Even worse. 0.43% any race. These 6 foot delusionals have no idea what odds they are trying to play. I bet that's why "tall enough" can get away with saying 6 foot as long as it plays into the delusion
A friend of mine I’ve known my whole life since day one has had the same gf for the last 4yrs. He’s 6.2’ meanwhile I’m 5.9’-5.10’ even tho I’m two days older than he is.
Hate to be that guy, but 5.6% is just the chance if you pick up a random guy on the street. If you put that requirement in a dating software instead, you are 100% guaranteed to find 100+ men just like that in your city in less than a second. The problem is they are showing 1000 girls the same 100 guys so they all think they have a chance. And the other 900 guys never get shown.
Yeah a 1 in 20 chance of randomly selecting a suitable person from the general population is actually not that bad. But it means u gotta be in the 95th percentile for looks to match them.
50k, 60k is not a bad salary. Actually when I met my husband he was making 35k. He was a teacher..."high value " shouldn't mean looks and salary. It should mean someone has a good character, they are loyal and devoted and disciplined and hard working. They are a man of faith and honest. Thats a high value man in my opinion. Looks can come second or 3rd.
You didn't have unreasonable standards, so you were able to find a husband. The calculator is for women that are permanently single. The women that remain in the dating pool have unrealistic standards, and they find it insulting to think they should have to settle for a guy that actually exists.
More women think like you in the west than don't. Although a lot of men have been brainwashed to believe the majority of women in the west are looking for men who are high earners. I can guarantee a woman who is wife material doesn't care about those things. As you said, she wants to know is the man loyal, disciplined, hard-working, honest, and responsible. Women who are wives focus on character first and foremost. The other things are bonuses to them.
It’s really so weird to me as a taller woman, why super duper short women feel the need to have a man who’s twice her height or like at least 2 heads taller, like why… not fair for the tall ladies lol 😂
@@asherandai2633as a 5'10 women, I d rather like the person I'm talking to be the same height as me. (In the USA, anything under 5'10 is under average/short for men.)
Girls at work discussing their dating lives. One went on a tinder date with a guy and told us all about it the next day. For context, she's Asian, mid-30s, very tall for Asian, 2 kids, pretty flat chested and wears thick layers of not-Asian-suited make up and thick lashes. She wore contact lenses, stilettos and padded her bra for the date. Per her assessment he had no chance, his eyes weren't the right shade of blue, he wore glasses, and drove a hybrid car and had a cat. His penis was small so she made sure to pass her phone around so they could all gawk and have a nice giggle - one said that's OK, the rest were disgusted. So yea she was ghosting him because EWWW I deserve better than that!! So like 4 girls yacking about how the guys on Tinder are too short, too small, too little hair, don't like the right movies, too egotistical, too little self esteem etc Later in the day the guy messaged to point out she wore massive stilettos, padded her bra and that she made him feel like garbage. Omg those girls went absolutely ape shit! All of a sudden us men were part of the conversation. Why do you ask have such unrealistic standards and how dare you have preferences in who you date. Apparently an age bracket and whether she has kids are despicable misogynistic preferences. Before she left for the day she made sure to top up on her make up.
@@alexb5548he is probably lucky he didn't date her anymore. Women false advertise themselves so much. Body shapers, push up padded bras, make-up, false eyelashes and tall shoes. If a guy did that they would have a cow. I'm a women by the way and if you have unrealistic goals for a mate you will never find one.
My brother made $92k last year and a couple months ago he broke up with his fiance because she said he didn’t make enough money but also worked too much, and expexted him to take care of their home and dogs. She didn’t work at all for four years, didn't take care of the house, and left their dogs in my parents house all day. I would absolutely qualify her as delusional.
And why the F would he propose to her? Ohhh, let me guess...she was hot, huh? See, men cry and whine about how horrible and awful women are these days, yet they ignore good women in favor for the hottest with nothing else going for them. Then they cry that ALL women are horrible bitches!!
I've heard about the 6feet tall "standard", but I never heard of the 100k "standard". '^' Finding someone who makes that kind of money in their 20s around here isn't exactly easy... But hey... As long as they don't complain about being single, they can set the expectations they want.
@@tentenstories It's called the 3 6s 6 ft 6 figures and 6 or more downstairs. There are plenty of women who hold this as the minimum standard....and they're single
Conservative woman here who found that at 18 (married by 24, spousal salary 6-figures by 30)… 20 years later more in love than ever. My more liberal friends said I got married too young and I would regret not focusing on my career and the opportunities to “live”, “be independent” and “be a woman” (whatever that means). The friends who said that are still single and not as financially secure as we are. The attack on marriage starts young-with false ideals of what “womanhood”, “manhood” and “success” should look like to 20 year olds. Not sure why society is opposed to growing and building a life together-it was shoved down my throat how wrong I was to get married and start a family before my career “took off”.
@@arebelscum9495 I met my spouse my first year of university. I do not think there are specific places where you will or won’t meet a conservative woman, but you probably have better odds meeting a woman with the same ideals as you at places that complement those ideals (church, work, school, volunteering, conservative-focused functions/events, through friends). Best wishes.
Yeah, I got my high value man when he was 22 and broke (and I was 21 and equally broke). They don’t come pre-made most of the time. You attain value together as a unit.
Doesn't change I've made 100k a year since I was 22 and all that jazz but every girls I've had in 10 years was "too good for me" so they cheated and slept around last one I didn't even catch she admitted it when I proposed... these ladies don't know what they want
I might get there in a couple years. But by then the new benchmark will be 150k. Assuming the economy doesn’t go through a massive crash in the meantime.
I'm 5'10 and make over 100k. If something were to happen that made me available I would NOT tell a woman how much I make. I want to be liked for me, not for my paycheck.
I’m a woman. Gotta be honest, I have never asked a man I was dating what he made. It never occurred to me to ask. I didn’t even ask my husband when we moved in together. The conversation was more like I can afford xxx amount of rent, how much can you afford so we can figure out what we can get.
@@Littletime839 not the women I’m around. I’m a nanny and even the moms i work for most of them don’t have a job outside the home. Lol. If you don’t want to uphold traditional family values that’s on you but evidence shows it’s better for families & children to do so. Plenty of women would love to be a stay at home wife/mom
@@payton3673 finding someone that matches the criteria and having them actually want to date you are two different things. If that weren't true, any guy could have had 1000 girlfriends on dating apps. The guy might not be interested in the girl
@@rainbowdash_cum_jar How many times does 5.6 go into 100? About 20. 5/100 == 1/20. Sure they rounded down, but they are essentially correct on the math.
100k isn't hard. Find any menial labor (non-minimum wage) job and put in actual effort and you'll make 100k, or close enough. It is so easy to make 100k a year in America that failure to do so just means you aren't actually trying.
@@miloinindonot including taxes and even after ur still crazy gl making over 75k not tryna say it’s impossible but bro if it was as simple as getting a higher paying job everyone would be rich😅
I was a female without such tight standards, truly just wanted a decent man who liked being around me and I liked being around him and be able to solve problems when they inevitably arise. We both didn't make much when we met (combined maybe 50k) but we always found ways to have fun without spending a dime. We quit our jobs and went to grad school, became broke but helped each other follow our dreams. Now he makes over 100k and I could work a lot less if I wanted (but I don't). Find someone you can grow with and who would stick with you through thick and thin and life will be good to you both. Be somebody someone would want to have in their life.
couldn’t agree more. currently college age, on the look out for a man who’s a good friend with solid Christian values, not much else. if we can’t otherwise call ourselves reliable friends who help each other grow in our life and relationship with Christ, then we can’t call each other husband and wife. in my first week i met a guy (call him Joe) who’s a really great friend now with lots in common apart from this: he’s too in line with the government and the v@xxes etc, *and he (currently) has stopped going to church*; building a family together would not work, but i learned these things: 1. to have my heart fixed on Jesus, not on Joe. 2. nobody knows God’s plan, but he has something else down the road for a reason. 3. in short, if a guy doesn’t even treat me as a friend like Joe, he’s not the right guy.
Just go to parties n bung them when they get drunk make em walk sideways n they are so stupid they don't even know it's wrong they are such stupid idiots they let anybody including their fellow female dorm mates hit it too.
Yeah that's the issue here. Women in other parts of the world date for marriage. They view marriage as a reason for family, and responsibility. They do not view dating as lustful fun like women in western countries. Marriage is not meant to be easy and convenient, and if you're dating for fun, expect to just be the fun girl for the rest of your life.
The high value men are already taken because a woman who loved them for who they are got them before they were high value. I met my wife in college, married her when I was making 30k when I was 23, now I'm 28 and make 120k. I know she loves me for who I am and not for what I have, so I try to always treat her and thank her for those times when she actually made more than me, but still loved me.
@@Grizzly_Adams. dude, 100% facts. We live in an instant gratification society. People just wanna have it all right now, not willing to put in the effort
@Rhys Gallery welp, considering she loved me before I was successful, I'm sure she would still love me if I was less successful than I am now. I'm not going to do this because healthy marriages are founded on trust, not deception.
@@boogermaiden key word there is "HEALTHY" self love. Healthy self love doesn't rate itself a 10 because it understands that a 10 is perfect and if you think you're a 10, then you don't think you have anything to improve. So ya, most ladies out here are just delusional
Part of this, is also it depends on where you live too. Many areas a six figure income, is less than 1% chance. Most areas you find more people with that income, the cost of living is so much higher. So not only do they have to compete with a lot of women, but the price of everything, makes that income see lower.
You’re right Brett; it is sad. But you missed the point. It’s not showing America’s fat problem. It’s showing how much, in general, females hate males nowadays for no logical reason at all.
Jesus gave you help, supposedly. What did y'all do to it? Muslims still holding on to Jesus & Muhammed (pbut). They're doing much better than the West, morally speaking.
The last sentence really puts things into perspective. If you want the top 5% man(although if you watch the full video it becomes top 1% because he forgot to check off unmarried) you gotta be the top 5% woman.
The 100k is really killing the stats. Especially if you are on the low end of the age range. There are lots of careers that are great great and important that don’t make 100k, especially earlier in the career
It doesn't matter. Many women want a man making at least six-figures, so he put it in to show them how delusional they are. He's not killing the stats, he's showing the stats of things that are asked for.
Trick is to find a partner when your young and build your lives/family together. Makes the relationship mean a lot more rather than both partners building independent lives separately and then trying to mash them together later in your life.
@@NickThillerthey break our hearts 😢 Did she leave you with the kids and house and run off to find happiness on her own? That's what my b!tch of an ex wife did to me and our daughter after we spent most of our lives together from age 17 to 28 she decided she wasn't happy and that was my fault, (sorry to rant)
Until the guy decides he wants to go explore and has more money and thinks he can pull tail at an older age. Leaving her with babies and pregnant and no life experience since she married young too and doesn’t have higher education and work since she forgo that to raise a family. Men are breaking homes
Shit I am 6 1 software engineer, no bitches going into my 20s no bitches, yeah I am fit asf yet no bitches. And maybe 🤔 just maybe bitches don’t want me cause they think they are going to find a better taller smarter stronger man than me, yet no bitches. I wonder how the other guys compete, I rizz girls up beautifully yet they don’t like to continue with anything they just want me to carry a full on convo and I get bored with inattentive people 🥲👀
When I met my husband, we were 21 and he was unemployed. We’re 35 now, happily married with two children and he makes 6 figures now. It takes time to build your dreams but the important part is building them together and supporting each other along the way.
I’m 6’2” and in good shape with a dark full head of hair, $100k per year job and own my own home and I get rejected by women who really don’t deserve my attention, yup a lot of them are delusional. When the %5 man shows up they think they can do better 😂 and turn him down. Keep strong brothers don’t let them get you down cause it’s their loss, remember that you are the prize!
