Good for victor slapping that away when she started to put the blame on him. She was about to use the "im lonely because you warent here" crap excuse that many women and men use after getting caught
No, it's not. She was cheating on him for six months and "finding the right moment" to tell him. Having someone else tell you is 1000x better than having your woman tell you she's been cheating on you. Because you can at least find out sooner and know who has your back. You also get to shake her world up by letting it known she doesn't get to cheat on her terms.
YOU'VE CROSS THE LINE BONNIE. NOW YOU'VE BEEN DUMPED ON. You deserve it. Tan did the very right thing. Betraying your love ones never wins. NEVER EVER!
Its an affair fog, they think its a thrill of the action of hiding secrets of an affair. Once the discovery happens, everything falls apart. They'll beg, ask for forgiveness, everything crumbles and the other guy is not where to be found cause he got his taste of not having any responsibilities of a relationship (why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free). Its their last resort to cry.
Cheating with a coworker is very common. Every place that I have worked at MOST of my coworkers have cheated or are trying to cheat. Employees/management/customers are all fooling around with each other. When the cheaters come to work with their significant other, they act so faithful.
Love how she, the cheater, blames him and his job. Like she didn't know what he does long before she started cheating. Sounds like relationships in SWAT are just as bad as in the military.
After everything they had been through, Bonnie threw it away as if it never happened. The anger I felt watching this scene- Good men like Tan who do what they do everyday don’t deserve being cheated on😭
Why isn’t that when some women cheat they always say “ 1:34 I was waiting for the right time”which means you weren’t ever going to tell me just keep lying and having it remain a secret 🤦🏾♂️
When them get caught they just lie so! Knowing that they dis yuh and disgrace you! When you someone you don't hurt them. I bet the new man is married too!
Bonnie is a whole Bop smh. Man or woman, your partner doesn’t respect you in relationship and they cheat on you and come up with these fancy excuses as to why, have some respect for yourself and leave them
"I was waiting for the right time" How about NOT when youre already in a relationship, how about that? Either end it first, or stay single with your 304 ways.
The guy in a job which literally risks his life day after day, and Bonnie without second thoughts just CHEAT ON HIM, guessing a simple "I'm sorry" would solve the problem? Don't make me laugh.
Good to see mainstream entertainment start to reflect the reality of modern relationships. For years it was always the man cheating, when the reality of women being the main cheaters started a couple decades ago. A little late to the party, but good to see it none the less.
"Are you in love with him?" What the fuck does that matter? I've never understood why screenwriters think people in the real world honestly care if their cheating partners are in love with their affair partners. Like it somehow mitigates their actions.
Why do cheaters blame the persons job? ESPECIALLY if that job was your source of support to your own goals? SMFH some people are callus as hell don't get Married if you know you can't commit to 1 person ever just save that other half the embarrassment and the pain and their money. Yeah go to the other Guy i bet he won't take you in cause you were most likely his trick or shit lady. When people do things in the shadows you ain't meant to be their Main.
It’s just a simple cliché of not being there, not talking to me as much, not giving me any attention, not giving me any love. That’s called being a spoiled brat! Fine and granted he could’ve done somethings better but it’s no excuse. Betrayal is betrayal. If she wanted attention from him, all she had to do is ask. Sometimes I wish that people will open the lines of communication and TALK ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS!!
If this was real then we would have been much more aggressive about defending herself and blaming him. Meek acceptance of blame is not a cheater's nature.
That's the reason a guy is scared of relationships. Guys are brought up, at least some are brought up to become fathers. If, by chance he gets a divorce, meets someone else, it's going to be hell to truly wonder if she can be trusted. If there are children, BTW, he will be very sure to make sure he takes care of them the right way!!🙏😇😉
There was never going to be a right time and she’s only sorry she got caught. Take note fellas. I know it’s just a show but stuff like this happens every day to good men and women for no reason. They’re only sorry they got caught. If they truly felt remorse it would never have happened to begin with
She still want tan money. Thats why she dint want to devorce. And the guy she cheating with have time but dont have money. That's why she cheated on him for 6 months but had no intention of divorcing her husband
I’ve seen people who were great Christians . They got married, she left him, the kids, and even her family. It was as if she became someone else. Can’t even figure, he has never, even considered remarrying.
