Science Explains Why Very Intelligent People Prefer To Be Alone
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- Science Explains Why Very Intelligent People Prefer To Be Alone
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The way the world is today, I prefer to be alone. The more people you know, the more problems.
True
Find the right people. It’s all about how you see things
You attract your own level of consciousness so stop whining and level up 🙌
Divine Commerce The right people will come into your life, just dont be a fucking weirdo
The less you have to deal with people's bullshit.
Being alone could also mean you are not a follower or a leader but an Individual who follows their own path.
grey wolf That, in and of itself, is a very intelligent thing to do.
Amazing
Well said.👏🏼👏🏼
If talking about social hierachies, that is a Sigma individual. You often hear about alpha, beta or omega, but Sigma's are the highly intelligent ones, that go their own path
Or it could mean that no one likes u
"I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in years of maturity." Albert Einstein
Tbh,it was delicious in youth as well,I was just delusional thinking I needed to "fit in" to be whole,instead of just being myself 🤷🏿♂
Great quote!
‘Great men are like eagles, and build their nest on some lofty solitude’ - Arthur Schopenhauer.
Yup...
Stealing this now
You realise that 'being alone' is blissful, when....the weekend approaches, neighbours ,friends and acquaintances have plans and will be away, and you are overwhelmed by a feeling of perfect and utter peace and tranquillity when you know you are obligated to no-one.
Heaven.
Pure bliss
There is an Andy Griffith episode, where Andy finds with his family being away, he will be alone and reacts as you describe. Then Goober arrives so he won't be lonely. Andy was crest fallen.
@@ursulagwozdz1955 It's Heaven---
Because Hell is other people.
( For the most part)
Amem! May this be my future 🙏 I love my kids a lot but boy I have been dreaming of no responsibilities… 7 more years nearly there :-)
Being alone reduces complexity. You get creative solutions faster. The more you ask around, the more clutter you get. Trust yourself first, then socialize.
Agreed
perfect Thomas!
Yeah we heard all that in the video. Thanks for nothing.
Know Thyself...life is an inside job...
Thomas Moser yes!
Short explanation: intelligent people tend to appreciate depth, nuances, and complexities of reality; but the masses worship the superficial.
Well said indeed
So true! 👏🙏
🥇
Amen!!!!👏👏👏👏
Exactly, which is why rubbish like talent shows, soaps and reality shows are watched by millions.
One of the greatest things you can do for your soul is to take a trip to another country on your own. Being an anonymous observer of life in a foreign land is one of my biggest joys.
It's the only thing I have truly missed since Covid came along.
You need money for that
@@she_wizzdom4410 That's what working is for
@@szithaanu9934 You must be European. Average worker can't travel the world unless their currency is one of the most valuable. Plane tickets for intercontinental flights are 2x the min salary here. Or you're rich and don't know anything about the middle class. Either way you're lucky if you can travel freely when you want to...
"Why Do Very Intelligent People Prefer To Be Alone?"
"To Accomplish Intelligent Things Which Can't Be Done When Very Unintelligent People Get In The Way."
dark... but again spliendidly put
“It is better to be alone than in bad company.”
― George Washington
Better to be alone than with an Insane sister who gets a Hair up her Bipolar Anusbat the most petty things,dear God knows.
facts.
WORDZ 😎
@@derlinclaire1778 oh, you have one of those too. Yeah, it's exhausting. 😏
Amen...and oh how much bad company is out there...lying, sorry-a$$ parents who use their children to get ahead....🤮😡
They say "more money more problems."
I say "more people more problems"
Facts. That's why quarantine has honestly been such a great thing for me. No stress from other peoples problems. It's been very relaxing.
Yes, the theory is that the more people that come together, the more problems there will be. The 'everyone knows' drives collective knowledge to the lowest available stupidity. People fight each other for status.
@@erenjager4698 yeah. You get a peace of mind not worried about other people's unnecessary problems and feel obligated to fix them when they can do it themselves. Self-awareness is becoming nonexistent these days.
@@kevinhornbuckle People who walk alone solve problems better than people who HAVE TO be in a group.
@@erenjager4698 So true.. it was the best excuse to not have visitors.
"Be the friend of all, but in your spirit remain alone." Saint Isaac of Syria
Being contented with a simple life is beautiful and also a mark of intelligence. Unfortunately, society torments you with a notion of "ambition" and cautions against "wasted talent" - both pillars of vanity.
I would love to go and live in complete solitude with my dog, on the Isle of Mull. Paint, draw, create.
"Being alone isn't the worst thing. The worst thing is being with people who make you feel alone."
