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- Опубликовано: 22 дек 2021
- Drew Monson
get a cameo www.cameo.com/drewmytoecold
(If u do please order on website not the app, also i have to decline singing ones rn though, because Ive been having a lot of throat pain but I will talk talk talk)
hi I am worried this one is more boring but I think it picks up in the second half? and I do get to the comments I promise lol (I love when he says lol its so human ) its going to be rainy all day today and it makes me feel nutty a bit but im gonna try and just watch tv and let that be the whole thing and be fine with it
thank you Drew! have a good day
MERRY CHRISTMAS!! I hope that wasn’t the comment haha
i feel like the little tangents you go on are like the fleeting moments you’re spending with someone you know you might not see again for a long time and they have to leave soon so everything that happens that isn’t involved with the main point is like a procrastination of the inevitable end of the video or the leaving of the metaphorical person
i love you and your british boy
I'm enjoying it so far
I like when you say “you get it” instead of continuing to explain yourself. You’re right. I do
I love that!☺️
Sometimes I will say “yeah” out loud 😂
Hi Maddie!
@@ncham7232 hi! :)
Watching his videos I literally forget I'm watching a youtube video and instead act like I'm hanging out with a friend, like responding to what he says. I never do that with other youtube videos.
As someone named Jessica, I really was shocked when you said Jessican. So personal. So kind. So Drewn. Thank you.
so jealous of all the Jessicans watching this video
Time stamp please 😂 my name is Jessica
As a Jessica watching this I share your sentiment
Me too ! 💜
as someone named Jessica, who is also ~high~ watching this video, i feel doubly seen. so personal. thank u drew
when i was anorexic and i lost over 50lbs, people would tell me i looked so much better, healthier, and prettier. i was, in fact, not healthy whatsoever and those compliments actually made my disease so much worse. society tells us that being skinny is healthy no matter what is actually going on inside the body. so yes Drew i understand you.
you’re genuinely one of the funniest and most insightful people on this platform
absolutely.
honestly drew as someone who has been silently watching you for years i felt the need to finally say that these types of videos are my favorite content you have created. these days i find myself enjoying long form content in general but the way you are completely honest is refreshing to see, for me these videos are the oposite from boring i am engaged 100%
⬆⬆This! I agree 1000%.
Yes amen- Drew’s actual self is beautiful
This is one million percent how I feel
same!
When I lost weight I absolutely hated people commenting about how good I looked. It was always super uncomfortable for me and made me feel like they were throwing shade at how I used to look. Just because someone means well doesn’t mean you can’t feel a certain way about it. Being perceived is annoying.
people shouldn't comment on other bodies period
yeah, it solidifies all these fears you’ve always had of people only finding you attractive, worthy of respect and attention when you’re thin(ner). it’s awful and made me feel worse than when I was still really overweight
Yeah, when I lost a lot of weight it was deliberately for health reasons. I’d never had an issue with how I looked. But people started saying “wow, you look so beautiful”. I think I just started saying “so I didn’t before?” or something because it started to just feel really disrespectful after a while.
@@lucianacaserta9563 I completely agree! If it's about someone's weight stfu and let them bring it up if they want to.
I got people saying that too. I also had a lot of people who were envious and said things like "you think maybe you have an eating disorder" lol no I don't Karen. I'm actually eating more than I did when I was overweight and I'm working out everyday because I'm healthy fuck outta here with that. Those comments caused me to actually slip into binging because id get depressed and think "well I might as well stuff my face cuz that's obviously what people want from me to always be fat so they can feel better about themselves" sigh...
“….someone will talk about my hair; I forgot I even *had* hair….” I didn’t realize that I also felt this way literally all of the time until Drew said these words and I’m laughing so hard
Every time he says “you get it”, my brain is eagerly nodding along like YOU BET YOUR ASS I DO. 😂
Drew your authenticity is unmatched!!! We need more people brave enough to talk about stuff that might be a little uncomfortable
I read that as ethnicity 🤣🤣🤣
His “ethnicity” is unmatched 😂
I wanna say I think your “glow up” was way more than just the way you look. Your mental health and approach to healing has grown so much and as someone who has watched you through the years, it makes me happy to see you happy.
This 👍🏼👍🏼
Exactly!!
Exactly.
