THERAPIST REACTS: Dixie/Charli D'amelio anxiety attack on The D'Amelio Show | The Truth Doctor
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2021
- Charli and Dixie D'Amelio are best known for their massive TikTok fame, but their new project The D'Amelio Show dives into the mental health of social media influencers. Dixie suffers from anxiety and panic attacks, Charli opens up about struggling with perfectionism, anxiety, and disordered eating. Both Charli and Dixie deal with cyberbullying and the ever-present pressure of living their life publicly for 100+ million people to see. Therapist & Mental Health Content Creator, Dr. Courtney Tracy (The Truth Doctor), offers her insight on the D'Amelio show, the D'Amelio family, and the state of social media and its affect on teenagers as a whole. #TheDAmelioShow #CharliDAmelio #DixieDAmelio
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Did you watch this show? What did you think? How does this show make you feel about social media? Let me know in the comments.
I'm a month late (lol) but first to reply! (Well at least that's what I think)
I watched the show and it made me really sad it broke my heart that they are going through all of that they are just people which social media makes people think they are not.
Where can I watch it??
i loved it, didn't expect it to be this good
As a fellow therapist I couldn’t watch it. There is so much in it that breaks my empathetic heart.
I got so sad and mad watching this show, seeing them having panic attacks and crying was heartbreaking. These are kids just having fun on the internet ! Is it true that there are other people/artists that deserve the opportunities they are getting ? Yes. Is it the fault of the D’Amelio girls ? Absolutely not. It’s so sad that they keep from doing things because they are scared of the unnecessary hate they are anticipating they will get !
Also I feel like they are so not protected, the managers are just taking advantage of them and THE PARENTS, don’t get me started on the parents ! Your kid is presented with I don’t know how many binders and told “this is everything you are doing this year, all work for you !” And all you have to say is “make sure to fit dance in please!” You are supposed to protect her and take care of her, not leech off of her
Uggfh that’s it, rant is over !
Yes I am so angry! Why would you put your child in such situations.
exactly!! they also bought a million dollar mansion and all the funds are given by the two girls!! i don't think someone that age needs to worry about bills and taxes for the whole family
@@okaayushi truee I dont understand what was the point of buying such a huge mansion get a good comfortable home maybe
If u get sad and mad when u watch the show then don’t watch it
@@cristagonzalez5204 how did I not think of that 😳
it's pathetic how people are all for supporting mental health until it's someone w/ a platform or someone they don't like, then all of a sudden mental health doesn't exist just because they have money??
its jealousy.. a lot of people deep down want fame, validation and money and HATE people who have it.. its a sad cycle.. instead of just accepting that we are all human beings with emotions they're projecting their own issues
💯💯💯
Or maybe they're acting for profit...
@@AH-lx5nj go study psychology or at least do some research about microexpressions before you start talking. I'm not sure you have it or not, but if you do you will told me you do
@@ngxinloo3323 Revenue is a wonderful thing isn't it? This is just as fake as every youtuber apology video out there.
i’m not a fan of them, but i genuinely don’t think that they deserve this.
Same
Definitely. I don't like their content and all, so I just do not engage!!! Why can't people just not engage with things they do not like. They're also humans by the end of the day, so why purposely try to ruin their mood?
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@@ojosdedivasorprendida9500 Huh?
True… I’m not a fan either…but it’s so much better to just not to watch or comment on their tiktoks then giving them so mush hate or threatening them, they really don’t deserve it
They are honestly the sweetest girls ever, they don’t deserve any hate.
Yes
Facts
nah they do
@@orangejuice8881 no seriously. not saying they deserve death threats or hate that goes too far, just saying that they should know better if they are online literally 24/7. they have really done some fucked up things.
@@valena6395 wait what did they do
Sorry, I am crying and I can't stop. My heart really breaks for charli, dixie and anyone who goes through this stuff. I, myself, suffer from panic attacks and try to be kind to people but have always gotten bullied from a very young age of 8 with emotional and physical abuse from 4. Thank you for saying what you said, I hope people understand and improve. 🙂
God loves u♡
i’m so sorry:(( i wish the best for you, you’re so strong!
