Relationship Killers | Episode 132

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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
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    If you’re feeling like your relationship is on the edge then high chances it’s probably dead 👀
    In this episode we get to talk about the different relationship killers from lack of emotional support to possessiveness and it’s A LOT brothers and sisters 😮‍💨😂
    Whether you’re watching with your partner/girl squad let’s unpack together and also tell us what led to the death of your last relationship?
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Комментарии • 143

  • @catherinenjoki2636
    @catherinenjoki2636 6 месяцев назад +76

    I actually love how Murugi communicates, gets to the point within shortest time possible. It makes listening to her very interesting
    I even find myself thinking "be like Murugi" whenever I watch other you tubers who take foreeeever to get to the point😓

    • @twentytwo3840
      @twentytwo3840 6 месяцев назад +3

      It coz of her communication style. She's direct...most people are passive

    • @ashlee1142
      @ashlee1142 6 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah, I love her concise way of communicating.

  • @SLY-pz5yb
    @SLY-pz5yb Месяц назад +4

    non communication. dude decided he wasn't going to talk to me and I'm not one to overcommunicate a guy. i let the ship sink

  • @BeatriceGithenya
    @BeatriceGithenya 6 месяцев назад +54

    I have learnt so many new English words from this podcast.My articulation and confidence has been influenced ❤.

  • @MwendeSchwinn
    @MwendeSchwinn 6 месяцев назад +200

    If you feel someone is lower than you, that's your body telling you you are misaligned and have no business connecting with them. When you call it contempt, you are essentially dismissing your own internal guiding authority. Religious conditioning makes us disobey ourselves by gaslighting us into condemning and dismissing our inner voice. I'm sure you thought thinking someone is lower than you is pride on your part thinking you are better than or superior. But no. If someone is below you, your body warns you, and asks you to keep off...they will drain you, and drag you down to their level. Only connect with people you feel you are on the same level

    • @geddramotari2463
      @geddramotari2463 6 месяцев назад +5

      So true
      Experienced it with my ex🥲

    • @MwendeSchwinn
      @MwendeSchwinn 6 месяцев назад

      @@geddramotari2463 I experienced it with an ex friend. Never again will I dismiss my inner guidance

    • @wanjiraschannel6931
      @wanjiraschannel6931 6 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed 100%

    • @lornakahonzi7434
      @lornakahonzi7434 6 месяцев назад +2

      This comment... learning to listen to your body

    • @nyamburakimani3726
      @nyamburakimani3726 6 месяцев назад +1

      100%

  • @teteyian3258
    @teteyian3258 6 месяцев назад +33

    Thank you Lyd....its struggling with infertility Issues. Barren and impotent are no longer courteous words to use on people with child bearing issues

  • @annkangethe3943
    @annkangethe3943 6 месяцев назад +20

    For sure Lydia is great listener

  • @celineogoye906
    @celineogoye906 6 месяцев назад +60

    Would you mind inviting maurice matheka the sexologist..it could be such an exciting episode

  • @margaretkanganga4882
    @margaretkanganga4882 6 месяцев назад +15

    i totally understand when Lyd says about insecurity like literally you are in the office maybe something [popped up and you had to extend for few minutes but you HAVE to send them pictures for them to believe you are in the office or any other place if it's maybe 6 or 7 and you are not at the house yet. Wangu ady alieka whatsapp yangu kwa simu yake to monitor who i talk to.I lost weight upto 46kgs coz it was draining but i thank myself i left and few months later am happy, no stress and am at 54kgs.

  • @phy.Nyambura
    @phy.Nyambura 6 месяцев назад +44

    As an upcoming podcast babe ,this has to be the best channel .Also you guys have helped become so much better in grammar ,expression and articulation ....Ilysm

    • @EmmeGee_M
      @EmmeGee_M 4 месяца назад

      right? absolutely eloquent

  • @wambuimuthoni4221
    @wambuimuthoni4221 6 месяцев назад +9

    I loved the part where Murugi said that they are looking for a good church and how she described her preference... I found it so funny 🤣

  • @JMandy
    @JMandy 6 месяцев назад +13

    Did not expect this conversation to get that deep into the roots of everything 😏🤓

  • @VALEENALICE
    @VALEENALICE 6 месяцев назад +8

    Murugi gives how issues present practically and KM has a lot of theory 😂

  • @Spinkly
    @Spinkly 6 месяцев назад +38

    Lydia was so specific with the Japanese men with dreds. Is there something she wants to tell us 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mutaicherobon6550
    @mutaicherobon6550 6 месяцев назад +6

    I love the sense of humour 😅😅 i laugh my heart out every time i watch TMI.Thank you ladies❤