HEY GOOD FOR YOU MAN, I'M A WOMAN, AND EVEN I THINK THEY ARE CRAZY. DATING AND MARRIAGE ALIKE, BOTH SEEM TO BE DISASTERS NOW ADAYS TBH. MAYBE THAT'S WHY I AIN'T DOING ANYTHING ABOUT THAT ATM LOL. BUT I'M PROUD OF YOU FOR NOT CAVING INTO THEIR BS. U'LL FIND THE RIGHT ONE SOMEDAY, STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF AND THE SANE ONES WILL LOVE YOU FOR IT.
Same, but I'm also on trenbolone and shredded with 99.9th percentile physique and pretty good face, but only 3-4/10s compliment or approach me irl, and even a lot of those think they can get something better. Anyone above that? Forget about it. They're always looking for a bigger Gigachad. It's a joke. Thing is, why should I lower MY standards? I'm an above average man. THEY'RE the ones who are hypergamous, not me. Why the fuck do I have to date down?
@@rb-up6pm AGAIN, I DON'T BLAME U MAN ITD A DAD PATHETIC JOKE. IF ANYTHING THEY'RE SCREAMING SOME KIND OF MENTAL ISSUE, THEY ARE SPOILED OR SOMETHING, BUT LIKE MY MOM TELLS ME, NO ONE IS PERFECT. SO FOR THEM TO ASK FOR SUCH UNREALSITCLY HIGH STANDARDS IS RUDE AS HELL. I EMAN ITS ONE THING TO HAVE SOME PERSONAL REFERENCES, AS WE ALL DO, BUT IT IS ANOTHER THING TO LET THEM COMPLETELY WARP YOUR MIND LIKE THIS. DON'T SETTLE FOR ANYONE WHO DSEONT' LOVE YOU, FOR YOU, AND AS IS AID BEFORE BE YOUR BEST SELF FOR YOURSELF, NOT ANYONE ELSE. HONESTLY SPEAKING, EVEN IF U DID HAVE THEIR "REFERENCES" THEY'D PROBABLY FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO NAG OR LEAVE U ABOUT BECAUSE THEY'RE PUSHY SELFISH ASSHOLES. SORRY IF I JUST REPEATED MYSELF HERE BTW LOL.
@@rb-up6pm A tren body is usually not a preferred body to women. Too large to most women. This is simply you not understanding what they are looking for. Now, working out hard, putting in the cardio, and 300mg of test, no tren? That's the body they like.
100% just the comment I was looking for. The only women who get to find these guys are 20 something year old model-looking women marrying men in their 40s
And women still initiate divorce the major the time. It’s like they want to be used for sex in their 20’s then discarded while men have to have their shit together by 25.
Yeah, got repeatedly told I was "doing it backwards" for wanting someone to work through life with. Gotta "get situated first" whatever the fuck that looks like now in this fucked economic system. (Which becomes less bearable without the intimate connections/ social circle for most people) Now I'm 35 so it feels like everyone now expects me to be a finished product, so RIP to that. Consumer culture rotting people's brains.
Well he forgot to include height which most girls filter at 6 feet, that would bring you down to about 0.9%. Finally, there's no way of knowing this one but you have to take into consideration the men that would want you back assuming your a girl and not a male being sarcastic on the comments section lol, that would bring your percentage to highly probable 0%
Lol yes there is a chance because this calculators math has been proven to be wrong lmao ALSO it should take into account your own stats like whether or not you graduated college or how much money you make yourself as it's easier and you have a better chance of meeting these men if you are educated. I'm almost done with college and have a job offer starting at 65k my bf is starting at 80k. My friends who went to college-- the lowest starting salary of them is 45k. If you check out the male delusional calculator it's even worse especially if you pick a certain race lol 😂 The math isn't right but I appreciate what the creator is trying to do. I would love to see the creation process behind these two calculators and improve upon them 😁
Shit I vowed I'd lose weight 2 weeks ago starting from 300, I am now down to 280 and have no more pain in my feet, legs, and lower back. I'm so proud of myself and and grinding daily to reach my goal of 190
Great work so far Notion! Keep up the good work! And don't beat yourself up if you make a mistake here or there, as long as in aggregate you do what you gotta do you'll make it where you wanna be!
@@Ratchet4647 im doing the best i can. i was prescribed medicine that alters my appetite and have been using the treadmill with an incline for 30 minutes a day. i cant believe the progress ive made and i never thought id be able to keep up with it cuz of my terrible mental ive gotten myself in over the years. but i am pushing myself daily. thank you for the support :D
I started at 330 im 300 now, I wanna lose at least another 100 but currently can't afford a gym membership rn so I've just been using our 5 gallon water jugs for Farmer walks and some cheap dumbbells, good luck on your journey, and keep pushing 💪💪💪
This right here. It's not worth it. Last woman i was talking to would ask me to come over and "cuddle" and i came up with an excuse everytime. The last one before she finally took the hint was that I had to do laundry.
Most men who get there meet their wives when they had nothing and get married along the way. They get focused because they can see a future with that person and they want to make those new dreams possible.
I'm not at the married part yet, it's coming, we're just not in a rush for that part. But this was the exact way I did it tbh. When I was confident in our relationship I got to focus on my career without the BS. Then we both benefited from it after a few years.
I feel like the 100k is killing the odds quite a bit too here. I mean I average 70 and I don't think that's to bad. When I was breaking 100k I was working 70 hour weeks.
Right, 100k is a lot of money especially for a 28 year old. My dad was not making that kind of money when he married my mom at 19. Still married after 32 years and six kids with 4 grandkids.
100k is what women ask for, that's why he put it there, to show them how delusional they are. 70k is a great salary. Most modern women don't think so. They want a man making 100k+, even 250k+.
Yes, it is killing the odds. But then go ahead and check out surveys and street interviews of what alot of women actually want and they are listing off incomes well above 100k. This to say, they don't have an accurate sense of reality and 100k is often considered the "bare minimum" level of being comfortable.
@@sherlock7898 Those were different times. You're also not accounting for inflation. 50k back a few decades ago was good money and was a well above average salary. You're also not taking into account the trajectory of what's happening. Around half of women over 40 will be single and childless by 2030. The pool of women and their increased pickiness of what they find desirable in a mate is reflecting in the studies and statistics. The days of women having 6 kids per household with a husband, a white picket fence, married decades and choosing a guy of average means to marry (like the GI generation of the 50s) is a thing of the past. Even getting a woman to have 1 kid and to get married before age 35 is a challenge today.
Her delusion is still showing… She actually thinks that it is the obesity that is the problem. I just went and ran the numbers and did 28-45, any height, any weight, any race, unmarried, but income at least $100k. It was 4.5%! She thinks it is about tacos. The average salary in the United States for a man in that age group is about $50,000. These chicks be trippin.
So it’s an even *lower* percentage if you include *any* weight vs if you use the exact same stats but leave *out* obese men? That just shows this “calculator” makes no sense 😂
People are just so deluded about incomes. Most people don't make much at all really, and the ones in "6 figures" are usually +50 year olds. And most of those married when they were 20-30 year old probably, considering how more common marrying was back then.
Here's women's real criteria: Over 6', fit, muscular, handsome, social, can dance, no more than 5 years her senior, financially secure (has a house and equity and savings), makes more money than she does, so if she makes 100k, he must make 120k, nice car, loyal, can fix a car and house issues, no diseases, puts her name on the deed, has to be able to store all her crap, must accept her baggage, her body count, should be able to cook, clean, do laundry, feed her dog, put up with her toxic family, raise her children, accept far less sex than he really wants/needs. And somehow, women always seem to find their meal ticket in life. Probably cuz men will bang anything that moves.
@@someguy2117 Seriously! Like, sure, I have preferences, but come on. All I want is a guy who's going to love God, love me, and be a good father and partner. Whatever that entails.
Honestly, I am hella proud of how much weight I lost this year. Yes I will brag or mention it, just because it was a huge struggle. Decided to start lowering my antidepressants, that was hard, then trying to eat less and eat the right things and take the time to actually cook and go grocery shopping. Then it was the arm workouts and the long walks I took. I wish my grandmother was still alive to see how much progress I made. I might still be 20 lbs heavier than when I was 25, but at least I feel good about myself for once in a very long time. I don’t even care if men call me ugly now, i know I am making progress and there’s just something so magical about feeling proud about yourself for the work you achieved on your own, without any support from others and having people berate you at your lowest point. It’s almost like a fuck you, I can do what I want and you’re not gonna call me names anymore due to appearance.
Agree!!! I totally skipped Thanksgiving this year. Cut out MANY people from my life last year. Stopped dating (entirely) 7 years ago. I didn't get called "ugly" nor am I overweight. But... People tend to find ANY flaws to cut you down, belittling attacking and labels. Done with caring.
@@markblanchard9049yeah I didn’t really do much for thanksgiving either, got me and my daughter a Cornish game hen and that was as much effort as I was going to put into it lol. I totally understand what you’re saying though, I have been staying celibate since beginning of October. I think it’s a great lifestyle change as well since I just don’t want to put effort and care into people that don’t care back.
I'm 5 10 and weigh 200lbs. I make 34k a year and maybe another 25k cash on my side hustles. My wife still thinks I'm a catch and I love and cherish her ever moment I get.
Well you'd be a 10/10 stand up guy if you'd lose the extra mass. It's not difficult, it just takes discipline, I'm sure your wife would love it, and you'd have a chance at making even more extra money. See how you just named off a bunch of poor characteristics about yourself to make you seem like a loser (probably because you see yourself that way) when almost everything about you would be significantly better if you just put in that little extra effort? RUclips comments usually don't change anyone though so enjoy your 200lb life dude👌
@@nathanielkrause4528 well if you lose weight it will feel better. And you will live longer. What is the point of having loved ones if you can't live with them for as long as possible. It would take discipline and it is obvious you are doing well for yourself but you need to be healthy to live long.
A lot of high value men are that way in part because of the support from their wives. Women want a man to make it big, before he finds a woman, so they can get a free ride. You can plant more seeds together.
Women don't build a Man, they pick a Man whose already driven then take all the credit for their hard work and determination. Cringe. Most Women don't even have the patience for that. Mostly, they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners.
Agree. My husband always says he’s thankful to me for betting on him before he had “made it” career wise. I love that we got married and have been able to help each other meet our goals.
YOU IDIOT, YOU LEFT OUT THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR STAT!!!! PASSPORT, BRO! STEP 1: GET PASSPORT STEP 2: FLY TO JAPAN STEP 3: ???????????? STEP 4: PROFIT!!!!
We mostly eliminated death by starvation. Our homeless are overweight. I have more option to feed myself than ALL my ancestor combined. The last famine was before my great grand father was born. I think we're doing ok.
@@BF-I-II-V-V-III-VII our homeless are not overweight, many homeless people are also drug dependent which further thins them. many poor people, however, are fat. this is incentivized by fastfood being cheaper for short term but being way expensive on the long run compared to making the food yourself and buying groceries in bulk. ^speaking as a resident of usa
Well the man I’m dating is within that 5.6% range and he absolutely is high value and wonderful and my best friend and I’m not letting him go… but his status and appearance aren’t even the beginning of why he truly is high value.. definitely blessed.
As a woman you too would have to be worth the sticking around with you to Yourd have to pretty special even to achieve that No 304 would even come close
I never realized how lucky I am until now 😂 but also sometimes your husband may not make money like that until later. You have to know if he’s going to work towards that. Some guys do, some don’t.
For western women who are entitled, bitchy, and overly masculine i wont work for that at all if i wanted that id just fuck guys instead. Men want soft sweet traditional women but for some reason western women think men want women who are manly which is the opposite of what we want.