She's sorry she got caught, Bonnie dancing on my last nerve. She just missed out on an amazing man, if she felt lonely or alone she should have talked to Tan. Not cheat on him for six months, once is a mistake twice is somehing else. It's called a choice. 😐
Bonnie has no right to blame tan it was her choice to cheat on him Bonnie thought she could hide the truth from tan if his friends from SWAT didn't tell him tan would have still found out it's true tan loved Bonnie but she didn't love him Bonnie should have known you can't hide the truth from the police.
He a friend at work. It’s your fault, you’re sooo busy. This is the easiest dialogue to write. All you have to do is follow along with your typical modern American woman😅
Doubt that, but I would say there probably wouldn't be as much hate though. Cheating is cheating but if a wife cheats with another man that tells the husband he's inadequate, not satisfying or that man was a better choice if she did it after marriage but if she cheats with another woman the feeling of betrayal is still there but it's more questionable about what she's feeling about herself rather than her husband
I’ve put my fist thur the drywall before when my now ex-wife was being less than faithful, it wasn’t pleasant for me then , your whole life becomes ripped apart.
It is so typical when a woman cheats she blames the man because he works too much and then she expects him to forgive her and if Tan had cheated on Bonnie everybody would calling him every nasty name in the book and be on Bonnie's side and if she forgives him everybody would be calling her fool, idiot and no sense forgiving him.
CTR (Counseling Therapy and Rehab) could save this marriage. Or open the lines of communication. TALK! If Women are lonely they need a “Pet” like a dog or a cat not another man. Also he should’ve said, “What is he giving you that I’m not?!”
I agree but sometimes everyone deserves another chance. And don’t say, “not everyone”. I know they don’t get back together because “once a cheater always a cheater.” I think men should work “part-time” at their jobs. I don’t care if the money is low. That way they’ll have more days off for them to spend time with their loved ones.
@Gigadestroyermets everyone deserves a second chance but you just gotta have some self respect and some love for your self more importantly. They deserve another chance but not with you. BTW for your second paragraph do you know one of the biggest factors and I mean biggest factors for divorce is economic reasons, when the man isn't making enough money and the woman feels too stressed, this is a damned if you do and damned if don't situation. You gotta stand on your ground and do what will serve you and the people around you best to the best of your abilities
Shit, man! We are behind here, last nights episode was were Tan was leaving the S.W.A.T. compound by chopper to get married! Now we find out the she cheated on him!! 😮
A man should never chase a woman out of the house no matter what even if the infidelity is commited by the woman…it’s disrespectful… Ps : hahahaha…in your dreams …
“Better yet, go to him” the hardest line out the whole scene!
I don’t think she could.
Sail on honey, good times never felt so good.
All she had to do was keep it shut, and she opened. She is a silly woman.
The wild thing is that they know they usually can’t go to the guy they cheated with.
I said "Finding a bed to fuck in wasn't a problem for you. Why should finding one to sleep in be any different?" to my ex.
Good on tan dumping her on the spot.
He wants her back weak ass
Bonnie you 💩
Those SWAT officers are legends for helping their friend with this.
@@andrewrogers3067 true friends indeed.
Very good friends indeed ❤❤❤😢
I like how they both told him together. Makes it more solid once he got past the whole, "Is this a joke" phase.
Victor it is not what it looks like 😮
Good for victor slapping that away when she started to put the blame on him. She was about to use the "im lonely because you warent here" crap excuse that many women and men use after getting caught
Men never use that line 😂TF you talking about
@@td163 some most definitely do and would
@@hammer-0not true
Finding out that you're cheating from someone else's hurts more than you telling me you cheated on me...
No, it's not. She was cheating on him for six months and "finding the right moment" to tell him. Having someone else tell you is 1000x better than having your woman tell you she's been cheating on you. Because you can at least find out sooner and know who has your back. You also get to shake her world up by letting it known she doesn't get to cheat on her terms.
YOU'VE CROSS THE LINE BONNIE. NOW YOU'VE BEEN DUMPED ON. You deserve it. Tan did the very right thing. Betraying your love ones never wins. NEVER EVER!
Facts finally a guy stands up to a cheater on these shows like bruh she disrespected u. And then was like”idk when the right time was”
She's not sorry. If she was, she would have stopped, maybe even told Tan herself.
