Please comment respectfully on this video. Just because I'm playing a father figure in this audio does not mean I want to be treated as one. I also want this to be a safe space for people with a variety of experiences, backgrounds and issues, so please be mindful of others when commenting.
@@vegandolls Yep, I'm playing a role for the audio to help people, but don't like when strangers treat me as though I'm their daddy. I'd prefer they respond respectfully and speak to me as an audio creator.
You're very welcome, sweetheart. You can come back here whenever you need to, okay? You might like this one too: ruclips.net/video/on5lFKMFrsk/видео.html
@@draco1349 Why would you say that it's not funny, a lot of people don't have a dad including me, mine got deported when I was 6, and we don't know what it feels like too have a father Relationship while, everyone is Flexing stuff when you should be caring for your parents, one day they will not be here, and that joke you made was wrong to do so but I will still wish you a good day,
XShady MoonX I don't have a dad anymore he left me and my mother he took my brother with him so please I'm not trying to be funny... It wasn't a joke.. And I never actually talked to my dad that much he was a little abusive...(sorry for the joke)
@@draco1349 Oh I'm sorry but the way you said it made me think you was bulling us for not having an dad, and I'm sorry too hear, my father abused my mother so I know how it feels.
@@simivalleydave a healthy coping mechanism where you mentally revert back to a child-like state of mind It is great for helping heal your inner child / coping with childhood trauma & many other things like anxiety and depression It sounds weird, but don't knock it without research, it helps a LOT of people
@@charlotte5829 well, its different for each person but for me, it gives me this feeling in my chest that makes me want to curl up and I just want to be held and cuddled and taken care of. Little space is the purest part of a person, the most innocent piece of them.
Elle Miller I know quite a bit and I’m still trying to figure out if I’m a little or not. Not the kinky kind btw the sfw kind. And I’m just trying to ask people what it feels like to be little!
The “you don’t have to be strong any longer” and “you deserve love” parts are what breaks me into tears every time. These videos have been very helpful with making me feel safe going to sleep (I have problems with moderate to severe anxiety when about to fall asleep) and finding this one that can help me with allowing myself to cry and be little is very important because it’s so hard for me to do and still feel safe. Thank you so much for making these.
this is really brilliant, as someone who had a father diagnosed with npd (narcissistic personality disorder) he had zero empathy and i never got any comfort from him at all. this was just so lovely, to feel a actual fatherly comfort. thank you so much
Thank you for making these gender non-specific! I prefer deeper and rumbly voices for my relaxation but it’s hard to find those audios that don’t use feminine pronouns. These really help out. Thank you, Rainy!
I'm a 16 yr. old young woman. these kind of comfort videos definitely help me to sleep. My dad is in the Navy and doesnt comfort me like this. And I just went through a break up a few months ago. All in all, these kind of videos really help me calm down to sleep, despite the loneliness and insomnia.
I'm bit embarrassed to listen to this in almost 18 but I have never experienced this kind of anything for my father I wished he treated me like this thank you so much I'm really grateful
So nice of you to do this for little ones who didn't or don't have a Daddy/Father to comfort us when we need it. All the comments about crying at how sweet and beautifully loving this is are accurate, ha. I hope everyone gets so much love and snuggles that one day videos like this won't make you cry because you're loved and protected in real life
My little 10 yo cousin lost her parents in an accident last year, and now she struggles with severe ptsd and depression. She's got no parental figure that she is comfortabe with. I know she REALLY needed cuddles and hugs from someone (I'm in another country so I couldn't), so I sent this to her, and i can tell she needed this. Thank you for helping her sleep at night and feel loved.
I played this at night cuddling my boyfriends sweater (we have to be long distance right now) and I started completely balling my eyes out. I didn't realize I cried myself to sleep and passed out until I woke up the next morning with my headphones still in and my phone in the same spot I put it. I was always a huge daddy's girl but not long after I turned 5 my dad started drinking more and wasn't around very much so this really helps a lot in 'filling that gap' of time we could've spent together building a relationship.
iM riGhT Their wiTh u ALeX MY DaD wuZ a MaJOr MassiVe DruG aDDiCT DrinKinG inCLuDinG He wuZ TaKen OuTTa Me&MY brOTher Z LiVes aT The TiMe i wuZ a NewbOrn. MY brOTher wuZ a TODDLer Our FaTher wiLL NVr be FOrGiVen FOr HiZ ACTiOnZ
i’ve been so emotionally neglected for the 19 years of me living that i literally can’t even comprehend the fact that a father figure should be like this or that this is even real
I am personally going through a lot right now. These very much help me being a little. Please make more Daddy audios! They help me so much and make me feel a little comfort when I don't really have much in the way I need it and understand it. Thank you so much Rainy❤ long time fan:)
I was in a car accident yesterday and I couldn’t fall asleep because i was so riddled with anxiety from it. This was exactly what I needed ❤️ thank you so much 🥺
You're welcome, I'm very glad this could help you feel better after that. You may also find it helpful to listen to this audio on how our body responds to traumatic events such as that car accident. It might help you understand your reaction and things you may go through: ruclips.net/video/UHAfuaoa6Vg/видео.html
"Daddy is right here , znd not going anywhere" , "No need to be strong anymore" "If you need to cry it's okay. And if you fell asleep, it's okay too." Really making me cry.
