I don't have Down syndrome, but this experience is also very relatable as an autistic person. Ending stereotypes and infantilization of disabled people is so important!
Absolutely, this message goes far beyond the Down syndrome community. People with disabilities contribute so much to their communities and deserve to be treated with respect!
My son Blake is 21 and has Down Syndrome. I shared this video with him and he started to cry. He just said sobbed and said, “Yes mom….yes. Thank you. She’s right, I can.” Then he proceeded to thank me for taking care of him and letting him live his life with no limits or assumptions. I have never limited him, underestimated him or told him he couldn’t do anything. I challenge him and he rises every time. He is my best friend and the most genuine human I know. This message is for the talented young woman that delivered this powerful message. Thank you! I thank you and my son Blake thanks you!
Thank you for sharing this beautiful response with us, and for showing Blake unconditional love and support. We're so glad you and your son found the message impactful!
Sending Hugs to you and Blake. He's already changed the world. Your comment elevated that. Blake is a trail blazer. He can do and be Whatever he wants! So glad you are by his side and He is By Yours!. Sending love from Hawaii!
@@CdnDownSyndrome Blake sounds high-functioning and capable. However there are many people with down syndrome who are less fortunate and so this video may be unrealistic
My daughter wants to try everything, so I let her. And she did, and the list is long. So yes, never assume they can't, they might just surprise you. Fantastic ad.
My son Andrew ( Down syndrome) died of covid in 2021! He was very outgoing and a people person. He would inspire people to goodness and brightness. Andrew was quite an adventure! Andrew was a friend to all! Even to the people that didn't like him or understand him! Thank you for this video!
I had a cousin with down syndrome too and she also passed away of covid in 2021. She was very bold yet always so sweet with everyone in the family. We miss her too so I relate a lot to your comment. ❤
You don't know what you don't know. This ad is brilliant. It points up the misconceptions of people assuming... I consider myself a very enlightened and knowledgeable person and even I learned something from this ad. AWESOME
This is so amazing, we are currently talking about down Syndrome and how society sees people that are affected, and I had to show my teacher this so we can watch it in class. Great message!
I showed this to my mom and she started crying. It’s so true and it really shows the importance of this topic. I never saw something as good as this. This spot is purely amazing.
If someone ever tells you you can't you say ok and do it better than they ever thought.. and you will. It's so great when people underestimate you. Never doubt yourself. You will show those fools....
I have a less common/known disability but I was given the stereotype and if not for one since person a teacher that told me I could I did I grew, I learned, faster, better, I got smarter than the stereotype all owed, I read, I go to dances, I go to shows, I go to the mall, I m independent all because one teacher saw me for who I am instead of my disability. I feel that I'm lucky that the worse is emotional and focal seizures compared to others struggled but I now look at everyone for who they are not what they look like what they're disability is so I love this video it really makes the statement meaningful and inspirational for those who have yet to try.
Thank you so much for sharing this experience with us! We're so glad your teacher saw you as an individual instead of a stereotype. It's amazing the kind of impact this simple shift in thinking can make.
@@verbalpics I believe she is stating that the inclusion efforts (which is why I wrote inclusion between quotation marks) are patronizing, such as giving her soda instead of a margarita. She wants to be integrated at par with others in a different way, a non-patronizing way. It's sad that you prefer to accuse me of having an "agenda" when it's beyond clear that that is not the case. Here, we are striving for equal rights, which should be an objective for everyone, it's a shame you prefer to attack others instead UPDATE: I can't believe that this person had the nerve to outright defamate me, accuse me of being against the inclusion of trisomic people (calling it my "agenda"), refuse to hear my reasoning and just decided to delete his comments and pretend it didn't happen. Unbelievable
@@FerreiMarques She's being excluded from drinking alcohol, reading Shakespeare, etc. When you ask for something, and someone says, "No, have this instead" that isn't inclusion of any type. It's also not patronizing. It's condescension. The woman in the commercial is asking to be included in the same stuff everyone else has access to. Just like so many other marginalized groups in the world. And somehow you turn that into inclusion in quotes, which is literally the opposite of what's happening. You came to these comments to push your narrative that including everyone is somehow a bad thing, and that's contrary to the message being shared.
@@verbalpics Everyone knows that isn't inclusion, which is why I wrote it in quotation marks, because that is obviously not real inclusion. Furthermore, there is a difference between being included, and integrated, people with DS want to be integrated. Look these two terms up. I can't believe you would see someone defending equal rights, and for two times accuse that person of having agendas or narratives, relying on minor technicalities to prove your point. If that is your way of supporting equality that's shameful.
I don't have Down Syndrome, I saw this ad in during one of my classes, and it is truly motivational to people with disabilities to break down stereotypes :)
This video gives me such hope for my son ❤ I shared it with all my friends He's 11 months old and has been in speech, PT, and OT since 1 1/2 months He still has no delays ❤ The therapists are miracle workers and believe in his potential ❤ It's a ton of work to keep up with all that therapy, but its worth it because it's for my favorite person in the whole wide world 🥰
Exactly what I mean. They are fine to work with. I don't think that anyone who actually knows them would think anything different - which makes me wonder whether there is a hidden message here.
Our son has Down syndrome, but he is nowhere near as capable as some of these very capable individuals with Down syndrome. I understand and it sounds nice to just”assume I can” this resulted in way too much pressure for my son to perform at that level. He has constantly been challenged to do more and behave more like individuals without Down syndrome. Unfortunately, he stopped going to school because of this pressure. Therefore, assuming that all individuals with Down syndrome can achieve such feats could result in a form of Down syndrome Ableism.