Weirdo
@@edenbos6976 shut up
@@rafaelacanales9878 is what your mom always says to you
Everything you said is so true. People made them famous…..100 million of them. Then once you make them famous you start to hate them and feel the need to say cruel things to them? If you are hating on a teenager as a grown adult, you need to take a look at yourself because you’re the problem, not them. It has to revolve around some sort of jealousy, but this is life. Some people have millions of dollars and some don’t. At least these girls work for it and aren’t soulless CEO’s of some big corporation. Society needs to get their priorities straight
Yes but being famous doesn’t make people happy
you thought you
did something there
@@katew3683 that’s cause she did
@@Catitalaratoncita she didn't
@@katew3683 she did
so thankful for this video
I literally cried watching this video. They’re just kids having fun.
I’m a bit younger than them and I can understand wanting to have fun/helping your family, but doing it at a cost. I’m practically failing school because I can’t bring myself to do work, I zone out in classes and I’m almost late to school because I cry in the car because of social anxiety. But nobody thinks there’s a “good enough” reason for me to feel that way. And nobody tries to take any burden big or small off of my back.
Teens go through more than people think and it’s just sad.
Frrrr😪
True. Although, sorry you're dealing with those kinds of issues, hope things get better for you!
People say dixie was overreacting but she truly wasn’t she was hurt about what people were saying and a million people at that telling her all kinds of things and dixie was just expressing how she felt in her own way. Much love too dixie and charli❤️😇
Anyone saying they’re overreacting is straight up gaslighting- full stop. Completely unacceptable. Thank you for saying what you said
@@anxiouscephalopod It's the internet, get over it
@@AH-lx5nj shut up.
@@xcxbetteroffxcx__5861 no
@@AH-lx5nj You don't understand the power of your words, any negative word that comes out of your mouth may have a big impact on someone and can affect them so badly.
My heart breaks for them but I also don‘t understand how the parents are not stopping them
Their parents loveee tge spotlight
she says that if she stops everyone who hates her are going to be happy so she said she wouldnt make that happend thats why
the parents want the money duh
@@cindy-js3zc but they're parents Made money by themselfes (?
I mean they have they're house mostly because of her parents, social media doesn't Pay as much to buy 2 (one for each girl) 1.5 million house, they have to work in other things apart
These comments being made are part of the problem. People shouldn’t have the audacity to think they know what’s best for them.
i have no first hand experience of how it feels to be on camera all the time. But when i don't wanna do anything stupid, i pretend I'm on camera to restrain myself. Which says a lot about how hard it is for people who are actually on camera all the time basically.
I suffer with serious Anxiety/Panic disorder and I can understand how she feels. Mental health must be taken seriously and no longer swept beneath the rug any longer. We must all speak out and end the Stigma
Same but I also can't imagine why she would want to be famous... I don't know if it's because I have social anxiety on top of severe anxiety. Nothing is worth that anxiety and fear and just the constant thoughts about what could happen or all the awful things they might say if she's that sensitive to me. People who don't suffer from any kind of mental health issues will never truly understand. And cruel people on the internet will apologize for 5 seconds and then go say something cruel to someone else. I learned a long time ago that nothing someone ever says about me isn't something I haven't thought about myself at one point in life which isn't good but I've heard it all and so how in the world would some strangers who don't know me and use the grammar of a 5 year old saying mean things be hurtful. I guess you toughen up after and cause these people on the internet can't win. Like you don't think I can sing... 'I'm too busy thinking about what I'll buy with all the money I make from people like you listening to it just to hate on to care what you think.' She gives them way too much power. Any insult they throw at her... just be like yeah I may be but at least I'm not out here bullying a person with mental health issues for no reason. Then they look stupid and they'll apologize and tell her how much they love her. Once you understand who these people are it's actually just sad that they're so unhappy with their own lives they have to try and ruin someone else's day.
Every one saying things like they are copying the kardasians and stuff but at least their show has a purpose and they show real things. No one should be made fun off for having anxiety and panic attacks. *Holy hell the likes thanks guys!*
As if the Kardashians had invented this kind of show.
@@annazend FOR!REAL!