I do have a dad, a really loving one actually! But..this really helped me to feel a little less sad because I lost my favorite stuffie just which is really upsetting..so thank you for helping me!!
Just the fact that others have to listen to this to feel love to hear one embracing them into their arms warms my heart things like this can help people and do I’m grateful we have this.
I recently found your works and they have been super helpful. My father passed last fall unexpectedly and he was my world. When I was younger, he'd tell me similar things. When I got older, he still did. I don't have that anymore and though I've processed his death better, sometimes it doesn't feel quite real. Thank you for this as I at times held in my sadness in regards to his passing. He was such a gentle soul and I miss him so much.
You're very welcome, i'm glad my work could help you to heal and recover from that loss. It's okay to feel those feelings, denial and unreality is a coping mechanism to help us space out the loss and pain so we aren't overwhelmed by it. It sounds like you're doing well at reorganising your life and processing things. I've got a bunch of fatherly audios, from bedtime stories to praise, encouragement, comfort and even some ambient 'hanging out with your dad' audios. They may all be helpful.
2 seconds in and i burst into tears and didn’t stop until the end, just lied in my bed hugging my phone. I knew i needed this kind of affection but apparently didn’t realize how much. Thank you so much
I've been struggling a lot recently, and it's hard to go to my own dad and stepmom when I need help. This is so relaxing and comforting and I'm so glad that I found you. These audios make me feel a bit of peace, so thank you very much
I'm very ill with a neurological disease and my for real daddy died a few years ago so hearing this soothing voice and hearing such comforting words helps me fall asleep and feel protected and safe. Plus fighting this disease and being strong gets harder and harder to do so when you say I'm brave and now I can cry really helps me feel better. Thank you very very much.
This helped me recover from a flashback/panic attack. (I have CPTSD from trauma caused by my own father) I’ve never felt this safe from someone’s voice alone, thankyou so much
Wow, this cured me so much 😍 I was so scared of the storm noises outside and was afraid to go to sleep, even put my pacifier out after such a long time and cuddled with my pillow. My boyfriend was not here and listening to you made me feel safe and calm. And when you just started singing 😍😍😍😍❤️ I was in heavy peace, nobody even as a child sang for me, this was therapy for me. Thank you so much. ❤️🙏💕
I'm a bit late to the party, but just wanted to say I love this audio so much ❤️ you're very good at comforting and talking people down from their emotions. I had a good cry, and feel 100% better. Not to mention, you sang one of my favorite songs of all time. I used to sing it to my ex-fiance when he'd have night terrors, and it felt nice to have someone sing it to me. You've truly got a gift. Keep it up 🤘🏻
Jesus this had such a profound reaction on me. Lately I've been wondering if I'm a little. I fit almost all of the qualifications for being one. I was just curious to see what was out there. Started this video and when you said it was okay to cry, I was just like 'nah I don't need to'. But the more I listened, I spontaneously started crying?? Like shaking so hard trying not to sob crying. I think allowing myself to be a little for a DD would give me what I missed out on with my real dad. Not even a sexual thing... I just want to be loved and cared for, maybe be allowed to be bad occasionally. I was too well behaved as a kid.
I'm glad you let yourself embrace that powerful catharsis. It's often a way for people to experience the childhood they didn't get to have the first time around.
my dad has never really BEEN THERE for me. in fact; he’s a bit abusive. hearing this makes my heart clench and feel complete. thanks, man. i really needed to hear this ✨
Oh how this helped sooth my inner little girl that didn’t realize how much of an impact not having a father had until much later in life. Thank you for sharing Rainy. I hope you are safe and well.
Thank you so, so much for making this. You have such a calming and caring voice, its perfect for this type of audio. Been listening to this for a few days now since i found it. It makes me feel calm, loved and tingly ❤
I've been having some issues lately with how my medications are affecting my anxiety. I've also been struggling financially, and job hunting. I listened to this while filling out some stressful forms. Despite the fact I was actively doing something stressful it made me feel better. I could even feel myself physically relaxing. This was really what I needed to hear today. Definitely going on my ASMR playlist! ✨I hope you are doing well ✨💗
I was having a really hard day yesterday. This helped me relax so much, and even though I was still having a bad day after, I felt so much better and was able to handle it all so much better. Content creators who make things like this are awesome and I’m so grateful for this audio. My heart goes out to anyone else struggling and to the people who help ❤
We miss this a lot. I’ve listened to this nearly every night for years. I’d love to connect to do custom or hear more. Regardless thank you for working better than therapy and medication to help with health and medical issues including insomnia. -Lauren
my mental healths been really horrible the past couple of days/weeks to the point i couldnt process what other people were saying at all and one of my only really useful coping mechanisms is regression. this helped me so much, thank you.
