The TRUTH about moving to Pakistan from abroad

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
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  • @Curiosminds293
    @Curiosminds293 3 года назад +422

    The guy who said " mard bano, really gets me angry " has my heart. He's adorable.
    Highly sensitive people are too often perceived as weaklings or damaged goods. To feel intensely is not a symptom of weakness, it is the trademark of the truly alive and compassionate. It is not the empath who is broken, it is society that has become dysfunctional and emotionally disabled. There is no shame in expressing your authentic feelings. Those who are at times described as being a ‘hot mess’ or having ‘too many issues’ are the very fabric of what keeps the dream alive for a more caring, humane world. Never be ashamed to let your tears shine a light in this world.

    • @hassanwarraich7420
      @hassanwarraich7420 3 года назад +2

      💯💯💯💯

    • @hassanwarraich7420
      @hassanwarraich7420 3 года назад +1

      @Sameer Shah loved ur story and part...u are awesome

    • @allyxayn
      @allyxayn 3 года назад +4

      I felt him too. I can relate to how it can be hard for us empaths to actually connect and be open about our feelings with the people who are either too judgy, snarky, critical and whatnot. Emotions, or to be sensitive and perceptive of one's emotions shouldn't classify one as any less of a man, that's hella sexist and ridiculous. God, people!

    • @nuranichoudhury9226
      @nuranichoudhury9226 3 года назад

      @Sameer Shah u will overcome this... ❤❤❤time is a healer Evan though it does not feel like that.

    • @simrahsabiha6378
      @simrahsabiha6378 3 года назад +1

      same tat broke my heart as well like wth

  • @hamzayasir1901
    @hamzayasir1901 3 года назад +171

    The guy who was talking about the school system was VERY RIGHT!

  • @areebarizwan7495
    @areebarizwan7495 3 года назад +146

    SUCH AN EYE OPENER I think many of us Pakistanis have never thought about this perspective. Always be respectful to other people YOU HAVE NO IDEA what they r going through

    • @zohashahid30984
      @zohashahid30984 3 года назад

      No i have lived in pakistan my whole life but even i have experienced these issues

  • @usamaahmedfilms
    @usamaahmedfilms 3 года назад +69

    I am actually shocked to see how much messed up we are. kindly people be nice to everyone. Thats the primary lesson of Islam also. Thanks

  • @hammadurreheman4383
    @hammadurreheman4383 3 года назад +597

    I agree with the 2 out of 10 educational system

    • @hamzamemon8720
      @hamzamemon8720 3 года назад +19

      Depends on the school you go to.

    • @MariyaMubashir
      @MariyaMubashir 3 года назад +1

      best of everything yeah

    • @abdulmoiz6256
      @abdulmoiz6256 3 года назад +28

      That's a bit generous honestly. I'd give it a 1/10.

    • @MariyaMubashir
      @MariyaMubashir 3 года назад +1

      Abdul Moiz lol

    • @usmanriaz824
      @usmanriaz824 3 года назад +1

      best of everything no no no
      So the school i went to for my matric had this weird ratta system where they would beat the kids
      we had this 1 mcq wrong with a 25 sticks on the ass punishment system
      We wore 3 underwears and 2 trousers under our pants. We got great grades but it was awful and it still scare me .
      They only used the stick on hands in the girls section but that was technically worse as they wouldnt cover it during winter

  • @qaimabatool451
    @qaimabatool451 3 года назад +470

    We need to solve these issues to make our country an international level country✨but these can only be solved by unity and our country lacks unity⚠️

    • @ijazahmed2705
      @ijazahmed2705 3 года назад +1

      Unfortunately....true

    • @ahmadjabran76
      @ahmadjabran76 3 года назад +2

      Great video, you're extremely talented. Please keep it up.

    • @Grimmm-iv4bi
      @Grimmm-iv4bi 3 года назад +7

      Pakistan is great but I can't understand the parents. It just doesn't make sense to leave new Zealand. You've objectively reduced the opportunities for your children and it's possible when they're old enough they'll leave you and go back.

    • @Omarshafiqvlogs
      @Omarshafiqvlogs 3 года назад +6

      Grimmm1234 ok so many parents decided to move to Pakistan because they feel that the environment in these countries is not a good place for Muslim children to grow up in especially high school due to drinking and many other things.

    • @qaimabatool451
      @qaimabatool451 3 года назад +2

      @@yahyaali8013 yes no doubt but to prove our love we need to do something good for it❤️

  • @jenniferreese6805
    @jenniferreese6805 3 года назад +154

    I am from Minnesota, USA. My husband lives in Pakistan. The first time I went to Pakistan I was so nervous. But the people there are honestly so kind and made me feel so welcomed. Yes people stared. And it is a big culture shock. But you learn to love it. It really is a beautiful country. Great video. Love it

    • @laibamujtaba617
      @laibamujtaba617 3 года назад +4

      Love you sis. From Pakistan

    • @ameerbux5754
      @ameerbux5754 3 года назад +5

      Thankyou jennifer god bless

    • @arianagrandaremix8858
      @arianagrandaremix8858 3 года назад

      idk what ppl u met lol
      but anyway
      things are not like that here

    • @hassanjama6609
      @hassanjama6609 3 года назад

      @@arianagrandaremix8858 It kinda is Im also from minnesota, usa and have been living here for 3years and people tend to stare a lot here.