Yes! Agreed
It’s ok to feel weird about the back handed compliments. I am a trans guy, and the second I started looking more masculine suddenly I was this “hot guy” that nobody ever noticed before, and it feels like you can’t accept the compliment because it’s so shallow and conditional.
you are so effortlessly funny, you truly make my days better :)
I feel like this is such a good podcast lol I can listen to Drew talk for hours cuz he's so funny
I WAS THINKING THE SAME he needs a podcast !!!
Sameeee
no fr, i always come back to his channels
Love these raw, uncut videos Drew 😂 Hearing you ramble from one thing to another and then forgetting what you were originally talking about all while cracking jokes is so relatable and honestly a lot of what you say about how you perceive certain situations makes me feel less alone in the world as I also deal with similar thoughts. I was literally belly laughing in your previous video when you addressed the roach crawling on your wall in the other video 😂 Keep up these videos! A lot of us are enjoying them! :D
you don’t have to apologize for these feelings at all! i remember when i had an eating disorder i suddenly started getting compliments from my family and people telling me “keep doing what you’re doing!” I think it’s our responsibility as friends and family to others to not comment on weight loss/gain at all. it’s never helpful and usually harmful.
i know this is 3 months old but this is so true! i gained weight because a doctor told me to and it was so hard for me and i was really proud so i mentioned it at a family dinner because i was happy my digestive issues were gone now and a family member said "oh yeah you even look a bit fat now!!" and that triggered my eating disorder and now i am struggling to go back to a healthy weight again 😔
Every single story you ended with “that wasn’t a good story” had me fucking dying laughing drew. I know saying to not doubt yourself doesn’t really do much when you’re already in that mindset but you are the funniest person on this platform in my opinion.. thanks for posting this I needed it
The skit with your wife made me laugh harder than I have in so long
also, you’re always attractive. people project their fatphobia and it comes out in the form of a conditional compliment. pay no attention to the timing of when those people decide to share what they think. you’re always attractive.
Definitely.
Drew is so incredibly hot.
I'd bet money Drew was SOMEBODY'S gay awakening. Just maths
I don’t think it’s that. Sometimes it’s the way he does his hair or his facial hair. On Shane’s channel I loves him but was never really “attracted” to him also bc I was a minor and I knew he was an adult but now that I’m 23 and not 14 drew is very handsome I also think his personality plays a part as well.
i have just watched the part where you talk about how comments say "im h-i-g-h watching this and it freaks me out" because u speak directly to the viewer. this is actually a big reason why i love watching you while inebriated because it feels like im talking to my favourite funny friend except not like in a parasocial way but like it just feels more personal when you do that and its also hilarious cause sometimes you'll be like "you're wearing blue arent you?" and ill be like YEAH!!!!! wahoo!! and its really great. i dont really know why people get freaked out at that because i feel like you are the opposite of threatening. anyways please keep making these and keep saying what u want to say! you are the only reason i go on youtube anymore
As a British person, every time you ask how a British person pronounces something I say it out loud for you
SAME HAHA
We appreciate you
I think it's nice to have the 2 distinct channels. A lot of people wouldn't be curious to click on the video that has no apparent "concept" or doesn't follow a certain template... And in the end they would stop watching anything on your channel because they'd never know what to expect. Keep the "just talking" video to us who are just interested in whatever you put out, and the more formated videos for a channel that you want to grow. I hope this make sense English is my second language and I feel like I definitely didn't use the most adequate words there. I'm also H.I.G.H so yeah.
I don’t understand why watching drew is so comforting. I grew up watching the spooky boys with Shane drew and Garrett. But I always favored drew, but never went to his channel, I never knew he had one. Years later I found it and I can’t stop watching, keep doing what your doing❤️
i love when you catch yourself whenever you say mean things about yourself. i feel like it’s a really good step towards body neutrality. the idea of treating your body as a friend or as a being that deserves to be taken care of . i think it’s v sweet :)
I am a british person who will support your british boy in speaking more accurately in a british accent FOR FREE. Also, this is ultimately your space and I think it is more than reasonable to request that people don't comment on certain things. Blacklisting certain words or deleting comments is also very reasonable. AND, I LOVE the little stories! It's so interesting to hear about specific little memories!
How would you pronounce "dishes" then?? Lmaoo sorry i just started wondering after he said it lol
@@_sch_eme_ I have no idea how to convey the pronunciation via text lol. But honestly the way Drew pronounced it wasn’t so bad.