This audio is just perfect. I appreciate your work so much, like really, I think words can't express that. You always think of others, you try to include as many people as possible, you try to make these audios as good as possible and you put alot of work into it, because you like to help other people, even though you don't know us personally. You're such a lovely, wise person Rainy! You have all my support and love.
im literally sobbing. i still have a dad. i still live with him. i still talk to him. i still see him everyday. but i feel like i've never been able to seek comfort from him. he's never been the best person and hasn't always made the greatest choices or done the greatest things to me, so it really helps me feel happy whenever i find audios like these. thank you so much for this.
When you don’t have a real dad so you go on RUclips to find something to comfort you or fill that gap of missed affection from your dad. :( I’m glad these exist
I haven’t been able to cry for a while, I’ve been so caught up with trying to act strong that I can’t cry because I’m so dulled to the stress. This video helped me cry it out and get the bottled up emotions out. Thank you.
I'm crying so bad right now. I miss my Papa. It's been 13yrs since he died, but because of this I can imagine him talking to me through this audio. Thank you 🥺😭
I have a lot of trouble crying because I always used to get in trouble for crying too much as a kid. This really helped me, I've been needing a good cry and reassurance that I'm not bothering anyone. Thank you
My dad is not a part of my life so I can't get the comfort of having him like I crave and desire. But when I listen to your voice it helps me a lot too with my anxiety. Like today I was anxious after talking with my counselor about a certain topic but after listening to you it helped me calm down so thank you so much for making these.
Omg, I love that this is for all genders. All kinds of people need this reaffirming love and kindness and crying. This pandemic had robbed many of this human contact. Great video.
Being an only child & "star student" means a lot of expectations are heaped on me. My parents' ultimate goal is to see me successful, living the life I want & giving them the comfortable life they deserve. That's great & all, I want that too, but... Amidst the fierce independence, hustling & striving for my goals, lies a little girl who just wants to be cared for. In my freshman year of college, I was hospitalized due to pneumonia, but I knew deep down, it was also because of burnout. I've been working too hard, just to maintain my scholarship, student roles & roles outside of school. Things are a lot better now & I've learnt to take more breaks. Oh, what I'd give to have this kind of attention/comforting from someone. And to have them just hold me. 😭😩😭 Thank you, Rainy. ❤️💜😌 you helped alleviate the pain of countless people.
I'm very glad you're starting to take better care of yourself, and to let yourself have care from others like with this audio. It's good to give Little Jade some time once in a while. I've got a bunch of nice fatherly audios, bedtime audios, ambient audios to relax with. I've also got a couple of audios that deal with burnout, unrealistic standards and treating ourselves with kindness: ruclips.net/video/bh8eboC7f3I/видео.html ruclips.net/video/hpBdbK4c-V0/видео.html ruclips.net/video/fruckSoIDRA/видео.html
Thank you for your videos, Rainy. ❤️ They help me so much. And honestly I'm still reeling over the fact that you actually replied to me 😅☺️ Thank you! And yes, I agree. We all deserve to relax, once in a while. Tbh, I have a mini archive of your Fatherly audios I saved them in a playlist 💛 because those are my favorite. I would love it if you made more DDLG audios, they would mean a lot. 😊 Once again, thank you & much love!
My daddy recently broke up with me and I really wanna thank you for making me feel comfortable when I'm in headspace, I really appreciate it. I'm glad you add the parts where you say it's okay to cry. Thank you so much 💕
I had never really listened to asmr much, but lately, I've been feeling very lost. My father left when I was a baby, so I've never really experienced fatherly treatment. For some reason lately, my fatherlessness has been bothering me terribly, and I just long so badly for the feeling to have one. I broke down and cried within a minute of this audio and I keep listening to this almost daily. Rainy, you are truly magnificent. This audio helps heal the pain. You are so considerate and kind-hearted to do this for people. I thank you immensely for your work. Thank you so much. -Bella
Thank you very much, Bella. I'm really glad this resonates with you and has granted you the ability to heal a little. It's perfectly understandable that in these difficult times of suffering and isolation, fear and stress, you'd need the comfort of a father. Unfortunately many people don't measure up to the task of being a father, and their children suffer as a result. I've got a bunch of fatherly audios of different kinds, and they can help with that, but obviously can't heal all of that suffering. We can find surrogate fatherly figures in all sorts of places (friends, mentors, other family members, therapists, teachers, bosses, media personalities such as Mr. Rogers, etc.) but those relationships won't entirely fill that role because they're partially something else too. Those things, combined with therapy, can help you process the loss, grief and pain of not having had a father and the difficulties that come with that (fear, anxiety, insecurity, self-worth issues, abandonment issues, relationship difficulties, etc.) and you can heal more fully. I'd strongly suggest trying to find a good therapist who fits you (when that's possible), someone who deals with family issues and possibly practices a psychodynamic approach to therapy (it delves into the past, parental issues, the ways we've developed, things we experienced in childhood, etc.) as I think that can be truly so helpful, but I understand that may not be possible for you to do at the moment. I hope you continue to listen and find value in my audios! Thank you for giving it a try and for reaching out.
the amount of tears i’ve shed listening to this video is so painful to me. i know i’m a little and such because i have crippling daddy issues but realizing how broken i am keeps me up at night. i don’t have anyone to comfort me in general but this made me feel so much better. i legit cannot stop crying. but thank you so much for at least making me feel safe for 17 minutes.
