Ruby became RESPONSIBLE for FEEDING AND SHELTERING her children when she became a mom and she doesn't take those responsibilities very seriously so why should anyone listen to this crazy woman? Those are the most basic of needs for children and she can't quite pull it off.
@@skyc.j4571 I think everyone just forgets her husbands name so they don’t mention him LMAO. But yeah he’s just as responsible. They are both shitty parents.
I pray that her children go completely non contact once they're old enough. They deserve to get away from her. How do you got to this woman for childcare advice, her methods are insane! She shouldn't have access to a public platform to spout the misinformation she spews like garbage.
To be fair, she’s going to raise some badass kids they’ll be super responsible and respectful like good good people because of what she taught them however they are going to hate her when they grow up.
@@MikeyD0 have you never heard of teenage rebellion? These kids are going to end up never talking to their parents again bc they were abused. Her kids are NOT benefiting from her mothering.
@@MikeyD0 that’s not a given at all. I had a mother like this, and my upbringing has been more an obstacle to overcome than anything else. My grandparents’ influence was what kept me from completely imploding as a young adult, and I managed to get a degree and support myself. My siblings have not been as lucky, as she effectively cut them out of my grandparents’ lives. Now one has anger issues, has dropped out of community college, and has no conceivable means of supporting herself (and is about to be cut off). And the other has completely detached from reality, has destructive impulse control issues, and didn’t finish high school (and is also about to be completely cut off). In addition to children learning consequences for bad behavior, they have to be given the space to be children/human. Children/humans are unable to be perfectly behaved at all times, and punishing them for forgetfulness, making mistakes, being unmotivated or uninterested in something they are forced to do, does so many levels of damage. Those kids may know how to survive within that household, but those survival skills will turn into crippling mental disorders in the real world, and I just hope they have the inner strength and presence of mind to seek help.
Callum. As a 40 year old woman, I do feel I might be slightly outside your target demographic. I would like to compliment you on your intelligence and maturity. I am truly happy there are people like you to counterweight all the horrible influence the youth is exposed to across social media. You calling out the horrendous behaviours is valuable. Thank you.
Agree. I am the same age and though I have not been able to be a bio mom. I have been a caretaker to countless kids and my nieces. I agree with Callum’s maturity. His parents did a pretty great job I.m.o. He has had a set of morals of kindness and inclusion that come out in his questioning others. But, he does it with a way that says, I disagree, and do not understand your side. … But I care regardless.
I didn’t realize when I clicked that this video is from a YEAR AGO. The warning signs were there, and I’m so sad it took so long for those kids to get away from these awful people.
My parents were like that, actually kinda worse. They both have passed away now and I had no feelings. My step dad died a painful death and I was ok with that. Karma.....
Currently trying. It’s hard as I am disabled but I’m trying to move out. I don’t even have full access to running water. It’s hell. Very complicate situation but just send out good vibes to me please 🥴
Right? And saying it's the child responsibility and fault. No lady.. it's your responsibility. That is your child. 6 year olds aren't responsible for taking care of themselves. You brought that child into the world and it is your duty and your responsibility to take care of them.
When I was 37 I forgot my work laptop at home which was my only work computer. I called my mom and she brought me my laptop. If the roles were reversed I would have totally done that for her. The 6 year old should have had her lunch.
Update she's been arrested. Thank. God. At least 2 counts of abuse on record that both serve 15 years of prison. But there's more to be found still. Her and Jodi could very quickly and easily, spend life in prison. Let's hope they do.
I’m a 28 year old mother myself and my mom STILL will swing by and drop me off lunch at work randomly, that is what you do as a parent no matter the age. Facebook parenting groups are so fucking toxic and hers is on a higher level. She is a control freak and I hope one day her kids can work through all of the projection and trauma she’s inflicted on them. It’s heartbreaking. Your kids are humans and their own people that deserve respect, privacy, and choices. She’s fuckinG MENTAL
The fact people seriously go to these two for parenting advice is so wild to me Also comparing coming out as trans is totally the same as doing drugs and crime, when I came out as NB I couldn't stop myself from committing petty theft and smoking the funny plant /s
Idk why you feel you need a title you’re literally just a person. Y’all who need titles are just making these little clubs and putting yourselves in a box making outside people think you’re different than any other person.
@@AshenDalia no because boy or girl is a gender it’s necessary to distinguish the two in every day life however sexuality shouldn’t have to be a “group” they’re just people like everyone isn’t that what they want?
I never heard of this woman until she got arrested. And I wish I hadn't. I grew up in foster care after my parents death. Only 2 of 4 of us survived being "wards of the court." CPS was involved. Church, school, family, neighbors, CPS looked the other way. My surviving sister and I have a life sentance of Complex PTSD. You have to love being lectured by moral scolds who starve, humiliate, t and torture kids, the "loving father" participated, yet abandoned these kids for 13 months to these two psychos. And all along, they profited.
i absolutely HATE how transphobic & homophobic people say they’re doing it in “truth” & that everyone else is confused & distorted. why can’t you just accept people & love them for who they are? i’m a pastors kid & i can never come out as bisexual to them and that really sucks. :(
I'm sorry. I feel the same way. I'm in my late 30s and don't feel like I could tell my parents I am bi. If I was in a serious relationship with a woman, I would. But until then, I can't handle any more turmoil and conflict with them. Anyway, sending good vibes. I know it sucks and you aren't alone.
Exactly. Just because YOU think a book from thousands of years ago should dictate every little thing in society doesn’t mean we do. It’s so disrespectful that she calls EVERYONE with a different belief system “living in distortion.” It takes a basic level of respect, maturity, and KNOWLEDGE to understand that NO belief system religious or not has been proven to be “the truth.”
I’m sorry to hear that. I read some of the stuff they were saying and it’s so sad. They just aren’t accepting, and using their principles to say they are in distortion or are destructive.
@@poison4303 exactly. & they always wanna talk about how they don’t wanna lose their freedom of religion and that they’re so discriminated against when they’re the ones disrespecting other religions and discriminating anyone who doesn’t fit into their idea of the “right way to live”
CPS should investigate EVERONE who has subscribed to her channels or her private FB group - there is a very good chance they are guilty of child abuse too
She’s crying because narcissists cannot deal when their demands are not catered to. It implodes the reality they have constructed where everything revolves around them. She’s so use to bullying her kids into whatever she wants it’s causing her actual mental trauma. Too bad it didn’t happen more often.
If you listen to her rant about the incident, which she has done multiple times, you'll realize she wasn't upset about the lyrics, nor her kids dancing. Ruby is your typical emotional vampire. She likes to cause scenes to upset people around her. This school worker was polite and accommodating during Ruby's entire rampage. Ruby wasn't able to get a reaction out of her no matter how much she escalated things. THAT is what infuriated Ruby. Ruby wanted to make this woman cry and the poor woman kept on smiling, no doubt having experienced many emotional vampires in her line of work and now knowing how to handle them. Ruby is a sadist.
As a mother to two grown daughters I think I have a right to say that the way this woman parents is atrocious. I raised both my girls with love, honesty, communication and respect. My girls have become two responsible well rounded adults who i am extremely proud of. And I achieved this without resorting to abusive punishments or denial of necessities like a packed lunch. The fact that some parents think she is a good example infuriates me.
This woman is genuinely delusional. I work in the childcare field. If any of my students came in without a lunch (I don’t care if they are middle school) heck even high school age; and the parents let’s them sit in hunger I’d go in on them. It’s unacceptable to let a kid not eat because they are too young to understand/take accountability for their health at that age.
i think by highschool or even late middle school, the kid should absolutely be capable of packing their own lunch; saying they couldnt would be like saying a second grader couldnt brush their own teeth. now, at 6, i'd argue that letting them go hungry is abuse
@@twinkiestar6538 at the end of the day, if a child is under the age of 18 the parent is responsible for ensuring they are fed and have all their needs met at least at the very basic level. Sure, by middle/secondary school a teen should be able to pack their own lunch but you can't as a parent tell them to starve because that is a form of neglect and if it happens enough times, as educators we have to report it (at least we do in Australia)
@@carlamottillo6250 right, and i agree with you! what i was trying to disagree with in the original post is the idea that by high-school/late middle school, the teen is too young to understand their needs; by that age i think that a general responsibility for their own lunch is reasonable, of course with the parents stepping in and helping if they forget (adults forget their lunch for work all the time, but they can leave to get something/order something, and kids cant.)
@@twinkiestar6538 I agree at that age they should know how and what will happen if they don’t but if they do forget mom and/or dad need to make sure they are fed. They are still underage so they are still not 100% responsible for their health yet.
As someone who has taken child development classes virtually everything she says is the exact opposite of what you should do. They are setting their kids up to go no contact or have a lot of resentment. When the kids get out of the house to go college or start their own lives they will realize how psycho their parents are.
The fact that she responded to the abortion question by blatantly admitting that she sees serious subjects in black and white, no gray areas, no considering all the facts.. it just shows that she is the LAST person who should be giving ANYONE advice. I wish people would just stop watching her sht so she would just stop making videos.