  • @sherrynalwanga8928
    @sherrynalwanga8928 6 месяцев назад +9

    Lack of communication is key killer because at times it could be a mis understanding

  • @wangarinyambura9797
    @wangarinyambura9797 6 месяцев назад +10

    Murugi's outfit 🤩🤩🤩

  • @wanjiraschannel6931
    @wanjiraschannel6931 6 месяцев назад +10

    Contempt, unmet needs (most stemming from unspoken expectations), misalignment... these definitely led to the death of my last ☹😭 taught me so much about myself though and what to keep in mind in my next one so yay 🤗

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL 6 месяцев назад +20

    Jamani I'm in a meeting mmesema earpod ni skio moja ingine meeting eee😂😂❤ consistency check❤

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 2 месяца назад +2

    Lyd looks beautiful in red❤❤❤🥺

  • @agnesgeraldine181
    @agnesgeraldine181 6 месяцев назад +4

    OMG..Lyd and Murugi I missed y'all so much🥺❤. I'm sorry I can explain😅I haven't been active much but I am glad to be here and having listened to this conversation,I can say that it makes me see so much growth within myself.My last relationship was a killer cos that man never respected me. He was disloyal,he destroyed my self esteem by body shaming me all the time,borrowing money yet I felt he would have been the one giving the money to me since I was 18 hustling and he was 25 at the time.I expected him to be more mature.Anyways,I have experienced so much growth and rynow I am in a relationship that I believe will lead to marriage.I loved this whole conversation and you look absolutely gorgeous❤

  • @anindomercy1238
    @anindomercy1238 6 месяцев назад +6

    Postpartum depression lead to the end of my relationship. it's sad because now I'm struggling emotionally and financially

    • @sellyyvvette
      @sellyyvvette 6 месяцев назад +4

      Hugs and healing your way ❤

    • @nilotn
      @nilotn 6 месяцев назад

      I’m sorry baby

    • @anindomercy1238
      @anindomercy1238 6 месяцев назад

      @@nilotn Thanks

  • @hamelynmotika1807
    @hamelynmotika1807 5 месяцев назад

    You guys have been making my day for a year now. I'm becoming a better version of myself every day. it's like you became my sisters, and it helps me not to miss home too much. Please don't break this union. Ensure this relationship ain't dying oooo. Cheers from SC

  • @pellacyber9561
    @pellacyber9561 6 месяцев назад +8

    what led to my last relationship was lack of attention and toxic behaviours and emotional abuse

    • @rizikiokumu
      @rizikiokumu 6 месяцев назад

      You deserve better

  • @dandi.23
    @dandi.23 6 месяцев назад +12

    You two are a blessing to us the young generation of women,your agemates and women.
    WE LOVE YOU AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH IN ALL WAYS ALWAYS❤

    • @dandi.23
      @dandi.23 6 месяцев назад +1

      Tmi to the whole wide world🥹

    • @dandi.23
      @dandi.23 6 месяцев назад +1

      🚀🚀🚀

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 2 месяца назад +1

    Red just indicates loove 😍😍👏👏🎉

  • @annedeki1265
    @annedeki1265 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hi besties, I believe 100%Lydia is purely me... How she think, decision making, How she look at life, How she treat others nd Her feeling, how sensitive she is ~She can talk on my behalf nd my arms are held nd I will be very comfy with her take**❤❤❤

  • @andabwarosekiarie5477
    @andabwarosekiarie5477 Месяц назад +1

    This was such an exiting episode ❤

  • @LeanetWanjiru
    @LeanetWanjiru 6 месяцев назад +6

    I really struggle with expectations I really learnt a lot

  • @e.s.t.a.r
    @e.s.t.a.r 6 месяцев назад +4

    Codependency was it. Loved the episode🎉. So informative!

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 6 месяцев назад +4

    Outgrowing each other

  • @The_Introverted_Pisces
    @The_Introverted_Pisces 6 месяцев назад +2

    Murugi is soo funny 😂😂... You also look fabulous. I love that skirt

  • @malusisarahmulola
    @malusisarahmulola 6 месяцев назад +3

    I think outgrowing each other and not really having the same beliefs about life..lack of communication in every way..no intimacy in the unsexual way.....etc...is what might end the Relationship 🤦

  • @dorineangulu2898
    @dorineangulu2898 6 месяцев назад +18

    That part where Murugi said ' God has a sense of humor' got me. You really get tested with the thing you really yearn for mostly.