I've had a very bad couple of days, they were filled with self loathing, to spare details, and when I needed a father figure the most I found this video. I wanted to say thank you, this made me start crying instantly, I feel so comforted, thank you
My dad (stepdad legally) is on call in the military right now I said I miss him and he called me and read a book until I went to sleep🥰 this is your sign to love step parents the way they love you
Thank you! I write extensive descriptions for all my audios, though sadly most people ignore them and still sometimes have a bad experience because of it.
That was beyond phenomenal. I needed this more than you could imagine. I have no DD in my life right now and this was the closest thing to finding comfort for my little that I have ever found. She's not hurting as much anymore. She finally feels a bit more at peace. That song caused me to break down more than I've been able to in years. It wasn't much of a breakdown, but it was some release and I needed it so, so much. I wish I could give you a hug. Thank you. A million times, thank you.
I recently lost a family member and I cannot express the grief I've felt and the trauma I've been through, but your videos give me so much comfort when I don't have anyone so I want to say thank you so much.
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Please comment respectfully on this video. Just because I'm playing a father figure in this audio does not mean I want to be treated as one. I also want this to be a safe space for people with a variety of experiences, backgrounds and issues, so please be mindful of others when commenting.
I love how you care about your listeners
Respect to you rainy 💓
so you're playing a father figure but you don't want to be treated like one??!! Ok..... we can do that too
@@vegandolls Yep, I'm playing a role for the audio to help people, but don't like when strangers treat me as though I'm their daddy. I'd prefer they respond respectfully and speak to me as an audio creator.
Ur a wonderful person bless your pure soul x :')
bless your heart
"That's what little rain clouds do" that got me.
so this is what having a dad is like???? I'm crying rn
my dad never really hugged or cuddled me and eventually i had to stop speaking with him for my meatal health. thank you for this, genuinely.
Same with me but due to family issues I'm stuck with him, I hope you're doing better now
WOW i didn’t realise how emotionally neglected and pent up i am lmao
same 🫶🏼
Same I feel bad for laughing though lmao
FELT THAT.
SAME
Real
i’ve never had a dad, and i needed this. thank you
You're very welcome, sweetheart. You can come back here whenever you need to, okay? You might like this one too: ruclips.net/video/on5lFKMFrsk/видео.html
@@draco1349 Why would you say that it's not funny, a lot of people don't have a dad including me, mine got deported when I was 6, and we don't know what it feels like too have a father Relationship while, everyone is Flexing stuff when you should be caring for your parents, one day they will not be here, and that joke you made was wrong to do so but I will still wish you a good day,
XShady MoonX I don't have a dad anymore he left me and my mother he took my brother with him so please I'm not trying to be funny... It wasn't a joke.. And I never actually talked to my dad that much he was a little abusive...(sorry for the joke)
@@draco1349 Oh I'm sorry but the way you said it made me think you was bulling us for not having an dad, and I'm sorry too hear, my father abused my mother so I know how it feels.
Dinah you are not alone
As an age regressor with some pretty bad parental trauma I really appreciate this audio, your voice is so beautiful
Mi to hehe
Me too xx
@@neon_mineshaft ur mom did
What an age regressor if you don’t mind my asking
@@simivalleydave a healthy coping mechanism where you mentally revert back to a child-like state of mind
It is great for helping heal your inner child / coping with childhood trauma & many other things like anxiety and depression
It sounds weird, but don't knock it without research, it helps a LOT of people
the "awww sweetheart... you need a cuddle?" made me just slip riiiight into littlespace 🥺😂
Elle Miller what does it feel like slipping into little space?
@@charlotte5829 well, its different for each person but for me, it gives me this feeling in my chest that makes me want to curl up and I just want to be held and cuddled and taken care of. Little space is the purest part of a person, the most innocent piece of them.
Elle Miller thx!
@@charlotte5829 of course! do you know much about age regression?
Elle Miller I know quite a bit and I’m still trying to figure out if I’m a little or not. Not the kinky kind btw the sfw kind. And I’m just trying to ask people what it feels like to be little!
God I almost started crying just as the video started I’m so starved for this kind of attention I need a damn bf
Funsyze how old are you
Funsyze oh I know the feeling trying not to cry at the beginning was impossible. But didn't cry.