Ewww. I didn’t even finish watching after i read this comment. As a borderline who actually has actual trouble trying to see gray areas I’ve trained myself to be able to see the whole picture. Which means black white gray and even the damn colors too shit. That’s absolutely no excuse for being an abusive military Sargent as a mother
Abortion is serious though? I don't agree with everything this woman believes or says but abortion is evil, no matter what circumstances a person's in I do have sympathy but the innocent baby growing inside isn't just nothing and useless. Let's call it what it really is, Pro Choicers are really just Pro Abortionists disguising as being for all choices yet not really considering the fact they oppose Pro lifers for sticking up for the Mum and innocent life growing inside.
Ruby is so obnoxiously grandiose and sanctimonious. Who TF died and made her the queen of righteousness?! I can’t imagine going through life believing I know so much about what’s better for the people around me and what they’ve endured in their lives. I can’t take people like her seriously because their worlds and views are so limited, I immediately discount their input. I can’t wait for her kids to rebel against her. It will be glorious.
Well my friend, you nailed it. Ruby just wanted a bunch of followers to validate her abuse. She reminds me of Lori Vallow Daybell. Both from Utah. Both LDS. Both wanted to be moral/spiritual teachers. Both knew they were horrible people who dont really care about their kids. Ruby did have the good sense to cry at her trial though, before trying to convince the world her child is a horrible person who deserved to be starved and bound.
I'm okay with it, as long as there's some self awareness that everyone doesn't feel the same. You wouldn't believe in something if you didn't think it were true, but understand that you aren't the only person on the planet. Other ppl believe in their truths too. Sure, some things are true for everyone, but many things aren't her place to condemn others for. I'm not saying it's bad to sometimes debate, when it's an appropriate time or situation cool; but she is nonstop self-righteousness. Never a moment of humility over the fact that maybe she doesn't hold all the answers and maybe she can learn, even a modicum, from others with a different opinion. I'm a Christian and ppl like her truly piss me off. We aren't all that sanctimonious and uptight. Now I'm all annoyed and need a drink 😅
@@asideofaioli4630 The truth only has one side. What you are referring to are beliefs and opinions, which shouldn't be confused with the actual truth. I can say that water isn't wet and call it my truth, but it doesn't make it true.
@@RuminatingRaptor Really quick, Belief & Truth aren't mutually exclusive. You can believe in something that is true. I believe our bodies need oxygen to survive. It's both a belief and a truth. Regardless, I said when you believe in something it is true to "you." True to you doesn't mean "the truth." My point was that you believe in things you think are true. If you didn't think something were true you wouldn't believe in it. Whether or not those things are true is besides my point. That's why I made a point of saying "their" truth vs "the" truth.
Omg the "innervenous" from the other lady was driving me crazy! I had to check the comments to see if anyone else caught that. I actually tried to look it up to see if it was actually a word. (Its not 😂) Then I got to polo and was like "aight imma head out" 😭😂
Markie your video has examples of how much the father was aware of. As you know he’s doing his best to come across as ‘innocent’ and unknowing - he is full of it. Well done
ruby be like "my child, practically a baby, must face the consequences of forgetting her lunch" you know, because kids have full awareness and remember what they're supposed to do all the time. pay your rent, kiddo, you're practically middle-aged now, welcome to the REAL WORLD where we abuse our children and give terrible advice in an echo chamber
Edit: No I didn't watch this video. The Franke's cause so much anger inside me I just cannot deal with seeing their faces right now. THE CHILD WAS FOUR (or 5?). Like that kid was barely potty trained at that point, forget about them making & bringing their own food. The Franke's and Jodi are insane.
Let's not forget that her husband a supposed adult only learned recently that you can do things for your wife just to be nice. He admitted in a video that I'm pretty sure Markie covered where he admits that he only ever did nice things for his wife expecting sex as a reward for like doing the dishes without asking, but now he has learned, and now he just does them because that's what adults should do.
It’s almost like we’re legally obligated to take care of children because they don’t understand the consequences of their actions. They are literally new people. Of course they’re not good at adulting.
as a mother it infuriates me that ruby became a mother. when you have a child you are responsible for feeding them and providing for their needs, including needing love and affection. she turns a cold shoulder on her children and fails to realize how much damage she does by doing this. yes, you raise children to prepare them for life… that being said, life doesn’t start at 6! her children will one day leave and never come back. she’s insane to think that she’s benefiting her children by raising them like this.
This family is so aggravating. Even as an adult I’ve forgotten my lunch money and I definitely panicked when I was about to clock out for lunch and realized. These are children... I’d hate to be born into a house where you very clearly are not allowed to make mistakes 😳
Apparently my parents were a part of this group in the 90s, sending me to a school that offered hot lunch, not paying for it because it was a little extra, sending me with a moisture soaked sandwich that had been getting soggy in a bag for 6 hours. No PBandJ. No chips, no crackers just something absolutely inedible. Sending me to the pool with no sunscreen, getting horribly burnt, sending to the lake things without a change of clothes/shoes being absolutely soaked for hours. Let's just say I'm a fanatic about making sure my kids are comfortable.
Would I be the arsehole if I imagined putting a shock collar around Ruby's neck and I push the button every time she says truth, responsibility, principle? Okay cool, I'll be the arsehole, worth it.
I don’t know the exact religion they follow but I know some think all sins are the same level of bad, I’m not saying being trans is bad tho that’s just what some religions say
His mother thinks that the Transgenders have indoctrinated him and now that her child is A Trans he will slide down the very slippery slope of Drugs, Sex, and Alcohol. Obviously. (capitalized words are mocking, of course)
It drives me crazy how Ruby never explains wtf “principles” are or what this “truth” is. Like, I have watched so many of her teachings and I feel like that’s how she excuses everything but never actually defines them
This might be a stretch but I feel she never explains what principals or truth are because she lacks the ability to see things from other people's perspectives. So because of that she assumes her values and the knowledge of her principles are universal. And that anyone who disagrees with her is lying to themselves or "not living in truth". Idk if that makes sense or not. The closest thing I can think of to compare it to is how little children say they'll draw a picture and when they go to show you they'll face it towards themselves instead of outward to you because they can't developmentally understand the concept of you as a separate being who can't see what they're looking at (I know there's a term for it I just Can't think of it). I don't know if that makes sense or not.
You have to know LDS lingo to understand. It's used all the time in the LDS Church. Standing for truth and righteousness. Truth being the meaning of Christian principles. Ten commandments. Abortion would be under the shell not kill. Trans and homosexuals would be in there as sins as well. Principles of standing for the right meaning biblical teachings. You also have to know the culture of the LDS church to know that many things are considered sins to them that are not for the rest of the world. Purity culture sexual sin. Drinking alcohol swearing. Other Orthodox religions are very similar. The holding of what they believe is truth and righteousness above other people's perspectives or teachings because it's biblical. The more Orthodox the religion a lot of times the more literal they receive the teachings of the Bible.
It’s actually pretty simple, “Truth” is agreeing with Jodi at all times. She doesn’t like something? Truth! has a dream that she decided is reality? Truth!
IT IS SO BAD!! My friend joined for fun some weeks ago & has kept me posted. I can safely say I've never felt so much rage towards someone I don't even know.
Work in a school and I know for a fact that if a student, especially a five year old, said they did not have a lunch, the student would not be allowed to go hungry. The mother has her priorities, but we would not be able to let a student go hungry and I would personally contact DCF if a parent told me to let their child go hungry.
Concerning the lunches, kids that age simply CANNOT make a lunch for themselves!! Yes, maybe they can help but not make it completely!! COME ON YOU ARE THE MOTHER CHECK THEIR BAGS BEFORE THEY LEAVE THE HOME!!! No wonder the teacher was "Uncomfortable" I would be just as concerned as well.
I hate how children's, gender identity is always compared to drugs. The role of a parent Is to love your child unconditionally, it's not that hard if that child wants to go by different pronouns. I know many children would kill to have supportive family's, and parents wonder why the trans suicide rate/attempts is so high. Like be a decent human being. Comming from a trans person
for real. it's also that irritating "just a phase" argument, like, even if it is, so what? shouldn't you support your child as they explore their identity and respect them regardless?
As an uncle, yes I would be sad if my niece ended up murdering or doing drugs, but not being trans, so that evil mother's reaction to it is immediately invalidated. And I've said this so many times, and I'm tired of saying why it's wrong, but until it stops, I will not let them get away with saying that.
i hate it so much, especially when transitioning as a young child has nothing to do with hormones or puberty blockers, its literally maybe buying some new clothes, a new hairstyle, and using new pronouns. it’s not that fucking deep
i came out to my mom a few years ago when i was 16, she said she was gonna put me in a mental hospital lmao so now i’m back in the closet, it really fucking sucks
I understand making kids take responsibility for their actions and to teach them how to manage money but no kid should be left to starve until they're old enough to actually know how to budget (so maybe 16 or so plus, cause kids under than age know how to spend all their money on sweets and wont ever take into account actual essentials). Also, kids are growing, they need to eat a lot so you can't take away a meal at such a crucial meal. Yes, you can say that your kid can pack their own lunch and everything but, even as an adult, you can have a second option (maybe ring a friend or someone to bring lunch in to work, or go away from your workplace to buy lunch out, etc). She's got the ideas for how to teach your kids but she can't pull it off
I love how street-smart all of Ruby Franke's kids will turn out to be. They'll know how to escape from being restrained, how to talk to police, how to testify in court, etc... Brilliant parenting!