Oh yes I agree! Find a good man and support him while he works his way up! Everyone starts somewhere, and a taken care of and loved man can go far in life and be very successful because he’s happy
@@abceckswhyzee7169 all the sane women are already taken. All they got left is all the britneys and beckies who can't keep dick out of them. They have such delusional standards. And all they care about is money because they are too lazy to work themselves. They would rather use men who aren't even rich and then go cheat on them with someone else. Women these days don't know the meaning of loyalty.
Exactly! I got mine when he was 20 and I was 18 haha married when I was 21 and he was 23. 9 years = 4 kids, 2 houses (bought) and tons of adventures and growing up together and we wouldn't trade it for anything! 👌❤️
Women don't build Men. Guys don't just become great. They usually have the characteristics needed to do it. They were gonna become great with or without a Woman. With encouragement helps but don't take credit as if you can make or break a Man. It doesn't work that way.
@@Kyle-2020 Maybe you should realize a few things... Men without that love and encouragement won't bother. Company's advance married men (especially with children) faster . It isn't him just gonna be great on his own. To think ANYONE does it "on their own" is as stupid as expecting a utopia world. Neither can happen.
The delusion is that women who would be ranked by most men as "undesirable" (which is different than unattractive) insist on being that picky. High value men marry high value women. But what is valuable to them? It doesn't matter what you think of yourself. It matters what they think of you. Are you the kind of woman they want?
Yeah. But honestly that's why I don't get the whining from Manosphere guys. They don't want the women they whine about, and those women don't want Manosphere guys, so everyone wins, and if Manosphere guys stopped whining they'd find girls they WERE interested in and who are interested in return. There's NO conflict. It's just drama.
@@bufficliff8978 Many of the men you are referring to suffer a similar delusion. Once again you have to consider what kind of person you want to marry and then make yourself into the kind of person they want to marry. Or settle. Just pick one and do it on purpose. You can't change other people, only yourself.
It's not the fatness of America it's men knowing their worth and finding a partner young or not fitting into that miserable category for someone else's happiness
@@sirsmokesalot730 Your either an edgy 15 year old who is single and has a high metabolism or a divorced Dad whose wife left him for a hefty guy.. and the wife was thick too 😂
@@knightheaven8992 they both need to lose weight men and women. If you have a body fat percent well over the recommended number then you gotta lose weight regardless of your gender.
A 5.6% match rate translates to 1 in 18 men, while a 12.91% rate (which is what I got) is about 1 in 8 women. These percentages simply indicate the number of people who fit your criteria in comparison to the entire population, not the likelihood of you actually finding a compatible partner. Your success in finding a match depends on various factors like effort, attractiveness, and personality. So, someone who seems to have a perfect match rate might still struggle if they don't actively seek a partner or have unappealing traits. Conversely, someone with a lower match rate could have a great chance if they are highly attractive and successful.
Exactly !! Food is fuel for a very productive day even if you just gonna stay home all day soooo lest all eat the food while we can and be happy and healthy ofc!!
5.6% chance finding them, less than 1% of actually liking them. Less than (whatever the fuck is left) of you having a long lasting "happy" relationship with them at all.
Even Brett has it all wrong. “All these high value men are off the market by age 28.” No. You just thought they were a much higher proportion than they actually are. Women don’t even see men that don’t fit their criteria, they’re invisible to them. As if they don’t exist.
Any relationship is like learning a subject. Trying to take the shortcuts don't really get you there. You gotta be willing to go through the growing pains to become the end result.
The sad truth is that young people today Who are getting married. 85% of them will be Divorced within 5 years. I have been lucky and have been married for over 25 years.
Got married at 18 and he was working at McDonald's as a manager not making much. We are in our mid 30s's now and he is now a Mechanic making over 100,000 a year. It wasn't about the money we grew together
Got married at 18 as well. He was in the military making about 45k in a high cost of living state. Now we’re 30 with 3 kids in a more affordable state, and he makes less but he doesn’t have to go away anymore. Worth it to our entire family to have him around ❤️
@@taleoftwowolves74 I’m definitely not saying it’s a wise decision for the majority, but I’m glad I got married at 18. I was very focused on courtship and marriage from a young age because I wanted to be a homemaker and homeschool our kids. Thankfully, my husband was mature enough to want those things and seek a life partner that aligned with his plan as well. I’m not saying it’s easy. I believe we are still together only with God’s grace, and stubbornness on the part of my husband and myself.
After being in the dating pool for over 20 years, and failing at every relationship I’ve had, I will say that the #1 reason why my relationships never worked out was because of $$$. I simply did not have the job, career, or money coming in, that they desired. And it’s not like the women I dated were incredibly good looking, or had options galore. They were just normal women with normal jobs. Im even 6’4” tall, athletic, and a person most people want to be around because I’m just a good person. That wasn’t enough. I didn’t make enough $$. So yes, this video is 100% accurate on women being delusional.
I made enough money for my wife until the industry I worked in collapsed and then I didn't make enough money. Thus the divorce. I will never marry again I see what womens true desires are.
@@Sheriff_K I disagree, although 100k is not the cut off. You need to be able to support a family to start one. Doesn't need to be easy street or a lot of kids but you can't do it as a drive through attendant.
Not with that attitude. Not be an a$$ but If you can figure out how to make 6 figures you can figure out how to land a girl. Realistically the former is harder.
Can't forget you're just a speck in the sea of d!cks. Women available for dating are insanely overrun by attention at every second. Trying to exist among all of that is honestly degrading
@@ultra.based.27 sure ain’t. But you’ll notice my comment references the past. I’m happy with what I have and am grateful for all the times I was passed over to get here
@@9l4y3rf0rl1f3 That's like saying i'd rather win a million than a car since you can buy a car with the money. I'm not necessarily saying you can buy a wife, but the 6 figure salary ..
@@9l4y3rf0rl1f3 Why bring up your mom and her boyfriend? Only to say she doesn't need his money? If anything women who are doing alright for themselves have higher standards for what a man should make since they don't want him to make less than them, eventhough they wouldn't depend on their man financially. These are not the type of women you can "buy" though. Regardless, it was a joke since the vid is about women wanting a man who makes 100k+...
You achieve more when you’re alone or should at least, I think it’s a great opportunity to chase what you want without having to worry about someone else
I'm 25, 6'2, just got out of the Air Force, and make 63k a year. and I'm unnoticed by all women and never even held hands with one. I'm not rich but for my age I'm doing okay, I'm not fat either. I've accepted that I've been condemned to solitude forever.
Being single is literally the BEST time of my life! I can't believe I thought I'd be happy in a relationship. Getting cheated on isn't fun, I just never took that into consideration when I started dating. Now that I know I have a 98% chance of getting cheated on eventually, I just stayed single. Stay single. Stay happy!
@@HippoReacts this is so sad, but that's how I am now too. Except I can't say I'm happy single, I'm still working on trying to come to terms with it, honestly. As a young woman I saw all this kind of stuff on the internet, and I internalized it and was like "IM not shallow, and I'm gonna find a great guy by going after ones that aren't at all conventionally attractive!" Spoiler, it didn't work. It just feels even worse when the person cheating on you, telling you that you arent good enough, trying to make you change yourself entirely, etc. is a literal cave troll that you've been treating like prince charming and accepting all their glaring flaws, meanwhile he's been committed to tearing you down. It's so painful and humiliating I can't even begin to explain. I'll never date again and I'm still not over the fact that I'll never get married and have biological kids. I'd be a genuinely great mother, so I'm going to foster at least, but it still burns when I see men who so obviously chose a wife solely because of their beauty, often these retired party girls with no maternal desire, who complain about their beautiful families and the children they're now stuck with. Life sucks, but it's not the average woman's fault, the same way my unromantic life kinda sucking isn't the fault of the average man. The men who hurt me, don't represent every man. This comment section telling women it's their own fault for being in this situation for being shallow is sooo hypocritical and it SUCKS 😭 not all of us are these shallow prom queens you simultaneously loathe and desire more than anything. So thank you fellas, for the small but safe pockets like this that are here in the comments!
@Hippo Hat Well, those stats are definitely not true. Also, you are saying that as if cheating is part of a relationship. Don’t get into relationships with people that are untrustworthy, and if they cheat on you, you know not to stay with them. I get you’re happy being single, but avoiding being cheated on is not a good reason for it lol
@PsychologistPlays This is really heartbreaking to read. I really feel you as I’ve been in your exact situation before. I was in a five-year relationship with a girl and in the first few months, she cheated on me. My mistake was staying with her and from that, she tore be to shreds and made me feel as if I was unlovable and abandoned. I even ended up self-harming for a while before I was able to get proper help. After we broke up, I felt as if I was going to be lonely forever- that I would never get married to a woman who would love me unconditionally and have kids (things that I have always desired so greatly). But eventually I met a woman who was incredibly compassionate and patient. She’s also beautiful. She may not be “hot” in terms of celebrity-beauty, but she’s gorgeous to me and always will be. Her heart makes it that much more wonderful. We are married now, and yeah, I still have my mental issues (I actually have a personality disorder- _wonder where that came from_ ), but my wife and I love each other more than words can express. That being said, I know it feels so hopeless. I understand. It is especially heartbreaking because we are humans and we naturally need that type of partner-bond. We need to feel loved and to love another. It’s really easy to look around and make judgments about the men and women who are married to each other based on looks. Something I can tell you is that if it’s true these men married these ladies for looks, it will get old real quick for them and will most likely end in divorce. That’s why you need to find yourself a man who will value you and love you for your qualities (and yes, you should be attracted to each other but being this “hot-babe” or whatever isn’t what most _real_ guys want). If you work on your skills (like cooking for example- guys really like that, trust me, most of us suck at cooking), compassion, and confidence, you’ll find someone. If you don’t think you’re “attractive enough” then I’m just going to tell you now that you’re wrong. If you make an effort to take care of yourself to look healthy and presentable, you’re good-looking enough. Plus, the fact that you want kids and feel that you are nurturing is already a great quality that men want in a wife. In addition, since you are so focused on all these bad relationships, I suggest trying to change your perspective. If you look at bad models of marriage, that’s all you’ll find, and if you look at good models of marriage, you will find those good models. It is very possible to run into heartbreak and to run into a guy that cheats on you, but that’s when you know you’re worth better than how they treat you. And you should dump them- don’t do what I did and stay with them even if it’s hard. If someone you trust and love betrays you, they are not worth your time or energy. (Also, be sure not to self-fulfill the prophecy by never being vulnerable or trusting). You can find a man that _won’t_ cheat on you. A man that will keep his loyalty is husband material. And don’t worry, they very much exist. It’s not a 98% chance of cheating like that other commenter stated. Right now, you are running away from this fear and that’s only going to make you feel worse. I too was really scared of being betrayed again, and trusting others didn’t come easily to me (it still doesn’t) but I challenged that fear of betrayal and I was able to find my other half. You can, too. All in all, you don’t have to “come to terms” with being single for the rest of your life. There are awful guys out there just as there are awful women out there, but don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. There’s good people that feel the same as you with a strong desire to find a loving spouse to create a family with. Work on yourself and your confidence, and you’ll be able to share your life with a man that loves you unconditionally. It is easier said than done, but I believe in you. I’ll be praying for you. God bless you!
The man messed up the probability. It's not 5.6% chance you will ever find a man like that, it's 5.6% chance for a man chosen at random to fit your criteria.
Are you a woman? Because the program was only designed to test women. I haven't met a woman that had an over 50% chance on that calculator yet, which is why I am skeptical. Well if you're not delusional then good luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for. 😆
@@drakomus7409 It means how do you wish to live your life with a partner? Can you communicate in a healthy way. How do you deal with stress, adversity as a couple. Do you want children ad how many. How will you raise them? What about money? How do you value money? What are your financial goals?
