Weekend With My Mum in Milan, Lets Discuss Quiet Luxury | Tamara Kalinic
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- In This Video: Spending a beautiful, relaxing weekend with mum in Milan and talking to you about quiet luxury. I would love to hear your comments on the topic below.
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Wear what you like , wear what you’ve earned. Live your best life. I’ve worked hard to afford all of the luxe I’ve bought and it’s for me and no one else. Most people in my experience that give me a hard time about my luxury items can’t afford any of them. It’s also reverse elitism. … “I can’t have it so you shouldn’t either”. Enjoy the best version of yourself. Be kind and mind your own business (and wardrobe)! 😊
This reverse elitism really sparked my thought. I used to be bullied in high school by girl that would say nasty things to me just because i had nice clothes, isnt that crazy?
@@TamaraKalinic same. I am in high school now. I am bullied for being skinny too
@@bojidaraivanova908 Be yourself... I remember growing up almost 6 feet tall in the 80s. I felt so out of place because I allowed others to make me feel that way about myself until I started looking at myself in the morrir and appreciating the woman I am today. I love that God made me tall... you're beautiful!😊
Well said.. . Bravo ❤
@@bojidaraivanova908 being skinny at school will give u the best body when you grow up trust me. Your body is not formed yet and unfortunately is not feminine, but it will be soon. Remember me:)
I agree. Quiet luxury is as much a style and trend as loud luxury. The old money/new money is where is starts to get people pushing more judgement. Some days I’m loud, some days quiet. But I am always me. Thank you for all your wonderful content.
I like this. Always be authentic!
I have been thinking about this, in the context of not wanting to make anyone feel uncomfortable if i wear a luxury item. Especially now when we are going through recession. It feels wrong to "brag". Its natural. I am also feeling increasingly more guilty about spending money on trivial luxury items when I could have spent this amount on charity and to help people and animals.
Hello Tamara- I do not comment often but felt this video at heart. We are moving toward a world of divisiveness scary thought but evident . Thank you for being someone who sees that there is more to people than just the wrapping and expressing morals and values that seem lacking in many now.
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"It's fashion, it's fun"- definitely my view on that so called "quiet luxury"! Thank you for your opinion ❤
Sometimes people forgot that having style is not just having some clothing style. Class always mean you are s good person, kind, elegant when you speak, listen, see a human as human amd not as a hanger for clothes. I really like how you approach this theme of quiet luxury . Nothing is black and white and if you really discover that no logo/simple items and good materials are something you have always wanted and wished it is just your fashion style and it is good. But if you are promoting a way of life you are not even living that is just ridiculous and especially if you judge others because of their fashion style. So not classy. Even if you wear all those quiet luxury things, they are just THINGS.
Love this❤️ i say its all about how people carry themselves, with kindness, class and maners
Enjoy your life Tamara!!!. There are not rules in life. Be what you want to be. No regrets. Be happy!!!❤😊
Think at end end of the day, I agree, everyone should live their life as they want and wear what they like and feel good. I just bought my first designer bag, a beautiful Loewe puzzle bag and love it because it fits my lifestyle and not because some people consider it quiet luxury. Hate if need to justify myself for what I like to spend my money and a lot of people make it their business if we talk about luxury.
Love your style and your videos here. ❤
At the end of the day both the quiet/loud luxury are spending hundreds to thousands of dollars on ready to wear or bags. Both require money. There's a certain judgement that I don't like from the quiet luxury crowd. Don't wear logos or do, it's still an aesthetic.
It's all about styling and personality to me. I can't imagine Cassie Thorpe wearing the Row. I say this as someone who loves her style. Also I can't imagine you dressing like her. Both of you have curated a personal style that's very different. Fashion is pretty personal.