Dear God.... I feel so badly for thier kids and how messed up they will be in the real world. Me in 5th grade- could sing the entire Sir Mix-A-Lot "Baby got back" as I hip trusted to the "my anaconda don't want none unless you got buns, hun" didn't turn into a sex crazed maniac in my adult life- its a song lady. The only certainty they are giving thier children is therapy, a warped and damaged understanding of human sexuality, and shame for thier own bodies. I 100% myself don't think I could ever go through an abortion it makes me sick to think of a parent watching thier daughter suffer the torment and trauma of a forced pregnancy if raped. The abuse that continues to happen daily under the guise of "religion" is awful.
11:10 boiled my blood. i have had 10 pregnancies total at age 23. i’ve had 5 miscarriages, 3 abortions & 2 full term pregnancies and my kids are ages 2 & 3. pregnancy & parenthood is not for everyone. i would never force anyone to go through that if they weren’t able or wanting to. banning abortions only bans SAFE abortions, causes higher death rate in mothers & babies during pregnancy or labor, more kids in the already overflowing foster care system, more abusive households, more substance abuse, more self harm, higher suicide rates, overpopulation, etc. but they don’t care about that do they??
@Snufkin Mumrik EXACTLY not to mention if they’re low class or immigrant kids they couldn’t give less of a fuck about them once they’re born & the sad thing is a lot of low class uterus owners are the ones getting abortions so they really only care about controlling their bodies then turn their back. oh yeah and not to mention they don’t wanna have free health care, don’t want to do anything to have stricter gun regulations to stop or lessen school shootings, don’t want to provide mental health care for low class children & their parents, etc.
You act as if abortion is the only way of insuring that people who absolutely can't go through a pregnancy or do not want to, can make sure it doesn't happen. We don't live in the middle ages, there are many, many ways of making sure pregnancy doesn't happen!
I would not doubt that her childhood was structured to the point where she had to internalize any emotion because adults are right and children do what adults say. Now when she is contradicted by other adults she acts almost childish since she doesn't know how to process the emotions. Its like she doesn't know that Adults can be wrong, even her.
Whooo, coming in from September 2023, this aged so well. Kevin’s shiny head had me cracking up. But really it needs to be in jail with the other two monsters. Thank you for clarifying that the lady didn’t want to cure polo. I was confused for a second. This full on a mini-cult. It’s disturbing. And the really awful thing is that the remaining members are still out there abusing their kids.
5:22 - anyone else notice this person prefaces her stance with "if you don't agree with me, it's because you are broken and wrong so I hope you will be humble enough to accept the truth - not "my truth" but "the truth". That right there is textbook gaslighting. Run.
Whoever is out there deleting comments and blocking people from saying the truth on the Connexions channel while Jodi and Ruby are in custody -- protecting these women makes you complicit.
as a trans man, trust me. that kid is imploding. he’s hurting really badly because his mother isn’t supporting him. that kid might be lashing out, might be having extreme mental health issues, because they’re not in a safe space, clearly. respecting a trans person’s identity is literally f*cking life saving.
The abortion comment actually infuriates me. I was raped by my eldest child's father during our relationship in my sleep while we were also actively trying to convince. I still WANTED her. I developed postpartum psychosis and attempted suicide 4 months postpartum due to my struggles accepting my situation. At 3 months postpartum I realized he had lie to me about what happened in my sleep and he actually assaulted me. When I told my mother and started to debate reporting him, she TOLD HIM and when he came to pick her up HE NEVER GAVE HER BACK. (It's been 10 months now.) I have to share custody with my rapist. Not only that, but he's currently MAIN CUSTODIAL because of my postpartum psychosis and suicide attempt which I probably wouldn't have ever developed had I not been raped. I've already decided if I were to ever be assaulted and conceived again, I'd have an abortion no questions asked. I'm not going to destroy my mental health when I have a child to care for. I have to live for HER. I'm HER mother first. There are very FEW states that prevent having to share custody with your rapist. This is unfair and disgusting to enforce on victims. Anyone who hasn't become pregnant due to assault shouldn't even have an opinion. I wanted my baby. I was lied to about being assaulted. I didn't know I was lied to until after we broke up. I reported my assault 3 months postpartum. The cops refuse to press charges because I waited so long and gave birth to his child. I'm still trying to save money to have an attorney file and take it to court but it'll cost me THOUSANDS. And in the meantime, he has my daughter and keeps her from me. My case isn't unique at all. I'm in a noncustodial mom group for victims of assault. There's hundreds of us all across the United States. We all have a similar story. We were assaulted and even though we choose to keep our pregnancies, our mental health following our assaults were used against us to LOOSE custody. Thankfully, my psychiatrist backs me up and while the custody case is still open she is doing everything in her power to show I'm healthy and stable enough to care for my child. Especially now that I'm pregnant with my second and I'm now at RISK loosing custody of this child BECAUSE of this custody case. Once you loose custody of ONE child as a mother, that's grounds enough in some states to take away ALL future children. We punish victims when we force them to keep pregnancies. We punish victims when we don't set up resources for metal health. We punish victims when we take away their children for ptsd or postpartum disorders that are being actively treated. We punish victims when we force them to share custody with their abusers. We punish victims when we award primary custody to abusers. This is real life, and it's sick.
Have you checked to see if there are any organizations that offer pro bono work near you? You also may be able to find an attorney that would work out a payment plan for you as this is such a serious case. I hope things improve for you 💕
@@TheReducedsodium Like I said, this has been ongoing for 10 months. I've exhausted all my local resources. I didn't comment for advise, I commented for awareness. But thank you for the kindness.
Im so sorry for what you've been through. I went through exactly the same thing. He got custody of him too due to the p.p.p it was brutal. 4 years I fought in court using my house,car and pretty much selling everything I owned. While he had him I trained to be an outreach worker at a children's centre helping young and vulnerable families. I did child first aid,child and adolescent psychology & trained up to be a safeguarding officer. All at home,all while studying family law and what the courts wanna hear. I went back and applied and represented myself. I won custody that same year. He's 18 in 9 days. Its not been easy but It's been worth it. I have b.p.d and cptsd but I took more than enough case law on why they shouldn't use mh against u unless it affects ur parenting directly,as in neglect emotional abuse etc. If u ever need to talk plz feel free to grab my email off my page xx
I am very respectfully, and carefully asking, how would things be easier if you now had to live with the fact that you terminated your own child's life? You would not have known about the custody problems, PPD etc because you never experienced it because the child never was born. Instead, you would have to live with the knowledge that you killed your child because of a rape that the child had nothing to do with. The guilt from that can also drive you to depression. It seems (I could be wrong of course) that it would be better to aim the anger, hate etc at the real criminal, the rapist instead of putting some of it on you for ending an innocent child's life.
What does being transsexual have anything to do with using drugs? How random. These women are on a power trip. Some people just have too much time on their hands. This is what we’ve become. Wealthy and bored.
For real. I would NOT have the same reaction/response to those 2 things. I’d meet them both with empathy and support- other than that nothing is comparable there.
they have nothing to do with eachother. But being a drug addict is one of the worst things to be compared too so that’s why they do it. So trans people can be seen as less then.
Her niece was interviewed on another channel, she had custody of her as a teen. Abusive would be an understatement! She said her niece was using things too. She wasn't and wouldn't have had a chance of getting away from her, dr*** absolutely not.
i honestly don’t know why cps isn’t involved with this okay maybe their situation could be worse but also this isn’t a way to care for ur children by taking away diner,letting her kids starve if they don’t pack their lunch,taking away basically basic stuff they needs as a punishment is a no
They are part of a big wealthy Mormon family. There’s about eight RUclips channels among them. Oddly enough, the other family’s channels don’t show Ruby any longer. I’m sure their status in their Utah area keeps them safe from CPS.
I about spit my food out when she had THE NERVE to say " and some people even profit off of being not humble" and goes on about how people can value fame and money and what they can get through manipulation lolll wow. Also, why is she going on about lying and being deceiving when they are talking about someone trying to figure out their body (gender). smh
She was so angry after trying to own the principal, but couldn't !!! She is able to rule over her children, but when she wasn't able to rule over the principal it destroyed her.
Imagine being so entitled and self-righteous that you think all of your personal OPINIONS are "truth" and actively start referring to them as such, and anyone who doesn't share the same opinion is "delusional" lmao wow Edit: sorry.. "live in distortion" was the exact phrase
Funny because when I heard about the Tik Tok thing I was actually agreeing with her I was like yeah that song is inappropriate even when it’s cut up and you don’t hear the sexual parts. Until I realized the daughter in question was in high school… and not elementary school.
I saw the video and the dance. Very appropriate. The only lyrics used was the part all the kids sing. “Apple bottom jeans and the boots with the fur. The whole club looking at her. Shawty got low low low.” The teacher was so careful she even took out the word Damn from another song.
Wait…did she call polio, POLO? Did I hear that right? Also, just FYI: as a Jew, I just happen to know that my religion is based on many principles of truth as well, one being, supporting abortion rights. The life of the mother specifically is mentioned as being needed to be preserved above all else.