My fiancée is 6’ and 350lbs and he doesn’t make $100,000 a year but I couldn’t love him more! Although I’m a traditional woman so I’m going to stand by him through thick and thin!
No body is a “catch” or an ideal, established partner until they’re like 30-35. Yet people tend to get married in they’re 20s. That proves single people should stop looking for the “perfect” partner. Perfection doesn’t exist unless you make it.
You have eyes open for them. Many men like that are invisible to a lot of females and then they complain about “how there’s no good, men” Like no, bitch, you deadass aren’t LOOKING for the good men.
@@miloinindo I don't plan to make more than him. I only work to supplement our income so we can both save for some fun things in life. Instead of just going house broke and no vacations.
Well my parents got together at 16 and 18, my dad went on to earn £250k a year, being the M.D of his own company - hes 6ft 2 and my mother has never had to work a job (except raise us as a traditional stay at home mother). She got lucky then did she? We’re just a normal family like anyone else, I don’t understand why people have these crazy expectations, money isn’t everything - yeah it’s nice to have and can ease stress, but it won’t necessarily make you happy. And if you want to be a stay at home woman, you have to be prepared to raise the kids and appreciate the husband that allows this lifestyle.
@@CogniVision Well he doesn't any more - he's retired now, but the point is we lived normally just like everyone else, sure we may have a slightly bigger house by a couple of rooms and have had nice cars growing up etc but now he just lives off his pension and me and my brother work normal jobs and we both went to normal school - sure we have inheritance (which we don't have access to yet and probably wont till our mid 30's-40's) but we still live the same way we did when he was raking in big money because my parents never went over the top with their lifestyle - the most lavish things they ever bought were Rolex watches and an Audi RS6 / Range Rovers, other than that we just blend in with everyone else, don't wear expensive clothes, treat everyone the same regardless of who you are or what you do - which is how everyone should be. Also, you're not really rich these days unless you're worth multi millions - well off / comfortable, sure but not rich by any stretch of a mile, especially when you get taxed almost 50% and have a mortgage, kids, cars and utilities / food to pay for.
Most men I know who make $100,000 or more a year are married with children. Their wives have been there encouraging and supporting them as they worked their way up. You don’t marry a man who is already making good money, you marry a man you love who has the drive and potential to get there.
I remember seeing this for the first time from Fresh & Fit. It was always HILARIOUS seeing all the "high value" women getting their bubbles burst when they realized their "ideal man" either doesn't exist or is already off the market haha
I am a 47 yr old divorced woman. I was married for 25 years and I served my ex husband. I made his plate and served his drinks. I did his laundry and I took care of our children ALL while he cheated on me. I waited until our children were adults and I left him. He played with his girlfriend for a few months and then he began and still does beg me for forgiveness. He will be the first to admit that I like no other woman nowadays because I treated my husband as my King and he didn’t appreciate it until it was too late. The problem is here I sit so alone while he begs for forgiveness. I want to give in so bad because I miss having my King but the problem is he doesn’t deserve that crown.
Get therapy, work out, journal, join a book club, and do the things you always wanted to do. Do. Not. Go. Back. If he appreciated you he never would've cheated in the 1st place, period. He misses the spoiling treatment and comfort you lavished on him, and he's learning the hard way that new booty isn't interested in doing any of that. He gave you your freedom, now go do something with it that enriches your life, helps you grow, and with the exception of life events with your adult children, leave him firmly in your past. Good luck to you.❤
Yeah marriage is just never a thing I'm considering. I'm 18 now and its only going to get worse so it just isn't worth it anymore. Dating maybe but definitely not marriage
Well, $100k a year could buy a fair amount of tacos... Tacos don't talk back, get fat, ignore you for no reason, and they especially won't leave you for one of your "friends"...
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He forgot to add at least 6ft tall. The real numbers probably more like 1.5%
Even worse. 0.43% any race. These 6 foot delusionals have no idea what odds they are trying to play. I bet that's why "tall enough" can get away with saying 6 foot as long as it plays into the delusion
I did the calculation, it's.43% according to this calculator.
A friend of mine I’ve known my whole life since day one has had the same gf for the last 4yrs. He’s 6.2’ meanwhile I’m 5.9’-5.10’ even tho I’m two days older than he is.
Yeah haha, if you look close he had the height set at 5'9.
I'm 6' tall but if that's the sole quality a girl is dating me for then we won't be dating long.
Thats a 5.6% chance to find one, not a 5.6% chance of landing one.
Hate to be that guy, but 5.6% is just the chance if you pick up a random guy on the street. If you put that requirement in a dating software instead, you are 100% guaranteed to find 100+ men just like that in your city in less than a second. The problem is they are showing 1000 girls the same 100 guys so they all think they have a chance. And the other 900 guys never get shown.
Yeah a 1 in 20 chance of randomly selecting a suitable person from the general population is actually not that bad. But it means u gotta be in the 95th percentile for looks to match them.
Yes that would be 0.0000000000 1% lol😅😅
just have immaculate rizz
70% do not want western women = 1.6% chance.
50k, 60k is not a bad salary. Actually when I met my husband he was making 35k. He was a teacher..."high value " shouldn't mean looks and salary. It should mean someone has a good character, they are loyal and devoted and disciplined and hard working. They are a man of faith and honest. Thats a high value man in my opinion. Looks can come second or 3rd.
You didn't have unreasonable standards, so you were able to find a husband. The calculator is for women that are permanently single.
The women that remain in the dating pool have unrealistic standards, and they find it insulting to think they should have to settle for a guy that actually exists.
I was thinking the same
You seem like the kind of woman with actual values. There's lots of women who see us as a wallet.
Agreed! My hubby is a very high value teacher. Wouldn't value him more if he made a 100k.
More women think like you in the west than don't. Although a lot of men have been brainwashed to believe the majority of women in the west are looking for men who are high earners. I can guarantee a woman who is wife material doesn't care about those things. As you said, she wants to know is the man loyal, disciplined, hard-working, honest, and responsible. Women who are wives focus on character first and foremost. The other things are bonuses to them.
2'0" ladies: I only date 9'0" men.
But if I say I only date 5'10 women or above, suddenly I'm the bad guy
It’s really so weird to me as a taller woman, why super duper short women feel the need to have a man who’s twice her height or like at least 2 heads taller, like why… not fair for the tall ladies lol 😂
@@Romns1513why don’t the tall ladies go for short guys? Perfect height for hugs! 😂
@@asherandai2633as a 5'10 women, I d rather like the person I'm talking to be the same height as me.
(In the USA, anything under 5'10 is under average/short for men.)
Cause they want a long distance relationship
Women will blast men for their preferences. At the same time, blasting the same men for approaching them.
Facts!! 👍👍😎
Girls at work discussing their dating lives. One went on a tinder date with a guy and told us all about it the next day. For context, she's Asian, mid-30s, very tall for Asian, 2 kids, pretty flat chested and wears thick layers of not-Asian-suited make up and thick lashes. She wore contact lenses, stilettos and padded her bra for the date.
Per her assessment he had no chance, his eyes weren't the right shade of blue, he wore glasses, and drove a hybrid car and had a cat. His penis was small so she made sure to pass her phone around so they could all gawk and have a nice giggle - one said that's OK, the rest were disgusted. So yea she was ghosting him because EWWW I deserve better than that!! So like 4 girls yacking about how the guys on Tinder are too short, too small, too little hair, don't like the right movies, too egotistical, too little self esteem etc
Later in the day the guy messaged to point out she wore massive stilettos, padded her bra and that she made him feel like garbage. Omg those girls went absolutely ape shit! All of a sudden us men were part of the conversation. Why do you ask have such unrealistic standards and how dare you have preferences in who you date. Apparently an age bracket and whether she has kids are despicable misogynistic preferences.
Before she left for the day she made sure to top up on her make up.
@@alexb5548he is probably lucky he didn't date her anymore. Women false advertise themselves so much. Body shapers, push up padded bras, make-up, false eyelashes and tall shoes. If a guy did that they would have a cow. I'm a women by the way and if you have unrealistic goals for a mate you will never find one.
@@alexb5548plus that is just wrong taking pictures of his penis. What if the guy said her vagina was too big or the wrong shape, be real people.
Who are you approaching? I guarantee it's not the nice, sweet, plain Jane's who would actually appreciate you
My brother made $92k last year and a couple months ago he broke up with his fiance because she said he didn’t make enough money but also worked too much, and expexted him to take care of their home and dogs. She didn’t work at all for four years, didn't take care of the house, and left their dogs in my parents house all day. I would absolutely qualify her as delusional.
I think your bro got lucky in the long run.
He didn’t even have to dodge that bullet.
Thats what we call blessing in disguise
And why the F would he propose to her? Ohhh, let me guess...she was hot, huh?
See, men cry and whine about how horrible and awful women are these days, yet they ignore good women in favor for the hottest with nothing else going for them. Then they cry that ALL women are horrible bitches!!
It’s the $100k that killing the stat. It takes time to build up the income for most men.
I've heard about the 6feet tall "standard", but I never heard of the 100k "standard". '^'
Finding someone who makes that kind of money in their 20s around here isn't exactly easy... But hey... As long as they don't complain about being single, they can set the expectations they want.
@@jwg9338 maybe for urban women, but that kind of salary isn't necessarily needed in rural areas.
@@tentenstories It's called the 3 6s 6 ft 6 figures and 6 or more downstairs.
There are plenty of women who hold this as the minimum standard....and they're single
@@allieoneal2033 I've seen urban and country girls both put out the 6 figure salary as a must. Don't underestimate how delusional a lot of women are.
@@drunklink350 you mean lonely 😂
Conservative woman here who found that at 18 (married by 24, spousal salary 6-figures by 30)… 20 years later more in love than ever. My more liberal friends said I got married too young and I would regret not focusing on my career and the opportunities to “live”, “be independent” and “be a woman” (whatever that means). The friends who said that are still single and not as financially secure as we are. The attack on marriage starts young-with false ideals of what “womanhood”, “manhood” and “success” should look like to 20 year olds. Not sure why society is opposed to growing and building a life together-it was shoved down my throat how wrong I was to get married and start a family before my career “took off”.
Do you know where a conservative guy can find a conservative woman?
@@arebelscum9495 I met my spouse my first year of university. I do not think there are specific places where you will or won’t meet a conservative woman, but you probably have better odds meeting a woman with the same ideals as you at places that complement those ideals (church, work, school, volunteering, conservative-focused functions/events, through friends). Best wishes.
Yeah, I got my high value man when he was 22 and broke (and I was 21 and equally broke). They don’t come pre-made most of the time. You attain value together as a unit.
entitled wamin are waiting at the finish line to get the high value man, they dont wanna do the race with him like you.
True, but too many women want the winner and aren't willing to risk or commit. Too bad that once one succeeds on his own, doesn't need you anymore.
Most women don't want that - they want a man who's already rich, high-status etc.
Absolutely! We grew our life together. Celebrating 17 years of happiness this week!
Doesn't change I've made 100k a year since I was 22 and all that jazz but every girls I've had in 10 years was "too good for me" so they cheated and slept around last one I didn't even catch she admitted it when I proposed... these ladies don't know what they want
100k a year as a baseline salary is wild
I might get there in a couple years. But by then the new benchmark will be 150k. Assuming the economy doesn’t go through a massive crash in the meantime.
It’s not even thought out. They just pick a number that seems good.
it wont be if inflation keeps going out of control
@@Fullyautomagic isn't the average salary for a guy like 40k?
@@fluttercoat3899average yes. Median is 34k even 😂
They're shopping for a Christmas tree in December but they should be watering a sapling in January
Word
Spoken like a japanese scholar.