Yeah i think this show was gonna be a "Keeping with the Kardashian" vers. D'amelios in Huli
Ik this is not related but I'm so tired of being nice i was just the kid just wanted to have fun i always did but now that i look at it i was laughing on the outside but on the inside i was just sick and tired of this judgmental society I've been in this small town since i was born everyone already knows me i used to come to school with good vibes happy vibes but now i come to school with fear of how people view me i just wanna go to school wearing what i want and not to be judged i hate it when people say good morning or how's your day been bc the answer there looking for is good i feel okay untill they ask if I'm okay i feel like throwing up and just bawling into tears of exhaustion of putting up an act now when people ask me something just say something i feel like yelling at them I'm mad at the world for not listening to people's cries when i let out a laugh it feels nice to laugh but then i start worrying about how my laugh sounds how my face looks when i laugh and i just stop I'm so tired of not being able to communicate my way of communicating is talking to myself but just holding this all in makes me feel worse. im so tired of not having proper english I'm sorry i don't know how to ask for help.
@@rollingthunderrr7099 you sound really strong and I know exactly what you mean. I know how that feels and I want to give you a hug rn and tell you everything will be better. Because it will. I hope at least
Wow. These poor girls. Absolutely heartbreaking. There NEED to be tighter child labor laws around this. Thank you for your take on this, Dr! This was an excellent analysis.
Thank you for covering the D’amelio Show. Charli and Dixie have a great support system.
but at the same time they have no support system... their parents suck at being parents and just let their kids go through all of this and pay for their mansion and work more that any 17-year-old should ever work and they do nothing about it. and their team is just taking advantage of them as well, it feels like nobody actually cares about for them and that sucks
@@sofiaboo6739 I think this is just one side of the whole picture. I’m not saying you’re wrong but there are more sides to this for sure.
@@MariaMartinez_07 it's a lot of negative vibes tho:/
@@allusernamesweretaken oh for sure, I do see that as well.
They have a terrible fucking support system.
They are young and still have a lot to learn, but thats was just too deep of a cut. They don't deserve the hate especially because they are young. I am truly ashamed of my actions and words before i even knew the whole story.
Wow! Proud of you for giving yourself the chance to grow! We should all be like this, spreading kindness and not hate. We never know what anyone can be going through
@@nataliaortiz968 Thank you, i'm hoping I can continue to grow! I needed this, you made me smile!
This is really good comment right here
I always love seeing people change. I've had experiences like this before where I just joined the bandwagon and I truly regret it. I'm happy other people are willing to learn too. That's character development roght there lmao
I'm a millenial and don't know much about these young ladies at all but am a fan of this channel so clicked on the video...and I just wanted to say, good on you for admitting that you realise now that you may have been wrong. I always love the famous quote about us doing better once we know better so well done!
I cried a lot during the show, honestly it's so sad how people bring them down for something they can't even control:(
It was also such a rapid timeline in which they gained fame. Charli went from a regular 16 year old to gaining over 100 million fans in less than a year.
The fact that there are wonderful people like you making this kind of video about their show, and then on the side of my screen is one about the show with the title “the damelio show confuses me” like seriously?
It's literally recommend to me below this video
Give that video a chance. If you’re talking about Drew Gooden’s video, he actually sees both sides and genuinely feels bad for them.
You should watch that video as well, he’s the reason why I like them now
if it's the video I think it is, you should watch it, he doesn't just bash them or whatever, I mean he bashes their parents and their team because... duh. but he actually says he feels bad for the sisters and the concept of his video isn't that different from this one (the style is very different but still)
@@sofiaboo6739 I know, I actually watched it right after commenting it but RUclips won’t let me delete my comment. This glitch has been going on for awhile for me
I feel so bad for these girls. There’s so much hate and jealousy in this world that they can’t enjoy fully what the have.
Internet fame is so scary 😥
I came across this video and after watching it I just feel kinda relieved knowing that there is someone like you talking about these things in TikTok. Because that’s the place you can most likely get the message through to all the young people who need to hear it so bad. Thank you for doing what you do!🙏
thank you for this. we need more people like you on the internet.