Lit chew ruh lee
yes and chimathy is a great name
i feel like they would say ”washing up”?
*EACH TIME STAMP + QUOTE WHERE I'VE LAUGHED*
0:08 "Is that offensive? It can't be. It can't be! It's not allowed to be. I've decided."
2:10 "So please don't tell me to.... die. Ew, sorry I shouldn't have said that."
2:22 "Anyway- that's the story. I bought little scissors at the dollar store."
2:20 "What if that's how I contracted the THING? By making my mustache a little smaller. Would you still love me?"
3:33 "What's up, my name's Ryan London"
*QUESTION*
4:13 Q "Do you guys even remember?"
A I genuinely dont
*LAUGH TIME STAMPS*
4:41 "Ignoring my wife."
4:55 Computer pings; "Don't. I- I'm not kidding. Don't. Laugh."
5:11 "Okay! I lost whatever that was. You see how little it takes!"
5:41 "Spam emails that are like; Drew, I think you should know this."
7:36 "That one has bugs in it. Hah. That made me sad."
*QUESTION*
7:49 Q "I hope everyone watching this can spell."
A I can spell thank you for the concern xox
*LAUGH TIME STAMPS*
8:07 "By thingy I mean mouth. Or..... .......... n- nose. ew.
9:43 "I was about to have a panic attack."
10:10 "Just like shrek!" "Not today."
11:31 "I guess trigger warn- I don't know. Just a vague- just a vague like- maybe I'll trigger you! Hehehe!"
11:43 "I'm I trigger the little kiddies in the playground >:)" Face goes back to normal and sighs. "Ugh- that was-"
13:55 there is another bug crawling in the background
15:05 it is still there
16:11 "Who am I trying to be right now? And am I really him?"
*QUESTION*
17:43 Q "I can't be the only one."
A I am the exact same way
*LAUGH TIME STAMPS*
20:12 "Leave her out of this. She's my mom." Shocked face. "By the way, I saw a comme-"
21:14 Listening to your mouth smile. I am uncomfortable but you know I am and that is why I am allowing my brain to process this as funny.
21:43 "Drew....n. Drewn!"
22:02 "Yes! I do! That's what I would sound like if my name had been Drewn."
22:49 "Hi Maddie! Hi Robert. Probably not. Hi Christian! I'll do quick ones. Hi Maddie, hi Jessica, what are people named? Hi Lily? Hi Lily! Hi Leila! Hi Longlong- I got bored.
24:20 "I don't even- you've seen it! Of course you have! :) Jessica. Jessican? Where did my phone go?
25:06 "And I lied. I need more love than usual" (scroll back abt 10-15 seconds for more context)
25:42 "I thought that would be fun. Right? Right? Please?
27:21 Median time Drew was explaining what he did with his friend when he was 15. It's funny I laughed.
27:34 "Kristen Bell is not farting in twilight I'll tell you that much!"
29:49 Explaining how you think you sound so dumb to ask to use the restroom.
30:31 "Fundraiser to get Drew Monson a new trumpet!"
31:12 Guitar drops and Drew stares in disgust as if it was the abiotic's fault
31:50 Bathroom youtube joke, sorry, too much dialogue to put down and still being orderly. Scroll back about 10-15 seconds from that time for the joke.
33:17 Drew is written a late note to stay back and talk to the teacher about nothing demanding except for the inspiring comment on his production for a video project. The janitor then comes in, a friend of the teacher, and needs help setting up his webcam to speak to a Jamaican woman from the internet. The teacher gets drew to help. This entire thing was funny.
34:22 "He's not your god."
*QUESTION*
36:07 Q "Get it? Cause those comments? Do you get it?
A I understand
*NEGATIVE COMMENT*
37:06 C "That's not my best story eitherrrrr"
A I found it very interesting
I would finish this but it's 8:40 am and Im very tired i have not slept. goodbye i tried my best i did watch the entire thing before and then i rewatched it to do this. you are still heard
Thanks isa much appreciated
@@cuandotumedasunagalleta7169 of course cuandotumedasunagalleta i'm really glad you got something from it
@@isa-cx5mn maybe one day ill give you a galletita
Oh my god i just did the 'donde esta la biblioteca' joke as i wrote this
And saw you had Abed in your pfp
@@cuandotumedasunagalleta7169 OMG yes i love community
My favourite part of these is when you laugh to yourself. You’ve made me laugh for many years.