  • @izziejames2994
    @izziejames2994 6 месяцев назад +3

    Its definitely TMI🎉🎉🎉

  • @karensquest
    @karensquest 6 месяцев назад +1

    uuuuhhh its definately TMI. Your are both my favs 💓

  • @missinjairu1448
    @missinjairu1448 6 месяцев назад

    😅😂😂😂"for example when i talk to you and you pick up your phone...' Lyd😅 I love you.

  • @Kamesh338
    @Kamesh338 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love my Wednesdays because of you girlies 🤌❤️

    • @Kamesh338
      @Kamesh338 6 месяцев назад

      So I'm really the narcissist in my relationship 🙂‍↔️🤔 Y'all are our saviors as online Big sisters 🥂

  • @kairetuwairimu
    @kairetuwairimu 6 месяцев назад +3

    From 38:03 to 38:55 ni ukweli mtupu 😂💯

  • @paulinekamau2575
    @paulinekamau2575 6 месяцев назад +2

    Yeey! Its definitely TMI

  • @royalty_11
    @royalty_11 6 месяцев назад +1

    It's TMI🎉my favourite part about Wednesdays

  • @Med_learn33
    @Med_learn33 6 месяцев назад +1

    looking stunning ladies!!

  • @JanetOgola-xb9nn
    @JanetOgola-xb9nn 4 месяца назад

    The best podcast!❤

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva 6 месяцев назад +1

    Girls you went deep with this one ❤ wow 🤩

  • @paxliviacherono7157
    @paxliviacherono7157 6 месяцев назад +10

    We can call it a Wednesday ❤

    • @valentinengare3022
      @valentinengare3022 6 месяцев назад

      Absolutely love this comment. I mean how else would you define Wednesday without these two beauties? ❤❤

  • @amazinglife266
    @amazinglife266 6 месяцев назад +3

    I love it here❤

  • @dorothyshee777
    @dorothyshee777 6 месяцев назад +1

    My favorite podcast ❤

  • @carolinemusila9748
    @carolinemusila9748 5 месяцев назад

    I just left my 8 year relationship a month ago because apparently my ex 27 yr old guy realized that he wants a polygamous marriage unlike me who can NEVER be in one so I had to leave.

  • @elizabethwairimu9050
    @elizabethwairimu9050 2 месяца назад

    Lyd❤ I love this girl

  • @shaniceamira4201
    @shaniceamira4201 6 месяцев назад +3

    Inbetweeners ndio nadonjo ...kuko aje uku . 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @irenegitonga5368
    @irenegitonga5368 6 месяцев назад +1

    All time favourites 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @cherrymakena
    @cherrymakena 6 месяцев назад

    Please link the podcast Lydia was talking about in the description box👀

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu 6 месяцев назад

    I agree with you lydia, my dad never paid attention to me for a child. When my husband assumes me. It hurts me to the core. I would love.him to be the opposite of my dad.

  • @sarahakinyi3879
    @sarahakinyi3879 6 месяцев назад

    I wish the discount was also applicable to monthly subscriptions😅😢

  • @RosaliaShiweva
    @RosaliaShiweva 6 месяцев назад

    The line you said .. wait I am not a Floating angel 👼… ? 😂😂😂 I get it Lyd 😊😊

  • @Nyabokeonyonka
    @Nyabokeonyonka 6 месяцев назад +1

    Where’s that link ??😢😢 the one for we are real children

  • @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw
    @JoanJepkemei-zm6jw 6 месяцев назад +1

    Consider featuring Kwambox

  • @charityndegwa2057
    @charityndegwa2057 6 месяцев назад +1

    👏👏👏👏,I love it here❤

  • @lynbee1238
    @lynbee1238 6 месяцев назад +2

    ❤Love you girls❤

  • @cikunp9546
    @cikunp9546 6 месяцев назад +3

    The link to the podcast on love that Lydia was talking about is not tagged

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  6 месяцев назад

      We’ve added it sorry about that 🫶🏽

    • @cikunp9546
      @cikunp9546 6 месяцев назад

      @@tmipodcastke no worries thanks

  • @TumpeineMapenai
    @TumpeineMapenai 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love you guys 😘

  • @mohshii6672
    @mohshii6672 6 месяцев назад

    Lyd is not herself today...what's up hun? Sending love❤

  • @annekaraba9691
    @annekaraba9691 6 месяцев назад +1

    The co-dependency part reminds me of the show "why women kill" beth Anne's relationship with husband Robert

  • @annemwaura3910
    @annemwaura3910 6 месяцев назад +1

    Tumefika🎉🎉TMI ❤

  • @evatwili157
    @evatwili157 6 месяцев назад +1

    The link to the podcast that Lydia mentioned please 😊

  • @KeziahKamau-qu9pe
    @KeziahKamau-qu9pe 6 месяцев назад +1

    Lyd u look amazing 😍 😍

  • @StevenHarris-k8c
    @StevenHarris-k8c 20 дней назад

    Lewis Jose Miller Cynthia Young Thomas

  • @teresiahnyokabi78
    @teresiahnyokabi78 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm always here