Robin Williams
Thinkers! who don't allow the main stream to do it all for them! seem to have become a rare breed!
@T Rays Most are troubled because we know the world don’t have to be like this.
RIP 😇
daedae 1522: That's for sure!
PörkeChopp , that was a quote from a movie he was in, it wasn’t something he quoted in an interview. Just to clarify.
"A wise man can always be found alone. A weak man can always be found in a crowd."
-Bruce Lee
NICE!👍..BE WATER MY FRIEND"
🙏
The man who needs others to fight his battles is a coward
What about wise woman 🤣
LOL thats so stupid!!!! " if you want to enter a strong mans house you must first get past the STRONG MAN... so who do you think Rich people employ to look after their wealth in a city "STRONGMEN" and a lot of the "STRONGMEN" are really smart too..
I dont doubt Bruce was a good fighter but... wise he was not!!! I really hope you were pulling everyone's zuccini :D that would be funny.. [otherwise its embarrassingly below 150 IQ]
I came here for the comments, and they did not disappoint! I love solitude 80% of the time. Anytime I’ve accomplished anything in life, it was after a period of solitude.
As a vet with PTSD, I prefer to be alone as crowds tend to trigger me….making me uneasy and hyper-alert. So I chose to live out in the country and occupied my time with online college, where I can work at my own pace and complete my studies alone. It just works….and as it says, relax and enjoy yourself. Never be afraid to be yourself…….even if you you have changed. 🙏
Kratom can be a great help for your PTSD. Look up the term (Kappa antagonist for mental health/PTSD. It literally stops it in it's tracks.
I have PTSD from being traumatized by my father when I was very young I actually thought he was gonna come home and kill us all one of the reasons I am driven to be alone
I'm not a vet..thank you for your service 😊. But I do have PTSD do to the experiences of my life. I have also found I crave the alone time.. to be at peace.. music helps calm me. Crowds.. don't really care for them.. they do trigger me. Anxiety/panic attacks. And yes the hallucinations depending what is triggered. I feel for you.. hoping and praying for you and your solitude..
Wish the best for you
@@davidmann4533 prayers for you David.
That should never be the experience of any young boy.
God be with you.
I lost my mother at 7 yrs of age.
@@sheilaludwig6558 are hallucinations part of ptsd?
Spending time with stupid people is stressful that’s why
Seriously, always gossiping about pointless things never asking questions or thinking outside the box...it's quite strange how everyone enjoys being so simple minded
AMEN!!!
You took the words right out of my mouth, there is an old saying, " you can work with ignorant, but you can't fix stupid".
@@sgt.barnes5218 BRAVO!!!
Agreed. I can't stand myself sometimes.
For me when it comes to being around people, it's quality over quantity.
Bullseye!!!
👍
Except if I am attending my favorite bands' concert.
For me the quality is hard to find so I am pretty alone.
Let me Know if you ever find quality I amost never do.
Most of the answers that everyone seeks comes from within and in solitude.
Maybe I'm highly intelligent, maybe not. But I'd rather be alone than around dumb people.
You said it so much better and nicer than I would have. I must agree with you.
Me too
Fair enough, i'd rather be around kind people despite their IQ. I fear many people here spend a lot of time alone, only playing video games, not creating things.
Same here?🙋
Merry Christmas everyone and I am here celebrating Christmas alone in my small room cause I don't have friend and also I prefer to be alone
Intelligent people think deeply. They don't have any desire for superficial interactions.
Exactly.
I agree!!! I hate social settings, I hate acting with to many actors, most of there motives are so transparent. I'm never there long, one thing could be done or said and I'm gone. If there's no talk of ideas or creating things or situations to move us forward, I'll retreat back to my alone space. I enjoy my own company, empty chitter chatter is such a nuisance..
I used to be highly intelligent but more to the point I personally think that people are not close to GOD and that's paramount!!!
Exactly!
@@davidpaar4318 agreed. God meaning, a higher being.
I used to be an extrovert, but the pandemic (for the right reasons) taught me the beauty and simplicity of being alone (and content) with myself.
I always thought I prefer to be alone but then I met my husband who also thought he preferred to be alone. So we decided to be alone together. Best 24 years of our lives. He passed away last year and I miss him so much, the pain is unbearable. Now I hate being alone.
Sorry.
"I am with you, even until the end of the world!" - Jesus.
You must be so grateful to be able yo have that in your life. Your pain could be a reminder that you lived a life with someone in love. My heart is with you in your healing journey.
❤️
I'm so very sorry for your loss🙏😢💔
Being alone is my preference, so when the quarantine and social distancing came into effect it was no new condition for me just an average day in my life
Mercedes L Indigenous yep. Been working from home for 8 years. Nothing changed for me. I love it.