I really hope that her daughter was given a lunch by someone at school . If I was the teacher and had to tell a 6 year old she couldn't have a lunch because her mum wouldn't bring it it would break my heart. I can't believe parents like this exist and don't feel even feel shame. She infuriates me.
People like this scare me. I’m a mom and grandma and I can’t imagine ever being this cruel to any child or fellow human. What happened to these folks for them to even imagine they know the “truth” and are qualified to serve up their twisted views as advise to other parents? Do they actually believe the crap they’re spewing? Their poor kids, and all the mom followers that are allowing this poison into their minds and spreading to their own children. This will not end well.
for anyone that cares lol, shari seems to be going through a mini redemption arc?? before she left her parents house for college, she was following ppl like donald & melania trump, candace owens (just a shit ton of conservative politicians lmao). but she has now unfollowed them and follows unbiased instagram accounts like nytimes, the washington post, politico, etc. it seems she is now able to form her own opinions and thoughts without her mom shoving her own views onto her.
I remember when you first spoke about these two, your reaction mirrored my own. Mental to expect a 6yo to make and remember her lunch. Love your reactions and talking on important subjects!
If they focused as much on being good parents instead of giving advice and tackling the school board over a portion of a song, not the part he blundered through, then a song or any other conflicting ideals their children face while LIVING in the world as we know it wouldn't actually be a problem because they would have taught them right from wrong within their value system, given them the skills, knowledge, insight and principles to navigate through these types of difficulties themselves...... seriously there's just so many things wrong with these two it's honestly tragic 🥴
8Passangers mom is very much like as my mom would have been if social media existed when I was a kid... There is a valid reason why kids go no contact with parent when they become adults and this is it. Especially when parents do pray the gay away crap (I still have bad nightmares and PTSD). Absolute nightmare people. I have now been no contact with my mom for several years and i have ZERO regrets. This mother and her mentality is toxic. This is the best reason to never talk to toxic parents. May karma run her and her ilk over.
I'm watching this September, 2023, a yr after this vid was posted. In light of the news and accusations, this is incredibly enlightening!!! Like, wow!!!
I've been out of the loop, but when I found out Ruby is Mormon everything started to make sense. People like this absolutely flourish in the LDS Church.
i wonder why no one has contacted CPS? as u can see in video's they doing child abuse by taking stuff away, dont give the lunch with her kid to school. And they try to be mental coaches and thats real dangerous with people like that
Child not having a bed is not considered child abuse by CPS unless the child is under 2, at least in the state of Texas. Also, missing ONE lunch isn't grounds for CPS in any state at all. CPS is a joke anyways. My mother CHOKED my sister and left bruises. CPS did nothing and ruled out the case. My ex had CPS on her for neglect as she kept her child in her room all day ignoring her (we broke up because of this) and they did nothing yet again even though she admitted it. CPS doesn't want to take away children anyways, that's not the goal. If the children aren't in IMMEDIATE danger they just put the parents through parenting classes. That's it. This is because studies have proven that even in unsavory circumstances, children thrive better with their parents than being rehomed. CPS number 1 goal is to keep the child in custody of the parents unless they're in immediate danger.
In the UK Polos are a round mint with a hole, do you have them in other countries? Also polo is a sport with horses, but I think that's more universally known. However there is no cure for mints or sport with horses 😂
I used to watch them a few years back and I 100% remember them talking about how little eve wouldn’t eat enough and was too small for her age etc and even spoke about hormones. Iv tried to look for it online but I can’t find it! It makes what they did with her lunch even worse! I remember trying to find it again a couple of times over the last year with no luck! Don’t know if they changed the title, it got lost in the amount the post or it was deleted. But My brain has no reason to make this up! I remember her on her bed and ruby trying to make her speak about it! I even remember speaking to my partner (who also remembers) because I was put on hormone blockers as a child and spoke about how hormone medication can be bad!
There's one video where she's talking about getting her kids something good to eat before they go to a movie and then she makes them line up to each get a bite of a banana. She peels it and then makes them get in line for their bite of one banana. It just breaks my heart.
How isn’t this child abuse 🤔 surely this mother should be under investigation. These children need protection and their mental health supported before they end up too far gone.
"how to help heal people with Polo" damn...Ralph Lauren's not about to be happy. But on a serious note, what an absolute monster of a so-called mother.
Exactly what she is…. Right up there with Jim Jones (the neighbors were afraid they would see the kids come out in “body bags”). That’s the reality of who this woman (and likely her husband) is.
Ruby became RESPONSIBLE for FEEDING AND SHELTERING her children when she became a mom and she doesn't take those responsibilities very seriously so why should anyone listen to this crazy woman? Those are the most basic of needs for children and she can't quite pull it off.
Amen! Aaaammmmen. It is scary how she does not comprehend the basics of being a guardian. 😞
Her husband too so let's not forget that
@@skyc.j4571 You are so correct. Her husband is not a victim in any of this. He is just as responsible. Thank you for bringing this up
@@skyc.j4571 I think everyone just forgets her husbands name so they don’t mention him LMAO. But yeah he’s just as responsible. They are both shitty parents.
This. Well said.
I pray that her children go completely non contact once they're old enough. They deserve to get away from her. How do you got to this woman for childcare advice, her methods are insane! She shouldn't have access to a public platform to spout the misinformation she spews like garbage.
To be fair, she’s going to raise some badass kids they’ll be super responsible and respectful like good good people because of what she taught them however they are going to hate her when they grow up.
I hope they sue her to recoup the wages she stole from them
@@MikeyD0 I bet they are gonna go crazy with the freedom and be the exact opposite of that
@@MikeyD0 have you never heard of teenage rebellion? These kids are going to end up never talking to their parents again bc they were abused. Her kids are NOT benefiting from her mothering.
@@MikeyD0 that’s not a given at all. I had a mother like this, and my upbringing has been more an obstacle to overcome than anything else. My grandparents’ influence was what kept me from completely imploding as a young adult, and I managed to get a degree and support myself. My siblings have not been as lucky, as she effectively cut them out of my grandparents’ lives. Now one has anger issues, has dropped out of community college, and has no conceivable means of supporting herself (and is about to be cut off). And the other has completely detached from reality, has destructive impulse control issues, and didn’t finish high school (and is also about to be completely cut off).
In addition to children learning consequences for bad behavior, they have to be given the space to be children/human. Children/humans are unable to be perfectly behaved at all times, and punishing them for forgetfulness, making mistakes, being unmotivated or uninterested in something they are forced to do, does so many levels of damage. Those kids may know how to survive within that household, but those survival skills will turn into crippling mental disorders in the real world, and I just hope they have the inner strength and presence of mind to seek help.
Callum. As a 40 year old woman, I do feel I might be slightly outside your target demographic. I would like to compliment you on your intelligence and maturity. I am truly happy there are people like you to counterweight all the horrible influence the youth is exposed to across social media. You calling out the horrendous behaviours is valuable. Thank you.
Agree. I am the same age and though I have not been able to be a bio mom. I have been a caretaker to countless kids and my nieces. I agree with Callum’s maturity. His parents did a pretty great job I.m.o. He has had a set of morals of kindness and inclusion that come out in his questioning others. But, he does it with a way that says, I disagree, and do not understand your side. … But I care regardless.
Any RUclips genre outside maybe a couple is dominated by kids in the demographic, nothing to feel worry about.
So true 💪
Love this comment
Wholesome 🥰
I didn’t realize when I clicked that this video is from a YEAR AGO. The warning signs were there, and I’m so sad it took so long for those kids to get away from these awful people.
Yeah, it went on for yearrs
Only two minutes in and you already get a like for 'Kevin's shiny head.' Brilliant.
Watching this a year later, when Ruby has been arrested and going to jail for child abuse. Holy crap really did hit the fan.
Whoever has/had parents like these I hope you are ok. Therapy and cutting the toxic people out of your life is a must (if you can/able to).
Yes! Mental health care IS health care. And everyone deserves it. 👏
My parents were like that, actually kinda worse. They both have passed away now and I had no feelings. My step dad died a painful death and I was ok with that. Karma.....
Currently trying. It’s hard as I am disabled but I’m trying to move out. I don’t even have full access to running water. It’s hell. Very complicate situation but just send out good vibes to me please 🥴
Trust me I had a mother like this honestly worse ,& we are not okay.
Nah, not ok but still living.
Looks like she suffered the natural consequences for her actions 😞
bingo
Imagine scolding a SIX YEAR OLD for forgetting their own lunch... and basically telling them, "Well sucks to be you. Deal with it."
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Right? And saying it's the child responsibility and fault. No lady.. it's your responsibility. That is your child. 6 year olds aren't responsible for taking care of themselves. You brought that child into the world and it is your duty and your responsibility to take care of them.
When I was 37 I forgot my work laptop at home which was my only work computer. I called my mom and she brought me my laptop. If the roles were reversed I would have totally done that for her. The 6 year old should have had her lunch.
Update she's been arrested. Thank. God. At least 2 counts of abuse on record that both serve 15 years of prison. But there's more to be found still. Her and Jodi could very quickly and easily, spend life in prison. Let's hope they do.
My six year old granddaughter would NEVER be held responsible for "packing her own lunch"...
