THE PART LATER ON IN THE VIDEO Where he is generally talking about "healthy eating" he is NOT calling ME personally a "DUMMY", he is speaking figuratively. I know because I was the one to talk figuratively like that first and then he picked up the habit from me.
He was 50 she was 19. Had 8 kids. And was isolated from family and friends and cant drive. Reminds me of like a house or horrors or like in a cult or something. She was groomed and now shes left with a mess.
This is an inappropriate comment to leave for a grieving widow! Keep your nasty opinions and assumptions to yourself before you make an ass of yourself!
He was just talking about how he needs to be around for his young family & 2 weeks later he's gone. Shows you how fragile life really is. I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for you all. 🙏🏽❤️🩹
Now that I hear the husband, she has her distrust of people outside the family from him. She has been kept isolated and not driving is very telling. No family, but no friends?His way of thinking is way off. I bet the 16 yr old in the back seat has his own opinion, but not allowed to say. I feel sorry for this family to have to realize the way he felt about some things was incorrect and may have cost him his life. Sugar/carbs ARE the problem. He was sadly mistaken about that! He admitted not taking his meds as he was told to. Why have so many kids on disability with a wife who doesn’t drive at 70 yrs old. He seemed quite distracted driving and kept passing things up. This is very, very sad😖😖😖
I'm 33 and do not drive. I have so much fear an anxiety around driving. I would hate my panic to kill myself, my kids, or someone else. With all thay being said I have no choice anymore not to drive, so I'm currently practicing in back roads until I'm comfortable with driving in the city. Now days many people are isolated from family and friends. Everyone is so busy and social media gives a false sense of knowing what's going on in someone's life or being in someone's life. Also being young with kids is extremely hard to make friends, being 30 or 40 is even harder to make friends when you aren't working or perhaps attending church and even now days churches can be rather large and not working as a community. Claiming to have this lady's life and history figured out off of a few videos is a bit much. I find it crazy that you would blame her husband for holding her from things and not viewing it from the lins that she doesn't care to drive, and prefers to be a stay at home mom. The rest like not having many friends isn't anyone's fault, it's hard making friends as an adult.
This is just too sad!!!! That man was high as a kite! He forgot to pick up his family. He obviously was able to remember to take some of his meds…pain pills ….way too many ! He should have never been driving his family anywhere….I feel so sorry for those kids! It isn’t just the dad that was nuts, the mother is delusional about her ability to parent. Canada’s version of CPS should already have removed those kids 23:30 from their home situation. I have taught school for over 50 years and this is one of the worst cases of parental disjunction I have ever seen and I have seen some very bad situations!
I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. He just seemed so nice and kind hearted. He made me laugh throughout the video. You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers ❤
No seatbelt, the driving is concerning, hes easily confused... at least the kids are in carseats. watching this after the newsest videos is... interesting. Culty vibes, disstrust of others and medicine and the government. I hope the family is getting help after loosing their dad.
And then to find out he was with her when he was 50 and she was 19 and she can't talk to the outside world she can't drive. He's like a cult leader and he created his own cult by reproducing all those kids.
This whole life is absolutely insane. Those poor adult children!! I have sympathy, but this is messed up, in all ways and ages. Also, $100 on Wendy's on the dole? Seriously.
Anyone else noticed how these children don’t talk and barely make any noise? Have they been raised to not attract attention from anyone? Homeschooled too. Isolated from friends and family. Husband not wanting any outsiders involved in their business. He being 30 years older than her. Sounds so much like one of those cases where man keeps girl locked up for years while she bears children to him and nobody knows any of them are there 🤔.
I don’t want to be rude and assume.. but I agree with you.. The mom has no confidence in making decisions for herself or her children.. and I just know it’s because she was with him ever since she was barely an adult..
@@RunawayDoll0 I’ve gone and watched all the shorts and quite a few full videos and the children barely speak even when they’re engaging with the parents and with each other. They don’t even make silly-kid noises. This coupled with the homeschooling and the father’s *insistance* that NO outside resources should be brought into the house is disturbing to me. There’s a big 🚩 nagging at me. She hasn’t posted for a few days now and I’d have thought she would have, considering she’s gained over 4K subs in 4 days. Maybe child services have already been in and put alternative care arrangements in place for the younger children. Idk but I don’t get any good feelings about their whole situation.
@@Whatexp821. Same here. This channel is new to me today and I have bad vibes about it. So many red flags. Abuse is definitely part of this family’s dynamic. This lady may feel overwhelmed but this may be the beginning of a better life for all of them. Not trying to be mean or even stir up crap, as they are strangers to me, but just the way the older son is tagging along with his old dad and very young siblings, not looking happy at all, makes me feel really bad for him. It’s not normal. Had he been in the car and interacted like a young adult, appropriately and in good humor, I’d be fine with it. That dad ruled the home. I bet the older son also doesn’t drive.
@terri5757 I see an emotional enmeshment coming up where he takes the fathers place...it happens so much. I hope the family services can step in and put some order into this chaos and take the burdens off of them. My mom was disabled when I was a teen and the entire family assumed I'd spend the rest of my life at her bedside enabling her. I left when I was 16 and left the country at 21 and didn't talk to my mom for 10 years. Her mom took my place and it took her passing and nobody being left to care for my mom that she got the help she needed and got better. She had mental illness so it's wasn't a physical issue that kept her in her condition. It was solely psychological. Almost cost me my life and future. I hope he runs...he didn't put all these kids in the world. She sounds very emotionally immature.