That’s exactly how I felt also, so consequently suffered no stress from it at all.
Same here !
Yesss Mercedes I was like thank you God for answering my prayers and making alot of stupid MOFOS get somewhere and sit down especially my family and so called friends
Same 👌
This pandemic is a introverts paradise......
Greggors Antonio hell ya.
Cat Dean and Dean Human......Hmmm. Any relation??? Drum roll and a bow.
Only few enjoy their own company. It's freedom not known to many.
Yap that's true being at peace is super cool but gossiper are super bored ha ha they cant make a noice and spread gossip in time of covid 19 ..
@@meehrylmeehryl4406 ya gots to be careful with gossip, words and thoughts can carry furthet than we know. Plus its like sitting in a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but doesn't really take one anywhere. Hey thanks for the response.
Im 68 and ive spent my whole minimizing my exposure to stupid people and frankly most people are stupid.
I use to be a crowd person, but through growth and life experiences I stumble into solitude life. I've been on it for more than 10 years now and I'm loving it. My work requires that every after few months I facilitate a group discussions of 10 or more people; you should see how drained and exhausted i get after that even if it was just for one hour.
I prefer to be alone because I'm tired of explaining everything.
hokeypokeyalso1 thank you for explain that to us
Yes! People have very little common sense. It's so annoying. (Especially if you work in fast food or retail.)
So true, especially when they keep arguing with you after the 100th time, and they are never right.
*tips fedora* yes me too am very smart
Especially arguing with ignorant people who clearly know less about a certain topic yet acting outrageously & unjustifiably condescending and stubborn. It's like talking to a wall.
Be alone, that is the secret of invention. Be alone, that is when ideas are born.
-Nikola Tesla
🙏
What you think you're alone right now science boy? You're on the Internet. With every other asshole on this planet. All f'n day most likely.
@@007Elvisofnazareth yea dumbass but be physically alone, in a room.
In the shower is where ideas are born!
Ya.And it's don't something of 'modern society'
It's because we understand the one thing in life that no one else understands
hell is other people
In this world of negativity and destruction, it is vital that brave, strong souls have solitude in order to come up with creative and life-affirming ideas and work.
Interesting comment
"Don't argue with stupid people, they will bring you down to their level and then beat you with experience" - Mark Twain
Notorious quote we've all likely heard.....
But so so so true.
I like this!! Helps me be Courageous and to go for it
Damn bro, you hit it right in the spot. They will make you get dirty and beat you with experience , for they live in the mudd.😐😬😳
Excellent quote.
"The amount of things I'm attributed to having said is astonishing."
Mark Twain
🤣🤣🤣 yeppppp. Just cut those people off from life
“It’s not that I don’t like people, I just prefer when they aren’t around.”
Dane King Bukowski ♥️♥️♥️
Laura Cavanaugh 🥰
Laura Cavanaugh see if you can find a movie called ‘Emperor of the North(west)’ it stars Lee Marvin and Ernest Borgnine an it’s about old hobos living the ‘bo life an hopping freights etc...
Same
Nature and voiceless living beings as pure as they are,only mankind invade and exploit everything to serve their own gratification.If one conscious enough,it will revere all life in blissful way with the word of compassion to all living beings,till then.....only tears accompanying me.
I think we just want more in life and realize that a lot of people aren’t worth creating relationships with. I could be wrong tho
Bruh That's exactly what I think !!!
TRUTH!!!
DEEP N TRUE
Less people around you less sh*t to deal with. Being alone gives me inner peace away from the unwanted drama of life.
I used to be jealous for some people when they have “many friends” until I found out those friends are toxic and fake. Now I’m feeling so fine for having very small amount of friends.
Quality over quantity. I hate fickleness and fakeness.
I always wondered how they had the time and energy to be a good friend to so many. Then I realized that I appreciate a few true close friends in my life than a crowd of acquaintances. So yes I have friends but the most dear are counted on one hand
Less is more.
i can be yo friend ;)
I got some lunchables and caprice suns
Word.. better to eat crumbs with bums than to eat steaks with snakes. Most of the time people are better off improving their skills and at rest. Time is valuable.. dont waste it with the wrong people or the wrong things
“Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living.”
― Albert Einstein
🙏
My Name is Nobody like he did with Raymond Poincarré and E=MC^2 formula 😡
Ok
I’m always alone and I’m not very intelligent. How do you explain that. Bitches
@yeah. Bulls$%t! But funny none-the-less! LOL!