💩's deep
Preach
True
The women: so you're saying there's a chance
😂
Their goal is to get the genes at the very least. Commitment not necessary. They can leech off of hundreds of sources for money
😂😂😂
“but it’s not impossible”
I'm 5'10 and make over 100k. If something were to happen that made me available I would NOT tell a woman how much I make. I want to be liked for me, not for my paycheck.
I’m a woman. Gotta be honest, I have never asked a man I was dating what he made. It never occurred to me to ask. I didn’t even ask my husband when we moved in together. The conversation was more like I can afford xxx amount of rent, how much can you afford so we can figure out what we can get.
Amen to that. As you should
Your ability to provide for a family is an important factor of life…lmao
@@sydney4381 Not in this age where most women want a career and independence
@@Littletime839 not the women I’m around. I’m a nanny and even the moms i work for most of them don’t have a job outside the home. Lol. If you don’t want to uphold traditional family values that’s on you but evidence shows it’s better for families & children to do so. Plenty of women would love to be a stay at home wife/mom
Fun fact: 5.6% of men is about one in twenty, and about a third of the men in the US are considered obese.
One in twenty doesn’t seem too bad actually.
@@payton3673 finding someone that matches the criteria and having them actually want to date you are two different things. If that weren't true, any guy could have had 1000 girlfriends on dating apps. The guy might not be interested in the girl
Somehow I don't believe that is accurate, and it's CERTAINLY not accurate with females.
Nigga what? How is that not 5.6 in every 100?
@@rainbowdash_cum_jar
How many times does 5.6 go into 100? About 20.
5/100 == 1/20.
Sure they rounded down, but they are essentially correct on the math.
The fact that the 100k wasnt even a thought in her mind as the problem but the fatness 😂
I personally don’t know a single woman that expects their husband to make 100K. I’m in Finland though so it’s a very different society.
@@laraking804 most women in America are gold diggers.
100k isn't hard. Find any menial labor (non-minimum wage) job and put in actual effort and you'll make 100k, or close enough. It is so easy to make 100k a year in America that failure to do so just means you aren't actually trying.
@@miloinindo are we talking before or after taxes?
@@miloinindonot including taxes and even after ur still crazy gl making over 75k not tryna say it’s impossible but bro if it was as simple as getting a higher paying job everyone would be rich😅
I was a female without such tight standards, truly just wanted a decent man who liked being around me and I liked being around him and be able to solve problems when they inevitably arise. We both didn't make much when we met (combined maybe 50k) but we always found ways to have fun without spending a dime. We quit our jobs and went to grad school, became broke but helped each other follow our dreams. Now he makes over 100k and I could work a lot less if I wanted (but I don't).
Find someone you can grow with and who would stick with you through thick and thin and life will be good to you both. Be somebody someone would want to have in their life.
couldn’t agree more. currently college age, on the look out for a man who’s a good friend with solid Christian values, not much else. if we can’t otherwise call ourselves reliable friends who help each other grow in our life and relationship with Christ, then we can’t call each other husband and wife. in my first week i met a guy (call him Joe) who’s a really great friend now with lots in common apart from this: he’s too in line with the government and the v@xxes etc, *and he (currently) has stopped going to church*; building a family together would not work, but i learned these things: 1. to have my heart fixed on Jesus, not on Joe. 2. nobody knows God’s plan, but he has something else down the road for a reason. 3. in short, if a guy doesn’t even treat me as a friend like Joe, he’s not the right guy.
They don't want a family but a lifestyle 😌🤧
Just go to parties n bung them when they get drunk make em walk sideways n they are so stupid they don't even know it's wrong they are such stupid idiots they let anybody including their fellow female dorm mates hit it too.
Yeah that's the issue here. Women in other parts of the world date for marriage. They view marriage as a reason for family, and responsibility. They do not view dating as lustful fun like women in western countries. Marriage is not meant to be easy and convenient, and if you're dating for fun, expect to just be the fun girl for the rest of your life.
They want their Gucci bags 🤑💅🏼
100%. Western women want all the benefits without giving up a single of their benefit
Which is where sex work comes in for many of them lol
The high value men are already taken because a woman who loved them for who they are got them before they were high value. I met my wife in college, married her when I was making 30k when I was 23, now I'm 28 and make 120k. I know she loves me for who I am and not for what I have, so I try to always treat her and thank her for those times when she actually made more than me, but still loved me.
Great. Most seem to want to wait at the finish line and then end up getting turned down then hating all men because they don’t get their pick.
Spoiling the girl that truly loves you is a really great way to enjoy life as a man
This is it. My husband did not make 6 figures when I met him or married him, but he does now.
@@Grizzly_Adams. dude, 100% facts. We live in an instant gratification society. People just wanna have it all right now, not willing to put in the effort
@Rhys Gallery welp, considering she loved me before I was successful, I'm sure she would still love me if I was less successful than I am now. I'm not going to do this because healthy marriages are founded on trust, not deception.
And yet... "every woman is a queen"... and... "you shouldn't have to settle for anything less",... because... "you're worth it girl!"
let the rat race begin for that 5% then I guess
@@Ubersnipethey will lay trap on the race until it becomes an obstacle course
they are not worth it, lol...
That's ok but healthy self love ≠ delusions of grandeur 😂
@@boogermaiden key word there is "HEALTHY" self love. Healthy self love doesn't rate itself a 10 because it understands that a 10 is perfect and if you think you're a 10, then you don't think you have anything to improve. So ya, most ladies out here are just delusional
The "six figure income" mandate eliminates most of the good men.
Part of this, is also it depends on where you live too. Many areas a six figure income, is less than 1% chance. Most areas you find more people with that income, the cost of living is so much higher. So not only do they have to compete with a lot of women, but the price of everything, makes that income see lower.
@@jrod4344 Yes demographic is a major player.
“We need help”
*quote of the century*
Get Some Help GSH
@Lis *drops gun
You’re right Brett; it is sad. But you missed the point. It’s not showing America’s fat problem. It’s showing how much, in general, females hate males nowadays for no logical reason at all.
Jesus gave you help, supposedly. What did y'all do to it? Muslims still holding on to Jesus & Muhammed (pbut). They're doing much better than the West, morally speaking.
Now note, this doesn't take into account if he's good looking, has charm, bedroom abilities and most importantly if he wants you back
The last sentence really puts things into perspective. If you want the top 5% man(although if you watch the full video it becomes top 1% because he forgot to check off unmarried) you gotta be the top 5% woman.
This calculator only excludes married men too. How many men that meet this standard already have girlfriends?
@@GordonShemway1 good point...I'll put it at .05%
& even more importantly, if he wants you back & only wants you & not a bunch of other girls as well.
Yeah there’s no option for Attractive
The 100k is really killing the stats. Especially if you are on the low end of the age range. There are lots of careers that are great great and important that don’t make 100k, especially earlier in the career
Also him having excluded the 1/3 of American men that are considered obese
Thats just what women are demanding and most of them won't comprise, and if they do they will divorce you later.
Not to mention COL factors, $95k in Tulsa, Oklahoma goes farther in a household than $100k in Los Angeles
@@belovedChristian I’d love to see a locally adjusted calculator lol
It doesn't matter. Many women want a man making at least six-figures, so he put it in to show them how delusional they are. He's not killing the stats, he's showing the stats of things that are asked for.
Trick is to find a partner when your young and build your lives/family together. Makes the relationship mean a lot more rather than both partners building independent lives separately and then trying to mash them together later in your life.
Literal Saints have offered the same advice for the same reason.
I did that. She loves me but isn’t in love with me…a very nice bait and switch.
@@NickThillerthey break our hearts 😢
Did she leave you with the kids and house and run off to find happiness on her own?
That's what my b!tch of an ex wife did to me and our daughter after we spent most of our lives together from age 17 to 28 she decided she wasn't happy and that was my fault, (sorry to rant)
Until the guy decides he wants to go explore and has more money and thinks he can pull tail at an older age. Leaving her with babies and pregnant and no life experience since she married young too and doesn’t have higher education and work since she forgo that to raise a family. Men are breaking homes
@@RickRorose men don’t do that. That’s women
I’m 6’ tall….I’m going to remind my gf how lucky she is when she gets home 🤣
Shit I am 6 1 software engineer, no bitches going into my 20s no bitches, yeah I am fit asf yet no bitches. And maybe 🤔 just maybe bitches don’t want me cause they think they are going to find a better taller smarter stronger man than me, yet no bitches. I wonder how the other guys compete, I rizz girls up beautifully yet they don’t like to continue with anything they just want me to carry a full on convo and I get bored with inattentive people 🥲👀
Next time she gives you shit, don't say anything, just put up a sign on the window saying "they're waiting..." 👀
@@hugogonzalez1749 dammmmnnnnn🤣
You really should
From a short guy , remind her ass!!!
When I met my husband, we were 21 and he was unemployed. We’re 35 now, happily married with two children and he makes 6 figures now. It takes time to build your dreams but the important part is building them together and supporting each other along the way.
You're a one in a thousand
Rare breed
Time and patience. Something I'm working on. 😅
Women don’t want to put in work. They want an easy button where they magically get their dreams because they “deserve” it just for being a woman.
Same for me and my husband!
This calculator made me feel so much better about myself ngl 🤣🤣
SAME lol
Oh humans and their need for ego boosts
@@sabisweet you sound like a geek lol tf movie are you the evil misunderstood villain in
@@sabisweet More like reality check tbh 🤷♂️ constant exposure to the highlights of humanity skews how great you actually are 🤙
What score did you get? I got 12.7% somehow lmao 💀
Male requirements: "be kind, and not too fat"
Insane that virginity doesn't come as the requirement. But ok, less competition for me
i had those standards once, never making that mistake again.
Women requirements: "be kind and not too dumb"
@@YazminM2222 also "consider me equal", "don't make me have 8 kids", "officially marry me so I can leave with half of your stuff any time"
@@jimmcneal5292why would you mot consider your partner equal? Obviously not the same but they should be equal.
"Eating tacos sounds better than dealing with women" -Brett Cooper, 2022
😁
2023?
shes a women as well and thats plain misogny here, you cannot say blatant offensive comments and expect womens or people in general to not address it
@@VivianV-g6zNo, she's just a woman. No one else is there.
I’m 6’2” and in good shape with a dark full head of hair, $100k per year job and own my own home and I get rejected by women who really don’t deserve my attention, yup a lot of them are delusional. When the %5 man shows up they think they can do better 😂 and turn him down. Keep strong brothers don’t let them get you down cause it’s their loss, remember that you are the prize!
HEY GOOD FOR YOU MAN, I'M A WOMAN, AND EVEN I THINK THEY ARE CRAZY. DATING AND MARRIAGE ALIKE, BOTH SEEM TO BE DISASTERS NOW ADAYS TBH.
MAYBE THAT'S WHY I AIN'T DOING ANYTHING ABOUT THAT ATM LOL. BUT I'M PROUD OF YOU FOR NOT CAVING INTO THEIR BS.
U'LL FIND THE RIGHT ONE SOMEDAY, STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF AND THE SANE ONES WILL LOVE YOU FOR IT.
Same, but I'm also on trenbolone and shredded with 99.9th percentile physique and pretty good face, but only 3-4/10s compliment or approach me irl, and even a lot of those think they can get something better. Anyone above that? Forget about it. They're always looking for a bigger Gigachad. It's a joke. Thing is, why should I lower MY standards? I'm an above average man. THEY'RE the ones who are hypergamous, not me. Why the fuck do I have to date down?
@@rb-up6pm AGAIN, I DON'T BLAME U MAN ITD A DAD PATHETIC JOKE.
IF ANYTHING THEY'RE SCREAMING SOME KIND OF MENTAL ISSUE, THEY ARE SPOILED OR SOMETHING, BUT LIKE MY MOM TELLS ME, NO ONE IS PERFECT. SO FOR THEM TO ASK FOR SUCH UNREALSITCLY HIGH STANDARDS IS RUDE AS HELL.