@@aqua6613 I agree with everything you said about the Son. I’m glad you were able to get away from your mother. I went through a similar situation from about the time I was 12 to about 16 years old. My Stepdad was in the Military and was away from home a lot. My mom was in a sort of post-partum depression after my baby sister was born when I was 12. When my sister was a week old her crib got moved into my room. It was only supposed to be temporary until my mom felt better. Well apparently things never got better enough for for my sister to leave my room. My mom’s depression seemed to get better but then since she has always been a hypochondriac she always had some medical condition making her feel ill and unable to properly care for my sister as a baby and a toddler. So I was a 12 year old child getting up to feed and change a baby all night long then getting up in the morning to go to school. I’d come home and my mom complained how hard her days was and I had to take on the responsibility of my sister from that time on. I had to care for her totally on weekends and holidays. I had to take her with me anywhere I went. I was made to feel like she was my responsibility. I had 2 brothers who were never given any responsibilities for her. My mom had my dad believing that she was really always sick and when he was home he never would watch my sister himself. They both honestly had me feeling like my sister was my responsibility, like I birthed her. At 16 I got married and left home which ended up being a disaster in itself. I still have major resentment. But like you, I really hope this boy finds the help he needs, and that the mother will realize she’s not going to be able to or shouldn’t try to make her oldest son or any of her children caregivers to her other children or to herself.
RIP 🙏🏻....He seemed like a nice man. Just goes to show how fragile life is. Hes here today and gone tomorrow. Keep your head up and stay strong girl. Sorry for your loss. He was so sweet trying to tip a wendys drive through where nobody ever tips 😢
@goodkarmaiscomingtoyou1381 Thanks, appreciate your comment and right back at you, I hear you on that. Too many people leave either critical or nasty comments when they have the anonymity of being online.
That 16 year old looks severely depressed and somewhat angry he does not like being filmed.Does he have a story to tell, this was not filmed in September the husband has been dead 3 months he died in July so why is she acting as if he's just died.l be.ieve he died shortly after this video.
@@silvialivick3034 that's not how opioids work. They are addictive and when you're not on them you will be sick. So more than likely he is on them. His behaviors definitely say otherwise as well.
the context of this video changes dramatically when one keeps in mind the july 22 date on the cell phone from other video…. plus, that’s when the canadian wildfires were at the peak. this almost seems like some sorta slam on how it was edited i.e. the curb, etc. & if that date is correct, which i don’t see why a cell phone would have wrong date, it just deepens the mystery, considering that this was uploaded when he was already deceased
He's hilarious 😂 but he's wrong about sugar. Sugar is on the wicked list for a reason 😅 I have been looking into the keto diet for a while now, and I'm slowly trying to prepare myself. Sorry for your loss... he was a funny guy.
@@sonyagraske376 no, documentaries are most definitely NOT done by experts lol - they are done by storytellers - heavy on the story - cinematographers , heavy on the cinema- watch a few flat earth docs - math experts all day , how do I know ? I’m a storyteller all my life
How sad for your oldest son being like a second dad. I see this a lot people have all these kids and the older kids are forced to help raise them. I experienced this growing up and resented it!
My grandma is 78 and suffered a really bad back since she was 36.. she could never move and bend like this guy!! Why did he need such strong pain meds.. he’s literally hanging out the window to order… with no pain or problems!
Because there are all different types of back pains. The back is made up of many different locations and more than one kind of problem can happen. Not everyone with severe back pain will have the exact same movement limitations in the same way. From: Someone who has chronic pain and is sick and tired of the judgment and dissecting from other people towards myself and towards most others with chronic pain. P.S. Strong pain meds do help people with pain move better sometimes. Sorry about your grandma ❤️
After seeing this video, I see that the wife is the controlling one. She seems to be mentally a wreck. I am sorry for the loss of the kid"s dad. This video just shows how they make bad choices all around.
This is a very weird train wreck type family. Not sure why, but her video about her husband's death came up on my feed. I'm Canadian, and this is definitely not a typical Canadian family (by a long stretch).
@@debbielockhart7762just popped up here too, I’m from Scotland, I have to say I’m traumatised seeing the way this family live..I don’t know what was wrong with the man but was clear to see he was out his brains on drugs..poor kids living in that..I know families with very large families who live in clean homes..
@debbielockhart7762 I'm Canadian, from Ontario. I agree with u 💯 %. She seems to refuse professional help. There are many services she could be utilizing. Many ppl have made many suggestions.
Why would any family such as this one continue to have kids knowing that they will grow up without their dad? It’s so unfair to the kids. My prayers are with this family and especially the older sons who will be expected to be a father to their siblings. How sad!