    • @arianagrandaremix8858
      @arianagrandaremix8858 3 года назад

      @@hassanjama6609 💁‍♀️dont worry since ur a convert ppl won't do anything
      Pakistan is a beautiful welcoming place if ur a straight Muslim convert

  • @whoissib5065
    @whoissib5065 3 года назад +49

    Even paskitanis agree w the education system thing 💀

  • @adeel_7998
    @adeel_7998 3 года назад +129

    RUclips is getting real comfortable with them 2 unskippable ads

  • @khansahb8
    @khansahb8 3 года назад +286

    You know, it's very interesting, whatever you people are feeling about Pakistan, I felt about America when I first moved here. Probably your parents had the same anxieties when they left Pakistan that you had when going there. In a way, its a universal immigrant's experience.

    • @lizape8673
      @lizape8673 3 года назад +43

      Totally agree man, it’s just not about Pakistan , it happens to every one who moves to another country.

    • @amir_sopinion
      @amir_sopinion 3 года назад +14

      I totally agree with you. It happens to anyone moving away from their country of birth. It’s not about whether the country they left is more developed or civilized. Can’t blame the people and culture. Similar issues are in England, USA or Canada for example. You can live 20 years of your life but still itch to get back home. I do understand the offsprings identity crisis which can only be resolved by moving to parents country only if they wish to remain connected to their roots. Let’s be honest regardless of your citizenship you are still a Pakistani. Peace out

    • @psychologytoday1521
      @psychologytoday1521 3 года назад +7

      you're so right..I moved to Canada when I was young and during the video i actually said this out loud like "this is how i was feeling when i moved to Canada!"

    • @ammanshah3613
      @ammanshah3613 3 года назад +4

      Same for me with England

    • @sumirashah6136
      @sumirashah6136 3 года назад +2

      So true

  • @hello.309
    @hello.309 3 года назад +15

    I was born in pakistan but moved to UK from karachi so could speak fluent urdu. Eventhough I hv many friends here I will still move back when I'm older as it is the number 1 hospitable country.

  • @ferozwaseem3468
    @ferozwaseem3468 3 года назад +46

    Well it kinda feels sad how y'all feel about Pakistan. Ngl but we Pakistanis still have a lot to learn. I hope we can catch up soon and maybe make this country, a home for everyone.

  • @ayeshamhaseeb9690
    @ayeshamhaseeb9690 3 года назад +257

    Am I the only one crying while watching them miss their home

    • @a7m1dr
      @a7m1dr 3 года назад +1

      LMAO

    • @anvenator2799
      @anvenator2799 3 года назад +1

      You're so not alone

    • @mariamkamran4937
      @mariamkamran4937 3 года назад +3

      anajsj i was too and i definitely thought i was crazy bc i haven’t experienced such a situation but it was so sad!

    • @sweetiegirl4637
      @sweetiegirl4637 3 года назад +1

      I am crying too😭😭😭😭

    • @muazulhassan2930
      @muazulhassan2930 3 года назад +1

      me too I don't know why.

  • @Gamer-wn6ky
    @Gamer-wn6ky 3 года назад +73

    Please do a part 2 I feel like there a lot of other kids like us who would also love to share their story.

  • @leonardandrew1925
    @leonardandrew1925 3 года назад +35

    Pakistani ppl r amazing but they just vibe different....I may move to pakistan next year ....I am happy tbh 😊

  • @binhassanrohaan
    @binhassanrohaan 3 года назад +21

    love how alina makes the most honest videos and doesn’t show a positive picture of something negative

  • @Saltafa
    @Saltafa 3 года назад +179

    You made me wait a WHILEE for this one and deadass worth it! The editing the concept, LOVED ITTT

    • @AlinaHayat
      @AlinaHayat  3 года назад +20

      thanks my g 🤧

    • @hoebagellie9268
      @hoebagellie9268 3 года назад +1

      hi salty

    • @zainabwaseem2897
      @zainabwaseem2897 3 года назад +2

      Gang gang

    • @hussnainosto2555
      @hussnainosto2555 3 года назад

      Are you the meme page :0

    • @ahsansaeed51
      @ahsansaeed51 3 года назад

      Alina we should go back to where we're supposed to be🔙😃 like a nice livable place that can give us pleasure in every aspect of our life like a country which is well developed and displined🤠

  • @thomasmontgomery4065
    @thomasmontgomery4065 3 года назад +165

    I think going to university will be a waste of time for you, you are an extremely talented film maker who is destined for greatness.

    • @easternlad6642
      @easternlad6642 3 года назад +9

      That's exact what I also think

    • @zunaishaintisar5239
      @zunaishaintisar5239 3 года назад +28

      She can go to uni and still do uni it's good to have a degree to fall back on

    • @shanzeymajid9065
      @shanzeymajid9065 3 года назад +5

      She can do a degree in flim making

    • @Crithaian
      @Crithaian 3 года назад +1

      NOPE

    • @nayamorganm8778
      @nayamorganm8778 3 года назад +3

      I believe by your profile name that you are not Pakistani. You see, Pakistani RUclipsrs are not very popular compared to RUclipsrs from other countries. She can always have a plan B on hand if her RUclips career doesn't work for her. Being a RUclipsr is very hard, especially a new RUclipsr. I have heard the stories of many RUclipsrs before their popularity and their struggles were real. They had to go hungry many nights because they couldn't earn enough money. Anyways easy come means easy go , you can't achieve everything easily.