You’re one of the very few RUclipsrs who can make me audibly snicker or laugh ❤ love you drew!
Some people lack self awareness and think it’s a compliment however it does sting when we hear stuff like that. I had a new boyfriend and we were on our second date and the waitress came up and remembered me from high school and she said, “wow! You’ve lost soooo much weight!” I was so humiliated.
Drew, I can’t speak for everyone but it could be possible that the “glow up” people are speaking of doesn’t revolve around your weight at all and just that you have grown into yourself. I think you have always been handsome and I wish that you find it within yourself to discard comments that don’t feed your soul. I wish you comfort and security knowing that your body is your own and has brought you safely thus far on your journey through life. You are loved, valued, and are so much more than a physical appearance or persona on RUclips. You bring joy to people. What a true gift you have.
People- please heed this advice:
If someone can’t change it within 5 minutes, you should not make a comment about it.
As an English person I find Drew’s English accent so satisfying and entertaining
Also he should be called oswaldarian
Holy SHIT Drew. You have a fucking awesome soft rock/folk voice!! You made me drop my damned jaw. I'm always in and out of the channel, so I've never really had the pleasure of hearing you sing.
Also, I totally get the comments about weight. I grew up with gastrointestinal problems that made it damned near impossible to get hungry, and people/friends/family would tell me I looked amazing all the time. Really fucked when people are telling you that your health problems make you more attractive. Also, i'm a high-functioning aspie, so reading/hearing those things socially was always really hard, because I would strip every meaning of one sentence apart. I learned how to be attractive by learning the science/psychology behind attraction around 14, because that's how I understood it. I feel you in this video. Peace and love, Drew!
I genuinely love hearing the little songs you make up, I would watch a whole video of you singing songs about whatever comes to your mind, they’re honestly so good
Drew you are a treasure. I have crippling depression to the point I can’t get out of bed. Your videos make me feel like I’m not alone. I also love your humor. You are more amazing than you know
Hey I hope you’re doing okay, believe me things will get better, I promise ❤️
The weightloss thing is so relatable, being a person that's lost 80+ pounds. I've noticed such a huge difference in how people treat me. Like, people treat me more like a human and not a person that's taking up too much space in a room and people actually talk to me now and give me genuine compliments. It feels good, but it also has really messed with me.
First, congratulations on your tremendous achievement! That is not easy at all. Second…. The only thing that matters is how you treat you. Congrats again ❤️
this style of content is genuinely my favorite. its so personable and comforting :) thank you drew
Never felt more understood by another human being; gives me hope for my future, thank you Drew
These videos soothe my soul. I love how they feel like talking to a friend!
yes !!!🥲
he so genuine
22:47
It’s like being on FaceTime/zoom with a friend
@@ericfraley9031 it blew my mind 😂
I've been going through this era where I'm like painfully self aware and able to see everyone's perspective all at once, so it's very hard to form opinions and makes me sort of feel like I have no personality anymore - ANYWAY, because of this, your new content has really been hitting home. My husband and I are custodians who just travel from place to place to clean and I put these on for the drives and it has been super relatable and healing to hear you experiencing (what I assume at least) is the same thing in real time. Makes me feel like there's a bigger phenomenon happening if other people feel this way too and can articulate it. Hope that made sense. Love ya Drew. ✌
I've had such a horrible sense of self my whole life, it's scary not being able to have a grounded sense of self, but there are huge perks, like you said, we can see everyone's perception, I totally get it.
I have been going through that too, it's strange seeing people talk about it because when i try to explain, nobody seems to understand
Make sure you really do understand their full perspective. You don't want to fall into a habit of jumping to conclusions about ppls perspective
so well said, same
WOW i thought i was just sensitive, boring and no personality but the way you worded this makes sooo much sense and resonates so much with me. I feel less alone now thank you
Drew, you're always so kind and empathic 💗 We all have people who hate us. You're a wonderful soul.