I enjoyed going for a long train journey instead of a flight, because it gave me golden time to think about solutions to problems. I even loved travel time within the city for the same reason. Those moments of silence and peace, even among a crowd have always been moments of bliss .
Not everyone has to enjoy a group of people chatting endlessly - I detest the waste of time.
Being on your own is the best peace you will get, if you have the mindset for it. Most people can't hack being alone, which I've never understood. What's wrong with being on your own? Having your own freedom to create things? My Dad used to joke to me saying "you'll die alone" I joked back saying "least I won't have someone to piss me off before I go"
Einstein said it best; “Don’t argue with stupid people, they’ll drag you to their level and win every time.”
Especially a hardheaded piscean predecessor smh
This has been my case study since "97 college days
*LOL* SOUNDS BIBLICAL *SIRACH 20* Sirach 20
1 There is a reproof that is not comely: again, some man holdeth his tongue, and he is wise.
2 It is much better to reprove, than to be angry secretly: and he that confesseth his fault shall be preserved from hurt.
3 How good is it, when thou art reproved, to shew repentance! for so shalt thou escape wilful sin.
4 As is the lust of an eunuch to deflower a virgin; so is he that executeth judgment with violence.
5 There is one that keepeth silence, and is found wise: and another by much babbling becometh hateful.
6 Some man holdeth his tongue, because he hath not to answer: and some keepeth silence, knowing his time.
7 A wise man will hold his tongue till he see opportunity: but a babbler and a fool will regard no time.
8 He that useth many words shall be abhorred; and he that taketh to himself authority therein shall be hated.
9 There is a sinner that hath good success in evil things; and there is a gain that turneth to loss.
10 There is a gift that shall not profit thee; and there is a gift whose recompence is double.
11 There is an abasement because of glory; and there is that lifteth up his head from a low estate.
12 There is that buyeth much for a little, and repayeth it sevenfold.
13 A wise man by his words maketh him beloved: but the graces of fools shall be poured out.
14 The gift of a fool shall do thee no good when thou hast it; neither yet of the envious for his necessity: for he looketh to receive many things for one.
15 He giveth little, and upbraideth much; he openeth his mouth like a crier; to day he lendeth, and to morrow will he ask it again: such an one is to be hated of God and man.
16 The fool saith, I have no friends, I have no thank for all my good deeds, and they that eat my bread speak evil of me.
17 How oft, and of how many shall he be laughed to scorn! for he knoweth not aright what it is to have; and it is all one unto him as if he had it not.
18 To slip upon a pavement is better than to slip with the tongue: so the fall of the wicked shall come speedily.
19 An unseasonable tale will always be in the mouth of the unwise.
20 A wise sentence shall be rejected when it cometh out of a fool's mouth; for he will not speak it in due season.
21 There is that is hindered from sinning through want: and when he taketh rest, he shall not be troubled.
22 There is that destroyeth his own soul through bashfulness, and by accepting of persons overthroweth himself.
23 There is that for bashfulness promiseth to his friend, and maketh him his enemy for nothing.
24 A lie is a foul blot in a man, yet it is continually in the mouth of the untaught.
25 A thief is better than a man that is accustomed to lie: but they both shall have destruction to heritage.
26 The disposition of a liar is dishonourable, and his shame is ever with him.
27 A wise man shall promote himself to honour with his words: and he that hath understanding will please great men.
28 He that tilleth his land shall increase his heap: and he that pleaseth great men shall get pardon for iniquity.
29 Presents and gifts blind the eyes of the wise, and stop up his mouth that he cannot reprove.
30 Wisdom that is hid, and treasure that is hoarded up, what profit is in them both?
31 Better is he that hideth his folly than a man that hideth his wisdom.
32 Necessary patience in seeking ing the Lord is better than he that leadeth his life without a guide.
Jan Werich said it better:
When you fight with stupid man for longer then one minute, there are fighting two stupid men.
And beat you with experience*
shua sensai haha oops. Thanks for the correction.
I learned how to love being alone when I realized that most people were using me for their own benefits. I was too kind that people thought I'm weak and they abused me. Now I enjoy being alone and it's the best thing ever....
👍🏻👍🏻
I totally relate to your story!
same exp man.
Exactly !!
@@susmitagoswami3930 EXACTLY!!!! I was too nice to people and they saw me weak than I realize I should just stop caring now I’m going into 10th grade and ain’t gonna talk to no one in my school imma just do my work and get the hell outta there
I definitely like being alone. I feel more at peace and my brain is more at peace mentally.