@@krispingallo2456... I don't think you prayed a day in your life let alone for others 😮 people that are Godly are humane compassionate beings. Pray for your own rotten soul 👿
That was a pretty good deal that you got 50 something dollars for a family of 10 at Wendy’s is amazing and using coupons is very smart! My condolences on your husband passing away and I know this is a very hard time for you as I just saw a video yesterday about the passing suddenly of your husband! But he did have it right these documentaries are a bunch of BS. It literally means moderation For pretty much most things sugar isn’t good for you but sugar is an overly bad for you if it’s in moderation and in small amounts and he’s right, they do put out documentaries like this, and everybody always has a conflicting opinions on vegan versus vegetarian versus main stream diet, versus extreme diet versus whatever Eating plan someone’s on there’s always a person coming out with positives there’s always a person coming out with negatives it has been has it right most people are in the game of back-and-forth with different food groups, and things of that nature to try to score in on bigger cash ends with you. They’re teaming up with.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl well, it’s always a possibility that’s for sure a lot of family bloggers are trying to make shit tons of money using RUclips to get adsense revenue and I could be the case and maybe just maybe her husband did pass away and maybe she is trying to make this money to support her children, since she doesn’t work as she claims. I’m not here to judge anybody by any means at all, we all have our weaknesses and faults. I do, however think that between our house and her children, she can do much better and maybe she just needs some additional support to do so! She did Mary at a young age a much much older man and I don’t condone that but at the same time I’m not against it either. It just really depends on the situation I don’t have much room to talk. My husband is 25 and he’ll be 26 and December 2 weeks after he turns 26 I will be turning 47 but my husband and I have only been together almost 6 years, so sometimes situations turn out where one spouse is older than the other and there is that looming understanding that someone may pass away before the others spouse does, but it is what it is. I’m just hoping that she can come to the reality to tell people that actually her husband died back in July I think of this year and just be truthful. That’s what I left her comment telling her that she needs to be truthful on it and she’s going to consider herself to be a family Vlogger she needs to do so in a right manner, and she just needs to be honest about things that’s all everybody’s always gonna have an opinion there’s always gonna be haters on everybody’s RUclips channel. We all go through it as RUclipsrs, but at the same time this woman may be completely struggling she may be not very well educated and maybe we don’t know what’s going on in her past history on how she was raised, but there’s always a chance to better yourself into the lives of your children and cleaning a house doesn’t take that much. I told her she could use either bleach water or she can put vinegar and water in a spray bottle along with some medicine, uncial oils or something that she can do to clean her house between that paper towels and microfiber cloths, or rags and cleaning supplies she could definitely get her house cleaned and no time flat not a problem I raised five children and had three diapers at the same time so I know that households can get chaotic but once you’re on the schedule in a routine it flows fairly easy.
@@ChallengeYourWalletAarynLynn I totally agree with everything you said. We raised 5 kids also. We had 2 biological and a sibl8ng group or 3 we adopted, they are all college grads and grown adults now. Congratulations on 6 years with your husband, you love each other the age doesn't matter. We have been married 34 years, my second marriage. My first husband was murdered 3 years into our marriage,during a home invasion. My 2nd husband was the prosecutor on my family's case. The years fly by so fast.
I don’t know about you all but I think its perfectly acceptable that someone who lost their husband in July(if that is when he passed) wouldn’t be able to post until a month or so later . Imagine the grief and all the things she was having to deal with in the weeks following his passing . Everyone should stop picking a part every detail in “hopes” to find something malicious . No matter what this is a sad situation and people should be kind to each other .
she is scared about getting into trouble when the autopsy report comes back, which, if he died in July would have come back within a few days, unless there was something suspicious and further investigations were required, that would take months. Yes, it is relevant.
I agree ! There’s no time limit on grief. Grief steals your life from you. I’ve lost many members of my family recently including my adult daughter and I can barely breath even after a year of her passing . I’m sure this lady is trying to get by and posting her videos of family outings helps her. Also she needs the income to support her family. If her children are loved and fed , leave her alone .
What a lovely Father I heard about his death before meeting him. Real Daddy and so loving. The chilren are so good too..Hugs to all of you! Especially you Mum❤
This was so chaotic and not smart spending at all not even once in awhile if you weren’t even sure if it would go through on the the card imo and the oldest boy clearly isn’t happy being filmed and/or in general. Take a break off RUclips and focus on your kids and your own mental health in this difficult time 🙏🏽💐
@@jenna7691 totally understand that, but the consequences result in little beings through no fault of their own, entering into this relm. They certainly need help. It is a complex situation all round.
I totally agree with you. I don’t like paper straws either. They drive me nuts. Your kids are so wonderful & the younger ones are cute as a button. Enjoy seeing kids in good brand car seats & good brand of car too! Enjoy your Wendy’s! My dad is gluten free & have celiac as well. I eat mostly GF myself and feel good as well. I have a sensitivity to wheat.
I just found you on you tube. I subscribed and watching all your videos. I just want to tell you the only way I can support you. I would love to donate money to you but I face a lot of problems of my own. So I figured the best way to support you is by subscribing and watch all your videos!!! I realize the pain with the costs of fast food. I’m a gma raising 2 grandchildren and take care of my daughter with severe schizophrenia. My grand babies love McDonald’s so I take them when I can.
It means a lot to me to have your support and I appreciate it. Thank you for sharing you experience it is so nice when people understand instead of just criticize. Wish you and your family the best.
Where does dad work? Where in Canada do you live. I’m in Canada Ontario. Sugar is in fruit but you get more out of fruit it’s natural sugar but it’s still sugar.
He obviously is on medication 24/7 and should not be driving yall Honey Why is this on RUclips except for igits like me to sit and binge and cringe and feel good about my life- you don’t tip at Wendy’s ffs- wow - honey - camera down and focus on getting your life’s plan going- new law in Canada concerning social media - best just stop posting huh
@@chrystalteal4171it doesn't take an education, but common sense to see the man shouldn't be driving. He missed the pick-up window entirely, then backed up on the curb. Then tried to drive off for a 2nd time before they got all the food. He shouldn't have been driving in that moment. It even has warnings on medication here in the US . Use with cation when driving or operating heavy machinery. If we need education. You need common sense. He shouldn't lose his license, but know when to sober up when driving his whole family around.