Thank you so much for giving such an amazing input on this show. I was fed up by seeing people react to this laughing. It is a very serious matter and I am glad you commented it with the seriousness it deserves.
Thank you SO much for doing this! It's helping us to be more aware of how we treat others. You are a blessing and a gem! 💛
Thank you so much!
Girl bye I didn’t expect to cry in this video lol. Whole time I kept getting chills with everything she said 😭🥲
I’ve only watched one video of you (which is this) and already love you so much. You say it once but out so much info but don’t go for that long which don’t make me get bored. It makes so many people feel like others understand and stuff starts to make more sense on why others feel that way. Your videos are so good there not to long and don’t repeat a lot. I wish you were my therapist
thank you for emphasizing mental health, kindness on everyone
I’m crying over how sweet their parents and team are and that they put so much value in their mental health
Started crying. My heart goes out to them! I frequently struggle with panic attacks too, but I don't have to deal with all of the hate that comes with being well known on social media. I'm lucky enough that my English teacher (who also deals with panic) is willing to work with me and make adjustments/find alternatives to certain assignments. I can't do peer reviews, especially for rough drafts. (It's the all-or-nothing attitude that I get when it comes to homework. If my homework isn't fully finished, I would rather not turn it in and get a zero rather than turn it in as is and at least get _some_ points. A rough draft is pretty much just an unfinished paper! And with that there's also the worry of my classmates judging my work.) Especially when I'm presenting my paper to multiple people in person. I just can't do that. This time, there's another student who can't be in class tomorrow for the peer review, so we're going to read each other's and provide feedback online. I'm so grateful to have a teacher who understands and will help me figure things out
"The camera in your head all of the time." That hit me incredibly hard and deeply.
I had a 504 plan in high school for mental health issues and It literally saved my life ❤️
How do I get one?
@@hh-fr9gi speak with your doctor/psych about what you need and ask them to write a letter asking for specific accommodations. Then speak with your 504/disability coordinator and go from there. Good luck!
I loved this video, you're raising such important topics!
This is amazing, thank you for this
this was so insightful and heart warming. Thank you
You are a really good person and thank you for bringing light to this
I appreciate that
It's actually so nice to see this reaction to those clips. I've only seen people make fun of her and it's infuriating.
THANK YOU!!! ✨💕
i have a 504 for my anxiety, and i’ve always felt kind of weird or different for having one. thank you for talking about it and i’m honestly grateful that it was mentioned in the show
this is my first time watching your RUclips channel and I subscribed within the first 5 minutes. I need somebody like this.
Thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed this. What kind of content would you like to see from me in the future?
@@the.truth.doctor Thank you so much for replying! I did quite like this reaction video, so maybe another one? or maybe something about adhd, or how to tell your parents about your struggles without them just turning it around on you and making you feel even worse. but I am still exploring your channel so I have a lot more videos to watch, which I am excited for. I'm so glad I watched this video and thank you again for replying :).
this video was also good for me because I realised there are other people that experience the same thing I do. im not famous but I can relate to dixie's anxiety attack. also what is the difference between an anxiety attack and a panic attack?
Yes 🙌🏼 thank you so much for making this video. Yes be kind 🙌🏼 💕💕💕💕💕
You are so welcome!
What bothers me is abt this, is the fact their parents won’t limit their internet access. I know my mom would do it if I was getting hate online and having a mental breakdown. It’s the fact they’re having these panic attacks and showing these raw emotions and knowing ppl are going to hate watch, ppl hate them Bc they’re at a place where most ppl have fantasized abt all their lives. I know it sucks
U know rt the phone isn’t the issue the ppl are?
They are like 17 and 19 I don't think their parents take their phones lol
Honestly such a stupid comment
Internet is earning that fam money son i doubt they would stop that
@@jemimakanyangu2123 how is it a stupid comment?
