20160508 单身之人要怎么走进婚姻？

单身之人要怎么走进婚姻？
How Can Singles Step Into Marriage?
一男一女之间爱情的产生本是神撮合，并非两人的条件，神绝对是在婚姻的结合里，也是爱情的源头。所以，单身的弟兄姐妹并非要努力改变自己来讨另一个人的欢欣，这样的话我们便是“为了得异性接受而改”，便会落入一种更失去自我的心态。但是，如果一个单身的弟兄姐妹向神开始祈求一个配偶，神看他独居不好也愿意将一个异性带入他的生命里，那时神必定奥在他的身上开始另一个创造性的工作了，这并非是一种条件性的交换，乃是神亲自爱他，也愿意他进入另一个层面的变化。
The love that sparks between a man and a woman is God’s arrangement, God is surely in the union of a marriage, and the source of love. Hence, a single does not need to transform himself/herself into another person just to please others. If so, we change because we want to “please the other party”, and we will lose ourselves. However, if a single starts to ask for a spouse from God (through calling our to God in prayers and petition, with a heart of thanksgiving), and God feels that it is not good for him to be alone and is willing to bring a woman into his life, God will surely start another creative work in his life. This is not a conditional exchange, instead, it is because God loves him and is willing for him to enter another level of transformation.

[@xuliu2074]

感谢主。

[@user-dd4hc4be9u]

阿们❤

[@user-fe1bb8vm6z]

先愛主才有辦法愛弟兄

[@winniehe1212]

感謝主。目前聽過最好的單身話題的講道

[@kweeyinwong8079]

听得懂的人必蒙恩喜

[@koontaiwong4015]

感謝神賜福！謝謝牧師的教導🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@user-fe1bb8vm6z]

有些弟兄姐妹很愛做媒
也不知道有沒有禱告清楚
害人受苦也不知道。

[@pingyang7149]

改变的过程有点儿久，改了那么多年，啥时候才是主预备的时间呢？

[@user-uu1zv5mc9u]

唉！等很久了，絕望了

[@henrykew7187]

人性来说要找心灵伴侣
相处久了外貌真的不重要
基督徒来讲除了上述条件
最重要的是两个人都要同负主的轭
没有结婚的就交托主
和主经历自己的人生
历练久了主慢慢的改变自己老我的人生观
这样的收获比结婚更好呢

[@HK-th3tu]

所以你已经等到了吗？已经是五年前了🥺

[@sanyi6629]

肢体动作好有感染力