So sorry to hear that your son experienced that. Every person with Down syndrome has different abilities, and it's important to provide challenges and opportunities based on their individual needs and goals rather than a one-size-fits-all solution.
Good on this girl however this advertisement fails to include the many people born with Down Syndrome who are non verbal or have limited communication, and who live with one of the many life limiting comorbidities associated with this syndrome.
Given the point of this ad, I do think it would be cool to see that as well; I could see a version of this sort of thing existing where someone like who you describe does all these things as well. (Well... I'm less familiar with the drinking angle since I don't drink AND I work with high school students (so encouraging them to drink wouldn't be great ethically purely from an age standpoint), but I know at work we encourage all our students (speaking/nonspeaking, Down syndrome/not DS, etc.) to aspire for the life they want, including thinking about where they might like to live if they move out, to give their all in sports, and to learn the same books the rest of their English classes are learning.) Of course, this doesn't mean they do it without supports, and sometimes they don't do some of it at all (i.e. we assume college isn't off-limits for our students, but that doesn't mean they all go to college--some attend transition programs partnered with colleges, some don't even do that, some use picture-supported/Easy Read versions of the books their English classes are reading, etc.), but that's kind of the point. Assume they can, and *maybe* they will (but, like, they haven't failed as humans or something if they don't). Presuming competence is setting the bar in the hopes of achievement but also meeting someone where they're at and providing appropriate support if things prove challenging. Showing a diverse picture of people with different limits and skillsets in this would, in my opinion, show that presuming competence is for *everyone* and not just a certain picture of a specific kind of person (because I have seen people on other sites comment on this ad in ways that imply they don't extend the same presumption of competence to people who they can't rationalize as closer to their perception of "normal").
This add has been reviving a lot of praise that I don’t understand. This adds main point is not to make assumptions about people but it just doesn’t make sense in the context of this add. Like if u want to have a margarita and ur above the legal age all u need is an id. If u sign up to a gym and a trainer/coach then they will work with u and make u better, and if ur in a class that teaches Shakespeare than they should be teaching u it unless they taught the whole class and not you somehow. In conclusion this add just doesn’t work with what it’s trying to present
Unfortunately, although this should be true, people with Down syndrome regularly face negative assumptions in these situations. Adults of legal drinking age are not given a drink because they are infantilized and coaches and teachers frequently assume people with Down syndrome are less capable and alter their curriculum to make it easy rather than finding ways to challenge their student.
It is not compassionate to deny that some people live with mental and physical disabilities and are simply not capable of making decisions for themselves, entering into agreements - like consensual sex - or taking care of themselves or other people. It is delusional and evil actually
The problem is that people tend to think everyone with Down syndrome is the same (incapable) way even tho Down syndrome exists in a spectrum like autism. Many of them are pretty capable of a lot more things than we give them credit for. But I see your point.
@@Luisa-gx1vp The problem is people like you are too dense to recognize obvious conditioning with these ads. Normalizing sexual activity and alcohol consumption for mentally retarded people is perverse and evil. But I suppose for you it's all about emotions and feelings.
I love this ad, it’s sad how many children with mental disabilities are written off as being less capable than they are because the adults in their lives and their peers don’t push them to challenge themselves While it may true that not everyone with Down syndrome can do all of these things, at least push them to try and show you what they can do
Absolutely, every person with Down syndrome has different abilities but everyone deserves the opportunity to challenge themselves and try new things, whatever that looks like for them.
That's wonderful to hear! Medical professionals are an important part of many families' journeys and how a diagnosis of Down syndrome is delivered can have a lasting impact.
They should be allowed to do everything as much as possible. The problem is that society infantilizes people with intellectual disabilities and believes that they will be eternal children. I heard from women with down syndrome that many others find it absurd for them to act like adults, wear makeup, sexy clothes, high heels
I don’t know. Promoting noncommittal fornication is wrong and shouldn’t be conflated with positive information especially when they include alcohol and partying into the mix. Seems kinda weird to include and low key predatory frfr
@@nichepaper The point is disabled adults are adult and do adult things. But since we live in a society that infantilizes disabled people. people tend to get grossed out by the idea of disabled people having sex or drinking either that or they assume that we were groomed into doing it because according to ableists we cannot possibly make our own decision.
For what it's worth, the version of this on CoorDown's channel has non-autocaption captions in a handful of languages. No Spanish, but if your acquaintance can use auto-translation, using a non-autocaption file to do auto-translation might result in a more accurate translation than the autocaptions would for the same thing.
I am representing our son in a special education due process hearing next Friday. The core issues stem from assumptions that so-called professional educators make everyday, and then fight like hell to defend. I'm simply going to show the video as my opening statement. I couldn't come anywhere close to articulating as well as this video does why knucklehead educators should #AssumeThatICan. PS. I thought I'd note that my intent to use this video as my opening statement is for real. The court reporter for the hearing will have a Zoom session open for witnesses that will participate remotely. I'm reaching out to the school district to make sure the court reporter will be ready to access this video when I begin my presentation. #AssumeThatIWill ✊
Are educators supposed to be encouraging their students regardless of whether they have Down Syndrome or not, to think of drinking alcohol as something to aspire to?
