Kidney inflammation isn’t just a kidney discomfort. It’s also a life threatening condition that requires hospitalization. I was experiencing kidney inflammation which is more than just back pain or kidney pain, it comes with shaking chills, nausea and sharp pain that affects my ability to breathe.
@@elizabethrossi7604I can confirm kidney stones alone suck everything else no thank you (I’ve had kidney stones a couple of times before but not the other kidney issues thankfully)
I had a kidney infection that became septic. I spent 3 days in icu and 5 more out of icu. Came home with 2 drains and had to get daily iv antibiotics for weeks. Not fun.
He won’t even support you. What is going to happen when you have a child. He is horrible. Pay attention, this who he really is. Breaking up is cheaper than a divorce.
Oh give me a break ! I had a Cancerous Tumor the size of an Apple Core removed . . In addition to this , I had part of my colon, and part of my small intestine , my Caecum , 15 Lymph Nodes, and a biopsy and a Blood Transfusion . ( Stage Three Adenocarcinoma) , And on top of that , I have Congestive Heart Failure ,and hell , I was kept in the hospital for only 4 days !
@@freyasslain2203 You should be in the morgue, and I thought my health was bad! I developed a hole in my stomach lining had emergency surgery, and I was only in 5he hospital two days.
@@freyasslain2203Hospital was like, "you are quite literally actively falling appart but we took care of every diagnosis on paper, cya next time my wife needs a mercedes...👍"
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
The MIL, along with those other two women, were so overbearing and annoying. The MIL especially sounds like a doormat who lets the other two walk all over her. She, Carol, and Amanda are acting as if its their wedding.
When your partner prioritized his entertainment more than your sickness, that should have been the day to make a call to quit the relationship. People who don't know the importance of a human being are nothing but sociopaths. No matter how hard you try, you can't change them to become a good, loving and caring human being. It is better off to cut your losses with such ungrateful people, and focus on your well-being. It is not worth your time, money, effort, and energy.
A couple of years later, Op is now married to Real man, not Sam the manchild, and he( the manbaby) sees Op with her Real man of a cuter husband, then he was and he is very kind, brave and sweet to Mary, they have two childern one boy and one girl with a third on the way. Sam sees them walking down the street to get ice cream, and they all pass him, Op 'Now you realize why you are still single, and always will be.'
@@jaclynsanture6643 Nice creative touch to the ending. Abusers are of both sexes, but I find more of men who take women for granted, and expect them to bend over backwards to serve and fulfill their needs. My parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents, have taught us to be respectful about women, because their contribution towards relationship, family, and life, is far more than any man can compete with. 90% of the time, it is women who fall prey to these lowlife scumbag men. I wish these authors used and added the touch of your creative writing. It sounds more like a very needed closure and ending to a situation or a story. Thank you enjoyed the ending with your creativity. I normally rant or criticize about the content, but never made a creative writing like you did. AWESOME.
Kidney inflammation is no joke. 1) it can lead to serious problems and possible death if not taken cared of. 2) it causes extreme pain, throwing up, pain, cold shivers, pain, a fever, pain...did I mention the pain? I've had 2 kidney infections and it is truly hell.
OP would have been well within her rights to pew him when he threatened harm. She was then kidnapped. She should have called the cops and reported them. What an insane family!
The soon to be ex fiancee is being a hypocrite when placing the blame on his mother, aunt and cousin when he didn't bother to visit his fiancee in the hospital. And then forced her to go o make pie while he got to nap. Hopefully he will remain unlucky in love so the women in his home town or anywhere near and far will escape being an indentured servant for this man child.
Since when does it take four people to make pumpkin pie? Did it really require the MIL, two aunts and the fiance? Or were they just expecting her to do it all? Sam was a piece of work. He should have been arrested for forcibly dragging the girlfriend out of her own home. I don't get why the protagonists in these stories don't immediately just call the police.
They are all 3 messed up, the fiance is a non-caring, selfish jerk, the fiancee is disrespectful to the future MIL - who came and did requested favors for her, and gave good advice for the wedding reception. After all, not wanting people who don't get along seated together is one of the considerations when arranging seating. When co-workers came to visit, she didn't want them. She was surprised when the MIL came to visit, which, yes, should be expected. True, MIL had no business criticizing her appearance while in the hospital. She should have just told her she didn't want visitors, not played an odd game. There shouldn't have been any expectation to bring the fiancee directly from the hospital to help make pies at a family gathering. There were clearly many others there to manage that task without her. This whole thing is silly.