  • @ShaikhAhmad
    @ShaikhAhmad 3 года назад +61

    Why did u move to Pakistan🇵🇰
    No one:
    Me: To sacrifice my own life for Pakistan. My teacher thats Grape🍇.😄

    • @muneebhassan8935
      @muneebhassan8935 3 года назад +1

      HEY GUYS !
      I was thinking of making a group for....people who are in a mental breakdown...or are facing a culture shock...because of moving to pk
      Reply to this comment with your name...and country from where you moved...to get into the group 😉to make good vibes in pk

  • @hanzy9625
    @hanzy9625 3 года назад +95

    Its interesting how I felt the same but it was the other way around. I moved to Japan from Pakistan when I was 14 years old and barely made any friends the first year although there was no language barrier since I went to an international school. i remember crying everyday and missing my friends and life In Pakistan. i guess its not just Pakistan, moving to another country at a young age is really hard. I felt like i didn't fit in for a while but everything is good now since its been 9 years i moved to Japan. I guess it gets easier once you start making friends and accept the reality. For me both Japan and Pakistan are home. Loved your video, maybe next week video could be about people who moved abroad from Pakistan and their experiences.

  • @jer1456
    @jer1456 3 года назад +48

    im so glad i got to be a part of this!! IM SO PROUD OF YOU

    • @fatimaasad4394
      @fatimaasad4394 3 года назад +1

      Girl you're so pretty MashaAllah ♥️

  • @pattpattay
    @pattpattay 3 года назад +22

    my friend moved to Spain from Pakistan and literally she complained about the same problems discussed here and at that point I realized that its not the problem with Pakistan its the huge change that a person suddenly faces in their life,

    • @Shah-tn1mm
      @Shah-tn1mm Год назад +1

      Culture shock.........however living in Pakistan in current corrupt society is equally miserable fate.......

  • @areebarizwan7495
    @areebarizwan7495 3 года назад +672

    The green and white shirt she’s wearing represents that she has finally accepted Pakistan 🤣

    • @AlinaHayat
      @AlinaHayat  3 года назад +202

      LMAO hello are you my literature teacher

    • @ebdulrehman2925
      @ebdulrehman2925 3 года назад +2

      @rencrow 😂😂

    • @adilshahid5449
      @adilshahid5449 3 года назад +7

      Alina Hayat I can’t really imagine the pain you might be growing through but I can imagine how much you miss your friends coz I went that through but we moved from Pakistan to Germany and sadly at a time when making new friends is much harder becuase everyone is so busy in studies that they just want to be friends with benefits:(

    • @Sajidkhan-we1ym
      @Sajidkhan-we1ym 3 года назад +1

      My Princess Sister

    • @adamb4932
      @adamb4932 3 года назад +3

      She needs to come to terms that she's mixed race lol, it's in her dna but she rather embrace her white privilege and I don't blame her for that because we live in a white supremacist world.

  • @alexdemure432
    @alexdemure432 3 года назад +10

    i moved from the country i grew up in few years ago n the homesickness never left, i felt so warm after watching this video n similar people. thanks so much

  • @anvenator2799
    @anvenator2799 3 года назад +5

    OMGG, Alina thank you so much for posting this. It's been a year since I moved to Pakistan from the UAE and I felt alone going through my struggles. My move to Pakistan was completely unexpected. We were supposed to be visiting our relatives, but then the COVID-19 happened and we had to permanently move here. It hasn't been easy, but this video is such a huge consolation for me.

  • @abbassafeereali
    @abbassafeereali 3 года назад +19

    Thank you so much Alina!!! This was such an amazing opportunity and def brought out a few tears :,-)

  • @muhammadrazashahhash
    @muhammadrazashahhash 3 года назад +13

    I was born and raised in Qatar, my dad lost his job there so the whole family had to move back to pakistan. I had the opportunity to stay in Qatar as I had a business there but in the end I decided to sell my shares in the business and relocate to pakistan permanently. It was a scary decision but so far it's been 2 weeks and I'm happy here because it actually feels like home and nothing can beat that feeling. Thankyou alina for sharing your experience as it made my transition easier and I found someone to relate to ❤

  • @immahdia3150
    @immahdia3150 3 года назад +27

    This hits a nerve, I’m 27 now but when I was 16 my parents moved us to Pakistan to experience culture, we moved back to home to Canada 6 months later because of how difficult it was for us to adjust. I don’t regret the experience tho, definitely learned a lot. But everything you said: lack of freedom, lack facilities etc is all true

  • @simalanjum3962
    @simalanjum3962 3 года назад +134

    Alinaaaa I’ve just started watching this but I can already tell you put in a lot of work into this and the editing is soo good.
    It was so fun being a part of this amazing project. And loved how sweet you were throughout the process and kept us updated 💕💕
    Ps..loved your little voice notes 💕💕

  • @MominaKhurram
    @MominaKhurram 3 года назад +81

    I could relate to this entire concept on such a high level even though my move was the complete opposite as I moved from Pakistan to USA. Even though there is freedom of alot of basic things that we can’t find in Pakistan, I still went through at least 5 of things mentioned by you people. Culture shock is a big thing even when you move to a place with your own conscious decision. It really is the situation for any immigrant, no matter where they go. It’s even harder to move and go through it without your family by your side.

    • @pattpattay
      @pattpattay 3 года назад +1

      see thats what im saying u know, all the problems are not bc of pakistan but the sudden huge change that u face in the environment is what troubles a person

  • @zainjameel5093
    @zainjameel5093 3 года назад +11

    i am gonna show this video to anyone who asks how i feel in Pakistan. Feels good to relate!

  • @abdullahirfan4517
    @abdullahirfan4517 3 года назад +18

    I came from south korea 2 years agoo
    It got me troubled at first with EVERYTHING
    But when you get to know pakistan
    You actually fall in love with it

    • @alitohir5015
      @alitohir5015 3 года назад +2

      Same thing happened with my frend. This girl only showed ppl with negitive expireneces n i can tell none of em really cared about Pakistan n dident put any time in actually creating any connections...