Funsyze whole ass mood and same
I started crying for the third time when he started singing /msksksuehfjwkq
Same here😭😭
The “you don’t have to be strong any longer” and “you deserve love” parts are what breaks me into tears every time. These videos have been very helpful with making me feel safe going to sleep (I have problems with moderate to severe anxiety when about to fall asleep) and finding this one that can help me with allowing myself to cry and be little is very important because it’s so hard for me to do and still feel safe. Thank you so much for making these.
The “I love you lots and lots and lots,” and “I love you, my little darling” parts always get to me.
I never really had a dad that loved me so I can definitely relate I have bin sobbing for while now 🥲
Imagine having a loving and caring father
Haha can't relate
And literally like a minute in you have me crying and knowing me I won't stop crying
True
Same
Yea
Yeah just imagining it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy
Same
listening to this on father's day is gonna be my new tradition
haha same
That's brilliant. Love the idea!
this is really brilliant, as someone who had a father diagnosed with npd (narcissistic personality disorder) he had zero empathy and i never got any comfort from him at all. this was just so lovely, to feel a actual fatherly comfort. thank you so much
Omg! Me too! I know how to feeeelll💙😭
My mother is the same
jaimie 재미 i think my dada has that tbh
I have a nfather and nmother like this as well :(
Same to me, maybe my father had npd too
Me: searches for “daddy comforts you” to cry about not having a real daddy ;(
me too :(
Same here:(
Can relate:(
Same we all do be having daddy issues :(((
@@freddiefish8787 no lol
Everyone: talking about there dads
Me: I thought,, wrong kinda daddy
lol thats what i thought too
ME TOO BRUH I
It can be both kinds, whatever works for you!
Sameee
LMAOAOKABDPLS I THOUGHT THE SAME THING/
Thank you for making these gender non-specific! I prefer deeper and rumbly voices for my relaxation but it’s hard to find those audios that don’t use feminine pronouns. These really help out. Thank you, Rainy!
Honestly same
Yeah me too
Same. It’s honestly an untapped genre. So many guys have major daddy issues too. I need representation lmao
God I cried when he started singing
I cried on the very first thing he said
Me too
I'm a 16 yr. old young woman. these kind of comfort videos definitely help me to sleep. My dad is in the Navy and doesnt comfort me like this. And I just went through a break up a few months ago. All in all, these kind of videos really help me calm down to sleep, despite the loneliness and insomnia.
I'm bit embarrassed to listen to this in almost 18 but I have never experienced this kind of anything for my father I wished he treated me like this thank you so much I'm really grateful
Dude... if you ever become an actual father...
You'd be the absolute best.
So nice of you to do this for little ones who didn't or don't have a Daddy/Father to comfort us when we need it. All the comments about crying at how sweet and beautifully loving this is are accurate, ha. I hope everyone gets so much love and snuggles that one day videos like this won't make you cry because you're loved and protected in real life
My little 10 yo cousin lost her parents in an accident last year, and now she struggles with severe ptsd and depression. She's got no parental figure that she is comfortabe with. I know she REALLY needed cuddles and hugs from someone (I'm in another country so I couldn't), so I sent this to her, and i can tell she needed this. Thank you for helping her sleep at night and feel loved.
I played this at night cuddling my boyfriends sweater (we have to be long distance right now) and I started completely balling my eyes out. I didn't realize I cried myself to sleep and passed out until I woke up the next morning with my headphones still in and my phone in the same spot I put it.
I was always a huge daddy's girl but not long after I turned 5 my dad started drinking more and wasn't around very much so this really helps a lot in 'filling that gap' of time we could've spent together building a relationship.
iM riGhT Their wiTh u ALeX MY DaD wuZ a MaJOr MassiVe DruG aDDiCT DrinKinG inCLuDinG
He wuZ TaKen OuTTa Me&MY brOTher Z LiVes
aT The TiMe i wuZ a NewbOrn. MY brOTher wuZ a TODDLer
Our FaTher wiLL NVr be FOrGiVen FOr HiZ ACTiOnZ
i’ve been so emotionally neglected for the 19 years of me living that i literally can’t even comprehend the fact that a father figure should be like this or that this is even real
i can’t even be able to finish it just crying all the times
Thank you for this. Sometimes we all need to hear that everything is ok.
I am personally going through a lot right now. These very much help me being a little. Please make more Daddy audios! They help me so much and make me feel a little comfort when I don't really have much in the way I need it and understand it. Thank you so much Rainy❤ long time fan:)
Wonderful to have this sense of belonging. Especially after losing my own father 19 years ago. Thank you.
I was in a car accident yesterday and I couldn’t fall asleep because i was so riddled with anxiety from it. This was exactly what I needed ❤️ thank you so much 🥺
You're welcome, I'm very glad this could help you feel better after that. You may also find it helpful to listen to this audio on how our body responds to traumatic events such as that car accident. It might help you understand your reaction and things you may go through: ruclips.net/video/UHAfuaoa6Vg/видео.html
Rainy Day Audios oh my gosh 🙈 thank you so much ❤️
"Daddy is right here , znd not going anywhere" , "No need to be strong anymore" "If you need to cry it's okay. And if you fell asleep, it's okay too." Really making me cry.