I EMAN ITS ONE THING TO HAVE SOME PERSONAL REFERENCES, AS WE ALL DO, BUT IT IS ANOTHER THING TO LET THEM COMPLETELY WARP YOUR MIND LIKE THIS.
DON'T SETTLE FOR ANYONE WHO DSEONT' LOVE YOU, FOR YOU, AND AS IS AID BEFORE BE YOUR BEST SELF FOR YOURSELF, NOT ANYONE ELSE.
HONESTLY SPEAKING, EVEN IF U DID HAVE THEIR "REFERENCES" THEY'D PROBABLY FIND SOMETHING ELSE TO NAG OR LEAVE U ABOUT BECAUSE THEY'RE PUSHY SELFISH ASSHOLES.
SORRY IF I JUST REPEATED MYSELF HERE BTW LOL.
@@rb-up6pm A tren body is usually not a preferred body to women. Too large to most women. This is simply you not understanding what they are looking for. Now, working out hard, putting in the cardio, and 300mg of test, no tren? That's the body they like.
Have you considered a name change to Chad or Ray Ray and being a jerk? 😂
It’s about building together & most modern women aren’t willing to do that. So blessed to have my husband. We built everything we have together.
Or women can't get time off or afford to go out to find a guy.
100% just the comment I was looking for. The only women who get to find these guys are 20 something year old model-looking women marrying men in their 40s
And women still initiate divorce the major the time. It’s like they want to be used for sex in their 20’s then discarded while men have to have their shit together by 25.
Yeah, got repeatedly told I was "doing it backwards" for wanting someone to work through life with. Gotta "get situated first" whatever the fuck that looks like now in this fucked economic system. (Which becomes less bearable without the intimate connections/ social circle for most people)
Now I'm 35 so it feels like everyone now expects me to be a finished product, so RIP to that. Consumer culture rotting people's brains.
@@leighfoulkes7297to afford what? Lol girls still expect guys to pay for their food on dates 😂
Kevin Samuels’ spirit resides in that database. RIP Godfather
Ghost in the machine.
Moon cricket logic😂
‘So you’re telling me there’s a chance?’
Well he forgot to include height which most girls filter at 6 feet, that would bring you down to about 0.9%. Finally, there's no way of knowing this one but you have to take into consideration the men that would want you back assuming your a girl and not a male being sarcastic on the comments section lol, that would bring your percentage to highly probable 0%
Lol yes there is a chance because this calculators math has been proven to be wrong lmao ALSO it should take into account your own stats like whether or not you graduated college or how much money you make yourself as it's easier and you have a better chance of meeting these men if you are educated. I'm almost done with college and have a job offer starting at 65k my bf is starting at 80k. My friends who went to college-- the lowest starting salary of them is 45k. If you check out the male delusional calculator it's even worse especially if you pick a certain race lol 😂 The math isn't right but I appreciate what the creator is trying to do. I would love to see the creation process behind these two calculators and improve upon them 😁
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@queenjohnson5097 someone’s mad
Impossible is nothing
Shit I vowed I'd lose weight 2 weeks ago starting from 300, I am now down to 280 and have no more pain in my feet, legs, and lower back. I'm so proud of myself and and grinding daily to reach my goal of 190
Great work so far Notion! Keep up the good work! And don't beat yourself up if you make a mistake here or there, as long as in aggregate you do what you gotta do you'll make it where you wanna be!
You got it bro. Keep at it
@@Ratchet4647 im doing the best i can. i was prescribed medicine that alters my appetite and have been using the treadmill with an incline for 30 minutes a day. i cant believe the progress ive made and i never thought id be able to keep up with it cuz of my terrible mental ive gotten myself in over the years. but i am pushing myself daily. thank you for the support :D
@@lunchtime2960 thank you
I started at 330 im 300 now, I wanna lose at least another 100 but currently can't afford a gym membership rn so I've just been using our 5 gallon water jugs for Farmer walks and some cheap dumbbells, good luck on your journey, and keep pushing 💪💪💪
theres also a male reality calculator too, and we have better chances because we dont really have that many expectations lmao
oh really? where's that i'm curious
You forgot to factor in Narcissism. NO WAY are our chances better.
Age: 18-100
Ethnicity: Any
Body type: Any
Marital status: Any
Personality: respectful, loyal, not materialistic
Calculating.......
0.01% chance
Depends on if we include narcissism or sanity as factors. Those two unfortunately disqualify a lot of modern women below the age of 40.
Not really lmao I did it, had about 5% too. Any race, doesn't matter if they make money or not, 23-30, and not obese.
So it's so bad there that they had to actually CREATE an app about it? God daymn 😂
Yes, i would use the calculator. But i don't wanna give more dataaaa away cause you are savage nowadays😅
As one of those men I can attest we don’t like relationships anymore all we are is mistreated and heartbroken
This right here. It's not worth it. Last woman i was talking to would ask me to come over and "cuddle" and i came up with an excuse everytime. The last one before she finally took the hint was that I had to do laundry.
@@ManJunk269that sounds awful.
Most men who get there meet their wives when they had nothing and get married along the way. They get focused because they can see a future with that person and they want to make those new dreams possible.
Good fucking point
I'm not at the married part yet, it's coming, we're just not in a rush for that part. But this was the exact way I did it tbh. When I was confident in our relationship I got to focus on my career without the BS. Then we both benefited from it after a few years.
*@grcarie* You don't know what "most men" do.
@@ayeflippum just take it as anecdotal evidence.
@@grcarie You might have gotten away with that saying "many". You can't get away with that saying "most".
“We need help!” 😅
You’ve got that right, you do, on many levels.
I’m guessing you’re not an American. How dare you make accurate jokes about our very obvious and problematic issues!! 😏 But really, you’re right
@@Silversong_Reavers your guess is right. Although, I’ve spent a decade and a half in there, in the States.
I'm just glad she admits it. 99% of women never will
And the guy set the bar low. 5'9" is a height that most entitled women would scoff at and yet...
100%. Most women would start at least at 6'0".
I feel like the 100k is killing the odds quite a bit too here. I mean I average 70 and I don't think that's to bad. When I was breaking 100k I was working 70 hour weeks.
agreed, 70 is a good income level especially if your company has good benefits
Right, 100k is a lot of money especially for a 28 year old. My dad was not making that kind of money when he married my mom at 19. Still married after 32 years and six kids with 4 grandkids.
100k is what women ask for, that's why he put it there, to show them how delusional they are.
70k is a great salary. Most modern women don't think so. They want a man making 100k+, even 250k+.
Yes, it is killing the odds. But then go ahead and check out surveys and street interviews of what alot of women actually want and they are listing off incomes well above 100k.
This to say, they don't have an accurate sense of reality and 100k is often considered the "bare minimum" level of being comfortable.
@@sherlock7898 Those were different times. You're also not accounting for inflation. 50k back a few decades ago was good money and was a well above average salary. You're also not taking into account the trajectory of what's happening. Around half of women over 40 will be single and childless by 2030. The pool of women and their increased pickiness of what they find desirable in a mate is reflecting in the studies and statistics. The days of women having 6 kids per household with a husband, a white picket fence, married decades and choosing a guy of average means to marry (like the GI generation of the 50s) is a thing of the past. Even getting a woman to have 1 kid and to get married before age 35 is a challenge today.
Her delusion is still showing… She actually thinks that it is the obesity that is the problem. I just went and ran the numbers and did 28-45, any height, any weight, any race, unmarried, but income at least $100k. It was 4.5%! She thinks it is about tacos. The average salary in the United States for a man in that age group is about $50,000. These chicks be trippin.
She's 5' tall, 320 lbs, but doesn't see herself as fat, obese. Clinical term, bat shit crazy.
So it’s an even *lower* percentage if you include *any* weight vs if you use the exact same stats but leave *out* obese men? That just shows this “calculator” makes no sense 😂
@@casebased8391sorry…I excluded married men. My bad.
People are just so deluded about incomes. Most people don't make much at all really, and the ones in "6 figures" are usually +50 year olds. And most of those married when they were 20-30 year old probably, considering how more common marrying was back then.
She could've talked about the wage, but the obesity thing was just much funnier
Here's women's real criteria: Over 6', fit, muscular, handsome, social, can dance, no more than 5 years her senior, financially secure (has a house and equity and savings), makes more money than she does, so if she makes 100k, he must make 120k, nice car, loyal, can fix a car and house issues, no diseases, puts her name on the deed, has to be able to store all her crap, must accept her baggage, her body count, should be able to cook, clean, do laundry, feed her dog, put up with her toxic family, raise her children, accept far less sex than he really wants/needs. And somehow, women always seem to find their meal ticket in life. Probably cuz men will bang anything that moves.
Who hurt you? 😂
The bar for women is extremely low. All you have to do is ask them out. The internet is making men live in fear.
@@someguy2117 yes
@@someguy2117 Seriously! Like, sure, I have preferences, but come on. All I want is a guy who's going to love God, love me, and be a good father and partner. Whatever that entails.
@@lizzieandmocha1131 You lost me at love God.
The way you deliver the “we need help” line is hilarious 😂😂😂
Honestly, I am hella proud of how much weight I lost this year. Yes I will brag or mention it, just because it was a huge struggle. Decided to start lowering my antidepressants, that was hard, then trying to eat less and eat the right things and take the time to actually cook and go grocery shopping. Then it was the arm workouts and the long walks I took. I wish my grandmother was still alive to see how much progress I made. I might still be 20 lbs heavier than when I was 25, but at least I feel good about myself for once in a very long time. I don’t even care if men call me ugly now, i know I am making progress and there’s just something so magical about feeling proud about yourself for the work you achieved on your own, without any support from others and having people berate you at your lowest point. It’s almost like a fuck you, I can do what I want and you’re not gonna call me names anymore due to appearance.
Agree!!! I totally skipped Thanksgiving this year. Cut out MANY people from my life last year. Stopped dating (entirely) 7 years ago. I didn't get called "ugly" nor am I overweight. But... People tend to find ANY flaws to cut you down, belittling attacking and labels. Done with caring.
Good for you!
But what does this have to do with men?
@@markblanchard9049did you watch the video all the way to the end, or nah?
@@markblanchard9049yeah I didn’t really do much for thanksgiving either, got me and my daughter a Cornish game hen and that was as much effort as I was going to put into it lol. I totally understand what you’re saying though, I have been staying celibate since beginning of October. I think it’s a great lifestyle change as well since I just don’t want to put effort and care into people that don’t care back.
this person is a subhuman ape, ignore him.
I'm 5 10 and weigh 200lbs. I make 34k a year and maybe another 25k cash on my side hustles. My wife still thinks I'm a catch and I love and cherish her ever moment I get.
Well you'd be a 10/10 stand up guy if you'd lose the extra mass. It's not difficult, it just takes discipline, I'm sure your wife would love it, and you'd have a chance at making even more extra money. See how you just named off a bunch of poor characteristics about yourself to make you seem like a loser (probably because you see yourself that way) when almost everything about you would be significantly better if you just put in that little extra effort? RUclips comments usually don't change anyone though so enjoy your 200lb life dude👌
@@sirsmokesalot730 I have absolutely no reason to loose weight. Keeps me warm in my tractor cab in the winter time.
Well it depends man. Was she a virgin when you met her? If not her seeing you as a catch explains a lot.
Did she also had kids from other men ?
@@sirsmokesalot730 he has a wife.. I don’t think he needs your advice bud.
@@nathanielkrause4528 well if you lose weight it will feel better. And you will live longer. What is the point of having loved ones if you can't live with them for as long as possible. It would take discipline and it is obvious you are doing well for yourself but you need to be healthy to live long.
A lot of high value men are that way in part because of the support from their wives. Women want a man to make it big, before he finds a woman, so they can get a free ride. You can plant more seeds together.
