Social Anxiety makes you a loser: Psychology of Tomoko Kuroki
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- Опубликовано: 3 авг 2024
- Todays topic will be Social Anxiety Disorder
Watamote is a story about a girl, a very unpopular girl who just started highschool. Tomoko Kuroki, her goal throughout the series is to become popular and through her resolve we just get the loveliest, most tasteful heaping serving of second hand embarrassment with a side of cringe. If you’re like me, you could even find yourself relating to a scary amount of Tomoko's problems. As one might watch the series, one might wonder…what is wrong with her?...
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0:00 - intro
1:47 - Sleep deprivation
3:47 - social interaction
7:02 - Resentment
8:48 - summary
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I feel so alone and pathetic being alone, I feel that everyone laughs at how I am alone, how I am a joke just for that, in my school they only talk to me to ask me for homework, before I did not do homework So I thought that if I did it it would make me popular and no, it doesn't work nobody talks to me, I don't have social anxiety but it's very difficult for me to socialize, my heart beats very fast when someone talks to me, I need help, but I don't know how to tell anyone I can't express myself even with my family I'm ashamed to even talk to them.
Take all your courage and burp it out. It usually goes way better than you'd expect. The first time is the hardest too, so it starts to feel like sunshine and rainbows as you keep doing it.
Source: I'm the irl male latino version of Tomoko, I'd know.
PS: Dunno if you're interested in Watamote as a whole, but I recommend you to read the manga, it proves what I just said, as it becomes incredibly wholesome as the story progresses.
Same here
Here ayano or as people really call me, karuti.
Ayano is my alt, going on the subject and if I improve I will tell you that I have not improved so much, I did not get any friends in real life but I have some on the internet and I can even make calls with them without shame, plus It feels bad to be alone but I'm trying to get over it so all I need is to feel good about myself, I still can't take pictures or say I'm pretty or have a conversation irl, but in a few years I will return and I hope to progress, if I progress I will try to give tips.
Btw, zozo you made a very good video and out of the traditional about watamote.
I was just like that in school. Extremely anxious and quiet. I legitimately didn't talk to anyone there. I also had multiple embarrassing panic attacks in the class room where I would start crying and sobbing uncontrollably while not being able to breath anymore and choking. Yes everyone saw it. It was so fucking embarrassing and in these moments I just wished to die. But! I actually got better. I never went to therapy or anything it just happened naturally. I guess I just matured/grew up? I'm still socially awkward and it's difficult to make friends but I have no issue with "neutral" conversations anymore and I can actually go out alone and buy stuff without feeling anxious. I haven't had a panic attack in years. So if you are someone who is like how I used to be as a teenager: there is hope!
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As someone with bad social anxiety, when I watched Watamote, I somewhat felt understood by her. This is why Watamote is one of my favourite animes, even though it's extremely short and is seen as cringe to a lot of people. I don't want to be popular, I instead just want friends. I've always wanted friends that I just click with. I avoid socializing like the damn plague cuz of how anxious it makes me. Even just looking at someone or saying "hi" or "bye" is too difficult for me. I constantly feel like everyone in class or school in general are judging and criticizing me for everything I do. I play video games a lot and have a lot of online friends. If I socialize with someone, even if it's a simple, normal conversation that lasts for a few seconds, it'll play in my head for hours, judging what I said or how the person reacted/responded. If it didn't go well for me, I'll assume the worst like the person won't wanna talk to me again, they won't want to be my friend, etc. I spend nights just playing the conversation in my head to where I lose sleep and get headaches. I HATE participating in group protects or activities and prefer to do things on my own. I go out of my way to showcase my interests by shirts I wear, hats I wear, or keychains on my bag so people can maybe talk to me about it and start a conversation
I used to be exactly like this
I relate so much with this anime and I always have headaches the night before schooldays becuz of my social anxiety. It has gotten better tho. I loved the video
Man she really is me and it's really hurts that I see her myself too much.
Thankfully I don't suffer from social anxiety that badly, but being sleep deprived SUCKS.
This needs more likes
I have genelized social anxiety disorder 😔
she just like me fr fr
fr fr tbh
Female me:
Tomoko is so me tbh
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it really does
She is much more realistic than Bocchi the fake introvert.
Dont know it
Both are similar
i was exactly like this as a teenager which is embarrassing but im happy i’ve progressed since then Lol
quite kid asked me why İ never speak 🙂👍
you dont have a mouth, thats why
DoYou know most funny thing is people don't consider it as an illness
Specially my family thinks I'm always being dramatic 😂
I live in fu*king village people don't even know about this disoder here They could nerver accept it
Tell me something new😭😭
Did you read the manga?.
I haven’t. Im looking into buying the volumes after the anime
@@hewayughosts13 it gets better for her. You'll like it.
@@UnTizio100K so I’ve heard
@@hewayughosts13 You should at the very least read it online. That'll only make you want to hurry and buy it NOW. It's *that* good.
@@Burn_Angel lol I’ll try it then. I’ve been buying too much manga
Watamote fans are usually weird and racist for some reason
no
Yes. Yes we are😈
The educated kind