Me coming here after my real dad just scolded me, and we had that usual dry and harsh conversation.. Thank you, Rainy:)❤️🩹🔋
I do have a dad, a really loving one actually! But..this really helped me to feel a little less sad because I lost my favorite stuffie just which is really upsetting..so thank you for helping me!!
Just the fact that others have to listen to this to feel love to hear one embracing them into their arms warms my heart things like this can help people and do I’m grateful we have this.
I recently found your works and they have been super helpful. My father passed last fall unexpectedly and he was my world. When I was younger, he'd tell me similar things. When I got older, he still did. I don't have that anymore and though I've processed his death better, sometimes it doesn't feel quite real. Thank you for this as I at times held in my sadness in regards to his passing. He was such a gentle soul and I miss him so much.
You're very welcome, i'm glad my work could help you to heal and recover from that loss. It's okay to feel those feelings, denial and unreality is a coping mechanism to help us space out the loss and pain so we aren't overwhelmed by it. It sounds like you're doing well at reorganising your life and processing things. I've got a bunch of fatherly audios, from bedtime stories to praise, encouragement, comfort and even some ambient 'hanging out with your dad' audios. They may all be helpful.
2 seconds in and i burst into tears and didn’t stop until the end, just lied in my bed hugging my phone. I knew i needed this kind of affection but apparently didn’t realize how much. Thank you so much
I've been struggling a lot recently, and it's hard to go to my own dad and stepmom when I need help. This is so relaxing and comforting and I'm so glad that I found you. These audios make me feel a bit of peace, so thank you very much
after my breakup i was just like *all men do is hurt me* but not this one, this ones good
Rainy would never!
I keep crying every time he said I'll keep you safe. Damn my fragile heart.
When he started singing I legit almost cried.
Anyone else going to bring up the fact he has a decent singing voice?
I'm very ill with a neurological disease and my for real daddy died a few years ago so hearing this soothing voice and hearing such comforting words helps me fall asleep and feel protected and safe. Plus fighting this disease and being strong gets harder and harder to do so when you say I'm brave and now I can cry really helps me feel better. Thank you very very much.
This helped me recover from a flashback/panic attack. (I have CPTSD from trauma caused by my own father) I’ve never felt this safe from someone’s voice alone, thankyou so much
Wow, this cured me so much 😍 I was so scared of the storm noises outside and was afraid to go to sleep, even put my pacifier out after such a long time and cuddled with my pillow. My boyfriend was not here and listening to you made me feel safe and calm. And when you just started singing 😍😍😍😍❤️ I was in heavy peace, nobody even as a child sang for me, this was therapy for me. Thank you so much. ❤️🙏💕
I'm a bit late to the party, but just wanted to say I love this audio so much ❤️ you're very good at comforting and talking people down from their emotions. I had a good cry, and feel 100% better.
Not to mention, you sang one of my favorite songs of all time. I used to sing it to my ex-fiance when he'd have night terrors, and it felt nice to have someone sing it to me. You've truly got a gift. Keep it up 🤘🏻
Thank you very much, I'm really glad it was helpful and you appreciated it. It's never too late to leave feedback, I always appreciate it.
I sleep to this every single night
THANK YOU for making this audio!! words can't describe the warmth and love this fills me.. its so healing
Jesus this had such a profound reaction on me. Lately I've been wondering if I'm a little. I fit almost all of the qualifications for being one. I was just curious to see what was out there. Started this video and when you said it was okay to cry, I was just like 'nah I don't need to'. But the more I listened, I spontaneously started crying?? Like shaking so hard trying not to sob crying.
I think allowing myself to be a little for a DD would give me what I missed out on with my real dad. Not even a sexual thing... I just want to be loved and cared for, maybe be allowed to be bad occasionally. I was too well behaved as a kid.
I'm glad you let yourself embrace that powerful catharsis. It's often a way for people to experience the childhood they didn't get to have the first time around.
thanks this helped, especially since I never see my dad anymore.
my dad has never really BEEN THERE for me. in fact; he’s a bit abusive. hearing this makes my heart clench and feel complete. thanks, man. i really needed to hear this ✨
Oh how this helped sooth my inner little girl that didn’t realize how much of an impact not having a father had until much later in life.
Thank you for sharing Rainy. I hope you are safe and well.
This makes me really happy cause I don’t get much attention at home like this. My whole family is always fighting one other.
That was the case for me growing up as well. I hope you someday find a brotherhood as tried and true as the band mates of Meshuggah
thanks man, these make me feel less alone
Thank you so, so much for making this. You have such a calming and caring voice, its perfect for this type of audio. Been listening to this for a few days now since i found it. It makes me feel calm, loved and tingly ❤
I've been having some issues lately with how my medications are affecting my anxiety. I've also been struggling financially, and job hunting. I listened to this while filling out some stressful forms. Despite the fact I was actively doing something stressful it made me feel better. I could even feel myself physically relaxing. This was really what I needed to hear today. Definitely going on my ASMR playlist! ✨I hope you are doing well ✨💗
I really needed this.