    • @genghiskhan7691
      @genghiskhan7691 3 года назад +1

      @@alitohir5015 Same. When I first moved to Pakistan from UK about 4 yrs, it was hard to adjust but with the passage of time, everything became easier and adaptable.

    • @alitohir5015
      @alitohir5015 3 года назад

      @@genghiskhan7691 After time it does but I feel it hits hard coming from a country like the UK that has a devloped system to country that doesent. DOnt get me wrong I love Pakistan but it would be immensly difficult to live there at first. you would have to be really commited to integrating and allow a few yrs to pass by.

  • @NooraBlog
    @NooraBlog 3 года назад +24

    The extent to which people can bully others with complete disregard for what they're going through is DISGUSTING. Although I never moved to Pakistan, it had been discussed quite a lot in my childhood and at this point in my life, from all my visits, I know it would be near impossible for me to adjust to the lifestyle there. I felt this video on a personal level and loved the raw emotion that these people were brave enough to display

    • @whos_zain
      @whos_zain 3 года назад

      Same, I hear my family talking about moving to Pakistan too 😣😭

  • @arshia3829
    @arshia3829 3 года назад +6

    i relate so much to this and the discrimination, fascination, the staring, being called burger etc that people have to face when they first move to pakistan is so tough to deal with honestly. i moved to pakistan when i was 7 and lived there for a few years and those years werent easy at all. especially because people like me weren't common and it affected me A LOTT. but the older ive gotten ive realised what a blessing it is to call more than one place your home. the difference in cultures, systems, the overall way of life was something that i hated at first but slowly started to love it. and having lived in more than 5 countries in my 18 years of life i would like to mention that any country you move too youre going to have the same exact feelings. i recently moved countries 5 months ago and these 5 months were tough but now ive come to appreciate the place

  • @abeerakhalid2457
    @abeerakhalid2457 3 года назад +15

    I just dont know why when i was listening to everyone's story i got tears in my eyes....
    That how difficult it was for them to settle ,compromise with things and to get adjusted....💔

  • @ayshaa166
    @ayshaa166 3 года назад +11

    Literally one of the best videos I’ve seen 🙌🏼 Just visiting Pakistan, I feel like such an outsider - I can’t imagine how a move would be! But this was so raw and honest that I felt like I experienced it with you guys. Hope the future is kind to you! ❤️✨

  • @Danial0152
    @Danial0152 3 года назад +5

    Yo I like the way you put other people's stories in this and how you relate, mindset is everything

  • @user-bd8dm5go7v
    @user-bd8dm5go7v 3 года назад +7

    i watch your videos all the time, they helped me settle in pakistan after living in england for my whole life, thank you so much!!

  • @muzamiljavid1552
    @muzamiljavid1552 3 года назад +13

    While nobody is talking about How Good Alina made this video! I was noticing every little Detail that she made including several videos and pictures of other kids. Every single Question that she Asked them and How Alina explained several things in the video.
    This video and all of the other kids deserves a THUMBS UP 👍

  • @zarghamkhan7948
    @zarghamkhan7948 3 года назад +9

    moving to another country is always hard, i moved to germany, 2 years passed, still struggline, pakistan has something to offer which you;ll never find in west.

  • @umerm294
    @umerm294 3 года назад +3

    i loooooved this video!!!! it’s a very creative concept introducing multiple and diverse perceptions!! super smart alina and to everyone else, i learned so much. thanku

  • @juveriayasir4707
    @juveriayasir4707 3 года назад +3

    THANKYOU FOR POSTING THIS! I CANT HELP BUT RELATE TO THIS!!!

  • @habim9670
    @habim9670 3 года назад +6

    These experiences that you have brought on screen are so valid and genuine, everyone is going through something that we make fun of. Pakistani youth needs to be more welcoming for such people.

  • @ibraheemawais1389
    @ibraheemawais1389 3 года назад +7

    I can't thank you enough for making this video Alina....
    Went through the same (like 80%) and I feel kinda good now knowing that I'm not the only one !

  • @Ranthiga
    @Ranthiga 3 года назад +6

    This brought tears to my eyes...
    And yes.....I learned things I would never have, gained experiences I could never have.... back home.

  • @fatima-yk4pu
    @fatima-yk4pu 3 года назад +3

    ive been waiting for this video! its weirdly assuring to know that there are others facing the same struggles as i am

  • @thesv1399
    @thesv1399 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for taking the time to create this video. I enjoyed listening to everyone's stories, mostly as they were very authentic, but more than that, it sheds light on the several issues in society.

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 3 года назад +69

    the real burning question is “would you sacrifice your life for Pakistan?”

  • @sumiyafakhar3865
    @sumiyafakhar3865 3 года назад +9

    Such a great video. These are the issues we need to address in Pakistan. All the people in this video brought up really eye opening reality.

  • @bismahejaz5261
    @bismahejaz5261 3 года назад +5

    I cried watching this video cuz i was going through the same situation and literally no one could understand me. Thankyou for sharing it❤️ doesn’t feel like I’m going through it alone.

  • @rahimlashari1562
    @rahimlashari1562 3 года назад +2

    Finally all of you guys being happy and that you love here now was the best part to hear and watch. It must have been hard and you guys overcame the hurdles. Wish all of you more strength.

  • @rahimafatimamemon4921
    @rahimafatimamemon4921 3 года назад +4

    I was raised in Sharjah, UAE for 18 years! and it's been 1 year since I have moved to Pakistan!!! and I been through all obstacles whatever is mentioned in this video!! the worst part is only I had to move alone for study purposes while my parents and siblings were to stay there and I was left alone with my paternal grandparent's family but I'm strong and I'm still trying to overcome those obstacles!