Drew you are so wonderful to listen to. I see a lot of comments like this, and it's so true: I feel like I'm hanging out with a really fun, good friend when I'm watching your videos. You are so captivating every time you talk, and I am just so grateful that you post these videos and share your deep thoughts. And also your hilarious comments and characters. Also, that thing you and your friend used to do about the farting in Twilight is hilarious ahahaha
1. the tom story made me laugh so hard
2. every time you say "you get it" i DO get it and it makes me feel very intelligent
3. if it makes you feel better to put these on another channel, do it!! i'll watch whatever you put out wherever it is :)
We’ve always thought you were attractive Drew! You’re just aging well which is a great thing. Most importantly you’re a joy to watch, you’re refreshingly authentic and you’re genuinely hilarious.
THE PART ABOUT REACTING TO TWILIGHT AS IF THEY WERE FARTING IM LITERALLY SOBBING
these videos are so refreshing and comforting
The non-binary bob is EVERYTHING.
This made me smile😄
Put my headphones in and listened to this while I did some last minute Christmas shopping at the mall. Usually I feel really anxious in stores but your video kept me distracted. I appreciate you.
I went through a major surgery a few days ago and have been feeling pretty bad. Your videos make my days easier and all parts make me laugh and smile
Drew,
It brings me joy that you’ve come back to RUclips. You could talk about any topic at all, and people will watch. Your personality is enough. I’m glad you’ve taken time to focus on your health and well-being; it really shows! Merry Christmas.🎄
Gina💕
So proud to be a “drew monster”♥️✨😈 Your videos are the literal narrative of what goes on in my head all the time,and it’s so comforting to know that I’m not alone. I love you,drew💙
Drew I get kinda anxious leaving you comments because I really don’t want my message to be misunderstood and I don’t want it to be worded in a way that sends you down a negative thought loop (because the same thing happens to me whenever anyone says anything about me, even when they’re trying to be nice!) and so I hope that doesn’t happen with this comment but I just want to say that you make me feel so understood and I am so thankful for your authenticity and honesty and this new style of “stream of consciousness”-type videos and I just hope that you have a great day and that you know that there are people out here that thoroughly enjoy your art! ❤️ you are such a beautiful person.
Literally for every one of these second channel videos I keep wanting to write a comment to show support and I keep getting too anxious about it and end up chickening out every time and it feels so dumb cause it's just a RUclips comment but I can't make myself go through with it 🙃
i loved this whole video, and you had me laughing out loud. it feels like i’m facetiming my best friend. ily so much drew and so happy you’re back, and you’ve always been fine as hell 😤
I watched until the end. I love this type of candid video. I really appreciate how honest and raw you are in these. I appreciate it being on a separate channel so I know exactly what kind of video I’m about to watch if that makes sense? Also I relate to a lot of the self loathing you talked about. You inspire me to accept myself as I am and have more empathy for all the people that are going through similar things. Love you Drew 🤍
I totally understand what you mean. The constant fear of that you may have been ugly before and you also fear like your “glow up” is gonna end eventually and people will go back to thinking you’re “ugly” is such an awful feeling and no you don’t sound ridiculous talking about how those comments don’t affect you the way they’re meant to. Wish you the best drew and love your videos.
a nonbinary bob? no that is not offensive i feel accepted now
I’ve also been dealing with stomach pain and gastro issues and losing tons of weight and seeing how people react to it has messed me up. Having a weird relationship with food is tough when it’s added on I get that feeling. I’m really happy to hear you talk about something I’ve been dealing with too and I hope your stomach issues get dealt with.
Your brain is so amazing. I’m not sure if you’ve ventured into this already, but I think you’d be such a great writer! I’d love to watch any show/movie you’ve poured your thoughts into.
The comedic segues that turn into bits throughout this video are so good hahahhaa.
My adhd brain loves these videos like we vibing boiii. I’d normally zone out & start getting bored with just about anyone when they sit down to do these kinds of videos but it’s straight up magic how you just keep my brain engaged for the entire video. It’s kind of funny how your inability to stay on topic in these videos is exactly what keeps me focused. Also you’re genuinely hilarious while doing it & it just seems so natural to you so I hope you give yourself credit for that.
🙌 🙌
it’s comforting to hear that someone else feels the same way about people commenting on weight fluctuations. whenever people point out that i’ve lost weight i always take it as an insult somehow
Drew YOU ARE SO DAMN FUNNY I CANNOT I LAUGHED LIKE 50 times already I get why you laugh at yourself 😭😭😭 you're such a light in my life and im so grateful for your videos, i feel sooo accompanied
i just binged watched this channel and it’s been one of the most riveting things i’ve done
Drew, you’ve always been attractive.
