how to ACTUALLY talk to girls.
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- Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025
- one of the great mysteries of our species and I am no expert by any means... but I have gone through quite a lot of trial and error and want to share some things so you don't have to make the same mistakes as me
This is such good advice but instead most boys my generation just listen to red pill influencers😢…you truly are a man for speaking out the truth!
W advice as a girl I just want a partner who’s comfortable enough with me (and themself) to share the bits of his hobbies that they might think are a little cringe or whatever cuz like if their a good person who cares what other people think of their hobbies
I can't say I entirely agree. Depends on the type of person you are and what you are trying to attract. But yeah I would agree with the not expecting anything. One thing that the redpillers kind of get right is making yourself the kind of person you actually want to be. Go get hobbies, maybe workout at least a little eat a little less unhealthy stuff, (unless you're trying to attract a feeder) and overall just get comfortable with yourself. makes it easier to take rejection. Oh and maybe shift the view of rejection to be a good thing in some ways. yes you didn't get that person but now you KNOW that's not your person. Which to me is good . Nowadays with social media, some people tend to believe they have unlimited options. You Don't at least not unlimited good ones that are worth the time.
i don’t really know how i got to this video but it was really refreshing to hear your advice and your self reflection. as i’ve grown older and realized that the boyish mindset has leaked into the mindset of a lot of my fellow friends in their 20’s, it’s been hard to hold faith for a positive shift. however, hearing you promote ideas that center around the oneness of being our natural self in every situation was truly remarkable. i do hope you continue to make these videos. you have no idea how many men and women you could be helping in the long run- even if just a handful of people actually took your advice. thank you for being vulnerable and thank you for putting out a different narrative to this storyline that has been untouched for so long.