Bonnie was just sorry she got caught
Why is it the women use a good man's work as an excuse for cheating WTF
I agree. That a lazy excuse.
Cus thats what they do
f*minism
Fr sorry I was providing for us 😂
Its classic victim act they put on every time they had cheated but want to act like they did nothing wrong. Don't ever fall for that.
If you are having an affair with another man after marriage, why do you cry in front of your husband when he finds out about it?
It’s to save face crocodile tears it’s supposed to soften the blow or flip the table so they the victim
Its an affair fog, they think its a thrill of the action of hiding secrets of an affair. Once the discovery happens, everything falls apart. They'll beg, ask for forgiveness, everything crumbles and the other guy is not where to be found cause he got his taste of not having any responsibilities of a relationship (why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free). Its their last resort to cry.
Because she got caught
Tears have been a great weapon for manipulation and play victim card games for such women.
Exactly
I had a feeling she was cheating when she aint wanna do shit for the anniversary
That’s really a dead giveaway
Cheating with a coworker is very common. Every place that I have worked at MOST of my coworkers have cheated or are trying to cheat. Employees/management/customers are all fooling around with each other. When the cheaters come to work with their significant other, they act so faithful.
I would like to come to your workplace 😊
Which is why women shouldn't be working
“Waiting for the right time”. So cheating even longer for few more months?🤡🤣
Cheating is a choice that she made and it’s not mistake.
Love how she, the cheater, blames him and his job. Like she didn't know what he does long before she started cheating. Sounds like relationships in SWAT are just as bad as in the military.
Bonnie is a goofy. Like girl how can you cheat on a sexy hunk like Tan that would literally do anything for you
Exactly tan ain't a bad guy literally compared to the loser she went too
A goofy ? More like a b1tch
What about guys who cheat on their beautiful girlfriends
@@thomashninan3825Tan ain’t that kind of guy…
😂 Finally she let some random guy to come between her legs and to allow him to play , then she blamed Tam for this.
When a woman cheats on you every love she’s had for you is gone..is better to just end it right there
Anyone that cheats NEVER loved in the first place.....if there is a problem, a real person that had love for you will leave
He shouldve married that Asian girl instead she woudlve been more loyal
Blud, thats kinda racist.
@@d.a.b1404 how?
@@Basedlander-k1mjust cause you said the word “Asian”😂
@@d.a.b1404 How is that racist? 💀💀
idk it was like 9pm and my mind was tired.@@o5-774
Bonnie is a Hoooeee
to the streets 😂
@@Dionysos_____AltersLMAOOO FRRRR
She's been dumped, like a trash.
Ong
THESE COMMENTS KILLED ME😂😂
Jeez, poor Tan!
The best “cheaters on confronts the cheater” ever. Amazing scene.
I'm happy for Tan because he got rid of the 4 and landed a whole ass 20.
After everything they had been through, Bonnie threw it away as if it never happened. The anger I felt watching this scene- Good men like Tan who do what they do everyday don’t deserve being cheated on😭
Why isn’t that when some women cheat they always say “ 1:34 I was waiting for the right time”which means you weren’t ever going to tell me just keep lying and having it remain a secret 🤦🏾♂️
Or when she was ready to leave him.
@@B.A.B.G. exactly
Had he not found out she never would’ve told him or even planned on telling him
@@javinrichardson facts and so true 💯
Typical flipping the situation to make it the guys fault.
YES! KING STYLE! Get out now! Go to him!
Idc what nobody says cheating is a choice once you do it. Ain’t no I’m sorry just go be with that person you cheated with
Cheating is definitely a choice.
When them get caught they just lie so! Knowing that they dis yuh and disgrace you! When you someone you don't hurt them. I bet the new man is married too!
Women will always blame the man and not accept responsibility for there action
it’s a tv show.
@@justatg That Doesn’t invalidate that his statement is true.☠️
Accountability is like self poison for women 😂
2:41 if she had stayed a split second longer, that wall would’ve been her head
Best decision one can make after such a betrayal either a mam or women both should know the consequences after doing such things
Good lord he just married
Nearly two years, closer to a year and a half really.