Regardless of outward appearance changing throughout the years. That’s literally what bodies do, they fluctuate. It’s okay.
I think you’re really cute and handsome. Thanks for once again being authentic in your videos. I really look forward to these longer videos on your second channel!
Drew you have no idea how cool and funny you are. There's no one out there like you, you never fail to make me laugh. THANK UUU
I always watch your videos all the way through, and I would just like to encourage you to not be afraid to do whatever the hell you want with your channel. We are here for you; stop worrying what people think because at the end of our lives the last thing we will care about is what the hell everyone else thought about us when what matters is what we think about ourselves.
I love genuine Drew!!! I feel like every video is genuine Drew, but I love these close and personal videos. The life stories make me feel closer to you even though we are total strangers, but I think that’s so cool.
Also if someone thinks any content draining its their responsibility to care for themselves and find something else that benefits them. If Its healthy for you to talk about whatever you need for yourself, then that is all you’re responsible for. Unless you’re actively harming people someone disliking your content or feeling drained is a personal issue for them to deal with and I dont think its fair for you to try and carry the weight of each individual’s preferences.
I couldn't agree more!
perfectly put.
That’s beautiful. I think it’s really going to help me with opening-up more again
TW: restrictive eating disorder and body size/weight
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I’m recovering from anorexia nervosa, and when it was at its worst, people told me how great I looked cause I lost weight 🤢 they didn’t know I have an ED, but all the compliments about my malnourished and underweight body definitely kept me stuck in my behaviors
i really appreciate this video and your commentary on body positivity etc. because ur not trying to tell us how to “fix” anything, whether it’s our own self esteem or the larger societal problems around fat shaming. you’re simply voicing how i feel in the most relatable way possible without being demeaning or overly negative. idk, it’s just really helpful. thank u:)
Can we all agree that "Timothy Sells Masks Now" was and is an absolute banger?
hey i’m high rn and enjoyed this video a lot you’re like the funniest person? and saying things i feel deep in my brain. it’s healing to listen to u talk and joke. love u thank u
drew and the little british boy are giving me so much joy. I can’t stop laughing. 😭
these videos are fr the highlight of my day shhsh its like a podcast and i listen to it while i draw or something- tysm drew :))
you are BY FAR my favorite online person. you are so comfortable to listen to and you have fully formed my entire sense of humor over the years. i am so glad to have this content and i really hope you continue posting these long-form videos often. i wish you would also post this as a podcast on Spotify so i could listen to it more easily as i do chores etc. ok love you king merry christmas :”)
I wish we were friends in real life. I love listening to you talk. You make me laugh so much and so happy!
Drew this channel is like the strange club that has the AA room booked and comes in after everybody's done stacking the circle chairs and nobody knows what they're about but it's special and fun and those who get it get it and those who don't don't. In a nice way. I love being here
your memories and story times are really entertaining i genuinely think you’re so funny
You make me so happy. I love these longer videos so much! It’s fun to hear your dialogues that are random bc they’re very similar to how my brain works and that comforts me. And I mean that politely 100% don’t turn that negative lmao. But all love
British little boy is named Chumley
i love what you said about catching yourself saying negative things and putting a stop to it. i’ve been focusing on that a lot lately, especially in front of my son. the other day in the car i saw my hair was frizzy and i “jokingly” was about to say, “mommy’s hair is such a mess” but i caught myself and instead said, “mommy’s hair is so beautiful!” the crazy thing is it feels weird for us to say nice things to ourselves but that should be the standard. growing up, all i ever heard was my mom criticizing herself as well as me and others. that critical voice has always been my go to mode of thinking. i’ve always been so painfully hard on myself and after all these years it’s ravaged my body and soul. i don’t want that for my son. and i don’t want that for myself anymore, either
I almost never comment but I felt I needed to commend your amazing parenting. You’re doing a wonderful job at raising your son.
i do the exact same thing when it comes to hanging up the phone. it also takes me a really long time to leave a social scenario (more for like a 2-3 person hang than like a party). i noticed you doing it in other videos and i was like why does he keep saying he's about to leave when.... oh i do that. idk what it is / why i do it, my only theory so far is that when i realize that the conversation is ending it unlocks all these things that i didn't realize i wanted to say before it was over.