I was starting to think I was the only one to see all three as toxic. The fiancée seemed to want to antagonize her mil in the beginning, because she wanted to drive her off. Why didn’t she just say she preferred that she leave, in a nice way, rather than lie and say it’s fine?
You mean the ones with the avatars like "Sexy parts"? Yeah, that's basically like the bots we had on Twitter and bots on Tumblr, the ones that are like "I'm a PORN STAR and need LOVE!" or "Click this link to come see my SEXY NC-17 pics!". The bots are crap and so are the people who decides to post them.
Easy to spot. Extremely annoying. It is great interacting with others in the comments. The bots ruin the experience. If I see too many bots I usually leave the comment section because there is no point engaging with bots.
Is it different in other countries? In the US you don't need to bring things to the hospital except maybe clothes for when you get discharged. But even then they can wash the ones you came with.
Lol i can honestly say this video wasnt bad. I liked the fact that we were given insite to WHAT the girlfriend/DIL is thinking at the time of the convos.
Major red flags. Dump the bum! Surely it can get worse! And it will! Ugh! The future MIL! Her mind was away with the fairies? That’s an odd thing to say. And her fiancé doesn’t have the time to visit! Dump him! Cancel the wedding. The hospital will provide a toothbrush and toothpaste. Geez! What kind of hospital is she in? Sam’s a real prince! What? You need people to help make pumpkin pie. Give me a break! This just got more ridiculous than it already was! Enough with the pumpkin pie! I’ve had enough too! She’s going to report him for forcing her to make pumpkin pie? I can’t take anymore and I like pumpkin pie!
In the US, if a patient pushes the call light for a nurse, and asks for rest/bathroom/assistance, the visitor must leave the room, or atleast step away from the bed so a privacy curtain can be drawn. Also, hospitals have visiting hours, and for chronic patients with major infections like kidney problems, the visiting would be severely restricted and possibly only for related adults. Nobody just walks into a hospital room, they check into the floor via the nurses' station and may need to sign-in but for sure have to say who they are visiting so head nurse can check to see if there are restrictions on visitors due to infection control, etc. Idk how it is in other countries
I agree with the main my only issue with her was at the beginning. U complain about ur fiance not being there but also complain when his mother is there. Even worse instead of telling her the truth to not be rude or mean u trick her into fetching unnecessary items to irritate her for me that was stupid and still rude. No matter how u went about it it would've been seen as rude in her eyes so u didn't dodge a bullet. The main lacks communication skills she never says what she really wants till the last min and thinks she has a right to complain. Close mouths don't get fed, everyone else is stating what they like or dislike u do the same not that hard
I have always spent time in the hospital alone and I was happy with that but if the person I was seeing told me he wasn't coming to see me in the hospital I would have told him that we was over over the phone and not look back. What an awful family that guy has and you or anyone else doesn't need that kind of family in their life they are really bad people. Stay away from people like them.
I ununderstand it's kidney inflammation and it's serious but she gets out of hospital n doctor says she can go right to work next day? Of course the fiance n future MIL are wrong insensitive. But she's not all innocent on all this. She's been confrontational the whole time with them the whole time. And obviously wants to be babied but unfortunately some people don't see or understand that when someone isn't feeling well. If the fiancé couldn't be bothered to go to hospital then she should have ended it there. I don't know what other sign she needed to see what type of person he is. Everyone is different and handle situations differently. And yet a again she throws out marriage is not happening. She sure didn't sound sick or act sick arguing with him n mil. She has a lot of energy. She called off engagement early YET still went with him when he acted like he always acts. That make sense. Again she's not totally innocent and should have just broken engagement from beginning instead of just claiming it every time they argue. It won't get better when married, for him or her.
She wanted to see her fiancé not his mother. It would have been better if he had appeared with his mother and told her in advance or ask if his mother could visit her in the hospital. She was blindsided. I can imagine that to be uncomfortable. Plus mil was an overbearing nag.
This hospitalized woman was absolutely toxic. The future mil was offering the assistance her son wasn't. She could have politely explained she wasn't up for visitors right then, not be an abusive user. And she balls himout for not being there yet says she can't rest if he was there. They didn't belong together. They are both toxic.
These writers know nothing about medicine! She was kept in the hospital for two weeks over a lousy kidney inflammation! My God ! I had a Cancerous Tumor , my Caecum , part of my Colon and part of my small intestine , and 15 Lymph Nodes , and a biopsy performed on my Lymph Nodes . And a blood transfusion done . And I stayed in the hospital for only 4 days . No way , would a hospital keep her for two weeks !