I’ve always craved my father’s actual love. But the only thing he knows how to love is himself
I was having a really hard day yesterday. This helped me relax so much, and even though I was still having a bad day after, I felt so much better and was able to handle it all so much better. Content creators who make things like this are awesome and I’m so grateful for this audio. My heart goes out to anyone else struggling and to the people who help ❤
This really helps.. I just lost my relationship and I've been having really vivid and scary nightmares..
i still come back to these sometimes when my heart needs it, thank you rainy
I sobbed while listening to this, i never had a father figure in my home thank you
We miss this a lot. I’ve listened to this nearly every night for years. I’d love to connect to do custom or hear more. Regardless thank you for working better than therapy and medication to help with health and medical issues including insomnia. -Lauren
my mental healths been really horrible the past couple of days/weeks to the point i couldnt process what other people were saying at all and one of my only really useful coping mechanisms is regression. this helped me so much, thank you.
This audio is just perfect. I appreciate your work so much, like really, I think words can't express that. You always think of others, you try to include as many people as possible, you try to make these audios as good as possible and you put alot of work into it, because you like to help other people, even though you don't know us personally. You're such a lovely, wise person Rainy! You have all my support and love.
Thank you very much, Tuffi. I really appreciate you saying that, it means a lot to me.
@@rainydayaudios7754 I'm the one to say thank you! c: I'm smiling so much right now, haha
I was having a damn hard night... The first 10 seconds of this audio broke me into tears
Same
im literally sobbing. i still have a dad. i still live with him. i still talk to him. i still see him everyday. but i feel like i've never been able to seek comfort from him. he's never been the best person and hasn't always made the greatest choices or done the greatest things to me, so it really helps me feel happy whenever i find audios like these. thank you so much for this.
When you don’t have a real dad so you go on RUclips to find something to comfort you or fill that gap of missed affection from your dad. :( I’m glad these exist
I haven’t been able to cry for a while, I’ve been so caught up with trying to act strong that I can’t cry because I’m so dulled to the stress. This video helped me cry it out and get the bottled up emotions out. Thank you.
Hey, if you need a reminder to let those feelings out again, here it be
I'm crying so bad right now. I miss my Papa. It's been 13yrs since he died, but because of this I can imagine him talking to me through this audio. Thank you 🥺😭
I’ve been in littlespace and my long distance relAtionships are too busy with stuff so like this was a big help for me being an insomniac
Omg same
Really need this...I'm not doing okay and my heart aches from what I missed out on not having a father...or a mother. Woohoo for broken homes...
The way I immediately started crying when I started this
My parents fought tonight…I needed this…❤❤
I have a lot of trouble crying because I always used to get in trouble for crying too much as a kid. This really helped me, I've been needing a good cry and reassurance that I'm not bothering anyone. Thank you
Taking 17 minutes of your time just to make everyone feel comfortable 🥺 man you a legend 😭😭
perfect perfect timing. i jus had a panic attack...thanku lots sir. i hope ur happie too thanku 🥺💖
I read the title and started crying this hurts
I just want someone to hug me and tell me I'm doing well, and this is such an effective substitute. Thank you
the singing omg, im literally crying now this is my favorite audio ever. i wish someone loved me this much
My dad passed away a few days ago, this honestly made me tear up even more bcs man i really needed it 🥲💔
My dad is not a part of my life so I can't get the comfort of having him like I crave and desire. But when I listen to your voice it helps me a lot too with my anxiety. Like today I was anxious after talking with my counselor about a certain topic but after listening to you it helped me calm down so thank you so much for making these.
Me: cuddled up and dozing off to this blessing of an audio
My four dogs: Time to bark, and never stop
:^)
Litterally crying so hard I'm shaking this is something I really needed and didnt even know it
Omg, I love that this is for all genders. All kinds of people need this reaffirming love and kindness and crying. This pandemic had robbed many of this human contact. Great video.
My dad died when I was 3 so this was really nice to just lie back and pretend.
i have never felt what you made me feel before. never knew how much i needed fatherly comfort.
you're an angel. i cant thank you enough
This is my definition of a perfect dad. Someone who understands the importance of their child’s mental health and doesn’t take it for granted.
Being an only child & "star student" means a lot of expectations are heaped on me. My parents' ultimate goal is to see me successful, living the life I want & giving them the comfortable life they deserve. That's great & all, I want that too, but... Amidst the fierce independence, hustling & striving for my goals, lies a little girl who just wants to be cared for. In my freshman year of college, I was hospitalized due to pneumonia, but I knew deep down, it was also because of burnout. I've been working too hard, just to maintain my scholarship, student roles & roles outside of school. Things are a lot better now & I've learnt to take more breaks.