@@Smithpolly That's why I'm going to due process: to argue that the school isn't teaching my son to drink alcohol enough. LOL But, seriously, our son is in a non-profit school that refuses to teach him to read, write, and do arithmetic. Let me just say that the debate has been lively for four years and has included a vice president of the human services organization that runs the school. Some of their rationale could've been the basis of the script for this video, including emails in which educators propose that "WHEN he fails, ..." - not even having TRIED to teach him anything in the areas where they ASSUME our son will not succeed. And guess what? As he approaches sixteen, he can't read, write, or do arithmetic to save his life. His IEP literally has "day hab" as a future vocation. They'll probably tell us "told you so" when he exits the system. Why don't YOU answer your own question: is this circumstance something to aspire to? I think we've been more than patient. But enough is enough. #AssumeThatICan.
@@Smithpolly It's about *choice* . And yes. Going to clubs and having a beer with colleagues or friends IS something "normal". Why should he NOT want to do that when old enough?! Why would anyone say it *shouldn't* be something to look forward to when growing up?! Questions like this are exactly the problem. The alcohol portion IS valid because SO many people infantilise people with conditions like this.
@@noctoi To a lot of people, taking cocaine with their friends is normal. Should educators be teaching their students that they're not real adults unless they take cocaine?
I believe this commonly occurring situation can best be described by the pygmalion effect, wherein others’ expectations shape one’s performance. If we never believe that neurodivergent individuals can perform a specific task at a high level, then we never put in the effort or resources (that are usually given to other people) to allow those individuals to accomplish those goals, thus proving our original assumption. On the other hand, if we believe in one’s ability to accomplish specific tasks, we will put in the time, energy, resources, etc. that will allow that individual to meet those expectations. It’s all about the way we think, and in turn, how we treat neurodivergent or other handicapped individuals. Their differences do not define their intelligence, ability, or worth. Society has often belittled or ignored this group of people, segregating them from taking part in the activities that we do. But they are people too, equally so, and we as a society should allow them to be part of that. Well that’s a long way of translating the message of the video. Extremely well-made.
Hey, would it be possible for you to create captions? It would improve the automatic translation so my mom could understand (she doesn't speak English). I love the video, has an amazing strong message!
@@CdnDownSyndrome yes, of course, however those subtitles are auto generated from the sound, and have couple of mistakes that just get mistranslated badly - in my case into Polish. But it's okay, we managed, mom understood the general message of the video. Thank you for creating it!
I have always disliked how people take a look at someone and just decide they know all about a person based on physical appearance and their own preconceptions about how every person with Downs will think and act. But just like anyone else...there is a huge range in functioning, various strengths and abilities that are particular to each person. Never look at a person and just decide you know what they can comprehend.
This video is not saying that people with Down syndrome are not disabled, just that people with disabilities may be capable of more than some people assume. Each person with Down syndrome has different abilities and challenges, and not all will be able to do all of the things in this video, but everyone deserves the opportunity to try new things and be part of making decisions about their life.
How can you so purposefully miss the point dude? Where does it say they ain’t disabled? Nowhere. It just says that a lot of people assume they can’t do anything because they’re disabled even tho Down syndrome exists in a spectrum like autism. Some of them wouldn’t survive on their own while some can live alone with just a little support. They’re disabled but they still deserve to live a fulfilling life without everyone always underestimating their abilities.
"If you assume blind people cannot see, they will not see. If you assume crippled people cannot walk, they will not walk." Very inspirational indeed, and completely moronic actually.
You do know that many disabled people can and do work right? Also, some blind people can see a little bit. Maybe you should start actually getting to know some disabled people before you make these kinds of assumptions about us.
I don’t think it’s fair to assume that someone with down syndrome can live the same life as the average person. The fact of the matter is they are vulnerable. They need to be protected from people whose intentions are not good. I don’t think encouraging them to drink alcohol and have sex is very wise.
It might be right at some points. The fact is that most people don't allow someone with Down syndrome to drink or do something "dangerous", not even encourage them. But someone with Down syndrome has the right and ability to do much more than the public can imagine. We do not encourage them to do something "dangerous", but we do encourage them to make their own decisions.
This ad is incredible. It’s a simple and powerful message, given by a powerful young woman, awesome job. It’s also just incredibly well made from a purely creative viewpoint. How has this got 30k views, this should be viral. It’s more than just an ad it’s a film, a film the world needs to see.
FV@K YES! Let's break this destructive habit of judging everything around us. ESPECIALLY people. If you actually listen to people and let THEM show you who they are. THEN F-ing believe them. This is the only way to heal the polarizing world we live in. ACCEPTANCE is NOT weakness. Support doesn't mean taking away someone's autonomy.
Absolutely, we can support people with Down syndrome by empowering them to make their own decisions and ensuring they have the information and support they need to do so.
For all those saying they relate as they autistic etc... imagine... if we had a pre natal DNA test for Autism! Imagine! At the moment only 2 to 5 babies born with DS here in Adelaide a year. 200 to 500 aborted. I'm not pro life. But education for everyone around disability is so important. My grandson is 16. He lives with DS. And he lives really well.
I know this is suppose to be inspirational but if shes meant to be learning Shakespeare she wouldn't be able to drink a Margarita or live on her own legally right?
Meanwhile my uncle has a 39 year old son who has DS, still lives at home, his parents who have cancer and arthritis still has to drive him around, wipe him after going to bathroom and clean up urine when he wets himself in public... 🥴🤮
@@sparkly21 We looked into it, its very expensive, his parents made a application to a disability organization that covers some of the expenses, but since they have limited funding, they are waiting. Without funding, caretakers charge $40+/hour here. Most of us can barely afford our normal bills and my uncle is nearly broke from his cancer bills....