Thank you for this Tamara! It's frustrating how everything needs to be labeled these days, and it seems like "quiet" luxury is just another buzzword/trending topic. If it's emphasized about so much, can it really be considered quiet? Big No. Just wear what's pleasing to you and mind your own business. At the end of the day, fashion is about personal preference and style, so let's enjoy it without worrying about labels. After all, "quiet" luxury has always been a part of fashion, and there's nothing new about that. P.S. I'm a huge fan and love your videos! ❤
Just finish this vlog in it's entirely. Quiet luxury for me is building a quality wardrobe around aesthetic pieces that reflect my personal style. I agree with your view on the subject. I think if we keep that in mind we'll all be fine. Enjoy making unforgettable memories with your mom and family. Always continue doing and being you. I enjoy watching. ❤
Have not liked a video of yours more than this one Tamara!! Bravo, thank you for not endorsing this toxic trend these days❤❤
Loved your take on ‘quiet luxury’. Very interesting. Personally, I am into not wearing big logos because I don’t like people knowing I have money and be a target for thieves 🙈 but I do love seeing very elaborate clothing and people having fun with fashion
Loved listening to your comments Tamara re Loud vs Quiet Luxury. They are both luxury, both beautiful and both classic fashion. I was given a beautiful luxury bag last year by my husband - I love it and him for researching and buying me such a beautiful gift. I dont care what any other person thinks, I will always wear it proudly, it means a lot to me personally!!! Love your videos so much Tamara!!! X
Totally agree with everything you said. Wear what you love, be a great person, be kind. Also, sidenote.. your skin is glorious!
Hope everyone has a great week 🩷🩷
Thank you sooo much 🫶🏻🫶🏻
I think you are the only you tuber who I can easily sit and just hear you talking,truly.
Stay true to yourself and enjoy whatever whenever you want. Live your best life and thank you Tamara for giving us your thoughts on this topic. Sending you all the love and light. Xx
Thank you for mentioning this important topic. Omg Tamara you said it perfectly about quite luxury. I agree with every words.. 🙏🏼🦁
Yes, please do a quiet luxury video for summer, thank you Tamara! Love your videos! ❤❤❤
Thank you Tamara, you are such a kind soul ❤
I absolutely agree with what you have shared with “” Quiet luxury trend, about looking down on others, we should be able to wear anything we want. No one is better than anyone
I save my money all year to buy few luxury items, I am obviously going to use it. As asthetic I love it . Bit sometimes love logo too ❤️
I tend to stick to more "quiet luxury" brands (and I always have)- not to make some sort of a statement about how I'm "better than" anyone else- but because the pieces tend to be of higher overall quality and will therefore have more longevity. I also prefer to make a more subtle, "if you know, you know"- kind of a statement with my clothing & accessories... but that's just a personal preference- idc if other people want to dress in head-to-toe logo, as long as it makes them happy. I'm sure I wear some things that others might not like for themselves, & that's also fine.
That said- I would LOVE to see a "quiet luxury fashion" video for spring/summer! 😍
Thank you so much for all your thoughts regarding 'quiet luxury' and 'old money'. I totally agree with every word you said. I was brought up to believe that no-one is better than anyone else they are just different, and thank goodness for those differences or wouldn't life be boring.
Uvijek me zanimalo kako kreiraš te prekrasne talase na kosi, možeš li ubaciti u neki vlog hair tutorial? Hvala Tamara❤
So appreciative of your perspective, so genuine & down to earth. Love it love it LOVE IT 🤍
So well said on quiet luxury. First of all, those who are following and obsessing about this trend are often people that are less well off - in most western democracies where wealth has been passed on for generations those who have always had money don’t call it “quiet luxury”, they just want to blend in to live normal outward lives (go to uni, maybe have a job, go out in public).
Secondly, I have read that the source of this trend comes from the economic recession that is looming. As people are experiencing economic uncertainty, they like to outwardly show and inwardly feel financial stability through things like dressing up like the rich people, who will largely won’t be affected by inflation or a market crash
I don’t necessarily think therefore that quiet luxury is used to look down on others by “rich” people, but used by “normal” people to feel more self secure in uncertain times when other more real pillars of stability like buying a house and having a stable job are not options
This was the BEST BEST BEST commentary on quiet luxury!!! Love you even more after this tamara !