  • @SherrySayss
    @SherrySayss 3 года назад +23

    Loved making this video. Omg can’t wait to watch the whole video ❤️

    • @mohammedusmanmufti5311
      @mohammedusmanmufti5311 3 года назад

      Wtf ur one of the girls talking in the video😂By the way am from England as well up north🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

    • @helloo7451
      @helloo7451 3 года назад

      I knew I saw you I was like wait what!

    • @zainaiqbal1317
      @zainaiqbal1317 3 года назад +1

      Sherry Says omg yess sherrryyy!!!!

    • @SherrySayss
      @SherrySayss 3 года назад

      Zaina Iqbal ❤️❤️

    • @kadershirazi5015
      @kadershirazi5015 3 года назад

      I can understand , as I am 16 yeared college student ,here in my college as well some foreigners are here as well,might have been pretty awkward for you here ,but also let me tell ya that ,the staring of some people might be strange ,but most of the time they stare ,cz they are surprised to see the foreigners here ,they by themselves need time to understand you , nothing happens by keeping hands off ,one has to show confidence and then built a connection , Sharing experiences ,I hope you might be having a good and peaceful journey here

  • @wasay1589
    @wasay1589 3 года назад +14

    I like it that she's wearing green and white cloths on

  • @subhantahir2282
    @subhantahir2282 3 года назад +1

    This was sooo Good, Alina. You covered every aspect in this video and while doing so you actually made it fun and interesting at the same time. looking at this video and your RUclips videos in general. I can say for sure that you have a great future waiting for you in film making/media or whatever it is that you want to do.
    You've actually inspired me to make a video about my experience as a 16 year old moving abroad FROM Pakistan to abroad and I know there are many people like myself who went through it!!!

  • @aminah_ausaf
    @aminah_ausaf 3 года назад +111

    Pakistani parents should never leave their country if they intend to come back. If you raise children abroad then don't even think of moving to Pakistan. The atmosphere is entirely opposite here in Pakistan. Children who who were born and raised abroad, literally have a hard time here and i stand the opinion of bringing them here. I as a Pakistani would never leave my country. I would love to live here. I can truly understand you guys. Hope you guys settle soon and have a great time here IA.

    • @nayamorganm8778
      @nayamorganm8778 3 года назад +4

      Totally.

    • @hanrick7133
      @hanrick7133 3 года назад +6

      It’s normal, it’s not easy for anyone to accept any culture or life style quickly, if someone raised in Pakistan and goes to abroad they also have hard time to settle in early stages because initially they also miss the family and friends but slowly slowly they adapt the life style and settle in environment and culture it is vice versa to those guys they are having hard time but soon they will settle and enjoy in Pakistan...

    • @starlsma2000
      @starlsma2000 3 года назад +4

      @@hanrick7133 There's usually much more facilities in other countries where peopl move. It's totally different when people move to pakistan. Like seriously, moving from a developed country to an underdeveloped county. It actually is very challenging.

    • @starlsma2000
      @starlsma2000 3 года назад

      people*

    • @hanrick7133
      @hanrick7133 3 года назад +1

      Prototype2isthe you are right it was difficult for my family as well moving from Dubai to Pakistan...

  • @auih8844
    @auih8844 3 года назад +22

    Alina is literally the only person I would love to be friends with- :)

  • @theace2611
    @theace2611 3 года назад +3

    The growth that your channel will have in the upcoming days would be unbelievable for your fans as well as for you but that’s just how astounding of a content creator you are and you’ll deserve every bit of that success.♥️

  • @zohazahid3379
    @zohazahid3379 3 года назад +1

    it was great being a part of this project! got to meet a lot of amazing people who i share so many similarities with. you always bring out the honesty in a closed story. so thoughtful & kind. love the kind of person you are & i hope you continue to make an impact like you always have.
    love you!!! thanks for letting me tell my story, love & prayers ❤️

  • @linkinpark2336
    @linkinpark2336 3 года назад +1

    This was so interesting for me to watch! I lived in Saudi Arabia until I was 11, and then we moved to England. Moving to England SUCKED. Basically everything everyone said in this video really resonates with me. I missed my friends, I missed my school, I missed my house, I missed everything. My dad promised us it was just a one year thing, so I clung on to my friends from home and continued to hate living in England. And then a year later, we moved to Italy. I was devastated at first, but things were better there. I made friends and started getting used to my new life. Then, after that year was up, we moved back to Saudi. That was ANOTHER hard move. I didn't expect how difficult it would be, because I was so excited to go home... But when I got there, I realized that so many things changed. Even though I stayed in touch with my friends, they all grew closer together and had all these new memories I wasn't a part of. It was hard. But it got easier. Since then, I've moved again and again and again and again. I'm 26 now and *still* moving haha. It's never easy, ever. The transition is always so hard. And with every move, you have to say goodbye to things you've grown to love. But yeah, the toughest moves are the first ones, especially when they're during a crucial stage of your life like childhood or your teenage years. TCK struggles.

  • @duaaaminkamran
    @duaaaminkamran 3 года назад +7

    part 2 please. i think there are more people out there who want to drop their views and opinions . plus, i feel like my story is split into everyones stories and so many bits are similar.

  • @muhammadbinkhalid4340
    @muhammadbinkhalid4340 3 года назад +13

    YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT SOMEONE IS GOING THROUGH...

  • @ZainAmjad
    @ZainAmjad 3 года назад +12

    White people are treated so well but us overseas paks are not treated as well.