I relate to your anxiety so much. My stream of consciousness is pretty similar. I hate spending so much time in my head analysing all of my interactions with people and things that are said to me. But I appreciate that there are others out there like us. :) have a happy new year.
Currently just watching the first “boring” part of this and I’m engrossed in it. Been watching you for ages and this is exactly what I need. I live off of these videos
I feel so comforted right now, when you spend most of life feeling uncomfortable and too in your head and finally just get to listen to a person speak about their experience existing and make you laugh and think and somehow feel heard without actually being perceived it is the best decompression from the constant treading water. These videos are like a sigh of relief for me so thank you!
i fucking love all of this content lately. the witch voice thing is my favorite and the timothy chalamet selling masks song was not only funny but nice to listen to! i hope ur doing alright drew! u make a lot of ppl smile when u post!
nah these videos are great. i sit and listen and then overthink my whole life. BUT TY !!
As a Jessica that was literally the face I made when you said Jessican, felt oddly intimate
The last time I saw my grandma she said “did you lose weight?” And I was like “no” and she was like “oh you look like you did”. And it felt like an insult even though it probably was supposed to be compliment. Even though I’ve been feeling better about my body image, it made me spiral a bit. I guess it’s just weird when someone randomly talks about your body. I also kind of forget I have a body beyond my eye balls too.
I feel you, I hardly think about my body either. I think it feels bad because I feel like it's an indication that people care what you look like much more than you do and to a much higher extent than anyone should and that doesn't feel good. I don't like to think the way I look is something people care about enough to comment on, and if it's to my face, there's the assumption that it's something I should care about as well.
My grandma always says that!! it feels like my worth is defined by my weight then and reminds me that people who are seeing me again are looking for that. Plus then when I see her and she doesn’t say it I assume she thinks I look bigger. None of this should matter anyway I get it she means well
This video feels like a night at my grandparents house, thank you!
you are by far my favorite youtuber or any creator on any platform. it feels like we’re just talking lol bc my brain works similarly just so many throughts constantly branching off into other things. these raw uncut videos are so comforting. i get engrossed in the “boring” parts
I love longer videos of someone just talking like these. I listen to them when I draw, drive, and cook.
I first found your content in like middle school and now im in college. Its really nice to hear how youre doing lately. Im glad youre back and making videos.
I personally really like the separation between channels. I can’t imagine what it’s like to have so many eyes on you, but it seems like a good idea to try and create a space with less of that pressure. As always I enjoyed this one :)
Drew I love you, this always helps me forget about everything for a bit. i love the way you change subjects; you are the most relatable RUclipsr I know. thank you so much for the increase in content lately!!!
I love this type of video so much. It's like a conversation among friends. And it's refreshing, because a lot of people take themselves too seriously and it can be gimmicky.
I would pay $30 a month to listen to these. We just love hearing how you are doing and appreciate all your jokes and since of humor.
hi drew i never comment but i want to let you know that videos like these help me so much. i've been watching you since highschool and i graduated college this year, but i still am drawn to your videos because they are so authentic and helped me feel less alone throughout all these years - even now. whenever i'm by myself i just love playing these in the background to listen to someone and not be isolated with my thoughts. my dog hates the voices of other people but when he hears your videos he falls asleep to your voice. thank you you're amazing
feel like i’m constantly responding irl to you like shaking my head or laughing with you. so wholesome i definitely pretend i’m having conversation w you in the back while i’m doing my makeup
i feel like i’m watching found footage of my own thought process, oddly comforting. thanks man
I lost a lot of weight in 2020 because I was extremely ill. I understand the way that can mess with your head & apparently everyone who looses heaps of weight can get depressed afterwards. I just came from your livestream & I’m sorry you were struggling. Compliments aren’t a setup for an insult Drew, TRY to live in the moment because it’s less stressful than the alternatives. You’re always going to get bad comments but I suggest that you filter your comments section with the specific triggers for your mental health
Drew you’re my comfort person and I really appreciate these longer videos a lot so thank you for making them
i’ve been quarantining for a few days now and feeling real lonely but this vid made me feel like i was hanging out with a good friend ty drew :’)
i always enjoy hearing you talk :) i appreciate you talking about subjects like this.