I would love to chat with you and send you some stuff for kids I too had a family that I quit talking with because they could not accept my husband and he was my choice. We have been married 27 years and together 31 I feel the no friends and family we could talk
So let me get this. Y’all live on disability, live in cheap shit housing, but yet can spend $100 on fast food and 10+k on a van. Okay. This family is very fishy to me 😂
🙏🔥💗👣🕊️ Hes correct about the sugar subject as well. Sugar for all is not a toxic killer. Prayers are w you. Please seek council and call on your older children to help out a little at home. You have little ones that need YOU.
@@kittyfarkas then to you obviously it needs to be monitored. I have multiple autoimmune disease s and I can only hold weight by eating high sugar. I wasn't saying it's safe for everyone. Each person has to monitor and understand their personal needs. ❤️ Blessings love and light
Families can have as many children as they want. It isn't your business. Families aren't having enough children these days and it is catastrophic for our world!
@@chrystalteal4171I agree with you that families can have as many children as they want (or don’t avoid to have), and that it’s no one’s business. But catastrophic for the world?? Oh my. The world is overpopulated as is. I have no idea why you would say or think such a thing. The Earth will be MUCH better off when we’re all gone. Jeesh.
@@tanyat4779 This woman needs to be told what horror she and her husband brought to their kids! That's why. She is totally ignorant of the fact she denied and still denies a loving and caring surrounding for them. That's why she doesn't have friends and she doesn't want the kids to have contacts outside the house. They sit infront of the TV, they are awake at night and they don't leave the house, only for the few videos they are taken outside. Look at him! That's not only me who sees that he is totally neglected, depressed and not able to live a life. And if you look closely you see substance abuse, alcohol or whatever. That's the future of the kids. They will not be able to build their own life. Now, for the recent videos, she sits infront of a curtain, not showing her house. Ohh, did she really understand what's wrong with her family? Some of the kids will be severely damaged if they stay in that environment.
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THE PART LATER ON IN THE VIDEO Where he is generally talking about "healthy eating" he is NOT calling ME personally a "DUMMY", he is speaking figuratively. I know because I was the one to talk figuratively like that first and then he picked up the habit from me.
He was 50 she was 19. Had 8 kids. And was isolated from family and friends and cant drive. Reminds me of like a house or horrors or like in a cult or something. She was groomed and now shes left with a mess.
This is an inappropriate comment to leave for a grieving widow! Keep your nasty opinions and assumptions to yourself before you make an ass of yourself!
Don't worry, she dealt with him
He was just talking about how he needs to be around for his young family & 2 weeks later he's gone. Shows you how fragile life really is. I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for you all. 🙏🏽❤️🩹
Its shocking that she left him laying on kitcheb floor and filming him now hes dead and she hiring an attorney .
@@kimsorber9675 Yes… its alarming to me
surely there is no a video of that ?@@kimsorber9675
he died in july if it was her fault she be in jail sheesh
@@mssskyWrong, you can be arrested many months later.
Now that I hear the husband, she has her distrust of people outside the family from him. She has been kept isolated and not driving is very telling. No family, but no friends?His way of thinking is way off. I bet the 16 yr old in the back seat has his own opinion, but not allowed to say.
I feel sorry for this family to have to realize the way he felt about some things was incorrect and may have cost him his life. Sugar/carbs ARE the problem. He was sadly mistaken about that! He admitted not taking his meds as he was told to. Why have so many kids on disability with a wife who doesn’t drive at 70 yrs old. He seemed quite distracted driving and kept passing things up. This is very, very sad😖😖😖
I agree! Very irresponsible of him. This is beyond sad!
I'm 33 and do not drive. I have so much fear an anxiety around driving. I would hate my panic to kill myself, my kids, or someone else. With all thay being said I have no choice anymore not to drive, so I'm currently practicing in back roads until I'm comfortable with driving in the city. Now days many people are isolated from family and friends. Everyone is so busy and social media gives a false sense of knowing what's going on in someone's life or being in someone's life. Also being young with kids is extremely hard to make friends, being 30 or 40 is even harder to make friends when you aren't working or perhaps attending church and even now days churches can be rather large and not working as a community. Claiming to have this lady's life and history figured out off of a few videos is a bit much. I find it crazy that you would blame her husband for holding her from things and not viewing it from the lins that she doesn't care to drive, and prefers to be a stay at home mom. The rest like not having many friends isn't anyone's fault, it's hard making friends as an adult.
She's 39 not 70.he was 70
This is just too sad!!!! That man was high as a kite! He forgot to pick up his family. He obviously was able to remember to take some of his meds…pain pills ….way too many ! He should have never been driving his family anywhere….I feel so sorry for those kids! It isn’t just the dad that was nuts, the mother is delusional about her ability to parent. Canada’s version of CPS should already have removed those kids 23:30 from their home situation. I have taught school for over 50 years and this is one of the worst cases of parental disjunction I have ever seen and I have seen some very bad situations!
She has definitely been groomed from a young age.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. He just seemed so nice and kind hearted. He made me laugh throughout the video. You and your children are in my thoughts and prayers ❤
Record for your self asking your kids what they love most about their Dad so they can remember.
No seatbelt, the driving is concerning, hes easily confused... at least the kids are in carseats. watching this after the newsest videos is... interesting. Culty vibes, disstrust of others and medicine and the government. I hope the family is getting help after loosing their dad.
He's always fd up on pain pills she said so on other video
And then to find out he was with her when he was 50 and she was 19 and she can't talk to the outside world she can't drive. He's like a cult leader and he created his own cult by reproducing all those kids.
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Don't trust the government, but love it's money.
@@cherylwilliams8816he doesn't trust medical doctors but takes copies amounts of narcotics
This whole life is absolutely insane. Those poor adult children!! I have sympathy, but this is messed up, in all ways and ages. Also, $100 on Wendy's on the dole? Seriously.