@@vgg31 I see
IKR? She should've said no the first time
Hold on boy that's going to hurt the resell value. Go tear up some paper plates or some cheap stuff 😂😂
Bonnie is a whole Bop smh.
Man or woman, your partner doesn’t respect you in relationship and they cheat on you and come up with these fancy excuses as to why, have some respect for yourself and leave them
She really said no to "Do you love him?". Then tried to make into the bad guy. Unbelievable.
"I was waiting for the right time"
How about NOT when youre already in a relationship, how about that? Either end it first, or stay single with your 304 ways.
Cheating is a habit. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
The guy in a job which literally risks his life day after day, and Bonnie without second thoughts just CHEAT ON HIM, guessing a simple "I'm sorry" would solve the problem? Don't make me laugh.
Bro just gave that dude a certified baddie
Good to see mainstream entertainment start to reflect the reality of modern relationships. For years it was always the man cheating, when the reality of women being the main cheaters started a couple decades ago. A little late to the party, but good to see it none the less.
"Are you in love with him?" What the fuck does that matter? I've never understood why screenwriters think people in the real world honestly care if their cheating partners are in love with their affair partners. Like it somehow mitigates their actions.
Wait, this was episode 13. End of "Lion's Share". I feel so bad for Tan 😭😭
Oh yeah, just realised that lol
Y’all slow
Cheating is a choice not a mistake. She's only sad because she was caught!
6 months... Shatters any man to find out its been going on that long. And then she blames him... its your fault I cheated.
Why do cheaters blame the persons job? ESPECIALLY if that job was your source of support to your own goals? SMFH some people are callus as hell don't get Married if you know you can't commit to 1 person ever just save that other half the embarrassment and the pain and their money. Yeah go to the other Guy i bet he won't take you in cause you were most likely his trick or shit lady. When people do things in the shadows you ain't meant to be their Main.
It’s just a simple cliché of not being there, not talking to me as much, not giving me any attention, not giving me any love. That’s called being a spoiled brat!
Fine and granted he could’ve done somethings better but it’s no excuse. Betrayal is betrayal. If she wanted attention from him, all she had to do is ask. Sometimes I wish that people will open the lines of communication and TALK ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS!!
Am I the only one who thinks she looks like Tiffany Stratton from WWE
If this was real then we would have been much more aggressive about defending herself and blaming him. Meek acceptance of blame is not a cheater's nature.
Women do this a lot and play the victim card. If this happens to you, CUT your losses and let go of the HO!
Work bae gon take over every time 😅
That's the reason a guy is scared of relationships. Guys are brought up, at least some are brought up to become fathers. If, by chance he gets a divorce, meets someone else, it's going to be hell to truly wonder if she can be trusted. If there are children, BTW, he will be very sure to make sure he takes care of them the right way!!🙏😇😉
There was never going to be a right time and she’s only sorry she got caught. Take note fellas. I know it’s just a show but stuff like this happens every day to good men and women for no reason. They’re only sorry they got caught. If they truly felt remorse it would never have happened to begin with
HE SAID GET TO STEPPING. ITS NOT MY FAULT THAT U CANT RESPECT BEING PART OF SOMETHING. TAN DIDNT WANT TO HEAR NO MORE OF IT. #GETOUT
Oh look at the woman crying😂
I have been there. There are 2 things you can do. Either pretend you don't know or just serve her with divorce papers as a surprise.
Please divorce your partners don't cheat 💔
She still want tan money. Thats why she dint want to devorce. And the guy she cheating with have time but dont have money. That's why she cheated on him for 6 months but had no intention of divorcing her husband
You don't duvorce partners, you divorce spouses.
“You do not get to blame me”
I’ve seen people who were great Christians . They got married, she left him, the kids, and even her family. It was as if she became someone else. Can’t even figure, he has never, even considered remarrying.
once a cheater always a cheater no matter what is your excuse , don't trust them again you will become fool soon or later again
She's sorry she got caught, Bonnie dancing on my last nerve. She just missed out on an amazing man, if she felt lonely or alone she should have talked to Tan. Not cheat on him for six months, once is a mistake twice is somehing else. It's called a choice. 😐
Wow. I knew she was gonna use his job
After this she just wants to reconcile why her lover left her.
Can anyone please say where can I watch this series after season 6???