6:18 I’ve struggled with debilitating anxiety and panic disorder with agoraphobia since I was very young (I was passing out from panic attacks from 1st grade onward)… I’m a bit older and I had to wait until college to have some “accommodations” made to help me to be able to attend school at all. The biggest weight off of my shoulders was being exempt from giving presentations in class and also from randomly being called on during class. There were some other modifications they made for me to help me, but I am glad to hear that they have started to offer this more to kids in school. It was a long wait and a fight for me, and it still would be but it’s nice to hear schools are starting to “get it” a bit more. I didn’t miss classes because I was lazy or any of the other reasons they assume, I was in my car genuinely paralyzed and physically unable to get out of my car, after stopping to puke 4-5 times on my way there.
i’m struggling with extreme anxiety and agoraphobia. i haven’t left my house in TEN MONTHS. it’s getting hard
This video has been on my fyp for weeks now, and I expected to be bad but I am actually glad of how you were supportive and neutral.
thank you for this 💘
I loved everything about this video.
teenagers preach about mental health when it comes to their own. clips that posted on TikTok is super viral, people find that dixie having a breakdown is funny, said she's dramatic, people says charli having a panic attack is so fake, all for clout and all sorts of messed up stuff. Im 17 and im guy, seeing people shitting on both go them really makes my blood boil, they're so unproblematic and nice I don't understand how people can be so so cruel to them. I cannot imagine what will happen in 20 years if people like them stay the same. its truly disappointing. people that throw shit to them always have a "mental health is important" "positive only" all these nice things on their profile but on the other hand they are bullying these people. I don't get it. teens nowadays is just so intense, cruel, soft, disrespectful, stubborn, rude literally everything.
Im so sorry for them. I dont watch the show but the clips ive seen definetly changed my mind about them. Theyre so young & have to go through all this, its really sad. I wouldnt be able to handle all that theyre strong girls.
I feel so so so sorry for them. I don’t understand how people can be so ducking mean to teenager. I have never in my life wrote a hate comment and will never. The internet can be the worse place and I just want to leave
i want to give charli a hug so bad🥺
Thank you doc 🔥
I remember watching the show! My mom and I started to cry! It's so sad😭😭
they actually are such kind souls
I had to leave school completely and do home schooling due to mental health so i totally agree with you about the school plans and stuff :)
When you mentioned that we need to teach our kids about the body and mind and how this ties together, I think we need to really focus on this, as well as having our kids understand how powerful words are, and when you speak it into the universe there can be serious consequences as it effects others even ourselves. It is a domino effect.
True because i truly do not understand growing up with social media
This is why i always tell people to leave mean things to themselves.. you never know what somebody is going through and it could be just worse. And there is no point in being so negative and bullying. Just spread kindness.
Honestly it makes me sick that people can even say that and it’s awful how much anxiety those girls have on a daily basis they definitely don’t deserve it 🥺
It’s so sad seeing and I wish there would be more consideration towards cyberbullying,no one deserves to go through this just for simply enjoying what they got
I mean this as a compliment, you sound like Kourtney Kardashian, if she had «or showed any type of» personality. Your enunciation is *perfection* and your voice is so soothing! ‹i say this as the daughter of a broadcaster lol› throw in the lovely insights, and this was a great video! I wish I had had the option of a 504 plan in school! Although, I went 20 years without receiving a PTSD diagnosis and about 15 years with undiagnosed anxiety and depression.
EDIT: I didn't realize your name was Courtney! ⟨assuming the spelling is the more traditional way, apologies if I'm incorrect!⟩ I am just seeing your face for the first time after this video showed up in my suggested feed. 😊
not being bubbly, dynamic or trying to be entertaining to other people isnt not having/displaying a personality.. it's just being chill.. i think you just meant, if Kourtney was bubbly
Ur watching a video about how comments affect people and ur shutting on Kourtney kardashian for what
@@OmfgHiii I "liked" your comment, as you put my thoughts into a much better sentence than I did 😊
@@nienkevancaillie2328 the person commenting above you put my thoughts into words where my intent was clearer. I wasn't shitting on her though.. I also included my belief that she doesn't _publicly_door much of her personality. I don't dislike the girl at all. I also made it clear I meant it as a compliment. 🤷🏻♀️ Not shitting on people over here... Sorry 😐
this is so heartbreaking :(
I started crying in this show because charli and Dixie are my idols and I love them so much and seeing how they really feel was very heartbreaking to me watching this and I hate when especially when charli feels guilty for being herself and it’s so sad to watch and I hate when people are like “LOL she’s she dramatic” because they really aren’t and it’s just because people don’t step into their shoes themselves and joking about this breaks my heart
Where I will never say people “deserve internet hate” because no one does, I feel like there is no point of this show.