  • @adeenahtabani963
    @adeenahtabani963 3 года назад +3

    this was suchhh a good video and an eye opener THANKU ALINA // really hope everyone staayys happy for the time they're here

  • @NeeloBlue
    @NeeloBlue 2 года назад +2

    Wow, I’m late to the party here…but thank you so much for sharing! I’m so proud to hear young people articulate their experiences so sincerely. My children are ‘half’ Pakistani and I wonder how we will all adapt as a family living here in Aus and there. Also love hearing an oceanic accent in Pakistan!

  • @maccheese5479
    @maccheese5479 Год назад +2

    its been 5 years since i came here an i still miss my home my people e vibe back in ksa life was so easy the people the vibe when i tell people obstacles which im facing here there be like oh bss krdo ab sasti burger but now i made my mind that its all ALLAHS PLAN and now im happy with it because IT IS WHAT IT IS. AND ALLAH KNOWS THE BEST.

  • @Tpk1976
    @Tpk1976 3 года назад

    Thank you for this compilation! What an awesome way to answer the big question!

  • @hpatisseries
    @hpatisseries 3 года назад +30

    I had always thought "the staring" was something I only noticed so glad its actually recognised by other foreigners as well

    • @hanaafresher3815
      @hanaafresher3815 3 года назад +3

      The staring thing is what I cant till this day adapt to even I have lived here in pakistan my whole lifeeee .... but I guess u justhave to ignore them because if u do anything or say something they just do it even more withhh an amplification of weird noises or faces , that's even more annoying

    • @gujjar78602
      @gujjar78602 3 года назад +1

      HanAa Fresher living in Britain, you also have Pakistanis staring at you here as well. I've acknowledged it as a cultural aspect. An important thing to understand is that you can't win a staring match with a Pakistani 😂

    • @hanaafresher3815
      @hanaafresher3815 3 года назад

      @@gujjar78602 welll nothing can be more precise than this observation 😂😂

    • @convoy3991
      @convoy3991 3 года назад

      @@gujjar78602 Do British Pakistani stare as well? I mean the Pakistanis born there

    • @gujjar78602
      @gujjar78602 3 года назад

      @@convoy3991 a lot

  • @HassanAli-lo6xu
    @HassanAli-lo6xu 3 года назад +6

    Alina how do u out do urself every single time. So impressed once again, this video is so important. Everyone is always complaining about her not “accepting” Pakistan but we Pakistanis also don’t accept anyone who is even a little bit different. Am in awe. Well done 👍🏻

  • @moiedhussain8006
    @moiedhussain8006 3 года назад +1

    Dope Vlog. I personally think talking and sharing is the best way to relive yourself of any burden or stress considering you have people who understand your pain and reply appropriately to your feelings. Yes there are such people out there.

  • @abdullahamir6219
    @abdullahamir6219 3 года назад +3

    I moved to Canada, almost 2 years ago and I can relate to most of these people. Somebody above in the comments mentioned its a universal immigrant experience and I think that makes perfect sense.

  • @shaniaadeez8498
    @shaniaadeez8498 3 года назад +4

    I agree with you people. There are many such problems in our country.
    But moving to a new place and adopting a totally different culture is also very difficult.

  • @mountainhawk3188
    @mountainhawk3188 3 года назад +9

    May ALLAH make it easy for them to adjust in a totally new environment.

  • @cd8874
    @cd8874 3 года назад +1

    This whole video made me emotional! I can really relate to their struggles! I hope they find their peace and happiness in the future.

  • @danianoman2041
    @danianoman2041 3 года назад +4

    its so heartbreaking to see that alot of the students still had tears in their eyes. i hope it gets better for y'all! its defintely a very hard decision

  • @zeemanmemon5329
    @zeemanmemon5329 3 года назад +2

    Moved here from england when I was in class 7th and it was so hard to adapt. Now ive to come terms with it and realized it was the best decision for me, as I own a startup and a successful company which i wouldnt have been able to accomplish back in London easily due to high costs. Life in Pakistan is easy if youre either rich, get a gov job or go the entrepreneur path.

  • @emanschoud6135
    @emanschoud6135 3 года назад +4

    Thank u soo much for speaking abt this after 1 year and 1 month i found a ray of hope people whom i can relate to😭

  • @faizanhassan1565
    @faizanhassan1565 3 года назад +2

    I can relate to this so much!! However my story is the opposite. I moved to the US 5 years ago when I was 15. Literally every thing they mentioned, I've been through that. From having a hard time making friends to getting used to the school system. It was tough, my mind went to dark places but honestly now I wouldn't change it for anything. I learned so much.

  • @BakeOutOfLove
    @BakeOutOfLove 3 года назад +1

    I can totally relate to this. It is not easy adjusting in a new environment and yes I just wish people would stop assuming that culture shock doesn't exist.

  • @saiban-_-5859
    @saiban-_-5859 3 года назад +9

    This hit me so hardddddddd this is so relatable, moving back here was the hardest thing and education here oooooooooooooooooooooffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff lmao

  • @nabaahmed6625
    @nabaahmed6625 3 года назад +4

    When I suddenly had to go to Pakistan I never imagined that I'd be stuck there for 2 years. In my head, it was like yeah I'm gonna be out of here in a month or so. I didnt even go prepared, barely took any clothes and other things that I might have needed. I was with my dad alone as my siblings and my mom were back in UAE. The first 9 months were HARD. I had no friends no family as our parents never really stayed in touch with anyone too much because people in Pakistan can be really toxic. I would spend days in bed, sometimes I couldnt sleep and would start hallucinating. The pain and torture of missing out seeing my friends and siblings back in UAE doing stuff and me staying at home at all times every single second of every single day I fell into severe depression and became suicidal. I tried to take my life several times. Until I started working. Life was a bit better as I had friends but little did I know my oversharing habits would be used against me in such a crucial manner. As for my experience goes people born and raised in pakistan are much more clever and manipulative than we can fathom. Anyhow, I did end up making 3 very genuine, kind and REAL friends and i love them and miss them so much. I had stopped thinking that I'd ever make it back to UAE but Alhamdulillah at the end of the second year of me being there Allah opened a path for me which I wasnt even aware existed. I'm back in my homeland where i was born and raised, where i spent 18 years of my life. I'm so much more happier and most importantly at PEACE. No matter what goes wrong I'm still content and patient because this is what I longed for. I feel every single person in this video and I pray that you all find peace and happiness ameen. Its heartbreaking missing home and not being able to do anything about it.