Bro I don't know where you heard that from or of.you just made that shit up in your head but that's not true
Women don't build a Man, they pick a Man whose already driven then take all the credit for their hard work and determination. Cringe. Most Women don't even have the patience for that. Mostly, they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners.
This is fact.
Agree. My husband always says he’s thankful to me for betting on him before he had “made it” career wise. I love that we got married and have been able to help each other meet our goals.
I'm not fat, I'm big boned.
Yes me too !
Just keep telling and kidding yourself just like I do !
Sooner you face the truth the sooner you’ll be at peace
@lwcreaper6501 Thanks Tony Robins, the sooner you find your sense of humor the better it'll be for everyone who reads your comments.
@@bobjustin9747 I do Indeed have a bad sense of humor no I will NOT improve it for you or anyone else
"Yeah, and it's covered by big meat."
It's not showing the fatness of America.
It's showing that American women value their jewelry and Gucci bags over everything else.
This is amazing . I’m so glad I saw this short .
I’m 26, 6’4”, 180 lbs, make $190k and still can’t get a woman. I’m living proof that stats won’t get you as far as being confident and personable.
Be an asshole, chicks LOVE that. Not kidding.
why hello (with rizz)
180 lbs at that height is not really a positive thing dude
You need to up your weight by at least 20 lbs. I'm 5'11 170lbs and built. I could bull doze you...And mind you, I'm 40.
YOU IDIOT, YOU LEFT OUT THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR STAT!!!! PASSPORT, BRO!
STEP 1: GET PASSPORT
STEP 2: FLY TO JAPAN
STEP 3: ????????????
STEP 4: PROFIT!!!!
The "WE NEED HELP" at the end had me cackling.
"WE NEED HEL-"
So perfectly cut off but ya we really do need help
Hell
☕️
We mostly eliminated death by starvation.
Our homeless are overweight.
I have more option to feed myself than ALL my ancestor combined.
The last famine was before my great grand father was born.
I think we're doing ok.
@@BF-I-II-V-V-III-VII our homeless are not overweight, many homeless people are also drug dependent which further thins them.
many poor people, however, are fat. this is incentivized by fastfood being cheaper for short term but being way expensive on the long run compared to making the food yourself and buying groceries in bulk.
^speaking as a resident of usa
Yall do need help, help being realistic. Stop dissing the average nice guy cause ur miss your opportunity.
Well the man I’m dating is within that 5.6% range and he absolutely is high value and wonderful and my best friend and I’m not letting him go… but his status and appearance aren’t even the beginning of why he truly is high value.. definitely blessed.
As a woman you too would have to be worth the sticking around with you to
Yourd have to pretty special even to achieve that
No 304 would even come close
"We need help!"
Me: *slowly lowers taco bell bag*
It should more properly be called the "Chad-O-Meter."
I never realized how lucky I am until now 😂 but also sometimes your husband may not make money like that until later. You have to know if he’s going to work towards that. Some guys do, some don’t.
Yeah, my husband makes like three times more now than when he was fresh from college. That's many years of earning small raises.
For western women who are entitled, bitchy, and overly masculine i wont work for that at all if i wanted that id just fuck guys instead. Men want soft sweet traditional women but for some reason western women think men want women who are manly which is the opposite of what we want.
Oh yes I agree! Find a good man and support him while he works his way up! Everyone starts somewhere, and a taken care of and loved man can go far in life and be very successful because he’s happy
facts!
Or never. Most Americans never make 100k salary.
Stay single Kings.
no worries, anyone with a "HARDCORE DUBSTEP!
" playlist will surely remain single.
Whenever someone asks me why I don't have a girlfriend I say "A girlfriend? Those things are expensive".
Or just date sane women 🤷♂️
@@abceckswhyzee7169 all the sane women are already taken. All they got left is all the britneys and beckies who can't keep dick out of them. They have such delusional standards. And all they care about is money because they are too lazy to work themselves. They would rather use men who aren't even rich and then go cheat on them with someone else. Women these days don't know the meaning of loyalty.
@@computerentity lol nice one buddy.
You have to get them earlier and encourage and support them to become a great man. So glad I’ve had mine since he was 21 and I was 19.
Exactly! I got mine when he was 20 and I was 18 haha married when I was 21 and he was 23. 9 years = 4 kids, 2 houses (bought) and tons of adventures and growing up together and we wouldn't trade it for anything! 👌❤️
I found mine when he was 19 too! He's 24 now & the best man I could ever imagine, except for my father haha
Women don't build Men. Guys don't just become great. They usually have the characteristics needed to do it. They were gonna become great with or without a Woman. With encouragement helps but don't take credit as if you can make or break a Man. It doesn't work that way.
@@Kyle-2020 Maybe you should realize a few things... Men without that love and encouragement won't bother. Company's advance married men (especially with children) faster . It isn't him just gonna be great on his own. To think ANYONE does it "on their own" is as stupid as expecting a utopia world. Neither can happen.
@@lorireed8046 They advance married Men so they'll be less likely to steal their own wives.
Incredibly accurate.
The delusion is that women who would be ranked by most men as "undesirable" (which is different than unattractive) insist on being that picky. High value men marry high value women. But what is valuable to them? It doesn't matter what you think of yourself. It matters what they think of you. Are you the kind of woman they want?
Yeah.
But honestly that's why I don't get the whining from Manosphere guys. They don't want the women they whine about, and those women don't want Manosphere guys, so everyone wins, and if Manosphere guys stopped whining they'd find girls they WERE interested in and who are interested in return.
There's NO conflict. It's just drama.
@@bufficliff8978 Many of the men you are referring to suffer a similar delusion. Once again you have to consider what kind of person you want to marry and then make yourself into the kind of person they want to marry. Or settle. Just pick one and do it on purpose. You can't change other people, only yourself.
It's not the fatness of America it's men knowing their worth and finding a partner young or not fitting into that miserable category for someone else's happiness
No it's also the fatness. People need to lose the extra mass it's disturbing
@@sirsmokesalot730 And yet there is tons more Obese women then men in the US
@@sirsmokesalot730 Your either an edgy 15 year old who is single and has a high metabolism or a divorced Dad whose wife left him for a hefty guy.. and the wife was thick too 😂
@@knightheaven8992 they both need to lose weight men and women. If you have a body fat percent well over the recommended number then you gotta lose weight regardless of your gender.
A 5.6% match rate translates to 1 in 18 men, while a 12.91% rate (which is what I got) is about 1 in 8 women. These percentages simply indicate the number of people who fit your criteria in comparison to the entire population, not the likelihood of you actually finding a compatible partner. Your success in finding a match depends on various factors like effort, attractiveness, and personality. So, someone who seems to have a perfect match rate might still struggle if they don't actively seek a partner or have unappealing traits. Conversely, someone with a lower match rate could have a great chance if they are highly attractive and successful.
Tacos don't make you fat, they make you full and satisfied. 😂
I love tacos 😍
Exactly !! Food is fuel for a very productive day even if you just gonna stay home all day soooo lest all eat the food while we can and be happy and healthy ofc!!
@@marianafrancisco7551 I bet you put diesel in your car, huh?
Don't forget Happy. Tacos make me full and happy!
@@HellenaHanbasquet yes, they definitely make us happy too 😂
5.6% chance finding them, less than 1% of actually liking them. Less than (whatever the fuck is left) of you having a long lasting "happy" relationship with them at all.
They have to like you aswell
Basically the fancy census bureau calculator simply tells you what your grandma/grandpa would tell you.
Thanks for the video, Ben
I tried to look past the weight of an individual. I couldn't do it sober. If my fingers can't touch while hugging you, I'm out.
We all have a range of weight we can accept. x)
Are you a man or a woman?
Its a good thing that just not chopping my testicles off has significantly increased my value
@@TheAnnoyingBoss 💀💀
They killed me with the “couldn’t do it sober”💀💀💀
Even Brett has it all wrong. “All these high value men are off the market by age 28.”
No. You just thought they were a much higher proportion than they actually are. Women don’t even see men that don’t fit their criteria, they’re invisible to them. As if they don’t exist.
Any relationship is like learning a subject. Trying to take the shortcuts don't really get you there. You gotta be willing to go through the growing pains to become the end result.
The sad truth is that young people today Who are getting married. 85% of them will be Divorced within 5 years. I have been lucky and have been married for over 25 years.
Got married at 18 and he was working at McDonald's as a manager not making much. We are in our mid 30s's now and he is now a Mechanic making over 100,000 a year. It wasn't about the money we grew together
Got married at 18 as well. He was in the military making about 45k in a high cost of living state. Now we’re 30 with 3 kids in a more affordable state, and he makes less but he doesn’t have to go away anymore. Worth it to our entire family to have him around ❤️
@@emmystump9163 18 feels really early. I'm 18 rn and I know many 18 year olds. Marriage would not be a good option for any of us
@@taleoftwowolves74 I’m definitely not saying it’s a wise decision for the majority, but I’m glad I got married at 18. I was very focused on courtship and marriage from a young age because I wanted to be a homemaker and homeschool our kids. Thankfully, my husband was mature enough to want those things and seek a life partner that aligned with his plan as well. I’m not saying it’s easy. I believe we are still together only with God’s grace, and stubbornness on the part of my husband and myself.
@@emmystump9163 As long as it makes you happy I guess
I gave up on dating years ago and I'm the happiest I've ever been!
After being in the dating pool for over 20 years, and failing at every relationship I’ve had, I will say that the #1 reason why my relationships never worked out was because of $$$. I simply did not have the job, career, or money coming in, that they desired. And it’s not like the women I dated were incredibly good looking, or had options galore. They were just normal women with normal jobs. Im even 6’4” tall, athletic, and a person most people want to be around because I’m just a good person. That wasn’t enough. I didn’t make enough $$. So yes, this video is 100% accurate on women being delusional.
At least you have a type.
I made enough money for my wife until the industry I worked in collapsed and then I didn't make enough money. Thus the divorce. I will never marry again I see what womens true desires are.
Money should never be the reason someone is with someone else.. unless they’re a gold-digger.
@@aaronr9977 that’s your ex wife desire…it’s wrong to generalize
@@Sheriff_K I disagree, although 100k is not the cut off. You need to be able to support a family to start one. Doesn't need to be easy street or a lot of kids but you can't do it as a drive through attendant.
Dude looks like he was pulled out of the Lorax or another Dr. Seuss story with how his face looks
I'm in that age bracket, income bracket, and weight limit. No one wants me anyways.
Not with that attitude. Not be an a$$ but If you can figure out how to make 6 figures you can figure out how to land a girl. Realistically the former is harder.
I remember being in the dating pool and, after each time I was shot down, wondering just what women were expecting. This explains so much.
Can't forget you're just a speck in the sea of d!cks. Women available for dating are insanely overrun by attention at every second. Trying to exist among all of that is honestly degrading
Life is not fair. That's how it is.
@@ultra.based.27 sure ain’t. But you’ll notice my comment references the past. I’m happy with what I have and am grateful for all the times I was passed over to get here
I’ve gotten to the point where, honestly, I don’t mind being single. I’m not even lonely, i just don’t care to try and date anymore
Amen these last few years have been horrible for dating
Same!! Stopped dating 7 years ago.
@@9l4y3rf0rl1f3 That's like saying i'd rather win a million than a car since you can buy a car with the money.
I'm not necessarily saying you can buy a wife, but the 6 figure salary ..
@@9l4y3rf0rl1f3 Why bring up your mom and her boyfriend? Only to say she doesn't need his money?
If anything women who are doing alright for themselves have higher standards for what a man should make since they don't want him to make less than them, eventhough they wouldn't depend on their man financially. These are not the type of women you can "buy" though.