Oh, what I'd give to have this kind of attention/comforting from someone. And to have them just hold me. 😭😩😭
Thank you, Rainy. ❤️💜😌 you helped alleviate the pain of countless people.
I'm very glad you're starting to take better care of yourself, and to let yourself have care from others like with this audio. It's good to give Little Jade some time once in a while. I've got a bunch of nice fatherly audios, bedtime audios, ambient audios to relax with.
I've also got a couple of audios that deal with burnout, unrealistic standards and treating ourselves with kindness:
ruclips.net/video/bh8eboC7f3I/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/hpBdbK4c-V0/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/fruckSoIDRA/видео.html
Thank you for your videos, Rainy. ❤️ They help me so much.
And honestly I'm still reeling over the fact that you actually replied to me 😅☺️ Thank you!
And yes, I agree. We all deserve to relax, once in a while. Tbh, I have a mini archive of your Fatherly audios I saved them in a playlist 💛 because those are my favorite. I would love it if you made more DDLG audios, they would mean a lot. 😊 Once again, thank you & much love!
My daddy recently broke up with me and I really wanna thank you for making me feel comfortable when I'm in headspace, I really appreciate it. I'm glad you add the parts where you say it's okay to cry. Thank you so much 💕
I had never really listened to asmr much, but lately, I've been feeling very lost. My father left when I was a baby, so I've never really experienced fatherly treatment. For some reason lately, my fatherlessness has been bothering me terribly, and I just long so badly for the feeling to have one. I broke down and cried within a minute of this audio and I keep listening to this almost daily. Rainy, you are truly magnificent. This audio helps heal the pain. You are so considerate and kind-hearted to do this for people. I thank you immensely for your work.
Thank you so much.
-Bella
Thank you very much, Bella. I'm really glad this resonates with you and has granted you the ability to heal a little. It's perfectly understandable that in these difficult times of suffering and isolation, fear and stress, you'd need the comfort of a father. Unfortunately many people don't measure up to the task of being a father, and their children suffer as a result. I've got a bunch of fatherly audios of different kinds, and they can help with that, but obviously can't heal all of that suffering. We can find surrogate fatherly figures in all sorts of places (friends, mentors, other family members, therapists, teachers, bosses, media personalities such as Mr. Rogers, etc.) but those relationships won't entirely fill that role because they're partially something else too. Those things, combined with therapy, can help you process the loss, grief and pain of not having had a father and the difficulties that come with that (fear, anxiety, insecurity, self-worth issues, abandonment issues, relationship difficulties, etc.) and you can heal more fully. I'd strongly suggest trying to find a good therapist who fits you (when that's possible), someone who deals with family issues and possibly practices a psychodynamic approach to therapy (it delves into the past, parental issues, the ways we've developed, things we experienced in childhood, etc.) as I think that can be truly so helpful, but I understand that may not be possible for you to do at the moment.
I hope you continue to listen and find value in my audios! Thank you for giving it a try and for reaching out.
the amount of tears i’ve shed listening to this video is so painful to me. i know i’m a little and such because i have crippling daddy issues but realizing how broken i am keeps me up at night. i don’t have anyone to comfort me in general but this made me feel so much better. i legit cannot stop crying. but thank you so much for at least making me feel safe for 17 minutes.
I've had a very bad couple of days, they were filled with self loathing, to spare details, and when I needed a father figure the most I found this video. I wanted to say thank you, this made me start crying instantly, I feel so comforted, thank you
My dad (stepdad legally) is on call in the military right now I said I miss him and he called me and read a book until I went to sleep🥰 this is your sign to love step parents the way they love you
Your 👏🏻 descriptions 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 so 👏🏻 thoughtful 👏🏻
Thank you! I write extensive descriptions for all my audios, though sadly most people ignore them and still sometimes have a bad experience because of it.
I love this video.
It makes me feel so loved.
Thank you.
my parents recently admitted they dont really care about me, but thank you for this its really calming me down
he said he's proud
There there there. It’s okay daddy’s here. Daddy’s got you. I couldn’t think of these special comforting words
Today started out rough for me. I am listening to this video on loop. It settles me down enough to deal with everything on my plate.
That was beyond phenomenal. I needed this more than you could imagine. I have no DD in my life right now and this was the closest thing to finding comfort for my little that I have ever found. She's not hurting as much anymore. She finally feels a bit more at peace. That song caused me to break down more than I've been able to in years. It wasn't much of a breakdown, but it was some release and I needed it so, so much. I wish I could give you a hug. Thank you. A million times, thank you.
i’ve watched this so many times… and i still cry when you start singing. thank you so much.
thank you so much for this video.. every time I need comfort or feel like crying I always come back to this.
These audios will always mean the world to me
I recently lost a family member and I cannot express the grief I've felt and the trauma I've been through, but your videos give me so much comfort when I don't have anyone so I want to say thank you so much.