I don't enjoy stories whete the woman let's herself be abused. when woman don't work they are trapped. but not all the women in these stories are trapped. they simply submit. break achait over your husband and or mil
Kidney inflammation isn’t just a kidney discomfort. It’s also a life threatening condition that requires hospitalization. I was experiencing kidney inflammation which is more than just back pain or kidney pain, it comes with shaking chills, nausea and sharp pain that affects my ability to breathe.
No crap...I've had kidney issues since I was 10. Infections, stones...ergh...
Thanks for explaining!
@@elizabethrossi7604I can confirm kidney stones alone suck everything else no thank you (I’ve had kidney stones a couple of times before but not the other kidney issues thankfully)
He basically kidnapped her and forced her to go with him. Call the cops!
Amy dodged a nuke the size of Castle Bravo when she broke this one off.
That is hysterical. That nuke was huge.
I had a kidney infection that became septic. I spent 3 days in icu and 5 more out of icu. Came home with 2 drains and had to get daily iv antibiotics for weeks. Not fun.
He won’t even support you. What is going to happen when you have a child. He is horrible. Pay attention, this who he really is. Breaking up is cheaper than a divorce.
Oh give me a break !
I had a Cancerous Tumor the size of an Apple Core removed . .
In addition to this , I had part of my colon, and part of my small intestine , my Caecum , 15 Lymph Nodes, and a biopsy and a Blood Transfusion . ( Stage Three Adenocarcinoma) , And on top of that , I have Congestive Heart Failure ,and hell , I was kept in the hospital for only 4 days !
@@freyasslain2203 You should be in the morgue, and I thought my health was bad! I developed a hole in my stomach lining had emergency surgery, and I was only in 5he hospital two days.
@@freyasslain2203Hospital was like, "you are quite literally actively falling appart but we took care of every diagnosis on paper, cya next time my wife needs a mercedes...👍"
I would never go with him to go cook after just getting out of the hospital. He would have had a black eye if he had tried
Girl!! RUN, RUN, RUN, RUN AWAY FROM THAT BUM!!
Op is pretty awful too.
Totally she is also not of good character
RUN, RUN FAR AWAY AND NEVER RETURN YESSSS YESSS YESSSS!! TELL IT!
@@Manalie lmao when folks had enough and fed up with folks don't think they'e goin to have a great personality
@@6atsunshine LMAO
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
In many cases this is very true.
Tho some things just can't be forgiven or overlooked sadly.
The MIL, along with those other two women, were so overbearing and annoying. The MIL especially sounds like a doormat who lets the other two walk all over her. She, Carol, and Amanda are acting as if its their wedding.
When your partner prioritized his entertainment more than your sickness, that should have been the day to make a call to quit the relationship. People who don't know the importance of a human being are nothing but sociopaths. No matter how hard you try, you can't change them to become a good, loving and caring human being. It is better off to cut your losses with such ungrateful people, and focus on your well-being. It is not worth your time, money, effort, and energy.
A couple of years later, Op is now married to Real man, not Sam the manchild, and he( the manbaby) sees Op with her Real man of a cuter husband, then he was and he is very kind, brave and sweet to Mary, they have two childern one boy and one girl with a third on the way. Sam sees them walking down the street to get ice cream, and they all pass him, Op 'Now you realize why you are still single, and always will be.'
@@jaclynsanture6643 Nice creative touch to the ending.
Abusers are of both sexes, but I find more of men who take women for granted, and expect them to bend over backwards to serve and fulfill their needs. My parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents, have taught us to be respectful about women, because their contribution towards relationship, family, and life, is far more than any man can compete with. 90% of the time, it is women who fall prey to these lowlife scumbag men.
I wish these authors used and added the touch of your creative writing. It sounds more like a very needed closure and ending to a situation or a story. Thank you enjoyed the ending with your creativity. I normally rant or criticize about the content, but never made a creative writing like you did. AWESOME.
@@MCBRUCE76 Thank you!
@@MCBRUCE76 You are welcome, I enjoy writing.
Kidney inflammation is no joke.
1) it can lead to serious problems and possible death if not taken cared of.
2) it causes extreme pain, throwing up, pain, cold shivers, pain, a fever, pain...did I mention the pain?
I've had 2 kidney infections and it is truly hell.
Yikes! That's awful!
Thank you for informing the internet.
He started swearing and kicking me 😂
OP would have been well within her rights to pew him when he threatened harm. She was then kidnapped. She should have called the cops and reported them. What an insane family!
"Why would I go to a hospital? I have to be careful ahead of the wedding" Only possible answer for me would have been "What wedding?"