What is dole?
@@jaimelmahon1551 It's aussie slang for being on government handouts.
@@chickenlover657 it is also british slang, it came from the UK originally
@@rebeccaaaaaaaac Oh ok, I didn't know that.
They’re not on the DOLE. No one ever said they were.
Anyone else noticed how these children don’t talk and barely make any noise? Have they been raised to not attract attention from anyone? Homeschooled too. Isolated from friends and family. Husband not wanting any outsiders involved in their business. He being 30 years older than her. Sounds so much like one of those cases where man keeps girl locked up for years while she bears children to him and nobody knows any of them are there 🤔.
You sound absolutely ridiculous… wtf
I don’t want to be rude and assume.. but I agree with you.. The mom has no confidence in making decisions for herself or her children.. and I just know it’s because she was with him ever since she was barely an adult..
@@RunawayDoll0 I’ve gone and watched all the shorts and quite a few full videos and the children barely speak even when they’re engaging with the parents and with each other. They don’t even make silly-kid noises. This coupled with the homeschooling and the father’s *insistance* that NO outside resources should be brought into the house is disturbing to me. There’s a big 🚩 nagging at me. She hasn’t posted for a few days now and I’d have thought she would have, considering she’s gained over 4K subs in 4 days. Maybe child services have already been in and put alternative care arrangements in place for the younger children. Idk but I don’t get any good feelings about their whole situation.
@@Whatexp821. Same here. This channel is new to me today and I have bad vibes about it. So many red flags. Abuse is definitely part of this family’s dynamic. This lady may feel overwhelmed but this may be the beginning of a better life for all of them. Not trying to be mean or even stir up crap, as they are strangers to me, but just the way the older son is tagging along with his old dad and very young siblings, not looking happy at all, makes me feel really bad for him. It’s not normal. Had he been in the car and interacted like a young adult, appropriately and in good humor, I’d be fine with it. That dad ruled the home. I bet the older son also doesn’t drive.
Yes agree 100%
The oldest son needs to be beginning his own life!
For sure. I feel really bad for him. You can see he doesn’t appreciate being on YT. He needs his independence.
@terri5757 I see an emotional enmeshment coming up where he takes the fathers place...it happens so much. I hope the family services can step in and put some order into this chaos and take the burdens off of them.
My mom was disabled when I was a teen and the entire family assumed I'd spend the rest of my life at her bedside enabling her.
I left when I was 16 and left the country at 21 and didn't talk to my mom for 10 years.
Her mom took my place and it took her passing and nobody being left to care for my mom that she got the help she needed and got better. She had mental illness so it's wasn't a physical issue that kept her in her condition. It was solely psychological.
Almost cost me my life and future.
I hope he runs...he didn't put all these kids in the world.
She sounds very emotionally immature.
@@aqua6613 I agree with everything you said about the Son. I’m glad you were able to get away from your mother. I went through a similar situation from about the time I was 12 to about 16 years old. My Stepdad was in the Military and was away from home a lot. My mom was in a sort of post-partum depression after my baby sister was born when I was 12. When my sister was a week old her crib got moved into my room. It was only supposed to be temporary until my mom felt better. Well apparently things never got better enough for for my sister to leave my room. My mom’s depression seemed to get better but then since she has always been a hypochondriac she always had some medical condition making her feel ill and unable to properly care for my sister as a baby and a toddler. So I was a 12 year old child getting up to feed and change a baby all night long then getting up in the morning to go to school. I’d come home and my mom complained how hard her days was and I had to take on the responsibility of my sister from that time on. I had to care for her totally on weekends and holidays. I had to take her with me anywhere I went. I was made to feel like she was my responsibility. I had 2 brothers who were never given any responsibilities for her. My mom had my dad believing that she was really always sick and when he was home he never would watch my sister himself. They both honestly had me feeling like my sister was my responsibility, like I birthed her. At 16 I got married and left home which ended up being a disaster in itself. I still have major resentment.
But like you, I really hope this boy finds the help he needs, and that the mother will realize she’s not going to be able to or shouldn’t try to make her oldest son or any of her children caregivers to her other children or to herself.
The oldest boy looks like he could use therapy. He is so depressed looking.
He should join the military to get away
What a sweet and fun man. My husband would be losing his shit trying to figure that all out. So sorry for your loss.
RIP 🙏🏻....He seemed like a nice man. Just goes to show how fragile life is. Hes here today and gone tomorrow. Keep your head up and stay strong girl. Sorry for your loss. He was so sweet trying to tip a wendys drive through where nobody ever tips 😢
Do sorry he’s passed 😢
It's so refreshing when this woman once in awhile gets a nice comment that uplifts her and helps renew her energy 😊
@goodkarmaiscomingtoyou1381 Thanks, appreciate your comment and right back at you, I hear you on that. Too many people leave either critical or nasty comments when they have the anonymity of being online.
Hé was a very caring man with a very good soul ❤
😂😂😂😂
@@jenna7691 ?
@@jenna7691 I wonder if certain people are just born naive? Your emoji’s are spot on. 😁
@@terri5757people just say anything lol
He had her under his control…. Super sweet… 🙄
That 16 year old looks severely depressed and somewhat angry he does not like being filmed.Does he have a story to tell, this was not filmed in September the husband has been dead 3 months he died in July so why is she acting as if he's just died.l be.ieve he died shortly after this video.
@@Beverly502 What a stupid remark very crass
Yes I feel bad for the teenager. He looks so upset.
