cole. I am so proud of your attempts. Just remember practice makes perfect and Charisma is the perfect teacher supportive and challenging when necessary. Team C&C we are rooting for you. Cole I can see that you will do your share...You have done great!!
Charisma and Cole, job well done. Cole as time goes by and with charisma encouragement you will only get better. What's most important is she is so patient and soft spoken, guy's job well done
" Behind every great man is a great woman". I literally jumped out of my seat to cheer you on. Cole continue your gallant fight with the love and support of Charisma. STAY POSITIVE!
My tip is a two in one machine. You only need to put it in and get it out when finished. I have one and it literally has saved my sanity. Plus it’s all push button so it’s so easy to use.
I think Cole did a great job for doing all that for the first time! I wonder if a laundry basket with wheels might be helpful. That way it can just roll along with you while positioned directly in front of your feet. I'm not sure if they still sell the ones I used to have years ago, but hopefully there are still some out there. In any case, I admire that you didn't give up! And even if you couldn't/can't do everything, it still gives Charisma a break. For example, I bet she'd still appreciate only having to turn on the washer if you loaded it and tossed a laundry pod in there beforehand.
Never stop trying Cole. In any relationship you want to be a partner and your independence is important.
Hi Cole & Charisma “nothing beats a try but a failure,” you didn’t fail so you did great. You also determined where improvements need to be made. Keep up the great work and much future success. As I say, “keep it moving.”
DOGMAN3161 The quote is “nothing beats a failure but a try”. And Cole was definitely trying. So happy for you.
Edna Nelson sorry to tell you but you learned the phrase backwards, but it still all means the same thing.
Tipp 1 from a Quad...lock your breaks before every move!!! Makes everything easyer 😉
Hahaha I say this everyday 😂 - Charisma
Roll with Cole & Charisma Tipp 2: pillows first 😅
I don’t have a physical disability and I’m completely exhausted when I change my bed sheets. Cole is putting me to shame.
Haha same here! Now I feel so lazy! Lol
Those two thumbs down are seriously from pure haters.
Love from Africa!!!
Its deffo gotta be an accident cos how can you hate on such an inspirational and cute couple!
Everybody has a reason to be mean, I have no idea why someone would dislike it either. People should just skip the video if they're not into it.
@@Evounme09 they're simply jealous that Cole & Charisma have an amazing relationship...👍😉👌
They need a quarantine Partner👫!!!! That's okay haters!!! We provide enough love to shield them from you❤️❤️!!
Yes. We can only pity these haters.
I like that you decided to engage in things you dont do regularly. Every husband, husband to be, should try to learn new skills to help around the house!. Is a plus for you! Good job!
Pains me to see Cole struggle with basic things that some of u do everyday..I have a son hes my 1 kid that God has bless me with and i cant image thr hurt Mama Kelly feels to see Cole struggle. But his attitude and out prayers he will be just fine..
We understand! Although these tasks are difficult for me, I really enjoy feeling more independent from doing them.
I’m a quadriplegic myself but I’ve grown very fond of Cole from following his journey and the mother in me comes out like you say when I see him struggle. As a quadriplegic I can so relate but as a mother I wish I could jump up and help him. I love his attitude and never give up personality and it is in his best interest to learn these tasks. I’ve had to accept after trying that there are some things that I am not capable of doing and others that are difficult but very doable. I pick and choose my battles and accept and request help when necessary. Charisma is so awesome too and I’m so happy that they have each other. I am very excited to continue to watch their journey as they move forward in life.
@@coleandcharisma Cole, you'll only get better!
@@coleandcharisma Good job, Cole!
Good job. From Jamaica.
Cole’s determination to be independent and Charisma’s encouragement are a winning combination. I am intrigued at this effort. Never give up!
Yass 20 minute video, I’ve just been rewatching old videos. Hope everyone is doing safe. Much love from Barbados
Ashley Maria me too😂
26 minutes to be exact. ♥️😘
🤗🤗
Hahaha same!