Aww that’s beautiful spending time with your mum 👌
We all take for granted sometimes we all should realize to spend Moore times with our mums
I lost my beloved mum I miss her so much I use to go out together now and then
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Tamara, I love your how you are clear on your ethical standards. You are very empathetic. I like what you said about people having unique styles. I have a friend who is just the nicest person, and very successful at any grand thing she tackles, and her fashion sense is basically everything I would never wear. She is a riot of prints, sequins, leggings and polyester. She tops it all off every day with the same synthetic wig riding askew atop her head. I think I am looking good, but she probably thinks I look boring. So at the end of the day, we appreciate all of that person for their unique personality and the style that goes with it.
“Put on a crown that says Praaada” 😂😂😂😂😂
Your explanation of quiet luxury makes so much sense, and is easily understood. Of course, that is my opinion. 😉🌟👜
This is the first I’ve heard about this trend! I just think you should shop within your means and what makes you feel good. It’s that simple xxx
Wow, thank you so much you’re amazing I have learnt a lot God Bless you 🙌💕
You could be an introverted extrovert. You enjoy the interaction and it fills your energy bucket; however, you also need a moment to recalibrate which is when you enjoy that time at home. You enjoy the experience not just the journey. Do a DISC Assessment and in particular focus on your drivers. That should reveal a lot 😊.
Problably one of your best videos ever, completly agree!you do you, for me the one rule in life is respect you and others.I love classic but, just think if all of us wear all the same?
I 100% agree with your opinion on the QUIET luxury trend. It always existed and people should be focusing on what they really like not what is some tiktoker telling them. This was one of my favorite videos of yours Tamara!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love this video Tamara! Especially that you mention people might save for a long time to purchase a luxury piece. I think *some* very wealthy people don’t understand this, and can be quite judgmental but at the end of the day, who cares and stop being judgmental. Great video Tamara this is why we love you, so down to earth!
I just wanted to say that I pray for Serbian people and for every people! ❤ You know what happened, it is so hard topic, I am in Bulgaria, very close and I feel the pain 😢
I was apprehensive about watching this video because this topic is triggering for me! But I really enjoyed this video and your take. Thanks for being refreshing!
Thanks so much for making these points Tamara, completely agree with you, we should just wear what we want and stop caring so much about other peoples opinions, be confident and enjoy our pieces! I feel that these messages are especially important for younger people these days.
Thank you for this video, Tamara. You're down to earth and fair.
Couldn’t agree more. Fashion is about self expression and evolution. And no one has the right to tell anyone what or how they wear and use.
Please do a quiet luxury video. It’s beautiful!❤🌸
I love how you articulated this point and I couldn’t agree more! ❤
Well said, I usually enjoy your fashion content, but I now saw a truly beautiful side in you. Things are great and everyone should get what they want but ultimately thing don’t make a person, and sometimes the most beautiful people are neither beautiful, rich or fashionable. I love to hear a young beautiful woman like you give out such a positive message. Loved like every word of this video, well said.
I like it! Having money is better than not having money IF your style requires it. Whether it’s having money to buy preloved or to thrift shop, or high end shop etc. Old money new money, having SOME money helps!!
So glad to hear your messages today. I won’t spend more on a bag than the original price because I feel the same about the reseller market. ❤
You’re right about people who are over the top and you get to know them and wouldn’t want them any other way😅 i Laos like your admission of style evolving and talking about what you like and still encouraging people to do them lovely video Tamara 💕💕
Life is too short, surround yourself with true honest friends , buy what you love and most important can afford. Donate when you can it will fulfill you, help when you can as well. Find a hobby. Fashion is just a portion of life . People or (some )people as they mature thru their life experiences they will understand what I mean. Angel I agree 💯 when you spoke about status . I love you angel. ♥️♥️♥️ Also you are born with class . It can not be taught. It’s how you express yourself, how you treat people, how kind you are to others and so much more. Muahhhhhh 😘😘😘😘😘
I completely agree with you about all your points about the “quiet luxury” thing. I’ve always liked that way of dressing and hated logos, but that’s my personality. I’m not pretending to be part of some elitist club or whatever. I am who I am and that’s it. I’m more impressed with self made “new money” people who actually did something to earn their fortunes, than all those people who were born into it and never had to work a day in their life.