  • @MerryhopeNyagha
    @MerryhopeNyagha 6 месяцев назад

    Japanese men with dread got me on the floor😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shalommirembe500
    @shalommirembe500 6 месяцев назад +3

    I currently live in Japan. I literally died ati,the Japanese men with dreads
    😂😂

  • @brendacarey9506
    @brendacarey9506 6 месяцев назад

    A meme led to the death of a relationship😂

  • @messymbigo6736
    @messymbigo6736 6 месяцев назад +2

    Earlybird here 🥰

  • @GenevaShort-s6n
    @GenevaShort-s6n 20 дней назад

    Gonzalez Karen Lopez Matthew Brown Eric

  • @Grandey38
    @Grandey38 6 месяцев назад

    Lyd didn't tag the love podcast about us being kids in adult bodies

    • @faithnamu5063
      @faithnamu5063 5 месяцев назад

      It's on the description box ..I hope you saw it

  • @muchain2985
    @muchain2985 6 месяцев назад +2

    Who has Googled Japanese men with dreads 😂

  • @dianamaina7530
    @dianamaina7530 6 месяцев назад +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @wakazinyange
    @wakazinyange Месяц назад

    A Japanese man with dreads?!😂😂😂🤣

  • @winnymwangi984
    @winnymwangi984 6 месяцев назад +1

    💋

  • @ZippyKazi-Carzy
    @ZippyKazi-Carzy 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ivynjoro1442
    @ivynjoro1442 6 месяцев назад +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @britneyG1837
    @britneyG1837 6 месяцев назад +1

    I need to try schedule sex, it just seem boring from the outside

  • @Faith.m.m
    @Faith.m.m 6 месяцев назад

    What's the name of the podcast that lyd was talking about?

  • @tracybaraza174
    @tracybaraza174 6 месяцев назад

    Stuck on Japanese men with dreads 😂

  • @perpetualjambi7011
    @perpetualjambi7011 6 месяцев назад

    Japanese men with dreads 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @perpetualwahu9769
    @perpetualwahu9769 6 месяцев назад +3

    109th viewer ❤

  • @mercykariuki7463
    @mercykariuki7463 5 месяцев назад

    Japanese men with dreads...really Lydia 😅😅😅😅

  • @shikuhadassah6550
    @shikuhadassah6550 Месяц назад

    Someone said am a look a like so am here to see myself@Munyi

  • @lisamwajuma9892
    @lisamwajuma9892 6 месяцев назад +14

    Favorite hour every Wednesday

  • @tetyootornado1598
    @tetyootornado1598 6 месяцев назад +6

    The only negative tbing avout this channel is that it ends. 😢😢

  • @daisydeeh2860
    @daisydeeh2860 6 месяцев назад +7

    God knows how much we love this channel 😂❤️always educating and enlighting us on real life situations

  • @lorrecco
    @lorrecco 6 месяцев назад +5

    Great conversation as always. Joan today looks like a real mke mwema

  • @TashaNjagi
    @TashaNjagi 6 месяцев назад +7

    Wednesday made so much better❤🎉

  • @missmuroti
    @missmuroti 6 месяцев назад +2

    @tmi ...you guys didn't tag the podcast on love lyd was talking about...

  • @constancemutua1070
    @constancemutua1070 6 месяцев назад +1

    Johnny from Kiambu and Japanese men with dreadlocks took me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭. Lyddd!!

  • @joyceyugi9266
    @joyceyugi9266 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wednesday has officially begun ❤

  • @beatricesloan7063
    @beatricesloan7063 6 месяцев назад

    Loving the conversation but the Japanese men in dreads 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @missw.4882
    @missw.4882 6 месяцев назад +1

    Someone rephrase that 'bar' quote by Murugi's mom ..didn't quite get it

    • @wambuimuthoni4221
      @wambuimuthoni4221 6 месяцев назад +1

      Me too I didn't get it

    • @splendouruzima3297
      @splendouruzima3297 6 месяцев назад

      Like getting to the bar first doesn't mean you'll be the first one to get drunk i.e. you may be at a good place now but that doesn't mean you are the first one to win in life. I hope mnaniget. More like kutangulia si kufika

    • @missw.4882
      @missw.4882 6 месяцев назад

      @splendouruzima3297 thank you!!! It makes sense

  • @lovesoniah772
    @lovesoniah772 6 месяцев назад +1

    Listening to you both always makes my day😊❤❤