6 year olds are "responsible" for being CHILDREN
I’m a 28 year old mother myself and my mom STILL will swing by and drop me off lunch at work randomly, that is what you do as a parent no matter the age. Facebook parenting groups are so fucking toxic and hers is on a higher level. She is a control freak and I hope one day her kids can work through all of the projection and trauma she’s inflicted on them. It’s heartbreaking. Your kids are humans and their own people that deserve respect, privacy, and choices. She’s fuckinG MENTAL
Once a parent, always a parent! Your comment is even more important now than ever before! Sing it from the rooftops! 👍🏼👍🏼
The fact people seriously go to these two for parenting advice is so wild to me
Also comparing coming out as trans is totally the same as doing drugs and crime, when I came out as NB I couldn't stop myself from committing petty theft and smoking the funny plant /s
Idk why you feel you need a title you’re literally just a person. Y’all who need titles are just making these little clubs and putting yourselves in a box making outside people think you’re different than any other person.
@@MikeyD0 do you get this upset when someone calls themselves a guy or girl too lol
@@AshenDalia no because boy or girl is a gender it’s necessary to distinguish the two in every day life however sexuality shouldn’t have to be a “group” they’re just people like everyone isn’t that what they want?
@@MikeyD0 non-binary isn't a sexuality, it's a gender lol
@@AshenDalia well I’m mildly rtarded I don’t even know what non binary is but I guess my statement applies to all the other letters
Is anyone here after ruby got arrested
I hope she sleeps on a bed of nails in jail 💅
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I never heard of this woman until she got arrested. And I wish I hadn't.
I grew up in foster care after my parents death. Only 2 of 4 of us survived being "wards of the court." CPS was involved. Church, school, family, neighbors, CPS looked the other way.
My surviving sister and I have a life sentance of Complex PTSD. You have to love being lectured by moral scolds who starve, humiliate, t and torture kids, the "loving father" participated, yet abandoned these kids for 13 months to these two psychos. And all along, they profited.
@@cindyschneider4728 me either. I never knew that RUclips allows the exploitation of children on their platform.
I’m here after she’s been convicted 😭😂
i absolutely HATE how transphobic & homophobic people say they’re doing it in “truth” & that everyone else is confused & distorted. why can’t you just accept people & love them for who they are? i’m a pastors kid & i can never come out as bisexual to them and that really sucks. :(
I'm sorry. I feel the same way. I'm in my late 30s and don't feel like I could tell my parents I am bi. If I was in a serious relationship with a woman, I would. But until then, I can't handle any more turmoil and conflict with them. Anyway, sending good vibes. I know it sucks and you aren't alone.
@@caseyw.6550 i’m sorry you have a similar situation to deal with :( know that you are heard & valid 🖤🖤🖤 i hope all good things come your way! 🥰🥰
Exactly. Just because YOU think a book from thousands of years ago should dictate every little thing in society doesn’t mean we do. It’s so disrespectful that she calls EVERYONE with a different belief system “living in distortion.” It takes a basic level of respect, maturity, and KNOWLEDGE to understand that NO belief system religious or not has been proven to be “the truth.”
I’m sorry to hear that. I read some of the stuff they were saying and it’s so sad. They just aren’t accepting, and using their principles to say they are in distortion or are destructive.
@@poison4303 exactly. & they always wanna talk about how they don’t wanna lose their freedom of religion and that they’re so discriminated against when they’re the ones disrespecting other religions and discriminating anyone who doesn’t fit into their idea of the “right way to live”
CPS should investigate EVERONE who has subscribed to her channels or her private FB group - there is a very good chance they are guilty of child abuse too
EVERYONE IN HER FAMILY ESPECIALLY THE ONES WHO ALSO HAVE FAMILY CHANNELS 💯
So true you are right !!!
I was a kid who watched them
She’s not crying about those lyrics;
She’s crying bc her kids are going to get views online & she’s not going to get any $ from it.
She’s crying because she didn’t get her way.
And considering she's going to leave them with nothing when they grow up, they need it.
Hahaha! Yup!
She’s crying because narcissists cannot deal when their demands are not catered to. It implodes the reality they have constructed where everything revolves around them. She’s so use to bullying her kids into whatever she wants it’s causing her actual mental trauma. Too bad it didn’t happen more often.
If you listen to her rant about the incident, which she has done multiple times, you'll realize she wasn't upset about the lyrics, nor her kids dancing. Ruby is your typical emotional vampire. She likes to cause scenes to upset people around her. This school worker was polite and accommodating during Ruby's entire rampage. Ruby wasn't able to get a reaction out of her no matter how much she escalated things. THAT is what infuriated Ruby. Ruby wanted to make this woman cry and the poor woman kept on smiling, no doubt having experienced many emotional vampires in her line of work and now knowing how to handle them. Ruby is a sadist.
As a mother to two grown daughters I think I have a right to say that the way this woman parents is atrocious. I raised both my girls with love, honesty, communication and respect. My girls have become two responsible well rounded adults who i am extremely proud of. And I achieved this without resorting to abusive punishments or denial of necessities like a packed lunch. The fact that some parents think she is a good example infuriates me.
This woman is genuinely delusional. I work in the childcare field. If any of my students came in without a lunch (I don’t care if they are middle school) heck even high school age; and the parents let’s them sit in hunger I’d go in on them. It’s unacceptable to let a kid not eat because they are too young to understand/take accountability for their health at that age.
i think by highschool or even late middle school, the kid should absolutely be capable of packing their own lunch; saying they couldnt would be like saying a second grader couldnt brush their own teeth. now, at 6, i'd argue that letting them go hungry is abuse
@@twinkiestar6538 at the end of the day, if a child is under the age of 18 the parent is responsible for ensuring they are fed and have all their needs met at least at the very basic level. Sure, by middle/secondary school a teen should be able to pack their own lunch but you can't as a parent tell them to starve because that is a form of neglect and if it happens enough times, as educators we have to report it (at least we do in Australia)
@@carlamottillo6250 right, and i agree with you! what i was trying to disagree with in the original post is the idea that by high-school/late middle school, the teen is too young to understand their needs; by that age i think that a general responsibility for their own lunch is reasonable, of course with the parents stepping in and helping if they forget (adults forget their lunch for work all the time, but they can leave to get something/order something, and kids cant.)
@@twinkiestar6538 Sorry, I misinterpreted your comment!
@@twinkiestar6538 I agree at that age they should know how and what will happen if they don’t but if they do forget mom and/or dad need to make sure they are fed. They are still underage so they are still not 100% responsible for their health yet.
As someone who has taken child development classes virtually everything she says is the exact opposite of what you should do. They are setting their kids up to go no contact or have a lot of resentment. When the kids get out of the house to go college or start their own lives they will realize how psycho their parents are.
It's already happening with Shari lol
The fact that she responded to the abortion question by blatantly admitting that she sees serious subjects in black and white, no gray areas, no considering all the facts.. it just shows that she is the LAST person who should be giving ANYONE advice. I wish people would just stop watching her sht so she would just stop making videos.
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She is a mormon no higher education not even have certified in mental health, what do yall expect?
Ewww. I didn’t even finish watching after i read this comment. As a borderline who actually has actual trouble trying to see gray areas I’ve trained myself to be able to see the whole picture. Which means black white gray and even the damn colors too shit. That’s absolutely no excuse for being an abusive military Sargent as a mother
Abortion is serious though? I don't agree with everything this woman believes or says but abortion is evil, no matter what circumstances a person's in I do have sympathy but the innocent baby growing inside isn't just nothing and useless. Let's call it what it really is, Pro Choicers are really just Pro Abortionists disguising as being for all choices yet not really considering the fact they oppose Pro lifers for sticking up for the Mum and innocent life growing inside.
She's a Mormon. She has to think that way.
Ruby is so obnoxiously grandiose and sanctimonious. Who TF died and made her the queen of righteousness?! I can’t imagine going through life believing I know so much about what’s better for the people around me and what they’ve endured in their lives.
I can’t take people like her seriously because their worlds and views are so limited, I immediately discount their input.
I can’t wait for her kids to rebel against her. It will be glorious.
Well my friend, you nailed it. Ruby just wanted a bunch of followers to validate her abuse. She reminds me of Lori Vallow Daybell. Both from Utah. Both LDS. Both wanted to be moral/spiritual teachers. Both knew they were horrible people who dont really care about their kids. Ruby did have the good sense to cry at her trial though, before trying to convince the world her child is a horrible person who deserved to be starved and bound.
I hate when people refer their to their opinions and beliefs as "the truth".
I'm okay with it, as long as there's some self awareness that everyone doesn't feel the same. You wouldn't believe in something if you didn't think it were true, but understand that you aren't the only person on the planet. Other ppl believe in their truths too. Sure, some things are true for everyone, but many things aren't her place to condemn others for.
I'm not saying it's bad to sometimes debate, when it's an appropriate time or situation cool; but she is nonstop self-righteousness. Never a moment of humility over the fact that maybe she doesn't hold all the answers and maybe she can learn, even a modicum, from others with a different opinion.