“Does he have a name?” Incredible writing here guys.
He should have yelled, "hold on Bonnie!" Then took her keys.
How would she leave then?
Bonnie has no right to blame tan it was her choice to cheat on him Bonnie thought she could hide the truth from tan if his friends from SWAT didn't tell him tan would have still found out it's true tan loved Bonnie but she didn't love him Bonnie should have known you can't hide the truth from the police.
After everything that they’ve been through together she chose to cheat on him and break his heart and blame him.
This is how you do it. Good man.
It's time to find a nice Asian girl cor himself lol
He a friend at work. It’s your fault, you’re sooo busy. This is the easiest dialogue to write. All you have to do is follow along with your typical modern American woman😅
Pro-tip: Don't do that with the wall. You won't win.
You are right, but then, better the wall than her...
This is why DNA Tests are needed.
If she had done it with a woman everyone would be calling Bonnie a hero.
Doubt that, but I would say there probably wouldn't be as much hate though. Cheating is cheating but if a wife cheats with another man that tells the husband he's inadequate, not satisfying or that man was a better choice if she did it after marriage but if she cheats with another woman the feeling of betrayal is still there but it's more questionable about what she's feeling about herself rather than her husband
@@nikkimiddlekillsday5161you’re delusional
I’ve put my fist thur the drywall before when my now ex-wife was being less than faithful, it wasn’t pleasant for me then , your whole life becomes ripped apart.
the poor wall lmao. did he fixed it in 6x19 or did he sell the house like that?
It is so typical when a woman cheats she blames the man because he works too much and then she expects him to forgive her and if Tan had cheated on Bonnie everybody would calling him every nasty name in the book and be on Bonnie's side and if she forgives him everybody would be calling her fool, idiot and no sense forgiving him.
Tan should've gone with his criminal ex
Remember, even if everyone is dead. Never ever get back or give another chance to a cheater, cat or dog are better anyway…
Waiting for the right time, ugh. 💔
Matt became SWAT after killing Andrew
Good job sir it will take time but future is good
Strong man taking out the garbage.
Why so many cops take their own lives. Their jobs stressful enough
Waiting for the right time is never.
They could have made cute hapa babies..
CTR (Counseling Therapy and Rehab) could save this marriage. Or open the lines of communication. TALK!
If Women are lonely they need a “Pet” like a dog or a cat not another man.
Also he should’ve said, “What is he giving you that I’m not?!”
When a line like cheating is crossed it cannot be undone, all that should have happened before she decided to find some strange
I agree but sometimes everyone deserves another chance. And don’t say, “not everyone”. I know they don’t get back together because “once a cheater always a cheater.”
I think men should work “part-time” at their jobs. I don’t care if the money is low. That way they’ll have more days off for them to spend time with their loved ones.
@Gigadestroyermets everyone deserves a second chance but you just gotta have some self respect and some love for your self more importantly. They deserve another chance but not with you. BTW for your second paragraph do you know one of the biggest factors and I mean biggest factors for divorce is economic reasons, when the man isn't making enough money and the woman feels too stressed, this is a damned if you do and damned if don't situation. You gotta stand on your ground and do what will serve you and the people around you best to the best of your abilities
Thats my boy right there
Swinging from one guy to the other is common but still so scummy.
Didn't he just married her
End of S4, yes.
@@vgg31 S6 was maybe one or two years after S4 but yeah. Short marriage for some people.
So u married so long but u already don’t respect them for cheating but then u gonna go and lie right in their face.
Satisfied words get out of here 👍🏿
Duck nooooo, don't hurt Tan😢
What episoad?
Well done tan, no mercy for. Cheater
Shit, man!
We are behind here, last nights episode was were Tan was leaving the S.W.A.T. compound by chopper to get married!
Now we find out the she cheated on him!!
😮
HOHOHO!!
6 months ?
Six month it's so long.you have a good husband.. And you don't respect him. You regret..
A man should never chase a woman out of the house no matter what even if the infidelity is commited by the woman…it’s disrespectful…
Ps : hahahaha…in your dreams …
1:38 growing apart cs of ur attitude
I feel so 😢bad for victor finding out his wife was cheating on I him I hope tan finds a new wife is way better than Bonnie
Movie name?
TV Show: SWAT (2017)