Ashley Maria hey I am from Christ church. But I live in Florida
Practice makes perfect 👌🏼 Cole, I love how even when you can’t do something you keep trying til you overcome it. FYI front loaders will help you better.
#StayPositive 💕
Happy to see you again lovely couple.Cole you did a good job.I loved your determination,refusing help from Charisma.❤👍
Cole did so well! Especially with Charisma encouraging him and letting him try until he got it rather than doing it for him.
@ROLLWITHCOLEANDCHARISMA I'm a C6-C7 complete and pretty close ability wise, but a little stronger than Cole.
1. Transferring on incline, I use arm rest to push off of. Decline is just getting over the fear of falling and hopping in one motion.
2. Doing chores like laundry or dishes is a lot less challenging with the aid of a chest strap on. Also use Tide Pods as others have mentioned.
3. Taking the sheets off with the head of the bed in sit up position is way easier. Pillows, bite the pillow and pinch the sheet with both hands and pull.
Hope this helps!
Proud of you dude!
Candy and Steve thanks for your help with Cole doing laundry. And the mail delivery was great but don't hurt your self Cole. You will get it. Don't try all at one time.
Imagine how strong he’ll get just by doing that stuff.
Mans gonna be jacked
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 idk if you're talking to me or her but I didn't make a joke and im confused as to how it would come across as a joke. I was agreeing with her statement that doing these new independent things will be forms of exercise for Cole and, in turn, make him "Jacked" which is a slang term for Stronger.
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 he doesnt have triceps but he has biceps and shoulders and he is still a grown man capable of working out and getting stronger. What exactly did she say that was wrong?? She didnt say he's going to look like a damn body builder. She said "stronger".
There is no video on this channel even IMPLYING that none of coles muscles are functional. If they weren't he wouldn't even be able to move. He lacks triceps. He still has other muscles and works out multiple times a week. Make sure you're correct before coming after someone for such a simple statement
@@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 you're the one who is uneducated. Case closed. 👋
This is occupational therapy for Cole. So nice of Charisma to support. She knows where to step in.
The one good thing to come out of quarantine was finding you twos videos! Cole and Charisma your both so inspiring and positive its contagious lol
I'm a complete C5-C7 quadriplegic and make videos to help people live life just like they would've able-bodied. My goal is to make videos for others like myself and Cole to become more independent.
I spent the last 3 days binge watching all your vids from the start and i'm hooked! I love seeing the progress you guys are making! It's so inspiring, it makes me want to do more in terms of disability advocacy. I live in London UK, and from an able bodied point of view, I never fully realised the day to day difficulties a disabled person faces in doing the things we take for granted. After seeing your courage and determination, i'm gonna pledge to be more active in advocating for disabled rights here in the UK. So much needs to be done, and it will only happen if we step up and demand the change! Thank you, Cole and Charisma for all the work you do! Keep it up, you guys are awesome! Love from across the pond x
Wow, this is so amazing to hear! Thank you so much for your support and pledging to be an disability advocate in the UK!
@@coleandcharisma Thank you in all the work you do inspiring others! We all live in a society, and society should work for everybody living in it.
" why did we go to the gym i should have just took the sheets off" lmaoo awe
Cole, I wonder if sewing some big loops, big enough for you to fit your hand/wrist through, on the corners of each sheet, would help you to get the sheets off easier!?!?
Cole, you did a good job and Charisma is such a good motivator!
My advice would be to put padding around the metal that is in direct contact with your skin when using “the claw”, something that doesn’t add a lot of weight but prevents it from pressing into the skin like that. Also, padding around the pincers could prevent it from ripping through whatever you’re picking up, like the plastic bag or perhaps the sheets even.
This video was really interesting and it has my mind racing for ideas and solutions, I’m autistic and I get hyperfocused/excited whenever I see scenarios that could be made easier or more efficient. I would love to see more of the solutions you come up with as you explore ways of greater independence and I hope you continue to make videos about it!