Nasty girl
The soon to be ex fiancee is being a hypocrite when placing the blame on his mother, aunt and cousin when he didn't bother to visit his fiancee in the hospital. And then forced her to go o make pie while he got to nap. Hopefully he will remain unlucky in love so the women in his home town or anywhere near and far will escape being an indentured servant for this man child.
Since when does it take four people to make pumpkin pie? Did it really require the MIL, two aunts and the fiance? Or were they just expecting her to do it all? Sam was a piece of work. He should have been arrested for forcibly dragging the girlfriend out of her own home. I don't get why the protagonists in these stories don't immediately just call the police.
You know that the hospital provides toiletries, right?
She probably knows that too 😂
They are all 3 messed up, the fiance is a non-caring, selfish jerk, the fiancee is disrespectful to the future MIL - who came and did requested favors for her, and gave good advice for the wedding reception. After all, not wanting people who don't get along seated together is one of the considerations when arranging seating. When co-workers came to visit, she didn't want them. She was surprised when the MIL came to visit, which, yes, should be expected. True, MIL had no business criticizing her appearance while in the hospital. She should have just told her she didn't want visitors, not played an odd game. There shouldn't have been any expectation to bring the fiancee directly from the hospital to help make pies at a family gathering. There were clearly many others there to manage
that task without her. This whole thing is silly.
I was starting to think I was the only one to see all three as toxic. The fiancée seemed to want to antagonize her mil in the beginning, because she wanted to drive her off. Why didn’t she just say she preferred that she leave, in a nice way, rather than lie and say it’s fine?
The mil is annoying, yes. But op is equally annoying in the hospital scene.
I think she was trying to be annoying to get her to leave.
She was trying to get the annoying MIL to give up and leave
GET THESE SPAM BOTS OUTTA HERE!🙄😡
How do you tell if they are bots? I don’t know how to spot them. Some comments are dreadful, I wonder if they are bots.
@@emmabelle6413 They basically WORSHIP THE GROUND the people in charge of this channel walk on.
You mean the ones with the avatars like "Sexy parts"?
Yeah, that's basically like the bots we had on Twitter and bots on Tumblr, the ones that are like "I'm a PORN STAR and need LOVE!" or "Click this link to come see my SEXY NC-17 pics!".
The bots are crap and so are the people who decides to post them.
Easy to spot. Extremely annoying. It is great interacting with others in the comments. The bots ruin the experience. If I see too many bots I usually leave the comment section because there is no point engaging with bots.
Why do these people ask so many rhetorical questions?
To make the video last for 43:35 minutes 😁
@@brendairwin257
Good point
Haven't even got to the mama issues yet. Kidney inflammation is bad news you need to leave him now.
Is it different in other countries? In the US you don't need to bring things to the hospital except maybe clothes for when you get discharged. But even then they can wash the ones you came with.
Omg why did she agree to go??🤬🤬 I sure wouldn't have
How come it takes a crowd of people to make a pumpkin pie?
Why did she go with his butt and his mommy. Id call 📞 the police on him. She just got out of the hospital 🏥
Red flag, dump him!!!
You know, a lot of people would be happy to get visitors! Not sure I understand that part!! Yeah, she needs to get rid of that bum!
You want an annoying hag visiting you, when you really want is the person who's supposed to love, honor, and cherish you?
3:40 mark- Whens she says, "Surely it can't get any worse then this." Check out the guy on the far right. Perfect timing.
(should be "than")
No way dump HIM
Only an AI author or 5th grader could come up with the pumpkin pie absurdity.
Lol i can honestly say this video wasnt bad. I liked the fact that we were given insite to WHAT the girlfriend/DIL is thinking at the time of the convos.
Oh its Spam Galore
Why did she have to recap the story halfway through?
Is this family from bizarro land where everyone is the exact the opposite of quote and unquote normal. Run bride to be run fast.
Forced you to do it? You're an adult. How is anyone forcing you to do that?
I'm out. Lawsuit and all.
Can't believe they have the nerve to say why break up.
Please don’t call me Shirley! LOL
27:43, BY FORCE?
Why does anyone need helpers making a pie? lol
Major red flags. Dump the bum! Surely it can get worse! And it will! Ugh! The future MIL! Her mind was away with the fairies? That’s an odd thing to say. And her fiancé doesn’t have the time to visit! Dump him! Cancel the wedding. The hospital will provide a toothbrush and toothpaste. Geez! What kind of hospital is she in? Sam’s a real prince! What? You need people to help make pumpkin pie. Give me a break! This just got more ridiculous than it already was! Enough with the pumpkin pie! I’ve had enough too! She’s going to report him for forcing her to make pumpkin pie? I can’t take anymore and I like pumpkin pie!