Every individual with Down syndrome is different and will need different kinds of support. We're so sorry to hear that your family is struggling and that they haven't been able to access the support they need.
@@CdnDownSyndrome Absolutely. I understand that every person who has DS has different abilities and challenges. Some people with DS are independent, can use bathroom and work, where as others are like my nephew. I think my nephews issues stem from his childhood, when he was young, his parents were in denial about him having DS and didn't provide support and simply ignored it. Therefore he didn't have any guidance to take care of himself and with behavioral issues.
Assume that I can be an Elvis Tribute Artist. So I'll be an Elvis Tribute Artist. Assume that I can drive, so you'll teach me to drive. Assume that I can have a full time job. So I'll have a full time job. This applies to everyone with a disability
I don't have Down syndrome, but this experience is also very relatable as an autistic person. Ending stereotypes and infantilization of disabled people is so important!
Absolutely, this message goes far beyond the Down syndrome community. People with disabilities contribute so much to their communities and deserve to be treated with respect!
Same bruv
Same
That's why we have to stick together!
Thank you
My son Blake is 21 and has Down Syndrome. I shared this video with him and he started to cry. He just said sobbed and said, “Yes mom….yes. Thank you. She’s right, I can.” Then he proceeded to thank me for taking care of him and letting him live his life with no limits or assumptions. I have never limited him, underestimated him or told him he couldn’t do anything. I challenge him and he rises every time. He is my best friend and the most genuine human I know.
This message is for the talented young woman that delivered this powerful message. Thank you! I thank you and my son Blake thanks you!
Awww❤
Thank you for sharing this beautiful response with us, and for showing Blake unconditional love and support. We're so glad you and your son found the message impactful!
You are beautiful and tell your son every time they tell him he can't he just needs to ride over them. Hugs!
Sending Hugs to you and Blake.
He's already changed the world. Your comment elevated that.
Blake is a trail blazer. He can do and be Whatever he wants!
So glad you are by his side and He is By Yours!.
Sending love from Hawaii!
@@CdnDownSyndrome Blake sounds high-functioning and capable. However there are many people with down syndrome who are less fortunate and so this video may be unrealistic
This is incredible; what a brilliant ad!
Thank you so much!
My daughter wants to try everything, so I let her. And she did, and the list is long. So yes, never assume they can't, they might just surprise you. Fantastic ad.
We couldn't agree more!
has down syndrome?, Is there any Confirmatory test?
My son Andrew ( Down syndrome) died of covid in 2021! He was very outgoing and a people person. He would inspire people to goodness and brightness. Andrew was quite an adventure! Andrew was a friend to all! Even to the people that didn't like him or understand him! Thank you for this video!
Thank you for sharing these memories of your son, we're so sorry for your loss.
I had a cousin with down syndrome too and she also passed away of covid in 2021. She was very bold yet always so sweet with everyone in the family. We miss her too so I relate a lot to your comment. ❤
Sending love to you, your family and Andrew above!
sorry to hear he passed away.. did he get the covid jab
@@Shasha_120 sorry to hear as well.. did she get the covid jab?
I have goose bumps!! A powerful young woman with a powerful message.
So glad you found it impactful!
You don't know what you don't know. This ad is brilliant. It points up the misconceptions of people assuming... I consider myself a very enlightened and knowledgeable person and even I learned something from this ad. AWESOME
We're so glad you found it informative!
I love this so much as a dad with a little girl with a disability I always say my girl will do all this just like her sisters
Fantastic, the future is bright for your daughter!
There is a young woman with down syndrome in my workplace, she is such a sweet heart. Always brightens my day.
Wonderful, thank you for sharing!
The girl on this video is an amazing example of what CAN be! Acceptance is beautiful. & she is awesome! ❤
We couldn't agree more! Madison is so talented and did a wonderful job embodying this important message.
This is wonderful!! There should be more commercials like this.
Thanks for your support!
@@CdnDownSyndrome this is absolutely world changing. . Thank you !
This is so amazing, we are currently talking about down Syndrome and how society sees people that are affected, and I had to show my teacher this so we can watch it in class. Great message!
Thank you for your support and Happy World Down Syndrome Day!
I showed this to my mom and she started crying. It’s so true and it really shows the importance of this topic. I never saw something as good as this. This spot is purely amazing.
Thank you so much for your support!
Yes I am Down syndrome and I Shakespeare as well
I keep coming back to watch this again! It really is a masterpiece! 👍
So glad you found it impactful!
An *AMAZING* ad all the way from the idea to storyboard to pre and production to execution! Hands down to you folks working on this. Be proud!
Thank you so much for your support!
I have down syndrome and this really speaks to me
We're grateful that you're part of our community, Happy World Down Syndrome Day!
If someone ever tells you you can't you say ok and do it better than they ever thought.. and you will. It's so great when people underestimate you.
Never doubt yourself.
You will show those fools....
One of the best spots ever made. Thank you for this.
thanks for your support!
A terrific eye-opener! Thank you so much!
Glad you found it impactful!
I have a less common/known disability but I was given the stereotype and if not for one since person a teacher that told me I could I did I grew, I learned, faster, better, I got smarter than the stereotype all owed, I read, I go to dances, I go to shows, I go to the mall, I m independent all because one teacher saw me for who I am instead of my disability. I feel that I'm lucky that the worse is emotional and focal seizures compared to others struggled but I now look at everyone for who they are not what they look like what they're disability is so I love this video it really makes the statement meaningful and inspirational for those who have yet to try.