I take the sheets almost off of my bed when laying down. I am a Cerebral Palsy quadriplegic.
That's clever
Yea it is.
That's what I do, I'm para from waist down.
We do what we do to help out.
yup that is what i do. quad due to NMO.
Love your determination Cole! Sometimes tough love is the best love, but we don't see it at the time.
You will find the best way for you to do things. Great first try! Love to you both 💙❤
I’ve been binge watching your older videos so happy that you posted a new one and 26 minutes long. But beside the fact this is so unrelated to the video but that 26:00 is soooo satisfying.Y’all are such a wholesome couple the love you have for each other is amazing. How can such a beautiful women and such a handsome man find each other both of you are amazing people inside and out. Seeing Cole become more and more independent is truly wonderful. God bless and stay safe and most importantly STAY POSITIVE!! 💛💛
Thank you so, so much!
Keep it up Cole. Well done Charisma. You are so supportive. Happy Mother's Day.
God bless you cole for trying. That the first step is to try. Many blessings to you and charisma
Here’s to you Cole for showing that with hard work, many can prevail over difficult tasks. Super kudos to Charisma for being a awesome OT on top of a a fabulous fiancé.
A quote I lived by when my husband was struggling through his quad obstacles and always wanted me to help him out....
“You can enable someone to the point where you disable them.”
Love you both. 💕
Watching form Germany.
Miele washer and dryer are often front loaders and have the manuals front faceing and are quite accessible.
Good to know! Thank you!
@@coleandcharisma plus: often the door opens automatic when you push a little button.
@@Kreativlaboratorium True. Good point.
Also from Germany. I like the Miele brand for household machines (washer, dryer, vacuum, dishwasher) too. In my experience there're reliable for many years and have a reasonable price for their quality.
Ahh another German fella
Great job Cole. I am sure there is someone watching who will have great ideas on how to modify washer and dryer. I loved that Cole was not beaten by the task and completed them. You two are the best. 💞
*What? **26:00** minutes with my favorite RUclipsrs?? Yay!!! ♥️ 😘 Thank you so much for my Mother's Day gift! Love you guys!* 🌷🌸💐💞♥️🌹🤗💖💜 P. S. - I think the front loaders will definitely be a lot easier for you to use since you just press the buttons and the doors sit lower to the floor.
This video just put the biggest smile on my face, Cole’s energy and positivity is so inspiring
You guys are so cute together! God bless you both! Cole never lose hope about walking again medicine is changing daily!!! 😘
Cole is definitely a comedian 😂 "i raise me up".
I really cry when I watch you guys
They literally remind me to STAYYY POSITIVE ✨✨
If it is any consolation I too get exhausted when trying to deconstruct my bed, wash the sheets, and put them back. Not with as much emotion and sass as Cole though! Keep practicing, y'all are gonna have a lot of laundry when those three beautiful mixed babies get here. Love you all! Tell your mamas this internet fan wishes them a wonderful day!
Thank you!
That's so true, it's a exhausting task for able-bodied persons too!
Believe me, Cole you did a fantastic job. I am always sweating after I change my bedding, too.
So courageous Cole 🙏 modifications will help and you will get better 😀 you did excellent for your first time trying these new activities.
Hello from St. Louis, Missouri! #staysafe #staypositive. And yes removing the bed sheets and making the bed are a workout!
You did such an awesome job!! My heart stopped when Cole was turning around by the stairs. 😳Keep up the great work. My mother suffered a traumatic brain injury last year and was left wheelchair bound with very limited ability to do for herself, I've gotten so much encouragement and some ideas from your videos. Your attitudes and smiles are beautiful but I have an idea of how hard some days can be. Thank you for the great energy you are putting out in the world!
cheers you did great!! Tell your Moms Happy Mother's day from your Fans!!