Why not just grill up 10 burgers on the grill? Use paper plates eat outside throw the trash in the outside trash and drink water at home
🫵 BECAUSE HOW OTHERS LIVE THEIR LIVES IS NONE NONE NONE OF YOUR FOEKING BUSINESS YOU TROLL 🧌
Should he have even been driving on the strong meds as you describe them?
I really doubt he was on his meds here
@@silvialivick3034 that's not how opioids work. They are addictive and when you're not on them you will be sick. So more than likely he is on them. His behaviors definitely say otherwise as well.
Rest in peace ❤🙏 seems like a real nice guy
the context of this video changes dramatically when one keeps in mind the july 22 date on the cell phone from other video….
plus, that’s when the canadian wildfires were at the peak.
this almost seems like some sorta slam on how it was edited i.e. the curb, etc. & if that date is correct, which i don’t see why a cell phone would have wrong date, it just deepens the mystery, considering that this was uploaded when he was already deceased
So sorry for the loss of your husband.
He's hilarious 😂 but he's wrong about sugar. Sugar is on the wicked list for a reason 😅 I have been looking into the keto diet for a while now, and I'm slowly trying to prepare myself. Sorry for your loss... he was a funny guy.
There's always a narrative being pushed one way or the other. 🤔🤔🤔
@@sonyagraske376 no, documentaries are most definitely NOT done by experts lol - they are done by storytellers - heavy on the story - cinematographers , heavy on the cinema- watch a few flat earth docs - math experts all day , how do I know ? I’m a storyteller all my life
@@sonyagraske376 Seriously? You don't know what the keto diet is? Do you live under a rock? lol
How sad for your oldest son being like a second dad. I see this a lot people have all these kids and the older kids are forced to help raise them. I experienced this growing up and resented it!
My grandma is 78 and suffered a really bad back since she was 36.. she could never move and bend like this guy!! Why did he need such strong pain meds.. he’s literally hanging out the window to order… with no pain or problems!
Because there are all different types of back pains. The back is made up of many different locations and more than one kind of problem can happen. Not everyone with severe back pain will have the exact same movement limitations in the same way.
From: Someone who has chronic pain and is sick and tired of the judgment and dissecting from other people towards myself and towards most others with chronic pain.
P.S. Strong pain meds do help people with pain move better sometimes.
Sorry about your grandma ❤️
Lol, my family hates paper straws with a passion. When your cup ist still half full, they've long dissolved.
So so sorry for you loss. Praying for you 🙏🙏🙏
After seeing this video, I see that the wife is the controlling one. She seems to be mentally a wreck. I am sorry for the loss of the kid"s dad. This video just shows how they make bad choices all around.
This is a very weird train wreck type family. Not sure why, but her video about her husband's death came up on my feed. I'm Canadian, and this is definitely not a typical Canadian family (by a long stretch).
You are both so hateful. Just have to throw a cup of venom in her face.
@@debbielockhart7762just popped up here too, I’m from Scotland, I have to say I’m traumatised seeing the way this family live..I don’t know what was wrong with the man but was clear to see he was out his brains on drugs..poor kids living in that..I know families with very large families who live in clean homes..
@@debbielockhart7762
You’re rude af . She just lost her husband… no compassion?
@debbielockhart7762 I'm Canadian, from Ontario. I agree with u 💯 %.
She seems to refuse professional help. There are many services she could be utilizing. Many ppl have made many suggestions.
Sorry for your loss.
Why did you have so many children if you dont have the means to provide them a decent life? 🤔
Why would any family such as this one continue to have kids knowing that they will grow up without their dad? It’s so unfair to the kids. My prayers are with this family and especially the older sons who will be expected to be a father to their siblings. How sad!
@@krispingallo2456... I don't think you prayed a day in your life let alone for others 😮 people that are Godly are humane compassionate beings. Pray for your own rotten soul 👿
Conspiracy theorist… yikes
That was a pretty good deal that you got 50 something dollars for a family of 10 at Wendy’s is amazing and using coupons is very smart! My condolences on your husband passing away and I know this is a very hard time for you as I just saw a video yesterday about the passing suddenly of your husband! But he did have it right these documentaries are a bunch of BS. It literally means moderation For pretty much most things sugar isn’t good for you but sugar is an overly bad for you if it’s in moderation and in small amounts and he’s right, they do put out documentaries like this, and everybody always has a conflicting opinions on vegan versus vegetarian versus main stream diet, versus extreme diet versus whatever Eating plan someone’s on there’s always a person coming out with positives there’s always a person coming out with negatives it has been has it right most people are in the game of back-and-forth with different food groups, and things of that nature to try to score in on bigger cash ends with you. They’re teaming up with.
He died in July, not recently.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl yeah I just found that out. I’m not sure why she posted the video now but maybe she need a time to grieve I’m not sure.
@@ChallengeYourWalletAarynLynn Something is up with her I think.