These girls are not in a good mental state and they should NOT be put in such a bright spotlight.
A show could be so much wiser to focus on multiple cases of people with mental health issues and how they learn to cope with it rather than put such focus on one family. It would expand on several types of mental health and keep the stress low on the individual families by dividing the focus.
It would be more productive and much more helpful rather than over dramatic the way the show makes it.
Actually, I think the girls were the one who wanted the show? I'm not very sure but from what I've heard/seen, they did it to bring awareness to mental health in general or their own. (Sorry i forgot) Even if it was focused on one family, it would still be immensely helpful since it may help to reduce the haters since some are acc willing to change, or atleast let the two get some weight off their shoulders. Besides, the show IS about them so why would they involve other families (unless they wanted to)?
Love this it true people words do hurt
Everyone needs to see this
I just want to tell people that no matter how privaleged you are, u can still go thru it, so plz stop acting like you have their brains, no one's saying ur struggles are invalid, no matter how rich someone is, ur mind is a different place
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Being judged negatively by strangers is unfair. Bullying. Is sad how these successful teenagers are being torn apart by jealous people who do not know them. Like all celebrities. Hating others is disgusting behaviour and needs to stop.
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I hate how in Italy there's no such thing as the whole 504 plan and i really wish mental health disorders would really be consider as disabilities and treated as the people who have them deserve
They should leave social media for their own mental health
This is true but they are already on it people will still notice them in the streets, and will still send hate if if they werent on. :/
Exactly they already have a ton of money like leave
They could grow healthier if they would quit playing the game of social media
I just don’t get how so many people hate on them but it’s because of them that they reached such a high level of fame
Hey doctor, I discovered you through arcane reactions, and I was battling myself over asking you something or not as I never tell anyone about myself or how I feel especially online..
I've been in my room for years lonely I suffered from trauma and depression since I was a child, I cut off my friends and dropped out from school, I was bullied a lot for being overweight. It was such a relief for me to be able to escape the world and people, but now I found myself used to this life and I want a change but every time I try I keep failing, I've had many suicidal thoughts and I don't want to just end it here, what should I do to improve myself or how do I start,.
I feel like a baby who needs to learn how to make his first steps, I would really appreciate you reading this and answering me.
They really deserves better and I love them so much 🤗😭😔
i watched the season. I had no idea who these kids were before hand but i blame the parents. People are mean and there is no way to regulate mean internet comments, its the nature of the business. But to see how affected they are from it and to still be pushed and allowed to do certain things should be stopped by the parents before its to late. They have the façade of being helpful and supportive but i cant help but think that the pressure these kids have is from the parents.
CAN WE STOP BLAMING PEOPLE PLEASEEEE it is so annoying how naive ppl like you can be honestly, the one and ONLY thing every influencer and celebrity ask for is for the internet to be a better place. Instead of trying to find another "solution" you just assume will help instead of actually listening to how they actually believe will be helpful, which is the internet to be a better place and blaming their parents for wtvr is no better of a solution
@@lydia7895 the parents should’ve have stepped up. Their parents are literally the adults in this situation they aren’t stepping up.
Yes, the parents need to protect their kids, of course. But also, instead of blaming the victims, blame the people that are hating and literally leaving death threats, and blame the ones that raised those people. It is not the d'amelio's fault, it's the ones who won't leave them alone and mind their own f ing business.
@@kmf3594 but that isn’t gonna change so it’s more helpful to be realistic than to wait for euforia
@@lydia7895 But that's what it is. A parent/social system failing to protect their kids. And yes the Internet is a dark place but the only way (at least in my opinion) to change that, is for every parent/social circle to raise their kids to be decent human beings. But sadly that's hardly possible which of course shouldn't mean that you should stop trying to work towards a better society. Spreading love and making people feel valid and seen is so important.