    • @justiceandtruth9834
      @justiceandtruth9834 3 года назад +1

      Assalamu alaikum. I moved to Pakistan from Europe as well. The most difficult part about me is that I am not even Pakistan by ancestry. I am native European, who got married in Pakistan and settled there for many reasons.
      It has been and still is being hard for me till this day, owing the fact that my Urdu is almost non-existent, besides all the problems Alina and other youtubers mention.
      But in this not so long period of time I settled in Pakistan, I have fallen in love with Pakistan that now it has become even more beloved than my own home country where I come from. I still am facing hardships, which hopefully I shall overcome soon, but I am very happy settling here in this great Pakistan.

    • @nabaahmed6625
      @nabaahmed6625 3 года назад +1

      @@justiceandtruth9834 I am so happy to hear that you've settled and that you're happy ❣ that's all that really matters :') may God bless you!!

    • @nabaahmed6625
      @nabaahmed6625 3 года назад +1

      Sun walaikum assalaam

    • @justiceandtruth9834
      @justiceandtruth9834 3 года назад +2

      @@nabaahmed6625 Ameen sister.
      I cannot deny, another major reason I loved Pakistan was the fact that it was an islamic country. As a religious muslims I had always had difficulties in practising my religion in the proper strict way in a very secular environment, like where I come from. So Allah gave me an opportunity to settle in this beautiful country of Pakistan, that is a gift of God to the muslims of The Indian Subcontinent and the entire Ummah.
      It is very sad that Pakistan has so many problems and Pakistanis are suffering so much and much corruption and crime, but I believe that Pakistan will change at some point. CPEC alone is being a transformation in Pakistan, that is unimaginable since the last decades. Yes the Pakistanis have a difficult mentality.
      True that is.
      But there are two important solutions to this "functional illiteracy" and ignorance of many people in Pakistan.
      That is:
      1) Universial free and accessible education of all levels for all.
      2) People must educate themselves even more in their religion. People have a very superficial understanding of Islam in Pakistan, although their faith is deep and most pakistanis love Prophet Muhammad SAW. But people are misled by ignorant mullahs and sectarian agendas of different muslim sects. This is pure evilness.
      With these two things, the minds and hearts of the Pakistani people shall become more open and surely more foreigners, even of a non pakistani origin, may live in Pakistan.
      May Allah bless and forgive all of us!

  • @ItsmissyG
    @ItsmissyG 3 года назад +1

    Omg! This video helpes me big time. Its been 7 months in Pakistan I literally feel like its not reality. Every single day is a day of moving on and trying to accept the change.

  • @iamkalsoomsyed
    @iamkalsoomsyed 3 года назад

    I can relate to each and everyone's story 100% because I too moved to Pakistan from Saudi Arabia 4 Years ago. Your first and 2nd year would be agonizing. You struggle with literally every aspect of life. From being able to communicate and make friends, going out, access to electricity, weather, Hygienic Food, non-existing rules and regulations, extreme noise and visual pollution on roads , safety, non-professional behavior, education and 100 others things. It's like everyday you will face a new struggle completely different from the previous day and you just have to deal with it. Because you have no other choice. But gradually you start accepting it. University plays a huge role in making you accept and adapt. And definitely it is true that even though you went through so much, they way you have grown would not have been be possible if you didn't move.
    Excellent Video Alina :D ..
    And just one more thing I want to say is Asking for hygienic food and conditions/places do not make you a BURGER. It just means that very basic necessities are being provided here. And we are extremely shocked by that. It's not about acting dramatic intentionally.

  • @542pixie1
    @542pixie1 3 года назад +17

    Did she ever answer the question : why did she move to Pakistan?

    • @sidrabutt7783
      @sidrabutt7783 3 года назад

      😂

    • @Barbiebella_
      @Barbiebella_ 3 года назад +4

      Yes she does, her dads business is here he traveled a lot between Pakistan & NZ so because of long flights and his family he decided to move

  • @ahsentalks1309
    @ahsentalks1309 3 года назад +8

    I can understand the feeling too. Even I don't came from another country but moved from the Karachi city to small city in Punjab.💔

    • @ubaidhaq
      @ubaidhaq 3 года назад

      😂

    • @gujjar78602
      @gujjar78602 3 года назад +1

      Punjab is elite

    • @nameless1627
      @nameless1627 3 года назад

      Which city in punjab?

    • @mudasirahmed4628
      @mudasirahmed4628 3 года назад

      Same here, moved from Karachi to a small city in sindh 💔
      I can feeel the pain bruh

  • @ChiraghLife
    @ChiraghLife 3 года назад +2

    I loved how you made the video about the culture shock and not just about yourself as initially seemed from the title.