Tip for the mailbox put a bag on your chair that you can put the mail in two 😁
Charisma’s name is super fitting! And yay Cole, learning new ways to be independent is awesome! How lucky you guys are to have each other 💕
Cole your attitude is everything! As determined as you are, with practice and a few tips and modifications , I think you can do almost anything you set your mind to. 🦋
One of my bestfriends is Hannah LaCombe! (Steve and Candy’s daughter). I’ve always followed family vlogs on RUclips, but this is my first time checking yall’s out. I love it!!! You guys are hilarious and so perfect together.
At 21:50 Cole- “How am I going to pick this up off the ground”
Charisma- “We’ll figure it out.”
At 22:12 Cole- “So annoying what do I do?!”
Charisma- “...keep trying.”
You guys are awesome together, can’t wait to catch up on the rest!
Suggestion: Cole, take a small plastic tub or basket to place the mail it. Put it on your lap for the pickup and return. Dollar Tree has some great plastic tubs and baskets.
Oh I really loved this video...
I love when ppl try to become the best version of them self
Through all the bumps and bruises; you still #staypositive ! I needed this video today. Cole, you kept going and Charisma, you wouldn't let him quit. Thank you two beautiful people!
I'm so proud of you Cole. I'm glad that you are discovering and learning how to do more tasks on your own. With more practice, you'll definitely be able to do it more smoothly in the future.
Seeing both of you always just so optimistic is so amazing. I've been diagnosed with severe depression and sometimes it's really hard to do anything, but when I have those bad days I just watch some of your videos and it helps so much. Keep making the world a happier place!
Hi Samantha...hope these CUTE Pets, plus Slice n Rice (comedic couple) will Cheer you up on those dark moments. All the Best...🐴✌
💖 Stay Healthy 🤗 and Safe 💖
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Have been bingwatching your videos the last week and I feel like we are best friends now 😉
I don't "not see Cole's" wheelchair, but by now it's just part of him. Like someone people have black hair and some have blond hair. Or some have dark and some have light skin. I'll always 'see' it but it doesn't define the person! What's important is the personality.
And well, there is plenty in Cole 😂😍
And as an civil engineering student I LOOVE learning about the insight in accessible building design ❤
Lots of love from Denmark 🇩🇰
Cole, the reacher is awesome. I use mine daily and continue to find ways that it increases my independence. Recently, found out that I can use the reacher when managing a fire in my backyard fire-pit. I recommend getting the kitchen knife too. It has improved my ability to prep food so much that the kitchen is now my domain.
How many times can you hit something with this metal arm?
Cole: Yes
You too are funny and lovable! Praying for your beautiful life. It’s so
special that both families are so
supportive, and your family get together are so fun and happy.
That's awesome to see Cole doing more stuff. He's killing it! More vids like this please
Yes, I appreciate all your efforts, and show more independence. That's the best encouragement.
Good job Cole! Be careful and do things more slowly until you get better at it. 😇
Great job Cole! I love how she encourages him until he realizes he can make it work in his own way. I love this video!
So proud of you Cole. Charisma you’re such an encourager.
Cole, just watching you do these tasks with such determination, I know you will master them in no time! You both are so positive and strong! Love watching your videos. Keep up the great work! Love from N.C.
💕Cole and Charisma are a dynamic duo!💕 I appreciate how honest and candid you both are! Especially if at first you don't succeed, try try again! Way to go Cole! 😃May sound corny, but I'm from your parents generation if you haven't noticed from my comments -
L😆L! Cole and Charisma, you both are fun loving and inspiring! 💗
I look forward to your videos, especially how you show and educate about living with today's challenges and quadraplegia. 💕🙏😃Thanks for sharing your encouraging "Stay Positive!" outlook! 😍Love you two! God bless!💕
My favourite part.
Cole : Can we take a nap now ?
Love you too and continue put smile on our face .