Tamara i so wanne challenge you so much (nothing to do with this video)
But who agree with this give 👍🏻
Tamara i challenge you to stop buying for 1 month & be creative with the gorgeous pieces you already have
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around 20:39. i gotta comment. I love love love you. Love you.
I dont have any luxury fashion, but i love your perspective about luxury fashion. 😊
I like so much listening to you. Agree with everything that you say.
Amen Tamara! Couldn't agree with you more❤❤❤❤❤ Sending lots of love!😘
I absolutely relate when you have to wait for your family to get ready. Cuz I’m always waiting too…
Can someone please explain me what it the difference between “old money” and “new money”? Thanks in advance☺️
P.S. Tamara I’ve been following you and watching your video for over two year now, and I love how spontaneous and authentic you are; Your videos always put me in a good mood and you always manage to make me smile. Keep it up, I wish you the best!!♥️
Yes! I completely agree with what you said about elite vs quiet!
Last week I was in Miami at Neiman Marcus, buying a pair of Christian Dior slides, the SA showed me two different styles one neoprene slide bolder Christian Dior on it. The other was leather with
very subtle Christian Dior logo, but I like the neoprene ones better they were more comfortable , and then he made the remark you know everybody’s talking about quiet luxury, he laughs and I said, I don’t care I buy and wear what I like.😁I’ve never been into wearing head to toe logo, my personal preference.
I 100% agree about your thoughts on old money vs new money.
I love how you put all this “old money” persons at their place!
Old money people, first of all, don’t have social media accounts because they have real social groups in real life, because they have different lives !
I have the same opinion about this topic! I will buy and wear what I want when I want, because I can!
Lot of love from Romania!!! It is the first time I am writing a comment but I watch every video!
Love you!
Cannot agree more! Wear whatever you want!!
What did you buy five years ago that you are still wearing? That would be interesting. Some luxury does stand the test of time. Most people can only afford one really expensive bag. If you could only have one, which would it be?
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions on “Quite Luxury”‼️ I will agree with a lot of your points!!! Also I would like to say to anyone that may read this… do what makes you happy and have fun with YOUR style and fashion!!! Because it BELONGS to you‼️ great video as always 😍👌🏾👏🏾
This is what I love about you! You are the most humble and you have never come across as a braggart or entitled. I used to watch some UK fashion girls but they always came off as entitled or better then, It would always rub me the wrong way. I love your honesty and seeing you be so comfortable in who you are and want to portray. I must say I always love seeing you and Filippo together. That man adores you! Thank you for giving me 2 days in the week to look forward to......xo
So happy for you and the love you have been blessed with!!! ❤
Voi influencer date le tendenze, sta a noi decidere cosa ci piace di più e cosa ci possiamo permettere in relazione alla nostra vita! 🤩
Thinking about that cup that will be left there in that closet 😂😂😂😂 if you know Tamara you know ❤
I hardly comment on your videos, but I deeply respect your opinion about quite luxury, and i agree with you. I think someone should have the right to wear whatever they want regardless of what "influencers" refer to you as whats "new" and "chic.""" It shouldn't impact someone's wardrobe and personal style. I don't come from old money, and I don't enjoy logomania styles, but I do have close friends who are and do wear logos but that's because they feel comfortable, confident and they know how to style it properly regardless of their financial history.
Thank your for this video! So refreshing !!!
Great vlog interesting points of view ❤️❤️😍😍
Good morning beautiful tamara babe I hope you and fillipo are well it's so lovely to see you again thanks so much for sharing your wonderful vlog stay safe babe xxx
Where did you get the necklace that you're wearing in the video? love it!
I’m always enjoying your vlogs ❤
I understood wat you wanted to explain to us &nd thanks!!!!!
I totally agree with the quiet luxury thing, fashion should be always be fun👌👏 btw I’m also a sagittarius with a cancer moon so I can feel you sooo much😁👌 I don’t unterstand myself either, a person who loves people and traveling but also constant needing some good me time😂 I’m single for a while and always when I see you and Filippo I’m thinking yes exactly what I need too😂🙏🏽
Please mention the colors on your nails when you get them done! Thank you 🤗❤️ You are beautiful inside and out!