@@Ausgar-yc1yl well, it’s always a possibility that’s for sure a lot of family bloggers are trying to make shit tons of money using RUclips to get adsense revenue and I could be the case and maybe just maybe her husband did pass away and maybe she is trying to make this money to support her children, since she doesn’t work as she claims. I’m not here to judge anybody by any means at all, we all have our weaknesses and faults. I do, however think that between our house and her children, she can do much better and maybe she just needs some additional support to do so! She did Mary at a young age a much much older man and I don’t condone that but at the same time I’m not against it either. It just really depends on the situation I don’t have much room to talk. My husband is 25 and he’ll be 26 and December 2 weeks after he turns 26 I will be turning 47 but my husband and I have only been together almost 6 years, so sometimes situations turn out where one spouse is older than the other and there is that looming understanding that someone may pass away before the others spouse does, but it is what it is. I’m just hoping that she can come to the reality to tell people that actually her husband died back in July I think of this year and just be truthful. That’s what I left her comment telling her that she needs to be truthful on it and she’s going to consider herself to be a family Vlogger she needs to do so in a right manner, and she just needs to be honest about things that’s all everybody’s always gonna have an opinion there’s always gonna be haters on everybody’s RUclips channel. We all go through it as RUclipsrs, but at the same time this woman may be completely struggling she may be not very well educated and maybe we don’t know what’s going on in her past history on how she was raised, but there’s always a chance to better yourself into the lives of your children and cleaning a house doesn’t take that much. I told her she could use either bleach water or she can put vinegar and water in a spray bottle along with some medicine, uncial oils or something that she can do to clean her house between that paper towels and microfiber cloths, or rags and cleaning supplies she could definitely get her house cleaned and no time flat not a problem I raised five children and had three diapers at the same time so I know that households can get chaotic but once you’re on the schedule in a routine it flows fairly easy.
@@ChallengeYourWalletAarynLynn I totally agree with everything you said. We raised 5 kids also. We had 2 biological and a sibl8ng group or 3 we adopted, they are all college grads and grown adults now. Congratulations on 6 years with your husband, you love each other the age doesn't matter. We have been married 34 years, my second marriage. My first husband was murdered 3 years into our marriage,during a home invasion. My 2nd husband was the prosecutor on my family's case. The years fly by so fast.
I don’t know about you all but I think its perfectly acceptable that someone who lost their husband in July(if that is when he passed) wouldn’t be able to post until a month or so later . Imagine the grief and all the things she was having to deal with in the weeks following his passing . Everyone should stop picking a part every detail in “hopes” to find something malicious . No matter what this is a sad situation and people should be kind to each other .
she is scared about getting into trouble when the autopsy report comes back, which, if he died in July would have come back within a few days, unless there was something suspicious and further investigations were required, that would take months. Yes, it is relevant.
I agree ! There’s no time limit on grief. Grief steals your life from you. I’ve lost many members of my family recently including my adult daughter and I can barely breath even after a year of her passing . I’m sure this lady is trying to get by and posting her videos of family outings helps her. Also she needs the income to support her family. If her children are loved and fed , leave her alone .
Bless him he's right to much of everything is bad RIP sir …🙏You had a great man and a great dad Hugs and best wishers from us in England
A great man? He was a lazy abusive drug addict.
What a lovely Father I heard about his death before meeting him. Real Daddy and so loving. The chilren are so good too..Hugs to all of you! Especially you Mum❤
I'm so sorry for your loss
This was so chaotic and not smart spending at all not even once in awhile if you weren’t even sure if it would go through on the the card imo and the oldest boy clearly isn’t happy being filmed and/or in general. Take a break off RUclips and focus on your kids and your own mental health in this difficult time 🙏🏽💐
👀 The older one is just there NOT saying anything ..YOUNG MAN MOVE UR MOUTH SAY SOMETHING 👀... The family is SO weird and awkward
So sad your toy ran out of battery now you're even more frustrated 😂😂😂😂😂
@@goodkarmaiscomingtoyou1381 I think Mom of 8 WILL BE USING YOUR MOM'S TOY 👍🏼‼️.GOOD LOOKING OUT
Such a sweet guy ong I’m so sorry for your loss
good thing Canadian taxpayers picked up the tab for that $100 fast food meal
Good children need to eat!
@@paulabrown6840all children..
@@paulabrown6840crap food???
Exactly. I worked for FACS…these people pop out kids while living in abject poverty then ask for handouts…made my blood boil.
@@jenna7691 totally understand that, but the consequences result in little beings through no fault of their own, entering into this relm. They certainly need help. It is a complex situation all round.
Ive been a Celiac for 11 yrs. Now i cant have sugar ,low sodium ,and liw iron foods.Its a challenge.
Are all the children theirs together?
Yes😊
I’m so very sorry sweetheart
I'm so sorry. You have a beautiful family ❤❤❤❤❤
I totally agree with you. I don’t like paper straws either.
They drive me nuts.
Your kids are so wonderful & the younger ones are cute as a button.
Enjoy seeing kids in good brand car seats & good brand of car too!
Enjoy your Wendy’s!
My dad is gluten free & have celiac as well.
I eat mostly GF myself and feel good as well. I have a sensitivity to wheat.
I just found you on you tube. I subscribed and watching all your videos. I just want to tell you the only way I can support you. I would love to donate money to you but I face a lot of problems of my own. So I figured the best way to support you is by subscribing and watch all your videos!!!
I realize the pain with the costs of fast food. I’m a gma raising 2 grandchildren and take care of my daughter with severe schizophrenia. My grand babies love McDonald’s so I take them when I can.
It means a lot to me to have your support and I appreciate it. Thank you for sharing you experience it is so nice when people understand instead of just criticize. Wish you and your family the best.
❤❤❤❤
Where does dad work? Where in Canada do you live. I’m in Canada Ontario. Sugar is in fruit but you get more out of fruit it’s natural sugar but it’s still sugar.
I can’t believe you let him drive your children around. He is obviously fkd up.
Smart guy!