Thank you so much for sharing this experience with us! We're so glad your teacher saw you as an individual instead of a stereotype. It's amazing the kind of impact this simple shift in thinking can make.
Round of applause for this ad! It freaking rocks! More power to you!
Thank you for your support!
This video reaches far beyond. Our assumptions of ourselves and others and the collective dream we are living is a self fulfilling prophecy.
Thank you for your support!
Im crying at 6:40am , out of sadness and happiness, this was a great message to hear and spread! Thank you ❤
So glad you found it impactful!
Merry Christmas, Madison and you guys!
thanks for everyone who made this video, y'all deserve it
Thank you so much for these warm wishes, hope you had a wonderful holiday season!
The fact my teacher showed this to my class today and we are only grade 4 😅
Get off youtube then😅
bro is 9 years old
good. important to learn when you are young!!
Fabulous! Madison Tevlin is the perfect star for this!
Agreed, Madison is so talented and embodied this message brilliantly.
Amazing! We need more of this and much less patronizing "inclusion"
She's literally asking to be included. Take your agenda elsewhere.
Thank you for your support! Everyone deserves the opportunity to challenge themselves and try new things.
@@verbalpics I believe she is stating that the inclusion efforts (which is why I wrote inclusion between quotation marks) are patronizing, such as giving her soda instead of a margarita. She wants to be integrated at par with others in a different way, a non-patronizing way.
It's sad that you prefer to accuse me of having an "agenda" when it's beyond clear that that is not the case. Here, we are striving for equal rights, which should be an objective for everyone, it's a shame you prefer to attack others instead
UPDATE: I can't believe that this person had the nerve to outright defamate me, accuse me of being against the inclusion of trisomic people (calling it my "agenda"), refuse to hear my reasoning and just decided to delete his comments and pretend it didn't happen. Unbelievable
@@FerreiMarques She's being excluded from drinking alcohol, reading Shakespeare, etc. When you ask for something, and someone says, "No, have this instead" that isn't inclusion of any type. It's also not patronizing. It's condescension. The woman in the commercial is asking to be included in the same stuff everyone else has access to. Just like so many other marginalized groups in the world. And somehow you turn that into inclusion in quotes, which is literally the opposite of what's happening. You came to these comments to push your narrative that including everyone is somehow a bad thing, and that's contrary to the message being shared.
@@verbalpics Everyone knows that isn't inclusion, which is why I wrote it in quotation marks, because that is obviously not real inclusion.
Furthermore, there is a difference between being included, and integrated, people with DS want to be integrated. Look these two terms up.
I can't believe you would see someone defending equal rights, and for two times accuse that person of having agendas or narratives, relying on minor technicalities to prove your point. If that is your way of supporting equality that's shameful.
This spot is f'n amazing. Kudos to whomever developed it and more importantly, for the impact it will deservedly have.
Thank you for your support and Happy World Down Syndrome Day!
" So I fcnk learned Shakespeare!"
Powerful!
Thank you - we felt it was important to convey this message in a bold way that shows people with Down syndrome are adults.
I don't have Down Syndrome, I saw this ad in during one of my classes, and it is truly motivational to people with disabilities to break down stereotypes :)
Thank you for your support!
This video gives me such hope for my son ❤ I shared it with all my friends
He's 11 months old and has been in speech, PT, and OT since 1 1/2 months
He still has no delays ❤
The therapists are miracle workers and believe in his potential ❤
It's a ton of work to keep up with all that therapy, but its worth it because it's for my favorite person in the whole wide world 🥰
It sounds like your son is doing amazing, we're grateful that you're part of our community.
I’m not gonna lie I love this commercial but when she swears I was shocked 😂😂
Thanks for your support! We felt it was important to deliver this message in a bold, impactful way that depicts people with Down syndrome as adults.
@@CdnDownSyndrome I understand and I really love what yall did.
I have a 2 year old son with a down syndrome and yes of being his mom I worry about his future I'm so happy I seen this a video 🙏🏼
So glad you found this message impactful!
I have worked with people with Down syndrome for the last 15 years of my professional life. The best 15 professional years I've ever had.
Wonderful, thank you for sharing!
Exactly what I mean. They are fine to work with. I don't think that anyone who actually knows them would think anything different - which makes me wonder whether there is a hidden message here.
Our son has Down syndrome, but he is nowhere near as capable as some of these very capable individuals with Down syndrome. I understand and it sounds nice to just”assume I can” this resulted in way too much pressure for my son to perform at that level. He has constantly been challenged to do more and behave more like individuals without Down syndrome. Unfortunately, he stopped going to school because of this pressure. Therefore, assuming that all individuals with Down syndrome can achieve such feats could result in a form of Down syndrome Ableism.
So sorry to hear that your son experienced that. Every person with Down syndrome has different abilities, and it's important to provide challenges and opportunities based on their individual needs and goals rather than a one-size-fits-all solution.
@@CdnDownSyndromeI assume you can communicate something to that effect in your next viral advertisement!
This is really good. Thank you for making it!
Glad you found it impactful!
Good on this girl however this advertisement fails to include the many people born with Down Syndrome who are non verbal or have limited communication, and who live with one of the many life limiting comorbidities associated with this syndrome.
Given the point of this ad, I do think it would be cool to see that as well; I could see a version of this sort of thing existing where someone like who you describe does all these things as well. (Well... I'm less familiar with the drinking angle since I don't drink AND I work with high school students (so encouraging them to drink wouldn't be great ethically purely from an age standpoint), but I know at work we encourage all our students (speaking/nonspeaking, Down syndrome/not DS, etc.) to aspire for the life they want, including thinking about where they might like to live if they move out, to give their all in sports, and to learn the same books the rest of their English classes are learning.)