I'm a Christian and ppl like her truly piss me off. We aren't all that sanctimonious and uptight. Now I'm all annoyed and need a drink 😅
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The truth only has one side. What you are referring to are beliefs and opinions, which shouldn't be confused with the actual truth. I can say that water isn't wet and call it my truth, but it doesn't make it true.
@@RuminatingRaptor Really quick, Belief & Truth aren't mutually exclusive. You can believe in something that is true. I believe our bodies need oxygen to survive. It's both a belief and a truth.
Regardless, I said when you believe in something it is true to "you." True to you doesn't mean "the truth." My point was that you believe in things you think are true. If you didn't think something were true you wouldn't believe in it. Whether or not those things are true is besides my point. That's why I made a point of saying "their" truth vs "the" truth.
The only truth I can see is Jody shouldn’t be a counsellor.
“Helped heal people with POLO” - seems like a trustworthy source
Yes, and the other woman said "intervenious" drugs. Its intravenous, lady.
They can't even get being wrong right.
I thought my brain just misheard that!! 🤣🤣🤣
Thought she said polio and went crazy
i was looking for other people who heard that 😂
Omg the "innervenous" from the other lady was driving me crazy! I had to check the comments to see if anyone else caught that. I actually tried to look it up to see if it was actually a word. (Its not 😂) Then I got to polo and was like "aight imma head out" 😭😂
Markie your video has examples of how much the father was aware of. As you know he’s doing his best to come across as ‘innocent’ and unknowing - he is full of it. Well done
ruby be like "my child, practically a baby, must face the consequences of forgetting her lunch"
you know, because kids have full awareness and remember what they're supposed to do all the time. pay your rent, kiddo, you're practically middle-aged now, welcome to the REAL WORLD where we abuse our children and give terrible advice in an echo chamber
Especially since her kids are paying literally all the bills in their house…. They should have more respect for the forced breadwinners.
@@Tamdietz Gotta love that child exploitation!
Edit: No I didn't watch this video. The Franke's cause so much anger inside me I just cannot deal with seeing their faces right now.
THE CHILD WAS FOUR (or 5?). Like that kid was barely potty trained at that point, forget about them making & bringing their own food. The Franke's and Jodi are insane.
Let's not forget that her husband a supposed adult only learned recently that you can do things for your wife just to be nice. He admitted in a video that I'm pretty sure Markie covered where he admits that he only ever did nice things for his wife expecting sex as a reward for like doing the dishes without asking, but now he has learned, and now he just does them because that's what adults should do.
It’s almost like we’re legally obligated to take care of children because they don’t understand the consequences of their actions. They are literally new people. Of course they’re not good at adulting.
as a mother it infuriates me that ruby became a mother. when you have a child you are responsible for feeding them and providing for their needs, including needing love and affection. she turns a cold shoulder on her children and fails to realize how much damage she does by doing this. yes, you raise children to prepare them for life… that being said, life doesn’t start at 6! her children will one day leave and never come back. she’s insane to think that she’s benefiting her children by raising them like this.
this woman induces absolute rage in me
Same she fills me with a rage I didn't know I had. 🤣
Me too. I pray she gets the karma she deserves.
This family is so aggravating. Even as an adult I’ve forgotten my lunch money and I definitely panicked when I was about to clock out for lunch and realized. These are children... I’d hate to be born into a house where you very clearly are not allowed to make mistakes 😳
Apparently my parents were a part of this group in the 90s, sending me to a school that offered hot lunch, not paying for it because it was a little extra, sending me with a moisture soaked sandwich that had been getting soggy in a bag for 6 hours. No PBandJ. No chips, no crackers just something absolutely inedible. Sending me to the pool with no sunscreen, getting horribly burnt, sending to the lake things without a change of clothes/shoes being absolutely soaked for hours. Let's just say I'm a fanatic about making sure my kids are comfortable.
You had food.
@@alpal87Inedible disgusting food
“Helped heal people with ✨polo✨”
So inspiring she was able to help people find truth through their difficult fashion choices 🥰
Oh I thought she was curing people through horse-based sports....
I'm interested in what 'innovenous' drugs are too
Would I be the arsehole if I imagined putting a shock collar around Ruby's neck and I push the button every time she says truth, responsibility, principle? Okay cool, I'll be the arsehole, worth it.
justified AH 😂😂
Djdjjdjj lol- I don't blame you for wanting to so that, those words are basically all of her arguments tbh-
That'd be nothing compared to what she did thus far.
How the hell do drugs and stealing have anything to do with a female wanting to be addressed with male Pronouns/ being called a male?
Nutjobs 😭
I don’t know the exact religion they follow but I know some think all sins are the same level of bad, I’m not saying being trans is bad tho that’s just what some religions say
His mother thinks that the Transgenders have indoctrinated him and now that her child is A Trans he will slide down the very slippery slope of Drugs, Sex, and Alcohol. Obviously.
(capitalized words are mocking, of course)
@@Zeelovesdinos They're mormons
@@hahudi9645 tbh don’t know nothing about Mormons
It drives me crazy how Ruby never explains wtf “principles” are or what this “truth” is. Like, I have watched so many of her teachings and I feel like that’s how she excuses everything but never actually defines them
This might be a stretch but I feel she never explains what principals or truth are because she lacks the ability to see things from other people's perspectives. So because of that she assumes her values and the knowledge of her principles are universal. And that anyone who disagrees with her is lying to themselves or "not living in truth". Idk if that makes sense or not. The closest thing I can think of to compare it to is how little children say they'll draw a picture and when they go to show you they'll face it towards themselves instead of outward to you because they can't developmentally understand the concept of you as a separate being who can't see what they're looking at (I know there's a term for it I just Can't think of it). I don't know if that makes sense or not.
@@mollymeadows5849 yup
@@mollymeadows5849 The term for it is theory of mind. Ruby lacks theory of mind.
You have to know LDS lingo to understand. It's used all the time in the LDS Church. Standing for truth and righteousness. Truth being the meaning of Christian principles. Ten commandments. Abortion would be under the shell not kill.
Trans and homosexuals would be in there as sins as well.
Principles of standing for the right meaning biblical teachings. You also have to know the culture of the LDS church to know that many things are considered sins to them that are not for the rest of the world.
Purity culture sexual sin.
Drinking alcohol swearing. Other Orthodox religions are very similar.
The holding of what they believe is truth and righteousness above other people's perspectives or teachings because it's biblical.
The more Orthodox the religion a lot of times the more literal they receive the teachings of the Bible.
It’s actually pretty simple, “Truth” is agreeing with Jodi at all times. She doesn’t like something? Truth! has a dream that she decided is reality? Truth!
IT IS SO BAD!! My friend joined for fun some weeks ago & has kept me posted. I can safely say I've never felt so much rage towards someone I don't even know.
Work in a school and I know for a fact that if a student, especially a five year old, said they did not have a lunch, the student would not be allowed to go hungry. The mother has her priorities, but we would not be able to let a student go hungry and I would personally contact DCF if a parent told me to let their child go hungry.
Kids need food to fuel their bodies so they can LEARN! And she’s 6!!!!
Please update us if your disguise fails and ruby boots you from the group 😂
He was. Lol
@@jesssecrest3719 yesss I saw 😂
You jinx'd it! XD
Concerning the lunches, kids that age simply CANNOT make a lunch for themselves!! Yes, maybe they can help but not make it completely!! COME ON YOU ARE THE MOTHER CHECK THEIR BAGS BEFORE THEY LEAVE THE HOME!!! No wonder the teacher was "Uncomfortable" I would be just as concerned as well.
The fact that she called polio “polo” really says it all
We do need someone to cure polo. I mean wtf kind of sport is that
I hate how children's, gender identity is always compared to drugs. The role of a parent Is to love your child unconditionally, it's not that hard if that child wants to go by different pronouns.
I know many children would kill to have supportive family's, and parents wonder why the trans suicide rate/attempts is so high.
Like be a decent human being. Comming from a trans person
Right? Neglecting and invalidating your kid is more likely to make them turn to drugs than anything
for real. it's also that irritating "just a phase" argument, like, even if it is, so what? shouldn't you support your child as they explore their identity and respect them regardless?
As an uncle, yes I would be sad if my niece ended up murdering or doing drugs, but not being trans, so that evil mother's reaction to it is immediately invalidated. And I've said this so many times, and I'm tired of saying why it's wrong, but until it stops, I will not let them get away with saying that.
i hate it so much, especially when transitioning as a young child has nothing to do with hormones or puberty blockers, its literally maybe buying some new clothes, a new hairstyle, and using new pronouns. it’s not that fucking deep
i came out to my mom a few years ago when i was 16, she said she was gonna put me in a mental hospital lmao so now i’m back in the closet, it really fucking sucks
I understand making kids take responsibility for their actions and to teach them how to manage money but no kid should be left to starve until they're old enough to actually know how to budget (so maybe 16 or so plus, cause kids under than age know how to spend all their money on sweets and wont ever take into account actual essentials). Also, kids are growing, they need to eat a lot so you can't take away a meal at such a crucial meal.
Yes, you can say that your kid can pack their own lunch and everything but, even as an adult, you can have a second option (maybe ring a friend or someone to bring lunch in to work, or go away from your workplace to buy lunch out, etc).