Solitude is so much better than socializing imo. When I am alone, I do not have to worry about being defensive, attacked, judged, annoyed, controlled, used, or manipulated. Introverts can manage on their own without all the other distractions or drama. People have burned bridges that I do not care to help rebuild. Lost trust that I don't want to be found. Damaged my relationship with them beyond repair. Now all I care to do is hold on and lock up the happiness, freedom, joy, and peace that I have before they come and steal that which I may never get back if they do.
Nothing is more exhausting than trying to act as if I'm enjoying superficial non interesting conversation at a function I'm forced to be at.
I completely agree.
Oh you know it!👍🏻
I heard that!
But did you hear about the new thing they’re building at that place though? Ugh, yes.
Why act? Just tell them that you don’t want to hear it. I do it all the time. Yes, I have no friends.
We prefer to live alone because we live in a world of idiots.
LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
How do you know you aren't one of them?
@@juanyamirespinoza8664 LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣
So many people with a bad case of the brain farts out there.🤥
@Occultist power chill mate Happier Christmas🎄🎅🔔❄
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The common mistake we newbie mistake is venturing into the market without help and legit guidance
Job will pay your bills, business will make you rich but investment make and keep you wealthy, the future is inevitable.
NOBODY BECOMES A MILLIONAIRE OR BILLIONAIRE BY WORKING FOR OTHERS AND DEPENDING ON THEM, GOOD INVESTMENT BRINGS MILLIONS OF DOLLARS AND CONSISTENCY BRINGS BILLIONS. THE MARKET IS ALL ABOUT CRYPTO NOW YOU MIGHT WANT TO LOOK INTO IT
Investing in Stocks and Forex is the wisest, it's a place where millionaires and future billionaires come to get inspired. If you've not been involved in any you're missing out. Most importantly If you know how to trade you can make a ton of money no matter where you find yourself
Bitcoin is the best coin to invest in fast rising and if you are lucky to have a good broker then I believe you have absolutely nothing to worry about because you are in for a finicial uplift.
I'm introverted and highly creative so I enjoy my solitude, even though this is exactly how I feel most of the time... I do wish I had somebody to love. Being lonely and being alone are 2 different things ya know?
Yes I know exactly how that feels. Hope you find some one who can give you the space you need. Also to be the one you can be at home with.
I'm living by my self for almost two years now and it has been a paradise. Loneliness and solitude are two diferent things.
Hey dude I think you are ready for meditation
@@rajatsoni3763 I used to be buddhist and meditation is very important for them. It clears the mind in an unbelievable way.
exactly
It's been 33 years solo for me and it is pure heaven! I'm in total control of my life and evolvement and, of course, all based on Law of Attraction. Bliss...
Mam please
Being able to enjoy being alone is a gift.
A gift of sanity.
Being in quarantine has actually shown me how much I enjoy being alone - life is so much more peaceful and calm when I am by myself. However, I have to watch being alone too much...I started feeling a bit melancholy when I isolate for too long.
It's a necessity.
I find peace and happiness in it.
Specially now.
Love my own company, always have.
I tire of pointless conversations with people in general pretty quickly.
I used to like being alone. I sought out solitude. Then I lost that desire. Several years have realized it was a mistake. I am dying to get that feeling back. The desire for solitude.
I cherish my alone time and absolutely hate it when it’s interrupted.
You’re not alone in that buddy.....
I'm the same way. When I'm by myself , i prefer to remain that way.
Same here. I get irritated for some reason when people ask me why I haven’t visited them to hangout on my days off from work. I’m also introverted, so being alone is in my nature. People get on my nerves after a little bit. So being alone is glorious in my opinion.
@@anonnnymousthegreat You're preaching to the choir.
Yo i though i was the only one who felt like this. I love being alone. And some people take it personal. Think something wrong with you. And at times get mad at you cause you don't want to be around. They think you don't like them are something. Idk. But do anyone else get this.
As a only child introvert I have zero problems being alone. The Covid lockdowns were just normal time for me. 🤣
Facts
Same.
So true 😂
Lol !
Same .... the best refresh ever for me and now I thrive on being alone
The first lockdowns were a blessing in forcing me to be alone and self examine through lots of meditation
I am a brilliant successful creative writer and I LOVE being alone. I find most people to be toxic or thirsty for my energy or addicted to complaining or too damn depressing and so so they are blocks that I do not need at all.
May you be blessed with creative words... 💓📝✏️✒️📒🙈🙉🙊
I'm the same. I utterly agree.
I’d rather be alone because I can’t stand stupidity
***not claiming to be a genius, just sharing my thoughts***
Only boring people are not stupid, they are unhappy because they know so much
Derek M I don’t want to be responsible for other people’s feelings. It’s hard enough dealing with my own feeling.