🎉 No longer fiance!
She was lucky to distance herself from that family
How hard is it make a pumpkin pie only need one person
In the US, if a patient pushes the call light for a nurse, and asks for rest/bathroom/assistance, the visitor must leave the room, or atleast step away from the bed so a privacy curtain can be drawn.
Also, hospitals have visiting hours, and for chronic patients with major infections like kidney problems, the visiting would be severely restricted and possibly only for related adults. Nobody just walks into a hospital room, they check into the floor via the nurses' station and may need to sign-in but for sure have to say who they are visiting so head nurse can check to see if there are restrictions on visitors due to infection control, etc.
Idk how it is in other countries
That story could have been TEN FULL MINUTES SHORTER!!
Sam is insufferable 😣
He would have Ben verbally and physically abusive.
Bye, Bye Sam😂
Could not stop laughing 😂
I agree with the main my only issue with her was at the beginning. U complain about ur fiance not being there but also complain when his mother is there. Even worse instead of telling her the truth to not be rude or mean u trick her into fetching unnecessary items to irritate her for me that was stupid and still rude. No matter how u went about it it would've been seen as rude in her eyes so u didn't dodge a bullet. The main lacks communication skills she never says what she really wants till the last min and thinks she has a right to complain. Close mouths don't get fed, everyone else is stating what they like or dislike u do the same not that hard
I have always spent time in the hospital alone and I was happy with that but if the person I was seeing told me he wasn't coming to see me in the hospital I would have told him that we was over over the phone and not look back. What an awful family that guy has and you or anyone else doesn't need that kind of family in their life they are really bad people. Stay away from people like them.
That daughter in law is horrible lol all 3 are
😢😮run girl run😊
To me, this is a bit of a long winded story.....
I'm aware that this is only a story, but thank goodness you got away from those morons lol
My fiance came to the hospital when I burnt my arm. We got married 12 weeks later.
🎉
This chick is weird all on her own that inner monologue when the mother-in-law's they're kind of shows it
You should have known that is was not a good person when he didn’t visit you in the hospital.
I am not sure who is the bad person in this story they both seem pretty selfish
I ununderstand it's kidney inflammation and it's serious but she gets out of hospital n doctor says she can go right to work next day? Of course the fiance n future MIL are wrong insensitive. But she's not all innocent on all this. She's been confrontational the whole time with them the whole time. And obviously wants to be babied but unfortunately some people don't see or understand that when someone isn't feeling well. If the fiancé couldn't be bothered to go to hospital then she should have ended it there. I don't know what other sign she needed to see what type of person he is. Everyone is different and handle situations differently. And yet a again she throws out marriage is not happening. She sure didn't sound sick or act sick arguing with him n mil. She has a lot of energy. She called off engagement early YET still went with him when he acted like he always acts. That make sense. Again she's not totally innocent and should have just broken engagement from beginning instead of just claiming it every time they argue. It won't get better when married, for him or her.
Boy she is screwed up. Doesnt want visitors but gets upset that the fiancee didnt show. Make up your mind.
She wanted to see her fiancé not his mother. It would have been better if he had appeared with his mother and told her in advance or ask if his mother could visit her in the hospital. She was blindsided. I can imagine that to be uncomfortable. Plus mil was an overbearing nag.
Yes, she wanted her fiancé to come not his insufferable Mother!
This hospitalized woman was absolutely toxic. The future mil was offering the assistance her son wasn't. She could have politely explained she wasn't up for visitors right then, not be an abusive user. And she balls himout for not being there yet says she can't rest if he was there. They didn't belong together. They are both toxic.
These writers know nothing about medicine! She was kept in the hospital for two weeks over a lousy kidney inflammation!
My God ! I had a Cancerous Tumor , my Caecum , part of my Colon and part of my small intestine , and 15 Lymph Nodes , and a biopsy performed on my Lymph Nodes . And a blood transfusion done .
And I stayed in the hospital for only 4 days .
No way , would a hospital keep her for two weeks !
Uh yes they would. Look at the other comment about how bad a kidney inflammation is.
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 Actually , I looked up what typical hospital stay was for a kidney inflammation , its 3-7 days . So shut the fuck up.
I don't enjoy stories whete the woman let's herself be abused. when woman don't work they are trapped. but not all the women in these stories are trapped. they simply submit. break achait over your husband and or mil
The OP is also bad 👎
Sam just wanted someone to do everything for him so he can continue to be the bum he is. Enjoy living with Mom forever Sam