Very nice man ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yeah for a junkie
Your son looks traumatized 😢
That part
He obviously is on medication 24/7 and should not be driving yall
Honey
Why is this on RUclips except for igits like me to sit and binge and cringe and feel good about my life- you don’t tip at Wendy’s ffs- wow - honey - camera down and focus on getting your life’s plan going- new law in Canada concerning social media - best just stop posting huh
Wow, you are very uneducated. Being on medications 24/7 does not mean you are unable to drive or disqualified from driving or obtaining your license.
@@chrystalteal4171He was a junkie who over meditated.
@@chrystalteal4171It most certainly does if you take what he took.
@@chrystalteal4171it doesn't take an education, but common sense to see the man shouldn't be driving. He missed the pick-up window entirely, then backed up on the curb. Then tried to drive off for a 2nd time before they got all the food. He shouldn't have been driving in that moment. It even has warnings on medication here in the US . Use with cation when driving or operating heavy machinery. If we need education. You need common sense. He shouldn't lose his license, but know when to sober up when driving his whole family around.
@@Ausgar-yc1ylI feel certain he passed from an overdose.
Master Sage?? HUH
I love coupons. I am from Windsor , but live in Alberta.
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽❤️🎃🎃🎃
I would love to chat with you and send you some stuff for kids I too had a family that I quit talking with because they could not accept my husband and he was my choice. We have been married 27 years and together 31 I feel the no friends and family we could talk
That’s why she’s putting this on YT. Ka-ching. Like living off the government wasn’t enough….and ZERO FAMILY PLANNING. 🤮
I hope she reaches out to you she desperately needs somebody to talk to.
No not crazy, just careless. Easy to fix a much healthier lunch.
So let me get this. Y’all live on disability, live in cheap shit housing, but yet can spend $100 on fast food and 10+k on a van. Okay. This family is very fishy to me 😂
You tube pays her lol
What is this documentary he is constantly talking about?!?! On and on about this documentary… 🤔
Mom should had went inside and done the order that’s crazy to talk across someone like that.
Or drove the car
The air quality in your house is far worse than the air quality outside.
🙏🔥💗👣🕊️ Hes correct about the sugar subject as well. Sugar for all is not a toxic killer. Prayers are w you. Please seek council and call on your older children to help out a little at home. You have little ones that need YOU.
Really?tell that to my Dr. I'm diabetic.
@@kittyfarkas then to you obviously it needs to be monitored. I have multiple autoimmune disease s and I can only hold weight by eating high sugar. I wasn't saying it's safe for everyone. Each person has to monitor and understand their personal needs. ❤️ Blessings love and light
OMG that poor guy... she didn't stop nagging him from start to finish !
10/14/23 Congratulations on
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This vid, 27,000K views .
You live in public housing and you can afford $100 for fast food?
Shameful
That hundred dollars was feeding ten people. Everybody can have a treat now and again, no matter what their circumstances are.
@@melaniewalker5226ruclips.net/video/l1R73tEn6tA/видео.htmlsi=aZBzJ-m3-8TkH--3
You're right, poor people should NEVER treat themselves, they don't deserve it, disgusting pigs.
@@Walkingdead06
ruclips.net/video/l1R73tEn6tA/видео.htmlsi=xZyzZUBjBOsyGVEn
You seem jealous 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Fast foods taste horrible cold and they are just stuffing around looking for receipts
Your oldest son seems so unhappy. He should be encouraged to be out of the house on his own. I am sure he feels stifled being in the house.
Man 70 yr old with a 1 yr old whats in that wendys ? Send it to america
Driver and father not wearing a seatbelt?
Where do you guys live
Somewhere Canada 🇨🇦
Who cares. She’ll be in jail. She looks and sounds creepy. Betcha she’ll be in the news soon though
They live in Ontario Canada.
Plastic straws are very bad for the environment , paper straws are fine
Paper straws are NOT fine do your research and stop listening to the masses 😮
Master Sage?
He is trying to say he is a wise person
Ummmmm… the cycle continues. Please get COUNSELING!!!!
🙏👍
Oblivious to reality…..so sad
You live in hud housing and blow a $100 at Wendy’s?
She's buying FOOD, not alcohol or cigarettes. I think they deserve Wendy's now and then.
Getting the jabs????
no one should be able to have 8 biological children.
@@Beverly502nah taxpayers just have to support them!
EXACTLY. And on top of that living off the government! Disgusting.
Families can have as many children as they want. It isn't your business. Families aren't having enough children these days and it is catastrophic for our world!
@@chrystalteal4171I agree with you that families can have as many children as they want (or don’t avoid to have), and that it’s no one’s business. But catastrophic for the world?? Oh my. The world is overpopulated as is. I have no idea why you would say or think such a thing. The Earth will be MUCH better off when we’re all gone. Jeesh.
@@GB-zg4yuhow do you know it's over populated? Who told you? Easier to control less people
He said I got a young wife
And?????
The oldest son seems to be an alcoholic, too. He looks like he can't read or write.
Picking on her son now?? You are sick!!! I hope you get help to deal with your issues.
@@tanyat4779 This woman needs to be told what horror she and her husband brought to their kids! That's why. She is totally ignorant of the fact she denied and still denies a loving and caring surrounding for them. That's why she doesn't have friends and she doesn't want the kids to have contacts outside the house. They sit infront of the TV, they are awake at night and they don't leave the house, only for the few videos they are taken outside. Look at him! That's not only me who sees that he is totally neglected, depressed and not able to live a life. And if you look closely you see substance abuse, alcohol or whatever. That's the future of the kids. They will not be able to build their own life. Now, for the recent videos, she sits infront of a curtain, not showing her house. Ohh, did she really understand what's wrong with her family? Some of the kids will be severely damaged if they stay in that environment.