I am accused of overthinking.
Well to those people I say it's better to overthink than underthink or even not think.
I'm not a genius either.
Life is not a math test
@@zany527 yes. Absolutely right. It hurts to be so aware of shit that others aren't
I agree with the recluse writer Bukowski when he was asked if he hated people, he said, “I don’t hate people, I just feel better when they’re not around.”
Indeed.
yes
Thank You Robin!! How True. 👍
😆😄 Great way to put it 🤷🏿♂
Bukowski wasn’t that reclusive. He was reckless.
I love being alone. I'm 81 years old been this way since appx 25 years of age.
I find most people too conventional + I can be entertained by my own thoughts.
Peace to all.
SUSTAINED!!!!!
Have you ever been in love or experienced true love?
I like the term preferring ones own company rather than saying I prefer to be alone. I can also say, I am by myself, but never truly alone. The voices in your head are there for the good reason of being able to talk to yourself, engage in constructive self criticism, and self reflection in order to better oneself. However, all these possible internal self activity will only benefit you if you are true and honest to yourself. To approach it with self delusion is to invite the catastrophe of madness or loss of one's composure , unwelcome medical bills, and if sectioned, a special hand delivered invitation for a sabbatical in Bedlam, food, accommodation, and ECT all inclusive.
I can feel myself being dumbed down when I'm around a lot of people for too long. People run from alone time, I run towards it.
People running from alone time
🏃🏼🏃🏽♂️🏃🏼♂️🏃🏼♀️👤
You running towards it
👤🏃🏽
Wow exactly
Being around people definitely makes me dumber
Yeah I agree, mainly for me it's because I can't relate and get bored of the conversations very quickly.
I never thought about it but you are right I kind of feel the same way 😒
@@professionalamateur1549 Hilarious. I realize this happens to me as well. I dream longingly of solitude like many people dream of perfect romance. My people are gone, in the starry world beyond. They & God & trees & wildlife are my companions!
Solitude is less stressful and less drama, that's just the bottom line for me.
same.
Solitude became my best friend years ago
Yep
Same here. It paves the way for self- love, emotional healing, freedom to be yourself, and even, happiness.
true.
It is so true..sometimes being alone means to be free from distractions..and secret enemies....
I never wanted the lockdown to end. I enjoyed every second of it. I find the world too noisy.
Everyone calls me psycho cause I prefer to be alone but intelligent people will understand
I get the same thing. As if enjoying my own company is a problem.
People get on my freaking nerves.
You are you! That is great!
‘Psycho’? What dumbasses. That insult doesn’t even make sense.
Mr Shikadance wank mostly
The less people you know the less shit you have to deal with, Simple as that.
Yup!
Tru dat
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Especially that you don't have to worry about your toilet being too dirty.
Zeus the fewer people you know...fewer
Can you say that like verbally and loudly ..amen
I'm often alone, yet never lonely.
As a person who enjoys being alone and plans to remain childfree, the Covid times were one of the best times of my life. I feel like that I'm not going to miss anyone, including my family and friends.
A lot less drama in solitude.
Zero drama for me
AMEN!!!!!
Yea I don't understand how people go through the social drama. I mean don't people not see how animalistic our behaviors are around other people?
I just can’t be bothered to socialize because I hardly relate to anyone so I stay quiet a lot..
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Because most people "NEED" to be around other people
They weak asf
There’s not a single person in life who can help you more than you can help yourself.
There’s an exception to every claim like the one you made - given your argument, you must understand there are conditions to it in order for it to be true.
JARY Jenius True. There’s always exceptions to everything and not a single statemate is ever completely true in all ways and others can definitely influence you for the better or hurt you for the worse. But in the end, if your mindset is stronger than others then you will know that it is up for you to decide your own reality and how it plays out until an outside force changes it beyond your will
@@TheCallToAdventure Way to throw a stick in his spokes as he was riding by.
@@Yugetubes Because people look at black and white and completely and dumbly fail to see the grays. I’m simply illuminating the difused minded.
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During Covid, I found that spending my lunch breaks on my own so much more relaxing than passing the time with meaningless staffroom banter. The former builds energy, the latter saps it.
I love being alone. I’m so happy to see all the comments from people who also love being alone. Now I don’t feel so all alone.
ME TOO!
I have always been a loner, i like to socialize, but I like to get in and get out, I learned early in life most people are shallow.
Same
That’s a very shallow way to live, nothing deep and meaningful when you live like that.
And cruel.
GET EVERYONE CRAZY THEN LEAVE
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Lmfao loners don't need OTHER people around to be deep dummy
Loners are deep enough just by THEMSELVES
Other people just get in the way
But i guess a brainwashed "group thinking" 🐑 like yourself won't ever understand that
"Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups."