She's got the ideas for how to teach your kids but she can't pull it off
I love how street-smart all of Ruby Franke's kids will turn out to be. They'll know how to escape from being restrained, how to talk to police, how to testify in court, etc... Brilliant parenting!
Dear God.... I feel so badly for thier kids and how messed up they will be in the real world. Me in 5th grade- could sing the entire Sir Mix-A-Lot "Baby got back" as I hip trusted to the "my anaconda don't want none unless you got buns, hun" didn't turn into a sex crazed maniac in my adult life- its a song lady. The only certainty they are giving thier children is therapy, a warped and damaged understanding of human sexuality, and shame for thier own bodies. I 100% myself don't think I could ever go through an abortion it makes me sick to think of a parent watching thier daughter suffer the torment and trauma of a forced pregnancy if raped. The abuse that continues to happen daily under the guise of "religion" is awful.
Half of that Facebook group is just people wanting to see how awful the group is
Probably 😂
yep it is lol. and most of them are from Reddit.
Or maybe just a bunch of Trashy moms who play Fortnite
@@RestingBeachFace721 hold on not all moms who play Fortnite is trashy🥴
@@KANDI- Lmao my friend follows it and that’s true it’s mostly people from Reddit talking shhh on there 😂🤣😂🤣
I’m just here for the sarcasm 😂😂😂 I love how sarcastic you are! Thanks for calling these monsters out.
11:10 boiled my blood. i have had 10 pregnancies total at age 23. i’ve had 5
miscarriages, 3 abortions & 2 full term pregnancies and my kids are ages 2 & 3. pregnancy & parenthood is not for everyone. i would never force anyone to go through that if they weren’t able or wanting to. banning abortions only bans SAFE abortions, causes higher death rate in mothers & babies during pregnancy or labor, more kids in the already overflowing foster care system, more abusive households, more substance abuse, more self harm, higher suicide rates, overpopulation, etc. but they don’t care about that do they??
@Snufkin Mumrik EXACTLY not to mention if they’re low class or immigrant kids they couldn’t give less of a fuck about them once they’re born & the sad thing is a lot of low class uterus owners are the ones getting abortions so they really only care about controlling their bodies then turn their back. oh yeah and not to mention they don’t wanna have free health care, don’t want to do anything to have stricter gun regulations to stop or lessen school shootings, don’t want to provide mental health care for low class children & their parents, etc.
EXACTLY
YES!!
You act as if abortion is the only way of insuring that people who absolutely can't go through a pregnancy or do not want to, can make sure it doesn't happen. We don't live in the middle ages, there are many, many ways of making sure pregnancy doesn't happen!
@Snufkin Mumrik Explain yourself
.....because you are ABSOLUTELY WRONG!!
I would not doubt that her childhood was structured to the point where she had to internalize any emotion because adults are right and children do what adults say. Now when she is contradicted by other adults she acts almost childish since she doesn't know how to process the emotions. Its like she doesn't know that Adults can be wrong, even her.
They're going to be the type of parents who wonder why their adult children no longer talk to them.
No they won’t, they’ll be happy their kids are no longer near them with their distortion
Yup
@@Gohappygirl yup
@@Gohappygirl Unless they feel sad that they lose someone to exploit.
@@WillieManga they’ve stopped exploiting them
"Healed people with polo"
I thought polo was a sport, not a disease. Is she going to cure people with croquet next?
Healing the people with lacrosse, one player at a time 🙏
Whooo, coming in from September 2023, this aged so well. Kevin’s shiny head had me cracking up. But really it needs to be in jail with the other two monsters.
Thank you for clarifying that the lady didn’t want to cure polo. I was confused for a second.
This full on a mini-cult. It’s disturbing. And the really awful thing is that the remaining members are still out there abusing their kids.
5:22 - anyone else notice this person prefaces her stance with "if you don't agree with me, it's because you are broken and wrong so I hope you will be humble enough to accept the truth - not "my truth" but "the truth". That right there is textbook gaslighting. Run.
Whoever is out there deleting comments and blocking people from saying the truth on the Connexions channel while Jodi and Ruby are in custody -- protecting these women makes you complicit.
I went to write the same thing on their channel and now their channel is deleted. Hopefully it’s being heavily monitored
Oh man! Such good timing! I hope a lot more people see this and considering what’s going on today with this family, it’s apropos!
as a trans man, trust me. that kid is imploding. he’s hurting really badly because his mother isn’t supporting him. that kid might be lashing out, might be having extreme mental health issues, because they’re not in a safe space, clearly.
respecting a trans person’s identity is literally f*cking life saving.
❤️
happy late pride month :)
i’m non-binary myself ❤
It truly is life saving
The child isn’t real. It’s invented
The abortion comment actually infuriates me. I was raped by my eldest child's father during our relationship in my sleep while we were also actively trying to convince. I still WANTED her. I developed postpartum psychosis and attempted suicide 4 months postpartum due to my struggles accepting my situation. At 3 months postpartum I realized he had lie to me about what happened in my sleep and he actually assaulted me. When I told my mother and started to debate reporting him, she TOLD HIM and when he came to pick her up HE NEVER GAVE HER BACK. (It's been 10 months now.)
I have to share custody with my rapist. Not only that, but he's currently MAIN CUSTODIAL because of my postpartum psychosis and suicide attempt which I probably wouldn't have ever developed had I not been raped.
I've already decided if I were to ever be assaulted and conceived again, I'd have an abortion no questions asked.
I'm not going to destroy my mental health when I have a child to care for. I have to live for HER. I'm HER mother first.
There are very FEW states that prevent having to share custody with your rapist. This is unfair and disgusting to enforce on victims.
Anyone who hasn't become pregnant due to assault shouldn't even have an opinion.
I wanted my baby. I was lied to about being assaulted. I didn't know I was lied to until after we broke up. I reported my assault 3 months postpartum. The cops refuse to press charges because I waited so long and gave birth to his child. I'm still trying to save money to have an attorney file and take it to court but it'll cost me THOUSANDS. And in the meantime, he has my daughter and keeps her from me.
My case isn't unique at all. I'm in a noncustodial mom group for victims of assault. There's hundreds of us all across the United States. We all have a similar story. We were assaulted and even though we choose to keep our pregnancies, our mental health following our assaults were used against us to LOOSE custody.
Thankfully, my psychiatrist backs me up and while the custody case is still open she is doing everything in her power to show I'm healthy and stable enough to care for my child. Especially now that I'm pregnant with my second and I'm now at RISK loosing custody of this child BECAUSE of this custody case. Once you loose custody of ONE child as a mother, that's grounds enough in some states to take away ALL future children.
We punish victims when we force them to keep pregnancies. We punish victims when we don't set up resources for metal health. We punish victims when we take away their children for ptsd or postpartum disorders that are being actively treated. We punish victims when we force them to share custody with their abusers. We punish victims when we award primary custody to abusers.
This is real life, and it's sick.
Have you checked to see if there are any organizations that offer pro bono work near you? You also may be able to find an attorney that would work out a payment plan for you as this is such a serious case. I hope things improve for you 💕
@@TheReducedsodium Like I said, this has been ongoing for 10 months. I've exhausted all my local resources. I didn't comment for advise, I commented for awareness. But thank you for the kindness.
Im so sorry for what you've been through. I went through exactly the same thing. He got custody of him too due to the p.p.p it was brutal. 4 years I fought in court using my house,car and pretty much selling everything I owned. While he had him I trained to be an outreach worker at a children's centre helping young and vulnerable families. I did child first aid,child and adolescent psychology & trained up to be a safeguarding officer. All at home,all while studying family law and what the courts wanna hear. I went back and applied and represented myself. I won custody that same year. He's 18 in 9 days. Its not been easy but It's been worth it. I have b.p.d and cptsd but I took more than enough case law on why they shouldn't use mh against u unless it affects ur parenting directly,as in neglect emotional abuse etc. If u ever need to talk plz feel free to grab my email off my page xx
@@3musketeersmum Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so happy for hear you won. You were strong ❤ And a very happy birthday to him.
I am very respectfully, and carefully asking, how would things be easier if you now had to live with the fact that you terminated your own child's life? You would not have known about the custody problems, PPD etc because you never experienced it because the child never was born. Instead, you would have to live with the knowledge that you killed your child because of a rape that the child had nothing to do with. The guilt from that can also drive you to depression. It seems (I could be wrong of course) that it would be better to aim the anger, hate etc at the real criminal, the rapist instead of putting some of it on you for ending an innocent child's life.
I'm not taking parenting advice from parents who nurture an online presence, like... Good parents don't post on facebook all day.
Ruby should be the last person any parents take advice from!
Yes!! So glad none of her siblings are anything like her!!
Ah this video aged like fine wine
What does being transsexual have anything to do with using drugs? How random. These women are on a power trip. Some people just have too much time on their hands. This is what we’ve become. Wealthy and bored.
For real. I would NOT have the same reaction/response to those 2 things. I’d meet them both with empathy and support- other than that nothing is comparable there.
It’s 100% a cult! I’ve been following it for a while, and they are basically spewing hate speech.
they have nothing to do with eachother. But being a drug addict is one of the worst things to be compared too so that’s why they do it. So trans people can be seen as less then.