Of course, this doesn't mean they do it without supports, and sometimes they don't do some of it at all (i.e. we assume college isn't off-limits for our students, but that doesn't mean they all go to college--some attend transition programs partnered with colleges, some don't even do that, some use picture-supported/Easy Read versions of the books their English classes are reading, etc.), but that's kind of the point. Assume they can, and *maybe* they will (but, like, they haven't failed as humans or something if they don't). Presuming competence is setting the bar in the hopes of achievement but also meeting someone where they're at and providing appropriate support if things prove challenging.
Showing a diverse picture of people with different limits and skillsets in this would, in my opinion, show that presuming competence is for *everyone* and not just a certain picture of a specific kind of person (because I have seen people on other sites comment on this ad in ways that imply they don't extend the same presumption of competence to people who they can't rationalize as closer to their perception of "normal").
Great reply @citrusella, thank you for doing what you do for your students 🙏
This is just one of many ads.
This add has been reviving a lot of praise that I don’t understand. This adds main point is not to make assumptions about people but it just doesn’t make sense in the context of this add. Like if u want to have a margarita and ur above the legal age all u need is an id. If u sign up to a gym and a trainer/coach then they will work with u and make u better, and if ur in a class that teaches Shakespeare than they should be teaching u it unless they taught the whole class and not you somehow. In conclusion this add just doesn’t work with what it’s trying to present
Unfortunately, although this should be true, people with Down syndrome regularly face negative assumptions in these situations. Adults of legal drinking age are not given a drink because they are infantilized and coaches and teachers frequently assume people with Down syndrome are less capable and alter their curriculum to make it easy rather than finding ways to challenge their student.
Fantastic ad! You go girl.....and all your buddies too.....kick ass!
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Breathtaking. LOVE IT!
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Damn instagram comment are hella different I came the comments with a grin on my face only for it to slowly fade away.
Cuz this shit is corny
@@sauce903no shit, this is an ad.
It is not compassionate to deny that some people live with mental and physical disabilities and are simply not capable of making decisions for themselves, entering into agreements - like consensual sex - or taking care of themselves or other people. It is delusional and evil actually
The problem is that people tend to think everyone with Down syndrome is the same (incapable) way even tho Down syndrome exists in a spectrum like autism. Many of them are pretty capable of a lot more things than we give them credit for. But I see your point.
@@Luisa-gx1vp The problem is people like you are too dense to recognize obvious conditioning with these ads. Normalizing sexual activity and alcohol consumption for mentally retarded people is perverse and evil. But I suppose for you it's all about emotions and feelings.
I love this ad, it’s sad how many children with mental disabilities are written off as being less capable than they are because the adults in their lives and their peers don’t push them to challenge themselves
While it may true that not everyone with Down syndrome can do all of these things, at least push them to try and show you what they can do
Absolutely, every person with Down syndrome has different abilities but everyone deserves the opportunity to challenge themselves and try new things, whatever that looks like for them.
Absolutely! Every individual deserves the opportunity to reach their full potential. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
Legit brings a tear to my eye! This is beautiful and empowering. Such a profound message to spread, share and inform others on.
Thanks so much for your kind words!
This video was just played at our medical school ! what a well created video. good job
That's wonderful to hear! Medical professionals are an important part of many families' journeys and how a diagnosis of Down syndrome is delivered can have a lasting impact.
They should be allowed to do everything as much as possible. The problem is that society infantilizes people with intellectual disabilities and believes that they will be eternal children. I heard from women with down syndrome that many others find it absurd for them to act like adults, wear makeup, sexy clothes, high heels
Absolutely! Adults with Down syndrome are adults and deserve to be treated with respect.
I don’t know. Promoting noncommittal fornication is wrong and shouldn’t be conflated with positive information especially when they include alcohol and partying into the mix. Seems kinda weird to include and low key predatory frfr
@@nichepaper The point is disabled adults are adult and do adult things. But since we live in a society that infantilizes disabled people. people tend to get grossed out by the idea of disabled people having sex or drinking either that or they assume that we were groomed into doing it because according to ableists we cannot possibly make our own decision.
that girl on the ad was a savage!
"you assume that i can learn Shakespeare, so i learn *FUCKING* Shakespeare"
Thank you for your support! Madison Tevlin is so talented and delivered this message in such a powerful way.
Nah she's just corny
Brilliant. Well done. Thank you!
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I wish this had subtitles in Spanish so I could send it to my acquaintances
Assume it has:
Switch on subtitles.
Set it to auto translate.
Open configuration and set it to Spanish.
For what it's worth, the version of this on CoorDown's channel has non-autocaption captions in a handful of languages. No Spanish, but if your acquaintance can use auto-translation, using a non-autocaption file to do auto-translation might result in a more accurate translation than the autocaptions would for the same thing.
I hadn’t thought about that, thank you both so much!!
I love this so much :) it gave me goosebumps. So powerful and so true !
Thank you so much for your support!
This was awesome! I learned something new that's worth knowing.
So glad you found it impactful.
I am representing our son in a special education due process hearing next Friday. The core issues stem from assumptions that so-called professional educators make everyday, and then fight like hell to defend. I'm simply going to show the video as my opening statement. I couldn't come anywhere close to articulating as well as this video does why knucklehead educators should #AssumeThatICan.