George Carlin
Haha yes you quoted one of my favs
Just look at the last presidential elections.#45 is a prime example
@006pup So, that's a quote from the very people George Carlin was talking about...(right?). I'm joking about your joke!!!
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Very true
🐵s are smarter 😂🤣
Yes away from the static energy of others I prefer night time peacefulness and quiet to think well
Well for me I feel literal rage when I deal with idiot people and there's nothing I can do to change them. So being around people are not on the same page as me takes godly patience, and when I don't have I find it better to be alone
I like being alone because i have a problem with trust. If you're the type of person who's kind and does kind things, people will take advantage of your kindness
I just got played a month ago , a friend asked for my laptop & he was tryng to sale it Fortunately i got thre in time, i see Everday i dont talk to him anymore he is a fake niqqa bt its hard to let go cuz u will be doing it frm ur heart
@MartinVideos1 I m still hurt by it bro no lie , i felt being used he only wanted wat i cld provide to him
@@TBMandisodza set strong boundaries
@@TBMandisodza why waste time hurting. Yea. Now you know, he's not worth wasting time with.
yung paleontologist
A fool trust everyone. A fool trust no one. Be selective who you trust, and be kind to. There is no end to kindness to those who you love. :)
“All men's miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.” ~ Blaise Pascal
Soooooo true
This hit me hard cause I’ve seen this myself
this is why the Bathroom was invented :]
To me this quote means that people suffer when
they never have the opportunity to be alone
or
that they cannot handle being alone because they might feel anxious
Yup
Finding a soulmate who is also an introvert is a plus.
I'm 17 been alone and kept to myself all my life I'm still happy
Stupid people cling to an array of disfunctional friends whose petty ways and shallow conversations lead them to believe they are normal.
Well said.
And they wonder why they need antidepressants
That really was profound.
Brilliant
Facts have been spoken
I’ve been this way my entire life.
I’m 40. No kids. Dating is useless now. Never married.
Not an incel or anything weird.
I just like to live alone n be left alone.
It’s fun.
I get to live my own life everyday.
Feel u 100%!
How r u now
Welcome to thee 'Party'
@The Robot same.. I am 13 and if I have the chance to be alone for the rest of my life even without friends and family I don't have any problem and I'll be the happiest person ever,I love silence when there is ppl I always be in the corner of the room with my headphones listening music as high as possible and no one talk to me !!
@The Robot Same here🤗🙏
My personal reason is because other people have always been the only problem I face in life. Other people in my way, telling me what to do, pushing me around, trying to take from me, use me, manipulate me. I'm completely fine by myself I need Noone and care for Noone. If I was the last human on earth that would be ultimate bliss.
I enjoy my own company and prefer to be alone. And I never liked teamwork, I perform better on my own.
I’m starting to think that solitude is an evolutionary step. I find small talk and fake social settings beyond exhausting and highly depressing.
Me too. Everyone checking phones and talking about boring superficial thing. Exhausting....
It is....I don't like wondering if someone is judging my beliefs or attitudes about regular everyday living....I do me and let others be.
Ill show you exhausting 😜
Exactly, what's the POINT, alone wit my dogs is a pleasure
It's now called 'social distancing' which I've been doing most of my life.
I said this, half- joking, to my supervisor at work a couple months back.
" I've been socially distant most of my life."
I found out that I was odd from day one, and proclaimed as a rebel in third grade where everyone from the class were not allowed to be around me since my teacher was offended with my clearvoiance, ans argumentative reasoning.
Indeed, most of us introverts had exactly THIS in mind, when the policy came about.
Yes, I've been saying this lol
I am a genius. I have an iq of 145. I like being alone and honestly I think I'm better than all of you
I was honestly staring to worry that maybe something was wrong with me for always wanting to be alone.. but it's true that I get more done when I'm not engulfed in the negativity so thank you for sharing. Great video!
Being alone doesn’t equal lonely. There’s plenty of people who seemingly surrounded by friends and family but the loneliest souls. On the contrary, when your “home” aka soul is in peace, then being alone is a feeling of returning home and a choice.
We have so many "takers" in society now. They are superficial and exhausting to be around. I don't mind people, but choose wisely those I invest time in.
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True story!!!
Agreed!!!
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Even when we are alone were all still connected to the collective consciousness which is just as draining.
Because average people are petty, and herd minded. So why would an intelligent person waste their time with that?
Amen
Total waste of time!