People saying ‘I would definitely switch positions with them’ or ‘they need to appreciate what they have’ need to understand that these people are REAL people. Not just people TEENAGERS. Anxious teenagers who are breaking from social media pressure. And it deeply bothers me how the parents aren’t helping their daughters, pushing aside their feelings and panic attacks- making money off their daughters even after they see how much they are hurting. I’m not confirming this is happening because even though it’s a reality show you cannot exactly tell how people are. And what’s worse is that if they come off social media they’ll only get more paps and fame because when you have so many followers like that it’s impossible to escape. ‘Fame is very agreeable but the bad thing is it happens *24 hours* a day’ So in summary, no they are not lucky and yes, they need to be respected no matter what.
Im only in elementary and i have social anxiety and bipolar depression its so bad i hate it so much
Wow YES!!!!
They are little kids. Wow. I didn’t know much about them but now I do. She was only 16 when all of this was happening and turned 17 only when she had gotten famous enough to have a whole Hulu tv show of her life filmed. And Yes, it is possible to prepare for this, but that kind of training like they do in Korea when training people for the entertainment business is often frowned upon instead of understood as a necessity. Meanwhile, I hope this child finds happiness in what she does
I watched the show it's amazing ❤️
I agree! What was your favorite part?
i had no idea that 504 plans existed, i used to throw up in the school bathrooms every morning for years. the only thing that was done for me was that the nurse wasnt allowed to send me home from school because of it.
They don't deserve this hate :/
people are just hating for no reason at this point.
girl ima need you to be my therapist lollll
Tbh, I thought it was hilarious. Just because I find it funny doesn’t make me a bad person, it just means watching people have emotional breakdowns entertains me.
loveeee youuuuu so much i need you in my life
People are always Saying that the parents are horrible but they have expressed multiple times that if charli wants an out and doesn’t wanna do this anymore then they won’t do it anymore
I applied for some if the things I've said, I never knew it had this affect
neither of them deserve this it's so heartbreaking
This show seemed very genuine unlike many reality shows. And I love the way they were speaking on taboo topics and actually showing the dark side of this type of fame. Because we know it happens but it's not addressed as raw as it was addressed in the show. Many celebrities in reality tv water mental illness and the parents in those shows don't be as involved as their parents are and I love that. Too many of these shows about young stars they quickly glaze over these topics. But they put it all on blast. Showing the good comments and following it with negative comments so we can see how the negative comments stand out more than the positive ones. I'm not a fan of theirs. But they do not deserve the unnecessary hate they keep receiving. It's just people being annoyed she got famous so quick and trying to defame them emotionally.
Girl this is what we NEED IT to see and it's Well done not the "She's the girl sitting in the back of the class"
(It's was a try to Dixie and Charlie's mom to make a sad background story of Charlie)
I love the show😅
I Like How You Talked About Teaching Our Kids About How The Mind And Body Work… We Need To Change The Common Things We Teach Children- Like For Example I Really Don’t Like That As A Child We’re Taught “Sticks & Stones May Break My Bones, But Words Will Never Hurt Me”… Like That Is Absolutely Crazy We’re Taught That, Because I Felt So Isolated And I Know Other People As Who Felt Isolated As A Child Because Were Told Words Shouldn’t Hurt… But They Do- Pretty Bad At That, Especially When It’s Constant And From Many Different People. I Was Constantly Told “Suck It Up, Don’t Let Other Peoples Words Hurt You” “Why Do You Care What People Say” “You Care Too Much About How People Perceive You” Etc. We Need To Do Better, Honestly.
“They do it for you” 😅
it's really disgusting that grown-ass adults are making mean comments about a 17-year-old. It's low, inappropriate, and does more harm to their development than any good.
Not me getting a therapy add before this video-
Hey I have a question do you do any private therapy! For teenagers?
10:31 wheres the bg from
It is so sad so see them like this
I've not watched the show but I've only seen people make fun of this show but I'm really happy I saw this video now I definitely view this show differently
The fact that people have to overcome and detox from negative comments is what's wrong with the internet.. for some reason people think their guilt is exempt when they bully on social media
i dont really watch any of their content but i know is that they get so much unnecessary hate from people that think they dont deserve to be where theyre at