No hate but I feel this is a very poisonous way of thinking. It doesn’t seem there is even an attempt to look at it from every single persons point of view, not just your own. When I started dating my now husband at 17 I personally didn’t just “cut off” my friends. I just filtered out the ones that didn’t have my best interest at heart. Unfortunately all my single friends wanted me to do single activities. Doing single activities when in a relationship is disrespectful also, you are who you hang around. Therefore if I’m not single I’m not hanging out with single friends that will try to encourage me to do single activities… especially if they can’t be content seeing others thrive in love. Friends grow apart and that’s life. I can be okay with growing away from a friend. But I won’t loose a Husband and life long partner over a “friend” who couldn’t even bare to see me happy. My friends have my same values, caring and loving our fiancés and husbands. Not twerking half naked at a clubs… But maybe that’s just my take.
All I have to say is, what do all your failures in your life have in common? Maybe consider that all your friends cut you off because you weren't a very good person? I mean, that's what this little vid is suggesting to me. I didn't lose a single friend when my wife and I started dating. Why? Well probably because we're not territorial about our friendships. I still talk to these guys today, 30-40 years later. My wife lost some friends, but it was because she slowly started figuring out that not all her friends were great. Although she did gain all my friends in the transition. All my family and friends love her so much they'd choose her over me. And they are right to do so, she absolutely is the better half. Wait.... I'm sorry, I lied. I did lose one friend. I had to cut off my ex-girlfriend because she wouldn't stop hitting on me in front of my wife (gf at the time). So much for that "men just run off to screw other women" generalization. Again, maybe ask yourself why men keep cheating on you specifically. Maybe they are not afraid of losing you? Because there is _nothing_ you can dangle in front of me that would cause me to risk losing my wife. *NOTHING*
No hate but I feel this is a very poisonous way of thinking. It doesn’t seem there is even an attempt to look at it from every single persons point of view, not just your own. When I started dating my now husband at 17 I personally didn’t just “cut off” my friends. I just filtered out the ones that didn’t have my best interest at heart. Unfortunately all my single friends wanted me to do single activities. Doing single activities when in a relationship is disrespectful also, you are who you hang around. Therefore if I’m not single I’m not hanging out with single friends that will try to encourage me to do single activities… especially if they can’t be content seeing others thrive in love. Friends grow apart and that’s life. I can be okay with growing away from a friend. But I won’t loose a Husband and life long partner over a “friend” who couldn’t even bare to see me happy. My friends have my same values, caring and loving our fiancés and husbands. Not twerking half naked at a clubs… But maybe that’s just my take.
This long a** paragraph for something that supposedly has nothing to do with you LMFAO
All I have to say is, what do all your failures in your life have in common?
Maybe consider that all your friends cut you off because you weren't a very good person? I mean, that's what this little vid is suggesting to me.
I didn't lose a single friend when my wife and I started dating. Why? Well probably because we're not territorial about our friendships. I still talk to these guys today, 30-40 years later. My wife lost some friends, but it was because she slowly started figuring out that not all her friends were great. Although she did gain all my friends in the transition. All my family and friends love her so much they'd choose her over me. And they are right to do so, she absolutely is the better half.
Wait.... I'm sorry, I lied. I did lose one friend. I had to cut off my ex-girlfriend because she wouldn't stop hitting on me in front of my wife (gf at the time). So much for that "men just run off to screw other women" generalization. Again, maybe ask yourself why men keep cheating on you specifically. Maybe they are not afraid of losing you? Because there is _nothing_ you can dangle in front of me that would cause me to risk losing my wife. *NOTHING*