Aaaammennnn! 👍
Only time I am someone is when I am satisfying my sexual needs as human being
The lion does not concern himself with the sheep!
When a short video is able to explain you to you in under 7minutes! Love it!
Yup this is why I like being alone. Even living with my sons dad has been so taxing on me... in my mind I'm counting down the days when I can live separately from him... right now it's just trying to keep the peace. He's so negative when it comes to me trying to do my own thing it's become depressing.
Being alone means no one to criticize you or judge you
What they have to say doesn't bother me in any way. I know who i am.. They talk like blackbirds in spring nothing comes from the heart
Hopefully this comment is left on its own and no one comments...☺🛌
@@72fishing attention freaks are the worst kind of people
I've heard people call me weird, I'm quiet like a church mouse, they never know what what he's thinking it's eating them inside. Love it
@Aris attention freaks live in their own little world and act out what they want to be but usually isn't. PHONY is a good word
I have been living alone for more than 25 years. Never during that time have I been lonely.
Ha AMEN!!!!
Yessssss,Peace of mind conquers any "loneliness" I'm"supposed" to have 🤷🏿♂
Congrats Bill but I have you beat. I've been living alone for 33 years now. BTW I have 3 great and fantastic friends! Me, myself and I. In short, I love being alone! 🙊🙈🙉
@@maudefreeman8780 "3 great and fantastic friends..." 😆😄👍🏿
@@blackbolt3685 "Supposed" is the keyword there!
I think this is mostly true. When your life is scheduled so you can't easily be alone you accomplish other people's goals & perhaps do what other people think is fun. When you are alone a lot you can accomplish your own goals, self improvement & really have fun.
Being alone was a consolation prize to the dream… it was me focusing on my kids and myself… after running scared to save my family and anyone else I encountered along the way that I could help… so when I say I’m tired… it is not lazy… it is not old… I’m tired because he is not by my side… I’m tired because the many epiphanies I had over my many years of reflection brought about some really deep understanding about who I am and what I am… and the importance of the people we surround ourselves with and the nature of our relationships… most importantly it taught me who I wanted to be every single day for my kids… it taught me that the most painful and the most joy I have ever encountered is my children… I prayed long and hard and through tear soaked eyes for years to have more of my own… the right way…
I once had a co worker express shock that I lived alone, as though that was somehow a bad thing lol. The problem is most people don't have the intellectual maturity to spend more than 5 minutes by themselves without interacting with people to validate their own existence.
I couldn't have said it better 👏
@@dorisnamondo97 me too!
This comment made my day
I just never could wrap my head around the people you describe. It is so true.
Amen to that.
I think people who spend a lot of time alone do so because they realize they are ALWAYS alone, even when surrounded by other people. "Company" is an illusion.
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Wow
Not reaaally
Very true! Or sometimes you are around others but you're on the back burner, left out of the loop. You're "just there" but not part of their lives, or you don't get to share the same life experiences with them. That's actually a more painful position to be in than to be utterly alone. I'd rather be alone than to be the one tagging along someone else's ride. But I feel that so many nowadays are repeating this "I hate people, prefer to be alone, etc." Many who say that are the people who are not truly alone. Part of being psychologically sound is wanting to be social with others. But as I said, for most people it's just talk. They are not truly alone. They may have a small bubble of social supply and refused to go beyond it. So it's more like, "I hate people outside my small social bubble."
@@sebastienbolduc5654 I don't know how old you are, but you will probably find as you get older that your circle of friends will slowly diminish to a small number of people - small enough to count on the fingers of one hand .. but these are your REAL friends. It might even be just one or two, but these are the ones that really know you, and yet, with all your faults (and we all have many!), they still love you and care for you. Most importantly, they are there when you need them but are also ready to give you plenty of space to be alone with your thoughts if that's what you need. We all build walls around ourselves, and only let in those we trust!
People who choose to be alone are deep thinkers. Most people misunderstood and could not fathom their depth so they chose to be rather alone than be in the company of shallow minded people
I like both, I lived both extremes so far, and I never saw myself being solo. But doing this has shown me a whole other side of life. Being on your own opens up a different type of thinking 5hats for sure
I'm also a loner. Have been my entire life. Never attributed this to intelligence, just preference.
It's possible that you just may not be intelligent enough to realize just how intelligent you truly are. For instance, I am barely intelligent enough to understand that humans are simply trained animals.
1 doesn’t mean the other ya know? There could be a number of reasons you prefer solitude. People in these comments probably prefer this reason.
JoAnn King but it is a very intelligent preference.
According to society, if ur not gossiping and backstabbing others and are "antisocial" ur a certified sociopath...
Ha!
How moronic
Absolutely