PS. I thought I'd note that my intent to use this video as my opening statement is for real. The court reporter for the hearing will have a Zoom session open for witnesses that will participate remotely. I'm reaching out to the school district to make sure the court reporter will be ready to access this video when I begin my presentation. #AssumeThatIWill ✊
Are educators supposed to be encouraging their students regardless of whether they have Down Syndrome or not, to think of drinking alcohol as something to aspire to?
@@Smithpolly That's why I'm going to due process: to argue that the school isn't teaching my son to drink alcohol enough. LOL
But, seriously, our son is in a non-profit school that refuses to teach him to read, write, and do arithmetic. Let me just say that the debate has been lively for four years and has included a vice president of the human services organization that runs the school. Some of their rationale could've been the basis of the script for this video, including emails in which educators propose that "WHEN he fails, ..." - not even having TRIED to teach him anything in the areas where they ASSUME our son will not succeed.
And guess what? As he approaches sixteen, he can't read, write, or do arithmetic to save his life. His IEP literally has "day hab" as a future vocation. They'll probably tell us "told you so" when he exits the system. Why don't YOU answer your own question: is this circumstance something to aspire to?
I think we've been more than patient. But enough is enough. #AssumeThatICan.
@@michaelcarpenter6262 Then I'd suggest editing the video to leave out the part that looks like an ad from the alcohol industry.
@@Smithpolly It's about *choice* . And yes. Going to clubs and having a beer with colleagues or friends IS something "normal". Why should he NOT want to do that when old enough?! Why would anyone say it *shouldn't* be something to look forward to when growing up?! Questions like this are exactly the problem. The alcohol portion IS valid because SO many people infantilise people with conditions like this.
@@noctoi To a lot of people, taking cocaine with their friends is normal. Should educators be teaching their students that they're not real adults unless they take cocaine?
Amazing, amazing campaign. Down Syndrome folks are infantilized constantly, it must feel exhausting and demoralizing. The community deserves better.
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I believe this commonly occurring situation can best be described by the pygmalion effect, wherein others’ expectations shape one’s performance.
If we never believe that neurodivergent individuals can perform a specific task at a high level, then we never put in the effort or resources (that are usually given to other people) to allow those individuals to accomplish those goals, thus proving our original assumption.
On the other hand, if we believe in one’s ability to accomplish specific tasks, we will put in the time, energy, resources, etc. that will allow that individual to meet those expectations.
It’s all about the way we think, and in turn, how we treat neurodivergent or other handicapped individuals. Their differences do not define their intelligence, ability, or worth. Society has often belittled or ignored this group of people, segregating them from taking part in the activities that we do. But they are people too, equally so, and we as a society should allow them to be part of that.
Well that’s a long way of translating the message of the video. Extremely well-made.
You're absolutely correct! Thank you for summing this up so well.
Thank you for sharing your insightful interpretation! I'm glad the message of the video resonated with you.
Hey, would it be possible for you to create captions? It would improve the automatic translation so my mom could understand (she doesn't speak English). I love the video, has an amazing strong message!
Hello! You should be able to turn on closed captions by clicking the CC icon.
@@CdnDownSyndrome yes, of course, however those subtitles are auto generated from the sound, and have couple of mistakes that just get mistranslated badly - in my case into Polish. But it's okay, we managed, mom understood the general message of the video. Thank you for creating it!
@@2727daqwid thank you for this feedback!
😢this make me emotional ..
Any organization or foundation to support my down syndrome child specialy education ....
Where are you located? You could try contacting Down Syndrome International, they may know of organizations near you.
a important tool for spreading understanding the other point of view
Thank you for your support!
I have always disliked how people take a look at someone and just decide they know all about a person based on physical appearance and their own preconceptions about how every person with Downs will think and act. But just like anyone else...there is a huge range in functioning, various strengths and abilities that are particular to each person.
Never look at a person and just decide you know what they can comprehend.
We couldn't agree more! You should never make assumptions about a person before you take the time to get to know them.
Genius video!
She's got a point
Glad you found this video impactful!
Hell nah
This ad is amazing!
Thank you so much!
Bravo 🎉❤
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Bonjour, est - ce qu'il existe une version en français ?
Je ne pense pas
this queen
Thanks for your support!
Fire!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Thanks for watching!
If disabled people are in fact not disabled, does this mean all laws & programs granting disabled people special consideration can be repealed?
This video is not saying that people with Down syndrome are not disabled, just that people with disabilities may be capable of more than some people assume. Each person with Down syndrome has different abilities and challenges, and not all will be able to do all of the things in this video, but everyone deserves the opportunity to try new things and be part of making decisions about their life.
How can you so purposefully miss the point dude? Where does it say they ain’t disabled? Nowhere. It just says that a lot of people assume they can’t do anything because they’re disabled even tho Down syndrome exists in a spectrum like autism. Some of them wouldn’t survive on their own while some can live alone with just a little support. They’re disabled but they still deserve to live a fulfilling life without everyone always underestimating their abilities.
"If you assume blind people cannot see, they will not see. If you assume crippled people cannot walk, they will not walk." Very inspirational indeed, and completely moronic actually.
You do know that many disabled people can and do work right? Also, some blind people can see a little bit. Maybe you should start actually getting to know some disabled people before you make these kinds of assumptions about us.
She ATE
Madison gave a brilliant performance in this campaign as always!
I love her omg
We are big fans of Madison Tevlin and all of her work, both as an actress and an advocate!