Regardless, it was a joke since the vid is about women wanting a man who makes 100k+...
You achieve more when you’re alone or should at least, I think it’s a great opportunity to chase what you want without having to worry about someone else
I'm 25, 6'2, just got out of the Air Force, and make 63k a year. and I'm unnoticed by all women and never even held hands with one. I'm not rich but for my age I'm doing okay, I'm not fat either. I've accepted that I've been condemned to solitude forever.
Been single for years now and never been happier
Being single is literally the BEST time of my life! I can't believe I thought I'd be happy in a relationship. Getting cheated on isn't fun, I just never took that into consideration when I started dating. Now that I know I have a 98% chance of getting cheated on eventually, I just stayed single. Stay single. Stay happy!
@@HippoReacts how's the bloodline looking
@@HippoReacts this is so sad, but that's how I am now too. Except I can't say I'm happy single, I'm still working on trying to come to terms with it, honestly. As a young woman I saw all this kind of stuff on the internet, and I internalized it and was like "IM not shallow, and I'm gonna find a great guy by going after ones that aren't at all conventionally attractive!" Spoiler, it didn't work. It just feels even worse when the person cheating on you, telling you that you arent good enough, trying to make you change yourself entirely, etc. is a literal cave troll that you've been treating like prince charming and accepting all their glaring flaws, meanwhile he's been committed to tearing you down. It's so painful and humiliating I can't even begin to explain. I'll never date again and I'm still not over the fact that I'll never get married and have biological kids. I'd be a genuinely great mother, so I'm going to foster at least, but it still burns when I see men who so obviously chose a wife solely because of their beauty, often these retired party girls with no maternal desire, who complain about their beautiful families and the children they're now stuck with. Life sucks, but it's not the average woman's fault, the same way my unromantic life kinda sucking isn't the fault of the average man. The men who hurt me, don't represent every man. This comment section telling women it's their own fault for being in this situation for being shallow is sooo hypocritical and it SUCKS 😭 not all of us are these shallow prom queens you simultaneously loathe and desire more than anything. So thank you fellas, for the small but safe pockets like this that are here in the comments!
@Hippo Hat Well, those stats are definitely not true. Also, you are saying that as if cheating is part of a relationship. Don’t get into relationships with people that are untrustworthy, and if they cheat on you, you know not to stay with them. I get you’re happy being single, but avoiding being cheated on is not a good reason for it lol
@PsychologistPlays This is really heartbreaking to read. I really feel you as I’ve been in your exact situation before. I was in a five-year relationship with a girl and in the first few months, she cheated on me. My mistake was staying with her and from that, she tore be to shreds and made me feel as if I was unlovable and abandoned. I even ended up self-harming for a while before I was able to get proper help. After we broke up, I felt as if I was going to be lonely forever- that I would never get married to a woman who would love me unconditionally and have kids (things that I have always desired so greatly). But eventually I met a woman who was incredibly compassionate and patient. She’s also beautiful. She may not be “hot” in terms of celebrity-beauty, but she’s gorgeous to me and always will be. Her heart makes it that much more wonderful. We are married now, and yeah, I still have my mental issues (I actually have a personality disorder- _wonder where that came from_ ), but my wife and I love each other more than words can express. That being said, I know it feels so hopeless. I understand. It is especially heartbreaking because we are humans and we naturally need that type of partner-bond. We need to feel loved and to love another.
It’s really easy to look around and make judgments about the men and women who are married to each other based on looks. Something I can tell you is that if it’s true these men married these ladies for looks, it will get old real quick for them and will most likely end in divorce. That’s why you need to find yourself a man who will value you and love you for your qualities (and yes, you should be attracted to each other but being this “hot-babe” or whatever isn’t what most _real_ guys want). If you work on your skills (like cooking for example- guys really like that, trust me, most of us suck at cooking), compassion, and confidence, you’ll find someone. If you don’t think you’re “attractive enough” then I’m just going to tell you now that you’re wrong. If you make an effort to take care of yourself to look healthy and presentable, you’re good-looking enough. Plus, the fact that you want kids and feel that you are nurturing is already a great quality that men want in a wife. In addition, since you are so focused on all these bad relationships, I suggest trying to change your perspective. If you look at bad models of marriage, that’s all you’ll find, and if you look at good models of marriage, you will find those good models.
It is very possible to run into heartbreak and to run into a guy that cheats on you, but that’s when you know you’re worth better than how they treat you. And you should dump them- don’t do what I did and stay with them even if it’s hard. If someone you trust and love betrays you, they are not worth your time or energy. (Also, be sure not to self-fulfill the prophecy by never being vulnerable or trusting). You can find a man that _won’t_ cheat on you. A man that will keep his loyalty is husband material. And don’t worry, they very much exist. It’s not a 98% chance of cheating like that other commenter stated. Right now, you are running away from this fear and that’s only going to make you feel worse. I too was really scared of being betrayed again, and trusting others didn’t come easily to me (it still doesn’t) but I challenged that fear of betrayal and I was able to find my other half. You can, too.
All in all, you don’t have to “come to terms” with being single for the rest of your life. There are awful guys out there just as there are awful women out there, but don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. There’s good people that feel the same as you with a strong desire to find a loving spouse to create a family with. Work on yourself and your confidence, and you’ll be able to share your life with a man that loves you unconditionally. It is easier said than done, but I believe in you. I’ll be praying for you. God bless you!
"sounds better than dealing with women to be honest." i feel it
What the US needs is discipline and value, and not goddamn degen sht they are doing
You don’t need help… you need treadmills over there.
Dang!! Suddenly, I’m not so worried about being single. 😂
The man messed up the probability. It's not 5.6% chance you will ever find a man like that, it's 5.6% chance for a man chosen at random to fit your criteria.
Same thing
@@BrazilianImperialist it's completely different
@@mateuszgraczyk9249 no.
@@BrazilianImperialist do I really have to explain this
thank you! I'm glad someone pointed it out.
I took the test and I have a 53% chance of finding someone I'm not delusional!
5.6% is also a good chance, it's less than one in twenty odds
Are you a woman? Because the program was only designed to test women. I haven't met a woman that had an over 50% chance on that calculator yet, which is why I am skeptical.
Well if you're not delusional then good luck to you. I hope you find what you're looking for. 😆
@@4rtie but then you competing with 5% best women
@@iMost067 and where are you getting that from?
Heh, I got like 21%.
GIVE ME THE TACO!
... ... 🤔 wait a minute... 😮 😅 😂🤣☠
What I wish I was taught and what should be taught are shared VALUES. When you know what yours are than you focus on finding the best match.
WHAT? YOU MEAN TEACHING BOYS TO S OFF OTHER BOYS ISNT WHAT SCHOOLS SHOULD BE TEACHING?!?!!
@@drakomus7409 It means how do you wish to live your life with a partner? Can you communicate in a healthy way. How do you deal with stress, adversity as a couple. Do you want children ad how many. How will you raise them? What about money? How do you value money? What are your financial goals?
My fiancée is 6’ and 350lbs and he doesn’t make $100,000 a year but I couldn’t love him more! Although I’m a traditional woman so I’m going to stand by him through thick and thin!
Why are you with an obese man. He likely won't ever make 100k a year due to his weight. You can do better
have 10 babies and raise the girls with your values. the only way to fix the nation, close borders and trad woman having 10 babies
No body is a “catch” or an ideal, established partner until they’re like 30-35. Yet people tend to get married in they’re 20s. That proves single people should stop looking for the “perfect” partner. Perfection doesn’t exist unless you make it.
They also have a male delusion calculator.
I just want someone that treats me nicely and shows with actions that he loves me. I found that and he's not in the 1%
check your friend zone 👍🏻
You have eyes open for them. Many men like that are invisible to a lot of females and then they complain about “how there’s no good, men”
Like no, bitch, you deadass aren’t LOOKING for the good men.
And, statistically, you will leave him within 3 years of marriage if you are out earning him.
@@raven_wondervocals2166 I have a man and I reached out to him online. But thanks for your concern 🤣
@@miloinindo I don't plan to make more than him. I only work to supplement our income so we can both save for some fun things in life. Instead of just going house broke and no vacations.
Well my parents got together at 16 and 18, my dad went on to earn £250k a year, being the M.D of his own company - hes 6ft 2 and my mother has never had to work a job (except raise us as a traditional stay at home mother).
She got lucky then did she? We’re just a normal family like anyone else, I don’t understand why people have these crazy expectations, money isn’t everything - yeah it’s nice to have and can ease stress, but it won’t necessarily make you happy.
And if you want to be a stay at home woman, you have to be prepared to raise the kids and appreciate the husband that allows this lifestyle.
I don't want to hear some rich kid with parents making 250k a year, talking about how money isn't everything.
Yeah. "Normal"
@@CogniVision Well he doesn't any more - he's retired now, but the point is we lived normally just like everyone else, sure we may have a slightly bigger house by a couple of rooms and have had nice cars growing up etc but now he just lives off his pension and me and my brother work normal jobs and we both went to normal school - sure we have inheritance (which we don't have access to yet and probably wont till our mid 30's-40's) but we still live the same way we did when he was raking in big money because my parents never went over the top with their lifestyle - the most lavish things they ever bought were Rolex watches and an Audi RS6 / Range Rovers, other than that we just blend in with everyone else, don't wear expensive clothes, treat everyone the same regardless of who you are or what you do - which is how everyone should be.
Also, you're not really rich these days unless you're worth multi millions - well off / comfortable, sure but not rich by any stretch of a mile, especially when you get taxed almost 50% and have a mortgage, kids, cars and utilities / food to pay for.
Most men I know who make $100,000 or more a year are married with children. Their wives have been there encouraging and supporting them as they worked their way up. You don’t marry a man who is already making good money, you marry a man you love who has the drive and potential to get there.
Exactly! Nailed it.
Or just don't marry anyone. In this day and age that's the far easier and more secure option
Sorry basically scout the guys with the most potential??
Putting my own numbers into is a surprisingly nice confidence boost honestly.
I remember seeing this for the first time from Fresh & Fit. It was always HILARIOUS seeing all the "high value" women getting their bubbles burst when they realized their "ideal man" either doesn't exist or is already off the market haha
I am a 47 yr old divorced woman. I was married for 25 years and I served my ex husband. I made his plate and served his drinks. I did his laundry and I took care of our children ALL while he cheated on me. I waited until our children were adults and I left him. He played with his girlfriend for a few months and then he began and still does beg me for forgiveness. He will be the first to admit that I like no other woman nowadays because I treated my husband as my King and he didn’t appreciate it until it was too late. The problem is here I sit so alone while he begs for forgiveness. I want to give in so bad because I miss having my King but the problem is he doesn’t deserve that crown.
Yeah don't disrespect yourself like that.
He wasn’t ever a king. Honestly most humans aren’t like what with all this ego stroking
Get therapy, work out, journal, join a book club, and do the things you always wanted to do. Do. Not. Go. Back. If he appreciated you he never would've cheated in the 1st place, period. He misses the spoiling treatment and comfort you lavished on him, and he's learning the hard way that new booty isn't interested in doing any of that. He gave you your freedom, now go do something with it that enriches your life, helps you grow, and with the exception of life events with your adult children, leave him firmly in your past. Good luck to you.❤
I found mine 27 years ago ❤ this generation has issues!
Just had our 28th Anniversary on Nov 12th. Thank God! ❤
@@free2beemee Congrats!
Yeah marriage is just never a thing I'm considering. I'm 18 now and its only going to get worse so it just isn't worth it anymore. Dating maybe but definitely not marriage
Well, $100k a year could buy a fair amount of tacos...
Tacos don't talk back, get fat, ignore you for no reason, and they especially won't leave you for one of your "friends"...
90% of women are looking for those 5.6% men so the next questiom would be, why would he settle for you?