Her niece was interviewed on another channel, she had custody of her as a teen. Abusive would be an understatement! She said her niece was using things too. She wasn't and wouldn't have had a chance of getting away from her, dr*** absolutely not.
i honestly don’t know why cps isn’t involved with this okay maybe their situation could be worse but also this isn’t a way to care for ur children by taking away diner,letting her kids starve if they don’t pack their lunch,taking away basically basic stuff they needs as a punishment is a no
They are part of a big wealthy Mormon family. There’s about eight RUclips channels among them. Oddly enough, the other family’s channels don’t show Ruby any longer. I’m sure their status in their Utah area keeps them safe from CPS.
I about spit my food out when she had THE NERVE to say " and some people even profit off of being not humble" and goes on about how people can value fame and money and what they can get through manipulation lolll wow. Also, why is she going on about lying and being deceiving when they are talking about someone trying to figure out their body (gender). smh
The bit at the end made me choke on my tea, thank you for a chuckle and the light misting of tea over my screen 🤣🤣🤣
She was so angry after trying to own the principal, but couldn't !!! She is able to rule over her children, but when she wasn't able to rule over the principal it destroyed her.
Imagine being so entitled and self-righteous that you think all of your personal OPINIONS are "truth" and actively start referring to them as such, and anyone who doesn't share the same opinion is "delusional" lmao wow
Edit: sorry.. "live in distortion" was the exact phrase
Funny because when I heard about the Tik Tok thing I was actually agreeing with her I was like yeah that song is inappropriate even when it’s cut up and you don’t hear the sexual parts. Until I realized the daughter in question was in high school… and not elementary school.
I saw the video and the dance. Very appropriate. The only lyrics used was the part all the kids sing. “Apple bottom jeans and the boots with the fur. The whole club looking at her. Shawty got low low low.” The teacher was so careful she even took out the word Damn from another song.
Spoiler: she does get held accountable in the end.
Wait…did she call polio, POLO? Did I hear that right?
Also, just FYI: as a Jew, I just happen to know that my religion is based on many principles of truth as well, one being, supporting abortion rights. The life of the mother specifically is mentioned as being needed to be preserved above all else.
I got pissed because moving your arms couldn’t heal polio
But yeah i wouldn’t trust someone who calls polio “polo” like a polo shirt lmao
I really hope that her daughter was given a lunch by someone at school . If I was the teacher and had to tell a 6 year old she couldn't have a lunch because her mum wouldn't bring it it would break my heart.
I can't believe parents like this exist and don't feel even feel shame. She infuriates me.
People like this scare me. I’m a mom and grandma and I can’t imagine ever being this cruel to any child or fellow human. What happened to these folks for them to even imagine they know the “truth” and are qualified to serve up their twisted views as advise to other parents? Do they actually believe the crap they’re spewing? Their poor kids, and all the mom followers that are allowing this poison into their minds and spreading to their own children. This will not end well.
They are Mormon...that's what happened to them.
Just from the title I want to say, you're truly a hero young one 😌😂
for anyone that cares lol, shari seems to be going through a mini redemption arc?? before she left her parents house for college, she was following ppl like donald & melania trump, candace owens (just a shit ton of conservative politicians lmao). but she has now unfollowed them and follows unbiased instagram accounts like nytimes, the washington post, politico, etc. it seems she is now able to form her own opinions and thoughts without her mom shoving her own views onto her.
Shari posted on the Facebook group with a question. She still hasn’t escaped ruby unfortunately.
She is far too intelligent to be stuck with rubys beliefs forever, i bet it’s just really hard on her because she’s been parentified so much
Ok thank god. I hope the others manage to escape too.
She goes to BYU though, so I don’t have a lot of hope.
This mindset thinking is very coming in Utah😭 she goes to byu and I reassure you it will only confirm this though processes 💀 but hopefully not
Did she just called polio….polo? Also…Jodi scares me…like a lot. I have a very very bad feeling about her. Also low is used in kid movies.
She homeschooled her kids and really called it “polo” 😂
I remember when you first spoke about these two, your reaction mirrored my own. Mental to expect a 6yo to make and remember her lunch. Love your reactions and talking on important subjects!
a year later and this is super relevant
@08:31 - “Polo”…🤦🏼♀️
They were cured of mints disease were they? 😆😂
"I feel very special" 😊
Just the face you made 😂 it was adorable I'm sorry lol
I sure hope they both suffer the natural consequences for what they've done. Please let justify be served.
If they focused as much on being good parents instead of giving advice and tackling the school board over a portion of a song, not the part he blundered through, then a song or any other conflicting ideals their children face while LIVING in the world as we know it wouldn't actually be a problem because they would have taught them right from wrong within their value system, given them the skills, knowledge, insight and principles to navigate through these types of difficulties themselves...... seriously there's just so many things wrong with these two it's honestly tragic 🥴
Love your dry humour and your straightforward approach. You definitely have a new subscriber.
Such culty language. Distortion, truth, humble …and that witch just easily speaks that way.
Because that is the language of the Mormon CULT.
Her saying "tHaTs ThE nAtUrAl CoNsEqUeNcE" no ruby. It's not natural. You are just mean.
Most mammals feed their kids. So it is far from natural to neglect that.
8Passangers mom is very much like as my mom would have been if social media existed when I was a kid... There is a valid reason why kids go no contact with parent when they become adults and this is it. Especially when parents do pray the gay away crap (I still have bad nightmares and PTSD). Absolute nightmare people. I have now been no contact with my mom for several years and i have ZERO regrets. This mother and her mentality is toxic. This is the best reason to never talk to toxic parents. May karma run her and her ilk over.
I'm watching this September, 2023, a yr after this vid was posted.
In light of the news and accusations, this is incredibly enlightening!!! Like, wow!!!
I've been out of the loop, but when I found out Ruby is Mormon everything started to make sense. People like this absolutely flourish in the LDS Church.
I came here to say this. Thank You!
i wonder why no one has contacted CPS? as u can see in video's they doing child abuse by taking stuff away, dont give the lunch with her kid to school.
And they try to be mental coaches and thats real dangerous with people like that
Child not having a bed is not considered child abuse by CPS unless the child is under 2, at least in the state of Texas. Also, missing ONE lunch isn't grounds for CPS in any state at all.
CPS is a joke anyways. My mother CHOKED my sister and left bruises. CPS did nothing and ruled out the case. My ex had CPS on her for neglect as she kept her child in her room all day ignoring her (we broke up because of this) and they did nothing yet again even though she admitted it.
CPS doesn't want to take away children anyways, that's not the goal. If the children aren't in IMMEDIATE danger they just put the parents through parenting classes. That's it. This is because studies have proven that even in unsavory circumstances, children thrive better with their parents than being rehomed. CPS number 1 goal is to keep the child in custody of the parents unless they're in immediate danger.
people have contacted cps, they did a check up & supposedly found nothing
This video has aged well 😂 I hope they get 30 years
Markie, I gotta disagree with ya here--she was talking about the woman who healed people with POLO. 😂😂😂
I lost it when she said polo 🤣🤣
In the UK Polos are a round mint with a hole, do you have them in other countries? Also polo is a sport with horses, but I think that's more universally known. However there is no cure for mints or sport with horses 😂
@@DrT0705 🤣🤣🤣🤣we don't have the mints here (northeastern US), but I was picturing a polo player 💀💀
Honestly if I was a teacher who had to deal with Ruby I genuinely think I’d resign. Life is too short to deal with her 😂
You should report her to child services, not quit!
I know she didn’t just say polo instead of polio 😂
Actually tears. I am in pain from giggling like a lunatic.
I used to watch them a few years back and I 100% remember them talking about how little eve wouldn’t eat enough and was too small for her age etc and even spoke about hormones. Iv tried to look for it online but I can’t find it! It makes what they did with her lunch even worse! I remember trying to find it again a couple of times over the last year with no luck! Don’t know if they changed the title, it got lost in the amount the post or it was deleted. But My brain has no reason to make this up! I remember her on her bed and ruby trying to make her speak about it! I even remember speaking to my partner (who also remembers) because I was put on hormone blockers as a child and spoke about how hormone medication can be bad!
There's one video where she's talking about getting her kids something good to eat before they go to a movie and then she makes them line up to each get a bite of a banana. She peels it and then makes them get in line for their bite of one banana. It just breaks my heart.
WHAT?!?!?🤦♀️
These women are insane. I cannot imagine taking parenting advice from either of them 😕
How isn’t this child abuse 🤔 surely this mother should be under investigation. These children need protection and their mental health supported before they end up too far gone.
Ruby doesn't make any sense, she wants to appear intelligent and she's not.
"how to help heal people with Polo" damn...Ralph Lauren's not about to be happy. But on a serious note, what an absolute monster of a so-called mother.
Incredible how this woman who had child flee her with duct tape on his ankles is giving out parenting advice
Funny this popped up. I saw the group on the subreddit and joined it the other day 😂 it’s WILD
Listening to Ruby talk is almost like listening to a cult leader
Exactly what I thought. She sounds mad.
And by mad I mean crazy not angry
Exactly what she is…. Right up there with Jim Jones (the neighbors were afraid they would see the kids come out in “body bags”). That’s the reality of who this woman (and likely her husband) is.
She's Mormon. That says it all.
So much culty vibes these days from all directions.