  • @alinarajpoot8653
    @alinarajpoot8653 3 года назад

    Thank you so much for these kind of videos!! Some ppl needed to hear all of this

  • @Grimmm-iv4bi
    @Grimmm-iv4bi 3 года назад +24

    Honestly I'm gonna get stick for this. But parents from 1st world countries who move back to Pakistan in a lot of cases are selfish and stupid if they're children are teenagers.
    It's selfish and doesn't take into account the amount of trauma that can come from being taken from your home, to a place that is objectively worse off for their future. Like why sacrifice the education opportunities etc?
    I lived one year in Pakistan when I was 13 and it was emotionally crushing. I loved Pakistan when I'd come on holidays but staying permanently is a whole other thing. Thankfully I was able to go back after a year.
    I mean don't get me wrong I'd love to always keep in touch with my roots, but I want to do that by regularly visiting and making it a second home. I want to do it by using the benefits I've gained and trying to bring a positive impact with my skills and wealth.
    The worst part is a lot of kids will leave their parents and head back to their countries of birth when they're old enough,so they're shooting themselves in the foot

  • @haibatkhan9096
    @haibatkhan9096 3 года назад +16

    You have such a nice smile 😊

  • @shahrozkhan6779
    @shahrozkhan6779 3 года назад +1

    What a beautiful answer! Love everyone’s reply.

  • @themarschievous
    @themarschievous 3 года назад +2

    after watching this....I feel like im not alone anymore. Also, now I know there are many other people who miss their homes back there. But we always have so much to explore lets be grateful. 💜

  • @Omarshafiqvlogs
    @Omarshafiqvlogs 3 года назад +8

    Thank you Alina for the opportunity to be in the video I really appreciate it and am so happy I got to share my story with your audience. Can’t wait to see what you do in the future

  • @farheenn6689
    @farheenn6689 3 года назад +11

    As someone who was raised in Canada & recently went to Pakistan for a one month trip over the summer for the very first time in 21 years, I felt this. I know exactly how you guys feel. My flight got delayed for another two months and I ended up being stuck there longer than I had anticipated and it drove me crazy.
    To be permanently moved out of the place I was raised and brought to a third world country to continue my life in would be so difficult and I’m thankful my circumstances are different. But man oh man, I felt for all of you. YOU guys are brave.
    The staring, the pollution, how you are treated - it was all such a huge culture shock. But at the same time, it changed my life.
    I’m not meaning to offend anyone with this comment at all, just wanted to put my two cents out there as well, because I felt alone for those three months and I feel less small knowing that I wasn’t. Pakistan is a great place, and it’s people like you that make it even better.

    • @murk959
      @murk959 3 года назад

      Are you back in Canada now?

  • @ayesharehman6665
    @ayesharehman6665 Год назад +1

    I moved from Pakistan to USA when I was very young and although I don't remember much I know it was hard for me at first. For the majority of my time in the USA I was still biased and favored Pakistan but it wasn't that intense of a struggle fitting in as I was very young (about 8 years old). Well after about a decade we decided to move back and I was more used to the USA now and I went, and am going through almost the same things mentioned by others in the video, specially the education and what Ayesha mentioned at first about closing yourself off to the people and losing your past without gaining anything from the present. Another difficulty as someone who was born in Pakistan was that I wasn't born in the USA so it feels as if I don't belong anywhere anymore since it feels odd in Pakistan but I am not from the USA to begin with. However, after watching this I feel like I'm not alone in what I feel and I'm more hopeful about overcoming the obstacles I may face in accordance to the shift. :)

  • @SameedZafar
    @SameedZafar 3 года назад +2

    I've seen underrated RUclipsrs/Artists and all but this is just on another level

  • @talhahabib339
    @talhahabib339 3 года назад +22

    cultural shock happens,when your parents dont speaks urdu at home.when they dont bring you to pakistan after 2,3 years to visit relatives,when your parents makes you goora completely,i know tons of families who lives abroad.but their childrens speaks their mother tongue,and urdu.they visit pakistan after 2,3 years.so there is no cultural shock for those childrens.its not a science,its common sense.

    • @alphafish4756
      @alphafish4756 3 года назад +3

      Yes, because their parents didn’t practice that we can’t blame the kids.

  • @AnimatorZMaker
    @AnimatorZMaker 3 года назад +69

    Same I also hate the education system here.... There is no creativity.... Ughh..

    • @Red-zd4xm
      @Red-zd4xm 3 года назад +4

      Ikr Soo many children have such creative mindsets and amazing thinking skills even if a child is full of imagination there is no way to express it

    • @AnimatorZMaker
      @AnimatorZMaker 3 года назад +3

      Ik cuz I am one of the creative ones and my marks always get cut cuz I write same thing in some diff.... Words

    • @donutgurl4228
      @donutgurl4228 3 года назад +1

      I disagree it would be the school you go cause I think we have really good education system and you should appreciate your country or move somewhere else

    • @AnimatorZMaker
      @AnimatorZMaker 3 года назад +2

      @@donutgurl4228 listen up girl when u will goto matric and fsc boards then u will know what I am talking about....

    • @donutgurl4228
      @donutgurl4228 3 года назад

      Oh ok

  • @r1kexpressrayyan
    @r1kexpressrayyan Год назад +2

    Coming back to this video every few months

  • @taibahussain3535
    @taibahussain3535 3 года назад +2

    10:03 this is so relatable! I moved to Pakistan last year in June and settling in wasn't hard because I visited Pak almost every year for a month or two. But making friends was really difficult cuz I missed my friends and didn't really wanna be friends with anyone here! And thank goodness all my friends were Pakistani so I'll meet them one day In Shaa Allah

  • @doozdoes
    @doozdoes 3 года назад +11

    Fr though
    You should be a movie director