Much love and good job Cole 💪🏻
So inspiring! 💖 I love how you both look out for each other so much.. truly a team 💖💖💖💖💖
Well done Cole, you got it all done eventuality. You will get better with more practice. You guys always but a smile on my face. And I'll remember to stay positive 😊😘
Happy mother's, I am a nurse and whenever I have on my night shift, i truly, honestly canoot wait to watch you all.... hummmm, what's up with the thumbs downs??????? I dont get it??? Anyone?
Night nurse here as well. Supposed to be charting , yet I'm sitting here watching Cole and Charisma
@@notmyfuture, lol...lol... i feel soooo guilty... atTele tonight with few covid pts... . few more hours to go.. hanging there!
@@lotus3161 Thanks a bunch Lotus...appreciate the encouragement!
@@fanta2905 haha no need to feel guilty. Its good to "escape" for a while. Fortunately no covid patients for me...just have a few vents on my assignment.
Sometimes my brothers thumb down for no reason other than because everyone else likes the videos, just so they're different. Terrible I know......but that's what I deal with😃
So proud of your accomplishments. Have a great week
One day at a time! Don’t give up.. Prep for those triplets! You got this!
Cole you are amazing and Charisma does a great job encouraging you to do all these chores. Beautiful couple! Love watching your stories all the way from Colombia. Keep rolling!!
Get a front loader washer and dryer and use pods instead of detergent. That’ll make things a little easier!
Good for you Cole! I was frustrated and exhausted just watching. Perseverance pays off. Thanks for sharing your adventure in independence.
I hope that Cole can find a washer and dryer that meets his user friendly needs.
You deserve to be happy 😊❤️🎈 Cole and Charisma.
I am so proud of you Cole... You and your wife-to-be Charisma will make an awesome team.. I can see you as a dad ..☺
Cole your determination will carry you through any adversities you may face. Don't be so hard on yourself. You did an excellent job for your first time. I know you will figure it out and with Charisma by your side, nothing is too difficult. Love you both for bring awareness with such humor and positivity.
Aww!! Thank you so much for the 26:00 minutes guys! I always look forward too the videos, but the longer videos are always a treat 🥰🥰
Cole, I love your quest for as much independence as possible and your comfort with sharing your learning curve. Don't give up!
Cole you did a great job and I love how you had fun while doing the laundry
That's right Cole. Use you teeth any and everything. Cole is such a man's man...never give up is the moral. Great job💯
Hey you guys. I hope you're staying safe. Love you both😘😘😘
You got this Cole! I live in contant pain daily, you inspire me to keep pushing. Charisma, you rock girl! May God Continue to bless you both.
🙌🏾♥️
Love you guys so much❤. My biggest inspiration😢
Thank you, Cole!! People have no idea how much more effort it takes for quads and even paras to perform “simple” every day tasks. What takes 10-15 minutes for the able bodied can take an hour or two for an SCI person. Thank you and Charisma so much for bringing the awareness you are.
I nearly peed my pants but I am so freaking proud of you you did good with more practice you'll be a pro you are a Taurus man and when we put our minds to anything we get her done tell the moms I said Happy Mother's Day
I’m not a SCI survivor but am a stroke survivor(a left hemiplegic). I do my bed linens in 2 loads. One with just the fitted sheet. The second with flat sheet and pillow cases. I had more than one set of sheets. So I can take my time washing the dirty ones while making my bed with a clean set. This way there is no hurry getting laundry done. I think it’s great that you are striving for more independence. Along with that comes confidence in your ability to overcome any challenges. Charisma knows as an OT that sometimes it is finding creative ways to make things adaptable to your unique abilities. It is finding what works for you. I’m glad you can ask for help when needed. I used to be very independent before and asking for help was hard but I have learned that my pride only gets in the way. There is no shame in needing help. You are so lucky you have wonderful support surrounding you. Thanks for your inspiring channel. I think it humbles people to understand the challenges of having a disability but that the person inside is just like them. We all want to be accepted, encouraged and loved. You are both such a positive light in the world. Keep on this journey called life. Keep smiling and stay positive as you always do. With much love from Vancouver, Canada❤️❤️