Tamara you are the best!!
Brilliant video Tamara! ❤
Long time follower, first time commenter! Thank you for this video, it was definitely the confidence boost I needed to keep wearing what I love, regardless of trend. Have a lovely week!
You said it all 🙌
Love you ❤
T. 🇲🇬
Enjoyed your vlog as always ..I buy what I like and wear what I like..trends don’t affect me
I think I never agree so much with a video of you... Great point on quiet luxury Crongrats!!!
Absolutely.. well said
please film quiet luxury outfits video 😍😍
Can you please link the square diamond pendant you are wearing? Thanks!
My husband made it clear to me that logos are for advertising and I should not be a walking advertisement. I still wear logos 🙂
I am a Pisces too.
Wish we had a chance to say a quick hello to your mum 🥰🇬🇧
Where does the LV monogram print sit in the quiet luxury argument? I know they are moving away from their canvas products but the prints have been around for years.
This is such a refreshing video with so much honesty and I agree 1000% with everything you’re saying. Thank you for sharing!
My Mom was the slowest in the family getting dressed and since she passed away I have taken over that spot. No matter how early I start, Im always last out 😂.
May god bless her soul. ❤
Tam! You being a sag rising makes so much sense, you are a pure sag 😂 im a venus sag and is my chart ruler + a cap sun stelliulm in the 9h so I LIVE for traveling as well
Tamara, I totally agree with all your points! love love love.
Also, where is your dainty little solitaire diamond necklace from? I clicked on the link for your necklace but it took me to a van Cleef necklace at Selfridges?
Thank for speaking about about this! You hit all the points!!! Bravo!!!
I agree with 95% of your thoughts regarding quiet luxury and I’m really glad that you highlighted that quiet luxury is a trend just like logo-mania! It’s an ebb and flow, which the people who love fashion understand. And the focus shouldn’t be who is a “have” and who is a “have not” - it’s mean and unnecessary.
However, I must stay, your thoughts regarding vulgarity in relation to fashion is honestly unfair. In particular it seems to be focused on women (based on your comment about a large chest person wearing a mesh cc top) - and it got me thinking, if the person had a small or flat chest that style and person would be considered “chic” while those with more voluptuous bodies are portrayed as vulgar. Sounds like the unfortunate history of certain bodies being hyper-sexualized over other bodies and I think we should move away from that type of thinking. Any body shape (and person) can be “chic” including those who dress a bit more revealing. And seeing that you work in fashion and at times wear more sexy, revealing clothes, I think it’s unfair to try and make that distinction.
Overall, I’m glad you talked about this topic, I really wish we could get to a place of enjoying fashion without trying to feel better than someone else in the process…
Sila - Prisioner of Love. Great turkish series about religion/ cultural intolerance etc. Highly recommend.
I Liked the diplomat serie you recommened. You have smart taste. When you have time to find something good ,share with us 🙂 Beside liking your fashion style, is nice to see you passioned about your opinions in this one.
OMG I work for Lush! It was so cool seeing those products mentioned in your video. Heads up you can break those bath products in half and crush them under the running water and you'll get tons of bubbles and then you can save the rest for your next bath
I only believe you and Phil are meant to be, it’s a gift from God. That one of a kind of love! Seriously it’s true love. Perfect together for many reasons so much so that you both will continue to find the magic of your love throughout you whole life together. Tell your Mom, thank you for raising you so wonderful and happy Mothers Day 🌹🌹🌹
Ah thank you do much!!! He truly is my soul mate🥹❤️
Hi Tamara, what brand are your class cups ?yThe ones you use for your coffee. I know you have mentioned it in a pervious video but cannot find that video😳. I have seen a lot of video about quiet luxury recently. Am going to do a video on it shortly, I have not seen any negative videos on the topic but videos where people have expressed their thought on what they think it is. I would say that people with mone.y do not generally show their wealth in what they wear or are quite discreet. I guess if you have money you have nothing to prove., I love buying quality items that will last including household items
Love you to the moon and back Tamara!❤