I don’t think it’s fair to assume that someone with down syndrome can live the same life as the average person. The fact of the matter is they are vulnerable. They need to be protected from people whose intentions are not good. I don’t think encouraging them to drink alcohol and have sex is very wise.
It might be right at some points. The fact is that most people don't allow someone with Down syndrome to drink or do something "dangerous", not even encourage them. But someone with Down syndrome has the right and ability to do much more than the public can imagine. We do not encourage them to do something "dangerous", but we do encourage them to make their own decisions.
It's important to ensure that people with Down syndrome get the information and any support they need to make choices and their own decisions.
@@CdnDownSyndromeyou didn’t address the comment
“I’m gonna protect you by never letting you do anything and treating you like a child” is control, not protection.
"I understand your concerns. The intention of the ad is to promote inclusivity and challenge stereotypes, but I appreciate your perspective."
this is powerful.
Thank you so much!
This ad is incredible. It’s a simple and powerful message, given by a powerful young woman, awesome job.
It’s also just incredibly well made from a purely creative viewpoint. How has this got 30k views, this should be viral. It’s more than just an ad it’s a film, a film the world needs to see.
Thank you so much for your support!
she ate that tf up!!!
This will be iconic history
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Kickass
Thank you for your support and Happy World Down Syndrome Day!
FV@K YES! Let's break this destructive habit of judging everything around us. ESPECIALLY people. If you actually listen to people and let THEM show you who they are. THEN F-ing believe them. This is the only way to heal the polarizing world we live in. ACCEPTANCE is NOT weakness. Support doesn't mean taking away someone's autonomy.
Absolutely, we can support people with Down syndrome by empowering them to make their own decisions and ensuring they have the information and support they need to do so.
This shit hyped me the fuck up!
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Is there a version with spanish sub?
You can try switching on subtitles and setting it to auto translate.
@@CdnDownSyndrome thank you. I've asked bc I wanted to send it to my auntie ☺️ but I'll tell her. TY
🎉👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💜💜💜💜 YES!
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How to confirm that a baby has down syndrome?, Is there any Confirmatory test?
Yes, please talk to your doctor about confirming a diagnosis of Down syndrome.
This is so powerful! ❤
Thank you for your support!
I have watched this so many time and love it more each single time!
Thank you so much for your support!
what a masterpiece of a video.
Thank you so much!
"Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Your support means a lot to me!"
This shit was ass
For all those saying they relate as they autistic etc... imagine... if we had a pre natal DNA test for Autism! Imagine! At the moment only 2 to 5 babies born with DS here in Adelaide a year. 200 to 500 aborted. I'm not pro life. But education for everyone around disability is so important. My grandson is 16. He lives with DS. And he lives really well.
I know this is suppose to be inspirational but if shes meant to be learning Shakespeare she wouldn't be able to drink a Margarita or live on her own legally right?
did you just assume this all happens at the same time frame?
@@Astronenotyes I did
STRONG!
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Love love love this video! What is the main actress’s name? I recognize her and want to look her up but can’t find where she was credited.
I think it's Madison Tevlin!
@@zoegaudry137 thank you! 🙏🏻
@@gentledragons6170 Yes Madison Tevlin stars in this video, she was in Champions with Woody Harrelson.
Boom…my second favourite campaign…just behind congratu-f@cking-lations…I hope many people see this!! Great work
Agreed
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what is congratu-f@cking-lations? I have googled it but can't find, I am interested to see it
Co ask @@85inchtelevision
@@85inchtelevision our campaign called "Anything But Sorry" which gives advice on what to say when a baby with Down syndrome is born.
What’s the actors name please?
Hello, it's Madison Tevlin! She is very talented and also performs in the movie Champions with Woody Harrelson.
Yeah, Gotta say Your Photogenic!
Amazing
Thank you for your support!
Powerful stuff!
Glad you found it impactful!
So powerful
Thanks for your support!
Meanwhile my uncle has a 39 year old son who has DS, still lives at home, his parents who have cancer and arthritis still has to drive him around, wipe him after going to bathroom and clean up urine when he wets himself in public... 🥴🤮
Why doesn’t your family hire a caretaker for your 39 year old cousin with DS to take care of him so they don’t have to do it?
@@sparkly21 We looked into it, its very expensive, his parents made a application to a disability organization that covers some of the expenses, but since they have limited funding, they are waiting. Without funding, caretakers charge $40+/hour here. Most of us can barely afford our normal bills and my uncle is nearly broke from his cancer bills....
Every individual with Down syndrome is different and will need different kinds of support. We're so sorry to hear that your family is struggling and that they haven't been able to access the support they need.
@@CdnDownSyndrome Absolutely. I understand that every person who has DS has different abilities and challenges. Some people with DS are independent, can use bathroom and work, where as others are like my nephew. I think my nephews issues stem from his childhood, when he was young, his parents were in denial about him having DS and didn't provide support and simply ignored it. Therefore he didn't have any guidance to take care of himself and with behavioral issues.
Why are you shaming your cousin on RUclips rather than helping out?
I love this ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks for watching!
Great ad, didnt need the swear word however
Peanut Butter Falcon vibes. 🤙
Assume that I can be an Elvis Tribute Artist. So I'll be an Elvis Tribute Artist.
Assume that I can drive, so you'll teach me to drive.
Assume that I can have a full time job. So I'll have a full time job.
This applies to everyone with a disability
Not everyone with a visible disability gets treated well, and it's not like you can hide it.
This makes me emotional. No words to express how good this is 🙌
Glad you found it impactful!
This is badass! ✊👍
Thank you for your support!
I love this
Thanks for your support!